@@justaperson8261 it is possible to be in love with more than one person in your lifetime you know? But some career opportunities will not come around more than once
Yasmine Carr career opportunities will come and go, just as love. A career opportunity might not return, but neither a certain love perhaps. I care about love more. But to each their own.
One of my favorite lines in the show: "I dated Finn, Puck, Sam. Even thought I loved some of them, but by the time the snow falls in New Haven next winter, I won't know why."
so she was right! she wouldnt know what she wanted in her future so she made sure to find herself and secure herself in the world first AND THEN decided she wanted him, she was right
I think she had a point. Plus look how much Rachel grew when Finn dumped her at that train station. I think she needed to achieve her dream first. But sadly it didn't work out how it should have done.. :(
I highly respected Quinn's answer, she saw the BIGGER PICTURE for Rachel, she truly cared about her and knows that YOU come first (especially when you're achieving your goals). She realized all the things she overcame, teen pregnancy, getting kicked out of her parents house, giving up Beth for adoption, trying to keep up in school, while being in Glee club & Cheerios etc etc. and finally HER getting accepted into Yale all on her OWN. She knew Rachel can achieve her dreams.
Rachel: a straight forward and thoughtful answer Quinn: gives a straight forward and thoughtful answer Rachel: wHy?! Quinn: “you said a straight forward and thoughtful answer” *surprised pikachu face*
Rachel asked if she should marry Finn. Not should she break up with him. Quinn was right about that they are too young to get married but there was no reason for Finn and Rachel to break up at that point.
I missed the Rachel Berry from the earlier seasons who was more focus on her dreams than a boy. But that changed in season 3 because she seemed to care about finn more. So this makes me really sad and happy because Rachel’s seem to have forgotten what she's wanted her entire life but Quinn’s there to remind Rachel of what she's always wanted. To be on Broadway and go college, not get married while in high school.
I always kinda thought of it as the closer leaving Lima got the more scared she got, so she was subconsciously tried to find a reason not to. Like even if its everything you've ever wanted leaving everything you know is very daunting.
Rachel NEVER forgot about her dreams. Her dreams came first always, but she was just really in love. Why would you blame someone for wanting to marry the person they love the most? while trying to reach their dreams
This is why every Faberry shippers got an idea why theyd work as a couple. They brought out the best in each other. I wished glee had done more for this duo.
Rachel: I need your advice about...an adult problem Quinn: *HOLY CRAP ARE YOU PREGNANT?!* that's sounds funny in so many ways oh my God LMAO Quinn's face is PRICELESS
SO TRUE. How many teens rush into marriage, don't get to have their independence in the real world and find themselves. Then in 10 years regret it.. they end up going through a divorce and anchored down with 3 kids never having the chance to at least spend their 20's having their freedom 🙌
I love how Rachel goes to Quinn for an honest answer and when she gets it from Quinn, she’s like "that’s so mean" and also doesn’t want to listen even though Rachel went to Quinn; not the other way around
Yessss I agreed with Quinn but I think she shouldn’t have told them to break up entirely but to put their relationship aside and focus on the future and once they’ve gotten what they wanted then they can get married.
Marriage is a life decision, and a delicate thing. Here's why: Let's be real. Many relationships nowadays last for years or months or weeks. And many relationship mistakes were made because of what? Because they were too fast... Like, very, very fast. Not to judge if you don't agree with me which is fine, but I beg to differ. Teenage pregnancy is flying over the globe and it's not an unusual thing. Why do you think it happened? Because people are too fast. It's not our fault that we were too naive or just innocent. I mean, who's job was to tell you about it? I'll leave you to it. Now focusing again, based on my observation, DATING is different from MARRYING a person. Just because you say you love them very, very much and that person is what you think is the one, doesn't mean you have to marry them right away. Let this remind you who bore you first; your parents. Why do you think you went to school? To learn, find a decent job, and become independent. Why do you think some parents are too controlling or just don't side you with everything you want? Because they've "Been there, done that." Look, I know not everybody is the same, because who we are depends on how we grew up and how we were raised. But don't jump right away into ideas that you have to get married because that person is the one, let's back off a little bit. If you both truly love each other, why hurry? Why are you worried he/she will find another? Why the doubt? If he/she truly loves you and you truly love him/her, then we have to learn to wait. There is a reason why in story books and novels, there is always a task to be done. Words does not equal to Actions. You not only have to talk the talk, but you have to walk the walk. People can be very secretive and fool you easily, that's why a lot got divorced or annulled because they couldn't handle their real significant other. Not every thing, person, or time is fairy tale magic. So be careful who you're with because there are things that are just for show but it's not the truth.
Rachel: i want a straightforward and thoughtful answer. Quinn: gives straightforwardly and and answer and disagrees with her. Rachel: wait no that’s illegal
Watching this now that I'm older, I understand both parts. Quinn is right on telling Rachel she shouldn't lose focus on her dreams and her future 'cause she was seeing the bigger picture. And Rachel on knowing that Finn was her person... We all know time gave Quinn the reason at some point, but I also think that Rachel wasn't losing focus for a guy, she just put him inside the already existing dreams of her future, if that make any sense.
Quinn's advice is right tho. Rachel and Finn are the love of each other's lives but the reason that Finn let Rachel go to be a star in New York is because Rachel has always wanted a life bigger than him and Ohio. If Finn and Rachel had got back together (if Cory hadn't passed away and did the show), at some point I think they would have lost themselves in sacrifice for each other's lifestyle. Rachel and Finn definitely wanted different lives with different outcomes. Even without Finn(and Cory's) untimely passing I think Jesse and Rachel were meant to be together, the ultimately shared and understood each other's goals in a way Finn could not. I genuinely think Finn and Rachel were at their best in high school. They would have always loved each other but Rachel's goals and ambitions and Finn's ideal of how he wanted to live would have inevitably clashed.
Rachel deserved someone better than Finn tbh. She deserved someone like Quinn honestly. If Quinn or Rachel would have dated hypothetically, they would’ve helped each other grow and encourage each other because they’re both just as ambitious and headstrong. They would’ve wanted that for each other. That’s the only healthy high-school-college relationship there is.
Definitely not, Quinn is too pretty, perfect and sexy, for someone like Rachel, who is not able to stand that another opaque minimally, and Quinn would be a shadow too big for her. Her narcissism and tendency to be superior would not let her live if she had Quinn at her side. It´s a continuous competition against her being friends, but be girlfriends? Rachel would go fuckin crazy.
Yeah because what you really want to do in a romantic relationship is to fix the other person constantly and be their mom. I'm sorry but Quinn deserves better. Rachel is too immature for Quinn.
I agree - even though Rachel and Quinn both had their flaws, I see a way that they could both build each other up. I hope perhaps they could've become better friends and Quinn could've helped Rachel be less egotistical while still going after her dreams and Rachel could've given Quinn the strength she needed.
Yeah, that's true and deserves a narcissist and not a good one like Finn. Many of these characters in Glee, especially the female ones were highly manipulative and worst.
A cousin of my dad got married in high school. 40 or 50 years later, they're still together and are still happy. They don't have kids but that's because they decided not to have kids. My point is, some high school relationships fail, some succeed, and some have no effect on the success or failure of the future whatsoever.
In some states, you can get married even if you're under 18, provided you have parental consent and/or judicial approval. Though for the life of me I'll never understand why anyone would want to get married in high school.
Well I would never do that but there are many people who do it and it actually works:) have you ever seen One Tree Hill? Nathan and Haley got married with 16 and they were happily married!😍
I hate this notion that women shouldn’t get married to the one to pursue their dreams. If you have found “the one” don’t let them go because at the end of the day you will want that special someone to come home to you and enjoy a family with that person. I married my first love and I look forward to growing old with him. This world offers nothing that causes lasting happiness, so after you have achieved your “dream” you will realize the most important thing is love.
Honestly I would of told Rachel to stay engaged and go to college, and THEN get married! In reality there are people who marry while in college and live together and their lives go on. I don’t like how in Glee it’s like marry me for life or if not we are broken up for life. Like bruh..things can be worked out.
And they act like marriage holds you back from achieving your dream. It's not like Rachel was saying that she wanted kids at that moment. If that were the case, then that would be a totally different situation. I'm sure you can work on your career and make it on Broadway as a married and childless woman.
It’s kind of true. She never would’ve been able to have her star if Finn was still in the picture. Jesse was the perfect choice for her if she wanted to be a success
I think quinn made a good point, it is a better idea for women and men to have themselves first, i know finding the balance of career and love is difficult but i want me first, unless if you are able to have a supportive spouse who has the same goals as you and unless you guys are already adults when you start dating for high school relationships id just say take a break, go to your dream school, get settled in your dream career and then focus on love and family, im glad i didnt stay with any of the people i dated in high school, adult relationships can be and mostly are better and more solid than high school relationships, there is a big world out there, dont waste your time in your small town and not experience it.
This makes me wanna cry for several reason. I'll just name 3 reasons why. 1. My gift card doesn't have anymore money so they cancelled my Netflix so I can't finish watching glee😭I was on season 4. 2. it makes me sad because Glee ended. And 3. I'm sure people are probably gonna bash me and say to get over it , but I just really miss Cory so pls don't hate on me. Telling someone to get over a death over a TV character u genuinely loved and ALSO met , is like telling someone with a broken leg to run to the hospital.
I honestly agree with Quinn. Finn and Rachel are too young to get married, they're still in high school, they don't qualify for a marriage license, and Rachel has a bright future ahead of her which she can't have if she gets married too soon. Plus, they both have plans after graduation: Rachel is headed to NYADA and Finn is joining the army. There's no way they can accomplish their quests and still be together
To this day I still can't tell if Quinn was telling Rachel not to marry Finn because she wanted Finn for herself or if she actually cared about rachels future
Straightforward? Sure. Thoughtful? Eh... Santana (I love her) would just probably make a quippy comment and dismiss her, and Brittany would just say a lot of nonsense that would give Rachel an epiphany or something.
It´s funny. My teacher once told us once that the boyfriend/girlfriend we had where most likley not the one we´ll marry. And everyone: "Nooooo! He/She is the one! No not possible." The only couple from our class these days hated each other in this moment. Well, yes. Quinn is right.
I think she looks upset because she thought Rachel was smarter and more focused than this. She figured Rachel would never give up her future for a boy.
I hate how they made Quinn this wise and bery grown up person who could keep it straight with everyone and saw things from a bigger perspective, only to retcon it the first time we see her in season 4 where she's having daddy issues, and continuing them until she gets with puck🙄 If there was ever a character that should've stayed single on Glee, it was her, Kurt and Mercedes.
she’s got a point y’all. Don’t rush into things when ur a teen, how can u know that this person u love now you’ll love in your 20s? 30s? 40s? 50? Etc. You have the rest of your life to settle down. Spend your youth on you and only you. Find and love yourself first before giving yourself to someone else. There’s no rush to settle down yet there’s so little time to focus on you.
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