I wish Ms. Judy understood by her son being brave on the 2nd season of the 2 Coreys about his abuse he saved my 2 oldest children..my youngest child from being abused and 2 half siblings. My children saw that and it gave them such courage to come forward to me and the person only got 3 years but he must register for life. Corey left but he left a HERO!!!!! I just wish i could thank Corey.... He saved my babies. We will never forget him. I just wish i could have let Corey know what he did. Unfortunately we were reeling from the hell that broke loose... My kids cried so much when he passed. My son said his first son will be named after Haim.Rest in peace my hero.
Acie Wha I teared up reading this and bless you for sharing it. So glad your family was able to start healing and stop the abuse. What a beautiful legacy for him to have done things so incredible and beyond anything Hollywood had done for him.
God bless you & your children. I'm so glad he empowered your children to come forward so you could help them. I adored Corey Haim. I wish someone could have helped him back when help would have truly made a positive difference in his life. The underbelly is the worst place a child star, ANY child could ever be and I pray these predators are exposed for the unimaginable crimes they've committed against kids.
Corey Haim was an amazing actor and a sensitive soul. The abuse he suffered at the hands of evil men ruined his whole life. Such a tragic end to a sad and lonely life..
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Kit Shelton - I think it’s worse now. Look at all those Hollywood child pedophile rings being exposed, Hollywood is surrounded by pedophiles. Ben Affleck, Kevin Spacey, Tom Hanks, Charlie Sheen all convicted pedophiles and I bet there’s many more.
I completely agree, there are predators in Hollywood that act like they're your best friend and you can trust them, but in reality they're your worst enemy.
@@kitshelton8168 There are soooo many sick pedophilia rings still in Hollywood and everywhere!! Its the sickest most evil type of criminals out there .. And our CHILDREN are not being protected enough.. and the system lets them down consistently... IT'S sickening!!💔💔🙏🙏💔💔
she didnt live of him, he wanted to act, so she supported him, corey feldmans mum on the other hand forced him to become an actor, and even bleached his hair blonde, telling him you should of been born that way :(
Philip Baughen You are full of shit. Corey did not want to be left in Hollywood. She sold him out. Those pedophiles passed him around and there is no way as mother she didn't see something was wrong. You stop lying for her.
thats why the hollywood pedophiles chose haim and corey...both kids neglected by their folks..and were at adult parties doing drugs at a young age.. on the set of goonies sean astin even said feldman had no parental supervision ever..they were gone..same with corey haim
He was a great actor. and I think the original lost boys was and is still a great movie. and I just bought the box set and watched the 2 sequels which both had clips from the first movie. God bless you Corey Haim.
that what Narssistic behavior does they don't give a cent about anyone else or what they go through but themselves. She was a horrible mother who in their right mind let's a 11 year old go and live with celebrities she just wanted the cash$$$ he was just a bank account to her. Nasty woman..
I was so in love with Corey when I was a young girl. He was someone along with Feldman, who always had a special poace in my heart. It broke me to learn of the abuse and his struggles. Rest in peace Corey. I truly hope you are finally at peace . We will always remember you.
How can anyone be "too close to their son". I love my son with all my heart. He will be 24 in a couple of months. I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for him.
Someone who was not close to their child, someone bitter would say that. My son and daughter are almost 18 and 21, we are very close.... I feel the same.
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She said she would not change a thing, REALLY, When Corey did the movie first born he lived for 2 months with Robert Downy JR and Sara Jessica Parker, true fact, he was only 11 or 12 at the time. While i feel bad for her or any mother losing a child, she dose not own up to anything in the past. NO parent is perfect, but being a good parent means admitting and owning your short comings. She owns nogthing.
absolutely!!...ITS SO F...KING FRUSTRATING AND MIND BOGGLING AT THE SAME TIME LISTENING TO HER!!! LIKE U SAID SHE OWNS UP TO ABSOLUTELY...NOTHING!!! SHE WOULD CHANGE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING....SHE IS IN TOTAL DENIAL...THAT EVIL WILL FOLLOW HER FOREVER UNTIL SHE COMES CLEAN!!! SHE SEEMS TO BE INTROVERTED AND MISERABLE WHEN IT COMES TO REALLY ADMITTING THE TRUTH ABOUT COREY AND HIS LIFE/PAIN/SUFFERING! SEEMS TO BE HOLDING BACK!!!
I just adored Corey Haim , he was iconic in my younger years , I grew up watching lost boys and license to drive . Lost boys particularly is a cult classic , I'm 51 years old now and I wear a lost boys t shirt regularly which says Santa Carla the murder capital of the world . Corey Haim had an immense talent , an outstanding actor of his generation . It's so lovely to see and hear what a wonderful close relationship he and his mum had .
Is there anything you would have done differently about being a parent ? - absolutely.... Not. Hmmm... I am not dissing correys mum but she seems like s pretty naive woman to say the least. Bottom line is, is all these boys were protected more then they wouldn't have got into the mess of their lives. Corey couldn't deal with the sexual abuse he suffered. His mother isn't speaking out she didn't say anything about it or anything he struggled with personally. Either she wants to keep things quiet or secondly -- she has no idea and / doesn't Reli care about his abuse. God bless you corey. I hope you are in heaven resting away from this hell hole of life. You and river were too good for this place.
+Mimi shawi she may be one of those parents that is often in denial, it's easier to pretend things will be alright, will work out alright then to face them and deal with them, some people can't cope with being responsible and making the right decisions when things get difficult. He really needed someone in his corner to protect him from predators and guide him, I feel so bad for him. He was a great actor and I'll remember him as that.
Mimi shawi of coarse she cares. she's probably in denial or her son kept it to himself. people at times feel more comfortable keeping their sexual abuse to themselves or share it with outsiders, especially boys.
Omg how narcissistic his mother is. "Would you do anything different?" "No because I wouldnt be where I am now." Well your son might have been alive perhaps? What kind of mother answers like this. Horrible.
@@nelsonfan24 thats what i thought !, charlie says he was blackmailed by a few people, you would think coreys mum would have backed up corey fieldman about the abuse her son suffered, corey fieldman kept going on about "abig hollywoood star has not taken up the project yet" about his documentary about pedos, and who abused corey Haim, ive always thought that corey haims mum got to blackmail charlie first and thats why she and fieldman fight and becuase fieldman knew as well, he wanted a piece of the action and to blackmail charlie with documentary. It never got the traction it should because of haims mum denying claims, and fieldmans veiled open blackmail attempts over making of documentary aimed at "top big hollywood star etc". RIP Corey loved and missed x
Loving how she made it all about her. Her son died. One of my sons made a big mistake and ended up having 2 emergency brain surgeries within 3 days...but I'll be damned if I didn't fight for him to live.They said I was mean because I forced my son to live. Threatening him, taunting him....just anything to make him take another breath. And 2 1/2 years later ....even tho they said he'd never be the same...my son is currently flourishing. I don't know if it's because I refused to let him die or if it's because he had the will to live....but I'm thankful everyday. I would and never put my life or my problems before my child.
@@sirdopaminesjournal3292 shed not a shite mom she was a mom.who wouldnt give up on her son she knew her don better than anyone else she knew he could live she helped him so piss off saying she is a bad mother
she has to live with her conscience she ignored everything that was going on and she's still trying to ignore it being a movie star isn't the biggest thing in the world but to her I guess her sons movement through the ranks was worth it it's a crying shame now she has to live with this mess
I feel for her that she lost her son but then to answer the question like he didn’t have to tell me about the pressures because I was there from day 1 really???? If you was there so much how did your son get molested and raped and then had to turn to drugs because of it she could have kept that smart mouthed answer to herself
All Corey needed was love and protection. This breaks my heart. Having said that, may his family finds peace, and him eternal rest. Gone too soon. So sad.
Yes your right she was never there for him....i feel sorry for her cancer but when the truth was put to her about his abuse she brushed it under the carpet ...... that i dont like about her
@@oooh19 she got cancer way after in his adult life.. so there is no excuse for her. Things happen for many reasons maybe she got cancer to be able to ask him for forgiveness and yet some nassicist don't want to admit crap that they're guilty of they will always blame others for their nastyness and the evil crap they do.
She was not there for him since day 1 like she said, or else he wouldn't have been molested and raped by older men in Hollywood. I notice that when Corey talks about his mom he says that they're 'best friends' and she said the same thing in this interview. You're not supposed to be best friends with your child, you're supposed to be a parent. There's a difference. If she was a parent she wouldn't have let all of the things that happened to him, go down. And his dad didn't seem to be there for him as much. You can tell he had a dysfunctional family since that's why his mom and father divorced. How pitiful. He deserved so much better. RIP Corey. :(
***** That was not in God's fault, it was Hitler's and every and anyone along the lines who worked with him. Therefore I really don't care about anything you have to say, next time don't be so quick to "blame" God for a mistake someone else made.
Yes, I noted that too. Any parent that claims to be 'best friends' with their child, has poor boundaries and parenting skills. I bet they had a very co-dependent relationship, and it's her fault as she's the adult. Also, if you look at photos of Corey and his mother together, they look more like a romantic couple than mother and son. They way they hold each other. It's weird.
nel jauregz, NOBODY in this world grew up without some kind of dysfunction in their family! Period! Though I agree there seemed to be a codependencey his mom had and placed on him thats not good for a child. You dont know how all that shit was handled. I was raped at the age of 14 and it wasnt something i rushed home to tell my parents about. They also respected my privacy and didnt openly talk about it to family evet (to my knowledge). Point is, she couldve trusted the people in the industry who are charming sociopaths that are very convincing, she couldve maybe believed her son was in good hands. This day and age i think a parent might be more cautious and supervise all their childs appearances, but ya gotta think, this was almost 40 years ago and these truths are just now coming to the light. People were more trusting back then. Also, if youve never seen or dealt with a loved one addicted to drugs, especially drugs like crack or heroin then you have no clue the extremely difficult struggle of those that love them. We cant control others, only ourselves. Best thing someone can do is pray, love them reguardless, none of that "tough love" turn your back on them bs, and to recognise what enabling is and be sure youre not being an enabler. Extremely difficult and painful situation... I do sense some shadiness with her for sure. She changed her story that she found him dead when she got back from treatment. Right before that she said he went to EVERY appointment. Then she said he died in her arms. The 911 call shows that he was dead when she arrived... Sad sad situation all around.
I would say I have to blame her for what happened to him, she knew he was too young to deal with all of the adult world problems as a teenager, but she allowed him to do it anyway. She does seem very self centered and fake. At first I felt bad because I thought she was going through the drug problems with him all those years and then still had to nurse him back to health while she was battling cancer, but now after seeing the full picture I see she was only an enabler just wanting his fame and fortune to continue, so in the end she has only herself to blame for what has happened to her son.
You are confused, he did not say that at all. Corey FELDMAN said that. You guys are playing that game called telephone, and you both suck as the first two people of the game--in this thread anyway.
Are you sure you're not talking about Feldman? Because I can't find anything about Haim accusing his mother of beating him, but I have found statements that Feldman made about his mother beating him.
Laura Rose she's a demon smh she's hiding he was molested as a teen child smh saying you wouldn't do anything differently is fucking sad your not a good mother she's with Him since day one so she knew what was going on in the houses of these pedophilia mothafuckers she was in on it for the money and whatever else came with it
If she had taken him to the hospital at the first sign of his fever, he would still be alive today. the doctors would have discovered his pneumonia.... So sad. :(
if she would have taken him to the hospital, if River Phoenix never went out that night, if someone had tried to be there for Jonathan Brandis.... in the end we always say "What if" but what if he couldn't have been saved? Maybe that's how it was supposed to end for him.
+Sound Logic If it would be a situation of healthy person getting a fever for a few days you wouldn't run to hospital but, in case of Corey Haim who suffered from drug addiction and it was obvious that he had fever not because of cold; I would’ve take him to hospital and let the doctors to decide what to do!
Actually if he was snorting pills than it totally was caused by that. I myself almost died from not being able to breath ; which stemmed from me snorting drugs .
CHF is an inherited trait from your parents. It's Not caused by drugs, you stupid ass. I know because I was born with CHF and two other heart problems. Go back to school before talking out your ass.
H everyone! Been a fan of Corey for a long time! His mom sent me a picture of Haim. After he passed. She sent it last year. She sent me an email in return to mine. Very nice woman. I hope her cancer went away. Corey will never be forgotten. He was such a wonderful actor. Loved him in Silver Bullet.
Corey was sweet though, i feel bad for his mum but I don't get how she said she wouldn't have changed a thing...if we all knew about the abuse then she must've known as well. I think she's still grieving, and to be fair she won't ever get over it. Deep down inside, maybe not publicly, but honestly she feels at least partly guilty for the way her sons life turned out and his early death. I get how finding money is a struggle, but at the end of the day, she brought her son into this world and he deserved complete and utter care and security. eternal love should be first, over anything. Maybe if she gave him more support or put him on the right track in the first place by keeping an eye on who he was with, he'd still be here today. We all know he took drugs to deal with his past, and I don't blame him. From the 90's, the real Corey was already a foot in the grave. I'm happy that he tried to put things back on the mend in the 2000s, but a history like that is going to stay with you forever. He didn't deserve it, and as messed up he was when he left the world, he's always gonna be pure as he was when he was 14.
Yes, she knew about the abuse, if only because he talked about it himself on the reality show, The Two Coreys. She's really in denial, and I also found that very disturbing that she would not have done anything differently.
SO WELL SAID!!! AGREED TOTALLY...ON ALL COUNTS!!! I SO FEEL COREYS PAIN!!! "A HISTORY LIKE THAT IS GOING TO STAY WITH YOU FOREVER", U COULD NOT HAVE SAID IT BETTER!! I WAS 5 WHEN I WAS ABUSED, IT WENT ON FOR YEARS, I AM 60 PLUS, THIS WILL STAY WITH ME FOREVER!!! COZ ITS HAS DESTROYED ME/MY LIFE!!! MY LIFE WAS TAKEN AWAY!!! never had a real/fair chance at life!!! totally ruined!!!
What a strong lady l also lost my daughter 12 years ago from suicide l now am going through Breast cancer. It’s so hard to go through cancer but to loose a child there is no words to describe how much pain you go through to be going through both at same time. God bless a strong mother lady
I love you bro hope your not suffering hope your safe and happy i got your back i need that prayer for myself and fam feel emotional hope your mom's good God bless
Rape or any kind of sexual abuse can not only mess you up as a child but it never quite fully goes away for the person. It causes withdrawal, sadness, confusion, anger and betrayal, among other things. People use drugs to then cover up the emotional pain that follows. It's extremely sad and extremely real and what most don't understand is that this happens every day and to someone you know or love. Very heartbreaking and challenging to say the least. Many don't or can't face the abuse, the abuser or the feelings that come when remembering. That is why I believe, it is easier for many to self Medicate than it is to face the abuse head on.
Where was the mom when Corey got molested by Charlie sheen and those other men...uh PROBABLY COUNTING THE MONEY Why did you let that happen to him that's probably how he got addicted to drugs anyway rape is hard to come over You say you love him and that you were best friends he said that to but You should have been more of a parent then a friend I'm not blaming her but now she should know take care of your children
Clear ! She was probably at a Hollywood gala ball, seeking a wealthy suitor. Shame on her. She did nothing to protect her vulnerable son. I sense a bit of narcissism in her. So sad.
My sister,my friend only three weeks ago lost her 33 year old brother from pneumonia. He didn't feel well, thought it was a cold,refused to go to doctor, next two days he was found dead in his bed. So handsome and healthy , gone just like that. Please do not take no for answer when a family member refuses to go to the emergency room. Force them. Had Corey's mother only been more persistent . I cry for Corey each and every time I see footage of him. God bless his soul May he be in peace.
Pneumonia can be deadly. Sometimes underlying health issues make it worse and harder to fight. It is unusual for a young healthy person to die from it. Drug users, people with hiv/aids, or other health issues, elderly people, are all at a higher risk. Going to the hospital could have potentially saved your friends life. I'm sorry for your loss.
So is one of those people (like my own mother) who can pretend anything is "normal", as long as all the neighbors believe everything is "normal"....smh....
I cried a lot when he died and now reading Corey's book it brings it all back. Corey HAIM was born on my grandfathers birthday. Corey HAIM died on my grandmothers birthday.
He was an amazing actor my child hood celebrate crush I have seen every movie hes ever been in I truly miss him so much he was an amazing person addiction is a hard disease to battle I cant even begin to imagine how his family felt or still feels to this day but he will live on forever through movies his family is fans and his legacy we love you Corey
She talks from the perspective of herself most of the time "I", "my" and she talks mostly about her cancer. I found this a bit strange, as the interview was supposed to be about Corey. "My grandchild", instead of something like, I'm so glad Corey had a child to survive him, there's a little bit of Corey still in the world. I think all of that speaks volumes.
My little brother died ten years ago (he was about to turn 30) and if someone had shown me footage of him, before talking to me, I would've been in tears before she asked me any questions... she seems complete detached.
@@OasisJK22 no, I don't mean that at all, so if that's how I put it, then it's my fault. She seems detached. To be fair, she might be on medication to help her cope, so I shouldn't judge.
Judy is feeling alot of guilt for putting her son in that selfish industry letting him work to the bone until his shine was polished away, money maker is all he was to everybody. Very sad.
She only talks about herself. I don't think she feeld guilt. She makes up a story for herself about what happened that makes her look good and the centre of attention.
@@11and1is12 that what Narssistic behavior does they don't give a cent about anyone else or what they go through but themselves. She was a horrible mother who in their right mind let's a 11 year old go and live with celebrities she just wanted the cash$$$ he was just a bank account to her. Nasty woman..
What kind of mother is she to see your son roasting with fever and not take him to the ER? How did she not know about the abuse of her son by hollyweird bigwigs? Or was the MONEY rolling in her only concern.
I don't anything about celebrity, but I know about addiction, and his mother makes statements that make me believe that she enabled and probably instigated the "shame-cycle" that is so insidious in cases of addiction. So sad.
He was amazing and its heartbreaking how evil, sick people took advantage of him and destroyed his innocence. Just a child with big dreams and I pray for justice against any sick MF that harmed him or any other child anywhere...
I like what she says that within seven months somebody's live can turn around and hit you in the face and you don't know what is going on.I loved Corey Haim.God bless his beautiful Mother.RIP Corey and God bless his Mom.
I feel your pain Mrs Haim I lost my son when he was 27 and my mother died from throat cancer I pray 🙏🏽 for you to have comfort and peace from Jesus Christ 🕊️🕊️
Awe! Corey is unforgettable! Sweet soul gorgeous guy! I'm glad he is at peace now! He is surely missed , I watch his movies and the ones with Feldman still! Rih Corey ⚘❤
I just wont to say as a person who has been abused my mum done wot wos best for me Judy never let this happen in my opinion she dealt with it how in her words her kid wanted to deal with the abuse leave them alone unless u walk in someone's shoes don't judge only God is the judge and jury' so much love to the to the haim family love u Corey there is only one corey the other Corey is a .... good luck with you wen u get judge God sees all Corey haim will rest in peace and will go to the holy land corey Feldman will go to his promise land we he will be delivered to his God enjoy this life Feldman the next one is waiting
I loved watching him in the movie license to drive.. that's one of my favorite movies... He was a great actor.. will be greatly missed... Your a strong woman and had a wonderful son that was there to take care of you... May god comfort you...losing a person who you are so close to is very hard.. I lost my mom 9 yrs ago and I'm still struggling with it.. people say it gets easier well it doesn't... U never get over it..the pain stays in your heart.... Your a beautiful woman and I pray that u find comfort in your heart...... Corey haim will be greatly missed and may he R.I.P.
I miss Corey! I wish I could have met him, we have birthdays that are two days apart, and we are a year apart in age. Judy, is a lovely lady and Corey was great taking care of his mother during her cancer treatments. Corey was a beautiful soul, inside and out.
Really sweet lady i met her and corey years ago when i was a kid. He was a real talented actor and a real sweet kid . i feel for his mom that must be horrible losing your son and best friend all at once and fighting cancer you are one strong lady . may hashem bless you
From the time this interview originally aired up until today, what progress has been made to out and jail child predators in Hollywood? None. RIP Corey. We know what you went through.
This was and is a tragic waste of a young life. This woman seems detached from him whilst making out she gave a fuck. Child abuse - no excuse whatsoever....I hope he has now found the peace he searched for. RIP MAN 🙏🏼❤️🌹
