Finally....This is the guy all girls need . He is so sophisticated so decent and so serious in a relationship. For him girls are not toys... Respect to this guy...hats offf
Kuch nhi hskta tumhra asehi katti rhogi ladko ka jo tumhra chutia katenge unhe tum sab kuch dene k liye tyar rhogi aur jo tumhri care krnge unka tum chutia katigi
Who are you man.. I mean is there really actual real human being who's having the same mentality as this guy paras..i mean i have lost all the hope for my expectations dude..i mean this guy has allll the mentalities even i have..and i am soo fed up with people surrounding me saying this kinda mentality is not even real..and i should just change it..and become NORNAL 😭
I love this guy! Even I am in the healing process right now and I am in the zone wherein I had given up thinking true love exist but listing to this guy’s views I felt the ray of hope and I could meet a guy like him , he is exactly I have always wanted ya! ❤
HE TOTALLY DESERVES AN EPIC LOVE STORY, EXACTLY LIKE HE DREAMS OF!!! ❤didn't realise this episode would make me so happy! Just the way he spoke so respectfully about his extremely toxic relationship made my heart full..
The guys is a LOSER! Most girls wont be able to handle his clinginess and needy behavior. He is more of a pushover which is something no girl likes. These types just try to act extra extra sweet and romantic to impress girls!
I relate to him so much. I feel like Everything he has quoted so far. Especially "there are sometimes you feel like you do a lot for others but what are others doing for you" Is so true!
People always tell me, "I don't deserve you" i used to feel so left out with this statement but after watching this video I know there are people like me out here
Paras you are my male version. I hate abusive language so I have no friend who abuses.I am also a very simple girl not materialistic and even I have no greed of any type .I was also looking for my soulmate but luckily I got him and We are going to married in the future as soon as possible but he is 80% like me , this thing is amazing for me ....but tumko bhi tumhari wali zarur milegi cz you are a gem man ❤️😘
I can so much relate to Paras. From being the guy who tries to see "forever" in girls, getting attracted to simplicity, to respecting everyone, I could see myself in him. Thank you so much for sharing your story and making me realise that I'm not the only such boy out there. :)
This man's thought is sooo relatable to mine! Forever thing, respect and comparatively much less abuse, etc.. bro you are literally my mirror image or I'm urs.. idk.. so good episode. Absolutely love it! 😊
The guy is a LOSER! Most girls wont be able to handle his clinginess and needy behavior. He is more of a pushover. These types just try to act extra extra sweet and romantic to impress girls!!!
I remember watching paras as SP in Meri Durga and there he performed his character so well, I became a fan of his for life. Some of the scenes in that show really highlighted his acting prowess spectacularly.
He is such a gem yaar😳I mean itna sab kuch hoone ke baad bhi Banda smile krta h hamesha ❤️ I m his biggest fan and I respect him soo much but after knowing this aaj aur zaada respect badh gyi h ❤️.u r ♾️ sir we love u ❤️
Woaahh!!! Hats off!! 🙌 This is the best episode soo far!! Boys with such amazing mindset are rare to find nowadays! You are surely a keeper paras!❤ You have got a new fan now!
Hey simmy you are such an inspiration to me. I've been following you from so long. Lots of love to you ♥️ **But the irony here is I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with your cousin from past 5 years and I've been recovering from that by watching you and your videos.** Thank you for being the amazing person you are ♥️🧚
Paras I am big fan of your personality from the very beginning of anupama show....but never knew I would relate to your thoughts this much.... literally u are a male version of me....love uu bro...may lord Krishna bless u with happiness 🕉️❣️
Who are you man.. I mean is there really actual real human being who's having the same mentality as this guy paras..i mean i have lost all the hope for my expectations dude..i mean this guy has allll the mentalities even i have..and i am soo fed up with people surrounding me saying this kinda mentality is not even real..and i should just change it..and become NORNAL
I really hope this relationship works . I know right now you are in a pretty serious relationship and like I genuinely feel this might work . Much love 🌸
Takeaways from the videos 1.Try to know the person before getting involved in a serious relationship . 2. Never be insecure and don't compare yourself from the guy/girl s ex or from his/her male/female friends . Everybody is beautiful in their own way. 3.love ,respect , effort has to be given by both the partners ,a one sided relationship will not sustain in the long term. 4.Never ignore the red flags in the relationship , whenever you feel like something is going wrong say it upfront .Always have boundries in every kind of relationship. 5.Always be considerate about the partner feeling and other roles as a son ,daughter , working person ,birthdays /anniversaries can be celebrated later too . 6.Give space to the partner don't cage the partner.Trust your partner .
I can completely understand.. I don't drink don't party don't smoke.. don't take any relation for granted.. always feel empathy for everyone.. and each person I meet think at first I'm fake.. I still think there's no one actually who'd be like me.. ever ... May be god made me like this so that I end up alone...it's too depressing.. it's not about being all sati Savitri but this is how I am.. I feel I should change but it'll be too much to take.. I feel lost.. and love feels like .. delusional.
Damn...after seeing this I've realised how much similarities I and paras have...shit...I'm really happy and surprised by seeing someone with the same mentality I've...now I know I'm not the only one... :) Edit-: I'm a guy...nit a girl who's relating
Listening to paras I feel like yes man there's someone like me exist as well..Guys like us exists who see yaar true love exists..We want peace in our life we want one girl for forever... These era is of competition of toxic masculinity,toxic feminism.. hooking up , fooling around which is so tiring man.. We need just peace with our one girl who will be us with forever...But then again I think there's no girl like that who exist..they all want thrill suspence etc etc..while all we want is love and care..
Jesus i feel like I was watching MYSELF being interviewed, I've been through the exact same experience it's almost uncanny, the resemblance some people's minds and thoughts can have and the question on skincare is also smth i always get asked when I'm with people 🤠 like bruh i just washed my face *_touches wood_* its so hard to believe but refreshing to see apne jaise log 🙃 Paras my dude you're my twin ✨
I am actually just same as paras like my thought process about relationship and love is so similar to his.. I am such an introvert girl with that old school love vibes and I am happy that i have a beautiful guy in my life who is just perfect for me I just love him so much 🐻❤
I do not really comment, but had to...This Guy is OH-SO Relatable..Felt Like my Older Version is guiding me what not to do in future as much as relationship is concerned. I too have a same kind of Preference like him but God Knows what is yet to unfold but so thanks to Simmy Di for this podcast..Much Love Paras Bhaiya ❤⭐
' He is the guy which every girl "wants"' But , The girl ends up friendzoning such guys...This is harsh reality ( Especially , you are too good vala thing )
The points Simmy mentioned about being charmed by some cute boys on dating apps are sooo truee and relatable which till date i thought happens only wid me n ultimately i m the fool 😂😂 Good to know m Not the only 1 🤭
Yr itne pyare ldke ke sath koi kese kar sakta hai ese , mere sath aaj tak I NVR met a guy like him . He's so so so soft spoken ,smooth ....feels like I can listen him years without even saying anything....I literally think good guys met bad girls and good girls met bad boys🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺..... I'm literally crying after listening to him .
I always respected him since the time I saw him, his ivs and followed him on instagram during his Anupamaa days. And I also noticed that he had to stop posting pics and reels with his same age co-actresses several times. And I'm a big time fan of his poetries. His poetry for his father was so heartfelt. He's that decent guy, friend and co-worker which his every co-actor and friends respect irrespective of their gender and calls him gem of a person. But today my respect for him increased much more. He's genuinely that kind of guy who has ben raised by dignified parents. And he deserves best. There's saying that only that person can actually relate to someone's pain if that person or his/her family had gone through the same phase. My cousin brother was in an abusive marriage and he and our whole family suffered a lot. That's why I can understand. And everything that Paras said was on point. People's mentality changes by knowing our status,our profession. And eing a girl still I'm saying that this women card thing is the bitter but biggest truth boon as well as bane for girls. And they can play it at wrong places for their own comfo own pleasure and can falsely accuse any innocent person using the same.
I used to think that I'm complex, I'm thinking too much, whats happening with me have no clue.... But this guy is completely me 🥹 He just washed out all the complexity... Almost 90% things are similar... I'm just perplexed...
@paraskalnawat .. So I wish this comment may reach u.. but still I felt like saying so that's what I m commenting .. even I m a scorpion 🦂 and everything u said is so resonating to my feelings and thought process.. but the unrealistic part is the aashiqui 2 reference that u gave .. is the exact same which I have in my mind. N everytime I see that movie I feel it ..even some people around me say it's a flop y do I watch it over n over n I say the same thing like it's my story I feel . So that's what I wanted to say .. like man. We are exact duplicates ..love u..from anupama as well.. God bless u wid more lovely people around u.
Some people just like only those people who tries to be oversweet in front of public not those who are straightforward and calls them fake. This is the comment. As people who know even 1% about him knows that what he's here is same everywhere and completely open and honest to his audience.
Also, a lot of good looking guys say that they like simple girls but at the end of the day, simple girls only remain as friends and not their lovers. Simple girls are not treated with the same respect as good looking girls However, all men and women are beautiful.
@Khyalo Ki Duniya Monogamy or polygamy is an individual's choice. However, it should be discussed with the respective partners. Also, I agree that monogamy/polygamy is a social construct
is he really that kind of a person he is saying about himself like for me this is really very hard to believe that someone like him (as he said) exist in this world......😶🌫️
I think there is something seriously wrong with him, though many of the viewers over looked but in the whole interview he didn't mention even once that he might be wrong too. He seems narcissistic to me. He is showing himself has super perfect. Why did he pushed the relation to 3 years,it shows his weakness and lack of self worth too. Thanks simmi for taking up such interviews .
Sorry to say but I was too in a relationship sir hm bandh jate h Mai khud bandhu Hui thi bhale hi I was not in any sort of pressure lekin Mai chor nhi paa rhi thi even 3 saal Maine jhela and even after 3 years when I ended it mujhe guilt feel hota tha ki Maine uske sath bura kiya
@Khyalo Ki Duniya exactly Maine bhi bhut suffer kia aur shyd mujhe mere tolerance ka fal mila ki aaj mai apne naye partner k ek sath ek saal complete kr chuki hu aur Mai itni khush kbhi nhi thi he loves me insanely jaise mujhe chaiye tha waise I am so happy kisi ki Nazar Naa lage
You are right. The biggest red flag is that he never admits to doing anything wrong. And the way he blames "ladkiyon ke hathiyar". I have seen other guys do it too, who themselves were pretty toxic. You can have one toxic ex, but if all of your exes are " toxic", then it says something about you too. Toxicity attracts toxicity. Also, saying I will never love a girl more than my mother, that's a phrase commonly used by toxic men. It means the girl is replaceable. If someone is doubting you so much, unless your significant other has a mental illness, there must be some cause to doubt you. There's no smoke without fire. I agree men are abused. Men also get abused. But somehow I don't trust him completely.
Simmy di is being simmy di 😂😂"what is your skincare routine?" Even I was admiring his skin n lips(they are not pigmented ), why do guys have such amazing skin 🥲🥲
i know you won't believe me but when he said what his idea of relationship to like forever , the same word by word is my thinking also sammeee , i was shocked to hear this from a guy love this !!!! Simmy , whenever i listen your podcast i really wish ke me b apke ye sab topic pe podcast karu just a wish !
That second girl was a narcissistic partner for sure. They convince you they are the victim while you are the victim all along. They love it only until the time the world revolves around them. 💔
Love is a wasteful emotion. Everyone realises it but only after setbacks. If you give importance to qualities other than looks and money then choose a partner for life on that basis. Don't bring emotions into the choice. You would most likely get less than what you want but more or less equal to what you deserve. And then commit for life once married and never think about breaking up unless exceptionally toxic person. Manage with little toxicity.
Well, I can relate with him on the pms-ing thing. Ladkiyan yeh bht use karti h to support their actions but then they forget every girl faces this and not all does this kinda acts. The episode was really good! 👍🏻
I love you paras.... You are amazing person... Pure soul... Thanku dear simmy apne paras ko apne show par bolaya.... As a person paras ji kaise h...pata laga.... Pata laga to jana munda dil da bada changa... Very very very good boy....
I don't understand this cycle. Good people ending up with a toxic partner. I honestly don't know this guy. I have not seen his work. He sure is a good looking person but with this video, if every work that he said is true, I am in awe. His way of talking, his nature, the way he is brought up. I wish we had such guys around us and less of these toxic men! 🥲 You'll find a good person bud! ❤️
