Hayes & Solene - Their Full Story [The Idea of You] 

May your girlfriend's soul rest in peace, sir 🤍

I’m so sorry for your loss as I’ve always felt it’s not about age. It’s about connection.

I believe you two were meant to meet and go on this journey together. Sending compassionate condolences in your loss. 🫂🕊️🕯️🙏😇🙏🕯️🕊️

May she rest in peace 🤎

Thank you for your beautiful comment. Wow! My heart broke when I read it but so glad for your time you had with her.

Yep, me too, loved It! Like photo filters.. beautiful and sensual!

I agree with you that’s is so true!

Yes😢

So true. Well said ❤

People project their "subconscious" dreams on them. VIPs embody things which people are longing for. But as an Opera Singer I can say that most stage people have a lot of issues, all the same as we unknown people have. Being on stage mostly means that VIPs also "play" their own dreams in roles but that doesn't mean they have this in their privat life. Of course not all but most of artists have these issues. And there are even a lot of artists on this world who do a lot of amazing work but they aren't famous. Film and theatre industry is really hard and no fun if you look at the details Backstage. A lot of power abuse and so on.

In these actors cases, they're brilliant at portraying movie roles that make the characters seem so very real and relatable.

As long as you’re not one of those women who complain when men do the same, more power to you

​@@aaronmiles2802 Shut up

Awwww OMG I love this!! Congratulations Hun keep on loving each other!!

Wow! That's great. Maybe I will stop being so ageist myself and turning down the younger men that ask me out.

Longstanding misogynistic beliefs among many, unfortunately. And women who are younger and can still reproduce are typically considered more attractive/desirable.

2 words: double standards

The hypocrisy!

It’s weird both ways imo

It's Never Not Wrong, if the age gap is inappropriate (but I feel we all already know that...) ...And within' legal age, the answer is it isn't only acceptable for Older guys. Older women can date and be with younger men As Well. 💁‍♀️ You can't judge who someone falls for... It's their own interest. Also, FYI, I'm not talking about casual hooking up sex. I'm speaking on genuine Realistic Relationships with the two!

You're so lucky.

😊😊❤🧿 love it

Wow! That's amazing. Maybe I should stop being ageist myself and turning down the younger men that ask me out. I've not had any great luck with men my age or older anyway!

When he said he loved me I tried to list all the reasons why it wouldn't work and once I had exhausted my list he asked : are you done? I said yes I had said my peace. And then he proceeded to tell me why it would work and it turns out he was correct!

Their love story is wierd but the movie was decent

Loved from purple hearts

Es como mi historia😢

How is the ending in the book

@@pnarkocer9651 the ending in the book does not end as optimistic as the film. That was something they changed to give fans more "closure". The book ending completely wrecked me when I read it. First ill add in the book her daughter is younger. im pretty sure she's like 13 or 14 or middle school aged. In the book her daughter is obsessed with the band still and on top of that her favorite guy in the band is Hayes. This is also something the changed in the film. They made solenes daughter an older teen who has moved passed her obsession with the band. And Her favorite guy in the band wasn't Hayes in the film it was rory. similar to the movie solene doesn't really tell anyone about Hayes. Especially her daughter because like I said in the book she is obsessed and thinks she loves him. So solene struggles with telling her because she knows it'll destroy her. In the book it comes off as much more of a betrayal to izzy. So izzy doesn't handle the news of solene dating Hayes as well as she does in the film. they make it seem like she honestly doesn't care they're dating at all. she's more so upset her mom didn't tell her in the movie. But in the book she is crushed when she finds out and doesn't talk to solene for days. When she finally comes around to the thought of it she has to deal with all the stuff they show in the film once the relationship is made public. But basically in the book they break up for similar reasons in the movie but it's much more gutwrenching. One thing they didn't show in the film while her and Hayes were together was solenes constant struggle with wanting to be with Hayes because he makes her happy but knowing in the back of her head they'd never work long term because of the age gap. In the book she constantly thinks about what their future would look like with a 20 year age gap. Ex-if they ever married or wanted to have kids or when Hayes is her age she'd be 60. etc In the book Hayes is only 20 turning 21 and solene turns 41 in the book. So they shortened the age gap by 4 Year in the movie. In the book the first fight they have where she leaves doesn't play put the same way in the book. In the book Hayes friend in the band makes multiple passes at solene to get back at Hayes for sleeping with his sister. This is a huge thing in the book and tbh I don't remember if him dedicating the song to her was an act the band had did before or not. So she never gets upset with him over that. Similar to in the film she realizes how hard it's actually been on izzy and everyone else around her because of the attention the media is bringing to the situation. And izzy having to deal with all the bs at school is her driving force for ending it because like I said she's younger in the book so she still has to go all through high school and college like that. Hayes legit begs her not to end things and doesn't understand or accept why they can't make it work. When he shows up at her house after the initial break up in the book its to plead for her to change her mind. they spend one more night to together similar to what they do in the movie and he continues to beg for her to fight for their love insisting they'd make it work despite the age gap. while he's at her house his phone keeps blowing up and when she asks why he tells her he quit the band so they could be together because he looks at it like his "celebrity persona" is the root of why they won't work. She gets upset when she finds out he quit because she looks at it as him throwing away his life and everything he's worked for over something she doesn't think will work in the long run. Now in the books they exchange I love yous way before they ever break up. So when Hayes is pleading with her not to end things one final time because they love each other she ends up saying "maybe she didn't love him she loved the idea of him." They throw that line into the first break up they have when in the book it happened in their final break up and in the movie it didn't hold the same weight it did in the book AT ALL. Like that is the line in the book that completely wrecks Hayes when she ends the relationship closed the door on him. he says that he doesn't believe her and that's she's just saying it to push him away for good. But she insists and basically shuts the door on him. The very last page of the book talks about how Hayes would text text her sometimes multiple times a day to reach out and say he still loved her a missed her for months or maybe even years. But she never ever responds back because she believed this was the only way. The very last line in the book legit was like eventually one day they stopped. But long before she ever stopped loving him 😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔 every fan of the book absolutely hated the ending because it was just so sad and they never really got any closure. The film ending kinda leaves it open for the fans to interpret it however they want. But kinda insinuates that they probably end up getting back together and making it work. So the film ending was nice because it gave book fans rhe closure we all probably wanted. But the whole 5 year thing never happens in the book. Like if I remember correctly I think Hayes does suggest them taking a break and giving izzy time to get through school and what not but like I said Im the books she's younger so it's a much longer time frame before that would ever happen Which is why solene just says it wouldn't have been realistically possible.

@@leahmuniz530 thank youuuu 😘😘😘😘😘

@@pnarkocer9651 you're welcome! 💕

​@@leahmuniz530 🧡

If a woman is someone like Anne then it doesn’t matter her age, whether it’s 25,45 ot 55.

4 years wasn’t enough, they could have at least made him 30. 30 is still very young, idk why Hollywood is obsessed with 20 somethings

@@Winskl9010 This movie is basically based on age gap. If they have some like 10 years gap then the whole movie or plot wouldn't create so much spark like this film or book.

This movie have a condition which only applicable if you are Anne Hathaway.

sorry but a movie isnt real life LMAO younger guys just use older women for a quick pump and dump

Ugh thier chemistry was insane

Really!? 😯 How was it to end?

@@joyfulheartinchrist340 she lis to him at the end denies being in love with him tells him she tells him it was the idea of you. So showing they waited for each other was a game changer. Loved this movie !!!!

And i needed this happy in my life. I wanted them to work out and stay together.

I understand you❤

omfg this is so one direction/harry god damn styles !!!

Not a single tattoo of Hayes similar to that of Harry.

I loved that movie. I think I liked this one more. I hated how everyone made her feel bad for dating a younger man, especially women. You would think they would have defended her.

No wonder he looks familiar!

I watched thé idea of you and enjoyed it. I did not know about Nicholas Galitzine before. I found out about purple hearts after and I loved it. I think I prefer purple hearts. I don't know where I was living 2 YEARS ago for not knowing about this amazing movie. Hope we will get a sequel. Hi from France.

Me too

Fr

Yes we need to see what happens ❤

@@soundsforyou1362yes please part 2

Totally agree 💯

c’est quoi le nom stp

Oh hell naaaah I spate my water reading this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Dude why😂

Nope, nah, nada. I'm sorry Mom, but this is the end of our relationship. Lol No seriously if someone's mother knows that their daughter is crazy for/has a huge crush on/in love with a man, doesn't matter if he's a celeb or not, the mom should stay away.

I would cry😭😭😭

Oh nooooo❤😂my heart

Lol, human biology and physiology. A man has no evolutionary incentive to want an older woman, nor a psychological one.

Really?

@LisaLisa-gv3hc that's what I heard. And so are the after movies on Netflix. It's was fan fiction.

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Perché finale di merda?lui ritorna, e ciò fa capire che se ritorna e per stare con lei serenamente....più facile di così ❤❤.....

@@gabriellamaurelli3194 He returned not be with her. They were separated. The Love was there in some other dimension. But they couldn't be close to each other. Read the book pal.

@@corpse7333 non sono d'accordo

@@gabriellamaurelli3194 I'm not arguing with you. People can have different opinions ok. I've shared my opinions. You have your opinion. So just let it be....

Their chemistry sold the movie. Not the storyline so much.

Kinda

Sí

Yes, go for it

​@@nehaprajapati3229 REALLY THEN I AM SOOO HAPPY READING THE BOOK WAS SOO HARD

Compared to the book yes

I found the ending to be realistic.

It’s up in the air. In the book, no.

Bruh. Guys send gross text messages like that every. single.day. That part wasn't actually unrealistic.

The Idea of You

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If she had thicker skin the story would be different, now wouldn't it?

No, she didn’t, lol. She literally did her best for her mom, it wasn’t her fault.

Yes and more

It had an R rating because of the sexual content that was there.

@@TravelwithTasha393 That was not worth a R-Rating 😂

How is ending in the book???

@@pnarkocer9651 they don't end up together

ouh really?😮​@@KerryOdero

They end up with the possibility to be together.

The idea of you

Boring movie... Reas the book.. Its better... More boss bitch vibes... And the sex scenes are good in it.... In this its just boooorrrringgg