To the girl w/the pool issue… When I was a kid, my dad never let me have friends over to swim because he didn’t want to be held liable if there was an accident. I always hated it, but this might be a legit excuse for those obnoxious neighbors! 🤷🏼♀️
28:45 The way Chris starts off on that legitimately inspirational monologue about embracing failure and then immediately proceeds to torpedo it while Matt stoically tries in vain to stop him from making it weird, that is peak Lifeline
My uncle stole a sign from a hotel that says “pool closed for chemical treatment” and puts it by his pool whenever he has people over he doesn’t want swimming in it. It looks very official and works every time.
Love this! 😂 My dad always said we couldn’t have people over to swim because he didn’t want to be held responsible if there were an accident. Totally legit excuse for people you don’t even know!
You can tell how much Chris enjoys this podcast, Matt matches his energy and fills the room so perfectly. Great duo, probably my favorite thing to listen to since it came out
I’m glad Chris understood the problem with the “dating betas” girl. It seems like a valid problem but from the way she acted it made it seem way more of a personal thing that she’s overlooking
She even said she likes the guys for a while then finds out they're "beta". I'm still wondering if she's using the realistic version of the word, or Chris' obnoxious use of calling everything beta lol
Seems to me from her mention of inflation that she basically figured out they're not rich enough to afford her inflated ego. She's cute but that voice and energy is a bit grating. Also, if you're in your 20's, maybe just look for older guys in their 30's if money is what you seek.
This has quickly become my favorite podcast. Chris and Matt have that chemistry that only brothers can have. they're the perfect compliment to each others jokes.
In 9th grade, my English teacher made us analyze a quote from ‘Mending Wall’ by Frost, “Good fences make good neighbors.” AND I NEVA FOGAAHT IT. Been seriously useful for friendships and marriage alongside the book series Boundaries by Cloud/Townsend. Seriously. This show has convinced me boundaries are the most important thing to prevent Fear Thy Neighbor.
I love how there's a completely serious disclaimer before each show talking about mental health when half the advice involves improvised fake quotes by John Lennon and doing spin moves.
I dont have any comments on the quality of this show, but it definitely works as a Monday week-starter for me. Thank you for the entertainment D'Elia brothers.
This is the relationship I wish I had with my brother. He and I don’t even talk except for when we’re required to on Christmas. S’deeper I know but that’s where we’re at now.
@@bigbryanbeach3854 He just really doesn’t like me much, never has. I always looked up to him as a kid but I was just the annoying younger brother and he’s never seen me as otherwise, for many years now. S’deeeeeeeeper!
Watching stuff alone is my preferred way. When I watch things, I can't help but also try to watch the show/etc. through the perspective of whoever is watching with me. It's a slightly different experience.
OMG!!! I always think about that last girl from NJ saying.. “Chris D’elia, i fkn love you but soar? Ehhh.. changeee iiiiit” She’s my favourite KATS submission to date!
To the girls with the boyfriend who wants to watch congratulations alone- start throwing a weekly congratulations party and invite your friends over. Have snacks and shit. And then if your bf wants to come be like no sorry 🤷🏽♀️😂
There is an easy out for the pool situation. Just chalk it up to "my insurance does not cover me for third parties using my pool, and I'm not willing to take on that liability" - done.
Yeah i don’t think she’s understanding that he being well-accomplished is the problem for guys. It’s the fact that she comes off as someone who dipped their nose into a certain white powder for too long
She literally said she wanted to be “saved” by Theo lol. She wants someone “accomplished” so she either wants someone with money or an Olympic athlete and that’s what she thinks an alpha male is. She’s young and pretty cute but if she wants “accomplished”, men typically don’t hit their financial stride until over 35 so she’s gunna have to up her dating age to like 35-45 LOL
To the pool advice, I've dealt with the same thing and I used excused that do to accidental insurance coverage prices , it worked 🤷♀️, also to guy hitting on girls be confident when you approach!....I remembered the girl on KATS she said "change it' 🙌😂
i realized certain friends of mine were gay before they were out and talked to them about it and it helped them break the ice to come out. i think its important to certain guys what their straight friends would think. i would ease into the convo 1 on 1.
Sure, that's pretty legit in the US because you guys are so litigious. In Canada you'd either have to have them over or just straight up say no and live awkwardly for awhile until that dies down. Those ppl sound the worst so I wouldnt mind offending them, hopefully they get the hint and either way u got your peace back. I like to be friendly with everyone but not friends with everyone
the pool thing is so sad. when i was a kid we had great relationships with a lot of our nearby neighbours, and we would always be playing in eachothers back gardens, sharing our pools and/or toys, even using eachothers outdoor water taps to reload our water guns or fill up our water balloons when we would have water fights in the street. i bet if those guys had kids around the same age as their neighbours, it'd be a totally different story!
The girl at the end is definitely the problem. No one is going to be alpha for her, because no one wants to stick around long enough. Can you imagine listening to her shit all day? I mean these guys have to play nice to their fans, so they don't lose them, so I said it for them.
S’mmmany sisters with the same jacket 😂😂😂😂😂😂 this podcast and congratulations are the only thing keeping me going as the world burns around us 😂😂😂 as well as Chris’ laugh and just Matt’s whole presence. Amazing. ❤️
This Podcast is like if Kiss made Rock songs that had a more pragmatic sense. Chris being the lyrics “I wanna Rock n’ Roll all night!…” and Matt being the amended lyrics “And party at a moderate level!” A nice lifestyle balance.
Dude..if this family is texting them to swim in their pool, they're closer than strangers. Giving someone your phone number opens up a pandoras box of problems. These needy entitled neighbours have poor boundary issues and there's no way around them causing problems when you tell them no. s'screwed
As an autistic male pushing 40 I failed miserably hundreds of times with women I found that working out at the gym helps with the social awkwardness it’s a bit of a confidence booster
as a female i think most girls enjoy being hit on and have major respect for guys that have the courage to come up to someone, it's only annoying if they're relentless or take rejection way too hard. Life Rips babies!!!!
Its weird listening to this podcast as an Australian, when all these UK and NZ callers calls up and it's s'obviously not an Australian but then Chris rips on Australia
On YMH they watched a video of a NZ dude pretending to be a dog, dressed in leather while another dude inserts his “tail” and they all thought it was an Australian dude 😫😫
chris is like a nuclear physicist that walked out of graduation, got 8 years of college zapped out by the men in black, then proceeded to buy a hotdog and never thought about nuclear physics again
started rewatching when they started saying “JUST DO IT- THATS WHY WE ARE ON THIS PLANET TO FURTHER THR SPECIES” and for 5 minutes thought about what i need to do and how i’m holding myself back- i gotta DO this shit. and then i realized they’re just talking about some dude trying to KNOCK BOOTS.
Lmao same! Started last Monday and finally found time to get back to it. Had the same mentality for all of 2 minutes til I realized what they were talking about again.
Are they brothers? Great Ying and yang. I subscribed. I don't normally subscribe to any pods. I like this show. It's a good mix of realism and good advice
