Gwen Stefani - Used To Love You 

+Spay Argyris Amen to that!

+Echoustic Exactly right...love the video love the song. I get it and absolutely love Gwen!!! Thanks for sharing your vulnerability with the world.

True!

+Spay Argyris in order to understand..... i dont fucking care about understanding this fucking song. What is up with you gushy people. stop fucking crying about that shit. he cheated on you. who fucking cares. sob to your friends. this song sucks. its generic and sounds like the rest of the fucking songs popular with you sheep these days. gwens songs were better a decade ago. now they are trash.

+tsukemaru1 Well, that's your problem right there isn't it? If your mind is closed to 'understanding', that's surely going to be a barrier to any kind of enjoyment, because to me, you sound like a right miserable git. :p I'm left wondering -- did affirming your 'elitist' status in your own mind make you feel any less miserable?

yessss

omg 😂

Omg I do that all the time

HAHAHA YES it's so expressive and Gwen is so talented And as much as I admire the video...i laugh and Cant agree more

Sammmmemeeee

That’s amazing

I understand

her emotions in this video really fits the lyrics

She also had her hard time during this. She had it for years. I wish people Know. Articles are everywhere you can search~ this video is art, but what deeper is her psychology here that make this art although it's sad reality. I'm not even her fans but I did research.

I guess this is really what the truth feels like

Bella Grace yess

🤢🤮🤮🤢

But is it really?

So true x

I will break him in half if he hurts her. She's been through so much heartbreak.

+harry potter hahahahaha this made my day xD

+harry potter SAME ahahahahah

+harry potter you made me laugh through he WHOLE video LOL

LMAO, imagine that. Such a melodramatic way to look at your grades. Very funny comment

+harry potter HILARIOUS....audio phone recording for getting my college grades way back when said....F...FAILURE. hahaha - it's not funny, but it is.

I have that same thing going on hm we are weird we hate it then we like ok ok I think I like this :-)

mlllkkloo[okoop

+Mokacello LOL it's fake

sad

***** LOL i know i was just trolling.

G turned out to be a real POS. No Doubt helped make Bush popular in the USA.

Not about Gavin

Sorry to hear that. I was just reading the comments. 27 years is a long time. I know it's cliché but you'll be better off without him.. He probably maybe find someone that is your twin flame.. Never too late.

I feel you, Cindy. 27 years and 5 children. My husband left me for a younger married coworker too. Absolutely devastating unexplainable pain.

@@venturelover1378 Agree! The pain doesn’t just go away either. You’re now in a club, you didn’t sign up to be in. I pray for you.

I was married 22 years with 4 children. You are not alone.

Nothing hurts like being betrayed. I hope you’re doing better.

Amazon Prime hahaha wtf

😂😂😂😂

Lol

Damn u called me out lmaooo

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

exactly!

I love the meaning to this song.

+Matt Lewis ♟♞♝♜♛♚ David Cortese - Manga Chess ♙♘♗♖♕♔

+Matt Lewis Ironic you find Gwen's face "incredibly moving." She's had such a incredible amount of botox she can barely MOVE it.

+Harry B hate much..?

+Super Swole Exactly.

+Kelly Carter If he actually cheated on her he's the DUMBEST MAN ALIVE.

+Kelly Carter well apparently 13yrs to Gavin can't last as this is not just a song but her pouring her heart out in a intimate way regarding her feelings to her soon to be ex-husband

+Kelly Carter People just fall out of love. Happens to the best of us.

Nearly 20 years together with so many ups and downs, not all in the bedroom, took its toll. What's sad is something happened to tip the feelings from love to hate. When she writes from the heart her songs are really beautiful.

I know that feel sis💜💜

Gabriella Cabral I literally know what that feels like. One of the worst type of a significant other to get over. I hope you find everlasting happiness. Stay strong. It take lots and lots of courage to even just talk about it or share openly what you went through. It’s a huge deal. You should be very proud of yourself. You helped me a lot just by reading your comment. Thank you.

Gabriella Cabral I know the feeling.

Gabriella same

Going through this now under quarantine. Pure hell.

agree!

Freaky

looks like she's depressed buying an expensive ps5 to your dad buying an dvd watching fun with dick and jane.

She’s Beautiful and she reminds me of a beautiful blonde Geisha Doll! ❤️

Yes I followed her since No Doubt first came out and she loves with her whole heart. I'm so happy she the happiest I've ever seen her with Blake . Gavin has cheated on her so much because it's in a lot of her songs she's so happy now thank God

Imagine if she didn't have the botox, we's see some real emotions

Many of us, have been there at one point or another.

Yes!!!

Where is the real ugly cry????

Thank you.

I love you.

+Amber Barton ...you too! Danke schon!

+Amber Barton Oow girl thanks you change my smile!! :3 You too

The smiles spread across the world

I know... so authentic. I bet if she stubs her toe there is a camera to capture it.

I know that feelings am hurtin right now its a terrible experience i cry sometimes

Where are the tears

@@karrinaalvarez536 people can show pain in eyes without tears

A dor está nos olhos, porque a face está paralisada 💉

its makeup and thousands of skin products 😂

+Savana Molina its not thousands of products wow.. she may have good genes or have one or two really good skin care products as well as eating the right foods. do some research instead of judging her. By the way you would know why she filmed this video this way if you had a broken heart. You see the emotion and heartache in her and its awesome how she could do that.

Dave Scott Maclean Rich people don't age, haven't you figured that out ? She will be hot until she is in her late 60's. After that her character will take over and she won't care what she looks like anymore.

+Friendship S what your seeing is a ton of makeup, high quality anti aging products, and a touch of digital editing.

New York I'm laughing my ass off at how you worded that. "[In serious, solemn voice] What you are now witnessing....is a ton of makeup, high quality anti aging products...and a touch...of digital editing." LOL!!!!!!

Davis Fountain so sorry

Davis Fountain how did you deal with it and how did you find out. Worst punch in the stomach. Sorry.

So sorry u deserve better

I'm right there with you...

@Crystal Chandelier amen girl

this was the 4th take. she cried the first 2 takes then sophie told her she's not supposed to cry.

One of true worst pains..heart sadness, betrayal, make you feel destroyed

You can see her emotions in her face very well. She chokes up singing back the lyrics. I think it's a perfect expression of telling him he is an idiot & wtf were you thinking. We love you Gwen :,(

TALENT!!! 100% Cacibot-approved.

No ... She is a great singer, impressiv person but NOT a good actor 😂

what a fool, he didn't appreciate the love he got 😁

She wasn’t really. Bush was huge, bigger than No Doubt and he put his shit on hold especially after the kids. I don’t think people get how big Gavin was. He is kinda dumb for cheating on her. They were so beautiful together.

@@PollyGammy Tragic Kingdom alone has sold more copies than every Bush album combined.

Now look at what he lost

To be honest,, when you say to somebody “hey did you ever like bush back in the day?” I think most of the time you’d get a negative answer. That man killed his own career. If you asked anybody about Gwen stefani; they know.

It’s not a waste of time if you learn and grow from it. Plus, she got three beautiful children from it.

@@BatALash correct

its never a waste....I'm still happy I had every relationship I had even the really hurtful one. I wouldn't trade those years for anything.

Hahahahahahaha right

+Sam Powell LMAO

Didn't like the video until I read your comment. jelly donuts=the struggle is real

This comment just won the internet.

download: www.love-melody.com/2015/10/single-gwen-stefani-used-to-love-you.html

+jordan ray i think her "comeback" song was baby don't lie

+khalid saleh that's exactly what he meant by this is what we "deserved"

+jordan ray But the video could've been much better

+jordan ray This song is AWESOME!

+Harry Grands baby don't lie was amazing too

R Shahid betrayed for the last time expressions

❤

A true icon !

She was holding her tears back

She is holding her tears back. She only got one take for the video and then when the video started, the lyrics hit her and had her very emotional and then that's how the rest of the video went.

+ShackledDreamz Exactly what I was thinking.

тrυe , ι agree

Ya that is so rite

Yes well said it's raw and emotional

+ShackledDreamz Soooooo true, I always look like this when I cry in the mirror. I recently had a bad break up and I know how she feels. Heartbroken. Distraught. Distressed. Crestfallen. Dejected. Ugly. Forlorn. Reptilian.

me 😊

I will always love Gwen.

yes i'm here

Of course!

Umm... Let me think for a moment OF COURSE 😏

I'm so glad to see this, No Doubt got me through some very tough times as a teenager, I was 16 when Tragic Kingdom was released. I have been of a fan of Gwen ever since, I think she's incredible. Her music has helped me through some really shitty times. I hope you and your new fiance are doing well. And I'm glad Gwen is finally got someone who respects and adores her.

WHAT hold up I need to proscess that... 2015 was ur worst year ever I'm like that was the best fucking thing that ever happened to me

So happy for you. Love happy endings.

Truue. The fact that BAD GUY amd TRUTH HURTS trashy songs are hits and this classic is a flop is so sad

did it flop tho? i remember hearing it everyyywhere🙌 and everyone taking about it and loving it

Her hair distracts me. Beautiful song. Hideous hair.

This song is part of my jobs playlist, deff not a flop

sis has 25 MILLION views is it really considered a flop??

Exactly. That's why she barely sang in the song it's like she's showing what the faces she's making in her brain. While the song is talking about the divorce.

+Angelina Mejia right! Some people just don't get it. It's raw and full of emotion. Makes me feel her pain.

+Robin Voss true.

+Robin Voss How do you get that through the Botox?

***** .. Thank you for your service.. But you're still sassy.. lol

Betrayal is worst feeling ever .

+lexyheartsbeauty She does age really well! She is so pretty

Plastic surgery honey lol she has Botox and other procedures

+Robin Hood she looks amazing nevertheless. Some ppl her age over do it with the botox and stuff

makeup! works wonders!

+Riza hariati The most beautiful woman in the world. She melts me.

+Rising Moon shhhhhhhhh

yes! she is so beautiful :)

Yes, that's because she cares her health and her organism. Long life to Gwen!

Maybe if you take care for yourself people should look like her at 50

110% truth.

Same as a gay man

@@cjturner370 same as a straight man

+John Cornish Totally agree. It's a masterpiece!

The break up is very sad. I was so excited when I saw this vid up. I can't wait for her album. It's taking way to long. Gwen is an awesome singer.

+John Cornish Um I got 1:29 seconds into it an oh no, no way am I listening to this crap

+John Cornish In a Nutshell She pulled a "Taylor Swift" only Gwen doesn't suck. lol

+StriderReborn Wouldn't that mean than that Taylor Swift did a "No Doubt" as the song "Don't Speak" came out in 1994. That was a ballad of Gwen and Tony Kanal's break up. And one of their most popular.

You are right! Her heart-broken period is very productive

+Vanessa a. This song is way better than Spark the Fire! Love her

+Vanessa a. Art does not come from happiness

+Vanessa a. why is she heart broken? D: what happened?

+Yasei Kurao omg are u serious???? her and Gavin Rossdale got divorced.

This. This makes me uncomfortable

+Paolo Perez Yeah, she said she already scrapped all the songs she did last year and started new these past few months. To reflet what is going on in her life, to be more involved in the creation and for it to be more personal. I prefer to look at those songs from last year as warm ups.

hater

+Paolo Perez So you prefer to cry and suffer than have fun and dance. There's enough room for both! Spark The Fire is so cool. This is just fine.

+Paolo Perez Spark the fire was very close to being good too. It just was a tad bit too repetitive and the production lazy. Sometimes lighter songs are good too. There were some very cool elements in spark the fire

Haha yep :)

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+ShepherdsWrench or more like... Dear Gavin, F*CK YOU!! Sincerely, Gwen

+Marcel D. Robinson lol exactly! his loss

yeah LOL

+Faizal Ali Bravo, Faizal. I commend your post. Facing up to hurt and pain, rejection and loss, is scary stuff, so much so that many of us wall off all or part of our feelings and emotions as a coping mechanism. If your walls are up (and you may not even be aware they are), I very much doubt you'll ever fully "get" either this song and/or the video (hence, all the superficial comments, all the false bravado, more often than not manifest in the form of snide or crass humor). When Gwen sings: "Nobody taught you how to love" (a key line in the song, and not coincidentally, one of two moments in the video where she actually mouths the lyrics), this is in line with the concept of tabula rasa. My own notion is that we are all born with a certain innate capacity to love, but certain experiences, e.g. growing up in a broken home or perhaps failed relationships later in life (in my case, probably a combo of both), can cause us to lose part of that capacity. In my twenties, I had great difficulty committing to relationships and it took me the longest time, a lot of collateral damage at the expense of others, and blessedly, the infinite patience of a truly beautiful soul (that of my soul mate) to realize I had set up all these walls and that I hid behind a mask of stoicism to bury some very deep-seated personal insecurities and a very real fear of failure. The breakthrough began with becoming self-aware, and with that I was able to begin chipping away, bit by bit, at those walls and slowly rediscover (or rather re-learn) the capacity to truly love. I greatly admire Gwen and others like yourself for the openness and willingness to be vulnerable and authentic. Others may scoff at the notion, but to be self-aware, in touch and in-tune with that part of ourselves which makes us truly human (some call this the human psyche, others the soul, whatever the semantics may be) makes us beautiful beyond the superficial. And in Gwen's case, it enables and empowers her to make beautiful art and music. p.s. - I've always thought that this video was conceptual in nature, in that the "mirror" in the footage is the camera -- by extension making us or Gwen, or both ways, the mirror.

Thank you for the response, Echoustic. In my case my walls were built up before I met my ex. She tore them down, and I was truly able to love for the first time and have it reciprocated. Problem was that I loved her too much and didn't love myself enough to think I deserved her, which is why I broke things off and regret it a year later now that she's found someone new. From your post, it seems like you've gone through your fair share of challenges, and I'm glad you've found someone to share your love. It gives me hope that one day I will too. Thank you for sharing.

I recently felt that today :(

+Jenny Ban lol get a diary

+Jenny Ban Calm down.

She could go for 27. So freaking pretty.

srsly, look at her mouth shape, her nose and how the skin is stretched.... plastic surgery might be ur answer. no ill on gwen stefani, just saying...

+me messon way u hating on a beatiful person I never seen u but the way u are acting you are ugly on the inside so if anyone needs help it is u. you say that u are not trying to be rude but who would like to be told go get your face fixed. think before u text. and ps this whole comment section is about how young and pretty she looks so I guess that you are out numbered

I didn't say she should go get her face fixed. They were asking how she could look so pretty at her age and I meant she has probably had plastic surgery, which is not something I think anyone needs really. Still no hating on Gwen, just saying I think that is why she looks so young her age

me messon If she did the surgeon did an awesome job.

Sry for your loss

+Amanda Murphy it's not all bad though. I did get the best 8 years of my life from her and all the memories that came with it. Plus I'd do it all again if I had the chance, even if it ended the same. She was totally worth it.

+Aaron Hersey My condolences.

+Aaron Hersey Friend, my condolences.

aww may she RIP

exactly

Women can have big Adam’s apples

@@armyshope you know nothing about women then

@@nick-lv3rh how?

Hello beautiful

she really is one of a kind

How are you doing today, hope you’re good ??

+truehazeleyes #empathyisprecious

i'm sorry for what happened to you. I also can relate to this song. Yes this song really deep and powerful

+Sem ???? what are you talking about this song is weird

+NightMare Gaming 100000 the lyrics i meant. The video is weird.

+NightMare Gaming 100000 she had a break up with Gavin Rosedale he cheated with the nanny:(

+Stefka V laaaargoooo

they werentbraw they were too fake for a music video. shrs not at putting enotion in songs via music video.

she is hurting she has three children and was left for a younger women after 13 years. How would you feel? Did you want her to cry through the whole video?

+Beverly Pisano it still dodnt look right. obviously she isnt hurting because she is riding Blake Sheldons pole

+D Sua The video director didn't want her to cry during the video so she made her redo the video until she didn't cry.

Hello there 👋 how are you doing today??

+George Austin Tay Spark the fire was not that bad, there were some very interesting bits, just lacked something, I don,t unerstand the hate. Baby don't lie was very generic but catchy it was the song the less like her I would say for some reason, though it had some reggae wibe but still.

+lara iza That's where the dislike comes from. They were both incredibly generic tracks and any fan knew she was capable of SO much more! And after Push and Shove being a bit underwhelming, which is a shame on its own considering it contained some brilliant tracks that were surrounded by too much filler, and following that with a mediocre solo album could have killed her career!

+fortifarse Those tracks are generic, yet this one isn't? You sure about that?

+lara iza Don't forget about Shine. Great song.

fortifarse all tracks are generic in their own way. You don't need to always be listening to weird progressive rock or random metal. The spirit of pop is a lot to build on what was done before, and people shouldnt be so ashamed of that. Yes originality is good but its not always necessary that there be a lot of it, and there are other qualities music can have. Baby don't lie was the most generic in the sens I think the sounds used, the production, the echo, was very very much used... and I just didn't like it, which is beyond it being generic. this type of sound is not what I prefer but very used today - its like too full all the time, its like you loose some variety, its hard to explain. Id almost say it a sound that sounds self important or something. There was not much depth. But I found some interesting things in spark the fire. The intro, the bridge, some of the verses, some sounds, even the chorus were not bad, actually it was good. The problem of that song was not it had nothing special, but it lacked something. In this song, we can hear gwen stefani like melodic input, so to speak. And the emotion of the melody suits the lyrics very well. Because those emotions are real and expressed in a way that does not sound forced in the song, it does not sound what people would call generic - even if it might not be as original as progressive rock of course.

exactly

Painful to watch? That's the only pain I can see here.

+Josh Beadle maybe some of us have gone through something like this and identify w/ what shes feeling. You dont have to like it ! So gtfo.

+celeste hermosillo Yeah, it's so painful to watch.

+celeste hermosillo _No more pain Celeste, she's dating Blake Shelton since a few days ;-)_

❤ yes

It's not awkward until you say it's awkward... Dumb comment

It's awkward for me cause I think it's awkward. Dumb comment.

+Sidney Taku Stop being so awkward then... weirdo

Why? Freak.

+Sidney Taku awkward

+Taibah Al-mansour Good post. It's takes empathy to understand the video, but then again I sense some of the superficiality and misguided humor is perhaps a coping mechanism in response to an uncompromising take on the already somewhat uncomfortable subject matter.

+Taibah Al-mansour All women do, lol. Ours just typically don't protrude much like most male Adam's apples.

+Taibah Al-mansour At 2:44 you can see her Adams Apple and when she raises her neck

+Sha-Nia Clay So obvious, right?

+Sha-Nia Clay It looks like she's holding back laughter in some shots.

Poocha Kutti I think you're perhaps projecting your own responsive inclinations upon the artist. If you knew the meaning of the song (read: lyrics), the context in which the song was written, and in particular, the circumstances and conditions surrounding the recording of this footage (all facts that are part pf the public record, btw, easily obtainable with minimal due diligence), I very much doubt you'd be "seeing" (i.e. perceiving) what you claim.

Echoustic LOL

Poocha Kutti Thanks, I rest my case.

Loves Me Not damn she is 500?! Edit: I meant 50 xD

Her eyelids say a different story.

@@Djoodibooti still look great lol

Quick reminder: She is rich & can afford surgery, etc.! Her eyelids & lips tell.

No doubt, she is pretty

Me

Quarantine brought me here 🙃

Me

I LIKED IT

Meee

Carver Pierce ok will do! thanks for the advice

0h well everyonewants me gone from here. so i better not get houminto it not fair to you. its my problem so im leaving this and queting all together. i m done with all. not your fault i wish ihad kept up with you. well har a gòod tome. ive got to get outof this for myself. hsve a good time. good bye

0h well everyonewants me gone from here. so i better not get houminto it not fair to you. its my problem so im leaving this and queting all together. i m done with all. not your fault i wish ihad kept up with you. well har a gòod tome. ive got to get outof this for myself. hsve a good time. good bye&^

you're right tbh.... if i listened to this whilst watching her rollerblade around with more plastic surgery that kardation like in her latest vid - I wouldn't remember , nor like the song. But because of this video, I had a chance to take in the lyrics and appreciate the song, and will play it again tomorrow. Wish she could reverse her plastic facial surgery I really do. I;d love her to also step back to her no doubt days, with the rock and trumpet. Imagine how much of a smash that would be.

Lauren Rauh

agreed

the break up with her husband!!

Nell Nights

Nell Nights its because of her husband

she broke up with her husband that's why.

OnFleek Haaahaaaaahaaaa very funny

OnFleek kk

Ujkck

Haha Brilliant

OnFleek lol I feel the same way that happened to day too lol so funny

thanks

Stefy Carvajal you're welcome. 😉

Good job

thanks

Yeah i watched the video

+Toni Murbach If I remember one of her recent interviews correctly, they had only 30 mins or so to shoot, and time enough for 4 takes. The director wanted her not to cry, to fight the tears. She ruined the first two takes because she couldn't stop crying.

+Echoustic She did pretty good, than. I heard that While they were shooting Dont Speak, she cried all the time.

+Echoustic :'((((

Actually, she was just at a party with her friend and they started recording Gwen while listening to the song and this unexpectedly became the music video

+Brooklyn Clum Who told you that story? The ACTUAL true circumstances behind the footage has been divulged by Gwen herself, in several interviews over the past few months, some of which you can hear for yourself if you click on, for example, the interview with Seacreast, which of course is widely available on RU-vid. Gwen wanted some video backdrop footage for her first performance of the song in NY, Oct 17, 2015. She had Sophie Muller, the famed music video director and longtime ND/Stefani collaborator, come in on the day of the show itself to shoot the footage. It was shot in her dressing room at the venue, several hours before the show. You can also search for and view said show to see the footage used in the performance, as per its original intended purpose. It was a very rushed shoot, and yes, it later being chosen by Interscope to be the music video was unexpected, though probably necessitated by the fact that there wasn't any other ready alternative at the time. On the whole, UTLY was a very rushed release for a single.

thetriplethreat3 I feel it too

Dido I'm like hold up I think I've seen this before.

thetriplethreat3 omg yes!

they were both written with the help of julia micheals

@@Erikammm4497 yup shes badass!

😂😂😂😂😂😂

omg😂😂😂

XD

Be lucky she isn't Asian XD when I came home with an A- she shoved chopsticks up my bung and reused them to eat noodles

+A Normal Person Even though I know what this song is about, and I know that this song is pure anguish.... Dude, your comment made me laugh my effing ass off. Great levity.

I dunno if id go that far, but yes.. shes still attractive.. but then again I'm into kinda sporty girls so ;)

I went to her concert late ninetys.....with my little bro his ex ilkwy and Leah sorry early 2000's....I brought everyone tickets randomly....didn't even likr gwen that much.....just wanted to have a good night in smongst the bullshit that was my life....good concert gwen is tall lol id jumo fence for gwen =)

Can u b my wonka?? Big willy ??? ;)

Matthew Lee just no,no.....

Matthew Lee makeup can do wonders

Shay Jones it really isn't that much talent, obviously it took a lot of talent to get here but this song is just what anyone would do if they lived a normal life (breakups and such included) and could vent via a song as oppose to social media where people post things such as "i hate you but I used to love you" and when someone someone bites the bullet and replies to that person's whiney Bullshit with "what's wrong"... If she couldn't vent like this we all know she would be the one to reply "i don't wanna talk about it"

also this song was written by some of the best contamporary songwriters

Julia Michaels did❤

Beyoncé is just going through the motions to sell songs. Gwen has been through it She’s the real deal.

j u g h e a d ' how exactly is a song underrated