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I had a crush and didn't know how to talk to her but she always had snacks. She was eating animal crackers in class and I asked for one, she placed it on my desk and then smashed it before I could pick it up. She then gave me another one telling me she was joking i thought it was really funny so I laughed and "went back to my work" once she turned I put it on her desk and smashed it, asking for another one with a big goofy smile. She laughed. It became a thing and I started bringing snacks to share and smash on eachothers desk. Snacks were banned in drama class. We were seniors in highschool. It's been 7 years, we have a 4 year old, and I couldn't be happier. We still do goofy stuff
This is cute. I imagine when your kid asks how you met, you might say something like: "Oh, I asked your mom for a cracker and she smashed it in front of me. 🙂" Just to have your kid question you.
Dude the shit about put away shyness and all that bullshit You have to have something to be confident about to be confident Like I’m ugly af it doesn’t matter how upfront or confident I am in the end I’m ugly and just not attractive
I swear that always works. My friends got together after joking about being married and i got with my gf because we were joking about liking each other
i feel ya, idk why these videos keep coming up on my recommended, I don't even use/watch/read reddit, it just popped up and yt kept spamming me with these videos, all they do is just keep reminding me how lonely i am.
I love the irony of the drama teacher telling a new couple not to break up because she doesn’t want any extra drama in the future when casting for plays.
Anyone else just tired? Like with everything, shit just seems so meaningless lately and I'm just exhausted. Adulthood is right at my door and I'm not prepared
I had to approach him. He never would have scraped up the nerve and I wasn't about to miss out. That's the day I overcame my own awkwardness completely. That was 25 years ago.
Online dating Him: Wanna see my duck? That's not a typo *he sends me a photo of the duck that he's cooking* We've been together since early 2019 EDIT: consecutively since early 2019
We met online in an Overwatch clan. He didn't know I liked him and would just lightly tease me all the time. He would tell people that I wouldn't be interested in him, I eventually just asked him for coffee.... I drove 3 hours to have coffee. He still didn't know I liked him so I just had to ask him to date 😅😂 We are now married with a 3 year old with one on the way.. he still teases me telling me I'm a rubbish healer and tank 😅
@@erikrungemadsen2081 I not only had the worse coffee... But the coffee was during his lunch break so it was only a 20 minute catch up... Then I had to go home again... Soooo thirsty 😂😂😂👌
This is cute af. Too bad my OW egirl cheated on me. Luckily, I'm pretty good-looking and this girl just wandered into my life now. I'm not particularly worried about when my woman will come as it's not really something I truly care about at the moment
He put up this facade that he was really happy and outgoing, when he was really a shy introvert on the verge of ending it all. But, he told me that something about me made him stop and rethink what he was going to do. So, in short, I saved his life. And now he's my precious little bean 💗
My current boyfriend tripped over every hint I dropped about liking him. It got to a point where a customer at work pointed out to him that I was hinting to go on a date and that was when he asked me 😭😭 Edit: this was 2 years ago and we currently live together :) I’m his first actual girlfriend (we’re in our 20s) and I’ve never dated a guy who’s treated me so well. Introverts are where it’s at :^)
Hahaha, that's so cute and funny XD Always nice to hear that introverts have a chance for love... hope at almost 37, and wanting no kids, i'm not too late in life o_O I live in The Netherlands, so small country, having a small chance to find someone who's like that. Brain and back damage also make it hard to do well in life, so welfare for life... also not very attractive, eh? Good luck together :)
@@Kurachi84 hey man, everyone’s got a chance. You just have to put in the effort and find that person. Don’t let your problems hold you back, instead defeat them and utilize them as a pedestal of confidence from which you can meet more people!
One of my friends was kind of clueless too before his first girlfriend. She says the only way she could've been more obvious would've been if she said "date me!"
He went to drama class to pick up one of his friends, then saw me being really loud and goofy. Fell in love. Tried to talk to me and get rejected cause he said something rude about my favorite band. His friend talked to me and said it was really rare for him to talk to ANYONE first and that got me curious. Talked to him next Monday and he started talking about random things including how he got his backpack (which was a really cool one and I wanted to know where he got it) from his ex-gf and that she was really mean and jealous. I got bored and went to class, he came back with bunch of candy (apparently he asked his friend what I liked and that was what he told him 😂) and apologize about the awkward talk. 7 years later I couldn't imagine my life without him.
I met my wife in a bookstore when we crossed paths several times browsing the science fiction / fantasy shelves trying to decide which ones to get. She approached me and we chatted about the selections available, our collections and books we have read. I was trying to decide between two books and decided on one (Altered Carbon) and she picked up the one I didn’t (Bones of the Earth). As we were leaving the store she wrote her name and contact number on the inside cover of her book and gave it to me, telling me to read it and let her know if I liked it. We became friends, then dated, and then married. When we were buying a house one of the important decisions was a room that could house our combined book collections.
I'm the guy. She was my sister's best friend and we all lived in an apartment together. My sister went on vacation with her boyfriend and she came to my room at night and didn't stop once my sister got back. Turns out that they both planned it and my sister made up going on vacation so we'd be alone for a bit.
Bullshit. We all know that you don't have any siblings and you choked her on Mustafar after killing all the younglings. You're not fooling anyone here, I've got a bag of sand to defend myself
Thats amazing how people can look at another person and decide that person who they dont know is the one for life. I honestly have no clue how this happens, i think every guy is the one the moment I lay eyes on them.
Right, probably some 6 feet guy with a sixpack and muscles everywhere, seriously they are the only kinds of people who get something like this, you would look at someone like me or wait not even notice me, or just think ew, i know peoples minds, i know they all only care about looks, Status and Money, most people are toxic f*cks!
My current boyfriend I’ve been dating for five years used to be almost a shut in. Never talked to anyone. Only went out of his room to go to classes. He didn’t approach me, but I approached him. I didn’t know how to talk to him so I ended up just following him everywhere until we became friends and then ended up dating.
He tried but I finally just asked him out. XD He stood me up on the first date due to a panick attack. Lol 😂 He knocked on the door and was like are you ready? Dry heaves and runs all the way home. I called the house to let him know it was cool. 😎 Awesome memories.
I was the guy but I was so oblivious/awkward that I couldn't take the hints (more like giant signal flares) that she was giving me. At one point she basically confessed saying how much she enjoyed spending time with me and I replied by saying that I felt the same way and that she was my best friend. Naturally this crushed her, she thought I was friend zoning her and I thought I said something genuinely sincere and sweet (I don't have a lot of friends and don't make friends easily). She went to go order chicken nuggets from Macdonald's because she was crushed and her sister had to step in to mediate our relationship as neither of us were capable of getting it off the ground our own.
Hey, I have a Introverted/shy boyfriend, so I'll chime in I was the one that approached him, I met him thanks to my ex since they're like best friends. We were just friends for two years and I was still with my ex, but after we broke up, I started talking to him almost everyday to vent and distract myself for several months. After that we hung out and he said something along the lines of "I don't know why he couldn't see how funny and cute you are", then it all clicked for me, so I directly asked him "Do you like me?" He got super flustered but said yes. We're like 2 weeks away from our 4-year aniversary. I couldn't see myself with anyone else but him. Love him to pieces.
"Wait.... are we dating or something?" Okay, so that's how I wound up dating half of my ex-girlfriends. It's not that I was shy or introverted. I was usually so focused on my studies, then my career, that I'm amazed I didn't wind up in the middle of an orgy without realizing what was happening.
Long story short he didn't. I wouldn't change it tho and he's also said that he finds it easier if i do it. He's also said if we ever got married he would want me to propose but doesn't really mind how I do it. I love him and he means the world to me. It used to annoy me slightly that he wouldn't do the "typically romantic" stuff but now I don't really care. Been together 3 years in July and although we've had our arguments and our fights I love him
We were neighbors, he shared shrimp Halloween when i was home alone and about a week later after kicking out his ex-fiance he shyly asked if we could be together. I took a chance and we've been stuck together for almost 3 years.
Well, we first met because we sat next to each other in one of our classes, and we became fast friends because we both love nerdy stuff like Star Wars and Minecraft, so we would take about that with each other. We started sitting together at lunch to chat and browse the internet together, and we were slowly getting to know each other better. He started talking to some of his friends about whether he should ask me out or not, they told some of there friends, and eventually some girls in the locker room told me that he was thinking of asking me out but wasn't sure I'd say yes. I thought about it, and told them to send through the grapevine that it was a good idea. One day, he brings me donuts during lunch and asks me out. Apparently, those girls told their friends, who told his friends, who told him to go for it. I'm forever grateful to those girls as well as the other people who helped us get together, and I'm glad that he felt comfortable enough to take his friends' advice.
His friends intentionally got the word to those girls,or went up to them directly to tell you about him wanting to ask you out be ause he didn't want to make a fool of himself as a high schooler cannot escape having to end up seeing the person that rejected you around everyday, and end up making it too weird to still be friends with you. That was genius on their part and sound like solid homies getting the answer indirectly for your boy and set up the green light the mission is a Go.
@@aar6538 We're not. His family is fairly conservative and mine is fairly liberal. When the pandemic hit we couldn't go on dates because his family refused to vaccinate and some of my family members have pre-existing conditions that could cause them to die if they get COVID. He changed schools so he could stay in-person while I stayed with our current school and went online. We stopped seeing each other, and eventually we faded away from each other.
I’m the husband and I’m quite introverted but my wife was so introverted she won’t even say hi back and I was told she didn’t believe in relationships by her friends so I treated her as one of the boys. That’s how we got close. Turns out she hated how quiet I was and rudely honest for the first 3 years we met.
Well I was the introverted boyfriend in the scenario. Junior year of high school, had a total crush on this girl, spent months playing through all the potential scenarios for asking her out in my mind, but kept chickening out. Had this script all planned out where I would ask her out to the movies. Finally worked up the courage, had practiced my script a hundred time. Walked up to her and as soon her eyes met mine, my mind just went blank and I blurted out the first thing that popped into my mind, "I LOVE YOU!" Luckily instead of thinking I was a total lunatic, she thought it was "akwardly adorable". We ended up dating for the next two years until we both went our separate ways in college, but we still remain friends a decade later.
This one is not about me it is about how my parents met. My dad is quiet and he does not like to talk to some people. And my mom is nice, she does not care what other people think, and she can talk to her friends for hours. They met on a website (i dont know the name) and they talked for months, and wanted to meet. But, they lived over 200 miles away, so my dad flew in an airplane to my mom to meet her. They later became bf and gf. Then, got married. And they are happily married after 24 years with two kids.
I always crushed on guys that had no interest in me. Lol. I never dated any of them but that's ok. Oddly today none of them are good looking to me anymore.
We’ve been dating almost 2 months. I’m introverted but he’s more so when it comes to girls. Me and a group of friends went roller skating and this girl asks if she can invite her two guy friends. I said sure (I’m kinda the leader in the group) I was actually staring at them before I knew they were her guy friends. He was looking at me all night so I started a convo about music and stuff since he’s in a band as lead guitarist. I invited him to go bowling with our youth group and my friends convinced me to make a move because it was clear he wouldn’t but it was clear he liked me. I asked him to walk me to the bathroom. I stopped and he said aren’t you going in? I walked up to him and kissed his cheek. He smiled this big goofy grin and pulled me in to kiss me. May 13th will be 2 months and I already know I love him and he loves me. My parents love him too. Found out after he walked me to the car after our first kiss/started dating that my dad came in to use the bathroom so we could’ve been caught. He never officially asked me out and I never asked him out. We just were like so are we dating now and we both wanted to date. 10/10 would do again
I'm the awkward one in my current crush situation so we'll see how that works out, I'll let you guys know how it goes once this panorama calms down (fingers crossed!)
She approached me and asked me out directly. She was attractive and funny so I said ok and I added that I was glad she had been straight forward because I'm the kind of person who doesn't get hints. When she heard that she laughed instantly and said "yeah, I know. I've been dropping hints for three months now...". It was a bit embarrassing but I laughed too. I was the new guy at work and the quiet type so I thought she was just being nice hanging out with me all this time.
My boyfriend and I met online, though we found each other attractive, He thought I was a lot younger than him so he didn't pursue me (we are of the same age, I look really young bc of my asian genes) I looked him up on fb, added him, the rest is history. We've been together since 2014.
I have a relative who is introverted, his wife was his next door neighbor her kids more or less moved into his appartment when their dad died. She was so busy working the kids fell behind in school, and were not feed regularly. The oldest daughter more or less forced my relative to cook and tutor the kids, when their mom realised what was happening the daughters had more or less arranged the wedding. They both more or less just went with what the kids wanted. Now the kids have moved out they admitted that they are really happy together.
We were best friends since literally fourth grade, and I ended up asking him out in eighth lmao- he was awkward af and never dated anyone before (I’d previously dated a girl) and got him to date me with some cheesy pick up line that I used over text- Was hella awkward for the first month, but we’re going strong :)
We met playing Dead By Daylight. Never talked for a couple months then started playing a lot. We got along very much. Almost two years since we have been together. I love him very much
I was playing dead by daylight with a girl before but she went offline for months, so it didn't work out for me but I feel happy for you two though, that sounds fun and cute in a way.
We joined the same church at a similar time and ended up in the same friend group. We hit it off very quickly once we discovered that we're both socially awkward anime geeks who had past mental health struggles and were wired a little differently. It happened when we had been friends for about a year and he still hadn't made a move on me, despite the fact that his face lit up whenever he spotted me and eagerly came to talk to me. I started out seeing him strictly as a friend, but he turned out to be a total sweetheart who was always watching out for my scatterbrained self without asking for anything in return. I just couldn't not fall in love. I'm not terribly patient and realized that nothing would happen if if I don't ask him out on a date so I did, despite being shy myself. I didn't call it a date, but we both dressed nicely, had lunch and a shared dessert at an Italian restaurant, and took a long walk because we didn't want to part ways so soon. A few weeks after our first date and after consulting with his sister, he caught on to the fact that it might've been a date we went on and asked if I was interested in being together (and if I was sure a few times after that). We got married last year and are expecting a child soon. Life's good.
Me and my ex were the super quiet kids in our friend group and nobody knew nothing abt us. I was apparently scary to everyone because of my ghetto background and general demeanor and she was that cute small girl that was of few words. Our friends planned a day at the mall and everyone cancelled except for us and we spent the whole day walking and talking. We caught a movie and as we were leaving I asked our friend on snap," you set this up right?" And she responded," absolutely you two were taking too long," we dated for a few months but ended up drifting apart as I was moving.
Omg, I can finally share my story now that my boyfriend and I have been dating for a bit over a week. We started out as friends. I met him over a year ago during the Texas winter storm but I didn’t really get to hang with him until the beginning of this year. I had a breakup over the winter and wanted to get to know this man (he’s a bit less than a year younger than me, we’re in college and i’m two years above him in school). I befriended him and his bros, hung with them for weeks and then last month suddenly we went on a one-on-one outing that felt like a date. Our care and interest in each other as people were mutual, that much was clear. But I didn’t know if he liked me. I came to like him the more I hung with him. We began to hang out more often and one-on-one. His friends kept conveniently not showing up to hangouts, leaving just the two of us. During spring break recently, we went on a one-on-one outing I planned for us as a “fake date”. We held hands and he made a lot of physical contact with me on that day. He drove me all over the city despite the high gas prices. He cooked for me and walked with me back to my place. It was a great day. We were hanging out way more often than friends do, I think. I would never want to see my friends every day, even if I really liked them. I’m just a more solitary type and I know my crush was too. He expresses he didn’t like talking, but would talk to me for hours. He hates hugs but he hugged me anyway. He loved to watch his anime and play his games but then he expressed that he would rather spend time with me. I had been picking up a lot of positive signs from him, and had been trying to show some back, but my self esteem is so low that I couldn’t fathom why he would like me. My friends all hated how I couldn’t believe it lol. They said he was being so obvious. So clearly going out of his way for me and breaking his habits for me, helping me, wanting to be with me, choosing me over his bros, etc. Last week, on Monday, everything built up to a climax. The night was going really well and then I began to try dropping more direct hints. I think everything until that point had not been direct enough on my end, so I was trying to step up the flirting and such by advice of my friend. I said things describing how I hated people coming over or calling me, but for him I was happy instead when he did. I told him that I loved spending time with him, and just him. I told him that I wish we had more time together and that it was too short (I’m a senior so I will graduate sooner, since he’s a sophomore). I said a bunch of things! Eventually it was getting late and he had to leave. But he didn’t want to leave. He kept staying. I urged him to go but he just sat there in silence. There was a tension. I knew I had set up this tension by saying all the bunch of things. He had a thinking face on. I asked him “what’s up?” He said that he was thinking. I asked him what he was thinking about. And then he paused for a moment and smiled nervously, then said “I don’t know, I like you…” He almost let out a nervous chuckle. I didn’t know if I heard right so I asked again. And then he said “as a person”. Bruh, backtrack. I had to then put myself out there and take a risk. I asked him, “at the risk of sounding weird and making things weird, you don’t like me in that way, do you?” He said that he guessed he did, then everything kinda snowballed from there. He was so shy. I was shy too but I knew it was going in a good direction. I was able to fish the confession out of him. I had a feeling he might have liked me but my self-confidence blinded me from seeing it clearly. Apparently he already knew that I liked him after my first interaction with him months before. Bruhhh. He said he would never have confessed though if I hadn’t fished it out of him. I’m glad I did, because I had planned to tell him at the end of the semester. At least we have time as a couple now. Because there was so much chemistry between us for months, our relationship has moved very very fast. I’m fine with it if he is. I’m his first girlfriend. He’s the first guy I actually had a crush on and got into a relationship with. It’s amazing. This never happens! My life has felt like a fever dream every day since. Nothing feels real anymore and I have unparalleled optimism.
After years of being best friends, and after me breaking up with a shitty ex, he told me he loved me as more than besties. Bc he said it after coming home from a night out, I thought he was drunk, played it off and then asked him if he meant it a couple of days later. He's always been my measure for what a good man is and who would be good for me, and I still have times when I can't believe we're together.
I approached him first, and at our first date he just stared at me while I eat and it pissed me off, but I shrugged it off. And now, we were in 7 years of relationship ❤️
He didn’t. I approached him, and he didn’t catch on to my hints at all. Didn’t realize I liked him until I told him lol. Been together for almost 7 months now and we’re so in love! Thank goodness I’m always fine with making the first move
I’m an introvert and I don’t understand flirting. I get slightly aggressive when idiots attempt to flirt with me. I would rather have them be honest. The way to get through to my spark I will never tell.
I'm the awkward introvert boyfriend. I sent her a message on tinder saying, " I was in a road trip and drove passed a sign that read rest stop next two miles and and I thought to myself damn that's long". She was impressed
I m the introverted guy and hope she approaches me as she shows interest in me even though I'm a weeb . Tell me about story so that whenever I get tagged I remember this video and learn something new . 😂Maybe someday she does , we shall see
Knew each other for a few years. He'd taken a bit of an emotional hammering from his previous relationship. I kind of fancied him but had no idea it was reciprocated. I'd had a bad time at work and he was very understanding. The following week I approached him to say thank you for your support. His response was "it's all right. You know I adore you." Apparently I looked stunned and awkward. I messaged him a couple of nights later to suggest we get together to watch some Firefly. We got to chatting and he asked me out, to which I gave an enthusiastic yes. Only three months so far, but he is hands down the warmest, kindest person I have ever been involved with.
Met online, he asked me a question about my hobbies, I talked, he genuinely listened, cared, and was attentive. He was patient, kind, and communicative. I fell in love with him. I stumbled, he stumbled, but we ate there for each other.❤️
We're both really awkward. I was half asleep, just talking out my ass in the group chat via voice messages. Accidentally let it slip that I've kinda always had feelings for them. They asked me more about it. We moved to private dms. I explained that I never made a move because I didn't want to mess up our friendship. 6 years of friendship can be spoiled so easily with a bad relationship. They started giving mixed signals, I just kept reiterating my points, and how hard it can be Completely missed them saying they liked me back. They had to say it really bluntly after they realized it went over my head and we had a laugh about it. Been 7 months now, and I'm surprised every day by how amazing they are. We've never been closer. Never been happier. Having known them for 6 years already made it easier to just... transition. We already understand each other and know how each other tick, so we can focus more on just,,, making each other feel like the most loved person ever.
When I graduated high school I had to move back to my home country of Singapore because of national service. I had lived in the United States for all of my teenage and brief adult life, so I had no one in Singapore besides relatives to talk to. I've been a musician and I love playing the guitar, and I thought, out of a whim, it would be interesting to play guitar in public on one of my off days from the army. The stuff I played is heavily influenced by my favorite band, Ling Tosite Sigure, whom are known for some hardcore vibes stuff. A really attractive girl who was passing by the mall I was playing at that day apparently recognized the song I was playing and said that my guitar playing and voice were better than the original. (BS Because TK is the best guitarist and singer in all of Japan ;) ). But I went with it and said thanks. She hung around for a while, telling me to play more and I ended up playing like 20 or 30 songs worth of Ling Tosite Sigure songs for what was like a little over an hour. The last song ended because I got a cramp in my hand from the picking. We ended up hanging out for the rest of the night and its been about half a year since then. We're not dating (yet), but I think I might try and shoot my shot.
This video made me realize that my female best friend was actually making moves instead of just wanting to hang out at lunch/ weekends and playing Sniper Elite 4 after school
I was 15 she was 14. I was best friends with her older brother and their mother saw us being flirty occasionally. Eventually she pulled us aside in front of everyone and asked.. "Do you like her" I nodded. "Do you like him?" She nodded.. "okay great, now you're dating" That was 13 years ago lol.
I'm not really extroverted but my boyfriend is the real introvert. He was in my research class in our college. I saw him and I really adored him a lot by just looking at him. So I started talking to him and we hit it off well. He always wanted to be with me to hang out and for some reason I can tell that he liked me too. Became friends for 2 weeks and after that, we started dating. It was fast but somehow we really worked out and our relationship is really genuine and kind. We see eye to eye. Almost 2 years together.
Reminds me of when I was in college (I graduated a year ago) in a physics class, and I noticed this one girl kept looking at me, and we constantly were catching each other’s eye. I purposely tried not to look back because I wanted to know for sure she wasn’t staring because I was. Anyway, a couple of days if not weeks go by and I could tell she was really looking at me by her own merit, which actually kind of scared me. I just said screw it and sat next to her one day, and we kind of hit it off. For some reason you can just tell when people gravitate towards you, It’s a weird thing, you just know you two are fit well for each other. This girl was sooo beautiful 😩 Naturally so fit (slim thick they would call it, I didn’t know at first though), stayed active, my type, cool hobbies, and sooo beyond smart. She was actually a senior in high school, yet she commuted during the middle of her school day, twice a week, to go to a college physics class 🙄 I was a junior at the time, so I didn’t want it to be weird, and I should have talked to her and got closer with her, so nothing came of it. I went to school out of state and her family was actually from where I was from, so maybe in a few years I’ll check up on her and ask her how she’s been. She made it real easy to talk to. Although idk why she initially gravitated towards me, I’ve seen what she’s been doing and she’s probably too good for me 😂🥲 Sorry for the long comment, you just reminded me 🥴
Yeah, no...I've mentally prepared myself for being alone, I'm still pretty young, but I'm a bit depressed and self-concious so I'm definatly not making any moves, not to mention I'm the quiet kid where I'm at😓
My girlfriend called herself “stupid (her name)” and I knew I was going to be in love with her. Later she tried to type in her password in her computer with her nose and in that moment my brain went “oh no, I’m so in love with her” I’m still in love with her
5:28 This story reminds me of myself I basically loved this girl from afar even though i never had anything to do with her, never spoke to her or anything, I accidentally told a guy that i had liked her for a long time, he opened his big mouth to everyone and people laughed but i didn't care. I thought about approaching her and telling her how i felt but i could never do it cause i was so shy and nervous around her. I also thought she was out of my league. She probably ended up hearing how how much i had crushed on her from another guy and thought of me as a coward for not having the balls to approach her myself. Its been over 8 years and even now I still think of her at times.
Step 1 : Find happiness while being alone. Step 2 : Share the happiness with someone else if you have the opportunity to do so. Being "stuck" at the 1st step ain't that bad to be honest... What I understood from these stories, is that it "just happened"... (And what I mean by that is that they weren't actually searching for a SO...) Anyway... I hope you're having a nice day. Cheers! o/
16:48 aahh this reminded of my sad story I was bestfriend to a girl for 4 years and I was in love with her for like over a year and told my friend that I love her and I need to tell her. Told her she rejected and then we started ignoring each other and then that precious friendship is gone. It's been 6months since that friendship is gone and I still couldn't get her out of my head Edit- atleast we are friends again she tried to talk to me
Something to keep in mind. Even if us introverts notice the hint. We might just write it off as wishful thinking or playfulness if we like you. For extreme introverts like me, the fact that I don't make an excuse to get out of a conversation after 10 or so minutes is a good sign.
I'm an introvert but not that fence problems been the women who have come on to me haven't been my type at all and the ones I've liked have had no interest in me as I'm also disabled and basically they've told me as such that because I can't drive I'm not worth thier time so currently I'm not looking but I'm still hopefull and yes I'm an introvert who can confess if I have to
Edy Wolf Mad respect , you recognized the rich liberal women wholl treat you like a ;foster animal" and the STRAIGHT UP " Shopping for replacement/new dad for kids" type
oh 25 minutes of feeling miserable, lonely and sad while hearing other people happy stories, how exciting, now i can imagine how my life would be if i wasn't so god damn awkward and anxious
These stories be like: I said hi and we’ve been together for the last 60 years. Almost feels like *yesterday. Yesterday, there were 6.3 million people in Gotham City and today…not so many. The only people left on the street are the sort that enjoy the chaos*
Watching this video now with a girlfriend, it is unbelievable how much of a difference it does make for ones confidence having someone who makes you think you are worth something, make the awkwardness seems insignificant
Ah welp my story for me and my fiancee is flustering to say. Long story cut short I was in a bad relationship, I wanted to have a fling, and he actually tried to tell me not to do it. But I was persistent and welp I proposed this new years 2021♡ I can't imagine having anyone but him as my husband♡
Being an introvert, yet having a non-introvert life style throughout my early life. (Example being a fairly successful athlete and having a mildly successful collegiate wrestling career people expect you to be out going.) I was great in relationships short term but the woman I truly loved told me I don’t know how to express emotions and communicate like regular couples. Being told this did not help because, as you guess, I did know how to express how much that hurt. Hearing these stories makes me smile and a few made me well up.
No it won't. You need to actively work on bettering yourself and not letting life happen to you. Don't waste years of your life on the offchance that α girl will take α chance on you. Find ways to better yourself and make new connections, and chances are, you'll meet the one.
Tinderrrr and with an emoticon he never actually uses in real life. XD Turns out we had a ton in common and he had the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen from anyone. He was innocent and sweet and I really love that about him. I’m glad we are still together four years later.
Seems like a lot of people in the comments need to hear this. Just focus on yourself. Stop worrying about the fact you’re single. Focus on school, your career, or even your hobbies. Do things that will get you outside among other people and love will find you. I’m 22 and single af. In fact, I’ve never had a real gf my entire life. I’ve always been super awkward and shy… that’s who I am. But I refuse to give up hope. I have faith that one day I’ll meet that special girl. I know how hard it is to feel alone and like you’ll never find that special someone. Focusing on other things and putting yourself out there will help you forget about the fact you feel lonely, but it will also make you feel better about yourself while providing more opportunities to meet people. Nobody wants to be with someone who’s depressed af complaining about how the world wronged them all the time. My mom was that type of person. My dad told me that’s the main reason he divorced her.
Introverted woman. My now husband was listening to my conversation with my bestie, waited till I said something funny then just started laughing n joined in. I in my awkwardness asked him "why are you talking to me". Apparently he liked that n he asked me out. He also never asked me to marry him, just put the ring on and told me we were engaged now. I asked y he did that, he said "I knew u would freak out n run,so I fixed it for u 🤷🏾♂️"
So I have a similar story and I am the awkward guy. So this girl and I had always been close with the group of friends we had mutually, that being said I've always like her so after a night of liquid courage I texted and asked if she wanted to catch up since we had graduated and it went well, after talking and seeing a movie to catch up I told her how I felt and we started dating. We get married Saturday
guys if a women ever gives you her drink is because she trusts you not to drug it and also if she gives it to you, hold on to it because at a party people tend to drug it so dont just keep it on the counter or someone else. She clearly either likes you or trusts you