Has our love changed? | What’s different?

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Embark on a journey through the evolving landscape of love and relationships in this insightful episode. As partners grow and change over time, the dynamics within the relationship inevitably shift. Join us as we delve into the intricacies of this evolution, exploring how personal growth, new experiences, and shifting priorities can impact the bond between partners. Through candid discussions and real-life examples, we'll uncover valuable insights into navigating these changes with grace, understanding, and a renewed commitment to each other's growth.

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@madeidanimo8963 2 месяца назад

Hmmmm when claire talked about waking at night, honestly no matter how much one is sensitive before having a baby can never prepare one after having a baby,,hyper sensitivity pro max! My husband can sleep on trailer but once we had a baby we started shifts cause the mental work for caring for a child is more on the women hence i need the night sleep. Beautiful conversation!

@olamideoyeniyi914 11 дней назад

Honestly, I have followed you guys forever and all I see is growth. The level of your conversation and communication has really evolved. Thank you for this level of transparency, and kudos for being light in a very dark world.

@agbataogor3636 3 месяца назад

Claire is soooo intelligent I love her composure and how she still gives her honest opinion respectfully,a true genuine lady…I admire you Claire ❤️

@KingYinyeeh 3 месяца назад

Claire is so wise! What a woman! You're a standard. God bless you 🤍

@cecechampion4 3 месяца назад

The level of vulnerability, honesty, and active listening is so enlightening. Akah, I admire your growth and wisdom. Claire, I just like you. Your communication skill, and disposition while dropping gem is admirable.

@AbejideIbukun 3 месяца назад

I love the structure thing! Marriage is an institution and we need to put structures in place

@Temmy. 3 месяца назад

Claire, your points were solid. However I think you should compliment and appreciate your husband more loudly for the his contributions.

@JessiLove 3 месяца назад

This was so good, I enjoyed watching it ❤

@ibidunomokaro8829 3 месяца назад

Intentional conversation, I loved that Akah listened and ask questions where necessary.

@godserrandgirl 3 месяца назад

This was so vulnerable and insightful. I'm very glad i listened. Thank you Akah and Claire.

@ccchikezie4188 3 месяца назад

❤❤❤ so much maturity!!! The growth from you two!!!! Has been amazing

@eyizooheaudu1948 3 месяца назад

This is so insightful

@NneomaOdidiTV 3 месяца назад

I loved the advice you gave at the end, Claire. Put structure before introducing a new team member-gold! Overall, I enjoyed the episode. Thank you, guys. More grace and good things for your lives, family, and ministry 🙌🏽.

@atandazainab4765 3 месяца назад

The role of a Father is much more than what he does at home. That’s so spot on🔥

@Fearless634 3 месяца назад

Thank you for this conversation! The part where you discussed parenting and the roles husbands also need to play in taking care of the kids and not just leaving it to their wives reminded me why its so important to pick a considerate partner and also discuss these expectations while dating

@joyokon5163 3 месяца назад

I really enjoyed this conversation☺😊 Thank you for your openness and vulnerability. Can I plead that you keep posting full episodes here coz we also love watching the body dynamics that go along with the conversations. God bless and keep you🙏❤

@ebonyveramente9378 3 месяца назад

Akah is a great man i can relate with him regarding planning for the future: and Claire is a super natural gorgeous lady for understand and putting her point straight Respectful.

@marianasamu1478 3 месяца назад

Appreciate this ❤

@kengekurteyebih4828 3 месяца назад

So much maturity in your communication .

@Sheisbenny 3 месяца назад

Claire is so enlightened omg❤️🤭

@agnietmpofu1970 3 месяца назад

Man the rawness towards the end was real! Thank you for sharing! Akah you have to rewatch and hear truly what Claire is saying, Youre a great hubby and dad but she might be saying she wants a little break every other day to regain that strength because she will end up burning out. She is saying it calmly so it can be easily missed! Love you guys

@ibironkeoketonade1661 3 месяца назад

Claire is so emotionally intelligent ❤

@atandazainab4765 3 месяца назад

It’s how Akah keeps spilling words of wisdom and Claire adds to it.

@agunyegojoy8017 3 месяца назад

Woow. This video is wholesome.. I just realized that i never thought deep about marriage being an institution and should be treated as such: like intentionally calling for meetings, assessment and so on. Thanks for the insight Akah and Claire 😊

@confidencenwaeze5576 3 месяца назад

I loved this sincere conversation between you two

@Amakamedia 3 месяца назад

Nice pod. P.s Please edit your description, it says “it’s now 2014”

@ajokeAgbas 3 месяца назад

Thank you for your vulnerability , really learnt a lot from you both . Married for 9 years now with 3 beautiful kids 😀. May God continue to bless and keep you and yours . ❤❤

@Agnes.shines 3 месяца назад

Akah ,na man you be and you married your own wife!!!Omoh,this conversation is mentally racking! I enjoyed it!God bless you people so much ❤

@carljr6761 3 месяца назад

Very Well Said 👏

@ChinLhiet 3 месяца назад

New Subscriber and I'm loving every bit of eeet😊👍

@magdalene5363 3 месяца назад

Nice pod, I think clear is just saying Akah should involve her in how the money comes and goes and I assure you it makes couples bond more, especially when they plan financially together on what came in and how it leaves the account. I do that with my husband always Infact he lets me manage income and outflows so am involved and don’t feel left out. Nice one akah and Clair

@tochidioka6019 3 месяца назад

These conversations are rich! I love the depth of vulnerability and I like how Claire is calm and actually listens❤️

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

❤️❤️❤️

@preetybillie 3 месяца назад

Claire is full of wisdom . She puts everything in perspective that every time she says something, I would shout, "Yes!!!. Akah is also very understanding. Great team for raising Gabby.

@Dartsouperhautemum 3 месяца назад

I enjoyed watching this . Thank you

@aminagamaliel 3 месяца назад

You guys are trying. Walai...I love how intentional you are about each other and your daughter too.

@egbedeyi.alicia 3 месяца назад

Thank you for being so real 😭.

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

❤️❤️❤️

@sussanekene6672 3 месяца назад

So so happy seeing a new update!!🤭😊🥳

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

More to come!

@tosinafolabi9484 3 месяца назад

I always look forward to seeing a new episode cos it's completely relatable. I also get to learn a thing or two. Keep it up guys!!!

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Awesome, thank you!

@deborahtemilade3790 3 месяца назад

Claire is so aware and intelligent. Kai

@ladyhbar_b 3 месяца назад

I am always left inspired after "eavesdropping " since so many important nuggets are shared. ❤

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Love that!

@MarianKaine 3 месяца назад

I love how you create space for each other to be vulnerable. Very insightful conversation - thank you!God bless you both ❤️❤️

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much!

@atandazainab4765 3 месяца назад

You are not a star in the night, you are a freaking sun 🥰☺️☺️☺️ I love it

@dolapossocialhub9984 3 месяца назад

Thank you both for sharing. I really like how honest you both are. I like what Claire brought up about getting support from husband specifically with changing diaper. This conversation reminded me of a man that posted on IG requesting readers to advice him because his wife had refused sex and they have a 10 month old baby. The first commenter said, sir, how are you helping her with the new born? are you rotating sleep at night to feed? etc. I feel this is a very important conversation to have that our men can also change diapers, read books with their kids etc.

@GraceNnaemeka-mr4kh 3 месяца назад

I just want to say i love you guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I have followed you for so long now. I have seen how you guys have grown into maturity . Its just like i grew with you guys (😂😂😂) I love you both. Keep being amazing. God is obviously the centre of your home and he will keep it form naysayers. Blessings Mr and Mrs Akah.

@adaboadabo8308 3 месяца назад

Very therapeutic ❤

@lois3546 3 месяца назад

I admire Claire a lot 🥰 She is a woman of wisdom ❤️

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Yup

@godmomentswithtomi_ 3 месяца назад

Gabby is so blessed to have you both❤️. Y’all are doing great ❤️

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Thank you. 🙏🏾

@ofozorblessingobiageli7739 3 месяца назад

I enjoyed it God bless you guys ♥️♥️💯

@journeythroughspecial 3 месяца назад

Beautiful communication between you two.

@sarahcypriano2063 2 месяца назад

Thumbs up to Akah &Claire. Claire cracked me up when she said 'if I should be living the standard I should be living, I'd be fleshy'.....I wonder what some women would say with standard of living if YOU are saying this. I love you.❤

@godserrandgirl 3 месяца назад

Akah is so so funnnyyy, I'm dyinggg.Claire, graceful as ever. Great conversation as usual, love you guys💕

@simplyobaa 3 месяца назад

There is always something to learn from you guys ,thank you ❤❤

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

❤️❤️❤️❤️

@stellatobechukwu5165 3 месяца назад

Hmm, While you are counting the things u feel he should be doing, never misplace d place of gratitude

@talkwithemelie5159 3 месяца назад

I really appreciate you Sharing this honest video with us.

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

You are so welcome!

@Grachivlogs 3 месяца назад

Love it 👏🏻👏🏻😊

@roselynewanjikuofficial5491 3 месяца назад

A nice Sunday listen🥰✨

@toyosioladepo8657 3 месяца назад

Amazing conversation😊

@elizabethcofie 3 месяца назад

I love you both❤️❤️ Special shout out to Claire- your sincerity and passion for the things of God after watching you on CEO Unscripted❤️, your words seasoned with salt❤️ and the way you respect Akah👌🏾. You’re one of the woman that inspires me a lot. Love you 🫶 Happy International Women’s Day Special shout out to Akah- man of wisdom and understanding. God bless you. The Lord continually bless you both and strengthen you always❤️

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much!!

@eguonoagada-olorunfemi7209 3 месяца назад

Such a wholesome conversation! Claire, you put into words some of my thoughts in this season as i navigate motherhood for the first time! It has changed my life in a way i never thought was possible. Thank you both for this conversation❤

@ibironkeoketonade1661 3 месяца назад

This is so soothing to watch❤

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

😁😁😁

@ibironkeoketonade1661 3 месяца назад

@@AkahandClaire Hi Claire🥹👋🏻 I sent a DM on IG 🥹

@Quinnchima 3 месяца назад

I love watching you❤❤❤. Hey! Claire.

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Hey!!

@atandazainab4765 3 месяца назад

Akah has been doing a lot of clocking 😂

@damilolaAbba 3 месяца назад

Awwwnnnn Claire🥺🥺

@mariachikamsoochi6363 3 месяца назад

I enjoyed this episode. A good break from cramming so many sections and cases. 😂😂

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

You’re in law school? Lol

@mariachikamsoochi6363 3 месяца назад

A reply. 🎉🎉🎉 I'm so so happy. No, it's my final year. Had Corporate law today and it's a whole load of sections and cases. Thankfully, it went well to the glory of God. 🎉

@alexanderaizeboje5656 3 месяца назад

Just say the campus you are in. 😂 I feel you!

@mariachikamsoochi6363 3 месяца назад

It's UNEC o.

@eyizooheaudu1948 3 месяца назад

It's the fact that I can totally relate to this righ now😂

@ManofPrestige 3 месяца назад

Guys relax with the semantics… let it go. Akah did a good job of letting go quite a bit… Claire, Ask for help when you need it… give yourself grace and just ask… mismanaged expectations are killing marriages everywhere … I would love to hear more letting go of some of the rigid rules and rhetoric … they kill romance. Relax! God bless your union

@maryosei3779 3 месяца назад

Love you guys ❤❤

@maryanneorhiere5917 3 месяца назад

Lovely conversation❤❤

@e.v.a2131 3 месяца назад

But why is Claire too cute❤

@seyifunmiolakunde4942 2 месяца назад

This level of vulnerability!!!! You guys are doing well.😊

@etopashuegbe5172 3 месяца назад

I can’t find the pod on Spotify? What’s the name pls?

@ManofPrestige 3 месяца назад

What a transformation… I remember you arguing motherhood strategies… I said… “he gon learn… don’t play”.

@atandazainab4765 3 месяца назад

Let me get my popcorn😁

@peacechukwuma3855 3 месяца назад

❤

@ekaetteudoh4575 3 месяца назад

Lovely conversations

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Thank you

@happinessajayitv 3 месяца назад

Clair is so intelligent

@lois3546 3 месяца назад

God bless you both🥰🙏

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Amen. And you too

@elizabethbarden3057 3 месяца назад

I'm here early today 😂😂❤❤❤❤

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Yes oooh

@R.O02 3 месяца назад

I couldn’t find you on podcast. I searched “Akah and Claire”. HOW DO I FIND YOU GUYS PLEASE?

@elizabethomerah6399 3 месяца назад

I love you both soooooooo sooooooo much❤❤❤

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Aaawwww, love you right back!!

@ebonyveramente9378 3 месяца назад

I love this family

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Love you right back

@LIFEWITHMOKS 3 месяца назад

Beautiful conversation ❤

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Glad you think so!

@atandazainab4765 3 месяца назад

I am lost about the family meeting, do you mean with extended family members? Or just the both of you?

@gloriousforever8194 3 месяца назад

Just the both of them because they are now a family 👪

@Tosin_elite 3 месяца назад

First to view 😂😂😂

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Yaaayy! You are! Lol

@gisttvarena 3 месяца назад

Love this pod so much

@simplyobaa 3 месяца назад

First ❤

@AkahandClaire 3 месяца назад

Yes ooh 😂

@reginaochonu-ocheja6064 3 месяца назад

The lady is supper smart

@margeretmeabe8489 3 месяца назад

🎉D wife is so calm n intelligent,but y is Akah moving his body, hands y talkin?kinda looks odd

@officialchiamaka3744 3 месяца назад

If it’s so odd then there wouldn’t be a word for it- gesticulation. He’s an actor, gesticulation is their whole thing.

@itstiniel4276 3 месяца назад

Claire, i think you have to stop comparing your parenting to that of other families. Your husband is a breadwinner. You can't have the best of both worlds. "Father going to work and coming back to take over" ?? That's for women who share breadwinner'ship with their men😂. Akah should take some tasks off you, bond and raise his daughter. That's right but having a man that pays the bills and takes care of his home properly, (in this generation) that's a blessing! Please drop "some" expectations you have of him. God bless your home!❤

@adesolasamuel 3 месяца назад

I believe you can have best of both worlds, depending on what you want to see in your home.

@priscaosuya 3 месяца назад

Thiss makes sense

@footballslidestv 3 месяца назад

@@adesolasamuelThank you for this. If you think you can't have the best of both worlds, that's fine. Those that think they can, will.

@The_Cruise_Fam 3 месяца назад

You are in no position to tell her anything about how she wants her home run. Once we see a man doing the most in a family, we tend to think, oh wow! He’s doing a lot because in most of our African homes, such is hardly expected. We suddenly think he’s a golden man and shouldn’t be stressed. What do you mean in this “generation?” It is actually in this generation that women should be demanding more! If you come to my house then you’ll choke. Part of the reasons I honestly do not entertain female friends. It’s my home, you have no right to voice your opinion about how it’s run if I didn’t ask for your opinions. Fem! 🤐 😊

@eyizooheaudu1948 3 месяца назад

Totally agree with you@@The_Cruise_Fam

@sweetlychee269 3 месяца назад

please have another childdddddddddd

@Lola_pearls 3 месяца назад

Ok dear. Consider it done

@bisolaandtunde 3 месяца назад

What kind of comment is this!???? Whyyy?!!!! Let people have children when they want to!

@sweetlychee269 3 месяца назад

Just an opinion from a good place

@aotlatitude 3 месяца назад

I no dey feel una vibes. Especially the guy. Something’s off. From the way the guy pronounces his words [his voice pitch], his gestures [facial expressions, hand movements], etc, I suspect say the guy no dey connected to im masculinity. He comes across as a husband who tries not to offend his wife [not saying he should do so but he did not, for once, attempt pulling his wife’s legs during the convo]. Dude probably lives in the fear of saying/doing the wrong stuff. I hope, genuinely, that I’m wrong. Really. Anyway sha, happiness na the most important thing. And you two look it. 🥂

@franklynalozie8350 3 месяца назад

Couldn't agree less. Really sad to watch. Used to love this couple.. what has changed is your disposition towards yourselves. Claire is the strict school teacher with the whip.

@The_Cruise_Fam 3 месяца назад

I really hope they get to read this.

@affybillionzcubicle 29 дней назад

Maybe something is off with you. This is a raw, honest and vulnerable conversation. Akah is an actor, so he can gesticulates sometimes and that doesn’t have anything to do with the conversation. That’s how Akah talks all the time, except you’re new here then you wouldn’t understand. And yes they are very much happy. Peace ✨

@Jolli_benny 3 месяца назад

I can't find you guys on Spotify @Akah and Claire

@chidiogoezeugwu8501 3 месяца назад

Me too @akah and Claire I’ve been searching. Can you put the link?

@The_Cruise_Fam 3 месяца назад

To be honest, that mother instinct is already inbuilt in a woman’s DNA. So, if a man is actually “PRESENT” be very appreciative. I learn something from what both of you said in the “I” for me, I noticed that my husband is a spender (sometimes irresponsible about it) because of that I have allowed him carry a lot of the bills such as the wants/needs. However, once in a while, I come in as a subordinate 😊. For us, it’s working out perfectly for us. I’m loving this and y’all keep it up.❣️💯👏🏾🫂