You don’t have to prove to anyone what you do in your personal time. Let people think what they want to think. Just live your life to the fullest. I used to care about what people said, but I realized regardless of how hard you try to prove them wrong, they will always find a way to put you down. That is just the nature of humankind.
Wisdom and discretion based on the Word of God is more beautiful than what’s on the outside! A heart that loves the Lord. Value inner beauty not outer beauty, External beauty will fade, We all know that our physical bodies erode and deteriorate over time-but inwardly, we are daily renewed through the life-giving Word of Christ. each day our inner beauty can blossom. The Bible says that our focus doesn’t need to be our external appearance, but instead we need to focus on having a quiet and gentle spirit. And When you look to find a spouse, look for someone who strives to seek God in all they do. Cultural norms and traditions come and go, But the Word of the Lord endures forever. Early in the relationship connection, express your desire to avoid premarital sex. When you express your desire to want to honor God with your sexuality before marriage, this won’t be a shock to a real Christian. That is just a basic biblical command all true Christians must follow. But if you say this to someone who is just pretending to obey the Bible, they will leave you quickly because they will not be willing to wait until marriage for sex. Someone can deceive you with words. But when you see their obedience to the Lord that matches their words, then you know they are trustworthy. They need to be visibly producing the fruits of the Spirit because this is a mark of a true Christian. Anyone can claim to be a Christian. And we can’t know someone’s heart. So the Bible says we are to evaluate people by their actions. Christians will not be perfect, but they will be bearing fruit that is evidence of their true salvation. Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will Judge."
