Hardest Birthday Of My Life 

If everyone had a dad as open,kind, honest, supportive and awesome as Aaron, the world would be a better place. ❤

Aaron is a great receiver of gifts. Not everyone receives gifts with such attention, genuine appreciation and enthusiasm.

It really choked me up watching Aaron go through such a hard time. It's always hard seeing good people like Aaron go through something like this. RIP Carol.

Aaron, my heart goes out to you in this time of grief. Losing my mom was one of the most emotionally challenging things I’ve gone through in this life. Know that there are many thousands of people, including myself, who are praying for you during this time. Your courage to talk about your loss on camera is profound. You and all your loved ones will be in my heart and prayers. Somehow we find the strength to move forward. ❤❤❤

Praying for Aaron & all the family. It’s so hard losing a parent. I lost my dad due to cancer almost 3 years ago. I’m truly so sorry. 💔♥️

The JOY on Aaron's face when he seen what he had been surprised with after having a rough day was unbelievable to see him so big. Love you guys ❤️

I am so sorry for the loss of your mom Aaron. You guys had a special bond that will never be broken. You will never stop missing her, but you will always have wonderful memories that someday will make you smile more than they make you cry. You are an amazing human being and a wonderful example to your family and friends.

I think the most amazing thing about Aaron is that even in the midst of his own pain, he’s still the most amazing dad. Being able to show your kids raw emotions and still pull through for them is a blessing. I’m hoping you guys lean on each other and come out of it even stronger 🫶🏼

Aaron is such a class act! As a now grown woman, I only can wish I would've had a dad like him!! I wish you the happiest of birthdays and please give yourself some grace as you move through the grieving process. There's no right or wrong way to do it God Bless

I’m so sorry for your loss Aaron! Losing someone so close to you during this time of year is never easy. Just know she is watching over you and all of the kids from heaven. The fact you guys somehow were able to stick to the Vlogmas schedule while dealing with such a huge loss shows how dedicated you are to your channel. Thank you for sharing the ups and downs with us. I’ll be praying for the entire Pettit family this holiday season.

My heart hurts for you Aaron. You will honestly be in my thoughts and prayers. The kids and Crystal are so truly blessed to have someone as great,caring,and loving as you are! I lost my sister,my best friend,and my rock 5years ago come Jan and the pain never goes away but you learn to deal with things because you know that they are pain free now and living in a much better life in heaven. Just know she will always be with you and you will meet again one day. My deepest condolences to you and the family and I hope you have a very Merry Christmas and a better and safe New Year 🎉❤️🙏

Aaron, you've had a rough couple of Christmas's. When you are feeling down it's hard to remember how loved you are, but please try to remember that you are loved, not just by your family, but by all of us that you allow into your life through these videos. You make a difference in my life and influence the decisions I make. You're influence goes well beyond your family and I am grateful for you!

Ah Aaron… I cried with you. May your mother Rest in Peace ❤️ The feeling of emptiness after losing a parent is beyond awful. My mum passed 5 years ago, I miss her everyday but that’s because she was so precious and gave me a reason to miss her - I was so lucky to have her for 33 years ❤ Sending love and prayers to you all ❤

My heart goes out to John, Aaron and the rest of the family. May the love you felt from Carol help you heal during the grieving process and give you strength.

I have essentially disowned my mother but this still made me get choked up. It's nice to see that people have good mothers who nurtured that bond, and it's incredibly sad to see how much it hurts for them to pass on. Sending love to Aaron and the family ❤ I hope being surrounded by loved ones made your birthday special

I love how Aaron hugs with so much love. You can just tell

To Aaron: I just wanted to quickly tell you how much this video touched me. It's never easy to cope with the loss of a loved one, and I can empathize with how difficult it must be for you, especially on your birthday. It reminded me of my own struggles, especially around the Christmas season. I, too, have lost important people in my life, my grandfather, a good childhood friend of mine, and my uncle. Today, on Christmas Eve, I spent the day pretty much alone and can understand how it feels when a festive day seems more like a day to forget. The emptiness and pain can be particularly intense in those moments. It's important to understand that it's completely okay to struggle, especially on such days. Grief and pain take time to heal, and it's crucial to give yourself that time. Everyone deals with loss differently, and there's no right or wrong in this process. You're not alone in your feelings. I hope that despite everything, you find support and love in your family and surroundings. It's okay to withdraw on such days, but also leave space for the people who want to support you. All the best to you, and I hope the upcoming days become easier for you. It's a process, and you're doing great by openly talking about it. Merry Christmas to you, your beautiful wife, the coolest funcle Joe and your amazing children. It'll get better. Pinky promise.

I lost my dad in July and the feelings are still Raw. Thank you for being open , honest, and real with your feelings. I am so very sorry for the loss of Aarons mom.

Sending love and support to Aaron. I lost my mom 13 years ago. She’s still in my heart and thoughts every day. Just remember she’s a part of you so she’s still always with you. ❤️‍🩹

Happy birthday Aaron even through you are heartbroken your mama would want you to smile on your birthday ! You are the greatest gift she was given and joy you brought into her life. All mothers want is their children is to be loved and be happy healthy and succeed in life. You fulfilled everything she ever could have imagined. My heart absolutely breaks for you I know and understand the pain of losing a parent . And almost 4 years since I lost my dad I can honestly say I’m not over it at all . We love you and your family and many prayers being sent to you and your sweet family !!! Remember it is okay to Cry and It is okay to Smile 😊

Aaron, I am so sorry for your loss! You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!

Aaron, thank you so much for being vulnerable and real. We all are here with you, and she is watching you this holiday season and no longer in pain. I’m so sorry for your loss, remember the good times. Sending much love 🩵

I held it together through the whole video until the last photo of Grandma Carol and Grandoa John with Hannah and Ariana. Then I sobbed. R. I. P. CAROL URBAN. YOU WILL BE SORELY MISSED BY ALL WHO KNEW YOU.

Aaron, everyone who has lost a parent knows how you are feeling. Thank you for being so raw about it. Grief is the price we pay for love. Sending comfort, peace and a promise that it will get better. The grief does become easier to bear.

Aaron’s hugs come straight from the heart, ❤️ you can see that. Happy Birthday Aaron you deserve the world! 🌎 I’m so sorry for your mother’s passing, she can truly now rest in peace. 🕊️

My Dad recently passed away. My Mom passed away last year. It’s been really hard. There has been days that has been so very hard. But what helping me get through it as well for my siblings is the support from my family & friends. You have an amazing supporters that love you so much. Remember your Mom is at peace. She will always be with you. 🥰🙏

Losing your mom is one of the hardest things you will ever face. It leaves a hole in your heart that no one else can fill. I lost mine 9 years ago. Some days I'm okay, and then out of nowhere it will hit me like a ton of bricks. You're lucky to have such a loving wife and family to lean on. Just know you're not alone. My heart goes out to you. 💔

I’m going to miss seeing Aaron’s Mom. My heart goes out to you all. ❤

Aaron, I'm so very sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Losing your parents is such a difficult thing. Both my parents have passed and the one thing that gets me through each day is to remember the good times, laughs and conversations. Talk to her like she's in the room with you bc she is watching you from heaven. Hope that helps. I cry to my Momma and Daddy when I'm sad and miss them and I feel so much better and at peace to get it off my chest.

So sorry for your loss. Losing your mom is one of the hardest losses we can ever endure.

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss Aaron. Deepest sympathy and condolences for you and the family. Prayers going up for comfort and healing. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Happy birthday wishes for brighter days to come. 🎉🎂🎈🎁🎊🥰

Aaron, I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how tough this must be for you right now. Wishing you lots of strength, peace, and comfort as you go through this hard time. You're a really kind and caring person, and I hope happier days with your family bring you warmth and love.

A mixed emotional birthday Aaron, do not feel embarrassed about showing your grief for the loss of your wonderful mom. It is natural to be up and down, but talking about your mom and remembering all the wonderful memories you have will help. Sorry your birthday did not go as planned, but you got some wonderful gifts from your loved ones, especially the gift from Crystal. So happy to hear John will be there with you at Christmas too. Blessings.

So proud of Aaron of being in touch with how he is feeling during his vulnerable time such as inspiration hope the family and himself are coping okay and we as a community are all with you

I lost my Grandma on 12/21 this year. It was hard seeing Aaron in so much pain 😭 I lost my Mom unexpectedly August 19th 2022 and holidays since then are so hard. Praying for peace and comfort for all of you as you go through this hard time.

Praying for your family. Happy birthday Aaron thank you for sharing your emotions. Your mama is in a great place and is so happy and healthy looking down on all you!

I am so very sorry for your loss Aaron. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Your Mama will always be by your side and you'll even start seeing little things that remind you of her. She'll send you little signs letting you know she's there.

I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I hope you find comfort in all your memories of her. Sending you all hugs! ♥️💚🙏🏻

My heart goes out to you. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Prayers and my condolences to you, John, and all your family. Happy birthday, Aaron. ❤

My deepest thoughts and prayers go out to Aaron and the family. I lost my grandpa right before thanksgiving this year and it’s been hard. It was so nice to see him smile and all the kids showing up and loving him. Crystal you are amazing and it shows. You and Aaron are both so blessed to have one another. Rest Peacefully Grandma Carol 💜

My heart goes out to you Aaron! My mom passed away in July and this Christmas season has been extremely hard especially for my dad. I’m 21 and my brother is 19 so we have been grieving a ton. Just know she is watching over you and your family and she is forever proud of you. Hope you guys have a great Christmas 🤍

Happy birthday Aaron. Even if it was a sad birthday, it turned out to be a happy birthday anyway. Crystal will always find a way to make you smile. Happy birthday. There are no words to say to help your grief but your mom will always be with you. Edit: By the way, way to make someone cry with the dedication at the end of the video. It was beautiful.

We love ya Aaron! I wish you many joyful, peaceful days with the wind in your face on your new bike! May 2024 be your best year yet!

Happy Birthday Aaron. My heart breaks for you. I understand what you’re going through. I am so sorry for your loss you’re in my thoughts and prayers. Praying for you and your family. I love you guys.🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

So sorry for your loss. She will be watching over you for many years to come

I can feel your pain and understand how incredibly difficult losing a loved one, especially a parent is. My dad only had four months after his cancer diagnosis. My sister and I no longer enjoy our birthdays, which are both in February, as that’s the month he died. The firsts will be very difficult, but allow yourself to grieve. The pain doesn’t go away, you’ll just learn how to live without your loved one there. Give yourself grace to mourn and feel the sadness. Prayers for Carole’s soul and healing for your family, as they navigate life without mom/grandma.

Happy Birthday Aaron! I’m glad you have your family to support you during this time. I’m so sorry for the loss of your mom. I hope all the happy memories bring you peace. Keeping you in our prayers.

Aaron I am so sorry. I also Lost my Mom recently. Just experiencing Christmas for the first time with out her hurt so bad. Almost makes you feel like a child again. (Well it did me) May you find peace in these following days and months.

Aaron, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you all. Sending love to everyone. Happy Birthday 🎁

So sorry to hear that, and sorry for your loss! I lost my mom December 30 2021 and it is so hard cause I miss her so much it hurts, so I know what you’re going through! My mom was my whole world, she lived with me and my husband and our two kids(her grandkids) the last 4 1/2 years of her life! So we saw her everyday and we all miss her so much! So just take it one day at a time and it’s okay to have some bad days and cry, and I had to have some days to myself! My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family through these really hard days!

My heart broke so badly for Aaron and your precious family. Your mom seemed like such a sweet soul from the videos of shared. She lived you deeply and was so proud to call you her son! Take care and Merry Christmas!

I love all the hugs and how Aaron is surrounded around family that care for him 🥹❤️ so sorry for your families loss.

Aaron I am so so sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you and your family. I hope you found some joy and love on your birthday, Happy Birthday, and I hope you find love and joy on Christmas. You are all in my prayers for comfort and peace and love.

Oh Aaron, your mom was such a warrior. She will anyways be with you somehow, someway . She is so proud of you and what you have become as a loving father and human in general. I wish your family the best in these hard times.

Aaron, I'm so so sorry for you and your family's loss. My heart breaks for you while tears are running down my cheeks. You sound at peace, even though you are hurting and will for a long time. Hope you can have the happiest birthday even with the circumstance at hand. My favorite videos were when you had your mom in them. I feel like you guys are good friends of mine after watching your videos for years now. Crystal please give a hug to Aaron and all of your kids and have Aaron give you a hug fom me in Niagara Falls , NY. HAPPY BIRTHDAY. Bellas give was the most creative and so adorable. Crystal is the most thoughtful, caring and loving person ever to walk this life. Hope you enjoy your new motorcycle and PLEASE DRIVE SAFE. Mostly watch out for other dumb drivers! So glad you were able to turn Aaron's day around. Love your family and God bless you all.

Prayers to Aaron and you all. Losing a parent is never easy. I lost both of my parents at 30 & 45. It still feels fresh. I hope you can find comfort in your memories and peace in knowing she's at peace. Merry Christmas!

Condolences and prayers Aaron and family for your loss. Birthday blessings to you.

Praying for you Aaron sorry for the loss of your mom. May God wrap his loving arms around you and comfort you while you deal with her loss prayers for the family as they comfort you and try to cheer you up. Happy Birthday Aaron

I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s never easy to have to say goodbye to the ones you love especially a parent even if you know they were in pain. Hopefully your memories of her will help heal your heart. And I know your mom would definitely want you to celebrate your birthday. Have a Happy Birthday and a Happy Christmas.

I’m so sorry for your loss Aaron , it’s hard people are going to tell you “ itll get better “ but don’t listen to them .. that’s the most annoying thing someone could ever tell someone , I lost my dad 5 months ago & it’s still hard .. basically brand new still . Anyway .. may God continue to give you strength & to be surrounded by love .

I’m so sorry Aaron it’s never easy losing a parent. My condolences to you and your family.

Happy birthday, Aaron. It is okay to not be ok. As long as you don't plan on staying that way. It is healthy to grieve. My mom passed away in 2007. It is just now that I can celebrate Christmas and my birthday without breaking out in tears. My mom pretty much did the same thing and waited a few days to say goodbye. This may sound a little off, but when you have put a lot in to care giving and they are free, it is a lift off of your shoulders. You are so blessed to have all of your family with you. Like Crystal said when everyone leaves you are on your own. I haven't had anyone since my mom passed. I encourage you to cry when you need to and don't stop until you are ready to stop. Don't try to prematurely stop it. Hug your nearest relative feeling the same way. You don't have to be superman because he is a fictional character. Does Jaime sell her bracelets? I want to buy one.

R.I.P. Carol, I am so sorry for your loss, Aaron. I hope you are able to fond peace and healing through her memories and love for you and the family. Much love and many prayers to all of you.

Happy Birthday Aaron. Your mom is so proud of you and she's watching down on you everyday.

Aaron, I am so sorry for your loss but I am also encouraged by the love and support you have around you with your family and friends. it's good to laugh and cry when you feel like it, as that is a part of grieving. Bear in mind that our heavenly father understands as mentioned at Isaiah 41:10 He is there with you always. Crystal, you are an awesome partner! It's so good to see your bond. Coleen, NJ

Im so sorry about your terrible lost. Just know that your mom is very proud of you and loves you❤

I love how when Aaron hugs his kids you can see the love in his face 💞 You’re such an amazing person Aaron, sending you lots of love and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Sending lots of love to your family at this sad time xx I can only imagine it feels like the wind has been knocked out of your sail to lose a parent. I will remember Carol as gentle and kind from your videos, and so incredibly proud to be a Grandma to all the children. I remember her coming to deliver gifts to you in St Johns that she had picked out for everyone. Take time to heal and surround yourself with loved ones Aaron xx

Condolences on the loss of your mom, Aaron. Sending you and the family prayers of comfort.

My mum had dementia. I was her primary care giver. Feeling your pain Aaron. My daughters & I spent so much quality time with her. That I made sure of. Seeing her great grandchildren lit her up like a Christmas tree. Our mums know Aaron. Their thoughts & hearts are always about their grandchildren. Happy birthday Aaron. Our prayers are with you. Much love & light. 🙏❤😊

Sorry for your loss, sending much love and prayers for peace and comfort during this time. Love how Sadie knew that you needed comfort and came to sit with you both. Signs of a good therapy dog

Happy Birthday Aaron! Im so sorry for your loss Aaron, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I lost my daddy 17 years ago and it was the hardest day of my life, i cant imagine losing my mama. Grieve in any way you need to, please dont hold it in, you have an amazing support team backing you up and i love that. Sending positive vibes and love your way.

Oh Aaron and your family, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I lost my uncle earlier in the month and honestly this holiday season is unfortunately going to suck for me as well. All I’m going to say about his passing is that cancer stinks. Merry Christmas to you all.

Happy birthday Aaron, I understand your pain. I lost my mom 3 years ago and it still hurts. Your list is way too fresh. My heart goes out to you. Many blessings to you and your family

Sending tons of prayers. Losing people can be so so hard. I’m sending tons of love your way and keeping you guys in my thoughts.❤

Aaron, I’m truly sorry for your loss. I’m wishing you the best start to the new year that you can possibly have. Sending hugs

Happy 42nd Birthday Aaron I understand that you are struggling because your mom passed away my mom passed away two years November 29th and I still struggle with it today all you have to do is keep their memory alive with all the happy and good times that you shared hey what not even the bad

Sending Aaron my deepest sympathy and sending love and healing to all of the family. I cried so hard for your loss.

So much love ❤ I know your pain, Aaron. I lost my dad when I was in my twenties and 5 years later, lost my mom. The grief feels debilitating right now, but your smile will return when you lean on faith, family, and the beautiful memories you made with your mom.

I’m so sorry for your loss Aaron. I hope your memories of your mom bring you comfort during this difficult time and always.

My deepest condolences to you Aaron and the Pettit families. Wishing you a sweet birthday and Im sure your mum is smiling down on you today for she knows she raised such a wonderful man and dad. Lotsa ❤️ My prayers to you all

So sorry for your loss Aaron and family, sending prayers your way. Happy Birthday Aaron.

Happy Birthday Aaron. Also I'm so sorry for your lost. RIP Carol. Aaron you have support and love from your family and friends.

Omg - I never cry but seeing Aaron break down was so heart wrenching. So sorry for your loss Aaron. Even though we believe they are in better place, it doesn’t stop the missing them part of it all.

Aarron, Your an awesome guy, and know your Mom will always live on in your heart and mind. I was totally blew away at the age 23, I lost my Mom to Cancer. T & P's ( Thoughts and prayers). Recently I lost my only aunt my mom's little sister & my oldest brother within the past month and a half. I spending Christmas alone with my two recuse dogs, no gifts but the love from my dogs.

My prayers are with you Aaron during this difficult time!! The pain of losing a parent never goes away, it just gets easier to deal with as the years pass by!! My heartfelt condolences are with you and the entire family!!! Don't dwell on the fact that your mom is no longer here, it's a time for celebration! Celebrate her every year on the day of her passing! It helps too cope and deal with their presence no longer here!! 💜💜 🙏🙏🙏

My sincere condolences Aaron,in the lose of your mom...we are here for you....much love to you all as you go through this journey of grief and healing..the love of your wife and children will give you the love and support you may need...Happy birthday with so much love and Merry Christmas pettit family

I'm so sorry. Sending love and prayers to Aaron and the family. Carol is in a better place and at peace. It definitely is a hard, especially during the holidays. It's such a difficult time for some of us but know you're not alone. You are loved by friends, family, and even strangers. May God bless you and your family!

Sending you all love and strength during this difficult time. I’m so sorry for your loss!

I am so sorry Aaron. I know how you feel my father died before Christmas it was the 16th of December and it is really hard but It will get better, just remember that your mom lived a good life. Happy Birthday, man. God loves you

I'm in tears. You guys are a strong family unit and I know Aaron has a whole lot of support from all of you. I'm very sorry to hear of your mom's passing Aaron. God bless you. It's an unimaginable loss and the stages of grief are difficult but time helps a lot. Your mom was so proud of you. I could see it in the way she looked at you in previous videos. You were the son every mother would love and be blessed to have. Hugs to you and your family Aaron. Praying in Boston.

Happy birthday Aaron, sending prayers and condolences on the loss of your Mother. You are blessed to have had each other as I can see how close you were….take your grief one moment at a time.

Happy Birthday Aaron 🎉🎈 Please just know her wings are wrap around you an will always be there for you❤..so sorry for your family loss.. Prayers for you all❤🙏John❤🙏

Aaron, your mother seemed like such a sweet woman and such a bright light to this world, I'm so very sorry for your loss especially right before an exciting day. I hope you were able to enjoy your birthday as much as possible but it's okay to be sad, let yourself grieve how you need to. Sending lots of love to you and your family

So sorry for your loss. Sending our deepest condolences. Sending virtual hugs. Happy Birthday Aaron.❤

Happy Birthday Aaron!!! 🎂🎁🎉❤️ My heart goes out to you and your family, your mother was a beautiful person and she always seemed happy in your family celebrations and holidays, she will be missed 💔❤️

My deepest condolences Arron. I can't imagine the pain of losing a parent but you're a great son to your parents and have all those happy memories to cherish. My mom had a heart attack 3 days ago and the panic set in but I also have the peace of God, as I know you do. You have an amazing family and lots of support. Remember it's okay to not be okay sometimes.

Aaron my mom died in 2002 and it still feels like yesterday. You never get over it you just learn to live with it. 💔😢🦋

Aaron and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You have my thoughts and prayers. You know we watch your lives and so when you have a triumph we have one and when you feel loss your Crazy Pieces family feels it too. You all aren’t alone and you are loved. The day doesn’t feel right without my Crazy Pieces fix. Thank you for being there. 💚

Aaron I'm sorry to hear of your mom's passing.May God be with you and give you comfort in this time of grief. So glad you could spend your birthday with your loving family. Happy Birthday!