Benjamin Zulu you teach me every time I something new. I just broke up with my partner who is 39 years old and has a 9yr old. I couldn’t handle his behaviour and life of living. He was jobless, depressed, alcohol addict and verbally abusive. There was no chemistry after discovering the details..
I can't imgn how my view of life changed since last year Nov when I got to know this God sent man.May God continue pouring wisdom to you as you help people.
One time I cried while on the road seeing how unfortunate I had been with relationship despite how much I had been outgoing in my career. Having a big kid at home is terrible.
I love these two men You said they walk like police officers 😂😂 I am done Thanks for your wonderful shows I have grown and I have my best man because I have learned so much from you I hope one day I can share my life story All in all am grateful and thankful
Great show. Great diction and great probes in time. I love your style of giving lots of time with the interviewee. Huku ndio ulpotelea. I think I have everything I was looking for
Please Benjamin here is the topic that I find fascinating when I think about it and I hope one day you will be able to address it. It will be interesting to hear from psychologist. I live in USA and I have seen and heard lot people who return Back home in the countries when they came from to find a husband or wife and they find them, but I haven’t seen any stability in those marriages; when those people get in the states they end up in divorce court. Where I live, this problem is pandemic so if you share your knowledge; you can help lot people
It's because you have married a woman who is in need. When you have pulled out the lion from the river, once dry on land it says it's hungry and you look delicious.
Thank you very for the program As a woman when u see a guy u love but his a pastor in ur church How can one go about it without appearing desperate to him or anyone
But Benjamen if I have heard you very well you talked of distance am a Namibian and my boyfriend is in SA, we new eachother for long now and he has all the green lights you discussed. Now my question is: is distance an issue here
Unfortunately some people are infected by their spouses within the marriage. I could be wrong, but at some point in Kenya, the highest rates of HIV were among married people, presumably who had stepped out of their marriages.
Yees.. i av 2yrs since i broke up but healing has bcme a problem.. i av a fear of falling in love again cz i might pour the previous pain to current man
@@nancyschmeer124 Everything in good measure. I understand it is his channel and I am very, very fortunate to have it in my life but he is a host to us also and needs to get honest feedback. His pearls of wisdom need to be heard loudly and clearly, we need all the help we can get out here in the jungles of life. from a middle aged woman with still Foggy thinking in Montreal
@@Wakio231 I agree there is freewill .He is the host, a host has and gets feedback of people hearing him. I am not the only that says this, just reads the many posts saying the same thing. All in moderation. Laughter too.
@Hlonela Mabhani It was being honest, not criticizing. I was never unkind.So many others said the same thing. You also should try to be genuine, you probably thought the same thing. Sometimes it is more cruel to be kind when you are not truthful. Don't shoot the messenger.
