Hair gel lady DIVORCE DRAMA is UNHINGED! 

Men will do THE MOST except go to therapy. Good on ashley for handling all of this honestly, and we will stand by her.

the side chick is acting so ugly rn my heart actually breaks for ashley

“he wants to be heard and understood” tell me why this man thought the best person for that was a sex worker and not… idk a therapist????

I actual feel so bad for her, she clearly wanted to keep things private between her family

This is just plain sad. I think Ashley handled the situation the best she could. But... that other lady... people cannot converse without using tiktok as a medium in 2023 ? Please this is her personal life that she very clearly stated she wanted to preserve. Ugh, no words.

this has all been so crazy i feel so bad for her :( she seems very sweet

Honestly the gel lady kept things civil and vague. As a creator she has the right to express her thoughts on the hardships going on in her life so long as she doesn’t drag anyone through the mud which she hasn’t The other woman, on the other hand, is just a clout chaser. She’s a mother herself but didn’t care about how her actions would affect gel lady’s kids. Plus, no one was TALKING ABOUT HER BY NAME. And the fact she put “home wrecker” in her bio is so gross And the husband is gross too. For cheating and for claiming all her success was because of him. Truly hope gel lady heals and continues to thrive without this negativity

"I want her to know her man loves her." No he doesnt. He sought the emotional connection of an outside person and had an affair. That is not love. That shows such a level of disrespect, like you dont care about me enough to communicate with me or to walk away. You would rather go behind my back to someone else than be upfront with me. Such a bizarre guilt tripping thing to say!

Ashley: I have some relationship problems Monique: *and i took that personally*

The girl saying its not a big deal cuz he just wanted to be heard... like then go to therapy NOT A SEX WORKER

Ashley is so classy, so strong, so intelligent. I wish her the best for her kids and her business.

The gall of the sidechick to lecture and talk down to ashley...she needs to take several seats

I feel really bad for Ashley, she seems very sweet and I appreciate her being brave enough to be in the military. I hope they can resolve this offline bc this is messyyyyy 😳

Social media is wild cause I'm always like why do we know these strangers business this deeply 😂

Is it just me or is Angelica working over time giving us content?! A hard working queen 😌

Ashley handled this so well, yet the sex worker absolutely had to insert herself, thinking she's the main character and everything is about her. Like whatever hate she receives is brought on by herself. Also, the husband going to a sex worker instead of getting therapy. Yeah, he fucked up!

I watched Ashlee's videos before this drama came out and I'm so sad for her, she seems to be handling it really well publicly though. Monique on the other hand can suck a toe I have no idea why she thought it was a good idea to speak out about this like she wasn't going to get backlash like

The sex worker is being incredibly foolish, as someone who is part of the community she is behaving incredibly unprofessionally, other clientele will see she has no discretion and be put off. Also as a sw, this pick me behaviour is just sad, tricks are tricks, their lives or getting in your feelings as a worker about their marriages or personal lives is unprofessional and unhealthy. It should be just work! It’s not that deep! She’s also being very callous with showing her children publicly - Clients can be nuts and the public is not kind.

Why is the side chick downplaying the cheating? Wtf

Here's a wild thought: Respect ppl's privacy.👏🏼👏🏼

I was really annoyed that she went on the internet to "spill the tea" on Ashley's relationship. She quite literally said she wanted to keep that private so how could anyone take that as "putting their business out there and let me put more out"? Okay so you think she's making vague posts about you? So what? No one was putting her name out there.

I feel so bad for her, but also have to admire how she's held her head high through this trash situation her husband and his 'mistress' put her in. I don't believe in right away shaming the 'other woman', but the way this lady behaved she deserves all the shame. I know she's a s*xworker and I don't hold that against her, even with her knowing about him being married while offering him services (though I believe the right thing is always to inform the wife) - I wouldn't blame her as much as the trash men who cheat on their spouses, but here? This woman is PROUD about it, she gloated in that video airing their dirty laundry not thinking or caring about the children involved who WILL find out about all this later on and see these videos. The homewrecker in her bio says it all, no class.

The man knew he was doing things he shouldn't have so he didn't want to be online. It's not that he didn't like the fame really, it's that he knew his stuff would get out because he's probably not going to stop.

I love Ashley. Her videos have me dying of laughter. When I heard I was so shock. I hope her and her family are doing well. Nobody deserves to go through this

She was not coming after this silly chick when she shared a fear of being left by a spouse with no financial security. Ashley had it in the forefront of her mind due to her current situation because it could have been her if she had made different choices. Its honestly good advice to pass onto her children and good advice for anyone.

so she has the time to film this whole thing while evacuating?????? her priorities tell us everything we need to know

I feel so bad for her. She was (and still is) keeping it classy and there was no reason for her personal business to be blasted on the internet. It's so ridiculous and cruel! Influencer or not, people should be allowed a certain level of privacy.

Y is this gross person getting in someone else's marriage. If u dont want to be with your spouse, be a grownup and tell them. And get your personal crap off the internet. Jesus

Child- and marriage-free life is the way to go and no one can change my mind.

As an SW myself, the side piece got me fucked up... major ick. Ashley kept it incredibly civil and all the side lady did was clout chase and in the worst way possible.

the gel didnt work for me :( but i still like the detangler that comes with it. it has a cartoon of her and her husband on it😭

Hang on...let me get this straight...so some bloke who was sort of not going out/married with red head brutal hair woman, but sort of was...contacted another woman on line and despite masturbation...actually never met her...move on...red haired brutal woman has bugger all to worry about!!

The side-chick community needs to come get their girl like what ever happened to side-chick DECORUM🥴. When the wife finds out, you STAY IN YOUR LANE and take that L in secrecy.. This girl is out here running her mouth like she’s the main character! Y’all need to get it together 🤦‍♀️

I can’t help but feel like, by making this video, you’re broadcasting her business just like the other lady tried to. Yours is secondhand info, but it still gives attention to poor Ashley’s private life. You’re not respecting the wishes of the victim here.

The SW is describing a man that needs therapy. So why a SW when therapists exist and can actually help with the situation....

Her vague initial video was absolutely calling him out, I don’t know why people act like it wasn’t. But he’s a cheater… so who cares if she calls him out?

Who the fuck stops mid hurricane evac prepping to film a goddamn TikTok video that goes on and on for way too long? Her priorities are wack.

gel lady's kinda on it w her desire to step back. i think a lot of people can learn from this, truly. the other lady trying to drag her back in is both toxic but also part of toxic internet culture's influence on how we react to normal disputes. it's telling for sure.

I HATE this side chick. She has absolutely no shame and is trying to say that ASHLEY is the problem?!? Girl. Nasty behavior.

I can’t stand Monique.. she’s gross.

I mean have you all seen the videos with him in it?? He doesnt look like hes having fun in any video. Unless your partner gives you permission, maybe dont throw gel in their face, if he gave the okay then fine. Now that being said they needed couples therapy to communicate better and then maybe they wouldnt be going through this. That does not give him the right to cheat if he did. Also some people fall out of love not all, to tell women they cant trust their partners because they could fall out of love will really break their relationships from the start. They will go into all realationships with a massive cloud over their head always thinking hes gonna leave or is cheating. Now the suposed affair woman is soooo in the wrong, totally unnecessay and petty.

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Monique is a nasty little person. Very nasty.

The sex worker defending the man sounds very “pick me girl” like. Also, people just casually exposing their children online will always give me the worst vibes possible.

Can you do a story on the tabi girl it’s an insane story

the sex worker's audacity is just.... not only she talked about a relationship that was non of her business but also justified the horrible actions of the husband, like ????? felt really bad for the hair gel lady :((

I wonder how the other woman is gonna function now that her name is plastered all over social media as a home wrecker. How is she gonna get a job? Cause an employer would see her reputation and not wanna hire her. And if her job is social media, she’s gonna lose her following and make less now. How is she gonna be in a real relationship? Anyone who potentially had interest with her will see she’s a PROUD homewrecker which basically means that she’s a proud CHEATER. She’ll end up with literally nothing! And for what? Five minutes of fame? Five minutes that tanked her career and social life and the social life of her kids. Ashlee is so classy and kind, I would not be nearly as kind

I think Monique assuming that Ashley was talking abt her speaks a lot more to her own insecurities and character than it does to Ashley’s

no shame in seeking help if you're having a problem with your spouse that you feel hasn't been addressed but PLEASE see a therapist, marriage counsellor, or even family member instead of a sex worker??? him and monique must have lost their minds because there is no way to justify that... I feel so bad for ashley, she seems so sweet and she's had every bit of privacy taken from her

I don't have tiktok so I didn't know about the hair gel lady but I have to say: she seems very genuine and it's good to see an influencer who looks... rea, y know.

I’m sorry y’all but if he’s messaging sex workers he didn’t just emotionally cheat, he has likely already cheated on her. I feel for her ❤

not the side piece acting like she knows ashley’s husband better than she does… like miss ma’am you got a grown man whining to you and most likely not being honest to make it seem like he did nothing wrong. like she was already disrespecting this ashley and her family by posting ANYTHING but then she starts being condescending and acting like she’s gonna be the one to tell ashley how to proceed? absolutely not.

WHERE'S PHOEBE?!

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Reminds me of that true crime case Netflix made a show on called Dirty John. A woman gives her youth, her dreams, her everything to a man, and their children- only for it to be taken by the younger woman. Now the woman is left with nothing. No skills, no beauty and even her kids don’t like her. In the story she kills her husband for it and I can’t say I wouldn’t feel the same. What a horrible thing to do to someone that gives you their everything

Angelika you are loving this tea with your reactions? 😂😂😂

The other girl needs attention so bad. Like baby.. please… how do you expect to get sw clients if you’re gonna reach out to their wives??? Lmao

Also - almost all people who look outside their home are likely to say it’s their partners fault. Not being heard, seen, loved, respected, enough sex etc

This 9:49 chick wanting to make it all about her 😫 She didn’t name her or her husband publicly or directly in any of this - not her business. She’s wanting to make her bag off gel ladies fake -.-

The more I hear about this the worse I feel for Ashley

Why does Monique think Ashley would want to know the opinion of the woman her husband cheated with…? That makes my blood boil

Damn Ashley is so classy. What a shitty situation

thanks for bringing this to us. i like the hair gel lady

Imagine wanting to be "heard" through a se(c) worker...with kids...in an OPEN RELATIONSHIP....who also has a man. 💀, that sentence and scenario sounds so damm dumb. That's why you communicate with your partner or go to therapy. I feel so sorry for Ashley and her kids. Guy's in the wrong for that but who knows what the real story is. The real victims are those kids.

Ashley is a queen, the way she has handled this situation, is far better than I would have. I want to be her when I grow up. Shayla is just a pathetic excuse of a human who doesn’t deserve what little platform she has 🤷‍♀️

You and your lighting are a match made in paradise✨!

If the prostitute didn’t bring out the details, they would’ve been able to resolve it quietly. As a sex worker you’re supposed to be discreet with the identity of your client. Her displaying sensitive issues like that is weird. But for her to not only expose a business that is not her, then get the nerve to blame the gel lady for not doing « enough » while proceeding to give her advice on how to keep a man is mad crazy to me. The disrespect of it all.

Unrelated I love these bangs 😊

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Insane how tiktok works, I've literally not ever seen this woman on my TL before.

The female the husband was talking to on the DL, is the same type who would lose her shit if her man did the same to her. Going so far as to use manipulative language like “he loves her, he made that so clear.” if he loved her, he wouldn’t be talking to other women, he would be doing a multitude of other things - even leaving Ashley altogether is a kinder option. Honestly baffling and gross behavior.

you expect me to believe this man called up a sex worker to "talk about his feelings" id kill myself

9:10 “being a mom is the biggest blessing of your life” lol 😅

This to me really sounds like he's super bothered that he can't cheat in peace anymore now that he was getting famous and recognized everywhere. Famous men just have a really hard time being cheats aka Adam Levine people will eventually find out specially if you're new to fame and how much of a detective people in the internet actually are

Ashley wanted to keep everything private and that other girl was the one who publicly announced Ashley’s husband’s infidelity and with a smug smile on her face might I add. Like she’s proud of herself. Plus she admitted to being a fan of Ashley’s and watching her for 2 years prior. Disgusting. And the husband had the audacity to make a video and bash Ashley for making his infidelity public even though it was his side chick that did that and claiming that her success is because of him. Absolutely ridiculous. I feel so bad for Ashley.

She is active duty military, we have to use a lot of gel to keep your hair in regs. She used to get comments on how to do her bun, and it kind of just kicked off from there. I’m sure she wants to slander him, but honestly I never got that vibe from her, she speaks highly of him, but you have to remember when your active duty military with 14million followers there are eyes EVERYWHERE, and as someone who was active duty military you’re walking on thin ice especially with this being public! She’s doing such a wonderful job being a mother, I’ve been through divorce and it’s not fun.

i love how she thought Ashley was talking about her by just posting “be the type of woman you’d want your daughter to be” and got offended like what??? so you know and basically just admitted *you’re* not the type of woman you’d want your daughter to be?? Cause why else tf would that even have anything in the world to do w her

Admittedly, I was curious about what was going on since I loved Ashley’s content and I felt like the divorce came out of nowhere - but I would never pry into it - I hope everything goes well for Ashley and her kids

Monique is giving very much pick me…

Imagine having to evacuate for a hurricane but going "nah evacuating me and my CHILD can wait, I gotta stir some drama in other peoples lives first"

Damn men, why is sex more important to them than their partners, children, family, life? How is it that important to them that they cheat for it, commit crimes for it, pay for it. It’s disgusting. I’ll never be I a relationship I don’t trust them

That side chick is a clout goblin. Ashley is handling this well, and she was right about a husband taking care of you until he finds someone else - happened to my mom after 25 years! I stand with Ashley and wish her well. ❤

I really hated the way the husband was talking about he made her successful and the fact she didn't want too much details to come out and the chick decided to make the decision for her

When Ashley said its not the womans fault. Nope. It takes two to tango

I remember the "he's secretly the happiest husband in the world" :((

Ashley sounds pretty smart to me, though I don’t know her that well. It’s best to be independent with most things. 🙏🏽

Monique had no right or business airing out Ashley’s secrets like that

It’s super common for men to act out once their partner starts making more money than them

He don’t want the fame because he didn’t want to be identified when he cheating.

The side chick giving her input and opinion on how gel woman should be a better wife and listen to her husbands and not be bothered by him cheating because he’s a good daddy, ENRAGES MEEEEEEE “I want her to know her man loves her” I’d have to go to jail. For you to insert yourself in MY marriage and then think you have the RIGHT to SPEAK on it? I can’t even finish this comment. The audacity and entitlement OMGGGGG

I've been ignoring other vids on this and waiting for angelikas take

What the sex worker did was seriously unprofessional, and is screaming attention seeker. Good on Ashley for handling this so well thus far, I think a break from socials will be good for her.

Lay it on me! I haven't dived into the drama so im ready to now♡

Did she confirm they were divorcing? Because as far as we know, it’s just a rough patch they’re going through.

Ashley has always been classy and respectful. Side chick inserted herself and started this drama by posting HERSELF and Ashley’s husband, no one knew she existed until she posted herself. She is a mess and gives off MASSIVE “pick me” vibes and is clearly a clout chaser.

Her name should be Pickmeque

A husband who has started the steps to cheating didn't want to be recognized in public 🤔 huh wonder why he would not want that LOL

Ashlee is so sweet and such a hardworker. I feel so bad for her but I know most people dont want to be pitied. I know she can get through this. She's tough.

Her advice was really good and valid. Also imagine if YOU wanted to leave. You need to have a way to do it. The woman who posted about her just wanted attention clearly, and needs to step back and listen to herself. Ashley handled this with grace.