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so this has been my love life for the past year...
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@maiphammy Год назад

so y'all have heard me say "I DONT KISS BOYS" for the past year... and this is the explanation on why. lol this is in no way advice at alllllll by the way. just me oversharing about my love life ahahahah

@khalilahd. Год назад

Love a good story time and I’m proud of how much you’ve grown

@allie_read Год назад

Slayyyy🤚💅🙄

@clopie987 Год назад

The way that she’s thinking about a boy now OMGGGGGGGGG

@victoriaaaaa. Год назад

ok but you still slay every video you do 💕

@freyamelody6420 Год назад

Okayyy puuur

@nataliesoutlet Год назад

That last smile GIRRRRL, someone’s in love 🫶🏽💗😚

@Brooklyn2.0. Год назад

Omg Hi!

@lupitaservin2004 Год назад

Hey Nat, I love you so much. I hope you're doing well. Wishing you peace of mind.

@alexiswashere1228 Год назад

I WAS JUST THINKING THAT

@hannah-eg5tc Год назад

THATS WHAT I WAS THINKINGGGG

@jaava9596 Год назад

YESSSSS, LIKE HER GENUINE SMILE AND LIKE GRATEFULNESS FOR THE GIFTS, IS LIKE ANOTHER LEVEL OF JUST THINKING BEST FRIENDDSSSS

@chavonnerodriguez Год назад

The vibe at the end, the whole smile Mai has at the end while applying the Chanel lip balm and showing us the BFF necklace is everything. ❤️

@annabuddle494 Год назад

and frank ocean playing too - hes a keeper

@starsdailyusual Год назад

I love how she isn't afraid to say that she indeed was looking for a guy and thinks about him 24/7, and admits it unlike girls who just want to appear like "not like the other girls".

@rainachoi9537 Год назад

Mai is so open with us and doesn’t give a f abt others opinions! Everyone needs a friend like Mai.

@tanj1na Год назад

the happiness on Mai's face in the end when she showed us those gift ,, that made me happy too

@carlieronzano3124 Год назад

the fact that apparently we're both 19 but you make it seem like you're a whole ass well put together ADULT- like I could never survive on my own in NY I can't even go to the store by myself (yay for grocery delivery services)

@iswhosheis Год назад

This girl has MONEY. I'm 10 years older and left NYC because I lived in a shoebox with 3 guys younger than me. Yes, I have a college degree and a full resume. This girl is not living in a standard reality...

@danni8936 Год назад

Fr same

@sweetmarasme Год назад

girl i'm 26 and i look up to her so much lmao she's more an adult than i am

@GlitterObsessedFreak 6 месяцев назад

@@sweetmarasmesame

@piaculjak2174 Год назад

girl same....., was so heartbroken over a situationship with a guy... never felt like this before. still healing from it but literally, I can feel it changing me as a person. I'm more dedicated to my routines and being healthy, and more true to myself. It does get better :)) but I feel like you need to let yourself hurt a bit, surround yourself with good friends or find an outlet for those emotions. give yourself time, let yourself heal, and know that good and better things are coming because you deserve it.

@citygirllislis Год назад

i needed this, thank you for sharing:(

@calliebrinkman626 Год назад

Fr girl. people need to go through grief whether that be over a guy a death of a loved one losing a friend anything. It makes you stronger we have emotions for a reason you gotta feel them all the way through so you can get over them if you shove them down they will always be there till you address them.

@skylinechilii Год назад

as a person who doesn’t have friends this video makes me feel like I have someone to talk to

@akshu8111 Год назад

I agree.

@samkarlitv9318 Год назад

I just moved to another country to go to a univeristy. I don't know anyone cause the classes haven't started yet, so I'm basically alone everyday. And these videos make me feel like I have a friend and we're just talking.

@Martina-zg1os Год назад

@@Alrorosmile mmm you're here being rude at someone who has difficulties in finding friends, it looks like you don't have anything better to do, who's the depressing person now huh?

@rainy5517 Год назад

Same. Haven't had friends in 9 years

@blessieyang8070 Год назад

Bestie be my friend wtf

@victoriadeyanova Год назад

Mai needs to make a podcast, like I was cleaning my room and listening to her talk and it's so relaxing

@CloudSky_ Год назад

Omg yes

@Mushumom_0523 Год назад

Agreed

@sandradavid8464 Год назад

Literally same!!

@victoriaaaaa. Год назад

literally

@jde_qz Год назад

girll im still a young teenager rn, and listening to this makes me feel so happy and comfortable. Like the moment when you say the advices when we might feel like "what if he likes me, or what if he's this or this.." I felt so wowow. I thought I was the only one who felt this way but I wasn't, I'm def gonna take this advice tysm!!!

@renn.eu_ Год назад

i literally relate to the part about not being able to be friends with guys without feeling like they could like you in that way or just not being able to be friends. I've had that problem throughout highschool, but now that i'm almost done, ive learnt this year that all i have to do is see guys the same way i see my friends that are girls and just treat everyone equally, anyways you look really happy!! love your videos sm

@randomcommenter420 Год назад

if only guys adopted that attitude 😭

@blinkeuisaswiftie8397 Год назад

@@randomcommenter420 Fr lmao- they be really messing up when you're tryna have a good perspective.

@randomcommenter420 Год назад

@@blinkeuisaswiftie8397 they either see us as a different species creatures to analyse and “figure out” or objects. lol.

@blinkeuisaswiftie8397 Год назад

@@randomcommenter420 agreed and some of my guy friends do both of it, I've had some guy friends who are like so nice and polite to you in person but are pretty misogynistic irl and some had gross things of their girl classmates on their phones, that was traumatizing 😭

@JustABoy98 Год назад

@@randomcommenter420 not all of us are like that 😩 but I do get where you coming that from. I had a really nice friend (which was girl) but guys in my class ruined it and girls from her side , they always romancize us and say some s*itty things , even when we were literally studying . And it was easy to tease people like me and her becouse both of us were the one who got really bad bullied . Still she was my really good friend till end of my 10th grade , after that we went into different journey and sadly couldn't exchange number or anything

@Brooklyn2.0. Год назад

This girl is everything gorgeous,Funny, Entertaining and acts like we are her best friends.

@ayes_haa Год назад

Can we appreciate how she likes everyone’s comments like Mai is so relatable love her! 💙💙

@khalilahd. Год назад

Always 💜 she’s the best

@ashaterrezao7590 Год назад

Exactly😩

@justine7743 Год назад

isn't that just a bot? lol plenty youtubers have it

@zixzizia1066 Год назад

She has always been a real one

@777m0n4 Год назад

liked this on 777

@dorratrojette Год назад

When you take a break from dating and on a random day you decide to get back at it and you actually start seeing guys and realize how bad some of them are and feel so proud of yourself for not letting them play you because the old you definitely would.

@aradikas8811 Год назад

My quest to my "soulmate" literally led me to be so over conscious around almost any guy. Like i subconsciously treated most guys and girls diff. Any guy that found attractive always held up a small "what if he's the one" question in my brain. That led to me not moving with ease with the opposite gender due to trying present myself in the most put together way. Like geez, i need to relax... the one" ain't running away. "And this video was a good reminder that.💞

@khalilahd. Год назад

Love a good story time with my favorite online bestie ❤️ and don’t worry we’ve all fallen pray to crying over boys 🥲

@nikko1942 Год назад

Omg I’ve seen ur comments on Annie long’s vids!!

@maplecollins2584 Год назад

Me too especially boys who have gave me trauma

@evanseka4054 Год назад

It's prey not pray.

@pascalkamau Год назад

I like how you were just smilling at the end while showing us the gifts😭😍💗made me feel so happy

@levey5480 Год назад

You looked so genuinely happy in the end there and oml me and so many others have been so invested(is that the right word idfk??) and it got me smiling and (maybe its cuz im about to start my period💀 but) fr abt to tear up

@lfcoolg Год назад

I'm 19 and almost a year into my first relationship and it's so refreshing to hear that other people go through the experience of thinking about someone all the time and just giving them your soul, basically. It made me reframe my thoughts to realize that other people go through this too and it's not just me (and that it's not a serious attachment issue or something, which is what my mind has been telling me)

@ilymingo Год назад

this could not have come at a better time, literally love how true you are to yourself

@lbbb5456 Год назад

The way I've been watching mai since before she moved in with her sister, and then traveling and then living alone. Absolutely insane, I've just been living vicariously through her we're both the same age and it's just like watching my bestie grow from a distance. Insane how time flies

@jisunqluvr Год назад

i genuinely love her so much she makes me feel so much better about myself just in general and she truly feels like a friend even though ive never even directly spoken w her i dont have a lot of friends irl so i always feel very comforted while watching mai's videos

@2thsky Год назад

this video rlly opened my mind to a lot of things. Ive been so conscious about this boy that ive neglected a lot of things and people in life, especially myself

@melodyclementine Год назад

I love her get ready talks she’s so relatable. And yup boys they’re just so complicated but the worst thing is letting them take hold of the bad independent bitch you were. I literally lost my self in that for two years… we finally broke up a week ago. I feel so much happier. Love you Maiiii wish I lived in ny or you still lived in LA cause I live there😩🤎

@anagutierrez1949 Год назад

The ending. Girl I’m hoping you get more happy days ahead whether it is alone or with someone. You deserve it. 🥺

@Liv__lvl17 Год назад

Can I just start off by saying Mai your literally like a big sister to me! I grew up with 2 older brothers so I never got to experience what having an older sister was like, and now it feels like I have! You motivate me so much, just to like be my best self and also be kind to people. Seeing you generally happy makes me so proud because I know how hard life has been for you! I’m so glad your happy and thriving just by being you! 🥰🥰

@user-wi8zm Год назад

The way you smiled at the end made my heart ache❤️ I’m so happy for u Mai

@x_lillyk Год назад

Mai talking to us is literally like a FaceTime!! She is like the best friend we wish we all have.

@suzanna3966 Год назад

this comment 🥺

@fay7012 Год назад

omg, it's feels so good to watch mai rant about literally everything especially boys, i feel like i'm talking to my bestfriend lmao. love you queen! 💗👑

@vanessaadelin Год назад

Are you a spam phamily member?

@fay7012 Год назад

@@vanessaadelin yes!!!

@vanessaadelin Год назад

@@fay7012 great! otherwise would've recommended following it bc of all the ranting :)

@paytonsims Год назад

I am not even lying, you make me feel so connected to world for some reason. You show that love isnt all perfect and that people arent perfect. You literally make me feel so normal in a good way you know? Love you sm. ❤️❤️❤️

@annaa6326 Год назад

Mai you are literally my role model i love how relatable and kind you are and i love love love how you are always yourself !!! I'm still trying to find my true self and you are the biggest help to me right now. Lovee you Mai ❤

@zanaiwright02 Год назад

i love how mai is so comfortable talking to us about her problems, she is so relatable. I love you sm mai you saved me 🥰

@aurorafaith442 Год назад

I love how open Mai is with us. It truly feels like we are just her besties and just chatting about random crap. I love it.

@selimabenameur780 Год назад

Your smile at the end got me in tears you literally look so happy and that genuinely made me happier ❤love you mai

@graysent2837 Год назад

MAI OMG. i needed this video so fricking bad. i'm going through a breakup right now that affected me this exact way. before i watched this i thought he was the only one for me and i NEEDED him but no, what i need to do it love myself before i can love someone else.

@ishaniprasad272 Год назад

Girl ily so much. You’re literally so relatable and so entertaining to watch. LOVE YOUUUU!!!

@itschristybich Год назад

you are so freakin gorgeous in every sense and way of that word!!! i literally adore watching you so much because of how genuine and real you are!!

@callynjune8966 Год назад

So pretty Mai! Love seeing you so confident, you have come so far, I love you, praying for you🙏💗

@a44y.58 Год назад

YOU ARE LITERALLY GLOWWINNGG!! you’re literally throwing off such good vibes, so so so so sooooooo gorgeous!!

@yutingwong18 Год назад

you’re literally goals🤍😭 love how confident you portray yourself, you’re so gorgeous. you deserve a fine man mai

@ayakrisss7471 Год назад

She is so reaaaal y’all.ive never seen an influencer so relatable and so real with their viewers because they are only showing the good sides and them looking hot as fuck but I looove mai she is so real and relatable❤️

@shrutii.waghhh Год назад

Found your channel like two days ago now i can't stop binging!!! You're like super relatable and i got the motivation to get on top of my stuff from you, thank uuu

@brittanysavoie7608 Год назад

At the end u were so giddy and happy, in pure bliss. That is literally the best feeling in the world. I’m glad you had a good time 🥺

@rubyjt5754 Год назад

Thank you for helping me out of my depression, i've still got loads of issues but after i ended my long term relationship recently i got really depressed. So that on top of a bunch of family stress i just became bedridden and developed loads of physical issues, i quit my job and stopped going to therapy, basically i was just going through it; but when i stumbled onto your channel around June of this year you really helped pull me out of that depressing state and helped me with the decision to go back to therapy. So again, thank you. I wish you the best and i hope you're well.

@Niaslife28 Год назад

maiiiiii u have helped me so mucjhthis year in being more confident and happy with myself and as a fellow teen its so hard to love urself and so easy to break urself down so i really appreciate everything u do! :) ilysm!!!

@saumsdigitaldiary Год назад

I love the range of videos she has, like I can vibe to her cleaning and decluttering and another day vibe to getting ready with her

@vivianneprice Год назад

The ending was so heartwarming. I’m so glad that your happy!

@sielladewit5434 Год назад

Love this, Mai is literally so open with us and relatable and she is my literal role model. Love you Mai

@Janzzz.x Год назад

I honestly love her she is so comfortable and when your alone it feels like she is their. I love her videos and watch them over and over !!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼

@kimmynarankhand8009 Год назад

I’ve been watching you for years!!! Girl you my inspiration!! You have helped in every chapter of my life and made me feel so normal due to my anxiety as well!! AAAH! Sending lots of love 💕

@alexiswilliams1346 Год назад

literally watching your videos makes me feel like everything’s going to be ok and make me so happy💕

@alexisjishie3148 Год назад

Girl, it’s been so fun watching you transform into the person you are today!! I literally started my little “self love” & “no boys” journey around the same time last year, so it definitely feels like I have a bestie who understands what it’s like & who I can turn to 💓

@jordynnwhite4812 Год назад

This was a good one, I very much loved the vlog. And, the little speech you did about doing what you need to do for yourself (when it comes to romantic relationships) was what I needed to hear cuz gurl lately tingz been crazy when it comes to romantic relationships/love/hormones, so thank you for that gurl

@rose4_9p Год назад

girl you are so amazing to talk to and I wish every girl sees u becoming a boss of there own

@MakeupEsra Год назад

She tells everything I’m literally thinking. Feels like she’s talking about me💀 exactly the reason I love her

@AliseBella Год назад

Mai, you are such an inspiration. I have been going through some dark times and watching your videos gives me the motivation to keep going thank you for being here you will always be my comfort RU-vidr.

@zi8436 Год назад

Trust me mai you really don't need get ready even you are naturally beautiful,even though the makeup was fire🔥, ily sooo much♡

@diyachhabra4460 Год назад

I just hope you keep making these GRWM vids I just love seeing you get ready and share your life with us….just makes me feel that I’m not alone..thank you mai

@deysepinheiro3196 Год назад

Mai, you are just the best gift. So happy I found u. I smile a lot wachting you, and you are so genuine and relatable. ❤

@skarlet1670 Год назад

I love how realistic and real Mai always is. She’s my fav RU-vidr

@wondavlogsxo Год назад

mai, you actually give me life. you chatting with us in a grwm really makes me feel like we're on facetime. ilysm 💗

@marenbailey2570 Год назад

I seriously love you so much 😭 your videos are everything and you have inspired me so much to take care of myself

@adorxocean Год назад

ive never found a youtuber like u whos actually super super open and real with us ur subscribers i love that abt u mai thanks for posting❤️💪(hope u had fun going out and u feel cute is always the best)

@ruimacedo1075 Год назад

I swear I’ve never watched a better video this is my whole entire existence like it’s so aesthetically pleasing and satisfying and I am loving the intro that girl every day is another slay

@lucylantz642 Год назад

Mai is my favorite RU-vidr, so real and relatable, whenever she posts i get so excited to watch!! ❤️ you Mai

@Sosofloflo Год назад

I’ve been without boys for TWO years now and I cannot even describe how Amazing My Life Is Now

@victoriat2682 Год назад

omg....I made this rule - no guys for one year. I havent been with guys for more than a year now...and I didnt even think about it!. My life is amazing, and I dont have a guy in it! This is awesome because I used to be really lonely and obsessed about finding a boyfriend or dating

@andreeailie9053 Год назад

Just came back from my summer hollyday and here is a new video from my girl 🌺🥰 So glad to have you here posting and love the natural and chill vibes from you 😘😘

@brianachovancek8362 Год назад

Absolutely gorgeous ❤️ I love that this feels like a FaceTime and honestly I relate so much to you and it’s nice to know that someone has the same thoughts as me.

@rosalbatesti1441 Год назад

i literally get absorbed by your videos, they're so good that make me forget the sense of time, plus ur so gorgeous I can't-

@isabellegrima7909 Год назад

I’m so happy for you girlll!! Live your best life I hope he treats you well if he breaks your heart he doesn’t know what he missed out on love ya❤️❤️

@riley766 Год назад

Girl you are so perfect from the inside and out and I love it. I litterally love you so much and I have an obsession with your channel.❤

@andreaabad3522 Год назад

Mai,you really evolved and you re glowing!I can see a big change in the past months in you and I wish all the best for you!❤

@nasimmason Год назад

Mai I love your personality. I like the content where that shows, and these are perfect to sit down and just watch.

@taraclarke3919 Год назад

This video is just adorable tbh. You look amazing and I’m glad you’re living your life and having fun.

@lilydawson_6407 Год назад

I’m so obsessed. Ur literally me all the energy and the looks I just love it sm

@aimeequan9082 Год назад

This video was honestly so cute, just loved everything about it.

@yaralisthen1104 Год назад

Honestly Mai is like everyone’s big sister,I love her SM!!

@foreveryoung3998 Год назад

she's like my bigger sister and im 22 yo

@tiana1519 Год назад

I love the fact you share these things with us it makes me think and I love that and I love you 💜

@anjalivue8154 Год назад

I love her line "the hormones are hormining" it's so cute. Oh and yes, the ending is superb...her cute smile

@christinaleighstephenson2236 Год назад

It's great to see Mai growing more confident with herself. She's super inspiring and she helps me to feel more confident in myself too. If I want to go somewhere, I'll do it, even if no one can come with me. For example, if I want to go to the symphony, and unfortunately no one can come with me, I'm confident enough in myself to go by myself and have a good time. Which is a huge improvement from where I was a few years ago. Keep up the great work Mai!

@ayanamehta5360 Год назад

I absolutely love Mai’s vid because they are always so relatable and I feel I’m one of Mai’s friends with the way she talks to us! 💗 also all her vids r amazing

@ellayspam63 Год назад

mai. Your in loveeeee. Ur smile saying something more than happy. Literally love u and ur vids btw ‼️‼️

@pragyasingh2297 Год назад

You have such a genuinely warm energy about you Mai. It’s a really rare quality in people. Even though you’ve grown as a person, that’s never changed about you and it warms my heart ❤

@maceyboo2597 Год назад

I love Mai, you’re my inspiration. You have no idea how much you’ve helped me.

@ilm4ds Год назад

i love these type of videos where it feels like we’re on ft, Mai just has the best big sister energy! 🫶🏽

@chuns6348 Год назад

i LOVEEE the fact whenever i watch your videos, i always feel like i'm on a facetime with a really good bestie. YOUR SO SLAAY LOVE U U DESERVE EVERYTHING IN THE WORLDDDD

@mayleestewart8864 Год назад

her smile at the end looked so wholesome and genuine like it just made me so happy

@sarahdworatzek8394 Год назад

I love when you just talk to us while getting ready sit so therapeutic

@megan6191 Год назад

omg you were so genuinely happy in the end, im so happy for you girlll, also you looked stunning!!

@guefaifiasara7058 Год назад

The way she's true to herself makes me so proud I see myself in her alott

@elizabethmoran7479 Год назад

I love how authentic you are. So admirable & super funny. 🥰🥰we love u

@RuyiLily Год назад

I am absolutely loving the new edits 🤍 and love love love these confessionals

@__hajar__ Год назад

The way I relate to every single thing she says is just wow...

@elainamcclendon5593 Год назад

I love your videos, Mai. As someone who doesn’t have friends, this is comforting. Seeing you happy about the gifts he gave you made me so happy 😭😭!!

@nadineroypen2306 Год назад

Watched this video at 3 in the morning and ii don't regret it at all.💕You are so relatable . Love you mai😊pls never stop making RU-vid videos 😭

@kaeya713 Год назад

the more she uploads and rants like this the more i feel closer to her!!! and always she looks extremely gorgeous with the best vibes of her!! im so in love with her she my bestie frr