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Thank you so much for the privilege to have come and shared my story. Thank you so much to the Ninja's -You guys are truly AWESOME. I wasn't expecting this kind of love and empathy,I bless God for each one of you. Thank you so much for watching and learning from my story,my short -comings and...and..and...I love you all. I am sure Maranatha loves you too for your love, remember Where you're attacked the most rejoice that's where God has blessed you the most.
Hi Queen. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. You are so beautiful, so well spoken, and I absolutely love the fact that you took the time to research the type of person you were with, that enabled you to empower yourself and realise that you were a victim in the whole situation. I have learnt a lot from you, and I hope others will too. Umuhle and I wish you the best ❤️
For real...I hope so too..and he also needs spritual healing and also mental ..but I believe she's a good mother and godly lady..her son will turn out well...
@KimberlyVilane you made me look at faith from a different perspective= trusting God regardless. You never blamed God at all and you never lost your faith through it all ! I applaud you.
Sometimes we have to take decisions for the sake of our children. It is heartbreaking for a child to go through so much trauma and for what honestly😢😢😢
There is something abnormal about Kim sharing everything with her son, she stole his childhood years by bombarding him with her problems, whats next kukumlala? Sadly Kim is no different to her mom in law, the obsession about the son, she herself will find it hard to let him go should he marry. Sana the guy may have been the problem in the beginning but in the end Kim became the problem, lost touch of reality, self love and thinking capabilities, we often see this in those that often say "God said or the Holy Spirit said...."
That part about sharing her problems (especially those ones) with her son- that was not age appropriate at all. Also, it shows a lack of boundaries between son and mother when it comes to parenting - he didn’t need to know all that 😢.
@@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 yep, she’s going to be the mother in law from hell. Hopefully she finds complete healing before that happens. I also found that weird. Your child can’t see and know everything. He’s not her husband or friend. It’s tough but she’s too emotionally attached to the kiddo. Even he will struggle with boundaries should he marry.
Owww bakithi poor baby boy so glad to hear that he is back at school now.Yazi this thing of doing it for the kids when it comes to marriage is not always good for the kids.
Being a woman is the most wonderful thing in the world. I would choose it again in my next life. You just need to go through life knowing your worth and striving for better at all phases of life from an early age. That’s all
Sometimes, over-sprititualising circumstances keeps us from taking full accountability for things we do. I respect her religious beliefs, but it seems there are instances where she was hiding behind spirituality. Sometimes, we make mistakes because we are human and flawed, and it is as simple as that. We don't need to hide behind spirituality to "rationalise" it.
This is what I realized about her story. There has to be a balance. We can't hide behind spiritually. Even when are making mistakes. That are obvious to everyone.
She was hiding behind spirituality 95% of the time both times/marriages. And if she's not careful to get in touch with reality,she'll unfortunately repeat her mistakes and many more.
@@Drip3657even as a sound Christian,i fully agree that she's over spiritualizing things that she should be able to apply commonsense and wisdom.She hides behind spirituality too much and that can mess ones life if a balance is not met.
This was me to a T...35yrs of horror. Left 2 yrs ago with nothing. Yet we were the face of our area and church elders. But l can't exchange the peace l have now and the simplicity of life. Have been scared of leaving because of what family and people will say but l was slowly dying with hbp, heart palpitations and other emotional issues. I bless God for stories like this. Makes me think mine is not an isolated case. God make come through for us..
She is a really brave and strong woman. Thank you for sharing your story I learnt that going to a narc is never a good idea they never change. They will just reinforce 😢
Kim is so well spoken I enjoyed listening to so much in all 3 videos. ❤Owamie gave her space to speak without asking too many questions,I really liked that😊
I love this woman.....she takes accountability of her part. She dont play victim card. She will find happiness again and the right man. This girl she is a survivor.
I so wish one day to come to u owami en tell my life marriage and loss ing of job and wheelchair. This lady eish it's making me to be free and able to tell People life
I know what she’s talking about. Yoh, it’s painful when you don’t know what’s happening with your body. You go to the doctor etc. but still nothing. Abantu batwele la ngaphandle.
Poor child 😖😣 having to shoulder all this chaos of his parents and be his mums confidant on grown people’s business. I hope he did get counseling after all this
You were being genuine with someone that was being strategic with you. Sad. But your testimony is someone else's survival guide now. May The Lord keep restoring you and your son. Also may God heal and touch your ex so that he does better to the next people or person
Kim and Owamie...Thank you very much for sharing your story. There are lot of women who are going through this situation. You are beautiful and i wish you all the best new endeavour.
This woman is crazy to love a man that much to rob her son of education!! There are public schools like wtf. They way she glossed over that fact but won’t shut up about being an empath, she was not empathetic to her sons need
Thank you so much Kim.. These episodes have been so enlightening, sad to hear but enlightening.. It's your testimony that has reminded me of God's power in the good and bad times of our lives.. People will be there to dim your light because they are empty inside.. Beware of false prophets because they will arrive in sheep's clothing
Beautiful name Kimberly, I was asked to go for season 2 after he initiated the divorce. I refused because I got the house, but he just wanted to reverse that decision. I told him to go to hell. It least my 2 children will eventually inherit it. I don't believe in cheating and have never done such. I love myself too much to degrade myself like that. I stayed single for 25 years.
But why did this woman involve the son so much into her marital problems to the extent of telling the child about the STI’s? Isn’t that traumatic for a child?. He should have been protected the most in all this cause he was not involved when two adults decided to get married
As you wrap up please give me that disciplined Dog 🐕 my daughter will be happy to have it. 😅. God bless you on a new chapter ❤i loved that you were open enough about everything.🎉
Thank you Kimberly for sharing your story. You are one brave woman who has helped many women through the same thing.@owami, thank you for making your platform available for women to learn, heal, and prevent future heartaches.
Thank you Kim, I love how you stand for Jesus, how you understood the assignment, your faith really kept you going. Nothing impress God like faith on someone going through trials and tribulations. Thank you Kim your story was scary but God kept you going. You are blessed.
The son skipped two grades and is currently a top achiever. Sana, Kim is in no position of helping anyone right now. Indaba yama Life Coaches chaaaa mayiphele🤞
Iyooo Kim story is so touching,the Durban part,the son having to drop out of school,Is so said.thanks Queen Ninja for this channel we now learn how people suffered n it teaches us to always look out for red flags.
Something is not make sure here. Also A ‘friend’ buys you a car, phones etc? 😂 only people who haven’t lived will believe this. Musa ukdlala ngathi! We are too old
Am watching you from Zambia,I just want to say owamie you are doing a good job keep it up because we are learning allot from these episodes as viewers... Love you
Hi Kim ,Why did you share that STI matter with a minor ?And why did you allow that your child drops out and turn into a house help ?Why did you even marry him again Kim ?What part did you play in all this ??And im not blaming you Sis ❤please hear me correctly,im just confused
@@ntombie_xoremember the lady advised that she had eating disorders and the son helped so maybe they grew a relationship without boundaries let's be gentle
Trauma Bonding, a lot of parents tend to confide in their children with their marital issues or relationship issues. It’s totally not okay, but happens more often thank you think.
@@nobantugmailxperia2328no but that’s weird. They are mother and son. Healthy boundaries are neeeded. Ya the eating disorder I can understand but how do you start the STI topic with your child?
So the friend bought her a car and her son was at home missing school for 2 years?Its not make sure.Theres some untruths and blame shifting from her.She needs to take accountability.She has an entitlement mentality.
@@jirehpatel I have and the issue is not the narcissist,it’s the person staying with the narcissist.When you haven’t figured out who you are,what you want,what you will tolerate,you will always remain a victim.The only person you should be controlling is yourself.Walk away from what is not good for you.When you see crazy coming,cross the road.
@dineolaka4433 I don't think you've suffered narc abuse before otherwise you wouldn't be saying this. Narcs put you through so many highs and lows, the highs are extremely high and the lows are terribly low which leaves you confused. Bottom line is, no narc is written on the forehead otherwise we wouldn't be falling for them.
@@natashasibanyone3689 I have and you staying is your fault not the narcissist.Learning is painful,denial and staying is deadly.Let us teach ourselves and the ones that come after us,the greatness of walking away the first instance you sense crazy.God will throw a pebble at you the first time however if you refuse to take heed to the warnings,then he throws the whole building at you.The longer you stay,the longer it will take to heal or not heal.Your choice.
very eye opening ha, I have found answers to my own failed marriage, so much perspective, She has explained a lot. Appreciate this message. WOW WOW WOW!!!! Thank you....
Exactly the kind of narcissist I just walked away from after 10yrs. Now I know I am not alone May God heal every woman that's have passed through such in Jesus name
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's a eye opener. In fact I'm scared of man at this point. Your strength is in the Lord. It very encouraging to hear that your faith was grounded in the Lord.
Yoohhhhhh, Owamie, you have had a taste of one of the strongest people you WILL EVEEEERRRR meet. A Friend indeed!?!? As much as I saw her pull herself from all seasons she has loved God,Trust God and still prayed for her friends and the stories you heard are a drop in the oceans of season 1&2. I love you my friend and proud of you that you told your story your way when you are this ready. The son is a warrior.
@@Phaashy my beloved friend, aaaaaahhh what do I say after this? Thank you, thank you,thank you so much for ALWAYSSSSS been there. GOD bless you for me, I love you always 💕
Im so thankful for listening to all the episodes i learned so much and more power to us women we endure so much but we come out stronger God first and everything follows thank you Owami God bless and Kimberly
Owamie, there is just something about Kimberly that I loved during your interview with her. U were so professional and yet so relaxed as if u guys are old friends. Thank u . I really, really enjoyed this interview. I wish u could interview another Kimberly. She was such a great interviewer.😊
I am so happy the son went back to school 😊.We thank God his intelligence.Sister Kim thanks again for sharing your story ,may God open doors for you and continue to bless you ❤
I am a woman but i see some women put up with a lot of nonsense. It can never be me who tolerates so much disrespect Dont understand why this lady was so so patient with this nonsensical man
You are me, I’m you 😭😭 yho women tolerate so much… I hate that children suffer more in all of this. I think she also failed this boy, how was she staying with a child for two years at home when there is free education in South Africa Hhaaaay.
Your story so much resonates with me totally. And I can’t believe that some people would comment in such a condescending manner. People saying the relationship she has with her son is extreme, I don’t see any extreme in that mother-son relationship that is so unique. She won’t be like her mother InlaW’s because she is true Christian. She will let her son run his home and not dictate things in his home or remotely control him. He rain is the only one she has so what if he helps her look into the issues of STI? What Kim will even teach her son is never to be like his dad to another woman’s daughter
You can marry again if the reason for divorce was infidelity....please dnt mislead people!!because it was his choice to cheat and not yours and so you are not obliged to go through punishment for another person's stupid mistake!!!!
