Gwen Stefani - Used To Love You 

I seriously can't stop watching this video. It's heartbreaking but incredibly moving. We love you Gwen.

In order to understand this song or video you have to experience this horror. Don't be so quick to judge. That's SHALLOW!!! The song, the lyrics, the video is absolutely genius... I have experienced every inch of this song... Gwen...respect...respect...respect. You nailed it! And now the new life ahead is pure bliss...

I read an article where Gwen stated the video was not planned to be this. Camera on, playback started rolling and the lyrics hit her. And the camera stayed on. No redo or second take. Such raw emotions full of truths. Anyone whose heart has been crushed knows exactly what her eyes are saying.

And Blake came along and put ointment on the wounds of her heart. Such a happy ending........

First time I watched the video I was like "WTF Gwen, your expressions are really making me uncomfortable"... Yet the video is actually REALLY GROWING ON ME. And the song is ABSOLUTE DOPE .

This video reminds me when a sad song comes on while your in the car and you stare out the window to make it look like a music video😂😂😂

I feel her pain. After 27 years of marriage and two great kids, my ex husband left me for a younger, married coworker. You could have knocked me over with a feather. Never imagined that he would betray me and his kids like he did. Before I hated him, I used to love him. Nothing hurts like infidelity.

2024 and this song still makes the tears roll down endlessly. Thank you Gwen for your poetry, your raw emotion, your beauty. You are a true artist.

This song got me through the worst time of my life getting over the heartbreak of an abusive narcissist

gwen's expressions represent me trying to understand my final grades

She is gorgeous, so talented and the mother of his 3 children. To have your third baby and find out he has been sleeping with the Nanny would be devastating. So glad she found love again with Blake. .

If you notice closely, her facial expressions are exactly what the words are saying. She's singing to Gavin without actually saying the words. So powerful and incredible artistry.

Me in my bathroom looking at myself being extra and dramatic

Hard to imagine a guy who couldn't be happy with Gwen Stefani.

I think this video is pure art. One scene, one setting, one lighting .. and letting her body language speak for itself. And not to mention she looks great!

I used to think the video was ridiculous and low budget, but I grew to see how sad and poignant it actually is. And years later, now that I can REALLY relate to the song and the music video, it hurts even more. You can see and feel so many different emotions crossing her face, and none of it is an act. She moves through waves of despair, anger, raw grief, disbelief, helplessness, pleading, bursting into tears. She is desperate, she is withdrawn, she is distraught, she is resolute. She wants to go towards him, but she also wants to retreat into isolation. She wavers between trying to stay strong and breaking down from the pressure. It's the 5 stages of grief in motion. And it ends with her expression looking reserved, disappointed. It really asks him, "Why???" I relate to each expression she emotes so much, because I understand each feeling. I cried watching this today. But I'm glad Gwen is healing

After 14 years together married for 4 of those years, I was left for a younger person. Endured our ups and down. I was blinded sided. This song is a page from my book

You can see the pain in her eyes. Like she's in shock and having a breakdown. Such a sad beautiful song.

I read that it took a really long time to film this because she couldn’t stop crying

Gwen isn’t acting here. This is real pain.

YES GWEN IS BACK THIS IS THE COMEBACK SINGLE WE DESERVED THIS IS AMAZING I LOVE YOU GWEN

I honestly can see the feeling in her face the whole video

gwen isn’t acting here. this is real pain.

Her pain is so evident in the beginning yet as the song progresses her strength is so amazing. Faith can move mountains and it all happens for a reason. Now she is loved. I love you Gwen! ♡

Listen to the words of the song, and those are the emotions she is portraying regardless of how awkward it looks. It's how you would act, when you are trying to get over someone, or if you hear a song that boosts your confidence. Look in the mirror and your expression.

If you’ve ever truly been in love and betrayed, here expressions reveal everything. She’s amazing ❤️💯

Well now she is with someone much better who really does love her!

This song and video is actually a really telling song and emotion. You think everything is hunky-dory, going to spend the rest of your life with somebody and this happens 19 years or so into a relationship what a waste of time.

She was the best thing that ever happened to him.

I loved this! I liked watching her expressions as she "thought" all of this!

This video has stuck with me after all these years. I feel like it is so artsy that a lot of people wouldn't understand it, or appreciate it. We are so used to fast movement and quick edits. I used this video as an inspiration for my first music video.

It really feels as if she is holding tears back during the whole song.

i love this video. i look nothing like Gwen, but it's like looking at my reflection. i'm going through the repercussions of a breakup now, and sometimes i do that thing Dane Cook was talking about where you just stare at the mirror and cry and look at your facial expressions and think this was what my ex lover used to stare at for hours on end. and you're just staring at yourself hoping he/she will end up beside you but they wont. and sometimes you're able to be strong and pull off a brave face, but sometimes you succumb and feel like you're breaking down. knowing that these are real emotions. breakups feel horrible but at least by sharing her pain she's letting us know that we're not alone.

I will never forgive the public for letting this flop

Only a woman who been through the same shit can decode this video, when you love someone for so long and they do the unimaginable you can't sing without tears or feeling the deep emotions. Then the song lyric change and the words become something else! All you can do is feel her pain.

I'm just glad she found the right one. THANK YOU BLAKE SHELTON!!!💓

I have avoided this song for the longest time because I thought it would just break my heart. And now I realize that it's very empowering. Thank you Gwen.

A foolish man doesn't deserve a good beautiful woman! Let them find the scraps. 👓😁

Gwen Stefani is such an INSPIRATION!! Applause this girl for having a heart of Gold.

A fact about this video: Gwen Stefani...I did not intend for this to be the music video for the song, we just shot it, and then just decided that it was perfect for the song.

unfortunately, some of her best stuff is when she's heart broken. I feel guilty for liking it but it's just so good. Gwen, you will always have us ... ):

SHE NEVER AGES! Damn, I see no wrinkles.

I literally felt her, this is probably one of my favorite things I’ve seen from an artist. She’s showing her break down start to end, the reason for her words, the pain she feels with them. And the fact that people are judging? Are you scared that you don’t have the courage to do that so you have to put it down? Just leave it where it sits and scroll don’t even put your negativity out there. I love this

I relate to this in so many ways.. I just love Gwen. Her music seems to resonate my own life. This song has me crying because she really gets it, or I get her about it. I don’t know why I cry, but I think it’s cause I remember for the first time since I hated you, that I used to love you. Betrayal is the hardest trial to overcome. Love you Gwen and thank you for this song.

It is hard to watch someone I have grown up watching/listening to her music take such a heartbreaking hit with love lost due to betrayal. My heart breaks for her and her children. Also for women/men who also are or have gone through a loved ones betrayal. The video is so powerful and emotional. I at times have tears running down my face listening/watching this video.

love your vulnerability and raw emotions here!

This song was released when I was going through an exceptionally hard time relationship-wise and in general. Had my dark night of the soul in 2015 where I wasn't sure if I wanted to keep living. This song and video expressed so much of what I was feeling then. Fast forward 5 years. I got engaged this year. So did Gwen. Coming back here reminds me of how far I've come from the worst year of my life. I hope it does for her too. 🥰

I love this woman for her honesty, which has bravery underneath.

Wow! She makes me feel her pain through this video.

When you tryna resist the jelly donut so bad

I was having a perfectly fine and happy day, then I watched this video and now I am bawling my eyes out! The video, the lyrics, Gwen's emotions in her vocals... she channels heartbreak and betrayal so powerfully.

People forget sometimes, Gwen is an ICON ❤

Wow this is a powerful comeback! So much better that 'baby don't lie' and 'spark the fire'. It's just sad to know that Gwen had to go through a divorce in order to write this brilliant piece of music :(

gwen hurt as fuck, on the brink of tears for almost 4 minutes, deep lyrics that allude to her heartbreak with Gavin..... meanwhile: "oh, look! hahaha she has an adams apple!" humanity ladies and gentlemen

So powerful and moving, makes me cry every time I see it. You are such a talented BEAUTY, Gwen.

Pandemic really made us revisit past life events 🌻🌸

*some people just NEVER AGE OMG SHE LOOKS AMAZING!*

I love how she doesn't blur the wrinkle around her eyes! She's almost 50 but she's still look mid 30!

This song hit me in such a personal way! Gwen is amazing with her songs she writes. This song helped me put a bad person in my life in the past and leave him there so I could move on. This was my theme song that year!

Lyrics: Never thought this would happen I let it sink in, you're gone I don't know, know what I'm feeling I must be dreaming, you're gone Suitcase, band-aids Pulling back out the driveway You go, I'll stay You can keep all the memories I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you I thought you loved me the most I don't know why I cry But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you I don't know why I cry But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you Oh, oh, oh, oh I used to love you Oh, oh, oh, oh I used to love you Are you gone? There were no boundaries What, you just pushed me too far I guess nobody taught you Nobody taught you how to love Suitcase, band-aids Pulling back out the driveway You go, I'll stay You can keep all the memories I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you I thought you loved me the most I don't know why I cry But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you I don't know why I cry But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you Oh, oh, oh, oh I used to love you Oh, oh, oh, oh I used to love you You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you Oh, now look at what you lost, oh You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you Now look at what you lost, oh I don't know why I cry But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you I don't know why I cry But I think it's 'cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you Oh, oh, oh, oh I used to love you Oh, oh, oh, oh I used to love you I don't know why I cry I don't, I don't, I don't I don't know why I used to love you I don't, I don't, I don't I don't know why I cry I don't, I don't, I don't I don't know why I used to love you I don't, I don't, I don't Source: LyricFind Songwriters: Jonathan Rotem / Teal Douville / Gwen Stefani / Justin Tranter / Julia Michaels Used to Love You lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd., Warner Chappell Music Inc

The very beginning of this song makes me think of my late wife. It's been more than 2 years since she died but sometimes I still can't believe she's gone.

Never thought this would happen Gonna let it sink in, you're gone I don't know, know what I'm feeling I must be dreaming, you're gone Suitcase, band-aids Pulling back out the driveway You go, I'll stay You can keep all the memories I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you I thought you loved me the most I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you You thought There were no boundaries What, you just pushed me too far I guess nobody taught you Nobody taught you how to love Suitcase, band-aids Pulling back out the driveway You go, I'll stay You can keep all the memories I thought I was the best thing that ever happened to you I thought you loved me the most I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you Well, now look at what you lost, oh You know I was the best thing that ever happened to you Now look at what you lost, oh I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you I don't know why I cry But I think it's cause I remembered for the first time Since I hated you That I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you Oh oh oh oh I used to love you I don't know why I cry I don't, I don't, I don't I don't know why I used to love you I don't, I don't, I don't I don't know why I cry I don't, I don't, I don't I don't know why I used to love you I don't, I don't, I don't

I am happy she found happiness.

So sad how someone you love, have the power to destroy every bit of you. Narcissistic abuse is real. It destroys everything you thought you knew about love.

nonetheless, this is so pure and heartbreaking and this is what heartbreak can do to some people, for gwen, it silences her verbally while repressing her emotions thus the body language and facial expressions in this video. fuck to the person who hurt her

I wonder how many times they had to tape to get it right. Pretty sure she cried over and over again. Poor thing. You can see the pain and almost feel it.

you only deserve to be loved. I am happy that you have found a great love, you deserve it ❤️

Heart wrenching sad and beautiful both. She is in strong arms now. They can be each other's shade on sunny days. I pray for them.

Anyone here just because they love Gwen?!

This. This should be the kind of direction Gwen should be heading. Not that "Spark The Fire."

Gwennnnn, omg baby we are so loving you still to this day!! I hope you are so happy now! BUTttttt if not we know we will hear your heart on an album, how can you even thank someone for that!! All my respect and admiration ❤️❤️

I felt sorry for Gwen and I do cause of the pain she went through. But God has blessed her with Blake. And they are just a perfect match!!!!

I really like this video, it's very simple but you can just see the pain in her eyes while the song is playing. I think this song had something to do with her personal life.

This is far better than the songs she released last year. Gwen is an artist with so much talent and personality and she should be smashing. Been a huge fan since WAYWF in 2004!

Who is watching this in 2020 ?

It's a pity you can only like this once. Luckily you can play it indefinitely!

Whoever is reading this, I hope you have an amazing day! :)

This video is awkward to watch. But this song knocks. Love it.

Who came here after Blake and Gwen song ❤️ ❤️

To my mother in law. Mother’s Day 2020. My heart is truly broken. Thank you Gwen, this song gives me words for something I can’t express. Her continuous hurtful comments have removed myself and her grandchildren from her life, at least for the time being. If my mother were alive, her son would have been treated like a beloved son by my mother.

Quick reminder: She is Almost 49 still looking 24 ♥️

I've always loved simple music videos where the music speaks for it's self like it doesn't need a big ridiculous video just listen and the video compliments it.

If this song nvr made u cry you've never been really heartbroken😭😭😭

Imagine fumbling Miss Gwen Stefani. Gavin a fool

dear gavin ross, *song* sincerely, gwen stefani

She's trying NOT to cry !!!!!!!!!!!

That's right....NOW LOOK AT WHAT YOU LOST! Your loss is Blake's gain. Go Gwen ❤️

I feel like this is her realizing how powerful the song is. It’s beautiful

Its unreal that she is 47 years old.... A vampire?

When ur sitting in the car looking out the window pretending ur in a music video😂😂💯

God I love Gwen and I'm so happy she's happy now with blake. She's the happiest I've ever seen her and I followed her since No Doubt first came out. I lived this same story. She got me through I am so grateful I seen her Vegas show last October for my birthday it was amazing

Hold that head up , you are a gift to all your fans

Glad to know I’m not the only one who saw the similarities between this and Selena Gomez’s new song

As more of a heavy metal fan, I really dig No Doubt/Stefani. In a sea of so many fakes, she's seems so authentic & real. I appreciate her so much as an artist. I feel her struggles in a lot of songs, especially her break up songs. " Simple Kind of Life" hits home pretty close. She says she's filled with so much love and I can tell. She seems so pure. I hope to find someone like her one day in my life. She's amazing. I know how it is to love someone for years and do your best and then one day it's just over. But she keeps moving forward the best she can, and that's what I try to do as well.

“You thought, there were no boundaries, but you just pushed me, too far........ I guess, nobody taught you how to love ❤️”yup! Best songwriter

This isn't the first time Gavin has cheated it was several times.😭😩

Dammit Gavin why did you have to hurt her so bad

Botox or not, she's 46 and look absolutely stunning.

Nostalgia is such a beautiful, bitter sweet emotion. Nothing beats being head over heels in love, even when it ends in tears. Would do it all over again.

Her facial expressions are spot on