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A video of a schoolgirl in China pleading with her father for more play time outside of studying has gone viral.
In tears, she lamented about her plight, saying “even a robot” couldn’t handle what is expected of her. Many Chinese social media users praised the girl for speaking eloquently
Here's an excerpt of what transpired between the girl and her father.
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Комментарии : 24 тыс.   
@John-ch1np
@John-ch1np 8 месяцев назад
If she continues this way, she will raise good parents.
@ObsidianFTF
@ObsidianFTF 8 месяцев назад
lol
@rishabhsrivastava1241
@rishabhsrivastava1241 8 месяцев назад
You sir made me laugh like crazy in office 😂
@uplifted7
@uplifted7 8 месяцев назад
where is the laugh button?
@Nickxxx85
@Nickxxx85 8 месяцев назад
@@rishabhsrivastava1241 stop watching yt in the office!
@officialchickenn
@officialchickenn 7 месяцев назад
lmaoo
@powerrising4933
@powerrising4933 Год назад
I can't even argue like that at 32,what a talented kid
@Aiman158
@Aiman158 Год назад
True! Same here.
@yolpie20
@yolpie20 Год назад
Said the same thing lol. When i do my brain farts then i say forget it. 😂
@MlakuAmbience
@MlakuAmbience Год назад
@@yolpie20 lol bro you made my day 🤣
@sakurafalls2468
@sakurafalls2468 Год назад
For real though. With my 'short term memory loss' combined with my fear of confrontation AND lack of argumenting skills, I could never pull off what she just did. Not to mention the fact that she was lecturing her own father! The balls this kid must have. She's totally in the right though.
@maattarot9388
@maattarot9388 Год назад
😂
@Yeah.Maybe.
@Yeah.Maybe. Месяц назад
“Please treasure our childhood days” what a very mature girl for her age.
@platinumdynamite
@platinumdynamite Месяц назад
This is absolutely not a genuine dialogue. The attention seeking is getting out of hand for parents to be making their kids act like this.
@mentalpasient6823
@mentalpasient6823 Месяц назад
As a 42 year old that hit hard
@Cringility
@Cringility Месяц назад
​@@platinumdynamiteat first I was gonna say you were misinformed. But these are exactly the type of contents Chinese consume regularly in their own country. There's some truth to your statement; they may be faking these interactions. Since the younger generation is very capable of expressing their words and actions, and talented (as the little girl we saw here in this video)
@Trueman7777
@Trueman7777 13 дней назад
'Treasure the childhood days' she says, more better to just go play outside and make friends, that's how you treasure your real life childhood days
@ninjaninja9954
@ninjaninja9954 3 дня назад
​@@platinumdynamite it is true content and not a set up. If it was a set up you can give that 9 year old girl or however old she is an oscar to be able to act like that at her age. But me knowing how strict chinese parents are i understand their education is very high too
@josuedeleon3054
@josuedeleon3054 Месяц назад
I almost cried when her dad said "you've been good lately" and she said "lately?". She was so hurt by that.
@coba-coba-coba9154
@coba-coba-coba9154 19 дней назад
Burnout after burnout after burnout with no relief. Mental illness in the end
@joycetang7527
@joycetang7527 19 дней назад
This is most Chinese parents do to kids .shame!
@TheTangeriner
@TheTangeriner 16 дней назад
She's more conscious of his bs than they are.
@kevinlucas4577
@kevinlucas4577 15 дней назад
💔🥺
@alexxu8839
@alexxu8839 Год назад
She feels like an adult who goes back in time and relives her childhood
@rukiakuchiki5136
@rukiakuchiki5136 Год назад
For real, almost made me think I might be an NPC in an OI/isekai novel... 😆
@whitepandaa
@whitepandaa Год назад
@@rukiakuchiki5136 dang, i just think the same
@Seek-ww1eq
@Seek-ww1eq Год назад
Fr
@IamBazooka
@IamBazooka Год назад
I had the same thought!
@safamahmoud3872
@safamahmoud3872 Год назад
What a nice description!
@EmperorsNewWardrobe
@EmperorsNewWardrobe 9 месяцев назад
Good lord, that is one aware, intelligent, assertive, wise, articulate, tactful, creative little girl!
@sampajano
@sampajano 9 месяцев назад
How amazing!!!
@achintrastogi3240
@achintrastogi3240 9 месяцев назад
U too
@InnovatorAlvin
@InnovatorAlvin 9 месяцев назад
Idk why the focus is on her smartness rather than the situation of hers and majority of the children
@truehappiness4U
@truehappiness4U 9 месяцев назад
She’s that intelligent because of how her parents raised her: always learning and talking to adults such as teachers. That’s why many Asians use this technique to raise their children, even if it seems abusive to western people. But that’s how you create well taught children. The father in this clip probably wanted her to do something else than gaming such as playing outside, a hobby or sports etc. Or he was a jerk and wanted her to study 24/7… which is abusive
@truality8289
@truality8289 9 месяцев назад
@@truehappiness4Uhe wanted to give her extra homework
@stephanierawlinson3222
@stephanierawlinson3222 Месяц назад
I teared up watching this. Don’t push your child too hard please. She sounds like a really good kid and so sad. Treasure her and let her be a kid
@beetledune9264
@beetledune9264 Месяц назад
This is asian style.But this dude still consider good compared to some who won't even allowed the children to speak.
@snowflakin
@snowflakin Месяц назад
@@beetledune9264 i can approve this from personal experience
@ankitasahoo6524
@ankitasahoo6524 Месяц назад
Yes she’s speaking facts! Let her be a child when she is one.
@bananamonkeygaming14
@bananamonkeygaming14 Месяц назад
The sad reality of many Chinese children
@oneoverside1151
@oneoverside1151 Месяц назад
@@ankitasahoo6524 then she will not have an opportunity to be a “person” when she grows up. It's China and her parents wants all best for her.
@satya_kartik8795
@satya_kartik8795 Месяц назад
She's absolutely right, from every children's perspective. Wish she could get her time of her own to enjoy her childhood.
@vivienneedwards3634
@vivienneedwards3634 Год назад
Poor kid. How hard as she worked to enable someone at that age to express her pain so succinctly.
@moniqueuu8777
@moniqueuu8777 Год назад
She's stressed already: poor thing.
@GameChanger597
@GameChanger597 Год назад
My thoughts exactly. Poor thing is all work and no play. My heart goes out to her. There's a reason why they put suicide nets around work building windows in china.
@Ranger-ly5qf
@Ranger-ly5qf Год назад
What else can you expect from a Country like China? This is why America and all western countries are the best places to live in. Period!! People here who complain all the time about how difficult it is 😂 should be sent to China or Korea. To make them realise how lucky they are to be Americans.
@kanejacobs1889
@kanejacobs1889 Год назад
Nope thats a linient asian parent, if thats typical asian family, that kid would not even continie to speak for 10 seconds.... SLAP!
@hunnilola
@hunnilola Год назад
@@Ranger-ly5qf no
@commonlor
@commonlor Год назад
“Treasure our childhood days”. What a great quote from a kid. Love her.
@condorX2
@condorX2 Год назад
Simple mind people would have missed this, but all the studying from everyday has made her this awesome with her rebuttals. A regular kid won't know how to respond this well. Congrats to the father. 😂
@ZEROZ181
@ZEROZ181 Год назад
It means that when she gets the chance, she's going to leave the house...
@lifeasrini
@lifeasrini Год назад
@@condorX2 you can congratulation him, but when she's able she will leave and never talk to him again. This is abusive. Chinese parents are finding their kids immigrate and never return because of THIS behaviour
@condorX2
@condorX2 Год назад
@@lifeasrini Is this your opinion or your inner predator priest opinion? I'm with ok with both 😉
@lifeasrini
@lifeasrini Год назад
@@condorX2 lol this is more .."my parents were like that and I don't speak to them ever" foreshadowing 😁😉
@Bad.Pappy.Official
@Bad.Pappy.Official Месяц назад
This young lady is the leader that China needs. I wish her the best!
@rodriguezchen
@rodriguezchen Месяц назад
Nah if Xi the emperor is in the way!
@Ampax-ju9wh
@Ampax-ju9wh 27 дней назад
If she led the country, China would collapse in one day, so of course you want her as the leader.
@isaacedmund3246
@isaacedmund3246 27 дней назад
She's doing a good job raising those parents
@iilmac
@iilmac Год назад
“Please treasure our childhood days”. That says it all.
@nas84payne
@nas84payne Год назад
Very profound. And as adults, we become so cynical. I wish we could keep the innocence of kids, man.
@wherethequietbeingsgo
@wherethequietbeingsgo 9 месяцев назад
By 18, you already know she’s going no contact pronto stat
@praveenraj6133
@praveenraj6133 9 месяцев назад
Then go out and play.
@yournostroleeoleeolees.
@yournostroleeoleeolees. 9 месяцев назад
OUR .
@arindamghatak
@arindamghatak 9 месяцев назад
That broke my heart
@childoftime9964
@childoftime9964 Год назад
It's heartbreaking the stress and pressure she is under at such a young age. Her life is already painful and she's just a kid.
@GameDevAraz
@GameDevAraz Год назад
Sucks to be forced to live up to parents desires. Knowing that true success isn't even from working.
@williamobando9967
@williamobando9967 Год назад
Meanwhile in the west kids don’t know there are two genders and they are at a 2nd grade reading level in middle school. You because of the patriarch of white men or something like that
@childoftime9964
@childoftime9964 Год назад
@@williamobando9967 it doesn't have to be that extreme for a kid to be able to be a kid
@williamobando9967
@williamobando9967 Год назад
@@childoftime9964 yeah okay. Good thing I homeschool because the Current educational system in America is beyond extreme. Girls can’t be girls became we have to make space for boys that make pretend they are girls. It’s pathetic.
@unapologeticallyamy9031
@unapologeticallyamy9031 Год назад
My husband worked at an after school Korean school. The children would arrive an hour after school let out (3:30 pm) and study debate until 8 pm. These poor children were under a tremendous amount of pressure from their parents and were on the verge of a mental breakdown. My husband gave all the students full credit just for attending class. He would schedule one day a week to just have fun but it was extremely important that neither the school nor the parents didn’t find out. These children were between the ages of 10 and 13. We decided that all we wanted of his children was to behave and be happy. Raising a happy adult was more important to us than his children getting good grades as long as they gave education their best effort.
@marketwatch03
@marketwatch03 2 месяца назад
She found life awareness already She is on path to enlightenment
@rolandghiran3476
@rolandghiran3476 Месяц назад
no she is just an abused little child, who has been treated like a robot from early age and u are not fit for that
@kiv3745
@kiv3745 Месяц назад
​@@rolandghiran3476 dont make baseless accusations simply from this video. you dont know her, and their strangers. stop making people look bad without evidence. to me, it looks like a father that unintentionally pushed his daughter too far and she just had a breakdown about it. china has always been strict about studying, so it makes sense.
@bunnyv4228
@bunnyv4228 17 дней назад
​@@rolandghiran3476 People like you will never succeed in life. Keep living in ur mother's basement
@Trueman7777
@Trueman7777 13 дней назад
And she started uses the pc as a main source of enjoyment, how is this a childhood and a rest time ?
@Trueman7777
@Trueman7777 13 дней назад
​@@rolandghiran3476 sounds like a emotional response, heard you putting emotion first then rationality. You should really stop scrolling on social media.
@chantelabdo
@chantelabdo 2 месяца назад
Wow, very wise young lady intelligent and respectful.... she is 100% correct
@kiryukazuma8773
@kiryukazuma8773 8 месяцев назад
"In order to study at all, I also need my rest." the girl has a point there
@Misbahmulla
@Misbahmulla 8 месяцев назад
Girl has a point everywhere.
@ShadowlordDio
@ShadowlordDio 8 месяцев назад
You want to rest? then turn off the pc and go to bed. Or I will cut the house electricity until morning. Playing on a pc is not resting. LoL.
@Zeratsu
@Zeratsu 8 месяцев назад
​@@ShadowlordDiodepends on which kinda games too, don't be so stiff.
@ShadowlordDio
@ShadowlordDio 8 месяцев назад
@@Zeratsu that's what a gamer would say and I am a gamer. I finished Skyrim. Cyberpunk. GtaV. I know what iam talking about. The eye strain and brain that has no sleep is not a joke. This kids need someone to stop them. You know it. Don't deny truth
@halebryan9155
@halebryan9155 8 месяцев назад
@@ShadowlordDioshe isn’t being treated well at all. No girl that young should be able to sound that mature. That’s a kid being pushed way too hard
@kau0303
@kau0303 9 месяцев назад
Woah. This child is more self aware than even most of the adults. She knows when she has put good amount efforts and when it's time to say no and take a break. Something most of us need but lack.
@Bert_de_Wit
@Bert_de_Wit 9 месяцев назад
She's awesome!
@panda4247
@panda4247 9 месяцев назад
how do you know anything about the effort she has done, and how long has she been already playing? how can you distinguish that from emotional manipulation (i.e. crying in order to get what she wants). The dad does not seem to shout at her or anything... and going to bed at 9pm at her age isn't an unreasonable demand from him at all...
@deathtuness
@deathtuness 9 месяцев назад
@@panda4247no way you just called a child crying “emotional manipulation”
@danielgoodman3578
@danielgoodman3578 9 месяцев назад
​@@deathtunessthe girl in the video aside, you don't believe children do this? I've watched one of my best friend's young son manipulate his parents into letting him take a bath in their bathroom after they moved into a nice house where he and his sister had their own to share. They tried reasoning and he did the scream cry tantrum resist stubborn thing until they finally let him have his way, and then all was peaceful. Some children will do that crap if you let them. Totally.
@cherry414
@cherry414 9 месяцев назад
​@@panda4247Kids are terrible liars. You could tell a mile away when they lie. I doubt this is "emotional manipulation"
@patriciawheeler7045
@patriciawheeler7045 Месяц назад
What an incredibly intelligent girl - she will go far ! Broke my heart to hear her tearful yet articulate argument- suicide rates for teens are very high in these countries, this dad needs to be careful - she is amazing YOU GO GIRL !! he should be glowing with pride how she handles herself not on her back …
@user-fc5nl8dg8y
@user-fc5nl8dg8y Месяц назад
不好意思,肯定比你的国家自杀率低。
@kannayao
@kannayao 2 месяца назад
This girl speaks her heart. The father speaks to make him look okay.
@thskendjeo134
@thskendjeo134 Месяц назад
Brilliantly put!
@moreknow8904
@moreknow8904 9 месяцев назад
"Lately? I've been a good girl every day". That sums up her rightful, rational argument, presented respectfully. BRAVO ❤
@Tubemaster32
@Tubemaster32 9 месяцев назад
But one day she has been a bad girl for sure, I can tell because my “angle” sister has been terrible but only ever so rarely
@rhys1564
@rhys1564 9 месяцев назад
My 小妹妹 came with FACTS! I felt her indignation!
@clarifyingquestions
@clarifyingquestions 9 месяцев назад
I thought her best argument was "How about you try it"
@CrimsonDawn-ou4og
@CrimsonDawn-ou4og 9 месяцев назад
​@@rhys1564好可爱😂
@ItsAllLove4Real
@ItsAllLove4Real 9 месяцев назад
That part had me clapping for her, don't let the tears fool you....She'll make a great litigator TODAY🫶🏾🥰🫶🏾
@lordjp9
@lordjp9 Год назад
The clarity in her thought process and the articulation of the same at that age is a skill that most people can’t learn even by the time they’re 30. This girl is going places.
@Fari-100
@Fari-100 Год назад
It's the facial expressions and passion in her voice for me 😅
@bigNo13
@bigNo13 Год назад
It's called force maturity. Is when kids are forced to grow up to fast and mature as she has. Leaving childhood behind very early
@chamoto2
@chamoto2 Год назад
Yeah well... If she doesn't burn out by the age of 12, that is...
@sully1124
@sully1124 Год назад
What’s funny is like you guys are looking at her ask for help and laughing and saying more homework for you because you need it because it helps your bright mind
@ungas024
@ungas024 Год назад
Meanwhile in the west a man can get pregnant. 🤣 🤣 🤣
@sarahgirard1405
@sarahgirard1405 8 дней назад
She’s right. Well done for standing up for yourself. I totally understand you are stressed.
@feidongzxzx9109
@feidongzxzx9109 2 месяца назад
it broke my heart to see this girl pleading for some playtime when she did everything she should
@k.a.8725
@k.a.8725 3 месяца назад
When a child starts talking like adults, you know something is fucked up.
@tenshidust3501
@tenshidust3501 2 месяца назад
@@SoiSomething If you think that, it's because like the average adult you think kids have no feelings nor they don't think. Also, if it is as she said, that strict routine of studying, doing chores and sleeping at a fixed time and being given little time to play, it could also make her mature faster, plus, it's related to her intelligence. If rehearsed, then she can have a good acting career. If rehearsed, it's not the only case when a kid expressed themselves this way.
@k.a.8725
@k.a.8725 2 месяца назад
@@SoiSomething if that was acted, the kid would've long been known as a world famous child actor.
@DAWITTLESKITTLE
@DAWITTLESKITTLE 2 месяца назад
😐
@mygirldarby
@mygirldarby 2 месяца назад
​@@SoiSomething it isn't rehearsed. This child is crying. Youncant fake that.
@k.a.8725
@k.a.8725 2 месяца назад
@@DAWITTLESKITTLE congrats, you realized that there is nothing funny here, just as intended.
@yachi4702
@yachi4702 Год назад
This broke my heart. Glad she stood up for herself. Kids need to play. You're only a child once.
@austin_e.
@austin_e. Год назад
I agree
@sumdomguoy548
@sumdomguoy548 Год назад
And waste your life away on doing stupid shit? Yeah no
@Mastergenius_
@Mastergenius_ Год назад
Just asian parents yk, sometimes parents just want us to be healthy and focus more on study to get better job, they just want us to have better life in future
@aguilazombieXD
@aguilazombieXD Год назад
@@Mastergenius_ yea but not when you are 10 years old, come on bro, the real important knowledge for your life begings in the high school and university, not in the elementary
@Hrustiashka
@Hrustiashka Год назад
To play outside with friends but not on the computer
@chiya2006
@chiya2006 Месяц назад
She’s a wise child , who needed to be supported fully. She will become a fine adult that they would be proud of. Neglecting her emotions will negatively affect her wellbeing. She does not deserve those tears
@STARLIGHTloves_you
@STARLIGHTloves_you 2 месяца назад
How amazing this kid knows what's messed up! She knows a lot and I'm proud that she's Trying to express about the problem between them. Some parents nowadays just don't care about our boundaries 😔
@nas84payne
@nas84payne Год назад
She’s like a woman with years of experience and struggle pouring her heart out!
@weshweshdogg
@weshweshdogg Год назад
So sad, she lost her childhood mind. Always work without play it is impossible She's not a robot. Later she will have good situation but happyness not sure
@ytbeacc
@ytbeacc Год назад
@@weshweshdogg this is one of the things i hate about china... they treat people like heartless robots...
@ChineduOpara
@ChineduOpara Год назад
Right??? I legit teared up a little. This girl is losing her childhood!!!
@lkofie6670
@lkofie6670 Год назад
YES...INDEED.
@JohnDoe-ly6bt
@JohnDoe-ly6bt Год назад
level`s ahead of the average american kid
@waitingforapril
@waitingforapril 9 месяцев назад
It’s sad that she is already burnt out at such a young age. Smart, articulate and precocious, but unhappy. I hope her parents really take what she said to heart.
@ceekay7021
@ceekay7021 9 месяцев назад
Very well said, you put into words what I felt while watching.
@steve8803
@steve8803 9 месяцев назад
@waitingforapril nah, kids know how to send their parents on guilt trips to get what they want.
@hiddengem4293
@hiddengem4293 9 месяцев назад
​@@steve8803No, this is not the case.
@Jiawr
@Jiawr 9 месяцев назад
Normal Asian parents or more or less chinese parents.They always get some random excuse that makes no sense to get you working or make you have no free time
@chillinupinhere
@chillinupinhere 9 месяцев назад
dude shut up. thery arent burned out. cmon
@coletteday712
@coletteday712 Месяц назад
Dad gets props too ❤ She felt safe to express her frustration and he listened
@robertsimpson2133
@robertsimpson2133 Месяц назад
This is correct. Children are a product of their environment. Her parents are doing great job.
@petervandervennet7653
@petervandervennet7653 Месяц назад
No he didn't, he just filmed the part where he pretended he did.
@Undercover903
@Undercover903 Месяц назад
​@@robertsimpson2133he's such a great parent it seems impossible for him to even once utter something positive about her without qualifying it somehow. "ok, but don't play too long", "you've been good lately". It's tragic how whole generations are getting their childhoods stolen by stupid societies. Either it's total pressure, total disinterest or total indoctrination.
@dwl3006
@dwl3006 Месяц назад
Dad doesn't get any props, he's obviously pushing her too hard and not respecting her boundaries.
@backgroundsoundmusic3078
@backgroundsoundmusic3078 Месяц назад
@@dwl3006 And no doubt you let your kids be lgbt and all those other letters.
@hellomadam423
@hellomadam423 2 месяца назад
she is a smart and gentle girl, she deserves peace!
@Kylaryn
@Kylaryn Год назад
the fact she did this in clear emotional distress is absolutely incredible to me. I'd barely be coherent in that state.
@yeshacroe9354
@yeshacroe9354 Год назад
Hahahahahahah same same
@hut2011
@hut2011 Год назад
@@yeshacroe9354 hl
@drbruh3567
@drbruh3567 Год назад
Same.
@thedead073
@thedead073 Год назад
@@tiagomoraes1510 Don't be a clown. You can't say addition when she's done all of her chores and homework
@aternialaffsalot
@aternialaffsalot Год назад
​@@tiagomoraes1510 lol bullshit, as if an abortion like you can argue like that 😂
@aufait-
@aufait- 9 месяцев назад
How can any parent argue with such an intelligent articulate little girl? I loved the part where she pointed out to cherish the years of her childhood
@MamiTT237
@MamiTT237 9 месяцев назад
Pretty sure she got her extra playtime. Poor thing is exhausted lol
@lemurianchick
@lemurianchick 9 месяцев назад
@@MamiTT237Not really a laughing matter... 🖕😑🖕
@MamiTT237
@MamiTT237 9 месяцев назад
@@lemurianchick You need help! Grow tf up.. and while you’re telling me to fuck off.. do it yourself and your own mother, I’m sure she does it better! Maybe that’s why you’re so upset! It’s not my fault or anyone else’s that you were abused! Go to therapy and get off RU-vid!
@TheLeechaolan15
@TheLeechaolan15 9 месяцев назад
It is called reality. Many people dont know how to be a proper parent. You dont learn that at school. I also get blamed and punished for doing chores for 30 years, let alone childhood. And threatened being kicked out if I didnt, regardless how unreasonable.
@bryantlee11
@bryantlee11 9 месяцев назад
That little girl is amazing! She put forth some great arguments. She has better communication skills than I do! Lol
@AlbertaScaleShots
@AlbertaScaleShots Месяц назад
This is the most adorable argument i have ever seen lol what a good kid
@castiron_altroZ
@castiron_altroZ Месяц назад
my father would have started beating me up in the initial 10 seconds and by 30 seconds all i would be left with weeping at a corner. No bullshit from a child.
@antaequeJ
@antaequeJ 9 месяцев назад
She’s so self-aware and polite. I wish grown adults were like this
@user-tm2uc1pf4i
@user-tm2uc1pf4i 9 месяцев назад
Don't you mean american kids ??
@imaznlol
@imaznlol 9 месяцев назад
@@user-tm2uc1pf4iboth
@MusikkkCha
@MusikkkCha 9 месяцев назад
Chinese kids sound so annoying like adult
@antaequeJ
@antaequeJ 9 месяцев назад
@@user-tm2uc1pf4i I mean, I’m not familiar with American kids but sure. Not just adults yk. I specifically said adults cuz heck, nowadays very few of them know how to communicate.
@Harphoney
@Harphoney 9 месяцев назад
Few can communicate because their heads are always down texting to someone. They don’t have conversations using their mouths anymore and many have penmanship of a small child.
@daydreameraj9777
@daydreameraj9777 6 месяцев назад
She’s speaking like an adult that is so burnt out. More than play time, I think she wants her efforts to be acknowledged. I hope her parents praise her more. 😢
@spdadventurer1754
@spdadventurer1754 4 месяца назад
No she just needs play time lmao, her parents can't go beyond a certain limit when it comes to understanding, just letting her be herself would make her her best, understanding is not her parent's cup of tea
@PenguPlayz01
@PenguPlayz01 4 месяца назад
This is China parents are cruel
@firstlastname5853
@firstlastname5853 4 месяца назад
This
@amitabha629
@amitabha629 4 месяца назад
No, chinese believe that you should not praise your child too much because they will grow up expecting that they will get the same praise from the society
@PenguPlayz01
@PenguPlayz01 4 месяца назад
@@amitabha629 my Partner is from China and she's not like that at all
@Evelynmay88
@Evelynmay88 День назад
The question is how much time is she already expected to study… you can’t get your childhood back. Brain food is balance as this young lady is negotiating for. Love her battle win!!♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@Paul_W_222
@Paul_W_222 Месяц назад
Props to the dad for being respectful and listening... a lot of parents would talk over their children in this situation
@nightfallnoir
@nightfallnoir Год назад
“Please treasure our childhood days.” “Not even a robot could do it!” This kid really tells words of wisdom, words so wise you’d expect them coming from an adult. This really is so emotional is hurts. I hope the father gave her more free time after how she explained herself to the fullest.
@errebusaether
@errebusaether Год назад
The internet has a lot of information for people to find quotes. It isn’t wisdom but learnt knowledge. Wisdom is something deeply developed through overcoming their own ordeals through the many steps of griefs with in the end accepting those mistakes. But the little girl is still too young to be called wise. Knowledge, intelligence, and Self Empathy is all it takes to develop her own understanding towards her needs to convince or convey. Like intelligence, wisdom itself can vary even for geniuses. It’s unique to all people as it has their own perspectives.
@nightfallnoir
@nightfallnoir Год назад
@@errebusaether Well sorry, but english isn’t my mother tongue. Still, thanks for explaining.
@ephemeralsamsara
@ephemeralsamsara Год назад
@@nightfallnoir I felt that those were words of wisdom. You didn't say that the child was wise, what she said was wise irrespective of how she acquired the knowledge, her words were still wise. I thought that you made a fair comment. Even if English isn't your first language, you expressed yourself more clearly than so many native English speakers. Respects and blessings to you.
@hrzn202
@hrzn202 Год назад
@@errebusaether Internet may be full of such quotes but it takes wisdom and understanding to use those quotes at the appropriate moment She proves she has the wisdom by choosing her words at the exact time it is required. She is not just blurting stuff out. She understands those words well herself. Hence the admiration for her apparent maturity despite her young age
@errebusaether
@errebusaether Год назад
@@hrzn202 True, indeed. She used it at the right time. But that is based on her ability to retain knowledge and understand the situation. She truly understands the meaning of those words through gaining the information through internet sources, but wisdom is gained through experience in living with a deeper understanding. While intelligence is accumulated information through the mind. It is practically intelligence that she is displaying which is fundamental to every living organism especially when she is human. In short, it’s intelligence that is the main factor for her knowledge whilst wisdom at a fundamental level is another factor for her understanding. In an ordinary person’s dictionary, she’s a wise child but to us she’s not too extraordinary in terms of wisdom. She still has a lot to live for before she’s even free from those desires. The desire causes conflict to wisdom. It’s too farfetched to call a child wise when their full of desire. I wouldn’t call myself wise either way as I am still conflicted in this life. Maybe in the far future everyone will achieve that wisdom depending on how they perceive their own pain to walk forward in fulfilling their desires. Perhaps, fulfilling your lesser desires, and your ultimate desire is the key to freeing oneself from samsara. Life is still a mystery, it doesn’t matter whether we judge others or not. In the end, we’re all the same seeking for the truth, subconsciously. My apologizes for my off topic. Hahaha.😅
@juliacleveland
@juliacleveland Год назад
Her communication skills are amazing. And it also seemed like her dad was actually listening which I think is even better. Too many times kids try to stand up for themselves and are crushed right away
@persona5305
@persona5305 Год назад
right. most people including me grow up with deep insecurity issues because we are always being told to shut up for being a child, incapable of thinking maturely and cannot defend ourselves and worst is that we only have to listen to the adults counting our daily mistakes... their idea of trying to discipline us is to count and slap us our mistakes and barely praised for our good deeds.. that good actions are expected but mistakes are being badly criticized. however, this girl in the video are able to express herself clearly i can tell that the dad is giving her enough confidence to be able to speak up.
@lxDastanxl
@lxDastanxl Год назад
@@persona5305 that's about right they think we have to deal the same things they deal with as kids is like if I suffer this as a child well you will too... I grow in a house where the oldest one not matter who is it will always be right ... My 8 year self was like .. that's down right stupid and I say it to them but I wasn't polite I have always been and angry kid. this girl is in another level.
@2pac1307
@2pac1307 Год назад
U r right, and now I feel Iam blessed to have such parents who only encourage me to stand up for myself and even when it can be towards them once or twice..🙏🏼
@l_ifeefi_l1998
@l_ifeefi_l1998 Год назад
Thats bcoz his dad listens and shes brave enuff to voice her mind.
@xanprimo8511
@xanprimo8511 Год назад
And they'll tell you that you're being disrespectful 💀💀💀😭😭
@Raceross
@Raceross 22 дня назад
The maturity and pure honesty is just beautiful and hope Dad is really listening…
@valley-girl
@valley-girl 9 месяцев назад
Bruh, as an Indian, I UNDERSTAND THIS GIRL...we have all gone through this. You can't bring your childhood back...let the kid play
@davidm9618
@davidm9618 9 месяцев назад
Did you notice the chair she's sitting in?
@valley-girl
@valley-girl 9 месяцев назад
​​@@davidm9618 girlie's into e sports. That's normal for a child
@farzana6676
@farzana6676 9 месяцев назад
​@@valley-girl You are from the Valley. You're an Americanized Indian. Pressure is how success is created.
@khizarkhan7305
@khizarkhan7305 9 месяцев назад
​@@farzana6676not really
@Alfshihtzu
@Alfshihtzu 9 месяцев назад
​@@farzana6676no, it's not. I am from India only and not from any other country like America but I can assure u, if u think pressure always brings success, then I feel sorry to say that your parents are either illiterate or mildly abusive. Even a smart person can be illiterate if they don't understand what someone else feels and have old time thinking. Yes I kind of agree with you too because my cousin have been very very pressurised and beaten or scolded for small things and that is why they achieved excellence in things and now one of them is doing engineering and constantly is traveling foreign and other one is still in studying but is genius and doing something like IIT or maybe IIT only(I don't remember correctly but he is doing that or something like that) but still my mom doesn't pressurise us because she also is against this pressuring type of system and she is a govt working officer who lives away from us because of her job transfer
@user-jh6eo9hj3f
@user-jh6eo9hj3f 9 месяцев назад
“You’re asking me things even a robot couldn’t do, even if I had 8 hands I couldn’t do it” she’s so well spoken wow, and she articulate her feelings so well
@jessmorgan4887
@jessmorgan4887 9 месяцев назад
It's what happens when one reads higher levels of reading at a young age. I was like that, but, my parents didn't really listen much, nor was I allowed to speak much, but I digress, she will absolutely do amazing things one
@s0fa274
@s0fa274 9 месяцев назад
I was scared for her when she said that bc a lot of Chinese parents would have resorted to cursing or smacking her.
@hendywijaya3213
@hendywijaya3213 9 месяцев назад
​@@s0fa274if the parents don't raise her well do you think she'll be respectful despite there is something that makes her feel uncomfortable. If the parents usually use violent approach when the kid disagrees, do you think she'll even ask in the first place?
@yukilu602
@yukilu602 9 месяцев назад
@@s0fa274 yeah right??? growing up with a strict chinese mum, my mum wouldve totally beaten my ass
@shirleys4124
@shirleys4124 9 месяцев назад
She’s right though, the status quo in this country is that most of the kids are treated as study machines, they live a harsh life while not knowing why they have to go through it. A lot of the teenagers in China are depressed and the number is going up, while most of the parents think mental illness is nonexistent, most of the time they either ignore it or punish the kids for being ungrateful. This is a complete nightmare… so guys, those jokes are true.
@JuliatteJ
@JuliatteJ Месяц назад
This is heartbreaking to watch. The courage and intelligence to stand up for herself with such clarity is astounding. I pray that you will have the childhood of your dreams ❤️💗💖💖💖 There is an old soul inside of you. You will be a force to be reckoned with more and more every day if you can present an argument so strongly as still a young child. I salute you!
@mannycalavera2335
@mannycalavera2335 9 месяцев назад
Damn. How profoundly and eloquently she can express herself while in such an emotional state is something to aspire to even for an adult.
@KoalaChinguOdd
@KoalaChinguOdd 9 месяцев назад
Because it's scripted, her parents film and release many of such scripted videos of her and her brother that will resonate with people and get the most views.
@EYESEEYOURN
@EYESEEYOURN 9 месяцев назад
​@@KoalaChinguOddI don't think this looks scripted at all.
@KoalaChinguOdd
@KoalaChinguOdd 9 месяцев назад
@@EYESEEYOURN Chinese tiktoks are notorious for being fake, and this girl and her brother have other such videos filmed by their parents. The gaming chair is a giveaway, in some other videos you can see she has a pretty fancy gaming setup and her family's home is pretty affluent.
@EphesiansOne18
@EphesiansOne18 9 месяцев назад
Probably from all the studying.
@hs2h
@hs2h 9 месяцев назад
​@@KoalaChinguOddso are others, not just chinese, just sayin
@truthspeaker6689
@truthspeaker6689 8 месяцев назад
What a mature kid. More articulate than most adults.
@user-zg3nl4jf2n
@user-zg3nl4jf2n 8 месяцев назад
That's what happens when you are online most of the time and learning internet shit.
@kawaiiflowerface
@kawaiiflowerface 8 месяцев назад
​@@user-zg3nl4jf2n calm down lol it's a comment the top comment has a point though
@Justice_Dignity
@Justice_Dignity 8 месяцев назад
​@@user-zg3nl4jf2nnahhh
@Justice_Dignity
@Justice_Dignity 8 месяцев назад
​@@user-zg3nl4jf2ni have been doing that and i assure you most of us will go to degenerate path (for entertainment purpose) which will bring us deeper into the rabbit hole
@Justice_Dignity
@Justice_Dignity 8 месяцев назад
​@@user-zg3nl4jf2nif you are below 30 you will understand what i mean
@Brett.Crealy-kh1sk
@Brett.Crealy-kh1sk Месяц назад
I appreciate her Dads gentle way with her, especially while she is expressing herself so emotionally. Her argument was sound. Her obvious efforts require a reward, & it's great that she knows that enough to negotiate for it! A beautiful interaction! 🏆🙏💐
@isuruisp1
@isuruisp1 Месяц назад
She is so cute, So respectful and asking for what she wants. Poor little girl, Dad needs to be proud of her, She deserves extra play time.
@glorytogod5729
@glorytogod5729 Год назад
She spoke for billions of kids around the world.
@staYcooL478
@staYcooL478 Год назад
Chinese/Japanese kids*
@shannecuaresma6834
@shannecuaresma6834 Год назад
🫡
@BAB3O
@BAB3O Год назад
For every human
@Rinakami
@Rinakami Год назад
Lmao not American kids 🤣
@similitude2341
@similitude2341 Месяц назад
Its chinese ​@@staYcooL478
@prwtiiest
@prwtiiest Год назад
Let’s be fr, she can argue/talk better than most fully grown lawyers.
@eli4984
@eli4984 Год назад
Ok that’s just an overstatement but she speaks well for a child
@prwtiiest
@prwtiiest Год назад
@@eli4984 yep, ik its an overstatement. I'm using a literary device called "exaggeration" :)
@sleepingroach696
@sleepingroach696 Год назад
@@prwtiiest What is that word for?🤓
@sherine9033
@sherine9033 Год назад
@@sleepingroach696 idk if you're joking or not but exaggeration is used to emphasize the point that someone wants to get across.
@m3l0dy34
@m3l0dy34 Год назад
@@prwtiiest goofy ahh
@awjelfs5034
@awjelfs5034 Месяц назад
She is very smart Dad, keep up the great work.
@gordonliu3972
@gordonliu3972 Год назад
I'm blown away by her maturity and heartbroken for her at the same time. She has so much potential, it's crazy.
@clisediagonzalez5051
@clisediagonzalez5051 Год назад
If you feel that you are not good enough and must exhaust your emotional energy well-being, beyond a child's capacity you overwhelm the ego into despair and retreat. Childhood is short lived. Allow children their realm in freedom. Good enough is just fine.
@condorX2
@condorX2 Год назад
Simple mind people would have missed this, but all the studying from everyday has made her this awesome with her rebuttals. A regular kid won't know how to respond this well. Congrats to the father. 👍
@guguendeavours2521
@guguendeavours2521 Год назад
@@condorX2 Totally agree with you but I also empathize with the girl because that was my experience. It is hard being a Chinese kid, we are not given a lot of play time. I hope I can have a childhood when I retire.
@condorX2
@condorX2 Год назад
@@guguendeavours2521 😎👍 This is why staying single is the best in this difficult time. No nagging, no cheating, no domestic violence, no baby cries, no diaper changes, no sleepless night, no working 3 jobs, no STD, no migraines, no upkeeps, no arguments, no child support, no custody battle, no court battle, no divorce, & no expensive one day wedding. Just get yourself a sex toy and focus on your career. 🐨
@guguendeavours2521
@guguendeavours2521 Год назад
@@condorX2 The life choices you recommend are so sterile and lonely. I hope that isn’t the road you take. Family and children will bring you much joy.
@XiaolovesScara
@XiaolovesScara Год назад
I love how she have the courage to say out her feelings, and her father listened.
@elvinrosetes31
@elvinrosetes31 Год назад
Golden
@tessalister1226
@tessalister1226 Год назад
Father didn't actually say he agreed with what his child said.
@internet_user975
@internet_user975 Год назад
@@tessalister1226 still listened calmly unlike most parents
@black5029
@black5029 Год назад
father answered but at the same time.. he dont give a shit..
@XiaolovesScara
@XiaolovesScara Год назад
@@black5029 true tho
@ArkWn
@ArkWn 2 месяца назад
Oh mannnnn! Give this cute and smart little girl a big hug, and let her playing longer.
@williamw9086
@williamw9086 2 месяца назад
This is actually really sad, no matter how much she does it's never enough for the father.... Unhealthy stress filled
@Trabsol
@Trabsol 8 месяцев назад
A child telling her parent to treasure her childhood has got to be so messed up.
@kayc421
@kayc421 8 месяцев назад
It's warning that I hope they heed. 😂
@Jaison777
@Jaison777 8 месяцев назад
It's only messed up if the parent doesn't listen and understand. I'm sure the father recorded this being impressed by his own daughter. We need our kids to correct us at times but they can only do it if they can speak freely and know that we will listen in fairness. Mine have taught me many things
@lourdesecheverria6209
@lourdesecheverria6209 8 месяцев назад
AGREE. IS EMOTIONAL ABUSE BY THE PARENTS!!! THIS IS VERY SAD...IS NOT FUNNY!
@smtandearthboundsuck8400
@smtandearthboundsuck8400 8 месяцев назад
Bro is huffing Reagan red scare propagandium too hard 🤡 This is literally a child throwing a tantrum over videogames. Not evidence of china being a 1984 dystopia ☠️. Your kids and teens shoot up schools and churches because they couldn't get laid so don't talk
@itsyaboiherman
@itsyaboiherman 8 месяцев назад
I mean.....it's China.....they are at the top because they look pass just being a child
@fairytale143
@fairytale143 9 месяцев назад
This girl is so articulate with her reasoning. She shows such discipline and intelligence at her age. I hope she gets her well-deserved free time. The fact that she recognises she needs free time and that she should cherish her childhood is so mature.
@tonytravels2494
@tonytravels2494 9 месяцев назад
I just hope she feels better and stops crying.
@1mol831
@1mol831 9 месяцев назад
@@tonytravels2494she needs hugs
@Igoriann
@Igoriann 9 месяцев назад
Yeah because she's not some American spoilt brat lol
@LEWfromdaHOU
@LEWfromdaHOU 9 месяцев назад
You get free time when you doctor now 😂😂😂😂😂
@elsenoresmipastor4274
@elsenoresmipastor4274 9 месяцев назад
She has already been targeted by comunist goverment
@erenmanadao3147
@erenmanadao3147 9 месяцев назад
This kid can go far in life. She's so polite and at her age she's so aware and knows the gap of her responsibilities
@darren1966
@darren1966 9 месяцев назад
Provided her dad don’t screw her up
@l.g5776
@l.g5776 9 месяцев назад
Has to be
@ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451
@ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451 9 месяцев назад
@@darren1966her dad is what made her this good.
@MsSuperww
@MsSuperww 9 месяцев назад
​@@ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451Apparently he's the one who's making her life that bad and that miserable.
@MysterEarl
@MysterEarl 9 месяцев назад
@@MsSuperww there are some things we didn't like that our parents did but later in life became thankful for because we learned some skills that others didn't, just enough to get ahead in life. Why is it that often Asians in Europe or in the West excel in different fields?
@mannered_brat
@mannered_brat 8 месяцев назад
No voice raised, No disrespect served, She's obviously very emotional but still she manages to convey her feelings freely & eloquently, What a kid🎉
@2fty
@2fty 8 месяцев назад
Kid raised her voice wdym other than that yea
@mannered_brat
@mannered_brat 8 месяцев назад
@@2fty Yup but it was not like disrespectful, It was like she wanted her father to take hi seriously.
@angeloalexandertomas5089
@angeloalexandertomas5089 8 месяцев назад
chill@@pianist-yx6ot
@angeloalexandertomas5089
@angeloalexandertomas5089 8 месяцев назад
@@pianist-yx6ot she's still a kid
@angeloalexandertomas5089
@angeloalexandertomas5089 8 месяцев назад
@@pianist-yx6ot And why shouldn't she talk about it when her dad is always forcing her to study not giving her some free time?
@valeriapw7908
@valeriapw7908 Месяц назад
If you know Chinese, you will be even more impressed how well this adorable girl speaks.
@harrykumoro4335
@harrykumoro4335 24 дня назад
😮 something wrong about Chinese education and life pressure 😮. Even my country had more happiness index. The most giver Index. Low suicide. And middle income country
@KaosAucht
@KaosAucht Месяц назад
Listen to her she is divine, she is obviously a higher being. Only those with pure hearts will listen to her.
@mayrushart
@mayrushart Год назад
Sadly not every parents will understand this. Some parents will always think they are right and ignore the kids feelings just cuz they are kids
@LazyCoffJelli
@LazyCoffJelli Год назад
-written by a kid seriously tho it actually sucks to not have alot of fun, even with the pandemic fun still exists
@thahzjj1
@thahzjj1 Год назад
I hate that this is true
@Tortoisaurus
@Tortoisaurus Год назад
I did not expect mayrushart to comment on this video, but yeah happy new year for those reading this, and may 2023 be a good one
@ElJugoCulo
@ElJugoCulo Год назад
That'll eventually bleed into adulthood too, my mother still thinks she's superior to the kids in our family and it's a big reason why I don't speak to her anymore. There's no equal with her.
@alypha737
@alypha737 Год назад
Bro stfu ? How many kids do you have ?
@yvettealford999
@yvettealford999 Год назад
I am saddened by the distress of this child. She is clearly & politely spoken & deserves to be heard. I hope the parents get it, or they will ultimately lose her as an adult.
@Prince.M00NBEAM
@Prince.M00NBEAM Год назад
The last thing she said kind of could be translated to what you ended with in your comment. Cherish my childhood or lose me as an adult
@PrinceJes
@PrinceJes Год назад
You are legally required to take care of your parents when they're old as an adult.
@iwatcher69
@iwatcher69 Год назад
It will pay off in the future when she invents something that will bring glory to mother China…😂😂😂,
@iwatcher69
@iwatcher69 Год назад
Thats a good father thoigh because he’s simply listening to his daughter. I give him Props for that.
@CrossbredmiMiyang
@CrossbredmiMiyang Год назад
I bet if her parents understand if freedom of speech and democracy meant , in that part of the world.
@jonathanliu8192
@jonathanliu8192 Месяц назад
Hey Dad. Be reasonable !!! You have a really great daughter. She deserves to be loved.
@Leaveyt505
@Leaveyt505 26 дней назад
I'm so happy she got that out and did not stay silent about it. Stay strong 🤍
@vexn3699
@vexn3699 9 месяцев назад
You know, even when highly emotional, it's incredible how coherent, articulate and respectful this child is. Such level of communication is rare, even in adults
@haengihorsetheonewhocancoo8855
@haengihorsetheonewhocancoo8855 9 месяцев назад
Prob because of all of the studying she has to do
@therealteal620
@therealteal620 9 месяцев назад
@@haengihorsetheonewhocancoo8855😂
@MrM-ri5kw
@MrM-ri5kw 9 месяцев назад
Bro i would Just lost it a billion times , that kid is golden. For fuck sake it hurts.😢
@old_yeller4251
@old_yeller4251 9 месяцев назад
Look how calm the dad is. She's probably so we'll spoken and respectful even when frustrated because she never got spanked or beat by her parents
@fable_enthusiast
@fable_enthusiast 9 месяцев назад
​@@old_yeller4251but they still feel the need to pressure her and say that they don't
@jameshowlettii761
@jameshowlettii761 9 месяцев назад
Damn... This little one is beyond her years. She articulates her feelings far better than most I know, myself included. I truly felt her pain 🥺💔
@Umm_FLIP
@Umm_FLIP 9 месяцев назад
dude what pain 💀
@jannettekawahara3546
@jannettekawahara3546 9 месяцев назад
😢sweet girl and wise..and has tremendous stress at her age..not good
@whiteobama3032
@whiteobama3032 9 месяцев назад
​@@ninja.saywhatif thats scripted then this girl should get a job in Hollywood cause thats some convincing crying.
@arsy9301
@arsy9301 9 месяцев назад
​@@Umm_FLIPyou must have some serious issues if you saw that clip and not seeing that shes in pain 💀
@abigailquinones3707
@abigailquinones3707 9 месяцев назад
It's the kind of education they receive.
@Kam-ie3xl
@Kam-ie3xl Месяц назад
As a Chinese girl at the age of fourteen, I can understand the pressure that this poor child is being put through. It isn't fair for someone as small as her to be robbed of the the simplest of wishes, she shouldn't be forced to live a life that her parents have set out for her so soon, it's even sadder how maturely she speaks. Though, I can say that I respect her. 提出了一個公平且尊重的論點。做得好。
@user-pq2ob1rd6r
@user-pq2ob1rd6r 14 дней назад
Poor girl. She can express her needs very well and she is right. She is applying self care at the young age. Well done!
@JesterEnergySolutions
@JesterEnergySolutions 9 месяцев назад
Cherish this child, to have that kind of determination and to question authority with respect is a gift
@Bert_de_Wit
@Bert_de_Wit 9 месяцев назад
Agree! 😊
@skullfucker6064
@skullfucker6064 9 месяцев назад
Not there lol
@simon824
@simon824 9 месяцев назад
​@@skullfucker6064sad but true. Maybe she'll make it out. A lot of them seem to be able to.
@CocoGirl343
@CocoGirl343 9 месяцев назад
That’s heartbreaking to see her cry like that. It should not get to the point that the child has a breakdown like this. This cannot be the first time that she has expressed her need for a break and time to play.
@6Pope9
@6Pope9 9 месяцев назад
Exactly, the girl needs a hug
@neigomes7780
@neigomes7780 9 месяцев назад
Heartbreaking it's to lose a childs for this crazy world, she's amazing because their parents it's amazing as well.
@wangxiaoming8989
@wangxiaoming8989 9 месяцев назад
I grew up the same. In China you cannot play for too long. If you do, you get left behind. We are too many, the competition is too strong. If you rest and play for too long, somebody else who doesn't and has greater resilience towards studying will get ahead, while you'll be left behind. As much as I remember feeling the same like this little girl during my childhood, I would not allow my children to play for too long either if I was still living in China. There the gov doesn't help you, one doesn't have the security felt in the westen countries, you are basically on your own. It better be a well trained "your own", otherwise you don't stand a chance in chinese society. Most people in the west will not educate their children like that. I'm not doing it either since my kids are growing in the west. But if I was living in China, no matter how much my kids would cry for free time, they will only have the free time that I allow, and that will be very little by my own understanding of what constitutes success in China. I know that later on my kids will not get ahead in life because of the free time they've had, but because of the work they had to do. It's a rigged system, you can't rest for too long, if you don't play the game, work and excell, you will get nowhere in China. Outside of China there is more freedom and one can do what one wants, inside of China there is no freedom and you will do as you're told, regardless of how much you cry. This is what my dad told me when I was little. So then I reasoned I wanted no longer to live in China. Now I enjoy more freedom and my children do too! People from the west who see this clip must understand that this girl's situation is common place for almost every child educated in Chinese society. The way the gov rules the country is the same way we rule over our children. They scrictly must obey, or else... A sad system I would say, now that I know any different.
@mynameiseden6127
@mynameiseden6127 9 месяцев назад
​@@wangxiaoming8989it's quite sad to hear that, but at least it gives some context to the video. We don't know much about the Chinese society, after all so we can't really judge the parents for being strict when we live in a different country.
@potatoes5240
@potatoes5240 9 месяцев назад
@@mynameiseden6127I’m a Chinese student. While the person above is right about the education system in China, I just want to say that the parents are still strict. But sadly it’s normalised because people are forced to be this way so their children can survive in our society. But just because we live in a different environment doesn’t mean that things always have to be this way and are right to be this way. You can have free time, what truly matters is the time management. And I believe a good mind comes with a balance between work and rest. The parents are still strict, but yes, there is a good reason to it, and I don’t see that things would change in the next few decades…
@JohnBeerschoten
@JohnBeerschoten 2 месяца назад
She has a very good argumentation and motivation.
@samanthak3353
@samanthak3353 Месяц назад
This extremely smart kid will go places
@imechko_familia
@imechko_familia 9 месяцев назад
I'm almost crying watching this... Poor girl is so stressed and exhausted, it's obvious. She's not crying like a kid with tantrum, she's crying like she's in a deep mental pain. I hope her dad will listen and give her less duties and more playtime.
@User-rka_zykx76
@User-rka_zykx76 9 месяцев назад
….China…. She probably has 3 full time jobs too
@a320nick
@a320nick 9 месяцев назад
@imechko_familia: Probably not, it's not long ago that girls like her wore bandages on their feet to make their toes curl this is crippling them. Probably still do that in the mountains. Civilisation is centuries behind everything that is West of them. A masoginistic enslavement attitude prevails and if you see in her speech, she is appealing to the loved Father side of him, unfortunately it's not there. Simply, the sooner she gets out of that hell hole the better. I wonder what their mental hospitals are like? They probably douse them up with meds and send them back to the universal slave camp called "home" There is no balance this is extreme non-civilisation which is still today thousands of years old, meaning they are thousands of years behind. Sure, they can build stuff and are brainy but not brainy enough to have any empathy - see China? See North Korea, it's basically the same dictatorship with zero understanding or human tolerance . That's is why they worship Chairman Mao, and are fed such icons as: "for the people" "for China" that's why they bomb (even today) Taiwan, which is the real and true Republic of China. Supposedly. Taiwan is a successful country with consolidated production and supply of tech and white goods and their lives and children enjoy a healthy and civilised normality compared to the red Chinese. Why do you think there are so many Chinese in the West ? Because they wanted to get the f- out off there...!!🤯 They bomb Taiwan, they fire on Tibet, and nobody knows what they are doing, they just feed their Chinese people like mushrooms. Kept in the dark and fed on bs. I feel sorry for children like this young lady and I hope she manages to get away sometime soon. Her father is so not worthy of such an admirable daughter. .........And, his daughter does not deserve such an ao of a crapola Father, which he is. And the saddest thing of all is that she actually loves her dad and tries to reason with him with respect that he does not deserve. I hope she finds friends and happiness and manages to get the hell out of there as soon as possible. I wonder what the suicide rate for kids of her age is in China today. I bet you a hundred quid - they would always blame the child. It's a sick, sick society over there. Look at The Tiananmen Square protests, massive army tanks against unarmed students, who were no doubt protesting against all of this crap themselves. But, hey, that's a Dictatorship ☮️ No wonder they are backward, they stifle natural growth.
@rmzbro2766
@rmzbro2766 9 месяцев назад
Abused kids wont talk openly like this to her/his abuser due to trauma and fear, trust me. This is just a one smart, brilliant girl trying to talk down her daddy with her smart-ass words and superb acting off course. When you got kids, who always got excuses in thier mind, you'll know 😂
@imechko_familia
@imechko_familia 9 месяцев назад
@@rmzbro2766 they do, they'll just get punished later. I hope you don't have kids
@rmzbro2766
@rmzbro2766 9 месяцев назад
@@imechko_familia only stupid abusive parent recorded their abused kids crying and posted it online. Maybe your type of parenting.😂
@PennySalcedoVLOGS
@PennySalcedoVLOGS 9 месяцев назад
She sure has straightened matters out between her and her Dad without being disrespectful. A very successful and respectful woman she’s going to be in the future.
@bshrful
@bshrful 9 месяцев назад
MEN ALWAYS LIKE TO CRUSH THE SPIRIT OF A WOMAN, IF IT WAS A GUY YOU WOULD NEVER WRITE THIS COMMENT
@PhilaTsavo
@PhilaTsavo 9 месяцев назад
Only if he listens otherwise she will not survive puberty as a normal person or even with her life...
@fvwak
@fvwak 9 месяцев назад
​@@bshrfulwhy do you think that men like to crush spirit of a woman?
@dharmachile999
@dharmachile999 9 месяцев назад
Her Dad will continue to disrespect her and she will leave home as soon as she can.
@imlameiknow1428
@imlameiknow1428 9 месяцев назад
@@dharmachile999you don’t know that do u?
@MonicaMoore-ju1he
@MonicaMoore-ju1he Месяц назад
If my inner child could say words. This is what she would say. Wisdom comes from pain 💕. Onward, lil sis. Thank you for healing my 6 year old self.
@craigshak
@craigshak 17 дней назад
My good God . How precious and sad. I have three kids and although none ever spoke so articulately that is what their eyes told me because as a parent I knew discipline , studies was the way to success later in life. We loaded so much on my first two kids : they had school then HW and then extra studies to do more challenging math problems And reading and weekend math and soccer . Worried about grades and science project and on and on so they could get to good colleges and university . It was such a whirlwind . I knew they were stressed but I did not know a better way because everyone was doing the same and I did not want my kids to be left behind . I am now blessed with an 8 year old now and I totally changed my approach . I let her have much more freedom and friends play time . We still do the extra study stuff but balance it out with her own freedom And play time . Covid allowed me to have much more time with my youngest in the park teaching her to ride bicycle , and so on . School about to end and we have lots of plans for summer about which she is excited and blurted out I love my life . Finally for once I feel like I am doing something right . Truly the memories I have with her is worth more than anything else
@madhuvanig
@madhuvanig 9 месяцев назад
she’s well aware of the unrealistic expectations her parents and society have on her. she’s reasoning so logically with her dad despite sobbing that not only has she completed all her work, but that she’s a good girl ALL the time. she knows her worth and the effort she puts in. i wish for her to never allow herself to get treated badly. she’s a bright one.
@Vero2yu
@Vero2yu 9 месяцев назад
For real and for sure.
@ellidominusser1138
@ellidominusser1138 9 месяцев назад
Yep, kids in china have it very hard.
@LINDAJNG
@LINDAJNG 9 месяцев назад
For the whole asian kids
@boommasterboum9048
@boommasterboum9048 9 месяцев назад
Why share on the internet and not keep in privacy
@prachi76
@prachi76 9 месяцев назад
She's more mature than her dad could ever be.
@Just_TheSame_
@Just_TheSame_ 9 месяцев назад
I just love how this girl is talking like an adult, and respectfully tryna sort the situation🤌😭
@JuliaBl
@JuliaBl 9 месяцев назад
She does not talk like an adult, because adults who talk like that are rare, very rare.
@T1Oracle
@T1Oracle 9 месяцев назад
It's so convenient! Like you don't even have to raise her! Just focus on work, study, and discipline. If she jumps off a roof or something just make another one! So convenient!
@tor13128
@tor13128 9 месяцев назад
although she can only talk and reason like that because of how she was raised (ironically). the issue is the father went overboard. the detriment is stress/overwork.
@Just_TheSame_
@Just_TheSame_ 8 месяцев назад
@@JuliaBl chill no need to get mad over a comment😭
@noname-wq9up
@noname-wq9up 2 месяца назад
OMG .. HUG .. HUGG I WANNA HUG HER AND MAKE HER STOP CRYING.. thats what my parents never did when i was in her age.. everyone have their bad and good childhood days
@pr33typ1nk
@pr33typ1nk 2 месяца назад
im growing up in a family that makes me grow up to fast.if I ever tried this no one would listen to me.glad it worked out for her
@jdjdbidbfj
@jdjdbidbfj 2 месяца назад
This girl somehow respectfully scolded her father
@Byom_e
@Byom_e 2 месяца назад
his?
@jdjdbidbfj
@jdjdbidbfj 2 месяца назад
Sorry her*@@Byom_e
@zinhlekheswa5237
@zinhlekheswa5237 2 месяца назад
​@@Byom_e english is a foreign language, give us grace
@Byom_e
@Byom_e 2 месяца назад
@@zinhlekheswa5237 the commentor wasn't chinese though.
@zinhlekheswa5237
@zinhlekheswa5237 2 месяца назад
@@Byom_e so?
@FutileGrief
@FutileGrief Год назад
What a wise child. I'm sorry she has to go through that pressure. "Not even a robot could do it".
@francy3643
@francy3643 Год назад
It's staged
@karimalrawas6185
@karimalrawas6185 Год назад
@@francy3643 How is it staged? Not even a Hollywood actor can pull that off. Wtf are you talking about about
@VortyxZero
@VortyxZero Год назад
@@francy3643 🤓
@austinrichards1740
@austinrichards1740 Год назад
@@karimalrawas6185 😂 right
@ambitiousmuslimrecordings3451
She’s that wise BECAUSE of the restrictions her father has put on her and implements in her life. It may be seen as cruel but it’s what will save her from most of the dumb mistakes her peers will make in their future.
@cjd2615
@cjd2615 11 дней назад
She’s got a point, Dad… can’t argue with good reason! ❤
@aisharasheed8225
@aisharasheed8225 19 дней назад
One has to give credit to the dad for raising such a strong articulate polite compelling child…and for him listening to her patiently… I don’t think I have ever spoken for so long with my dad in my entire life…
@tm75_88
@tm75_88 Месяц назад
This girl is our hope: she will save all the world from stress
@sparkie7
@sparkie7 9 месяцев назад
and she's still respectful to her dad. what a gem.
@3vilMTV
@3vilMTV 9 месяцев назад
goes two ways usually
@junayedalam8463
@junayedalam8463 9 месяцев назад
Asian ☺
@Igoriann
@Igoriann 9 месяцев назад
Yeah because she's not some American spoilt brat lol
@Manimanocas
@Manimanocas 9 месяцев назад
My dad would say the way she is talking is disrespectuful just because she is talking back and arguing/argumenting.
@fckprc8149
@fckprc8149 9 месяцев назад
Chinese... if she disrespect him he is gonna smack her! Absolutely common in China.
@strawberryme08
@strawberryme08 9 месяцев назад
She’s better than most adults at self awareness and communication 😅
@Eve181dublin
@Eve181dublin Месяц назад
I feel like she was waiting a long time to get this all out. What she does will never be enough & yet she does it. Treasure her childhood indeed! What a wonderful young person, she needs a break.
@hajnamcgrath8056
@hajnamcgrath8056 Месяц назад
She is extremely intelligent and lovely child. I completely understand what she is saying. When I was teaching in China, unfortunately many kids told me the same. They have insane amount of study and duty. Barely any time to be a child.
@jeffreygibson8253
@jeffreygibson8253 9 месяцев назад
This little girl broke my heart with her brilliant negotiating skills, impressive respect and emotional honesty. She will be a force for good as an adult.
@Dana-ie2bh
@Dana-ie2bh 9 месяцев назад
Not in China she won't. It's a Communist dictatorship. She's screwed, that's all they want is robots.
@Fleshox19-uz3qt
@Fleshox19-uz3qt 9 месяцев назад
Not in that country.
@uxpjsxu
@uxpjsxu 9 месяцев назад
This comment is pretty naive. I would make a pretty big bet with you she will end up emotionally broken and NOT a good person because of her overly strict upbringing. (If what she says is true)
@annemary86
@annemary86 9 месяцев назад
This is not negotiating. She is pleading, begging for some time for herself. If this continues, as somebody says above, it will end up very badly for her
@ms.playboyinternational393
@ms.playboyinternational393 9 месяцев назад
She knows what is important.
@CharlyDom
@CharlyDom 2 месяца назад
this stress in a kid is astonishing
@eduardomaldonado1647
@eduardomaldonado1647 2 месяца назад
I wish i Had a little daughter like her. She is awesome. Instead of getting very angry and throwing a temper tantrum like many adults would do she presents her argument in a very assertive and intelligent manner.
@sreetamaray_
@sreetamaray_ 9 месяцев назад
I am AWESTRUCK by this little girl's profound understanding of her situation and her ability to articulate her ordeal so well. Kids should be allowed MORE PLAYTIME, let them enjoy their childhood! Her story is a reminder that even the youngest voices can spark change and inspire greatness.
@Linogewillkillallofy
@Linogewillkillallofy 9 месяцев назад
No not really, she is just copying her mother. Its a chinese family after all.
@josephblight9421
@josephblight9421 9 месяцев назад
​@Linogewillkillallofy lmao she clearly knows what she's going through wtf are you talking about and she's very articulate as well. I doubt her mom asks for more time to play instead of doing homework. No clue what them being Chinese has to do with her talking to her dad about this, you don't know what you're talking about
@politicallyincorrect4452
@politicallyincorrect4452 9 месяцев назад
@@Linogewillkillallofy Ok whitey....
@coffeebun7412
@coffeebun7412 9 месяцев назад
@@Linogewillkillallofywhy would articulating her ordeal well have to do with copying her mom, and what does a chinese family have to do with that..?
@Vero2yu
@Vero2yu 9 месяцев назад
@@Linogewillkillallofy Lol, actually you do not even know if she has a mother and just assume, retards.
@zizi-yo
@zizi-yo 9 месяцев назад
She is so stressed. As a teacher myself I think you should take it easy on her. All work and no play makes her dull. She’s so brave for speaking boldly and sternly.
@robertnoble7554
@robertnoble7554 9 месяцев назад
Females are born great at complaining, nothing surprising. If she was a boy, this video wouldn't have been made, the father wouldn't risk evidence being found of his abuse.
@zizi-yo
@zizi-yo 9 месяцев назад
@@robertnoble7554 Females might be as you believe but not all females would speak up about how they feel so give this little girl some attention she did greatly.
@robertnoble7554
@robertnoble7554 9 месяцев назад
@@zizi-yo Majority of women would or girls or children to be accurate, I wish it wasn't so but it's nature (Self defense mechanism), only a few would wouldn't so why would I want to praise them when they are the outliers? If there's someone I'm praising here is the teacher/parents they trained her well, she learned logic really well.
@PALM0_4U
@PALM0_4U 9 месяцев назад
Ngl I need u in my school
@zizi-yo
@zizi-yo 9 месяцев назад
@@robertnoble7554 where I come from.. majority of these girls won’t speak up because of fear of being scolded. They suffer in silence and build hate towards the parent in return. It goes two ways. So allow me to shower this girl with praises for her bravery.
@susuileamura
@susuileamura 23 часа назад
This is the most adorable thing I've ever watched
@user-fj3ut9sl3x
@user-fj3ut9sl3x 2 месяца назад
Oh, dear.....I was close to tears for her. Brilliant!!
@elenak.6539
@elenak.6539 9 месяцев назад
I hate that after everything she articulated, the father attempted to dismiss her with a simple, 'I don't expect that much of you'.
@diana7676
@diana7676 9 месяцев назад
I love how she countered back . One thinks he is a good dad , but he is dismissing her , can you see it ? You have to have emotion intelligence to see it .
@candycane5458
@candycane5458 9 месяцев назад
Sa.e
@JuliaBl
@JuliaBl 9 месяцев назад
I don’t have the impression that he means to say that in a dismissal way. I have the impression he tells her that he does not expect that many chores from her.
@synergyrevolution2332
@synergyrevolution2332 9 месяцев назад
Yeah, I know people like to make jokes about it all the time but really, fuck the culture of Asian parents. That shit is a form of torture.
@liepsan
@liepsan 9 месяцев назад
I think its also fair to assume that the father released this video to show how much pressure their society puts on children.
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