GOOD NEWS UPDATE on Ray July 2023 

Jay is absolutely right and I know you can all get through this. In September, you had the worst news a Mum can have and look at you 10 months later - still here, still pushing Ray, still putting the game face on. You WILL get through this. I believe in the power of prayer and still have you all on my list. Love faith and light from Ireland ❤ 🇮🇪

Kelly , I'm a Stage 3 Pancreatic Cancer survivor & I'm a firm believer in the power of prayer. I too was a good candidate for surgery. All of this is great news for Ray and you ladies. Keep your chin up and believe in the power of prayer.

You don't know how strong you are till being strong is the only option. Much love to you all 💜

Listen here @kellybarlowcreations yes we come here for your cool crafts, but we've stayed because of YOU! We all love you and are connected to you and your family. And we tune in no matter what you post. That's what friends do. And if you need to come on and post another 900 things about Ray or how you're feeling, we want to hear. We care a lot about you. And we are praying for you and Ray. Our calendars are marked for 20 days from now. ❤

Kelly, my grandmother had a similar surgery and lived a long full life after. I'm also a Stage 3 Cervical cancer survivor. This is wonderful news for Ray. Big hugs to you all. ❤❤❤

I work in an oncology office and your posts actually help me relate to our patients and their families even better. You guys are always in my prayers and I’m sending BIG HUGS from Alabama!!!!

I’m sorry people gave you a hard time over the “fixer upper”. You did an amazing job no matter what you call it. Ray is a very brave young man. It’s easy to see where he gets it. You have been through so much in the past few years yet you continue to be strong and keep your faith. You inspire me so much. You handle all of the things that come at you with grace. You are a beautiful woman inside and out. Chances are we will never meet in person , but I consider you a friend. I’m continuing to pray for you , Ray, your family, and his medical team. Your trust in the doctors will get you far. It’s so important to trust them. As a pharmacist, I’ve seen many people deal with cancer and everything it brings. Some days are harder than others. Always remember that there are lots of people thinking about you and praying for you. I truly believe God put you on RU-vid because he knew you’d need the support and prayers of your subscribers. Trust Him to handle this. He hears and answers our prayers. 💜

Don’t worry about apologizing for something people are so rude sometimes and they just snap on it when you said flipping, I knew you were cleaning and rearranging

Kelly, i'll bet most of us knew what you meant. Call it whatever you like. You did a great job on Ray's house. Wishing Ray continued progress and you much peace.

My neighbor had her stomach removed over 20 years ago due to polyps. It saved her life! Praying for Ray, you & your family.

Kelly, you amaze me with the strength you have in articulating Rays story. You are stronger than you know. Continued prayers for you and your family.

My husband has esophageal cancer they removed most of his stomach, he was in the hospital for close to a month, manny setbacks, but it’s almost two years in remission and even though he had to change how he ate for the first 6 months he is now back to eating all his favorite foods! Wishing Ray the best of luck, it can be ok.

As the mother of a 2 time cancer survivor I think the best way to explain how we get though this situation is just because we have no other choice. We have to be brave and put on that face to help our child. My prayers are with all of you daily 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Continued prayers for Ray you your family and all the doctors. God bless you all!

I have truly prayed nonstop for Ray, You, family, and friends. Praying through the Dr's care and God's Devine healing to heal Ray from the top of his head to the bottom of his toes. Amen!! Much love and respect from Texas.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Kelly, I think I can speak for the majority of us on here - we aren't just here and praying for Ray, we are here because we love you and are here for YOU as well! I think it's important to keep your focus on the highs and hoping that they are high enough to keep you going thru the lows. You are all so strong! You are an inspiration, as is Ray!! If our prayers and good wishes are helping to hold you up, then you can concentrate on holding Ray up. What you are going thru is something that no one should have to deal with. Ray is so strong and he's going to win this battle. But YOU need to know that you can lean on us when you need to!! The message from your friend is very deep and very true. I'm going to send you a DM somewhere and pass on some info for you. Stay strong! With lots of love and prayers 💜💜💜

Prayers for RAY AND THE TEAM OF DOCTORS AND ALL OF THE CAREGIVERS!! You are an amazing mom and you have a huge group of subscribers supporting you! Your vulnerability to share with us is a way to “vent” during the most stressful of times. We love and appreciate you so much and we are her to help in any way you need .

You are living every Mother’s nightmare but Ray is so lucky to have you. It seem as if he has some great doctors. Prayers, love and hugs are coming your way.🙏🏻🙏🏻

Stay strong Kelly! You are amazing! Those happy days are coming right at the end of that tunnel. Sending continued prayers your way.

I started watching your channel for the DIYs. Now I, and I imagine a tremendous amount of others, watch your channel to support you in whatever you are doing or going through! Continued love and prayers for you, Ray and your daughters.

Dear God, please look after Ray in his time of need. Please guide the surgeon and the team through a successful operation and grant Ray a speedy recovery. Strengthen Kelly and the girls and give them comfort and restore their joy. Amen. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

Oh Bless your heart Miss Kelly. You and Ray are in my prayers. Remember to take care of yourself as well. I am a caretaker to my husband, we can only care for them if we are well. God Bless

My heart goes out to you and Ray. You are a strong dedicated mom. I don’t personally know you guys but I pray for you and Ray. I can’t wait for the day you come on and say all is well with Ray. He’s out of the woods and doing fine. That day will come. God bless you both.

Hi Kelly! I'm a retired ICU nurse and want you to know you are doing an amazing job explaining what is going on with Ray. Thank you for sharing with us. I'm so hopeful for you all ❤❤❤

I’m continuing to pray for Ray and your precious family! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Kelly our God is a mighty God, Ray has so many people praying for him. Although this has got to be the scariest situation for you and your family have faith in knowing you have an army of prayer warriors behind you. I will continue to lift Ray in prayer as well as you and your family. Continue to be blessed. God is always good ❤🙏 You are an amazing mother ❤️🙏

Kelly - I am here to tell you that Ray is so very fortunate to have the mom that he does. I can tell from all your videos during this cancer journey that you do ALL you can for him. God is with you all the time. I continue to pray for all of you. I'm so glad that you use youtube to express your feelings. I really believe that does have positive benefits. We are all here for you guys. One day at a time, Kelly.

Hi Kelly, Someone sent me this when I went through a health crisis and it described a lot of my feelings. I see you and all that your going through...being stronger than anyone should ever have to be, making your way one day at a time...bearing the full weight of something so difficult. I see you, and even in the middle of all of this, I see something inspiring...the strength of someone who's affected by circumstance, but not defined by it. I see you rising, again and again, and I just know that one day soon you'll rise up and stay there. You and your family are a wonderful example for us all. Sending prayers and hugs.

Praise the Lord Ray is having the tumor removed & the liver lesions burned off! Come on Prayer Warriors let’s pray harder for Ray & his family ❤🙏🏻✝️

Sending light, love and prayers to all of you. Kelly I pray Ray's dad is there for him as much as you are.

Dear Kelly: one day at a time sounds so trite, but that’s the way to make it through this journey. Prayers layered on prayers for you and the family. God bless you.💜🙏🏼

Kelly I just felt the urge to share my husband’s story. In the late 1970’s my husband (we weren’t married at the time) was told he had 3 different cancer cells that developed in his body and he had 3 weeks to live. He had a 6 month old son. He lived another 32 years after treatments and he felt his attitude had to be as positive as possible and that contributed to his cure. We were married the last 29 years is his life. Someone stated surprise that I still married him after knowing of his health history and the problems he might go through. I told them he was such a great man, I was grateful for the years I had with him. We raised his son and had a very happy life. It taught us to live in the moment because we didn’t know how many we had. He died almost 14 years ago and his son was 32 years old. We had a great life and if I had it to do over again I wouldn’t hesitate. You and your family stay positive and enjoy each day as best as you can with each other. It’s a heavy cross for y’all to carry, I know, but you can do this out of love for each other. I don’t know if I said but my husband was about 25 years old when diagnosed. You ALL are in my prayers daily. May you hang on to every ounce of strength and follow the advice of your wise friend to give 100% that you can THAT day. I’m sorry this is so long. It was on my heart to share our story.

Dear Kelly…..please do you! So many of us totally understood what you were doing to Ray’s house. You did what any mother would do for one of her children when she could. And thank you so much for the terrific news. With the Grace of God and all of us, Ray is going to come through all of this. We all love you and will be continuing to keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Kelly, I wanted so badly to reach through my phone to hold and comfort you. I was my youngest son's caregiver as well as taking care of my 4 yr old grandson. We knew Andy was terminal and I gave as much as I could to provide whatever he needed or wanted to do. You are going through so much worse with the ups and downs. I'll be praying for all of you for the strength, patience, hope and all else you require. You are a wonderful mother and a great person. God bless you and your family on this terrifying journey. Take care of yourself too. We will all be praying for you in the hope that Ray makes a recovery. Again, my prayers.

Hang in there! My mom had her stomach removed 30 years ago, for a bleeding ulcer. She had to eat a bit differently, more often. With all the weight loss surgeries being done, there's a lot of experience out there. We encourage you, along this difficult journey. Every step is an adaptation, and you're doing great. Thanks for showing how a family copes with this, with love and support.

I will continue to pray for Ray and all of you. I am so sorry for the ups and downs, and the uncertainty of all of it. I pray Ray's surgery will go well. And I pray for Ray's peace of mind, and for the Peace of mind of all who love him.

Kelly- don’t worry about your “verbiage” - we know what you mean and if anyone calls you out on something you said- ignore them! Ray is what everyone here is concerned about and praying for!🙏❤️ You’re right- you take this a day at a time. That’s the only way right now. Praying 🙏🙏🙏

I’m so happy that the surgery will take place. God will guide the surgeon and the light will be bright and Ray will be healed. My prayers are with you all. 🙏🏻🙏🏻

You are doing amazing holding everything together. Sending prayers. May God bless both you and Ray with his healing powers.

Kelly. . . WOW! You did a wonderful job on Rays home! It turned out so good. Many Prayers to you and your family ❤

As a mom who watched her only daughter slowly loose her life from a horrible disease at the age of 33, I totally understand this cancer nightmare journey your on with your son. The heartache, the fears, the stress and helplessness. I must have cried oceans. It changes your life forever. You, your family and your amazing son are in my thoughts and prayers. 🙏🙏 Kelly you will survive and I truly believe your son in time will be feeling good again. My heart goes out to your son. This journey is so physically and emotionally draining on them. One day at a time. ❤️❤️❤️❤️💪💪💪💪👍👍👍.

Mom to Mom: You rock, Momma. You are incredibly strong. You've raised a wonderful brave son and strong supportive daughters. 👍 GOOD JOB!😂

Kelly, I had to have a gstric bypass to basically save my life. Yes, it takes a minute to get used to eating a new way... but I know he can do it, especially after all he's been through. I know it worries you, but that part of it all will be fine. I'll cntinue to pray for all of you, and praying that the doctor is extremely successful. We love you all so much. Hang in there kiddo... God is hearing us !!

Peayers for Ray and all of the many children and adults fighting this horrible disease! I cry for you all and rejoice when you have any good news! God be with you!

Words cannot express ......... Keep your eyes on the Light!!

Kelly, We are hoping and praying for you and Ray. Who wouldn’t have anxiety ? Its A LOT!

Kelly, not only can you do this, you are doing it. I love what your friend, Jay, said. That goes for all of us. Sending light, energy, positive thoughts and vibes to Ray and your entire family. Bless your heart! ❤

Kelly, my mom passed away just a little over 9 years ago of pancreatic cancer. Now we just found out my brother has cancer and I will be his caregiver. And believe me, it is just getting by, one day at a time. My prayers are always with Ray, you and the girls. You are a wonderful mom and a truly amazing woman. You are so much stronger than you realize ❤

Kelly my heart is with you. I keep you, Ray, and the rest of your family in thoughts every day. You are a wonderful person for all you do. Keep light in sight. God bless you all.

I love how you are doing...you are a blessing to us 🎉🎉🎉

I am praying for all of y'all! This is hard on all of y'all. Clean slate coming up for Ray. Having had a gastric bypass, he will be ok. Sugar will become an enemy and it will be awhile before he can eat regular food. Protein drinks will become his friend. Y'all will get this figured out!

You are doing this as every momma does, one small step, one day, one victory at a time. When you get back out of the tunnel and into the light, as you say, and Ray has settled into his new reality post surgery, you will find balance and happy moments again. You have all come so far, you can make it through the next step! We believe in you! ❤

It makes your channel a more "homey" and most of us love that you feel like you can talk to us. Thank you! Love and prayers always

May God bless Ray with 100 percent healing.

Kelly, I pray that Ray continues to be strong and fight through these hard days. I also pray he has a successful surgery and can heal comfortably and quickly. I also pray for the strength and comfort for you and your daughters as you help Ray through this. Please let Ray know he is being held in prayer by so many. Thank you for sharing his story, it’s so very personal, but allows everyone to send positive vibes and prayers his way. Your family will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

I am sure I am speaking for many of your subscriber "family " when I say we are here for not only your original platform, but also to uplift you in the difficult times and rejoice with you in the good times. I am so happy to hear of the healing that has allowed for the surgery! I also have a 28 yr old son and could not imagine the extent of how worrisome and difficult this is for you. Continued prayers ❤

So happy he’s able to get the surgery for tumor removal. Ray and your family have been through so much and my heart aches for you. What a blessing for him to have you and the girls to love and support him through this. I continue to pray for you Kelly. God is aware of you for sure and you will get through this. We love you Kelly and your family. ♥️🙏🏼🙏🏼♥️

Kelly., I had gastric bypass surgery 19 years ago. It was tough going at first. It got easier with each passing day. 19 years, later i am able to eat almost anything except large amounts of meat and my all time favorite, rice and gravy. I love vegetables and all soft texture foods. He will get through this. The power of prayer is all around Ray and your family. My prayers are with all of you daily. God bless!

Thank you for the updates. You are a precious mother.

Praying for complete healing for Ray and comfort for your family.

I appreciate your updates. The more we know, the more we know how to pray for Ray. I'm glad you feel the love from your followers & know that we care about you both. May God continue to give Ray strength and healing. You are an awesome mom! ❤

As a mother, my heart goes out to you, because I know exactly what you’re going through. My daughter was diagnosed with stage four colon cancer at the age of 30, that was in 2010. It is hard living day to day with the fear of what the next day will bring. But you get through it because of your love for your child. You stay strong and positive for them. The one thing that helped me get through it, was leaning on God. Our faith in God helped us get through each day and each challenge and each step back and each step forward. My daughters colon cancer was quite advanced when they found it. They gave her one and a half to two years, but with her being so young and such a fighter, she said I’m not going anywhere and gave us 12 years. Like I said, it was quite advanced when they found it, and it finally took its toll on her. I thank God for giving her that time with us. She proved to be a lot stronger than those around her. I will add you and your family, especially Ray to my prayer list. Stay strong, and stay positive. God bless.🙏🏻

Thank you so much for the update, Kelly. You have been so brave throughout this hellacious journey. Please know all of your viewers are behind you all supporting you and praying for you all. Prayers, hugs and love as Ray faces this next chapter. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

I'm having my 2nd mastectomy Monday. Chemo will come! I'm thankful I have a great surgeon. 3 operations & I haven't had any pain at all. I dread Chemo. I'm so glad you have some good news about Ray. I have panic attacks every day when I wake up, so I understand your anxiety. Anxiety & depression are awful. To have that to begin with & going through what you are now must be horrendous! I can see Ray's light at the end of the tunnel. You will all be in my prayers.

I pray for Ray's healing in his body....I pray for you and your family.... blessings and prayers for all of you guys.....I pray Ray can sleep, eat, and rest....❤

Kelly I think your channel followers are glad that you keep us informed of how your son Ray is doing. We are all here for you. Btw your diy’s are so darn cute.

Kelly, I am one of those that wait anxiously to hear about your son. It gives me solace to think that you get some comfort sharing this difficult journey; most of us feel helpless other than out prayers. I am not a DIY person, but I am learning. I will continue to pray for Ray and for you.

I am alway happy to see you and hear about Ray’s progress because you, Ray, and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. So whenever you give updates, I’m happy to get them. Yes I love your DIYs, but Ray is your son and therefore part of you. Keep strong Kelly God is not going to leave you nor forsake you. I promise. He is with you, and so are your subscribers.

Oh Kelly, I’m soo happy that Ray is getting his surgery. I’m sitting here bawling because I can imagine that he is walking on cloud nine. GOD IS GOOD

Ray, and your family continue to remain in my thoughts and prayers!

Kelly, there is no word to describe the kind of thank you I want to say to you and Ray. Your articulate honest sharing is so heartfelt and educational to the world outside of your home. This is one of the most difficult hurdles in life and so many people don’t know what is ahead of them, what options are in front of them, what questions to ask and everyone is terrified to share their heartfelt feelings and emotions of this journey for fear of it making them look weak, not supportive enough and hopeless. You my fine lady and your son have opened a door that has acknowledged so many people’s emotions and made it okay to feel this way on the most difficult journey of life. Thank you both for what you are doing as you are truly supporting so many people that have or are going through similar challenges. You have acknowledged that their fears are real and you have given courage to not give up and to have hope each day. Many prayers to you, Ray and your family. You and your family are incredibly compassionate wonderful people. ❤️

Kelly you should not be sorry about terminologies, honestly I didn’t know there was a difference and you shared how Ray bought this house and with your vision you did an amazing job and gave us ideas on how we can do upgrades on our homes. You are an amazing crafter and mom. I continue to pray for you Ray and the girls. We are his hope. I understand how he is dealing with this, that’s ok you guys have us. There is happiness at the end of the tunnel. I just know it. You guys have been through so much. I’m praying for your happiness. Just take deep breath’s even though it may be tough at times I believe you.

The advice from your friend is remarkable. What a good way to approach each day. ♥️♥️♥️♥️

Kelly, I continue to pray for you, for Ray, and your family. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family and especially for your son Ray. 🙏🏻

The love that God created is a love that you can express to a complete stranger wholeheartedly not awkwardly.... I love you and your family. You are a fantastic mother, human being 🩶🪽 Ray already beat this. He's just going through the recovery stages.

Kelly - You are an amazing mom! I have three children - ages 40, 35, & 28. Jay has given you some very good advice! I will keep you, Ray and your entire family in my thoughts and prayers! ❤🙏🙏🙏

We will pray for Ray and his success in this! Love to you all. I’m five years into the cancer game, and I can say that eventually Ray can be fine and I certainly will pray that he is fine after all of his treatments. Take care of Ray and take care of you.

Continued prayers for all of you. When I was 16 years old, my mom was told that she had less than 2 years to live. My grandmother told the doctor off. And told my mother that only God knows how long we have. My mother died when I was 41 in a car accident. Prayers help and gave me 23 extra years with my mom. Kelly, you are getting through this because you are a great mom. You are amazing. You all are dealing with it in your own way, but with respect for each other. Sending you hugs.

Great news for Ray and your family! Continued prayers for all! ❤❤❤

Ray and the rest of your family are in my prayers every night. God is the great physician

Kelly, I had gastric bypass surgery in 2004 for weight loss. Yes, it does require you to eat differently but it is doable. I am proof of that. I’m so happy to hear that Ray has this surgery available for him. Thank you, sweetheart, for keeping us updated. We are here for you to simply chat, if that’s what you need. Friends across the miles can be a source of light and strength. Your family has had a very rough time. You will one day soon, God willing, feel the sunshine on you and God will lift this load off of all your lives. I truly believe it. Prayers coming your way from Central Florida. 🙏🏼

Kelly, your family is an extension of us all. Truly I would love a weekly or daily update. At this point the diy's are a bonus. Keep the faith, know we are all still praying and keep you all In our hugging arms. We love you all.

Bless you, the girls and especially Ray. I’m not sure there’s anything I can say except that my thoughts, prayers, and love are with you. The pain you’re coping with is unimaginable. Ray is a fighter and will win this! 🙏🏻❤️xoxo

This opportunity is so wonderful. Ray will adjust to his new life. He will find new and positive things to focus on and he will have a long wonderful life. The strength the two of you have shown is so inspiring. Sending you all the positive energy to heal and thrive.

Oh darlin 🤎...what an amazing Mum you are.... I'm a very proud Indigenous woman of Australia and today is the last day of NAIDOC week, which is a celebration of our past and our culture and our future....this year's theme is 'For Our Elders'.... I shall pray to my Elders for Ray, for you , your girls and those that love Ray the most🖤🫶❤️...big love xx

If you get to read this comment I want you to know that I believe that things will turn out fine for Ray. I'm just a Mother who went through losing 2 sons who were diagnosed with HIV at the tender ages of 7 and 12. There wasn't any hope for them. It was at the time when there was only one drug on the market. Just to make this short, Ray has hope, he can have this surgery. You are doing great Kelly. I know the ups and downs, the anxiety attacks I suffered for years. They lived until 24 and 23 with this disease. I want you to know that my prayers for you and Ray are heartfelt and constant. Thank you for sharing this because it has helped me in ways I can't express. May God be with you and your whole family but especially with Ray and his team of doctors.

Prayers for the very best outcome. Strength and wisdom to the doctors. Strength and love for you Ray and the family.

I feel your confusion and pain. You are doing a terrific job! Everybody has their own path to travel and you are doing such an excellent job assisting Ray on his. None of this is easy, but living life is tough sometimes. Please take care, be safe, and feel the love from all of us...we're here for you.❤

Your coming off to me as a very strong person. You really are. Thank you for your update. Hang in there. I’m sending prayers to Ray , you & your family.

You will have HAPPY again! Oh how good that will feel. Thank you for sharing.

Kelly, continued prayers for healing for Ray, for wisdom for the doctors who are helping him, and for you and your family as you give care, strength, and support to your son. I'm so glad you reach out and let us know what is happening and how you are coping. It is not easy to go through these trials, but you are not alone, we, your fans, are here and are praying. God bless.

Prayers for you, Ray, your family, and the doctors. So sorry y'all are having to go through this awful battle.

Kelly I’m so happy to hear that Ray will be receiving his surgery. He is a very brave person and you are a very strong caring person. You will all get through this. I will continue praying for you, Ray, Kayla and Allie. I only ask your prayers in return for my uncle who has inoperable bone cancer.

Sending my prayers. So glad his surgery went so well. God bless Ray and all of you.

Continued prayers. ❤️

Thank you for giving us an update on Ray. My 25 year old son was just found to have a 15 cm mass on his spleen. He had a CT scan and they don't think it's cancer, but he still needs surgery to have the mass and his spleen removed. I've never been more terrified waiting for the CT results. I'll continue to send prayers and good vibes your way. Stay strong my dear. We are all here for you and Ray.

Ray is always in my thoughts and my prayers. You are an incredible mom. ❤️

You and Ray are in my nightly prayers. You are incredibly strong and Ray is courageous. It's so exhausting and depressing to feel so badly, buy he is battling like a warrior.

Remembered Y’all all day and prayed, just waiting for good news after surgery today’ 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼✝️

Continued prayers for Ray …for MIRACULOUS healing in the mighty name of Jesus 🙏♥️