@@themack74 It's true most of the times. I've been dating since the 70's. Women are going to have the babies, they know within 5 minuets who they want to be with. A woman will *usually* stay with you longer. It's higher percentage.
I learned that 24 years ago when I was 17... women love saying "if you love someone, and it it's real, set them free and it will come back" but I know for a fact that the truth is "if you love someone and it's real, they wouldn't leave in the first place"
I’m 59 and I was widowed three years ago. “ Simp “ wasn’t used back when I dated my late wife in 1985. We got married in 1986 and over that 35 years I would say she loved me sometimes and being all the things this woman just mentioned didn’t matter. I haven’t had anything to do with a woman since she died for the reasons this woman mentioned. I’m a recovering Simp.😂 It’s ironic that when I was growing up in the seventies women cried all the time about men doing the things this woman mentioned and when we guys that came along with these qualities the Gen X women took advantage of us instead of appreciating it. 🙄
"Only if she wants to be kept by you"- nothing more truthfully said. You can nurture a woman in every way that a man is supposed to and, as she accurately states, it will not keep her. I have seen it firsthand.
We know whether a woman will stay or go we just be in denial due to love and the vagina. Women always show signs of what it is no matter if she says she’ll stay forever. As a matter of fact the women that say they’ll be with you forever are the ones that tend to leave so if a woman ever says this in general either leave her then or bare the consequences later
This goes both ways tho? If a man doesn't want her it doesn't matter the reason, it's just is. She can be the most amazing mother and the most loving wife, but still love isnt always logical. Many divorces I heard they simply broke up because they drifted apart and are no longer in love nor moving in the same direction. He couldn't blame his ex wife, and she couldn't blame her ex husband.
@@Hello0x0 Oh brother, here comes the neutral comment. People can't ever openly discuss the flaws of women without somebody somehow insinuating that men are also at fault. The opposite doesn't happen anywhere near as often tho, if at all.
@a-buttonace I mean 70-80% of divorces are initiated by women, I find it funny that men blame women for that lol but yeah in general you cannot keep anybody, even your own family or friends. You cannot control it and you'll drive yourself crazy. If it's love you'll feel safe, if it's not then you'll start negotiating attraction. Saying women are evil when the reality is if men had even 1/12th the options they ditch her too. All relationships are net postive, or aim that way.
@@IsmaelEYEINTHESKY Yes . There is this mofo I gave a chance to prove himself mature but he continued with his childish self so now it's a NO no matter what he does or doesn't do . 😂😂
You can care, you just can’t force anything on any women. You have to know how to decipher between if a women wants to “be kept by you” or not. Even when times get hard, easier said than done though….😒🤦🏾
@@williamfriar6295yeah if you find the one its…its not gonna be hard. Simple. Until then get these racks up. Because aint nothing more trying than a broke love 😂😂😂
I know two married guys that caught their wives cheating. At that point both men were not ready to throw the marriage away and asked the wife what she wanted to do. Surprisingly both women said they wanted to try to work it out, one even agreeing to go to counseling. Flash ahead and NEITHER girl really tried to fix anything; it was all words, apparently coming from guilt. Why? Her feelings for her husband were gone. No matter how much you struggle, you cannot put the toothpaste back into the tube!
"Her feelings for her husband were gone." This is why I have taught my children that love is a Siamese twin. It's joined at the heart to commitment! When feelings fail you, commitment keeps the marriage together. Being ruled by emotions will destroy everything! “The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?" (Jeremiah 17:9 NLT.)
There is one person for everyone and you will know if you are with that person. Don't feel destroyed by someone who is not them because it doesn't matter.
@@anaximanderofapollonia9842 you don’t think most men are ruled by reason? Men are mostly logical and women usually use emotion to make decisions. I used logic for decades trying to understand female behavior and always ended up frustrated. Not until I saw a few RU-vid videos did I understand how the female mind worked!
Nothing can keep a woman. So do not care about women. Take care of yourselves fellas. Focus on yourselves primarily. Focus on your career, self improvement, on your immediate family. Life will become much easier for you.
Tabernacle. Church on the move. A few hours ago, I gave the same game to one of the young guys in my area. Nothing works WITH THEM. Nothing guarantees you success with THEM. Chicks are divorcing guys for being great husbands, and dads. Can you buy THAT? Don't waste your time trying to figure them out. Work on self elevation in every regard.
Just because she said that doesn’t make it true. I’ve been married and faithful for 28 years because amongst other things it’s the type of woman that I am. It hasn’t always been easy, we haven’t always been happy but that’s life, it comes in seasons. Right now for the past 2 years finances aren’t what they used to be, but we’ll get through it as we have in times past. I’m committed to him because I’m committed to Him🙏🏾❤
@@slumy8195 Chin up. They’re just rare. Try going to church or someplace where traditional women congregate. There’s loads of them out in the country, by the way. Overall, they’re comparatively rare but they’re common in certain environments and they appreciate manly, good and loyal men. Take care and God bless.
@@khjr14 Nah, don't stereotype good women. Going to church doesn't automatically make them good, and in fact sometimes it's just a front. Good women don't congregate in any one place. You can find them anywhere.
@@khjr14 i just love these future single ca daddies want good loyal women while simutaneouldy not being the same, man the cat daddy life gon hit hard 🤣🤣
If men would take the time to vet the woman by her fruits first... This is something most people are not doing at all! "You shall know them by their fruits." A good tree yields good fruits and a bad tree cannot yield good fruits. Do not ignore red flags 🚩🚩... PLEASE let her go.
Facts! No amount of effort will make a woman to stay or be with you. She will just enjoy the perks given without any commitments. Those who truly want to be with you will fight for you and to keep you. So basically, no need to break ourselves in half, stay on your path and the right one will be known to you.
I've seen it with my own eyes. All the effort don't matter if she doesn't want to be with you. If she wants to be with you, you don't need effort! Life is strange.
That is some hard facts for sure. I’ve tried to explain this to my sons since they were younger. I’ve also tried to explain this is another way to my daughter. I want them to make sure that they find themselves the right partner so that can have a peaceful relationship down the road. Who wants to constantly find and argue their entire marriage?
@@shaylaahava6413 It's harsh but it's reality ! Been down that road many times. You less likely to wind up in the friend zone. Females are going to have the children. They pick their mates. Women are the gate keepers to sex.
the real truth none of these channels talk about is that this is only a western issue... Islam ABSOLUTELY do NOT have to deal with this and most Spanish and Asian nations don't have this problem on the lvl western nations have it....
Latin America have high rates of unwed Single mothers low marriage rates and high teen pregnancies. the Philippines have the highest rates of teen pregnancies in Asia
That's a guy's nature. Statistics show that guys are more likely to get hostile and violent after being rejected even after hearing they're in a relationship. You boys are saying stuff only y'all do so that way y'all seem more worth it.
@@Mii..It literally isn't just men, I've had women reject me and then be incredibly jealous or even outright bickering when I found someone else more than once. You're probably one of those, since you got so defensive about it.
@pamelamelton SOMETIMES men do this. MOST OF THE TIME women do this. my cousin right now is going through divorce after almost 20 years married because his ex just wanted something else. so fuck her husband, fuck her 2 sons, shes gonna live it up while she can. story ive heard countless times, and RARELY THE OTHER WAY AROUND.
@pamelamelton when women are initiating almost 80% of divorces (and very rarely for an actual reason other than she got bored and wants all his shit) yeah men arent perfect, but in this particular instance and in society, women are more concerned with excitement rather than consistency. She'll give her all to a man who belittles her and fucks around all day and she'll use a simp to pay for their life. And when they do give the good men a chance they get bored cause a good man is not going out seeking drama, a good man is not partying all the time. And you know the saying, girls just wanna have fun until they turn 40 and then they're ready to settle. And as a man I agree men have problems too, but I don't see a lot of men doing this wicked shit.
I had a good run. I was in 2 serious relationships. One lasted 8 years the other lasted 4. I was also a bartender for about 10 years, and in that time I had plenty of flings. Now im in my 40s and im happily single. Ive never been more at peace.
tbh i wouldve leave aswell if i was a woman. man cant get ring on it in 4 years what the heck is that, just waste of my time (unpopular opinion i know)
Now if we can only get women that are no longer interested in continuing a relationship with you to be honest and just leave, as opposed to lying and manipulating you about how much they love you until they find someone they think is better.
Why would they do that? Then they'll be giving up their paycheck, free lifts, free food, free accommodation, free entertainment, free bodyguard....and on and on and on.....of course they'll string you along to keep all that going.
Literally the same vice versa. Guys will be in a relationship with a girl they don't like just so that way they aren't alone without any seggs until they find the "Right woman". Blatantly admitting most of y'all are fine with playing and using them as "temporary amusement" until you find the "real" one. You're using things more common with males to create a view that debunks your points.
The main thing isn’t to not care about women. It’s more of to focus on you, and you become the prize, where a woman would want to be with you, and she would lose out because of how valuable of a man you are.
If a woman is not willing to weather the storm with you why should she be allowed to sail with you when the seas are calm is if we can't face the hard times together I don't deserve to be there when everything is going good periodt cause far to many females leave when a man falls off but come running back as soon as he back in his feet I'm sorry not sorry it shouldn't be like that if she truly wants you and not what you can do/ give to her
That was the best way to explain it from a man perspective, salute to you with this explanation in the comments, and my God bless you and your relationships for now and in the future🤲🏿💯🌎
It’s a two way street. A woman will support a man and do everything for him while he builds his career, and as soon as some thot comes around the man will toss the good woman aside (including their own child) in a heartbeat for some strange! Stop playing like you’re the only victims, there’s a reason you all get taken to the cleaners in divorce court! It’s not for nothing!
@@lisamari941 very true however I was speaking of the women that literally would walk out when times get hard and run back as soon as he is on his feet again
@@lisamari941 ive never heard about this IRL, sounds like some kind of twisted narcissistic projection to me, like a "ragebait" or smthng. ive genuinely not heard a single time man leaves for a thot just randomly. this ive heard that man already had many possessions and a wife comes into the picture, but he doesn't stay faithful
@@lisamari941 although this kind of thing has happened before, it's rare, and even then, the man has displayed cheating behaviours prior to the couple getting married, like flirting with other women. But the women choose to turn a blind eye to the red flags. I've seen it.
I've been through this. Once gave a woman everything I had and went 100% for her, only for her to drop me like I was nothing out of the blue one day. Looking back, the signs were there for a long time before that day came. Now I'm with a woman who goes 100% for me. You'll know the difference when you see it!
I told my son that when a woman loves and only wants you, there isn’t anything a man can do to take her from you. PERIOD. I don’t care how good looking he is or how much money he has.
Facts! I work in the Healthcare field, and there are sooo many hardworking women in love with deadbeat men who don't work and have no ambition. However, these same women treat the hardworking men at work like they're not man enough. It's insane. 🤯🤔🤷🏽♂️
Thank you! This is what I've been trying to get through my mother's and uncle's heads. They keep telling me things to do to keep a man, but you can't keep anyone. Man nor woman. You don't own them. They have their own minds and bodies. If they want to be here, they will be, but that's ultimately up to them.
don't give up the goods.. sounds like they maybe pretend to care about you just to get into your pants get old fashioned and i bet there is some really nice guy you didn't want because you wanted the alphas but he really genuinely loved you
@CastleHassall I'm married, but i still keep getting lectured by my family. But married or not, I will still stick to my principles. People can't be kept. They're not pets. If someone wants to leave, then they should. Life will still go on.
I say it often..."Bump the brawd you're sweating and pursue the one that's interested in you". She'll feel like she's struck that pot of gold at the end. Always a better deal and you can't go wrong, specially if you play ya hand right. Stay strong, men.💪🏾 💯💯💯
@@DionLYA That... Is a massive cap. Women are notorious for not approaching men. They give out vague signs and expect you to act on them. That's the definition of lazy.
Most women just settle for you while still searching for that someone else . Always remember, men dont trade teams but a woman will wear the jersey of any man she’s interested in at the moment.
And the hardest truth is: Even if you "get" her, she can and will change her mind *AT* *ANY* *TIME* and *FOR* *NO* *REASON* other than she got bored and needed new entertainment. She's never your gents. Get what you can get, until you can't get any more.
Facts! This is a woman who compares. Most people call it monkey branching, but it's all really the same. If she has opportunity to jump to Chris Brown or a country music singer and she thinks that the said person is somehow more of a man than you. She's gone and you just got to accept that!😅
Some women are just unable to love any man and no matter how hard you'll try she won't be there for you. She'll just tolerate you until better "opportunity" will appear.
@@user_kH9bw3ns1 From my own experience - most chicks 30+, desperate enough to find a man and get kids - they do that. They settle for any man who isn't an obvious junky or alco-rat and is able to bring home "some" money. Any guy like that, will do. Love/affection is then completely optional or even irrelevant. In few years she'll definitely hate the dude and off course blame him for it. But hey - women aren't thaguht to be responsible for their own actions.
Only God will send you're wife,gentlemen let God choose you're wife 😂 if she's heaven sent and a God fearing woman with humility and gentle spirit 😮that's a blessing from above
i dont want to be an a$$h000le but woman is not heaven sent, is made from a guy's rib.. more like, man is heaven sent due to his Father is, literally, God. but like you can live in that belief if you want i dont like you know, find you and force you physically to believe otherwise. yeah good luck. with all respect and humility, we're not the same
@laurivaltter God created marriage not humans, so dream on buddy 🫡🫡go get you're heart broken, biblically if you do read the bible you can see that Adam had everything going on,a garden and he walked with God, then God saw he was lonely,so God created a wife for him, from the rib,bones but the foundation is soil aka Adam, do some research and study and if you don't believe in the bible then it's OK,I'm not here to be negative or debate but God is God, humans is humans,we here on earth and God is in heaven🫡 and I'll pray for you ❤️
Some men will try to force women into a relationship, and they know she doesn't want him. Then, he claims that she used him for what he was willingly give. That's called a simp. Trying to be with a woman that doesn't want you
The irony of a woman saying this 😒. Most women have trail of decent men in their past who loved them and would’ve made them an honest woman but, she didn’t want him. I guess that “love who loves you” only works one way. However, seeing as God made man in his image it makes sense man carries that burden. I guess there is irony in that as well. Humanity treats God the way women treat good men…they don’t want him even though He shows you love.
When I was a young boy my mother told me "women are expensive". My grandmother told me women want something big: big house, big bank account, big brain, big heart, big humor, big d*ck, big truck, big talent ... something must be big in their eyes for you to be their king. Two women who spoke the truth to me!
Its also very important to note that a good woman wants you to have these things but doesnt want to take them from you. They want to be by the side of someone they look up to, can admire and brag about. This is a big reason why so many men have trouble getting women these days. We have been lied to about what women want by society and pop culture. Being nice, caring and open only works if it comes from a position of strength, otherwise it makes you look desperate and weird.
Truthfully, she dropped some gems. So now after hearing this, im hearing that the ball is in the mans court. Because if she doesn't want to be kept then she should be left. Too many women are missing the fact that a man is born from a woman, and from his mother he knows a woman, and from hid father he knows a man. Check yourself and everything that comes from you.
Hence why no man should be jumping to help random women, whether the problem is major or minor. Let them help themselves or get the men they want to do it, if they will even do it.
Some women don't want a good man. If you're naive enough to be with one of those type. I feel for you. Get away from her as soon as possible. She will start to tear you down, if she hasn't already. Like the lady said. No matter how good you are to her, she will not be happy. Like a wild animal brought in from the jungle, they will never adapt to the "good " life.
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The harder part is that if she fights for you it may not mean you keep her. Women generally like me only when other women are interested in me. It is mostly just jealousy, even if it is just an illusion, it can make girls super interested. So she will fight for you but once the jealousy wears off she may not be interested again.
❤Grandma is right!❤ wish I had been taught this 40 years ago…🙋🏾♂️ Men are designed to get a woman, not to keep her; Women are designed to get pregnant, not keep a man… ❤What’s love got to do with it…❤
It goes both ways. Respect and listen to each other and always make an effort for each other no matter what is going on in your life. Let go of your pride and ego and apologize if you know that you are wrong. Everyone makes mistakes. Don’t bring your past relationship baggage into your current relationship and judge or blame your partner for how your ex treated you. It’s not fair to your partner and makes you look childish.
If she does not want to be kept by me, then why is she with me in the first place? And if she leaves me, then why would any man take her seriously for a long term relationship? Because at any point, she could decide "not to be kept" anymore.
@@paulat1088 "Chasing" implies "catching" and "failing to catch." And once you have caught your prey, you can do whatever you want with it. Because, if you cannot do whatever you want with the prey that you caught, then your "chase" was an illusion as it is you who ultimately got caught.
@@anaximanderofapollonia9842 I was responding to your first sentence. Why is she with you? Because you chased, no better options came along and she gave in. But you were not a first choice.
@@paulat1088 Hence the question: If she does not wish to be kept by me, then what other man would want to "catch her" for the 2nd time, while fully knowing that she has a track record of "getting caught and not wanting to be kept?" The emphasis is on other men enabling this "not wanting to be kept" behaviour in women. Not on the women (not) wanting to be kept.
‘Nothing you ever do for me ever, will ever make me happy or want to be with you and it’s all about me and how I feel’ -How to make a man miserable and not want to be with you 101 I guarantee she’s left dozens of dudes and is still single
