Give Your Boyfriend an Ultimatum WHEN... II Steve Harvey 

You nailed it !!!! I hope she reads your message !!! Because I Did !!!! Great advice ... I am on a 5 on and off relationship also .... Lmao !!! am dun

@@RackySal u'll be back

Is it a requirement that the show always makes sure the man is never there ti say his side in all of these clips of grown women trashing their other halves on national television ?! 🤔🤔😏😬😂

@@hawaiianrussian1047 tbh Steve reps the men and tells the women in the nicest way that they are stupid because they are not accepting the men's first answer only the delusions in their own heads. It be like.... Steve: so he said he don't wanna be married Dodo: yeah but he comes over everyday Steve: but he said he don't want you Dodo: yeah but I've invested so much time Steve: to the man who said he ain't want you...okay. 😭🤣

Women will forever believe anything another woman says it’s hilarious 😂

​@@hawaiianrussian1047Harvey believed her so what are you on about? 37 year old man can't even call the girl who's supported him through his mother's death that he's dating a "girlfriend"?

⁠@@berry6467ugh duh “ Harvey believed her “ his show is usually aimed towards pandering towards women?! lol and I swear whenever it’s a man trashing his other half or woman he’s dating and she’s not their to say her side don’t women always say “ well let’s her her what she has to say! 😡🤬” ?! 🤔🤔😏😬😂 that’s what im “ on about “

lol “ straight up “ sure 😂😂

My husband of 22 years ❤️❤️ after 3 weeks dating me. We were married until he passed in 2020. Men always know and act on it NOT after 6 years 🥲🥲

@@nadinedaoud2538 What a blessings that is !!!! I know he'll be waiting for you on the other side of the rainbow... God Blessings ...

@@nadinedaoud2538 the next gal he marries right away

Don't let him waste your precious time? She's not a victim. She clearly says it off/ on. They both have their parts in this. She simply needs to figure out what she wants and if not happy Move forward with her life. It's called personal accountability and responsibility not I'll give him a ultimatum and see if that puts him in his place..I'll show him. Ya that will show him right out the door .

She already wasted her time. And to believe a man should know his life plan at 37 is something women say. He simple doesn’t want to be with in a commitment with her. We don’t know why, but she has not earned it.

@@kristinakellogg1732 I 100% agree 👏🏽👏🏽..

@@deeogletree3394 The same can be said for HIM. Her identity isn't wrapped up in HIM or vice versa. They both have free will to choose to stay. She has for 6 years yet somehow it's HIS fault and he needs to be the bullseye to catch all the blame. She is a grown woman with her own life choices and she clearly saw no issues with staying. They both can handle this as grown ups and talk about what they each want and need from a relationship if it's not for eachother move on not give a man a ultimatum of If you don't say I'm your wife or fiance I'm leaving you. His best choice to say I'm gone. Men don't respect that but rather a woman who can speak her mind

@@kristinakellogg1732 Show me WHEN AND WHERE I said it was HIS fault!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It’s not for nothing! She has want she wanted, and now she changing the rules. But, she allowed 6 years to pass let her body get used up, and now she asking question. A man is going to know within months is he wants to marry you.

@@Roger-hs1dl this is certainly true and what else is true is that she had no one in her life to teach this to her. Sad.

​​​​@@kristinakellogg1732yeah but he's equally to blame, can't be using people regardless of whether you're grown or not, there are consequences to both of their choices. unfortunately he's not ready to value himself and commit to a relationship so that's why we are focusing on the woman because it's the woman who equally has not valued herself but is the only one in the relationship who's beginningto take off her blindfolds. As she said it was ON and OFF and might have given her false hope . If it was a woman who didn't want to commit, we would say the same thing to the man.

Leaving quietly is better

Nah fr, it’s hilarious how women love the idea of giving a man an ultimatum but the second you even bring up the idea in reverse of a man giving a woman an ultimatum boy do they have a totally different reaction 😬😂

@@hawaiianrussian1047It’s the same thing when it comes to marriage. Men aren’t supposed to wait to ask but a woman can take as long as she wants to give an answer. Not to mention, If she’s having second thoughts after saying Yes or says NO but wants to change her mind after he’s moved on.

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Yea…6 years…THEY wasn’t ready 😬😂

@@rosabessant4378 Why was she leaving it up to him? She had free will to do what she wants. She was ok obviously with them both being on and off so no one to blame but their individual choices

@@kristinakellogg1732are you ret@rded?

​@@m.a.1874Um you obviously don't understand common sense so I'll let you be 😂

U definitely said that💯

good 1

But somehow …if you even bring up the whisper of giving a woman an ultimatum its crazy how all of a sudden it’s completely different and every woman would get pissed at even the idea of a man giving a woman an ultimatum and just tell her to leave him just for that 😬😂

But if he’s not ready, why string her along for 6 years? He should’ve let her go and came back to her when he was ready.

@@emmabaidoo4299 …how does one string a grown ass woman along for 6 years?! And how is it the man is never on the show to say his side of the story in all of these clips ?! 🤔🤔😏😬😂

​@@emmabaidoo4299She has free will to stay or leave. Her choices are not his fault. If he is not ready to commit sit down speak your mind and Move on. No ultimatum given.

there's def a need get life in order before movin to the next step

Facts was a wake up call for me

Yea sure…that’s the problem 😂

You're always free to go lady, don't wait for the day he is out of your life forever.

Doubt so lol

@@user-sp2oe8pt3t She was fine with not having a title as well. She just a part of this as he is . She don't need to dump him they both need to go their separate ways

​@kristinakellogg1732 not entirely since she said it was ON and OFF. Neither was his family fine with it and already gave them a label

​@@berry6467That's just it. She was ok with it being on and off. Why she wanted to be in a non committed relationship is on her for so many years. She stayed . Not just the fact she stayed but she herself gave this man no title since she admits they BOTH were on and off. Whatever issues they have it's clear they both need to move on. We only hear her side not his to get the full transparency of the situation

He’s not serious about her, just enjoying what she is giving

@@alluringbliss4165 She must be ok in receiving what he's been giving for 6 years on/ off. Doesn't sound like she was serious about him either

Yes me to wondering what happened

@@jasminsantiago1390 I Think Steve Harvey Should Do That As A Realty Show Call "Where Are You Now, Y'all" 🥰😅

…so ughh….how is it all these grown women are always on this show bashing their bf’s/husbands on national television but somehow magically the men are never their to say their side 🤔🤔😏 I mean .. I can only imagine if the roles were reversed and it was a show of men bashing their other half’s in national television while she wasn’t their ti say her side I gotta admit I think this comment section woukd be quite different and all those grown women in those audience definitely wouldn’t be clapping and cheering him on 😬😏😂

​@@hawaiianrussian1047I hear you. I'm a woman and a lot of these episodes I'm like Where is the personal accountability and responsibility for ones own choices. Why the need or want to play victim and Oh he so terrible and Oh he the reason Why I'm where I'm at in life or I don't love myself then all these women high fiveing her like Ya tell it Girl. Please a woman with character and integrity about herself will never feel the need or want to play victim or bash men. Trust me a man will see and know her confidence and class. Simply communicate. No man bashing or ultimatums

@@kristinakellogg1732 we need more women like you 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 it’s just the fact that for years it’s literally almost every single clip of the same rinse wash and repeat “ my bf/husband is so horrible 😢 “ woe is me story and I’m shocked that eventually more people havnt point out the obvious factor that somehow the so called horrible bf/husband is never somehow here to share his side while getting bashed on national television by his own other half ?! And deep down I feel a lot of Steve’s audience def knows this but will refuse to point it out lol

​@hawaiianrussian1047 there's always three sides to EVERY story.....yours,theirs,&& the truth!💯

@@andreajones886 ….but apparently on Steve’s show somehow we’re only allowed to here her side? 🤔

…SHE is a grown ass woman not a child ain’t no other grown ass adult can “ mess with her head for 6 years “ 😂😂😂😂😂 and how is it on all of these clips the man is never their to say his side 🤔🤔 I mean I can only imagine if the roles were reversed and a man came on a national television to bash his gf/wife and she wasn’t there to defend herself wouldn’t the first thing women would say is “ well let’s here what she’s got to say!! 😡🤬” 🤔🤔😏😬😂

It’s always two sides to a story, most people tells their version to be their truth. It’s a possibility that if we were to hear his side we would be able to understand what’s going on in their relationship. 💯✌🏾

​@@hawaiianrussian1047there is no one freaking reason he could give that could justify stringing her along for 6 years. 6 years, like what??? My God!. Any guy that's worth his salt wouldn't do this to a woman. If it was me, I wouldn't sleep with a guy before marriage, period. That will filter the time wasters fast. But that's just me.

@@SolAbe-bd5id …maybe…just maybe…she’s doing this thing called…lying 😱😬😂 or something called bending the truth 😬 hmmmmm…. I swear if a guy was to go on a television show and just start bashing his other half infront of the whole world and air out all of their business without her there to defend herself and he said they were together for 6 years I can’t help but feel the first thing women would say is “ well where is she ?! Let’s hear her side of the story ! 😡🤬 “ and I feel you know that but you’re gonna choose to not acknowledge that😏 literally every one of Steve’s clips with women bashing there other half’s on national television how is it that the man is never there to say his side ?! 🤔😏 go ahead you can try to ignore those points and circle around the argument 😂

@@ForMySoulSistas it's clear that you have a bias against guys in general.

Leave her, life is too short. Sometimes the break up is the blessing. I’ve been there too and it’s been two yrs no contact and I’ve never been happier. You deserve better

That person don't really want you it's time to get out and stop missing out on better

What does wanting to be independent mean?

I bet she gon come bk knocking ​@@Wammoz

@@tinker2217 she need to find herself, I'll spare u what it really means

@@Megan6772 ….so your first thought was to go in the RU-vid comment section and tell this sad story?! 😂

set up the date but send her invite to go instead

@@hawaiianrussian1047 weird bc I outlined my objective clearly in the 1st sentence and the entire meaning was lost on you 🤔

Definitely not gonna agree with that not to be selfish but she need to do what’s best for her sometimes moving on she might find what she didn’t in 6 years factual

Better deal? It has been 6 years...

Too quick?!?! Its been 6 years and he can’t call her a girlfriend. She should actually be moving quicker!

@@emmabaidoo4299I wonder what his side of the story is and how is it in all of Steve’s clips they make sure the man is never there to give his side 🤔🤔😏😬😂

@@emmabaidoo4299 She has stayed and says she knows it has been on and off. She has her part in this as well. He isn't on the show explaining his side of Why he feels the way he does. Why it isn't working the way she wants. It's not ALL about her and her needs.