Habits I Let Go of in 2018 | Ingrid Nilsen

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I think one of the biggest (and hardest) lessons of growing up is learning to let go of habits that no longer serve us. Today I’m sharing a few habits that I let go of in the last year, the changes they set in motion and how I’m moving forward without them. I’d love it if you’d share something you let go of in 2018 in the comments below. ❤️
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- Laura Mercier Silk Creme Foundation in Sand Beige
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- Bobbi Brown Eyeshadow in Maple Sugar (Part of the Capri Nudes palette, sadly discontinued)
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- Benefit Blush in Dandelion
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- Lancome Lipstick in Caprice
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-Sweater from Madewell about 5 years ago
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@mandy833 5 лет назад

I realized in 2018, at age 31, that I was living a life I didn't want, becoming a person I didn't want to be, and that I didn't know what my purpose was in life. It was a very painful year for me and I ended up quitting my job, moving across the country, and essentially starting over. I had to let go of an idea I had of myself and learn to define myself without thinking about wealth, power, status, labels, material things, etc. I never thought I was chasing the wrong things until I realized that I wasn't really living my life, but enduring it.

@bemydinosaur13 5 лет назад

Mandy YAY congrats! So glad you didn’t act in a “it’s too late” mindset.

@michellema4724 5 лет назад

Congrats! I am going through the same process myself right now and I can relate. Giving up those labels is hard! Glad to hear you’re well.

@reckonerwheel5336 5 лет назад

My 20s have been me “enduring” too. This is inspiring to hear, thank you for sharing!!

@Zohra777 5 лет назад

Same process here, at 31 yo too ! The best is coming 🤗 sending you love and support from Paris

@L1ESEL0TTE 5 лет назад

Thank you for sharing this! It's very helpful and inspirational to see that it is possible to change what you don't like. Wishing you all the best!

@user-fj1py4cu8j 5 лет назад

I’m Japanese. I’m high school student and now have been studying English for the entrance examination for university school.Your English pronounce is very clearly for me and it’s useful for my study. I’m cheering for you!!

@wannie0204 5 лет назад

Wishing you the best of luck in your university entrance examination, Haru!

@user-fj1py4cu8j 5 лет назад

Fluffy Toffee Thank you!I’ll do my best!

@CoralRief43 5 лет назад

Haru Good luck! Your English looks good don’t forget to use articles!

@livewithintention1625 5 лет назад

Safiya Nygaard and Natalia Taylor are RU-vidrs that speak very clearly as well. They might be able to help you as well as Ingrid (a lot of people watch them to learn English, according to the comments at least haha :)).

@user-fj1py4cu8j 5 лет назад

CoralRief43 Thank you for your advice!!

@MehekNaresh 5 лет назад

I think you've genuinely come in to your own as a creator, and your intentional, soft, quiet content is so important. So many youtubers, with their high energy and screaming, make for an exhausting watching experience(now granted, I love me a high energy vid). But I love the grace of this. It makes me happy to have watched you grow.

@emic138 5 лет назад

Mehek Naresh so well-said!

@shabdarya6859 5 лет назад

Letting go of friendships that were very one-sided. It was tough because I would think about the times when I was so close to that person and it would drive me to try and keep the friendship alive, but sometimes things don't work out and that's ok.

@the_brinaki 5 лет назад

Same here. Some things were just not working out anymore and I eventually came to the realization that I'd rather not have a person in my life, than constantly worrying about if that person actually wants me in theirs.

@everythingballet 5 лет назад

I significantly downsized how many people I follow on social media. I found myself just scrolling through my feed, not really paying attention to the posts. I now follow only people I want to keep up with, and it has actually had a bigger impact than I expected it to!

@kimbo263 5 лет назад

I'm gonna try that

@jazzgirlie 5 лет назад

You're such a lady boss. Thank you for making content that actually matters. Honestly, I've let go of the "beauty community" on RU-vid and on all other social media. I stopped watching and following a lot of the old RU-vidrs that I used to really enjoy. I did this because I genuinely think that it's healthier to live my life without surrounding myself with product placements. I found myself longing for material things that I actually don't care about and wishing I had lifestyles that I actually don't want. You're the only former "beauty guru" that I still follow, because you're authentic, and I appreciate you.

@CarterSams 5 лет назад

Aquarium I really struggled with the beauty community last year and unsubscribed from many people as well. Shirt really hit the fan!

@meaganhammer9025 5 лет назад

yes, yes, yes!!! I went through the same exact thing! Thanks for saying exactly what I was thinking

@Sarah-qj4no 5 лет назад

In 2018 I left behind the belief that I’m “not a morning person” and started getting up at 5am to go to the gym and have breakfast and pamper myself in the mornings. Turns out I love it and I actually am a morning person and I was missing out all those years I thought I “needed” to stay up late and sleep until the last possible minute before rushing out the door.

@anhtheezyweezy 5 лет назад

Sarah Good for you! I can totally relate on this

@leonoresalmantine 5 лет назад

Interesting... l have been a night owl for years, l should try to morning thing out as well 😊 thanks for sharing!

@Sarah-qj4no 5 лет назад

Try it and let me know what you think! You might hate it, but you might surprise yourself and love it as much as I do! Good luck either way!

@mayrazavala3953 3 года назад

I'm so happy for you. I've been sleeping in until the last minute and skip breakfast. I feel trapped in an endless cycle. The thing is I sleep early too....

@j3zzuhkah 5 лет назад

Love these deeper video, Ingrid. You have a powerful voice, can’t wait to see what the future has in store for you! 😘

@winebuff100 5 лет назад

What an awesome video! I also have given up buying excessive amounts of clothes and make up and wearing and using up what I have and spending time with positive people and letting go of toxic people. I still love one glass of wine, but after that I totally agree with you on not drinking at social events. This was so well put together.

@loganava1 5 лет назад

I'm 41 and finally let go of everyone else's drama, I mean this in a way that If something comes up in conversation about someone or something that I know I always say something positive to revert the conversation

@woolhatlovebeads 5 лет назад

I LOVE how thoughtful your content has been lately! This was such an interesting video to watch. I've also been trying to shift my perspective on working out-- I'm trying to run more because I want to be strong and healthy and energetic, and I'm trying to leave my physical appearance completely out of my running goals. This is a great video and I really enjoyed hearing about your experience and perspective! (also, side note, I LOVE that lip color on you!!!)

@annienotanne 5 лет назад

When I think of Ingrid, "thoughtful" is the first word that comes to mind :) I thought this was a great video, too! I hope the running goes well for you, Natalie!

@OnsHm 5 лет назад

Hey Ingrid! Thank you for sharing with us 💓 One of the habits I left in 2018 is hating my flaws and imperfections

@chillwithky 5 лет назад

i let go of...my job! it was a position i could no longer grow mentally or spiritually in, so i left. thanks for sharing your journey soul sister

@caitlynwinders6709 5 лет назад

thanks for encouraging us all to think more critically about our habits, ingrid! ❤️ i let go of bottling up my feelings in 2018. i think from a young age, women (and men, hello toxic masculinity) are taught to put their feelings aside for fear of appearing weak or inconveniencing others. i had a big aha moment after a breakup in 2018 when i realized what a significant negative impact this habit has had on my relationships of all types. i’ve committed myself to expressing my feelings about the words or actions of those that i care about in order to avoid toxic resentment and passive aggression. it’s already served me well this year.

@vicky_la_france 5 лет назад

Thank you for being so vulnerable, Ingrid! In 2018, I started to let go of my fear of having really difficult conversations with people I love. I'm naturally someone who HATES conflict, and I used to think that one disagreement was a death sentence for a relationship. I'm slowly accepting that disagreements and difficult conversations are a natural part of relationships, and sometimes working through them can actually make your relationships stronger.

@hllurban244 5 лет назад

I love how thoughtful your content has been recently, it feels like a really comfortable space for reflection and I’ve really been enjoying it!

@oatmilkfiend9627 5 лет назад

Ingrid, I’ve been loving your videos recently. It’s so nice when you get really real and honest. Please keep up the amazing work💕💕

@alyshamonduori1422 5 лет назад

You are so genuine and I love your transition to an intentional being!!! ♥️ Thank you for sharing!

@ericauda007 5 лет назад

I’ve been watching you for so long and seeing your journey has been amazing. You’re such a wise soul! I’d love to see a q and a with a twist - old Questions you have previously answered and have a different answer for now.

@michellema4724 5 лет назад

Learning not to beat myself up over friendships that were toxic and at the bottom of it, based on sexism. I used to think I should have done something more or I said the wrong thing, or I took things too personally but sometimes people are not compatible in perspective or personality.

@RebeccaRanWhere 5 лет назад

I love these types of videos from you, Ingrid! My 2018 had a lot of downs including the death of an immediate family member, and it made me feel like I needed to cling to whatever I felt was good in my life, even if it wasn't. But then I had a moment of realization where I was keeping a lot of physical things and people around me that were making my life a lot worse instead of helping me heal. Learning to let those things go and those friendships move on helped so much. Life lessons are so weird when they hit you out of nowhere, but they always seem to come at the perfect time.

@akshyaboopalan3546 5 лет назад

I relate to all of this. It's good to keep learning to love things about yourself, and to continue learning from your "mistakes". One habit I've learned to let go is letting anxiety hold me back. I am now trying to recognise and be okay with it, and transforming it into excitement instead!

@KristinaRhodes 5 лет назад

Another refreshing video. Thank you, Ingrid for your commitment to bringing us thoughtful videos that legitimately add value to our lives. For me, I am learning to let go of toxic relationships. About a year ago, I heard someone say, "You don't have to be friends with people you don't like." This was stunning to me and confusing. Despite that, it was attractive, so I explored that. After some soul searching and reflection, I made the decision to step away from several friendships. It was really hard. I celebrated my 31st birthday last weekend with a brunch with friends. As I sat there at the table and looked around I was so deeply humbled as I enjoyed the reward for my hard work. Each and every person there is someone who I feel one hundred percent relationally safe and supported with one hundred percent of the time. It was awesome and totally worth the work and discomfort. To anyone out there struggling with friends and debating on whether or not to let go and move on, I really encourage you to access your average mental health before and after spending time with that person. We all deserve to have friends that support and love us unconditionally.

@anniedube 5 лет назад

*oh girl do i need this*

@HardcoreGlamour01 5 лет назад

I let go of people, jobs, ideas, that dont serve me positively or bring value to my life. I'm 26, and I feel like I've been slowly progressing, especially in the last year, into the person Im supposed to be 😊

@vilo3334 5 лет назад

These videos are always so so inspirational! I love it

@azumisilver4655 5 лет назад

hearing you talk about listening to learn more about others instead of worrying about yourself really encourages me to do the same. love you Ingrid 💞

@kettlejoy 5 лет назад

I gave up binge drinking and now rarely touch alcohol. It’s really cool to know you’re also facing social situations without a drink. It’s been five months for me now which I had thought was impossible. Not all my problems are solved, but it’s at least getting off the hamster wheel, and finding forward IS a direction open to me ❤️

@brookepage3752 5 лет назад

Thank you for sharing a deeper side of you today. It took a lot of courage❤️🙏

@beautyfromwithin0173 5 лет назад

Ilysm , Ingrid! You have always been such an inspiration. Keep up the wonderful work!🤗💕

@otacon7522 5 лет назад

This is probably my favorite video you've ever made. I've been watching you since I was a teenager and now that I am in my mid-twenties, these concepts are the kinds of things I am most interested in talking and thinking about. Thank you!

@ohvictoriaa 5 лет назад

In 2018, I was forced to stand up for myself a lot, even if it meant losing important people in my life. I used to be terrified of that. So in 2019, I’m leaving behind any guilt or bitterness that resulted after I stood up for myself. I don’t have to try and mend those friendships. I know in my core being and soul that I did what was right for me. I don’t have to feel bad about cutting out people who actively stood against me or feel bitter that they did so anymore. I’m leaving them behind, and I will no longer feel shameful about my decision. It feels SO good to write that out!

@JennyAmponsah 5 лет назад

Victoria Meschino I went through the same thing!!! I’ve had to let go of certain friendships and I’m glad that I did - my life is so much better now! So happy that you’ve found happiness now, I wish you all the best!

@ewagornisiewicz-kusiak6814 5 лет назад

Hi Ingrid. I just want to say this - I've been watching your videos from the very beginning. Your audience might be smaller one nowadays, but you content is so important! It's something you should be very proud of.

@ashleygonzalez583 5 лет назад

Oh my goodness, I can relate to this video soooo much. I am in the process of letting go those same exact habits, and I started that in the latter half of 2018. It's been a really eye opening experience. One habit I'd like to let go of in 2019 is not relying so heavily on technology to be my "pacifier." Thanks for continuing to make beautiful and meaningful content Ingrid!

@ItsNalee 5 лет назад

Thank you Ingrid. This year I came to a realization with myself and want to just reach for who I am really am . I’m so glad you uploaded this because it had just help me with some more clarity on my journey.

@annaaimeri 5 лет назад

Hi Ingrid! I loved this video idea so much! In 2018, I stopped biting my nails. Now, that might seem like a simple little thing at first, but to me, biting my nails symbolizes my anxiety, and a coping mechanism for stress and nervousness that I had had for over ten years. Thank you so much for sharing these things with us, your voice and thoughts are so powerful and loaded with wisdom, I deeply enjoy watching your videos, every day more and more. Sending love from Argentina!

@mybreadsmiles 5 лет назад

Hi Ingrid! i am never the type to comment on videos but i just felt spurred to do so when watching this. When I was younger, I was always subscribed to you but I have never felt more engaged and more connected to your content than I do now. I love how genuine and how well curated your videos are. I feel like I am talking to a long time friend or older sister haha Anyways, thank you so much for the wonderful content as of late!! (of course, your content is always wonderful!)

@KatrinaEames 5 лет назад

I love seeing how other people are growing! And I love how intentional you are being in everything.

@ashleemcpea6642 5 лет назад

I just love you Ingrid. I did the same thing this past year with the social anxiety. I “let go” of my insecurities surrounding making new friends and became more of a YES person when people invited me places. I ended up finding not one but two amazing groups of women to connect with. I really enjoy your content. I always have. I’ve been a subscriber for a long long time! You’ve really grown to be someone I truly admire & I hope one day our paths cross.

@SelenaG27 5 лет назад

Really relatable video, thank you Ingrid. Would love to see another more in depth video about you discussing social situations (e.g. other strategies you have and some of your other experiences).

@taylortutkaluke6099 5 лет назад

This was so positive and thoughtful Ingrid! Absolutely love your content ❤️

@denasafe 5 лет назад

In 2018, I realized that self-love is extremely important. Love is sometimes something you need to give yourself rather than expecting others to love you because how you treat yourself reflects on how others perceive you. For instance, I am trying not to use negative self talk as a conversation starter or in a lull of a conversation. Instead, I ask people more questions about their lives and when asked about myself I don’t talk about what I can’t do/or I am bad at. Don’t get me wrong, I still admit when I am wrong and if I have faults, because I am still self aware. My saying of 2019 is “fake it until you make it” I will tell myself that I’m being my best self, then I will be my best self.

@zoeivanov3656 5 лет назад

I've been a LONG time subscriber and I must say that in the last few months, you've produced some of the best content on your channel. I love how much more thoughtful and intentional you have become and your content really speaks for itself. 😌🙏🏻 Thank you for this 💓

@michouxwalker9801 5 лет назад

I let go of feeling like I have to keep in contact with people if they're negatively impacting my mebtal health. It was really hard, as we all feel like you just have to put up with family regardless of how they act. But in the end, I'm the only one who can take control of my mental health, so tgat was one thing I just had to let go of in order to give myself my best chance 💚

@mzudsiri 5 лет назад

These are the videos I love!

@KyleighJanee9 5 лет назад

I actually really liked this video! Thank you for sharing, Ingrid. The one thing I keep thinking of is getting over FOMO and truly savoring my alone time. I've become a bit of a recluse, but it truly feels good right now. And I'm not bummed or feeling like I missed out on anything either.

@katiebailly5751 4 года назад

i feel as though ive struggled with everything youve been talking about in these videos (why you stopped shopping, your financial journey, this!) and its helped me come to realize my own toxic traits when it comes to punishing myself. this is awesome, thank you so much.

@anhtheezyweezy 5 лет назад

I've let go of letting money be the source of my problems. I feel blessed for such a great support system who want nothing but the best for me. So now I'm motivated to excel in school for once in my life and get that graduate degree not only to make my loved ones proud but to feel like I really deserve it.

@shelleybartley3972 5 лет назад

It's been so lovely to witness you growing and changing over the years. Old Ingrid was also fab but I always finish your videos feeling comfortable with my own instincts and blissfully free of any angst that I need to buy something or look better on the outside.

@12eve12 5 лет назад

Love love love this! Thank you!

@seeellevlogs6027 5 лет назад

Thank you ingrid! this has been so helpful, especially when dealing with generalized anxiety.. social settings are very nerve-racking for me too. And I definitely can't drink alcohol to "calm nerves" b/c it makes me sick. Can't wait to see what you post next!

@iHeartZebraPrintt 5 лет назад

I wish I wasn’t so scared and and self conscious and had such low self esteem. I wish I started sooner on my journey to self love. All those nights I spent in my room crying about how I looked, I wasted my time and youth being upset about not being or looking good enough. I wish lost weight. It would’ve help my confidence. I would’ve spent less time worrying about how I look. I’m still very young but I regret so much. I wish I would’ve told myself to hold the people I love closer. I have so much to say.

@missbritty2 5 лет назад

I am in the process of letting go of my regrets from the past. It’s refreshing to be able to focus on what makes me happy in this current moment.

@LeighAverill 5 лет назад

yessss living for uplifting videos like these

@rachka8528 5 лет назад

Your thoughts on conversations and setting intention with new introductions/conversations is do refreshing! Definitely going to try this! Thank you as always for being so open 🙏❤️

@zarza9 5 лет назад

I have ABSOLUTELY LOVED this video ❤️ I was so inspired by it, thank you for posting it! 😊

@wildflowervi 5 лет назад

I’ve let go of doing everything to please my family. As a senior in high school there is so much pressure to be what your parents want and I’ve spent most of my life trying to do that. My mom has a plan for me and it isn’t me. She actually passed away in December and it broke my heart. I’ve done so much reflecting and this finally allowed me to truly be myself because I know that she’ll be proud of me no matter what. I felt like I had to go to college, but after talking to my dad I came to the conclusion that I’m not ready. It’s not the path I want to go down yet. Now, I’m doing a teaching program in Thailand and Vietnam from June to February. Thank you for this beautiful video Ingrid! Inspiring as always!

@stephmr47 5 лет назад

This video came at an exceptional time, Ingrid. Thank you! I hadn’t given this much thought, but after watching your video, you have inspired me to really think. Not about how I would look if I did something, but how I would feel. Not about how I would look after working out, but the accomplishment I would feel; not about how I would look after eating that comfort food, but how I would feel; not about how I would look when I stay firm in what I believe, but how been genuine and having integrity in myself would make me feel... I love this concept.

@melancholissa 5 лет назад

Girl, you have no idea of how much I relate to everything you're sharing. I really understand you. ❤️

@mateasepoval2822 5 лет назад

Oh I love your videos! It just keeps me going and leading to a right path. In 20128 i graduated and realized that life is more than a worry and overthinking. I am proud of me and through the year i read abour 50 books that helped me change the way I look at my life and listened a lot of podcasts. This year I decided to stop shopping because I am gratefull to be able to have what I have and be what I am but those material things sometimes get me boxed in a way that I feel pressured and that I have to have that to present myself better. So I am looking foward to this year and I know that it will be the best! Love you and your videos just keep that way! Lots of love from Croatia.

@erinwentz7 5 лет назад

Something that I think I naturally let go of in the past year is the need to always be around people. I'm very much an extrovert and I've always put my self worth and value in what other people thought of me and how many people wanted to hang out with me. So, the habit I gained is learning to enjoy time by myself and being ok with not always being busy and surrounded by people. Thank you for this thoughtful, insightful video!

@lilifandrich 5 лет назад

Girl! I have been watching your channel for years and years, and I have to say, I LOVE how your content has changed, shifted, and become more thoughtful and responsible. I feel like we're both on the same path and trajectory. Thank you for using your platform responsibly and being a good role model. Get it, girl!

@AprilSixsmith 5 лет назад

I love this video Ingrid! Something I've left behind in 2018 is people pleasing and it feels really good. I pretty much stopped this towards the last half of 2018 and I'm feeling much happier about my life!

@lauracricket 5 лет назад

Love this ❤️❤️ 2018 was a weird year for me, but in 2019 I’m focusing on really getting to know myself better and stopping my habit of ignoring my emotions! I used to be SUPER emotional and in tune with myself but I’ve become so blocked off to what I’m feeling and experiencing. 2019 is going to be about feeling again.

@iliveinmyhead 5 лет назад

Thank you so much for talking about social anxiety! I feel like as we get older it's something that gets way less acceptable to talk about but it's something that I really struggle with - especially as more work-related events have come into my life.

@essargee14 5 лет назад

I've recently started watching your videos again because I feel that our values and morals have realigned 😊 I loved everything you shared in this video and really appreciate your mindfulness and kindheartedness. I really feel like you are speaking directly to me when you say certain things

@kyliephx 5 лет назад

You’ve always been like a mentor to me, Ingrid. Even down to skincare. But this made me really want to think about the things that are important to me. Thank you for offering really important perspective on things that most of us don’t think about. I appreciate you ❤️

@JessicaHeartsMakeup 5 лет назад

Your wisdom is so powerful😍

@Keepinitreal55 5 лет назад

I let go of watching youtubers that are vapid and brought nothing but drama and an icky feelings into my life. I now like to watch youtube videos that somehow better my life and help me grow as a person.

@Cat_mom94 5 лет назад

I will be 25 in two months and so many changes have been going on since the start of this new year. I went to NYC during Christmas time and I came back home a completely different person. I met this person up there that made me realize I was not really living the life I wanted or dreamed of. It was an eye opening experience and the change is awkward and uncomfortable but I know it’s part of this journey called life. I have decided to live a minimalistic life and it is a hard thing to do when you’re used to shopping literally every weekend. I’m incorporating self-care, reading more books, journaling, drinking more water, and really trying to discover who I really am. Thank you Ingrid for allowing us to reflect on our thoughts with your good words of advice. P.S. please start a podcast

@williamzeber4836 5 лет назад

Happy 30th year Ingrid.

@StellaSmiles2 5 лет назад

Proud of you Ingrid! I loved your article in R29 too

@intellectgrime 5 лет назад

I totally agree that change is incremental and happens when you are patient and committed. In 2018 I let go of my dependence on other people to make me happy. I've been much more mindful of what things bring me joy and learning how to be more present in the moment and affirm that I am capable of doing what I need for myself. It's been a tough year and lesson to learn but I feel a lot better moving forward in 2019. Loving the thoughtful content, and really happy to hear how positive and mindful your 2018 was.

@user-iu8or9sq9s 5 лет назад

Thank you, Ingrid! Your videos are very calming and reassuring... it's like you are giving us all a hug and saying that it will all be OK! With all the social media telling us to do things, to buy things, to keep going, to try this and also that... you remind us that sometimes we don't need to do anything, we just need to have a break, to stop for a moment and think about what we really want and who we are

@amaliesofiavestergaard 5 лет назад

I needed to watch this

@Huitasunna 5 лет назад

Great Video, Ingrid! I love how you are developing into a even more awesome person video by video. Been following you since years and it is just amazing

@smol_boi88 5 лет назад

Thank you, Ingrid! What an inspiring video. Your list mirrors mine in a lot of ways, probably bc I recently turned 30 and resolved to leave lots of habits in my 20s. Things like: accepting myself as a constant work in progress, challenging my self- judgmental voice, and being grateful for what my body can do instead of criticizing its parts and appearance. Thank you again, happy belated birthday, and keep shining that light! ☀️

@ann_ig_staticseconds 5 лет назад

'Outside of work, what do you care about?'...Love this question! This will definitely stick with me and I will for sure use this in future conversations! Great video! xx

@isabella7921 5 лет назад

loved this ingrid ❤️

@mariumsteele7933 5 лет назад

This is wonderful and valuable. I have discovered in 2018 that it is ok not to always be working or stressing about tasks. That I can relax and enjoy time without having to be productive. Thank you for a wonderful video

@naydaro4441 5 лет назад

You are killing it with the great content, Ingrid!

@melissaw4667 5 лет назад

I loved this - especially the idea of eliminating mindless shopping. Love your sweater!

@AnasPorch 5 лет назад

I just did a video about letting go of fear. I find that fear is at the bottom of a lot of the things we are unwilling to let go of, whatever that may be. It keeps us from enjoying life. I also did a declutter of my bedroom and feel SO much better.

@Kathlayen 5 лет назад

I've learn the same things as you!! I've learn to stop worrying all the time about what my friends think of me and other people. True friends will love you just the way you are. If the conversation doesn't come naturally, don't force yourself, just be yourself

@luciedance1 5 лет назад

Each one of these resonated with me personally! Thank you for sharing such thoughtful content

@katerpooh71 5 лет назад

Wow, what a role model you are for establishing coping mechanisms and not just giving into anxiety and fears. Thank you so much for sharing, this is inspiring!

@amberb.9231 5 лет назад

This is such a beautiful and honest video💖 Thank you so much for sharing💕

@hobiworld613 5 лет назад

Happy birthday! I love this kind of content from you. I've let go of the habit of self-destructive thoughts.

@luvdazey 5 лет назад

One of the things I really made an effort to stop doing was complaining to others about arguments in my relationship. I would find that often when I would recount things to others their opinions and perspectives would overshadow my own and if I had already moved on from the argument it would bring it up again. By doing this it's truly allowed me to rectify the issue with my SO and avoid having things resurface that were already dealt with.

@ebwheatley 5 лет назад

I let go of a toxic friendship. She was my best friend for several years but it got to the point where she was taking advantage of me. It was costing me a lot of my sanity trying to maintain the friendship while she kept hurting me over and over, so I just let it go. It sucked at first because she was my only close friend that lives in the same city as me, but it was the best decision and I'm getting better and building relationships with new people.

@alexaquinonez3670 5 лет назад

I’ve been starting to not drink at social events either, i rather be aware of my surroundings and be able to enjoy my night instead of ruining it lol.

@giuliannabarahonarodriguez6936 5 лет назад

Hi Ingrid, Thank you for sharing this amazing video. One thing I let go off in 2018 is living up to the idea that I had to always look like I knew the answer to everything. That it was okay to not have all the answers and that sometimes not knowing what to do can lead to great things.

@leahng1176 5 лет назад

I really appreciate this video because I’ve been going through a lot of rethinking and learning about myself lately.. one thing I chose to let go of in 2019 has been not feeling obliged to explain my decisions to everyone who asks.. in that way, to be unapologetically where I want to be in every moment. It’s been working out all right so far.. and has saved me a lot of time to do things that I enjoy :)

@lily57 5 лет назад

Ingrid dear, you are easily one of the most inspiring person in this world! ♥️

@Nicole_elizabeth1561 5 лет назад

So relatable! Thanks for sharing your life with us ❤️

@nattybrown 5 лет назад

I totally get what you mean about exercise! Ive recently restarted going to the gym, and this time I totally changed my mental attitude to it. This time I enjoy it more and actually want to go rather than feeling likeI should go and feeling guilty when I dont.

@ThaliaMusicLover 5 лет назад

I’m letting go of feeling bad about not being able to do something. Whether it’s not feeling well enough to go to a social event, or workout... I’m focusing on allowing myself the space to heal. I loved this video and all of the thought put into your videos and life lately. Keep it up.

@leroygomez777 5 лет назад

Ingrid I love listening to every thing you have to say ❤️

@NvrLseHope 5 лет назад

I've been making a conscious effort to not have my guard up all of the time and to be more genuine with how I speak to people and how I'm feeling!

@soniatumkur6274 5 лет назад

Love this video!

@LingLing11891 5 лет назад

Thank you for sharing something genuinely insightful and thought provoking. I have found many 'motivational' videos by majority of youtubers to be very generic - not inspiring or helping me contemplate on how to truly better my life. You are very in tune with your own self, and it truly does inspire me to better myself as well. :) Best.