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Harvard Professor REVEALS Why You Feel LOST & UNHAPPY In Life | Arthur Brooks on Impact Theory 

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Given all of the possibilities we have living in a modern society, people still struggle with feeling lost, unhappy, and unfulfilled.
It’s even been reported that American unhappiness hit a record low early this year. If you do a climate check with the people in your life and your social media pages, it’s not hard to see that sadly behind some of the smiles, there’s a feeling of unhappiness in the air.
Arthur C. Brooks is the William Henry Bloomberg Professor of the Practice of Public Leadership at the Harvard Kennedy School and Professor of Management Practice at the Harvard Business School. He’s discussing why he felt called to explore and research the human experience and model of what actually brings us happiness.
If money, fame, power, and pleasure doesn’t bring permanent happiness, then what does? How can you ensure a trajectory of life that leads to happiness and fulfillment?
Check out Arthur’s latest book, From Strength to Strength: www.amazon.com/Strength-Findi...
SHOW NOTES:
0:00 | Introduction to Arthur Brooks
0:44 | Lost and Unhappy with life
10:57 | The Model of Happiness
19:16 | The Curve of Intelligence
26:30 | Being Entrepreneurial
30:54 | Becoming Fully Alive
43:35 | Chasing the Happiness Idol
53:46 | Truthful to Yourself
58:02 | Polarity of Values & Fear
1:13:11 | Happiness & Affect Profiles
1:20:28 | Motive Attribution
QUOTES:
“The essence of consciousness is one that gives you incredible transcendental information, but at the same time, it programs in a whole lot of misery.” [1:36]
“People who have the earliest success, the mind blowing success, they're the most likely to be unsatisfied with their lives at the end of their lives.” [16:35]
“The ultimate entrepreneurial experience is to give away your heart and to take a chance, [...] Fall in love. That's entrepreneurship.” [26:30]
“Humans are not intended to decline. Decline is hugely painful because happiness comes from progress. Unhappiness comes from regress.” [30:54]
“The falling tide of your life looks like you're losing everything, get your line in the water, because that's the most fertile period of your life.” [35:44]
“Deciding that I lived in a world where brain plasticity was real was me saying, I live in a friendly universe” Tom Bilyeu [40:45]
“Happiness and unhappiness are not opposites. They're not. They're different experiences.” [47:11]
“Money, for instance, is more powerful than people think, not less, but it isn't what you've been told.”Tom Bilyeu [50:50]
“If you're denied the flow state that uniquely comes to you through creativity, you're gonna you're gonna be practically suicidal.” [53:10]
“Love is the opposite of fear, love will actually neutralize inappropriate fear or excessive fear.” [59:08]
“To respect the friction, you have to understand that either one, if we only had one spirals into madness, and it is only in the friction,[...] that you sharpen your ideas.” Tom Bilyeu [1:06:51]
“You can be in permanent disagreement, but in love equilibrium, we just have to be people that can do that.” [1:11:30]
“You got to figure out which one you are and you must surround yourself with what you're not” [1:14:05]
Follow Arthur Brooks:
Website: arthurbrooks.com/
Twitter: / arthurbrooks
Instagram: / arthurcbrooks
Facebook: / arthurbrooks

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@TomBilyeu
@TomBilyeu 2 года назад
What do you think the secret to happiness is?
@MasakyoRenSai
@MasakyoRenSai 2 года назад
I’m not sure it’s a secret….
@tunin21frequency9
@tunin21frequency9 2 года назад
Mindset mastery.
@enricopallazzo3244
@enricopallazzo3244 2 года назад
Freedom. Companionship. Bourbon. In that order.
@EludeStalwart
@EludeStalwart 2 года назад
Understanding yourself.
@AntonisExplores
@AntonisExplores 2 года назад
To give up on anything and everything
@elliemcdonald4227
@elliemcdonald4227 2 года назад
I was miserable. Had been a Teacher for 25 years. I have just retired early. I have a little part time job in a supermarket and I am doing voluntary work but.... I am happier than I have ever been in my life.
@daniellecousino9582
@daniellecousino9582 Год назад
I can relate! I’m leaving my real estate career after 18 years to work for a pet food store and follow my other passion of my side hustle.
@veronicaherrera7586
@veronicaherrera7586 Год назад
I retired as a social worker and now work part time in an assisted living. I’m happy making a difference and in not having to be up every day on the working Treadmill. Happiness is our lives work and also in radiating that to others. Our calling is not the same as our job. No one can fire us from our calling 🤲🏽🦋
@monicacalais1039
@monicacalais1039 Год назад
Love hearing this! Happy for you ☺️
@elinamir5835
@elinamir5835 Год назад
Happy for you. I am still sufferings in my engineering job, that makes most of my family living and I am dreaming that one they i would only do my art and craft, that make me happy. I am 60, but can not stand another 5 years.
@sinthiaszato9189
@sinthiaszato9189 Год назад
Is that your painting? Nice!
@nancydickson7699
@nancydickson7699 2 года назад
*EVERY FAMILY HAS SOMEONE WHO BREAKS THE CHAIN OF POVERTY IN THAT FAMILY,I PRAY YOU BE THE ONE*
@jeffmatt7086
@jeffmatt7086 2 года назад
This is really helpful for my situation,please how can I get intouch with her?
@dennissamantha1097
@dennissamantha1097 2 года назад
What a striking coincidence,Expert Mrs blossom Jefferson changed my financial life tremendously.
@dennissamantha1097
@dennissamantha1097 2 года назад
Reach her on and tell her I referred you 👆
@rosanicole5643
@rosanicole5643 2 года назад
Thanks for the recommendation I've been trading by myself for long and I've been making a lot of losses, l'Il surely give her a try right away.
@scottbonovan6521
@scottbonovan6521 2 года назад
I wouldn't agree less but a times we are influenced based on result of what will see and experience, failure at first try doesn't mean it is over but unfortunately people seems to back off when they have experiences some obstacle or failure along the way
@corinnemoskal7766
@corinnemoskal7766 Год назад
"Humans aren't meant to decline. Happiness comes from PROGRESS, Unhappiness stems from REGRESS." Makes sence, I can totally relate.
@vcom2327
@vcom2327 Месяц назад
Utter nonsense
@thehylers1021
@thehylers1021 6 месяцев назад
I restarted ballet lessons at 61. It was hard and I hated everything about it for 8 months. Now in my 2nd year I have excellent posture and I enjoy the challenge.
@Bughugger
@Bughugger 2 года назад
"if you want to change the world, start off by making your bed" given by retired Navy seal Admiral McRaven. It's truly remarkable
@podium_podcast
@podium_podcast 2 года назад
“Happiness and unhappiness are not opposites. They're not. They're different experiences.” 🙌
@mercyz6252
@mercyz6252 7 месяцев назад
Sounds so right, would please explain
@dianebarron8362
@dianebarron8362 4 месяца назад
@@mercyz6252 I think it is like extreme anger is the same energy as winning a marathon .It is just high energy with different titles
@staceyadams3621
@staceyadams3621 2 года назад
I'm only 27 minutes into this conversation and my mind is BLOWN! At 56 years old, it's such an incredible perspective to listen to after working so hard for so many years building a company and wondering what's next. Thank you for doing this interview!
@rehaba5763
@rehaba5763 4 месяца назад
The guest and the speaker are examples of real gentlemen. I love how they talked about their wives❤
@knightsbridgedentalcarelon2425
Tom this is actually one of the best podcasts you’ve done and one of the most intelligent and connected human beings you’ve had on. This was so good I’ve listened to it twice! 💜
@Design111
@Design111 Год назад
Agreed!
@mysterydiaz5302
@mysterydiaz5302 Год назад
Thank you for expressing exactly what I was thinking! This was amazing. I’m about to listen again.
@carlabazan-pirotto2243
@carlabazan-pirotto2243 6 месяцев назад
Yeap !! Same here I watched it twice and took notes ❤
@ReubenMeador
@ReubenMeador 6 месяцев назад
Agree 💯
@Travelbythought
@Travelbythought 5 месяцев назад
Yes, it was really good, but too many commercials if you ask me.
@catherinevaughan7522
@catherinevaughan7522 7 месяцев назад
Your discussion of love vs fear prompts me to share this vision: Help create a culture of kindness. Love trumps fear and kindness counts. Be the blessing, be the light. Commit to kindness, mindful kindness. Practice kind intention and attention. Pause, breathe, choose. Choose kindness, mindful kindness. Namaste.
@christinealmer6505
@christinealmer6505 Год назад
OMG Tom, this explains my life perhaps, so refreshing!! I left a boring admin job of many years, went to uni (I am an Aussie) at 48, completed a 4 year degree in occupational therapy during which i endured dom violence cos he couldnt handle the change, so left, finally finished my degree in 5.5 years, unravelled my childhood cptsd, learnt how to deal with my trauma affected mother and just wondered so iften, why did I do this to myself?????? and what the heck happened, most people are retiring from about now, what the HELL is wrong with me??? This is refreshing as maybe mistakenly i found crystalised intellience, just maybe.... love yr channel, it TOTALLY inspires me 🙏
@nuhali5917
@nuhali5917 Год назад
Wow. Christine.
@dancedancedance2458
@dancedancedance2458 Год назад
how do you like OT? I love psychology and spirituality. OTA would be the one of the only things i could imagine doing being employed by someone else, while i go after my other dreams of public speaking.
@gloriasaliba3395
@gloriasaliba3395 7 месяцев назад
Hello from a fellow Aussie you’re inspiring x
@rjs5536
@rjs5536 Год назад
This is amazing...really describes how I felt after turning 40 and feeling in decline. I used to be really fit and in a job where I worked with people. I'm trying to keep that line in the water....creating a life that's exciting- revisiting old pastimes, dancing, music etc. Thanks Tom...for bringing such amazing content!
@alexlee666
@alexlee666 2 года назад
I've only listened to the first 30 minutes or so but this really speaks to me. I'm rich and successful by most standards. I'm in my 40s and I have more than enough money to retire, yet I still work incredible hours as a physician and professor because I know that I won't be very happy if I retired. Even so, I'm not very happy, and I think this is giving me some insight into why.
@kerstinmiller223
@kerstinmiller223 2 года назад
I’m sorry to read that you’re not happy. I make small goals throughout my day and when I reach them, I’m really happy. It can be small things, but I’m proud of myself for every little thing I manage to complete in my day. And I spoil my parents and siblings, that’s also a good way to go. Hoping that you can see how great you are, I’d be very proud of myself if I managed to get through medical school like you did. ❤️
@gregkirk1842
@gregkirk1842 2 года назад
Sounds aweful. Quit your job, give away everything, and go work on a roofing crew or something for ten years while struggling ever week to pay rent. Youll still be miserable. People that have $ and success simply cant realize what they have. You scoff at money, as a man on the shore shouts to the drowning man that air wont make them happy. Maybe It would take losing everything to see it. Maybe you could take a year off and join doctors without borders or something. I dont know, but litening to these old obvious psychobabel tropes offered by another pampered proffessor will never help you. Good luck. If its any conscelation, its alot better having money and being unhappy than being broke and happy. At least you can make a move.
@richardw3347
@richardw3347 2 года назад
look to give and serve in more meaningful ways and do more things you enjoy and know why your doing them. to impress yourself or others?
@kathri1006
@kathri1006 2 года назад
One can look at your situation in many ways. I have no idea what your emotional position is. It may even be a combination of several things. I feel happiness and contentment are two constructs one needs to understand cognitively first, though we are talking about an emotional state and then working towards unlearning maladaptive patterns that we learnt and through mindfulness meditations with a cognitive challenging of your maladaptive cognitions, reprogramme your expectations and strengthen the brain regions of letting go and accepting rather than tiresome seeking. Also there is nothing wrong with working as long as you enjoy it. I will work till my nineties if I can but I only work for 5 months a year. You do good work in helping people , so be happy by this good deed. The constructs are: A) your natural emotional tone and set point. Some people have a natural set point towards dysthymia, and this is fine.Then the normal feeling tone. Here there is a supply demand situation and our expectation, continued seeking for this elusive happiness can be very tiring. The set points for happiness, contentment, are genetic but very much modified by our upbringing, the family values, expectations we grew up with but these things can be unlearned, through understanding and through Mindfulness meditations that give rise to opening the mind to infinity, a boundless place, so we'd not reinforce the constant underlying expectations of our childhood programs . B ) your childhood expectations and work ethic you have internalised. Also if you had a constant pressure even through subconscious expectations you develop patterns of behaviour of not resting, but working towards constant achievement. These can be subtle family expectations even that we have internalised. C) The inner demands you place upon your self. If you are a driven person who constantly keep moving , either through habit or family expectations that you internalised, these can be undone. Mindfulness meditation is a good way to learn about our inner programmes, like holding a mirror to self. On RU-vid you get many by Jon Kabbt Zinn etc. guided that you can follow. C) What you think happiness is. Some people seek a constant state of joy, where as contentment is a quiet satisfaction, not something shouting out loud. May be your emotional set point is genetically set in a negative dysthymic way, so huge joyous moods are not your norm. Yet by accepting and not searching constantly you can learn to be content with your lot. Also you can self examine in Mindfulness meditations and body scanning to unlearn any internalised negativity as a body or mind memory. Good luck. But acceptance and letting go by opening the mind to Infinity rather than comparing and seeking may help.
@DELANADINE
@DELANADINE 2 года назад
This unhappiness first of all comes from your close family and friends that don't really appreciate you.... You are in the wrong company!
@kalebasnake6502
@kalebasnake6502 2 года назад
Wisdom, humor, love...Arthur Brooks...you are an inspiration sir!
@lauriemiller1313
@lauriemiller1313 Год назад
Hmm. I disagree with declining after a certain age. I am able to learn and progress on several musical instruments: cello, classical guitar, and classical piano than when I was younger. I've also finally been able to understand music engineering: recording, producing and mixing which I was unable to do when I was younger. Finally, my artwork is at its highest peak so far in my journey.
@jaylarry2043
@jaylarry2043 Год назад
Thanks for watching Let's talk now ⬆📩
@lovetolearn881
@lovetolearn881 Год назад
Me too. Im 60. I did not relate to that part. I was a pharmaceutical scientist, a teacher then a stay at home mom. I am expanding my application of math right now and moving ahead much faster then I did as a younger person into other fields just for fun. I could write in Spanish pretty well as a younger person but never speak well. Im also working on the speaking end and it's also easier to pick up then when I was younger. I actually feel like a sponge right now, but in a different way so clearly something has changed but as far as aquiring new information goes, it has gotten better then when I was middle aged.
@fatihemreli
@fatihemreli Год назад
Easiest way to understand is looking at world chess champions and their decline with the age. It's not his opinion it's a physiological fact
@lauriemiller1313
@lauriemiller1313 Год назад
@@fatihemreli Not all human beings are the same. Anomalies are also part of science. Also, human will, adaptation, evolution can challenge any scientific data.
@johnnysocko4302
@johnnysocko4302 Год назад
Hi, just curious, what age range are you referring to specifically in your case?
@karlafloresmx3182
@karlafloresmx3182 2 года назад
When you hate… somebody is profiting … and not you! Soooo deep!!
@Steve-kw9sx
@Steve-kw9sx 2 года назад
I love how this guy instantly has great answers to any question. Impressive
@georginabastien49
@georginabastien49 Год назад
Even though we have both wonderful and difficult experiences in life - it's the difficult experiences that caused us hurt and pain that can sometimes keep us stuck in survival/unhappy mode - rather than thrive/happy mode. It's a survival mechanism - to protect us from further harm. So many of us humans have come from dysfunctional upbringings that have impacted our ability to be truly happy. Healing our past hurts, pains, anger, guilt, shame, etc can help us in being able to feel happy. You'd think happiness is just a choice - it's not that simple. Our neural networks in the brain - are like grooves in a record. We need to heal so that our brain has new neural pathways. It's complex in my opinion. We can have moments, days, weeks and months of happiness, but that feeling can be illusive when we have past issues that need to be healed. And given the state of the world with high costs of inflation - with so many barely making ends meet - causes most of us a great deal of unhappiness. With the chances of being born approximately 1 in a trillion - it is a miracle that we are alive. Try to remember the circumstances, situations things and experiences when we did feel happy. Repeat that every day!! I sometimes reminisce about the fun times I had in a certain era. It always brings a smile to my face! I think when we can unconditionally truly accept and love ourselves every moment of every day - we are well on the royal road to happiness. www.scienceabc.com/humans/why-do-bad-memories-last-longer.html I truly wish each of you happiness - we all deserve to feel happy!
@MillicentStClaire
@MillicentStClaire 5 месяцев назад
I love these rich and beautiful conversations with fresh guests. The conversations can always go in any direction as Tom will stop and go down a rabbit hole with something that has been shared. Thanks Tom for always being so curious and creatively inquisitive!
@dianarose3804
@dianarose3804 2 года назад
This conversation was life changing for me. I’m listening to it again with a notepad. It is chock full of learning, across so many topics. I’m so thankful I didn’t miss this one. Thank you, thank you, thank you 🙏🏻
@terriabrams1524
@terriabrams1524 5 месяцев назад
Me too! ❤
@oneworldonehome
@oneworldonehome 2 года назад
"When you begin to open inside, begin to have a greater sense of yourself, begin to develop your capabilities and sensitivities and begin to draw upon the higher qualities that you possess, you see that points of view can vary and that how you see things is not the truth. The truth is very hard to see, but it is not hard to feel. Two people with very different viewpoints can have very similar experiences feeling the truth. When I say “feeling,” I do not mean emotions. I mean a deeper kind of experience. You see, the world cannot provide you happiness, but you can give the world happiness because you have brought happiness with you from your Ancient Home. You must be its first recipient, however. Everyone in the world is looking for the way to happiness, how to maintain happy stimulations and how to avoid pain. It is very desperate to try and keep everything pleasant and comfortable and to have all things you want without loss. Is this not difficult to achieve? There are people who will guarantee that you can do it, but if you look about, no one is successful. True happiness is something that you bear with you, but it is deep within you. It is the result of experiencing purpose, meaning and direction in your life. This is not a purpose, meaning or direction that you invent for yourself. It is something that arises in your mind. You realize it. It is not merely your thoughts or beliefs or philosophy or religion. Though the experience of happiness can find expression in these, they are not its source. The source of true happiness is inexplicable and beyond your realm and range of experience. The result, which is happiness in this world, is something that you are meant to have, but you must cultivate yourself to be able to gain access to it, to have the capacity to live with it and to carry it into life." A quote from *Wisdom from the Greater Community, Book 1* - Chapter 24: Happiness in the World, a free book by Marshall Vian Summers.
@EdwardBloom89
@EdwardBloom89 2 года назад
Wow
@yorti006
@yorti006 2 года назад
This is freaking abstract and annoying. Absolutely no help whatsoever
@johnchapman5125
@johnchapman5125 2 года назад
Thank you, Ivan.
@jamiepatton9334
@jamiepatton9334 2 года назад
Now, this one was incredible. I need more of Arthur Brooks.
@ronrg9518
@ronrg9518 2 года назад
Perfect timing , incredibly insightful and fundamentally profound . Billion thanks !
@yvonnewennerlid2552
@yvonnewennerlid2552 2 дня назад
I really loved every minute of this episode. The flow in, the interest, the mission of connecting and sharing, It is a communication, dialogue!! They really are actively listening to the other person!!!
@CRFSUIGENERIS
@CRFSUIGENERIS 2 года назад
The “friction” is called polemos. It’s the push and pull of conflict (via dialogue) that bears fruit. My philosophy professor always talked about it, but 14 years later. I get it. Enlightening talk!
@husseinfaiz3397
@husseinfaiz3397 2 года назад
You noticed friction between the 2?
@PaulWalesArt
@PaulWalesArt 2 года назад
Absolutely mind-blowing! I will watch this several times just to capture the perspectives on both sides! Thank you
@darknessarives
@darknessarives Год назад
I needed to listen to this one for some many reason thank you for having such a positive outlook even with the big scary things coming. I will try to start looking at things from love instead of fear
@bretrb
@bretrb 2 года назад
Wow, your videos are always good, but this one was amazing, thank you Tom B for all you do. The information in your videos have the power to change the world for the better.
@paulatripodi3989
@paulatripodi3989 Год назад
Such an excellent conversation! I had just read Arthur's book and loved it. So many wonderful and clear ideas you guys. Thank you!
@slay001
@slay001 Год назад
What an incredible interview. Love it, thanks. Really appreciate it. You literally confirmed some or many principles of which I felt but didn't understand, all based on love/feeling ... appreciate you gents.
@KeelaFab
@KeelaFab Год назад
Great interview 🙏🏻 Never thought that Business partners should have different characters or personalities from each other. From everything I’ve listened to before, I got a message that leaders or partners should be similar , that it’s something that can help building good business or relationship . I love what you guys said about it , big eye opener . Thank you 🙏🏻
@nakoskyranos4080
@nakoskyranos4080 2 года назад
God Tom! So often watching your interviews I resonate with something deeply, and then get practical advice about it.... The value in this youtube chanel is emence! Thank you, you are a major player in bettering humanity.
@heatherkeeping6773
@heatherkeeping6773 8 месяцев назад
I absolutely love you as a role model and your show! I love your guest and your persistent questions and interactions with the guest! Great guest here and another all time favourite guest is Robert Greene! Thank you and much appreciated! From Canada!
@mohinighosh2164
@mohinighosh2164 Год назад
Values as gifts... Perfectly said..... Fear takes over snd there is so much of it... Everywhere.... Love IS the answer.
@jgarciajr82
@jgarciajr82 2 года назад
When I say I'm wrong to my kids I know I'm learning and still growing. Listen to your kids too.
@yas270206
@yas270206 2 года назад
Omg! I was thinking about what true happiness is these days! I feel so empty and blue after finishing my exams so this just came up at the right time!
@gregkirk1842
@gregkirk1842 2 года назад
You need the next adventure.
@JamesMoore-qu3sh
@JamesMoore-qu3sh 2 года назад
Great interview, great topics, inspirational and profound. I will need to watch this about 4 more times to pick up a few things but transformational- thank you both. Happy Trails
@jacolineloewen6530
@jacolineloewen6530 2 года назад
Thank you, Tom. I am enjoying Arthur’s book and valued hearing your thoughts on the book.
@NathalieLazo
@NathalieLazo 2 года назад
Hey YOU, incredible person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️
@ithinkthereforeitalk935
@ithinkthereforeitalk935 2 года назад
Ok, take care of yourself first, other people can and will deal with their problems without your pretentious youtube posts
@soulstreams333
@soulstreams333 2 года назад
❤️
@GoodVibe23
@GoodVibe23 2 года назад
Thank you 🙏 god bless your heart ❤️ Namaste 🙏
@totadol
@totadol Год назад
in minute 4:38 I sooo love the fact the guest started to ask questions as if Tom was the guest ... it tells a lot about how good of a listener the guest is especially coming from a HARVARD professor
@aced1onu
@aced1onu Год назад
"When you hate, someone else is profiting and it's not you" wow do we need to hear that as a society.
@lynnpetti3817
@lynnpetti3817 7 месяцев назад
It’s like taking poison and expecting the other person to die.
@lornarutter9179
@lornarutter9179 Год назад
This was a great conversation to listen in on. So informative. Well done!
@veronicaherrera7586
@veronicaherrera7586 Год назад
One of the best ever discussions. Thank you !
@marcuswarren4390
@marcuswarren4390 2 года назад
Great talk. I think the secret to happiness is to know yourself and live your life as if you matter
@gregkirk1842
@gregkirk1842 2 года назад
Thats basically it, agreed. Id add, live as if other people matter too, but thats more obvious than the YOU matter part (these Gents in the discussion never had a problem with that part). :)
@ivanascioffi
@ivanascioffi 2 года назад
Such a beautiful way to put it :)
@marcduchamp5512
@marcduchamp5512 5 месяцев назад
That is as long as you’re still cognitive and have your memory intact
@roselleshallah3011
@roselleshallah3011 2 года назад
This conversation is like sitting at the best buffet table and trying to digest it all. There is too much to devour in one sitting. Ill return again and again to belly up to this table. Thank you, Tom, for saving a seat for me to listen in on this conversation. My heart is as full as my stomach at a buffet.
@ravig1740
@ravig1740 2 года назад
very well said Roselle Shallah .🧘🙏🐥👌
@rayjamesv5641
@rayjamesv5641 Год назад
👍👍
@vincentcaudo-engelmann9057
@vincentcaudo-engelmann9057 6 месяцев назад
Yep. This was a really good one.
@momma_goose
@momma_goose 2 года назад
Always remember the Jim Carrey quote after watching this ‘choose love not fear’ … something along the lines of don’t let fear stand in the way of your true spirit, your true self etc. ✌️
@kelvinmcdonald5113
@kelvinmcdonald5113 Год назад
I pray everyone that sees this will become a millionaire in 5 years
@alicemark5918
@alicemark5918 Год назад
Investing In crypto is The Fastest Way of becoming a millionaire
@thomasdooley3702
@thomasdooley3702 Год назад
Your businesses will make you rich but your investments will make you wealthy.
@roycorey7454
@roycorey7454 Год назад
Assets that can make rich Crypto Stock Real estate Gold
@doragary3717
@doragary3717 Год назад
Investing in crypto is the most profitable investment due to its current rise, huge profits and future benefits.
@djeechizzy9818
@djeechizzy9818 Год назад
@Valerie Gawthrop Then I will personally intro you to Expert Trust of Crest Fx .I have been working with her for months now, investing with her is awesome and of no regret.
@aliciabadashian7234
@aliciabadashian7234 7 месяцев назад
Great conversation. I think people confuse values with beliefs. I completely agree with the statement if you follow and align with your values you will have joy. Happiness is not the right word. Joy is heartfelt
@jenysiamusic
@jenysiamusic 3 месяца назад
Yah!!!!🥰 Reminds me of: "There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear"❤
@lorilosch7440
@lorilosch7440 2 года назад
What an amazing conversation. So many random epic epiphanies and ideas. Thank you!
@nicolakestel-lifestyleceo4040
“...get your line in the water..” just hit me so hard! This episode has me hooked ❤
@jaylarry2043
@jaylarry2043 Год назад
Thanks for watching Let's talk now
@carlacota8731
@carlacota8731 Год назад
Thank you Tom for all!!!
@f1rstprinciple
@f1rstprinciple Год назад
0:50 "feeling lost & unhappy is basically part of what it means to be human" 37:46 "suffering is sacred"
@denisemonsalve4415
@denisemonsalve4415 5 месяцев назад
For me, learning to be happy by appreciating everything you already have, and not wating to feel so, till having more in life.
@nateberkheimer
@nateberkheimer 2 года назад
This is possibly my favorite conversation on impact theory based on the topics, but extra rad that you guys used to ride at Sumner BMX. Keep kicking ass fellas, I appreciate this. 👌🏼
@hpliew25
@hpliew25 2 года назад
This is so good I think I need to re-watch a few times.
@Lauravvanessa_
@Lauravvanessa_ Год назад
This is hands down one of the best talks I’ve heard on here. Wow wow wow wow
@AmyMWarner
@AmyMWarner 2 года назад
Wow I got chills with the fully alive / transitions talk. 🤯
@anikalee9012
@anikalee9012 5 месяцев назад
My gosh. this is eyes opening. Thanks you so much.
@cameronjohn604
@cameronjohn604 2 года назад
Wow the line in the water analogy was profound for me, thank you.
@SunnyGirlFlorida
@SunnyGirlFlorida Год назад
I think many self-help gurus think that everyone should think and act like them to gain happiness, when a lot of us are happy not rising at 5AM and working 12 hour days. I cannot even think of a goal so great that I would be willing to grind every minute. We are not all hard-wired like that.
@samanthawhite9839
@samanthawhite9839 7 месяцев назад
Best conversation EVER! I had 10 breakthroughs from listening to this one conversation. Tom, your content keeps me hopeful. Thank you for a resource to get back to myself as an entrepreneur and human.
@karissajones2294
@karissajones2294 6 месяцев назад
Thank you for both this valuable conversation.
@SassyS-ui7mw
@SassyS-ui7mw 3 месяца назад
This was FABULOUS. I am currently working on SELF and the title caught my attention. Ya'll bro's is deep. I was like will I be able to understand this. But alot of it did. I actually got in my feelings a bit and shed some tears. Appreciate people like you sharing this knowledge and energy to make us and our world a better place. Signed, HOT MESS TRYING TO FIGURE IT OUT 🥰
@marcinszewczyk2083
@marcinszewczyk2083 Год назад
What a great conversation. Thank you gents
@jpain0928
@jpain0928 4 месяца назад
Thank you for this video. It really helped me to have a new perspective on life.
@lydialydia3057
@lydialydia3057 2 года назад
By far one of the best podcast ever! Wow so many knowledge/ experience shared! This was brilliant!
@njsmithpro
@njsmithpro 6 месяцев назад
This guy rocks! Love his presence and insight
@beinterested8985
@beinterested8985 2 года назад
Wow definitely need to watch this and write notes next time 🤯 it has come to me at the right time in my life✅
@JamesMoore-qu3sh
@JamesMoore-qu3sh 5 месяцев назад
Well done you two. First, shout out to fellow PNW studs. Second, I learn so very much from both of you. Knowing both of you through your presentations and content only I feel you could have gone on together for 10 more hours. (And I would have watched). Please know that what you are producing and "preaching" makes a difference! Keep being great!
@johncheckihowtohavefunands7996
Just ordered the book on Audible. Enjoyed your book Gross National Happiness, and meeting you, Arthur years ago.
@JohnnyPunish
@JohnnyPunish 2 года назад
In old ancient ARAB world, the most respected are the TEACHERS (Al Hakim) and heads of Villages (Muktar). They have known the secrets to happiness. In USA, getting old continues to be worthless. It's ass backwards....aging into wisdom is the highest
@gregkirk1842
@gregkirk1842 2 года назад
Yes, we worship youth and ignorance. Not a sustainable society
@alliesteamc3546
@alliesteamc3546 2 года назад
Extending Love, laughter, forgiveness and humility help move toward happiness!
@tesserat2
@tesserat2 2 года назад
Really enjoyed this one. Plenty of food for thought.
@ParadoxalDream
@ParadoxalDream 2 года назад
33:34 That's reassuring to learn as it's been happening to me lately!
@ericdewald8948
@ericdewald8948 2 года назад
This guy is speaking my language. Nice work getting this guy Tom!
@KitoVilela
@KitoVilela 4 месяца назад
It's great to start the year with this injection of knowledge. Thanks!
@jordanisland8481
@jordanisland8481 2 года назад
Love how Tom changes from that's crazy to that's interesting, good on ya man, marginal change is so important in any big change we make for the better (hopefully?)
@garycopper
@garycopper 2 года назад
This video is a pure gem! I love the explanations, the examples, everything! Thank you very much! 🙏
@redeyecity7149
@redeyecity7149 2 года назад
great guest... I literally just went and bought the book!
@natureartjohn4176
@natureartjohn4176 5 месяцев назад
thank you tom. great interview. i like the coin exercise for the marriage fights. i will use that
@justinarakauskaite-butkevi7013
@justinarakauskaite-butkevi7013 4 месяца назад
Thank you so so much for your job❤❤❤ it is huge plesure to listen to this conversation😊
@lauradevries6864
@lauradevries6864 2 года назад
Wow. So good. I’ll be pondering this for a while. I also so appreciated Tom that you asked for clarification on some ideas that I was already asking why or how or what exactly does that mean to myself before you asked. Now I just need to get the people in my world to hear this.
@trishestes5190
@trishestes5190 2 года назад
What does"God damm mean"?
@teriliebmann3491
@teriliebmann3491 Год назад
Blessings on your journey 🌺
@dopaminus247
@dopaminus247 2 года назад
He's my favorite guest you've had, what a great interview!
@bynumartistmanagementeveng342
@bynumartistmanagementeveng342 4 месяца назад
Fantastic conversation, thanks for sharing!
@crochetninja5752
@crochetninja5752 6 месяцев назад
35:11 Put your line in the water during the changing tides of your life.... My new mantra 😊
@henchgamer6996
@henchgamer6996 2 года назад
This is awesome. Thank you.
@danielriccardi6408
@danielriccardi6408 2 года назад
"money doesn't make you happy, but it sure puts you in a better neighborhood to look for it"
@lifegenius763
@lifegenius763 4 месяца назад
Great podcast topic gentlemen 👍👍 Thank you for sharing great insights ✔️
@TheReelDealwithTomKonkle
@TheReelDealwithTomKonkle Год назад
I rarely if every day this but I’m in my 50s and this video is fundamentally changing how I look at life.
@KanekiKojo
@KanekiKojo 5 месяцев назад
Great podcast and conversation. Really enjoyed this one
@christinachristodoulou4340
@christinachristodoulou4340 Год назад
This is everything i have come to feel and need verbalized.. thank you for this beautiful communication. .....P.s he looks like an older jack gylanhaal
@stephenspain9167
@stephenspain9167 2 года назад
Wow, great content today. I wish when I was in college I could have taken his classes.
@user-bf3pc2qd9s
@user-bf3pc2qd9s Год назад
I was vaguely thinking of Aquinas's statement about "All I have written now seems to me like straw" (or words to that effect)....and then this lovely man comes out almost the same. Beautiful.
@user-bf3pc2qd9s
@user-bf3pc2qd9s Год назад
Hah. Here it is: Aquinas at 44.07 . This is a great show, thank you.
@huckglancies9248
@huckglancies9248 4 месяца назад
I totally agree about the difference languages romances. Not to mention the muse powers in the language learning when you're in love helps with quitting smoking too 😁
@mohinighosh2164
@mohinighosh2164 Год назад
True... Thank u ❤❤❤ for all that u affirmed....
@grainydayvibes
@grainydayvibes Год назад
You re-earn my sub with every vid I see, this was great
@bartradv
@bartradv 2 года назад
Got his audiobooks. Amazing!
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