Damn, I really needed this. Literally spent all night yesterday on Instagram stalking people and seeing all the things that they’re doing with their lives… Made me feel so crappy :/ This video was really a wake up call though. Thank you, Jordan! You seriously give the best advice.
7:40 omggg your advice on healing after a breakup is on point girl! I was in one for 5yrs & we ended during the COVID era lol smh... that ish was hard healing. TBH not only did that time afterwards help me heal from that relationship it also help me heal deeper parts of myself and that brought me understanding as to why I was even in that connection & why certain scenario's happened.. Thank you for this FaceTime talk 😉
So I’m very hormonal tonight because I’m due on and I’ve been crying none stop and then watching this video has just suddenly changed my mood! I needed this ❤️
Thank you so so so much! Using your platform and reaching so many people is honestly amazing. There are so many people privately suffering with mental health and forming new relationships. You are lush! Never stop being you 💕
Well I feel much better about myself after watching this! I forget I’m not the only one in the world and that everyone feels low or lonely for no reason sometimes, you’ve made me think of it in a totally different way and that’ll help me so much, so thank you so much for that jords❤️❤️
Out of anger, I removed everyone and deleted my social medias last week. I have kept one friend... it's super sad but this has built up after years of my 'friends' leaving me out and slagging me off. I am truly on my own now. I'm not happy about it, but I've done it. #BetterMe.
@@TreasureForeverOfficial Thank you angel. So far, no regrets. I just kinda wish it didn't have to happen... I'm hoping this time next year I won't even be thinking about it. 💕
I've started telling my new friends that like, "Hey I've had long term friendships that have ended overnight. So if I'm distant or acting weird one day that's usually because I have that thought in the back of my head." That's a really great make-or-break moment for new friends because you'll find out if they respect your vulnerability or if they just don't care
I’ve been learning recently that a women’s low periods could be the result of changing hormones in our body during our 28 day cycle. Alot of reading around it says that our body needs that time to rest. There are days I want to cry for no reason then I notice I’ll be ovulating a few days later. During ovulation I’m so happy, I just be loving life. Keeping track of my menstrual circle has been helpful in understanding my mood/body changes. Listen to your body❤
Love how real and down-to-earth you are in these girl talk videos ❤ (am also obsessed with the pompom nails but I know I’d ruin them in two seconds by needing to wash my hands or something!)
So rare to see an influencer or content creator do these advice videos that a) give a disclaimer and b) actually give good, balanced and emotionally intelligent advice. Don’t wanna bash anyone, but advice when you have a huge audience and that influence can be so dangerous. Love these videos ❤
i absolutely loved this video - really helped me as i’m struggle quite a bit at the minute!!! if and when you do another video, could you please talk about self harm? i know some people are not educated on it enough to talk about it, but i think it would not only help myself but a lot of people who either struggle with it or want to know more about it. it shouldn’t be a stigma or taboo in society!! hope you can help Jordan ❤❤
I find friendship with women are stressful, especially with women I know, jealousy is a massive issue in our friendship group and it drains me, my female friends don't like me having other friendship, as a group they cant stand each other, am literally in the middle of it all 😂
Growing up I didn’t really had friends, I also feel like it was because my mom switch me and my sisters a lot from schools and I also moved to another country. I’ve also I also kinda had bad experiences with having friends, like in middle school I had some friends that liked the same guy I liked, and they knew i really liked this guy but I guess he was never going to be for me. and then entering high school the same story kinda started happening again with one of my friends by liking the same guy I liked, and I was like hell nah I guess I’m not meant to have friends, but growing up in high school I did talked to some friends I didn’t had a bad experience with all of my friends, but I guess I wasn’t like super close to them where I can trust them or tell them my life, I’ve never had one of those friends where I could call and tell her all my problems, sometimes I kinda feel sad that I don’t have friends but at the same time I feel happy because some can be toxic and jealous and I just don’t like to deal with people like that 😂 but I’m glad god gave me 2 sisters and they’re like my best friends even tho we fight sometimes 😂 but I don’t need any other friends than them. And I also have my boyfriend who is now the father of my 2 babies and I’m more than happy with that because he is also my best friend, so basically I don’t want any friends and it’s also hard to trust people.
I really needed to hear these things today! I’m starting to think I’m failing at life because all my friends are moving on with their lives and starting families but hearing what you think on that topic has really helped me! Love you Jords ❤
I completely understand the friend thing. I actually don’t have any friends honestly. I talk to my fiancé and that’s it not even family so loneliness is real honestly but I’m comfortable with it.
Love this ❤ The friendship breakdowns are real...i have had people just cut me off for no reason and its horrible 😢 constantly wondering whether it was something i said or did..but i have learnt and always say to myself that friendships come and go as we evolve through life. Don't get me wrong..i always think about how they are and they occassionally pop into my dreams and its hard to deal with but as you said 'time heals everything'. I know who my true friends are now though 🎉 the experience i have gone through does make me anxious that my friends will leave me but i can't keep thinking like that 😂 being an adult and keeping friendships can be so difficult! 😂 xx
To the woman who said u don't love ur self unless someone loves you. EVERY DAY IN A MIRROR EYEBALL TO EYEBALL SAY I LOVE U AND DONT STOO UNTIL U REALLY MEAN IT AND CAN SMILE AFTERWARDS.
One thing I always remind myself when I see people around me at different life stages than I am, is that they may look like they’ve got their shit together but really you never know whats going on behind the scenes! I’m expecting my first child and people keep being like omg you’re so ready… really I feel so far from ready 😂 excited as heck but terrified haha
I always say quality over quantity when it comes to friendships, I have 2 younger children aswell and one of them is disabled, and I know who’s gonna be there when I need them. I cut a very very close friend off a couple of months back and that was HARD just because I had so much going on in my life which she didn’t understand, I was constantly taking my little boy to hospital, I’m a single parent, I have a house to manage on my own, and I have another child I need to make sure is ok too and it’s difficult but she seemed to think I was sacking her off which wasn’t the case and was always on my back and I just didn’t need that kinda negativity or stress when I already had a lot going on. Time is definitely a healer and I rather have good quality friends that loads of friends
You talk a lot about self love and doing something for ourselves. Well.. I’d love to film like you do. Will you show your room set up? Do a video on a realistic behind the scenes filming video ❤ xxx
As a 49 year old I think you give such good advice to your audience despite your young age. I wish I had this advice from an influencer at your age it would have helped so much xxx
Oh my goshh Jordan this talk.. you really made me cry .. but in a good way .. but it really hit me and everyyy word from you .. I felt that deep in my soul and I think youre soo right. I love these girlstalk, I think you really help many people with these kind of videos , with you personality and vibe you give off, you are so amazing 🫶🏻( sorry for my English if it’s not really grammatically right I‘m actually German 🙈)
Watching this while getting ready for work while I am ill 👀 selfcare? Mental breaks? Oops I have been at home for almost 2 weeks and I can't really sleep, the doctor can't do anything and all I want is to go to sleep. So now I just go to work to tired me out so that I can sleep
Idk why aesthetic was giving me glam nun vibes. No shade I absolutely love it 😂 then it gave me inspo and I went off into a visualization for my next fancy dress party outfit. May have to rewatch 🙏😂
My advice for the girl moving in with her boyfriend: do not teach him that you’ll do all the cleaning, washing and cooking, otherwise you’ll end up with a big child. Share responsibilities from the start, make it clear!
Can we be friends in real life🥰 would be a dream friend, who’s into fashion, hair & make - up too, let’s do some videos jords , I’m someone who has not any friends either, finding myself and realising they were fake friends, we’re the real friends at , I’m happy tho xx
Love u Jordan when I moved towns (2 hours away from my previous small town) all my friends stopped talking to me. I now have no friends and do always feel alone but this video made me feel there is hope 😢💗 love you thank you x
I've always been pleasing people and fighting for friendships but as I got older I've learnt there no point if someone wants to be a part of your life they'll be
Absolutely loved this video❤ the way you see and explain things is just spot on. From someone who doesn’t have a big group of girl mates and stuff too makes me feel so much better that I am capable of being on my own and doing stuff by myself, being my own bestfriend
I love these types of videos from you! They’re so raw and meaningful ! Also, been following you for the longest time and it’s so refreshing feeling like i’ve also grown up with someone so relatable! ❤️
