Godly Relationship Q&A | How to express interest, long distance dating advice, setting boundaries

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In today's video Cory and I are chatting all about Godly relationships! We discuss how to express interest without pursuing, long distance dating advice, how to prepare for your next relationship and more! If you enjoy this content please be sure to like, comment & subscribe!
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@LindsayAmelia Год назад

My church offers pre-marital counseling. It wasn’t only about preparing you for marriage. It was to help you decide if you should even get married; if you’re evenly yoked. It saved me from getting engaged to the wrong man a couple of years ago. 10/10 highly recommend.

@_RandomAsmr Год назад

That's awesome! My church does the same thing. We also have spiritual mentors that we can get advice from in this area. Dating is really the time to see if this is someone that you can see as your husband.Marriage counselling allows for us to talk through those deeper things to really get to the heart of compatibility and just really exposes our heart.

@unbelaneablebeautyy Год назад

Wow! You just taught me something. I thought a prerequisite to pre-marital counseling was that the couple IS engaged. Now I see that it’s not. Glad that worked out for you. What a blessing

@charismaable725 Год назад

This is awesome.... Where can i get this pre-marital counseling on you tube channel...... Thanks

@godsgirl7201 Год назад

❤❤❤

@lelamaciolek1166 10 месяцев назад

I’m think it’s a good idea too. I told my daughter that I wanted her to do that if she got engaged. Her and her boyfriend didn’t think they had any use for it, but ended up going and she is glad they did. There are all kinds of weird or just different expectations people can have.

@aleciavasquez3677 Год назад

“Instead of worrying about what people will think of you, worry about what GOD will think of you.” Of that was real.

@chinazoucheaga4825 Год назад

"You can attract the right guy in the wrong type of way" That statement nearly took my edges out 😄😄😄😄😄. You two always bring it with the godly advice on dating. Never gets old! Love it!

@TheParentCounselor Год назад

Oh my my. When he said what nature you appeal to is the nature you'll receive and even went so far to say if his wife had appealed in a different way he MiGHT have moved differently... 😳We need this kind of honest preparatory counsel in the kingdom!! Thank you. Great Content and Truthful Share.

@conolivia Год назад

Out here being 18 and listening to this lovely couple’s advice😭 glad your video came up to my recommendations

@SilentPotato1234 9 месяцев назад

Im 16 ❤️ 🙌 great video

@jusdoinmari Месяц назад

I’m 19 lol

@freshiamurungi7708 Год назад

Am 20 and I always pray for a Godly relationship ,,this video has made me to keep praying and not to settle for less

@Berily123 Год назад

😂😂I'm 20 too and I'm waiting too At the right time our FATHER WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN..

@rejoycesuniverse7009 Год назад

@@Berily123 20 here too, waiting, preparing and praying for same th😂❤

@Berily123 Год назад

@@rejoycesuniverse7009 😂😂

@akinmoladunoluwanifemi8622 5 месяцев назад

20 too and praying and waiting

@luvv_amaka 2 дня назад

Almost 20 here (in less than 2 months), also praying and waiting ❤

@calebkisakye3003 Год назад

I never knew that long distance relationships had that advantage of focusing on yourself and God . Many people told me it's risky, you can start seeing other people and falling for them, very easy to get heart broken. Like basically, they were only talking about the cons and not the pros. I didn't know there was a pro/pros to it

@melaniefuentes7429 Год назад

There's a lot of pros to long distance!

@jayoncummings3419 7 месяцев назад

Thank you for this!

@Jasmyne444 Год назад

There was so much wisdom in this…too much really! I really appreciate that you guys did not “romanticize” dating, but shared real honest biblical advice. It kind of makes me take the rose-colored glasses off of the process of dating and meeting the “one”. So much wisdom!

@QueenZsWorld Год назад

this popped up on my recommended today, first video I'm seeing from y'all. the best advice I can give is, ask God! how do you show interest? ask God and He'll instruct you. how do you maintain a God honouring relationship, ask God! in ALL YOUR WAYS ACKNOWLEDGE HIM and HE WILL direct your path ❤ thanks for sharing! God bless

@LeahsEssence Год назад

Thanks for stopping by!🖤🖤🖤

@Prophetessrina1 Год назад

Your so welcome sis!!

@jordartb.3571 Год назад

Hey sis 👋🏽 thanks so much for this video. God really inspired this, I NEEDED THIS TALK, He has been revealing a lot of these things to me in my current journey. I appreciate you both and the light you bring to this world.

@amaraiheanacho7179 Год назад

You are so fine

@aliceriley1173 Год назад

I'm a 65 year old great grand mother, I'm so proud of the content I see on your channel. Thank you for shing the light for Jesus. I just stumbled upon you today and I subscribed right away. God bless you!❤️🇹🇹

@anikasamuel3945 Год назад

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@elioracoker7446 11 месяцев назад

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@50shadesofshazy24 9 месяцев назад

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@nderituVc111 12 дней назад

I am grateful for a Godly relationship. I am grateful for my marriage. I am grateful that I got married to my best friend. I am grateful that I have three health beautiful and handsome kids while still in my twenties. I wish happiness and contentment on every marriage.

@lolla2710 Год назад

"Missing the purpose of the current season " Y'know Adam was out doing his job and not begging God for his SO🤣He was busy doing the job God gave him. GOD was the one to say "Hey, you're a little lonely, you need someone." My goal is to focus on doing the jobs God gives me and be so focused that God has to be the one who tells me "Hey! It's time! Here is someone I meant for you!"

@blandinea2501 Год назад

I love you both. Please keep sharing and spreading Gods love. Most of us singles wanting Godly marriages need this. I turn 29 October 1st and I am still a virgin because my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and I am waiting for marriage( Gods yes for for my life). I used to believe that once a guy is a Christian I don’t have to spell it out to you the reason we have to wait until marriage to have sex but I was shocked. As Corey said, it’s sad. But I came to realize that setting boundaries at the beginning helps a lot. The beauty about God is that His plans are always the best. And His timing is perfect. So patience is key.

@Mamo_Modise Год назад

It's the fact that I sent that 1st question on your ig and thank you so much for answering it and the advice !! Love you guys ❤❤😍

@ForMySoulSistas Год назад

@11:40 You can catch the right man in the wrong version @20:20 it's not because you're both Christians that you are in a godly relationship it gotta be intentional and Spirit lead Those were deep 💯 I'm 31 and been celibate since 2016 I tell that right away so as I don't waste any body's time and I defo wanna do premarital counseling Very good questions and video 👍🏾

@Cc2971 Год назад

I'm glad that Cory said that a man has a sinful nature and a Godly nature. The nature that you appeal to will be the nature you get. So, that is why it is so important to dress modest and discipline yourself as a Christian (woman) and to stay in your lane when it comes to temptation. It is so real and it will mess up a potential relationship because then the man will get what he wants from you and flee and you (as the woman) will end up hurt. Unfortunately said but so true. We still deal with flesh and blood at the end of the day and we have to guard our hearts until marriage. I'm glad a man such as Cory touched on this topic so well. Thank you for this.

@torriclark6860 Год назад

I’m proud of you two. Keep providing Godly advice!

@LeahsEssence Год назад

Thanks mama!☺️🫶🏾

@michellegreen4230 Год назад

Thank you for sharing man & woman of God! This is truly full of knowledge, understanding & wisdom. May your ministry continue to be blessed. Amen!

@ZoeysMusings Год назад

Singleness is a gift that not many possess and I'm one of those who do not possess this gift 😂Yessss let men pursue us as women and lead. "The bait you use will impact the fish you catch." Preach Brother Cory for the ones in the back 🔊🗣️🙋🏽‍♀️Boundaries are so important for a long-term relationship to flourish. Amen, Leah to inviting God into your relationship. You need to intentionally do so to benefit from His goodness. So true about speaking about being a Christian during the first conversation because it's supposed to be a part of your identity. Thank you for this sage advice, Leah and Cory!

@LeahsEssence Год назад

You’re welcome! & Thank YOU for always tuning in & watching!🙏🏾🫶🏾

@ceeinuc 3 месяца назад

this did not even feel like almost 30 minutes it was just so good 😦😦 like … i very much needed this to remind me why i even want to be in a relationship, a God-honoring one !!!!

@taiyeowu3361 Год назад

I love you guys! Not everyone who identify as a Christian lives as one. Christianity is not lived on ones terms, but on the terms of the one who purchased us with His blood. Your Christian life should be evident.

@araellaverse 10 месяцев назад

"you can attract the right guy but the wrong version" now thaaaat hit

@angelinahoyos9926 Год назад

Love how Leah mentioned how the being super forward in the past was not always fruitful (I felt that!) and her journey on how it changed how she reacted to similar situations later on. I really enjoyed being able to hear both perspectives on the same topics too!

@tonettewilkes13 8 месяцев назад

It’s so refreshing to see a true man of God of our generation. It is a blessing to hear him speak with so much wisdom and clarity. You can tell that his words come from a place of spiritual maturity, confidence and passion to seek God first in every single thing he does. God bless!! Please continue to share content. I appreciated the wisdom here!

@shescultivating Год назад

I really like the advice about the long distance dating. The other questions were good too. Gets me thinking about potential stumbling blocks I haven't thought about.

@_RandomAsmr Год назад

I had two long distance relationships and it had its ups and downs. One pro was that we had the opportunity to just focus on each others' heart.We weren't distracted by the looks, or if his breath smelled that day or all the superficial things we can focus on.The con was that we didn't get to see each other in our natural elements as much so when we did see each other it was always full of revelations and not all were encouraging. :>

@hope-bg4wh Год назад

I am 21 and this yt channel is a blessing. New subscriber here I love ur channel honestly it brought me closer to God 😭

@markita.hardenhome 4 месяца назад

"Christian themed life"😅😂...... that's sooooooo good! There's a difference when we're intentional😊

@lelamaciolek1166 10 месяцев назад

I love how you shared about drawing back and leaving room for him to take initiative and how he took it!

@promiserobinson5113 Год назад

Amen! SO thankful for you all!!

@toplobster1040 Год назад

"If you're living a life that doesn't need God's holy spirit to empower you, then you're not living a godly life." Wow! What a truth bomb. I thought this would be basic but you guys truly care about honoring God. ❤

@mbinaomukuambi2459 Год назад

Love this. Very informative and affirming. Keep sharing guys, we see you and we are here for it! 🤗🙏🏾

@Ivylaismusic Год назад

Your husband is very handsome and you are beautiful and you believe in Jesus, gosh, you are blessed!

@vdub742 Год назад

Thank you guys that blessed me so much!!!! 🙏🏽❤️❤️

@ladyt8631 Год назад

Thank you for sharing! Deff needed this message. God bless y'all !

@MariahCampbell Год назад

Thank yall so much for this video! So inspiring and definitely needed. Love you guys!

@KheperMAAT Год назад

Your husband is very spiritually mature. Continue to follow his lead remaining grounded in bibical principles.

@catherineidenyi783 Год назад

And he's so handsome. Thank God for men like him.

@tusiimegift 10 дней назад

Hallelujah 🎉🎉🎉 Glory to God.

@hopeolivia590 Год назад

yyesss this is sooo good thanks for sharing xx - you can tell people will honour people in your relationship if they honour God in their life this is KEY they should be walking it out long before you come along🙌🏽❤❤

@kawiekumda2272 Год назад

❤thank you both for taking the time to do this video!! May His blessings continue to overflow in y’all’s marriage!!

@cherishu Год назад

I just love you both. Thank you so much for these types of videos. Much needed. ❤

@nolwazimnguni4429 Год назад

Thank you so much for this video Leah, learnt so much 🙏🏽💗

@AdaAda_ Год назад

Wow this video is 🔥. So much wisdom. Thank y’all so much🙏🏽.

@theparttimehomemaker Год назад

This is GREAT advice for single and engaged Christians. I wish I found this years back!

@charityzinyuku6923 Год назад

Loved this you guys! Stay blessed and may the Lord continue keeping you😊

@lynnmutebi2316 Год назад

Thank you for sharing, May your marriage continue to minister to the world

@candacedawn357 Год назад

I love the cozy background. As a woman who was born and raised in The Catholic Church, there are people who are and have been called to the "religious life" or a religious vocation which meant they stayed single, whether they felt called to become a priest, brother or religious sister (nun). I found a life of serving others as a nun to be attractive, but I didn't go that route because I knew that I couldn't be a nun and be married and I've always wanted to be a wife and have a husband.

@keirys.a.5796 Год назад

Loved this video! Thanks for sharing! God bless you both!

@gratefulandblessed7194 Год назад

This was so beautiful and so clear. Thank you.

@pjphat19 Год назад

I am definitely sharing this video. Thank you guys!

@temiloluwafolayan33 Год назад

Wow! You guys did justice to those questions. Thank God for you both, and God keeps upholding you.

@AshleyT716 Год назад

Great video! Beautiful couple. May God bless continue to bless everyone reading this.

@eyethumfazwe Год назад

Thank you for sharing such wisdom. The advice will come handy especially as I wait for the man God has for me. God bless you

@Leah_spears Год назад

This video is super interesting. Great advice and y’all did a great job explaining everything .

@sabinefrancois9709 Год назад

That was great! I’m glad you brought Cory on to offer the perspective of a godly man, as well.

@sherriholcombe5428 5 месяцев назад

Thank you both much for these wisdom nuggets. Love this❤

@glorymwangi2472 Год назад

This was soooooo helpful. I could relate to quite a lot of what you were talking about. I feel so encouraged and this has given me some tips to apply and answers to some of the things I've been struggling with. God bless you Leah and Cory and may He continue to use you for His glory more and more 🙌🏼 Definitely sharing this widely

@ndiamartin7274 Год назад

So real and so raw. Great advice, thank you for letting God use you and your marriage for his glory. God bless your union.

@KimsCreations12 Год назад

Ya, correct. Easy to make decisions on what to do but difficult to maintain it when you meet someone you love. Thank you.

@daughteroftheking3220 Год назад

My favorite Godly couple. May God bless you even more!

@christabelkuokorkotey7407 Год назад

Please let's have Cory more times on the channel . So much Wisdom from you two. God bless you . Much love 🥰

@toplobster1040 Год назад

Both of you are so well spoken! I need to work on my speech so that I can attract a smart man like you did

@safietakoalga2942 Год назад

Thank you for this video. I've learnt much from it. The advice you provided will surely help me.

@jeremywelzcher Год назад

Awesome video. Thank you bro for sharing the wisdom God has given you. And thank you sis for creating genuine Christian perspectives and content for Godly dating.

@zariahpatience3486 21 день назад

loveee everything about this video PTMH for your godly union 🙌🏽

@IdaraJoy Год назад

This encouraged me 100% 💓 I love how much value there is in this discussion based on scripture. And the balance of directness and grace is beautiful!

@tonettewilkes13 8 месяцев назад

His first answer alone 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

@sarfycrave4760 Год назад

You two are both so beautiful. Thank you for blessing us with this. I really needed this. Waiting till marriage and it is not easy. Now I'm encouraged to continue on course as the King prepares to bless me with my king. Shalom🙏🏾

@TexasGal. Год назад

Excellent video from an inspiring couple. This will definitely be one I will refer back to. Thank you!

@user-hp8en7lh5r 9 месяцев назад

You restore my faith in Godly relationships..I love you! God bless you ❤

@kosemaniadegbenro9115 Год назад

Great video as usual 👌. Thank you for the advice ✨️, I learnt a lot.

@alishabrown6308 Год назад

Great content!!! Very encouraging…thanks for posting ❤

@Sarah_116_ Год назад

This was such a good video. Thank you y’all!

@teddymugambi Год назад

This was very insightful. Thank you and God bless.

@gomop4649 Год назад

Thank you,absolutely encouraging❤️

@comfort_nelson Год назад

You guys have landed a new addict/fan! The way I will binge watch your contents ehn... like, I would watch and watch on repeat. If you are ever looking for your videos on RU-vid, I'm the one who watched it excessively until it deleted itself, sorry in advance. This is absolute goals! You guys just stirred my faith up a notch higher, it's godly relationship or nothing else will do honestly!

@Karlisa Год назад

I love everything about this! It was so insightful. Thank you for being a couple willing to stand boldly on your beliefs and helping others to pursue relationships that honor God!

@levi3433 Год назад

Timely video. Thanks guys 🙏

@nefelibata_sa Год назад

Woww!! Thanks so much 🤍 God is so good!! You guys are amazing!!

@ariari1641 Год назад

Thank you!! God led me here today. He reeled me in with your fashion and hair videos lol, but this is what I truly need. This was so refreshing and insightful. This wisdom is helping to lead me in the right direction as far as getting back out there and choosing to date in a way that honors God and me. This gave me hope. "Relying on God to help you maintain your standards" was a MAJOR 🔑 🗝!! Blessings to you two. You have a new sub here!🙋🏾‍♀️💓

@mybeautylife3 Год назад

Thank you for this video, it was very helpful and encouraging. Glad to see you uploading again. God bless.

@LeahsEssence Год назад

I am glad you found this video to be encouraging and helpful! Thanks for tuning in🖤

@ceevi1 Год назад

Thank you for this video. I agree with discussing boundaries on day 1. It's something I'm doing and sometimes guys think when I say I'm a Christian it just means I go to church. I have to break it down for them so they can run for the hills or stay.

@leonnaemeka1795 Год назад

Wow, I just bumped into you guys from nowhere, and I know it was God leading me to this amazing advices and tips from you guys on dating and relationship. As a single guy who honours God and waiting on God for the right one (spouse) and who desires a Godly relationship, this was all I needed. ♥️🙏🏽 Thank you Corey and Leah, you guys are so handsome and beautiful 😘❤️ God bless you guys for dropping this jewels. I really resonate with it on a 💯. Going to follow you guys page right away. Much Love ❤️❤️❤️

@tenaciouslyme Год назад

Thanks for sharing! I greatly appreciate you and your husband!

@ibukunoyinloye194 Год назад

i love what you said about being intentional about honoring God in the relationship and not just identifying as Christians thinking that is the definition of a Godly relationship but choosing to be intentional about God being at the center, also setting boundaries and mentioning it on the first day.

@augustinaogbodo2886 Год назад

You both inspire me...#Godly relationship all the way#

@lakiascott5349 Год назад

Thank y’all for this! I really appreciate it guys! I’m going to rewatch this 😅

@debralitton4600 11 месяцев назад

Thank so much for sharing this. This is so practical

@melodyindigo550 11 месяцев назад

This is truly great teachings! Thank you guys

@carinemorrison9836 Год назад

This was so helpful! Thank you

@rodlynehope Год назад

Thanks so much for the wisdom, this was extremely helpful in allowing me to be a bit more open with God about seeking a holy relationship with a man. Again, thanks so much 😊.

@brittbianca25 5 месяцев назад

I loved & needed this ❤

@shamaralee5602 Год назад

Great perspectives! Thanks for sharing

@stephanieogwulu Год назад

As usual, loved the truly godly perspectives and counsel, thank you Cory and Leah♥

@LeahsEssence Год назад

You're so welcome! Thank you for watching🖤

@karina.celestine Год назад

So many good nuggets from this video. Thanks, guys! 😌

@LeahsEssence Год назад

Yay! I’m glad you enjoyed the video Karina☺️

@latonyadampier9449 Год назад

This was so Good 👍 👏 Thank you both for sharing. GOD BLESS 🙌 🙏 ❤️

@jayrob7415 Год назад

Very good information and godly points. Thank you for this video

@DAVIDANDEBORAH Месяц назад

So good! Thanks for sharing!

@tshiamodise Год назад

Great video. Thanks guys!

@phenomenonto328 Год назад

I really needed this 🔥❤️🙏🏾 God bless you! With love from South Africa 🇿🇦

@teeinfluencesworld6729 Год назад

Thank you for the reminder that we need be bringing up our walks and faith in Christ in the first convo. It sets the tone and it will be clear if you should continue forward in getting to know this person.