This is moot (or that's what can be the new norm if people can push themselves to grow). From my heart, I wish people to level up in their conversations. As I am an LGBTQer (dating men and women and had only a very short lived fling with a Trans gal) in my 40's I just stopped coming out and I let people get curious. If the rapport is there and I'm casually talking about my love life (like it's no big deal) and they are being casual about their love life, I just allow that person to ask me "So you identify as what?" And I simply go a level up and say happily single and into monogamy (it's what I value). Most people chuckle and stop there. Because unless you're a sex therapist most people, straight and not, will not go any deeper into the conversation. They don't want to know the details of how I banged this person or that person lol. They don't have the bandwidth for it. In fact, most people want to know how I fell in love and out of it. Gender doesn't matter to that person when they've decided to genuinely get to know me. When you as a gay lesbian bisexual whatever label you call yourself start being confident in expressing to people who you are, how you live in a causal respectful manner, and just exude yourself as a loving human being these "coming out" conversations become short-lived and most people want to know the aspect of you that has good character, what are your hobbies that make you, you and that you'll treat them with respect. If that person is an a-hole about it, move. Don't allow that energy into your space and dance it out with more Halsey music or something. I wish you all the best. ;)
What she says is so true . It has been 2 years since I was diagnosed with cyclothymia (less intense form of bipolar) . The thing that upsets me the most is it's never going to get any easier, I have to live with it always. I feel like dying sometimes, idk how she copes with it but I seriously can't cope with it , I'm living like nothing. I can't do anything, I just can't be at peace.
I can't imagine what you must be going through but you'll be fine! You could try talking to people because expressing always helps. Just be positive and know you can get through it!
@@heyitsokay9300 Thanks . I have tried talking to people but mental health issues is a taboo in Bangladesh. No one really understands, they're like "oh it's normal ,you're just going through a teenage phase " I was diagnosed with cyclothymia from a psychiatrist . How can they say that it's normal . I'm so tired of it . I have always been dedicated to my studies but my study is being effected by it the most. Everyone thinks I have become lazy . Sorry if I'm sharing too much .
@@heyescusemee3954 I understand where you're coming from a little. I'm from a country with the same taboos. Honestly, at this point you should worry about studies the least. Try talking to friends or your closest confidants, if not your family. There's so many people on the internet as well I guess who are willing to help out. I can talk too if you'd like. Any don't worry, you didn't share too much. I'm happy to listen :) edit: kpop always helped me haha
I'm so sorry to hear about your mental health struggles. My teenage son was recently diagnosed with Bipolar and I'm just trying to help him cope with it. It's a very difficult and intense illness.
My gf is bipolar and shes 33 im just 26 and when shes in manic i tell her im here for you baby i leave her b for a bit send kiss and hugs tell her i care deeply since then she copes it up be angry if she wants with me idc i never raise my voice to a woman never have unless its a diffrent story.
Ik its been 5 years but i truly feel bad for Halsey, because of all conditions that she has :( my mom had breast cancer when i was im highschool and i started developing depression, at first my dad believed me but later on he didnt believe me... now my clinical depression costs me my job :( does this stigma ever end?? Before i judged halsey but not anymore, not for the reasons you think, i thought she was a bad person but i was wrong... she did nice stuff for women, for lgbtqia, for black and asian people ,for mental health etc she deserves happiness
