God's Word to Abuse Victims, Compilation 

I feel like I have been a magnet for narcissists, psychopaths and sociopaths. Everything I cared about has been ripped away from me. People have turned against me because of lies. The most recent narc, now ex husband, cause me to research deeply to the point where I realized I was raised by narcissists and most relationships I had were with narcissists. My mentally handicapped son has been brainwashed by his father, and he has turned against me too. I thought he never would. I feel like I have lost everything important to me. I keep praying and trying not to give up. This message really spoke to me. What a gifted preacher. I wish the churches in my town had preachers like you. Powerful. Please pray for my family to be restored better than before. - In Jesus' Name

22 yrs of verbal abuse, told I was ugly,and told I can find someone else that he never loved me ,he just saved me from my grandma ,he cheated on me with co work , and calling his ex,wife behind my back and sending her money , and I go without things , blame me for taking things he misplace, if I could find a place move I would but housing cost to much for me and my older kids, half time I feel I have walk eggshells around him, I pray every day God will send me money or away to get a new house so I can be free from him , it what keep me going

This is SO necessary. Thank you for not shying away from this subject. For way too many years, the church has hidden from what needs to be done to help save people who cannot figure out how to escape a deadly situation.

Thank you so much for this message. It is healing my very abused hurt heart. May the Lord bless you richly and anyone else reading this.

I'm grateful as a Christian survivor of childhood sexual, physical and emotional abuse and ongoing gaslighting, manipulation and control in my family, that my church has enough insight and an elder who is also a child psychologist, to include this in a bible study with a small group as so many Christian churches fail survivors of abuse by compounding hurt and shame

is this for real!!? my heart felt cared for listening to this ✝️❤️‍🩹🙏

Thank you for these messages. They spoke directly to my soul. I needed this. God bless you.❤

Praise the Lord for your message, and my heartfelt thanks to you for your ministry. When I met God I had the most beautiful Bible studies and couldn't get enough of His Word. When I met my ex partner in church, we became heavily involved in church leadership together and, on the outside, lived a Christian life. In the beginning everything was wonderful, and I thought all my prayers had been answered. Later, in private, my ex partner was very violent, and many Sabbaths involved bashing, strangling, rape, and endless name calling and verbal abuse, often the night before attending church service. He rarely left bruises in obvious places, and I learned how to cover or explain away the rest. We were such hypocrites. I often feared for my life. The only thing that kept me from committing suicide was continuing to pray that God would lead us both out of our circumstances. When I left him for the final time, after seven years, my horrors with PTSD began. I saw his eyes change from blue to black in my dreams, and had regular flashbacks about being strangled, raped, beaten, spiritually crushed, and controlled. I found church services and Bible study triggering, so had to stop and resort to praying - much of which was hurt and confused prayers. Where was God, my all-powerful and protective Father, when I was being bashed? Why didn't God Almighty intervene in my case? After reading about others who experienced miraculous intervention from God, I felt that for some reason God had cast me aside and forsaken me. But confused, because I know God is love. For a long time I have been praying for God to show me answers and help me understand His love and my confusion. I've had people try to logically explain sin etc, but it doesn't hit the heart in a truly changing way in this case. Your message hit my heart today. For the first time in five years, today I found joy in scripture. Thankyou.

I love your comment about letting abuse rule over you. It is so very true. I allowed myself to be controlled by the past and remained miserable. Christ has the victory, and living in Him means being in His now rather than a distressing past.

Thank you, not just for the message, but for the tone and sincerity in your voice and expression.

Thank you, I had to leave my 33 year abusive marriage . I haven’t found a pastor that agrees with me about my decision. I’ve come to realize that they care about the marriage more than the person. Does God hate divorce, yes but he hates abuse more .

Most of us i guess are hurt with god and show the abuse on weaker people. Only christjesus grace heal us back into your love. Thankyousaviour for bloodshed as lamb of god. Amen

My dad abused me as a child, I'm an adult and going through healing from those wounds

Thank you Pastor Jeremy. I just left a very abusive home, having to leave someone behind there. It was a big system that reached into the church. The Pastor was notified and asked for help, saying he would meet and never did. The family is in the church with his brother giving sermons. The brother was notified 4 months prior. Silence from all, including the Pastor and Brother, assistant Pastor. Thank you for stepping up, for bringing this to the forefront. Your words mean so much now.

Awww this little light of mine was my favorite song in choir when I was little ❤ it wasn’t until I was an adult I found Jesus because he sought me out, praise God!

Yes, “you make me do it” what the abuser says

This video brought me great comfort in an hour of great distress and pain. Thank you and may god bless you

My ex-fiance brutally beat me in July over a two day period. How I loved him though he was rarely kind, was not faithful. I loved him anyway, though God warned me. To hear this, that Jesus accepted the abuse, for such a "broken" one as I. Thank you for this message!!

I felt this... thank you for making this video. God is now my refuge and my strength. There is no need to drive into the ocean anymore.

I have always had strong bond with god. The amount of times god has directly helped me and protected me from harm is unbelievable. I cried watching this. I feel like this video was sent to me by god. Thank you truly from the bottom of my heart thank you. 🙏🏾

I needed this today!

Wonderful message of truth and hope. Thank you pastor.

'This is SO necessary. Thank you for not shying away from this subject. For way too many years, the church has hidden from what needs to be done to help save people who cannot figure out how to escape a deadly situation.' what about people who cannot figure out how to heal from a wounded past

I truly appreciate how you shared truth with such gentleness. I need this today.

The third story about trust really got me 🥺❤️ Thank you for your content and for helping us feel less alone in this world. I’m a child abuse survivor. Started my healing journey in 2022 (late Dec 2021 to be exact) and still in the process of being restored. May Jesus protect all of us survivors of abuse... I do feel like we need extra protection and care and gentleness. The enemy likes to prey on the most abused and vulnerable via our trauma - and I say this from experience. May Jesus shield us and keep us safe. ❤ P.s. I was beaming by the end of the third story when you were talking about relationships and religious trauma and finding those who speak God’s love and care into our lives. I thought about someone in my life who did, recently.

This ist so beautifull. Im so glad that JESUS is good and not like Man, WHO lie and abuse. JESUS is Holy and He love me. JESUS is not Narcist and He will always protect my soul 🩵🫁🩸🙌 AMEN 👑🔥

I could cry right now. I needed this! Thank u 🥹

Thank you for sharing this. I will listen to this over and over.

i need to hear this may you remain strong i Jesus name God bless you im grateful !

Thankyou so much. This is God sent to me. thankyou so much.

Thank you on this subject. I have been through all these abuses. It hurts ,cripples anyone.

Thank you for this powerful and necessary message

Thank you❤

You are a loving man.✝️

Thank you for this message, I really needed it today. Good is good, he brought this to me with his perfect timing. May God bless your ministry.

Yes thanks for this. I hope more ppl can watch this.

Thanks very, very much for this teaching 😮😢😅

I was in a three months relationship with someone who emotionally abused, manipulated me, gaslighted me into thinking I was the problem, I was believing him at a point that I was the problem but his red flags were just unavoidable because no matter how gaslighted I was by him, I still had my reservations about him. It was too much for me to deal with emotionally so I had to end things with him. It’s just after I broke up with him I found that I wasn’t the problem after all, he gaslighted me into thinking I was and that he had the typical traits of a narcissist. Made me dig deep in my search of whom a narcissist is because I didn’t know the word has a whole lot of meanings than it means to a normal lay man that hasn’t dated or been with a narcissist. Lo and behold, he’s a walking red flag. I’m glad i left him. Please walk away from anyone who treats you like shit and can’t take responsibility for their bad behaviors.

Shalom!!!😊 thanks SO very much!!!😥😥😥😥😥😥😥

Thank you Pastor Jeremy.

Thankyou

It is ALL in how I THINK. PERIOD. God won’t answer the cries of children, much less adults. BUT, the minute I listened to that stupidly thought “ it is all in your mind”. I started listening to positive affirmations, I took the 21 day challenge, morning and night! INDEED MIRACLES! IT IS ALL IN YOUR MIND, THINK WHAT YOU WANT AND IT SHALL BE! Being in FEAR ATTRACTS MORE FEARFUL SITUATIONS AND PEOPLE! It is ALL IN YOUR MIND!

I've been a Christian for a year and a half. I put all my trust, love, worship and repentance in God! However, mu life is STILL spiraling into the abyss! It doesn't matter how hard I work and try I'm in bad luck!

Thank you. 😢😢💔❤️‍🩹

Love your messege God bless you

This is my curent situation, I am tired and I want a way out..

Amen thank u so much!

Thank you

Thank you Pastor. I needed to hear your message tonight.

Please pray for my relationship as I’ve been abused for a long time. My face is broken and my girlfriend is in jail and I somehow love her so much I just wish God would change her heart of stone. I’d give my life for her to just be a good person. She’s pretty smart and has so much potential. I’d give my life to death for her to change. Even if it meant her not being with me 😞 Please pray for me. I’m so broken……

i feel like ur talking to me i didn't do anything to deserve the abuse i feel soo hopeless an crushed at times an i am feeling like the lady i wanna be free

I wish this series addressed the repentant abuser.

Thank you so much!! Thank you for the church!! I needed This!!

Thank you, Sir. God is with you. Continue and evil will not be to be continued. You are gifted- God is among us now, we don't even require as much prayer to contact what God thinks like- orders- desires for our salvation in every way including the substitute holy Savior idea God invented and built for us and it is at work keeping us alive on life support until we reach the fully safe destination of the other more protected realm Heaven afterlife. I am never going to quit stopping EVERY deception in the World today in the sector I am working in. We are together United the human real thoughts of God. See you later after we defeat the last shred of this Satan-excrement going throughout the world for its last version this time. We can stay safer after a little while more. God will have a real new order instead of the evil new world order. We will remain the same and therefore figuring out more adaptation to the life only allowed to go righteously as time progresses. Our learning from God is ongoing, but we are already given enough which is the miracle blessing we mainly need and obtained thanks to God the one true God. I'm glad God made the real family of his of what we really are when not deceived, and I will try to help you. I've gotten through some other stuff lately but unable to help you on here because of what was required of a life change temporarily for God to solve the other problem momentarily. As long as these pages are around I'm still aware you're on here for everybody no matter what too. Scott Gross

I had that done when I was deathly I’ll have me bread crumbs during it, I ended up looking nuts trying to get Him to lie and mess with my head, he told everyone I was crazy but He used Jesus and prayed with me , but lied and I feared for him… I had a tbi and he used that time to lie and gaslight me , never sincerely apologized, I have other abuse, raped, gaslighted , I just want to sleep , cheated on , they play with your mind, blame you and you’d been faithful & honest, I’m so tired , had me apologizing every time I said don’t lie … 3 years and I cry weep pray and my head is meat up, now and he had someone already.. my head was so bad my health tank nerves burning all over and said it was all me now he’s getting marred after convincing me God married us , messed with my walk with God … I’d had so many things happening to me , I’m so sick I just want God to take me, a parent always provoked me made fun of me infront of others, they even admitted to trying to get me mad and I wasn’t doing anything, I attract people who have no conscience why won’t God take me? I don’t want to hurt anyone, I live in a constant nerve pain reaches a ten burning , my brain and heart can’t take it anymore, I serve & love and forgive and apologize… but I’m always told I’m to much , and I pray God Help!!

Great video, the challenge with this perspective is that many takes it as an obligation to stay in the marriage because after all Jesus was abused too

Thank you for this video.

Jesus tried to get out of the abuse of the cross but he could not. I have been abused by so called Christian’s horrendously. They brainwashed me to feel so bad about myself I thought I deserved abused. Which was false. God tells believers to avoid abusers. If you can’t avoid it you should try to endure it and do the best you can .✝️

In the hope that this may also help: 2 Corinthians Chapter 1 verses 1 - 11 Isaiah 51 v 3 & Isaiah 54 v 11-17

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God help me, why do I feel you have abandoned me?

Then, pastors need to more supportive to help the woman (or man) to leave the abusive situation.

AMEN AND AMEN!!! I KNOW HOW ALL OF THE ABUSES FEEL!!! BUT THANK "GOD FOR ISAIAH 53" NOT ONLY BY AN SPOUSE BUT ALSO BY PEOPLE IN HIGHER POSITIONS!!! I REMEMBER THE INCIDENT WITH THE MOTHER AND HER CHILDREN DRIVING INTO THE OCEAN!!! I AND MY FAMILY, WE ARE NOT VICTIMS BUT "WE ARE MORE THAN A CONQUERS IN CHRIST JESUS!!!" I PRAY FOR THOSE WHO DON'T KNOW "JESUS" IN THE PARDON OF THEIR SINS... AND THOSE WHO ARE DEMONICALLY IN SLAVED!!! "I AM THERE THAT THOSE EVIL DEEDS DOES NOT HAVE RULE OVER ME AND I PRAY THE ABUSERS COME TO KNOW "JESUS" AND ALLOW HIM TO ENTER INTO THEIR STONEY HEART AND GIVE THEM A HEART OF FLESH THAT THEY MAY INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF "GOD!!!" THAT'S IN TRANSPLANTS "JESUS GAVE HIS LIFE THAT WE MAY LIVE!!!" "JESUS WAS/IS THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE FOR ALL HUMAN BEINGS!!!"

From personal experience, I will say the woman in the mini van likely did not plan to drive into the ocean, it was a reaction she was probably unaware of in the moment. She was not allowed to perish, there are no accidents in this regard. However, this is not an automatic reoccurring response from the universe. We need to learn gratitude for being saved without asking, and how we can change from that point forward

If he was abused why do we have to be? I can’t think about anything other than wishing it would all end now.

Where is your church ?!!! I need counseling like this

Hello Pastor - does god allow or permit divorce if the partner is abussive ?

Remember that psychological abuse and trauma happens to little children by their own parents. My experience nearly killed me. The signs in the children are noticeable if one knows what to look for. Look. Please look.

Do you guys have any more material for those who have experienced abuse?

Don't forget about parental alienation as that is very much abuse to the children and targeted parent.

My husband Punched me so hard that I almost drop while I am carrying our 1 year old Daughter, I lost trust in him ever since, I want to Separate from him but my child... How am i gonna do this alone I have nobody with me😥

Please do more on this subject because I’m dealing with mental, emotional, verbally and physical abuse. I’m becoming bitter and hateful towards my abusers. I want better, but I need to isolate to remain safe, plus I trust no one. 😔 I love Jesus but I feel I burden him with my prayers of help, or else I’m not worthy of receiving help because of my bitterness and refusing to forgive the abusers as he did, will stop him from hearing my prayers.

This is me

While I believe in Jesus and was born again a long time ago, I have experienced abuse from the time of childhood to now. I can forgive, but God doesn't seem to fix the damage, and I question just why am I here at all? The only conclusion I can come to is God is a great rug maker, because I get walked on, and many others get walked on too, figuratively. Where is he? Where are the guardian angels to protect? It simply happens, and I wonder if maybe someone is sitting down on the job??

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3 AM ...my heart 💜 is weeping, wishes it had the ability to use a Kleenex Tissue.... biggest question is WHY??? Why why why??? And how so many are willing to jump on the band wagon and be willing to destroy another person that did them no harm and without any proof of any wrong doing?? Not having the decency to listen to both sides of the story..... They walk on a filthy dark and dirty road,they cannot see truth,or clearly see what they have become...sad....so sad...my road is now difficult , I do not know this road i have been put on and have to navigate without a map....its is getting lighter , there is a man here, i belive he is a construction worker...he is clearing the way...he carrys a road sign ..he give instructions..... another soul whisperered to me. .....his name is Jesus Christ.....He Will Get Us Down this road..we are safe...he is Power...He is Righteousness...He is Truth and he is Love and Justice.......

I’ve been abused and am being neglected and God hasn’t done anything. I’m thinking he doesn’t fucking exist. There’s no justice

I simply don't believe there's a God who is just.

I think your still evading the subject. When will the church stand up against the wolf and defend the lamb. A lot of words but no help.

Thank you for your understanding let me just say one thing when nobody believes you because the person that is hurting you is such a great guy and everybody believes it must be your fault and even the very ones that you thought would support you don't even believe you let me just say Our Father in Heaven sees it all and He knows sometimes I feel like that's not enough because we want to be rescued but the truth is he's already rescued you now you need to walk in it I was told to turn the other cheek put my focus on the mark of the High Calling of Christ and not to respond to people that are trying to break me. For me not being physically abused that was hard for me to take if it's only emotional, is this good information for a Christian wife that can't seem to get out of victim mode? It seems like just knowing that God knows the truth sometimes is enough even without an immediate rescue. Sometimes yoy just wants someone to believe you and to stop blaming you. Please let me know if this is the wrong way of thinking and please let me know how we can grow spiritually from covert emotional abuse and neglect

Children are abused to death everyday- how is that love? Why?

Pastors,men like this fella,by men,are castigated as "new age and a message like this is always mocked as "social issues"and for a major reason.I find NOT ONE scripture in the Bible that that expressly and strictly and EXPLICITLY says in point blank terms a decree against domestic violence such as something like "Let no man of ye be found among thee that raise thy hand against in violence of anger the wife thou hath chosen as mother of thy children lest thou be,in my wrath struck down like one struck down by the thunder bolt this sayeth the Lord thy god that ye mayest learn to fear the Lord o'israel for I am the Lord thy god."JUST ONE verse like this is all it would take to convince me the Bible isn't a chauvinists book.That's all it would take.JUST ONE. Yet I find complete SILENCE on that specific topic amid all other topics that the Bible does discuss AT LENGTH. Ponder THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!

You gave no help to the abused , God hates abusers.

God doesnt care

Thank you❤