Sooo, about dating. 

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Yes this is so true!

And I think the opposite applies as well, he may not be all that in the looks department but if he love God, act right and work hard he’ll become handsome.

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As the saying goes, "Handsome is as handsome does."

Yes and really, until you're married before God he is not your husband. So many people jump before the finish line. It's better to marry than to burn. And some men will propose just to get husband privileges

@@israeliana honestly i think people forget that sex is marriage biblically speaking

This isn't given?

@EliteAthlete15 you should have the wisdom to interact with women towards exclusively dating one person towards marriage

@@queengkzi3942 yep and that's why we should not be having casual sex. Why tie ourselves physically to people in a spiritual marriage if they are not our spouses

I disagree. Some people genuinely want to hear God but have difficulty discerning the voice of God. This can be due to immaturity or also due to blockage from spiritual warfare. It may also be that God is being silent due to the person being in the wilderness time of testing. It is not as black and white as it seems on the surface.

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That stood out to me too

Exactly!!!

That part!

Facts

And I would like to add fear as well

Ahahaaahahh

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🤣🤣🥺🤣🤣😭🤣 so wholesome

Crazy thought

Man… this has been a thought for me

I was prayed over at a church conference this weekend, and my intercessor mentioned that too. I began to pray for my future husband and ask the Lord to break all chains of bondage and sin.

Except when he doesn’t and you’re almost 40. That’s when your faith is really tested but God is still good. And even if a husband never comes, living for God is still the only way to live and totally worth it! God is good!

@@Actavella Amen ♥

@@Actavella Don't be fearful that your age will preclude you from having children (if that's, in fact, what God wants you to do). If Sarah had a baby at 99, surely God can make it happen for you. Or, perhaps, there are other routes (or conceiving) that you and your husband can explore.

Whew! Hope lept in me honey

Amen 🙏🏻

Yeah but christians are not any better, everyone is messed up. I know christian women who married non christians and they treat them better than a christian would. Oftentimes christian men become toxic and abusive. Plus not to mention the sexual problem. We are not supposed to die from loneliness and burn with passion our whole lives. What if that "magical christian prince" never comes across? Some women are sadly mistaken thinking waiting for such a long time is good. In biblical times ppl didn't have this problem because they married at 16 but nowadays it's nearly impossible for young people to wait until they're 30 and above to get married and stay celibate at the same time. It's unrealistic.

What I find confusing is born again Christians who are encouraging you do tow close to the line of purity?! I'm like are you not reading the same Bible/listening to the same preaching? 🤔

yeah I fell for a beautiful woman that led me into sin she was a christian which I believe she was she told me how are we going to be together an we not having sex an we wasn't married at the time I was confused at the time an should have stopped talking to her but lust is a strong emotion an just was blinded by her beauty wish I was stronger in my faith

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that part had me crying 😂😂😂

When you're from the south side of the Kingdom 😭🤣

I missed him saying that the first time! After hearing it, I played it multiple times in a row 😂😂

One of the best parts 🤣

I've been looking for a comment like this! Finally😂😂😂

I nearly passed out from laughing!!!🤣🤣🤣

I was looking for this comment 😂😂

I’m happy to see Breeny here she inspires me ❤

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Lmaooo same!!!

Me too

Spoke to my soul!

Love your channel Faye!

A saved bad boy 😂😂

So I’m not the only one that sees this?? Maaaaannnnnnn this see them everyday

Exactly thank you

Absolutely! It is not talked about enough. It’s a very real fear. I have PCOS so my fertility is already on the line. But whatever is God’s will, so be it.

@@dyanimoriahkeep praying and have faith 🙏🏾✝️ The Bible says that if you delight yourself in the Lord, then he will give you the desires of your heart 💜🔥🙌🏾 (Psalms 37:4 )….And also make sure that you’ve repented of your sins and is truly seeking God and turning from your wicked ways and trying to be a righteous person because the Bible also says that the prayers of the righteous availeth much; meaning that the prayers of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results 🔥👏🏾 Be encouraged sis 🥰

NOPE. Smh And that's why women are not permitted to teach. When you do speak... it's usually right after making the wrong decision. If God is good (and He Is) AND, God Is all powerful ( That would be omnipotent and He Is) , AND you have FAITH that doesn't flex. THEN it doesn't matter how long a person needs to patiently wait on The Lord. Because In Him, all the limits, constraints, times, and boundaries are removed. I've heard Him called, "The God of the last minute!" LoL I regularly called Him, "The God of the last Second!" As I matured in my faith and grew in the knowledge of His Grace I realized "the last Second" still does not accurately describe His habits for His Word records that Jesus Himself spoke concerning this, explaining that there is purpose in His delay. ( Side note, "The Lord is not slow to keep His Word, like many understand procrastinate or dilly dallying. No, He Is patient towards you. Not wanting anyone to have to die and go to hell." My own paraphrase of 2 Peter 3:9 you see? There is Purpose in what seems to be His Procrastination. In this instance, it's "so that none would perish.") Read the accounts of Christ raising Jairus' daughter from the dead. All three accounts, in order, start with Matthew's. Then read John's account of Jesus raising His friend Lazarus from the grave after four days of being dead. And this is so important, the account of Issac's conception. From two people the bible says who's bodies were "as good as dead!😵 Heb11" If you would only believe, then, you would see. It doesn't matter ”when” you meet your spouse, or how old y'all might be. Because for those who delight themselves in the Lord, He knows the desires of your heart. Just like the one amazing night that God gave 99 yo Abraham and 98 yo Sara POWER (🥳🥴😴) to conceive Issac, so also as Eph3:20 again, my own paraphrase tells us that, "According To The Power That Works In You, He Is Able to give you good things beyond your wildest dreams." Couple things on that 1. According to the Power that works in you. Could be understood like according to how much faith YOU possess. 2. The use of the word Dunamis in this verse and the use of the word In as in ' The Dunamis at work Inside of you' versus ' The Dunamis at work Because of you' makes me consider that this verse is not putting the emphasis on how much faith one might have, but instead on the ability of God's Holy Spirit. So have faith! Because God is Good All the Time! That means even for the doubting Thomas out there! Who should instead have a greater level of trust in God yet still doesn't; BUT does sincerely, "delight themself in The Lord", it is possible to still be eligible for these wonderfully kind acts of God! Simply because He wills to do it out of the abundance of the Love, Grace, and Mercy that He has for us. He's the God that prepares a table for us, in front our enemies! Trust that If you think your time has expired, or you simply "always struck out." If it pleases God, He is more than capable of putting you on first base! Even of giving you HOME. 😎 😉 May God richly bless you Amen

This topic is so very important. When people keep asking me about having children, I adamantly tell them that my standard is to be married first (especially to a man of God). I refuse to bend on that desire. My desire to have children inside of God's Will, does not outweigh my desire to birth them in general. I have peace because I think of God's promise to Sarah.

I was going to write this if nobody pointed it out 😂😂 I love the switch up haha

Preston’s love island just took a tumble. 🤣

😂😂😂 fr be killing his moments

The “why are we sharing this?” Took me out 😂😂

This right here , had me on the floor slainnnnn 🔥🔥🔥

But the fruit of the spirit is... and against such things there is no law. 🔥

This hit me 😢🙌🏾

Amen

This 🙌🙌🙌

Thank you for sharing this is so good! My husband and I get into it and when I’m mad I always think it’s the worst but one thing I always come back to is that I’m thankful he loves God because atleast he listens to God and let’s God grow him. I made that my top priority when dating guys and I’m glad I stuck with it!

I know this from experience

Thank you.

Thank you for keeping it 💯. You’re a blessing

This was needed !!!

I love this!!! YASS QUEEN!

They’re horrible

@@XxMercuriiXx absolutely

👏🏾👏🏾 Yess sis.

"That Part"

Thank you for sharing.

Same here

What is something you wished you knew before you were married?

Explain😭

Same

That killed me🤣

So many funny moments but HERE is where I flattened! Lol

😂😂Very hilarious. I enjoy these two

Like I went 😂😂😂

😂😂”what?!” Yo was hurt💀

Sister just a word of encouragement. You’re on the right path. I pray that the Lord reveals to you his plans for your life in that area. If it’s not of the will of God for marriage, I pray that he uses you so mightily & that your life be extremely fruitful regardless of which. But if it is in Gods plans, I pray that you indeed have a victorious marriage! A huge testimony to go with it! And if there was any evil veil covering you from the eyes of your husband to see you, that it be removed now! Love you sister! God got a blessing with your name on it.

I relate, sis! I’m 41 going on 42 and the only men I seem to be attracting are men who don’t know Jesus. I’ve been tempted to date them because it seems like I just don’t meet Christian single men who are interested in me. If I were to date a man who doesn’t know Jesus, I know sexual purity would be nearly impossible. I haven’t dated since I gave my life to Jesus (2 years now) and this been messin with my mind lately.

This is me 💯 Glad to know I’m not alone

I know how you feel , turned 33 so the fear I totally understand.

Tonight I pray for your strength...May God who saved you, continues to keep your mind and heart and grant you the desires of your heart according to His will.

Op! I need this!

THIS!!!

A video about friendship would be good I agree!!!

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They have one now!

I now understand my issue

Men that are sold out to CHRIST are never pinks. Unbelievers don't realize that.

Im late to these 2. However, this absolutely hit me too.

The thing with Sarah is that G-d told her that she was going to have a child. G-d doesn’t guarantee that everyone will get married, actually the Bible says that we all won’t be married. So sometimes we feel like marriage is the end goal but Christ is the end goal. If you want to be married pray on it but don’t believe that just because you want it He’s going to give it to you. We also have to think to ourselves why would G-d give me to one of his children? What are the godly qualities I possess to even be qualified to be married and if I do not have them am I willing to pray and work on them.

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Literally

@@Christelletv Girl I am a witness that, that was a word! Literally right after this episode I cut that person off & now a year later I’m in a happy relationship! I say that to say, if you have someone in your life that you’re dating or, a situationship that you’re considering ending because it isn’t serving you, let it go! Make room for God’s pick to come! 💜

@@HelpDHelpUWOW, congratulations sis!!! That gives me so much hope. I done cut them ALL OFF and I’m like okay GOD it’s just you and me (which I love) but I am ready for more 🥲

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That's it!

My question also. The people who say to wait and be patient have the promise so its like… thats easy for you to say

Well, I've been single all my life (my dates & "situationships" don't really count imo) and I'm absolutely happy because of my walk with the Lord, despite 23 years of life with no real relationships. I struggled for years with being single and depressed but God worked in my heart through mentors and the Gospel. He changed my heart to make me realize that I must first be satisfied & happy in Him alone, because he is the only one who can wholly love us. In other words, if I'm not fully satisfied & happy in the perfect Creator alone, how can I expect to be satisfied & happy with another imperfect person in marriage? Paul's writing in ‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:32‭-‬33‬ (NASB) says: [32] But I want you to be free from concern. One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; [33] but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, " He's saying that those who are single and following Christ have the freedom to serve God more and focus more on Him whereas married believers are focused on serving God & their spouse, meaning they have less time to focus on their walk with Him. That's not a bad thing for married believers btw, unless it gets to the point of idolization. My point in all this is that God is all we need and we should be happy to serve him while being single because we have the freedom to do so (this is also a huge point in Ecclesiastes)! Married believers lose that flexibility in life with their spouse, kids, etc.

Something can be better appreciated when you look at it from a distance. I think it's mostly married people who appreciate singleness coz they've compared the 'burdens' of singleness and marriage. But you remind me of Joseph Solomon. He gave me the vibes of "I'm single and I'm cool with that", but this was before he stepped out of faith and all. So maybe we need to search more of single people who are happy being single. Also, I don't think Jackie was being controversial or being as brutal as you put it. Remember the context; some single people date and go through so many people (many options).... Which is worse than patiently waiting for 'the one' and not fooling with anybody. The WAY you wait has consequences

I’m turning 31 in 30 days and I’m a single woman practicing my walk with God. I’m not a perfect Christian but I’m working on fixing my relationship with God. It’s hard being single at this age but like you said, I WILL not settle. I’m trusting that God hears my prayers and will do what he does best and show out!

It’s nothing wrong with you but what are your actions/ saying in these relationships? Are you feeding his flesh or his spirit? Did you say you was a Christian but finding yourself compromising or sleeping with him? Im not saying these are what you’re doing. This is just food for thoughts. Because, no men will respect you once they feel like they have a hold on you with their sweet nothing talks manipulations or even you giving up the cookie. No matter how powerful tongue speaking or word of God they have in them, as a woman you need to guard your heart. Like she said, don’t start acting like a wife until there’s a ring on your finger. Until he is committed to you because is He who find a wife finds a good thing. Not, he likes you, Date for 3 years and then makes you his wife. No, a wife he has already found in you and now he’s talking that step to make you his wife. Because who we are to God? ..His bride. So if you’re not preparing yourself and being faithful to God in your singleness and not using discernment, it’ll be an endless cycle. Let you find the right one not the one. There’s no such thing as the one but the right one for you that God place in your life.

I feel u sis it is bad in the western countries. The solution is intercession for men and for our future husbands

@EliteAthlete15 I agree. Both genders are traumatised and need healing

@ Medline🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@ Lucy, don’t settle because of the surgery. I’m 46 and had similar experience but I’m determined to wait for God’s timing. Remember He knows everything about you before you came into existence. Psalm 139:16b All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of the came to be.

@@afuayeboah9149 thank you for the encouragement. May God makes you visible in the eyes of the right partner and give you discernment in that season

(A year later) I just turned 40 and currently had an open myomectomy, single, waiting on the Lord. Praying but also losing Hope myself that I will ever become a wife or mother. Praying God moved in your life in the last year. ❤

You won't need to tell him more than once, if he actually respected that guideline.

Don't worry that's a clear sign that he's not the one for you.

Soon as u say it n they continue. Cut it off

I know! But you know what saddens me? That bunch of these comments are from single girls. I'm just wondering where are the guys at? Maybe there are christian guys but not in church? Lol

@@tatijoie lol they exist in the military and some other areas

@@Sandrinarhonda ahh the military! And what other places?

@@Sophie-jf1nl 😂 girlll I’m still looking myself but I would say Conservative men in general are more Godly than Liberal men . Church conferences such Transformation would be good too or other organizations.

@@Sandrinarhonda As a woman in the military, yes there are way more men then women but good luck finding a man of God.

They are married🥺

I agree. I’ve dated “Christan” men and was even engaged to one. But that lukewarm lifestyle isn’t it. You know how many imposters are walking into church, causing spiritual havoc to other singles in the church? Praying God covers us singles in our waiting seasons.

Marriages will face trials. Nothing worse than having to fight alone.

Love it

THIS!!! 🙌🏽 🙏🏽 Ditto! 💗😊

Absolutely well put ♥️🙏🏾

Trust me,marriage isn't any easier.

@@Adrenalean767 Can they both be hard?

That part!!!

I was with a guy that she described. Sold drugs but got sVed, baggy pants but lacked work ethic and maturity and responsibility

@@kaylaali-joseph2303 praise God you got saved, won’t he don’t he do it!! Didn’t mean for it to be a blanket statement, but there are those that hold those qualities and those that don’t.

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Yeah ,she actually gets it

The working of your faith produces patience so that you're perfect and complete lacking nothing. Stay strong in your faith dear one.

@ Jasmine I agree.

Right. And I believe God made me a beautiful Christian woman and I’m believing He has a handsome Christian man okay!

Godmate sounds so cute , I’m using that . But anyways tell me more about how y’all met 🤍

@@Sandrinarhonda 👋😀 Hi Sandrina, we met at church when neither one of us were looking. My relationship with Jesus was all that I was pursuing at the time but God in His infinite wisdom knew that my husband and I could do more for His Kingdom together than separately. He has us mentoring young couples, families and single men and women for His Glory! Blessings to you... 🙏🙏

@@kaneya1 thank youuu girl , what’s his race

@@Sandrinarhonda AA

@@kaneya1 Is there anyway we can talk on instagram or something for some advice please. It\s needed

She is one low-key 🤣

That’s crazy.

Whattttttt?!

@@cassiaomudu2736 It sounds like an Aaron and Moses thing, but she said I wasn’t ‘expressing enough’ so she held my arms up for me- then shamed me for it later. ✨just culty things✨

My sister used to do that and others in church as well when I was little very forceful

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I love that too!

Can I second that!!!

Amen...

That part!!

I've felt this before in church. "You ought to stand up and give God your best praise, you ought to shout, you need to use your voice!" . I can praise God without all the theatrics and jumping around.

Just want to throw it out there that I know more than one woman at my church that have adopted one or more children, even being single! I don’t know your pastor, but I know things are a lot more nuanced than we, as believers, sometimes acknowledge 🙂

@@srslymorgan Thanks for that. I felt better when she told me that. He's resting now with the Father but he was a bit old fashioned in a lot of ways. He believed single folks shouldn't exchange numbers upon first meeting. I'm like sir if we didn't meet within the confines of my church where I know they are a member how are we communicating? Although I rarely give my number out, I may not see the person again if we're just out about in a store and we made a connection over small talk🤣I love him though but he was definitely stuck in the days before technology when it came to dating.

We so need more ppl to adopt. Please pray about it. Don't give up on it, if God put the desire in your heart.

It's truly a mess out there. Dating is so complicated. Marriage is even more complicated

For things that are not specifically talked about in scripture we need to be led by the spirit. You should definitely pray about adoption, theres such a need for it. It’s very easy to take every word spoken from a pulpit heart but that can be damaging in the long run. Humans will always have their opinions but you need to be led by the Spirit

I pray you find him soon

Same sis.

I'm sorry to hear about your past trauma. I pray that you get the healing that you need.