Well for me it's a major red flag when girl is into toxic guys and you are playing a best friend role , immediately run away from her . Good Guys don't change yourself to be toxic so that you can attract girls , you will only be attracting girls that like toxic guys and are not good for long term relation ,lt's just a waste of time and energy . Good guys if you are not getting girls just keep on working yourself and be away from these negativity. There are plenty of girls who are into nice guys you are just might be ignoring them ..
@@SilenceSerene bhai trust me bhot bhot acchi ladkiyan h bas acchi ladkiyon par koi dhyan nhi deta kyunki vo bhot simple hoti h . Me khud 19 ki hun ,never been in a relationship or situationship kyunki mere Ghar me love marriage allowed nhi h mummy papa ko tension nhi de sakti. Jis bhi ladke se meri shadi karwadenge usse devta Maan lungi 😊.
The guy however good/funny he is , it wont matter unless the girl is attracted to him. We have that Rom-Com movie mindset where we feel that there's a happy ending for good guys , he will make her laugh, take care of her etc but none of it will matter if she has no attraction to you . That good guy will always be like Liquid of Pyaar ka Punchnama. If a girl says you are a nice guy .... BUT thats your clue that she is not interested but we think that 's ok if i spend some more time with her she will fall for me , nope that wont happen she has made up her mind already. Only way out is work towards betterment of your life and your self and trust god that you will find the right one someday who is interested in knowing you , who will do things that you like. There's nothing like a perfect soulmate, it requires effort on both sides and attraction from both side to make it work...
@soumil agarwal I want to ask. A girl don't find me attractive today when I'm at my lowest, but a few years later same girl finds me attractive when I'm at my peak. So why care even for those who find you attractive today. They might as well reject you and vanish when you're not so physically attractive in your worst days that may come in the future.
This is a polite of telling that no matter what you try I will never accept you because my standards are way too high!!! Lol. I'm sorry but most of the women( except some who are very good )are delusional . Working hard is not correlated with attractiveness or likeability . Its no use loving a person when he is only in his peak. You will leave him when he is down in his life?
only when the good guy starts working more on himself rather than giving valuable time to a girl, is when the guy really becomes 'The Guy'. So work more on your dreams and ambitions and maybe just have sometime with a girl rather than obsessing and always speaking and hangingout with one. Makes you more like her Chill friend than a Boyfriend.
That’s not what a good person is supposed to be like. Being good doesn’t mean letting others use you or hurt you….you should know when to draw the line and not take other peoples’ bullshit. You can be a good person,not hurt anyone and treat everybody right and not let others take advantage of you.
Have seen such a perfect guy with smiling face like you...after long time on your show...who has been truthful and energetic throughout the show... please invite only such a person..... Thanks dear for make such a lovely podcast....
Ye friend zone ka shikar bohot ladke ban re hai har saal aur har baar ladkiya good boys ko use karti hai aur worst baat is that ki ladke jante huye bhi apna katvate hai Boys stop being such nice guys
Movies and series show us this kind of unrealistic way of getting girls. Which is be overly nice to woman and help her always and you will someday magically get the girl. Which doesn't happen in real life at all. "Nice Guys" go through so much suffering and stressful situation but they still try the same thing again. Guys this doesn't work like that. You have to understand the game. Stop wasting time on girls who sees you just as a friend who will always use you as a doormat. Respect yourself and your own time. Don't put girls on pedestal and don't be a YES man, be a NO man. Also women never talk about their true nature in public or how their psychology work. Thats why i like Simmy because she is doing a good job of telling guys how they should play the game and not being used as a doormat.
Whatever she portray in her all podcasts it's all rich people things which is not necessary in life. I am also in teen but according to me instead of wasting your precious time money on bad things like smoking, drinking, partying ,hookups etc everyone should invest it on their career and make their parents proud.i don't know alot about life because I am just 16 but I am not gonna do anything she mentioned in her every podcast that will hurt every parent not just mine so why should we do that do something that will make your parents proud of you...and again whatever she portray in her podcasts are bad things don't do that focus on yourself think about your parents and their hard earned money 🥺💯
Yes girls do use guys in some cases But in moat of them, the girl clearly points out that she doesn't want a relationship and all she is looking for is friendship, most guys takes this as a challenge rather than forming boundaries, etc with the girl. Then they will end up crying that she used me. You, yourself! are responsible for neglecting the girl's intentions from the very beginning.
Good boys listen- many of us think saying will make opportunity go away , trust me !! You'll learn to see the real side of people, if they actually want you to be part of life or not
My ex said ... I've got someone else in my life... That was the last time I met her ... Later she tried to reach me but I ignored her straight away .... Self respect is above all..... This guy is complete simp... No strong personality
But actually the last girl titli(butterfly)seemed to be a good girl she was serious and this guy betrayed her ,he enjoyed with her did everything thn left her saying ki shaadi karlo kaise log hai yaar ye ye good boy to bilkul to nai hai 🙄
I don't know why RU-vid suggest me this video literally based on same story... category of good boy 🥲🥲🥲🥹🥹makes me cry ..feel like what the heck u was doing after that girl😶🥺
Thanks you so much simmy, just loved the content of the show , can totally relate to it , thanks for opening the eyes of millions of good boys in India who actually suffer , hope to see more such content💪🏻❤️
mene tho apne female bestfrnd ko bola tha ki i have fellings for u and i want ot get in relationship with u ..... but sadly she said no and now here i am after destroying the frndship 🙂🙂
Yeh boht bada sach hai ki good boys ki gf nahi hoti... Kyuki Jab me bad boy tha to sala itni gf rahi hai.. but sala jab se good boy bana hu 3 saal se singl hu😂🤣😂 kabhi kabhi sochta hu sala khud ne hi khud pr KLPD kr liya....
