@@kathylinerode402 California , where they reside, is not a state that recognizes common law marriage. Therefore, they are not considered married there or in any other jurisdiction. Do your research before jumping to conclusions.
iN fact, depending on the exact backgrounds of the ppl involved, (for example a female very close to her Mother, who was Divorced multiple times etc.), Marriage iTself might be the Catalyst that ends the relationship.
To each his and her own. I think marriage is a beautiful uniting of two people, two people who want to be together for life and for many its a bond between them and God.
@stacyjaye6350 that's a shame right? Most divorces occur because couples don't sit down before they marry and discuss things like finances ( financial responsibility, how much they want to save, what they want to spend on etc), what the plan is if one becomes unemployed or disabled and can't work; and discuss things concerning sex, how often, discuss what would make them cheat on the other, if they have children how do they plan on raising children, on and on. People fall in love and boom want to get married without really delving into a variety of issues and finding out how each other feel about those topics. And divorce is too easy and people let their egos get in the way and give up. If there's abuse, drugs, alcohol issues, yes I understand divorcing, but people divorce over little things and don't realize that marriage like life has its ups and downs highs and lows and to maintain a healthy, happy marriage takes work.
@@catsayspurrfect actually, women files 75% of the time. I'm a female that was in the army and drove a truck, I've known tons of guys. No way are 75% of them abusive. The average time frame that 75% of women file is 7 years. Now that there's no fault, she just says the magic words, "I'm not happy." I'm just saying.
@stacyjaye6350 if they expect to be happy all the time they're delusional. No one married or single is happy all the time. Like I wrote, if couples sat down and really discussed what they expected in their marriage, probably some people would end up not getting married. A marriage is a give and take situation, not all give, not all take, but 50/50 on each side. You really have to know yourself and the other person and know each others expectations and understand marriage, like life has its ups and downs, you learn to cope with the downs and celebrate the ups
I actually agree. Having been married before it really did become less about love and more about pressure. If I ever decide to jump back out there that would be the way to go. Of course, that's unlikely given how I just don't have the stamina for relationships anymore, lol
Everyone is forgetting that God created marriage and it is morally wrong to live together outside of Holy Matrimony. I know this will upset a lot of people but I don't care about the opinions of people, I only care about God's opinion.
But did God intend on the govt getting involved making you sign contracts to each other. You can be married and have a commitment to each other without the courts being involved. IMO.
No one cares. I live with my girlfriend of 5 years. We have a great relationship with open communication, I help her raise her son from her previous marriage. We don’t plan on getting married since her last and only marriage ended in disaster and we wouldn’t be able to keep our health insurance.
They aren't afraid of a piece of paper, they are married to themselves, the bible doesn't specify that they have to have a piece of paper to be married
The Bible says, "Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled. But whoremongers and adulterers God will judge!" (Hebrews 13:4). Now why would God say that? We can deny it all we want. It's as clear as day!! ❤❤❤
The discussion about not marrying is a smoke screen for other issues they have, I haven’t a clue to venture to say what they may be nor stand in judgement about of lack of marriage. I do applaud their dedication to one another and family. They’ve been great together and display all qualities of a healthy relationship, congratulations!
Peterbilt u R so right Gods Word says it’s better to Marry than burn. I love Goldie an Kurt they have a fabulous union an strong . If they truly love each other that paper want make a bit of difference but it would please GOD. ❤
Did God tell you this? The only people pleased by marriage are the court and their Bank accounts. The Courts have morbidly controlled the true meaning of a couple's union under God's eyes. And the masses follow like sheep
You seem to have two opinions and seem to be lukewarm in your walk with the Lord. I just wanted to clarify that. The Bible also states, "let your yes be yes and your no be no. Anything more comes from evil. (Matthew 5:37). God is not lukewarm when it comes to decisions!
@@joyhobbs5431Open the Bible and show me a Chapter and Verse that says you have to verify your marriage through a government... I will be here waiting for your answer.
They are both "normal" people, and have had their lifes priorities in order... Family First! All their years together are an Amazing feat! And add in the fact that they're both HollyWeird actors & them still being together makes their relationship truly a MIRACLE!!!
Marriage does not put pressure on a relationship but forms a bond between two people that transcends feelings and temporary issues. It provides a safe haven for children and helps you grow in holiness by self giving to another in good times and bad, in sickness and in health, till death do us part. There isn’t an exit strategy so you work through your problems and learn to love another is the greatest path to heaven.
Goldie and Kurt are free spirits, and their non-marital status suits them perfectly. So much goodness and grace to them, and to those who choose to marry in love and trust ❤❤❤
I worked in a popular ice skating rink when I was a teenager. Sometimes I had to do birthday parties. One weekend, I walk into the party room and there she was, Goldie Hawn. The party was for her son who was about 10 at the time. I really don't remember much because I was working and everything was very fast paced. What I do remember is what a happy and doting mother she was. Her son was having the time of his life. It was really nice.
I was 33 when I first got married. 43 when I first got divorced. And have absolutely remained best friends with my ex at over 60 years old today. She was then and remains to be the best part of me. Love you always Wanda 💞
My condolences..I'm sorry you lost the lov of ur life.. 28yrs many wonderful memories. How sweet & beautiful. May the Almighty feel your heart with peace, strength, & u find urself in a good place today.😊 🦋Blessings🌻
Goldie Hawn's first husband was one of the Hudson Brothers (Bill Hudson, were part of a 3 brother act, had a tv show in the 70s) took her for everything he could in their divorce (California community property laws)-he was not as successful as she was-and she said she would NEVER let that happen again. That's the real reason she never planned to get married again. I can't say I blame her. She was smart. She is also older than Kurt Russell. They have been happy this long. Marriage is actually HIGHLY disadvantageous to women. Look at statistics for longevity for married vs single women. Single women are also less likely to suffer depression and autoimmune diseases. Many women have had a complete remission of autoimmune disease symptoms once they were divorced. After her experience with her skeezer of a first husband, I am glad she was bold enough to do what was right for her.
I find it so interesting that one will sign a contract for everything else, sign to receive funds & so much more, without much thought....& yet even after mega years or decades living together, the thought of signing a contract to seal your LOVE, is somehow so threatening & psychological overwhelming, so sad. Oh well....peace be with us all 🙏. "Isa"
I love Goldie Hawn & Kurt Russell. I’ve been a huge fan since Goldie was on Rowan & Martins Laugh In and Kurt was playing in “The Worlds Fair” with Elvis Presley. THEY ARE AWESOME. I LOVE GOLDIE & KURT
My man and I have been happily together for 17 years. No need to be married. (However, he did "inform" me he's buying two tickets to Vegas on our 20th anniversary.) We'll see. 😉
The piece of paper theory cuts both ways. It can be we don't need a piece of paper or we have that piece of paper. My husband and I got married in 1988. We, too, have been through many ups and downs. If we hadn't been married, it would be too easy to quit during the hard times. And divorce was discussed a couple of times. We married before we made who we are. Goldie & Curt were already stars when they got together. I am happy for them that they continue to be happy.
They have a gorgeous relationship and are likewise, a gorgeous couple! I’ve always adored their work. A marriage is truly between a couple and God. Separate Church and State and all the unnecessary complications that go along with that, and let it be. It’s a covenant betwixt you and your Creator, nothing to do with what the Government recognizes. It’s what God recognizes.
I definitely agree with that, marriage used to be forever with the vows they take, but these days they make their own vows, and walk out when things get tough, then that paper tells the woman that she can have half of everything thats his
These two were born for each other but if you want to believe they’ve had no ups and downs then you’d be wrong - they stuck together bc that’s what love is all about!
Some people are better married (hubby &, I), while others are better united in a different way. Have friends who never tied the knot & nothing would separate them.
Amen. Marriage is a trap for women. Especially to people in the entertainment industry. He has NO claim on her $$ if they break up. California community property laws screw things up for a lot of celebrities. But even marrying elsewhere, if you are not protected by a pre-nup, it's a mess. They have been together befor pre nups were even a thing. As a high profile celebrity, she can trademark/copyright her image, works, books. She can create herself as a corporation. She is not a sitting duck for a mercenary ex husband. After her experience with Bill Hudson, being bled dry financially, she made the right decision to stay free. He has his own career and I think has invested his money in real estate, among other things. She was very savvy.
That's all fine and well. But their union is not blessed at this time. The Bible says "marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled. But whoremongers and adulterers God will judge!" (Hebrews 13:4). We don't have to judge. We can be in denial all we want. God's word is as clear as day! ❤
Beautiful Everlasting Relationship, Never hear anything Negative about either Goldie or Kurt. I remember watching Goldie on *Laugh-In*, she was such a great little Dancer with a quick Wit.
God commands marriage. Other wise, it is adultery. I understand why they don't feel the need to, because they have been together regardless. I adore them and wish them well.
Their feelings are shared by several couples, I personally know a couple who are each others loves of their lives, and they wear rings and are committed forever, because they choose to, is what they say. I understand the concept and belief.
I like both of them as actors. Providing that one does not take a religious view of marriage, then she could have a point. They do have 40 years under their belts.
I’m of the same mind. Psychologically, a marriage certificate transforms a relationship from a choice to a mandate. Goldie has expressed this perfectly many times. I do believe, however, that Beth Dutton put it exactly how it is: “We love each other. We’re not going into business together.” All that piece of paper does is effectively put you into a “throuple”: you, your partner, and the American government. And *that* is not sexy…
Commitment has nothing to do with a marriage certificate. If your not committed before your not going to be after. Marriage has never been my thing but 15 years strong into my relationship with my spouse. We actively choose each other and that makes a world of difference
They are legends, as well as smart to find a way of life that works! Not marrying gives a since of freedom to not be bound to one person. This leaves greater trust, as well as a sense of great meaningful friendship that will never be broken. You are always free to go keeps an excitement of, I can never stop trying to win you over. The chase lives on ❤ ❤ There are so many great movies from the 80’s & 90’s .. a fav of many is “Death Becomes Her” Goldie, Bruce Willis & Marilyn Streep. Popcorn 🍿 FUN FUN ❣️
I love her so much! I have a picture of GOLDIE and my grandma together they met at Grand Canyon. My GRANDMA IS A SAINT she never ever says bad about anyone! She said Goldie was so nice, but KR was a jerk! I had to ask her twice, bc I didnt believe that came out of her mouth!
As the saying Goes? IF something Works. Don't mess it up and leave it alone. They are meant for Each other. And you can Tell it in thier behavior and the smile's that light up Thier Faces evertime they are seen together or the speak about each other. Congratulations to Them.
They seem to make a perfect couple… and as long as they are happy, who cares if they’re married? I wish people would just stop bringing up that subject already.
Well there may not guarantee a successful relationship but marriage is a union of 2 people for life before God. Sad to see such a beautiful and lovely couple just be boyfriend and girlfriend. There’s no foundation in that.
Marriage is ordained of God and ❤it's beautiful law under God! God makes the rules, and his children can choose to obey them or not! Marriage is what you choose to making it!
The movie "OVERBOARD" these 2 did back in the 80's was absolutely hilarious !!!🤣 It's like they were the King and Queen of the Hollywood Prom for at least a decade !? Their chemistry together was undeniable and that movie launched their careers into the stratosphere !🚀
That's right. Marriage is just really based upon religion.. I don't see Either one of them In that category.. They have more of a free mind and free will.. They are what's considered a true partnership.
Our loving commitment in a monogamous relationship is between us and our God. Not a commitment before men. A fearful daily persistence to be faithful and true.
