Growing Up With Strict Parents... 

Strict parent chain

growing up with dominican parents is basically: other kids can do this, you cant do that, other kids cant do that, you can do this

I hate when parents punish children for getting bad grades. It doesn’t do anything except make them hate their parents and feel like they value a letter on a piece of paper more than they do. It’s disgusting imo

Hopefully your channel grows more both you and your brothers. It would be cool if we had a medium sized community but I also like how easy it is to be interactive in a small growing community like this

I don't like when parents say "because I said so" if you think about it, it doesn't make any sense

I got strict parents, like really strict. To deal with that I've learned to be sneaky, I've done sooooo many things and they have no idea. Heck, they don't even know I have this youtube account. I gotta flex that I've snuck out of my window at night, AND our house has cameras and we got dogs. It felt so free.

I hate the parents that think that they can do anything they want for the sole reason of being a parent

One of my friends has a mom who is so strict she didn’t even let my friend choose her own major, and has complete control over her. For some reason her mom got mad that she got into college though- I swear some parents are walking Ls 😒

The "because I said so" reasoning will always confuse me it's like parents think their kids don't need to understand why they do the things they do

I am disabled due to an accident that happened at 2, so when I was younger, my parents went much easier on me than my siblings, until I was 10, when they just decided that without any amount of warning, I had to do the exact same chores as them, with zero prep or learning how to do. I eventually learned how to do it, but it wasn’t easy as my disability made it just harder. I’m glad that they decided to get me on the same level as my siblings, but I wish they did it more incrementally instead. And actually taught me how to do it.

I hate strict parents. That sort of authoritarian parenting isn’t love, it generally fosters resentment and rebellion. The only silver lining is if the kids grow up to never trust authority, and in this day and age it’s more important than ever not to trust or listen to authority.

Damn strict parents is something that we always hated as kids but as we grew older we come to realize why it's annoying but important at the same time.

My parents had a different approach to strictness where they basically ran my whole schedule and somehow normalised it in my head that it’s normal to have extensive parental control over my life. Like Birdie, “little bitch” doesn’t even begin to describe my attitude towards the whole thing. At 25 I am doing okay in life and I definitely achieved some things, but some if them were for all the wrong reasons (mostly to appeal and appease), and some of them in direct rebellion. I recently went through what I would call “mind wipe”, where I had to reevaluate and reinvent my system of values to get out of the burnout, depresaion and obesity hole I found myself in, largely because I continued on the familiar path of appealing and appeasing rather than seeking out my own happiness. Why am I writing this? Strict parenting, applied wrong, can really wreck a kid and put them on a self-destructive path. It can also instill resentment and anti-social habits. I now have a good relationship with both of my parents because I let go of the past and they let go of any illusions of control over my life, but I imagine not everyone is this lucky. Amazing video, and to anyone reading this, I hope you are well :)

kids in america:'' no mom i don't want to go outside'' me:'' mom can i please go out''

as long as u dont have that "YoU cAnT sEe ThIs 16+ MoViE bEcAuSe ThE DeViL mAdE It" type of parent you should be fine

You thought that was strict? HA 1. Didn't get my own room until I was 13(yes I had to share one with my little brother, we had 3 other rooms I could use, so makes no sense) 2. Never got a phone(their reason was because they didn't trust me with social media, I mean sure, but I mean, that did wonders for me socially) 3. Bedtime was 8:45 in 7th grade, 9:00 in 8th grade, 9:30 in 9th grade, so on, so on 4. Wasn't allowed to listen to songs with cuss words(had to listen to them without them knowing) 5. If this comment gets 20 likes, I will list 5 more

Those parents were pretty strict ngl bro, but hey my mom used to shut off the wifi on me too, and it was for NO good reason. She said she couldn't sleep with the radiowaves from the wifi 😂 I feel you bro

Oh, my sister and I would go to war with our parents if they had any unfair 'rulings.' Mostly in our teens, but I also went on personal wars whenever they tried to say 'because I said so." I would take multiple groundings until they gave me a real answer. And I stand by that too. Don't tell your kid "because i said so." Explain your damn self.

Tbh I don’t really understand punishing kids for getting a bad grade. I understand the intent behind it, but in my experience, it doesn’t teach kids to do better, it just teaches them to become better liars!

BURDIE PLZ READ. FYI: (I'M 12 IN 7TH GRADE) So my story is that my parents don't let me play videogames, I always feel bad when my friends ask what console I have, and usually conversations go like this with my friends: *friends talking about video games, "Hey, do you play on PS5?" Me:"tf is that?" "Xbox?" Me: no "PC?" "No" "switch?" "No" "then what do you play on?" "Play what?" "Videogames" "I don't play videogames" "ask your parents for a PC or a console""bro it's not that easy I'm not allowed to", all my neighbors are senior citizens, I never had a sleepover. Me and my dad both have $50 Motorola pures which work really good and my mom has an iPhone 6s. The popular girls are always like "what phone do you have" me:"Motorola""wtf is that ask your parents for an iPhone 15" so then since I'm in tech, I search it up and it's $1500 on sale for a Chinese piece of metal. Our family has no uncles, aunts, grandparents, cousins available. Sad part it their alive but don't care about us and we can barely get food on the table let alone a $1500 iPhone 15. My dad couldn't afford a birthday gift for me and he gets paid 200k a year. But that's the dark side of living in California. Speaking of which, I'm not allowed to get below an A on anything school related. (My mom's Russian and my dad is gen x american) also, I am a star at baseball, probably because me and my dad built a batting cage and bought a pitching machine and we have no days off. In my family "relax" and "chill" don't exist. On weekends we usually do yardwork, work on cars, practice baseball and anything that needs to get done. I usually dress in goofy clothes to school because that's all I can afford. I get bullied by popular girls in my elective because I'm poor but I have to just let it slide. Speaking of which, my mom yelled at me because I got a $3 drink at jack in the box. I would have a lot better RU-vid channel, but I don't have enough storage on my phone to have videos. So yeah, that's it, just wanted to say it. You can make a video or mention this in a video if you want. Sorry it's long that 3am motivation kicked in.

I grew up with pretty chill parents (somewhat spoiled, but they broke me of that). The entirety of growing up I would always question other kids parents and their flawed logic. Just like some of the examples in your video, some rules do not make any sense, even as a child I could see that. Honestly I think some parents just get off on having that power and control.

This relates to me, and instead of my parents being strict to me, they were SUPER strict to my sisters and I. I wish they were just normally strict to us, rather than being super strict about it. But, thank you mom and dad for doing that to my sisters and I, so we can be more respectful and responsible for our actions.

"You want an allowance? I allow you to live here."

I enjoy the fact that some of the NPCs that are not really involved with the story are just South Park characters in a very simplistic but visually appealing style 😂

"Because I said so" has to be the most annoying and stupidest excuse ever said. Like that's legitimately the equivalent of "I dunno" like BRO WHAT?!?!

To everyone who had their parents turn off the Wi-Fi on them here is a message acknowledging your pain 👊

As someone with foreign parents I can say that this is accurate

burdie is the defenition of quality over quantity in videos

the beginning had so many inconsistensies, like bro would be beating himself for being rude to his parents, or having a tantrum at 8, then say they were being strict, like bro be picking the littlest things to critique himself for.

00:18 burdie turned into wurdie

I'm from The United Kingdom 🇬🇧 and at the time I was in my tween years of my growing up, there used to be this popular sketch show on the BBC called Little Britain, in which the explicit adult humour on there would get so strong that there were times where my mum and dad decide to ban me from watching it

My parents said they couldn't afford an Xbox and then buy a brand new car from the dealership, but I bought my own Xbox and I'm all good now, they gave up on trying to make me play outside in Texas summer of about 100f

Bro's parents aren't anything close to strict. If that's strict then my parents are far beyond diabolical.

1:04 you turned into Wourdie…

People who weren't aloud to play video games 😭 👇

My day gets like 5 times better when this guy uploads

I wish my parents where strickter when I was younger I’m still a kid (13) but most of self discipline stuff I needed to learn on my own

Strict parents are always a pain! They don't let their kid to go anywhere! And they're so annoying and disobedient! They're the reason why parents who are chill is way better than the strict ones!

8:21 sounds like parents with extreme OCD since a C grade is not failing

Burdie has to be the only channel that keeps me entertained and let’s me keep going

Tell me why when you said "life 360" my life 360 popped up with the "location refreshing" icon🙄🙄🤨

My friend's mom is filipino and I can definitely tell foreign parents are strict.

Burdies animation is getting actually decent.

Dude, your literally explaining everything that was happening to me detail by detail, to the flip phone, Wi-Fi being shut up, and Life360, literally all of it lol. Most relatable video to date

3:32 imagine if your parents didnt and you were the first one to fall asleep and yo friends prank you with the warm water to make you piss yourself, also i hope you reach 1 million some day!

Strict parents just raise better liars🤷🏼‍♂️ Im proof of that.

2:23 YOU GOT PAID TO GET GOOD GRADES? Nah I have to baby sit for 2 hours a day for 5 bucks and my baby niece will cry for 2 hour straight just cause she wants cookies

The phone one was relatable because in middle school and high school I literally had the lame phones 😒 and it wasn’t until I graduated high school the I got the iPhone 11 I still have it today and I’m using it.

I'm the least favorite in my family except for my favorite grandma, even tho she is in Mexico she worries alot tho I'm 11 and yet no one in my family that's where I'm living now even listens I'm always the one whit the fault even tho I don't do anything. Like to support stopping strict parents

You know who else grew up with strict parents?

Bro spittin🗣️‼️

Burdie never dissapoints

I can relate to the having wifi shut off except my parents were a step ahead, i just didn't have Wi-Fi at all until like 2015

the editing and the overall quality is improving a lot. keep it up burdie

8:46 my mom also made me get dat LOL😂😂😂

Burdie is the definition of quality over quantity [Videos}

1:31 HOG RIDAAAAAA🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🐖🐖🐖🐖

0:35 make your voice a little higher pitched and you got cartman

looking at my and Burdies lives and how different they are in the positive way. I'm thankful for my parents

Probably the reason why your Mom didn’t let you sleepover bc how there story involved with children get SA from their friend parents or you and your friends will do 💊🚬.

I was the literal Asian kid. Great at math, good at most things, smart, parent that constantly yells at them, brings out the belt, and threatens them even though they’re like 7. Jokes on her, she drove me into escapism to electronics and now I know stuff I shouldn’t + am chronically online.

4:40 When I was growing up, if I started arguing with my mother and/or talking rudely to her too much my Dad would yell at me to stop. If I persisted he would yell a 2nd time, and if I persisted after that and I was a little kid he would spank me. If I was older instead of spanking, he would smack me on the head with the back of his hand. He called them limpees. When I was in 2nd or 3rd grade I learned very quickly that if I don't want my dad to smack me on the head with the back of his hand, then I need to stop arguing, stop resisting, and obey everything my parents tell me to do down to a square T as soon as he starts yelling.

6:39 which one did you heard (iphone Shake ass) or (iphone 6s)

Yo birdie you are my favorite animator can you give me some tips on animating

Strict parent chain “Hey mom can I go to little Timmy’s house.” “NO you can’t.” “But mom why not .“ “Because I said so.”

Burdie is the one animated channel I keep coming back to

“Thats not fair” Burdies wise words🐥

Thankfully I didn’t have strict parents! I love your content burdie:D

Ya my dad can be weirdly strict half of the time and the other half of the time doesn’t even care. Because of him not being able to control my 10 year old stupid ass, i wont have teeth that last me a long time especially with the American diet. A C in french was like a house fire to my dad. He’s luck I am a chill child. Just hope i het a new computer now so I can get back to making videos because I’m tired of the laptop that freezes to one google tab, my laptop has the power of a Chromebook or a phone but can’t Chromebook or phone (Microsoft software expensive run on hardware unlike the iPhone or Chromebooks. Now I’m a little mad i missed the summer to grow my channel. This is the one time I begged to have him buy something for me beyond the laptops that were a scam, bro bought 1000 laptop that was really worth only worth 400 bucks. I told him to not get the laptops because only the really expensive ones are worth it, did he listen no.

This makes me so grateful for my parents bro, they aren't strict at all. Like they allow me to do stuff and support me. But that C shit is still for me too, I don't get it either

4:01 oh my moms the same bro

You already know it’s a good day when burdie posts:)

8:08 a C is not even that bad I think they kinda overreacted

I'm 14 and my parents are not extremely strict but still pretty strict: 1: they sometimes want to check my phone (my contacts and browser history) 2: I'm not allowed to play video games after 9 pm 3: I'm not allowed to watch movies or play video games that are for ages 15 or older 4: If I have an argument with my parent, I basically cannot talk back 5: I can't go anywhere (friend's house, store, etc.) without asking for permission But I have a friend with even stricter parents so I should not complain...

my parents were the same way about sleepovers, but i think it was mostly because i live about 5 miles away from all of my friends, and now their rule is "B's for keys" and I'm a mostly C's and B's student...

1:37 WHT😂

1:46 I have been to that target and it is in florida

As a person with a asian dad and a mexican mom, i feel like i went through world wars compared to this (my mom hit me with chargers and chanclas growing up when i got a c)

Until like 7th grade I was not able use my phone or play video games on weekdays, and once I was grounded for a week for getting a B

7:37 this is what I do when my legal guardians turn the WiFi off so they turn the WiFi off and then they go to bed then once there asleep I sneak downstairs to turn the WiFi on then I put my headphones on and turn the light off so they think I'm asleep and then before you go to bed quickly turn the WiFi off so they don't suspect anything and that's is Ty ❤️

Great video, Burdie! Hopefully this video gets you a lot of money, so you have something to show to your parents! 😂

You can tell his animation skills are getting better

6:18 KENNY!!!!

CARTMAN And Kenny And Stan This Dude Watches South Park No Doubt

being too obedeint and you will have your life told by others. being too disobedeint and you fail in life. just ballence it

5:05 I’m... still using an iPhone 6

W video though I bet Burdie won't pin this

3:09 a kidnappers van 😂

Can’t relate. My parents wanted to keep me safe so I didn’t go outside much but they also didn’t wanna parent so I always had a screen time of like 12 hours.

You think you were bad? My dad said he works hard to get me stuff everyday! But one time he gave me a doll but it wasn’t the kind I wanted and I threw a fit!

BRO GETS 5$ A WEEK? I GET 2$ A MONTH

Honestly, I never even got an allowance as a child

Serbian Parents:💀💀💀

People are lucky to have dish washers mine doesn't work so we are the DISH WASHER!!💀

Hey I think I can answer your question about why so many people hate on you The problem is that your content looks very similar to your other "friends" channels. Heck the art style looks the exactly the same to The duck Also your content just consists of smoky werid topics and Gen z. That's but the problem is that your "friends channels" all talk about the same thing but don't get me wrong it's and interesting topic but when you play it to death it's just disgusting to look at. So people call other RU-vidrs because your little group of "friends" all post the same thing which makes channels nothing special. I think people hate on you because your not very original to yourself I'm not trying to hate or anything don't get me wrong but hate on you because your content is the same as your "friends" content so hopefully maybe if you make an effort to be more original maybe you'll get less hate but that's a theory a film theory!

burdie and tagswag never fail to disappoint 🐐🐐🐐

5:21 i did that when I was like 6 😂

dude ur poorly drawn animations are PERFECT even tho ur style makes me think of making a channel too... KEEP GOING!!!

If you listen closely at 9 1/2 minutes you may have some music I don’t exactly know what it is behind the background of what he was talking I’ll find it out

I did Limited video game time Cant watch movies or play video games that have a higher age rating than what i am