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The host should interject sometimes like; we don't know if she (guest) told her husband that his mom was taking his undies and socks, and we don't know what his response was. Also, no follow up question on the threat made by her mother in law on what was hubby's reaction or whether she told him that his mom said her son would return home. A few opportunities were missed.
Nobody is perfect. Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
its about spiritual warfare. So narcissists who represent satan go to church to steal, kill and destroy. Christian ladies are usually naive targets because we are called to love like christ.
Narcissistic men like the submissive and in-experienced ladies they find in church. Unfortunately for our young ladies they become easily manipulated because they do not know or they are not taught how to deal with these men. The mask then falls off in marriage, where for them it feels like they are trapped.
Right!! ❤❤❤. I loved her. Articulate and a great storyteller. Her voice is so calming as well. She was talking to Owamie like she's talking to her friend ❤.
Kim is so calm, posed and well articulated. She narrated her story so well and in detail. God bless you woman of God. 💛💚🧡. Owamie u are so blessed mama. All these beautiful, intelligent wise woman, choosing and trusting your platform with their stories. and u welcome them with so much love and Grace. 💜💙🤎.
I like you so much too Kimberly. And thank you so much for seeking God and I have loved the knowledge you have attained and now sharing through your experience🙏🏿 You’re a wonderful lady and speak so well❤️
As a person who used to masturbate I can tell you it is a sin, I am now struggling with getting rid of spiritual husbands. Spirits I got while doing that. I pray everyday to get rid of them and they are stubborn. People should not masturbate
The second guest is so chilled and relaxed (such a chilled pooch 🐕🐶). My dog would be barking like mad. Probably my dog would even try to bite Owamie's hand 😅😅
I’m a married woman, this is our fifth year in marriage and struggling to conceive. I’m starting to believe there’s a third hand involved because I’m a Christian and believe in the living God and I’ve attended all scans and tests and my womb is very normal and fertile. This testimony truly touched me and gives me hope to continue trusting the convictions from the Word of God. Wow I’m so touched. God bless you always ladies ❤
Ooh Sis'- I pray that God remembers you and answers your prayers according to HIS PERFECT will for your life-when the TIME is right GOD will make it happen-take heart❤
I conceived finally at age 41 via IVF at Steve Biko. Mine was PCOS, but I know people who started alkaline lifestyle and conceived, some got rid of everything that causes stress, iron deficiency is an enemy too. Pray and have hubby checked too
Thank you ladies for highlighting that when you think God is “not answering” your prayers He knows better and just keep praying, fasting and He will always do the best for you
@KimberlyVilane is my friend❤ I know God didn't allow you to go through so much for nothing.He will use you to heal a lot of women just like Owami's divorce journey helped a lot of women to heal..
It's also important to note that Narcissists deliberately seek out women in the church. Because their first inclination will be to blame themselves. Then they will want to pray and fast thier marital problems away. Doing the most, while they continue to endure abuse.
From the behavior she described her husband, he is far from a narcissist; a narcissist does not go so long before you see their traist, belittling, insulting, etc. I understand that narcissist is the new word, but it is an actual disorder that you cannot just hand to someone, In this case, it is clear the mother performed witchcraft on her son, his actions were not voluntarily. A narcissist is someone who has uncontrollable high sense of self-importance.
I was also trying to see why she says he’s a narcissist. The man was bewitched, he was under a powerful witchcraft spell and the sad thing is that the church could not help him. As for our lovely sister, do not be discouraged, prayer works. The problem is usually that we’re not praying the right prayer. For example if the person is bewitched, the one interceding must target the witchcraft powers to break their hold. If you target a narcissist demon you will miss the mark and the witchcraft spell will remain intact. May God help us all learn to ask God what prayer we should be praying in specific situations.
Need to familiarize yourself with books explaining narcissist. I think both the mother and son are narcissist. One of the traits about narcissist is that they are witches 😢
Kimberely is a walking testimony. Imagine getting married so early and experiencing such trauma. Your destiny is meant to educate young women out there.
Kimberly is me, I'm Kimberly. I got married young and that marriage traumatized me. My ex husband did exactly what Kimberly's ex did. I'm still single today 7 years after the divorce. I'm scared of bazalwane men.
This pastor husband was bewitched by his mom, they do that so that their sons don't marry and move around moving from one woman to another, hurting women's feelings in the process. Which means he was vele a virgin hence masturbating and it looks like his mom knew that her son released the tension that way and unfortunately Mzalwane Mamfundisi was clueless and young in protecting her young pastor's semen, by rather washing that herself hence mamazala bewitched him and used that to her advantage cos they always do those who don't want their sons to marry, they do extremely scary things. It tells that she married a good guy, unfortunately the powers of the devil defeated them both, it's so sad, but God is good all the time, mamazala will answer in heaven.
I just don't understand this weird obsession of boy moms. Why they feel possessive over them ?! And having to be entitled to their marriages and having access whenever they want. As for saying," uzobuya" It was just a huge red flag. I always say this that being at church doesn't necessarily mean everyone is holy and you actually meet the worst of people there. The mother inlaw knew what she was doing with his underwear.
It doesn't make sense at all😢. It's like they start thinking the sons belong to them and they have no right to provide and love other women. One groom's mom confronted the bride's mother, telling her that the son is her husband and they had worked hard to educate him (but she was pretending to the bride - even saying the day was blessed and beautiful). I think we need to start asking God to reveal red flags in MILs prior marriage and for a special protecting. They should've never stayed with her. Also MILs must remember sons have their own lives and have a right to faithfully love their wives and be good fathers. Often sons must play the husband's role - nothing wrong with providing but boundaries must be in place. It's scary.
As a mother of two sons. I believe they don't belong to me. They are borrowed and entrusted to me by God. I want them to be free the day they choose to marry because again...I may have given birth to them but they are not my possessions but rather an extension of their father and myself.
@keepitfrankwithfentse true! It should be that way as a mother. You nurture them and care for them. However, that time is going to come when they want to fend for themselves and start a new life elsewhere. They should not hold them hostage or have this perception that they belong to them. Some women have that weird attachment that gives of incest. Yes you will forever have that bond but it should not be to that extent. Some women so badly want to popularize this thing of them being the boys first and only true love imagine??! Its disgusting waitsi
@mercymsezeni838 bathong??! They're so possessive over them. This is so wrong man in so many levels. They have this mentality of them being the first and only true love for their boys imagine??! Hence the weird entitlement. They also need to breathe and have lives of their own. These women will go to an arms length to overprotect and remove potential mates. Ive seen so much stories on such.
Thank God I am not the only one who pound the wedding ring. I did the same and I was with my friend , we went to out for lunch. My friend evn today she still reminds me... Sisoba stongo sisterz. We soldered it!
I've been on a journey trying to understand what type of person my dad is. I just realized that he's a narcissist. A whole church leader and a wanna be pastor
I was involved with a narcissist. I know exactly what she is talking about. If I relay my story to anyone. Only a few will understand. They are serial manipulators, gaslighters, they thrive in toxicity, their public image is a different human being, they will isolate you, will ghost you for nothing, abusive and hide the abuse so well, the list go on and on. I get her. I fought.
Eish...what a painful story.Im glad uphume usaphila cc...Nkulunkulu unemacebo lamahle ngatsi,hhayi ekusibulala kodvwa ekusiphumelelisa❤.Chin up ntfombi,there's still life ahead of you
If you are a woman with a character like Kim please don't get married 😂men must hear your fotsek every now and then. Imagine gone for 6 months and you this calm noo be a Dineo Ranaka my sister
No communication but meet in church seating next to each other n pretend to be a happy couple......tyoooooooooo tyoooo I cnt imagine myself in that situation I swear I would scream the hell out of my heart as he preaches haiibooo ngeke
I hear the Mother in law this,my husband did this, sisters in the church this, but this days I'm like, but God where are U in this. I mean u prayed, u fasted, u declared the word of God. Why is God allowing the devil to win, whyyyyyy
I cannot answer for God but what I've noticed is our pain births our ministry. We experience this things(while God is in it with us) for His glory. If for eg I was a Ps in a successful marriage because I was a proverbs 31 woman I would not relate to other women going through these things because I would tell them things like pray harder, fast etc. Whereas more women (non-believers included) will be able to identify with Kim because she has walked that journey and after all these she is praising God for carrying her through.
God was there all the time, just because God doesn't act when u want Him to it doesn't mean He's not there but trust and believe when u are down and out and ready to throw in the towel God shows up you even forget the why because He does it in ways we can not even understand or explain but God shows up for sure.
The devil didn't win because she's still breathing, God defeated everything and everyone for her she was just with the wrong man, maybe she chose Him and didn't let God do the choosing for her hey.
What if that was not the man God ordained for her, remember she said the man showed him she was her husband, but she didn't say God showed her also he was her husband.
If Kim had listened to her mother and gone the traditional route, when she conceived, the glory would not have gone to God. What a breath of fresh air, this channel and life in general is very focused on the other kingdom. God bless you Kim, your son and fur baby 🙏🏽
