He Cried & Came In Last 

Facts on the std topic. My buddy was a truck driver and married faithfuly. He left clean but wen he came back and slept with his wife he caught something from her. She said she got it from her friends dildo. Lmao

The craziest thing is he was crying about one of the few “acceptable” things for a man to cry about: the loss of a friend… imagine if it was for something less serious than death lmao

Jordan Peterson was a prime example of this. You might not like the man, but anytime he cried on TV the 'compassionate' people telling men to cry were the first ones to line up and mock him for crying.

“I hate when attractive people trynna have a personality” I’m dying 💀💀💀💀

West was a human being going through a human experience and got punished for it. None of the women there are able to feel sympathy for a person who lost someone close? That’s cold.

Remember boys if you cry in the shower it doesn't count

Women love vulnerable men, until they meet one.

I remember when my mom used to whoop me and crying would only make her go harder. If I held it in and “took it like a man” she would actually be less upset with me then if I were to cry and beg her to stop. That was my introduction to women being absolutely repulsed by male weakness, even if it’s within a completely non-sexual context

As a very introverted woman who has trouble opening up I cannot relate to men or women suddenly crying in public with a bunch of strangers.

Look people, I understand that you don't cry in front of strangers, but they ask a question and then the memories of his best friend (A FRESH WOUND) took over. Geez man a little bit of compassion.

Remember when they say they want a sensitive man. What they mean is they want someone to be sensitive to their issues or for them to cry when its convenient for them.

He got teary eyed about loosing his friend recently. There's literally nothing wrong with that. You can't decide when you're going to be hit with the pain. Grief is the worst. It's terrible that people are so judgy that you get made fun off for going through greif.

“Body count” has always been a cringey, game-ified term… but wanting to know how many people somebody’s been with isn’t unreasonable. Not sure why Aba thought it was.

this is why... I don't tell people anything. people say they want us to show our emotions, but we're judged for it immediately after. I guess it depends on the amount of emotion we show, but that's a completely acceptable event to cry about. guess you can't even cry for a lost relative or friend. crazy.

I was in a couple year relationship with a woman that told it was a huge turnoff for her when I cried one day after a family member passed away. Shit was wild.

Asian guy in the blue shirt is a secret f boy. With the " I dont view women as numbers" and the zodiac sign fiasco lool. He played the game very well.

17:23, this happened to me when I first began dating, the girl was really into me, and one night we hanged at her place, I opened up about all my life drama, and teared up a bit... the next day she began acting different... From that day on, I never opened up to someone that fast. Personally, I believe it's all about timing, and it gotta be something she does first. I could be wrong, but if a man show vulnerability first, it's a turn off for women.

West crying definitely ruined his chances but to be honest he was saying some sketchy stuff like losing track of his body count that probably also contributed to him being last place lol

The difference between Andros and West was how well each knows the game. They both gave the same "I can't answer the question" for the # of bodies question, but Andros added spice to it saying "I don't want to think of those women as just numbers". It was at that moment I knew the tech guy was programming the girls to take interest in his software (or hardware).

Facts! I have a relative who waited until marriage only for her husband to cheat with multiple women. While he gave her a curable Sti she was unaware and by the time she went in for her routine check up was advised she could no longer have children. And let's not forget there are still people being born with different StI/Std's and you can get them through kissing as well.

I know the last time I cried. Was about 5hours ago watching How to train your dragon with my daughter, the scene when hiccup first flies toothless always brings a tear to my eye, especially with the crescendo of the musical score in the background (Probably the hundredth time I've watched that film, in the last half decade, and the hundredth time it's brought a tear to my eye.... and this man is not ashamed of a single tear that has dropped from his eyes while cuddling his angel and watching her favourite film) Hell I've cried a good few dozen times watching the second and third films as well 🤷

Its crazy how Andros went from "cute baby must be protected" to "daddy vibes" in no time flat

I agree he shouldn’t be crying in front of strangers but if he couldn’t control it or hold back those tears then it’s not his fault. He literally loss someone I think it’s fair if he couldn’t hold back tears for something like that.

I been married 13 years and my wife saw me cry for the first time when my cousin who was my closest relative got murdered. We were married 10 years at that point. But what she dont know is I cry a lot to God and my dad...when my pops gone I still got God who my dad told me to love first and above all.

There's a difference between being comfortable with your emotions and knowing how to express them appropriately vs being over emotional. It's annoying when girls do it too, crying all the time is very uncomfortable. Especially around stagners in a setting that's supposed to be light-hearted.

Just a few days ago I was in a college class where it was relevant to talk about how often the guys in the class cried and I gave the fairly reasonable answer that I cried in situations that deserved it (e.g. dead family member or other family related issues) but tried not to do it in any random situation that just felt mildly uncomfortable. When the class ended, a person came up to me and told me I needed to cry more. 😒

Few months ago, i told my female friend i felt ashamed because i felt needy. She has been there for me for many months whenever i needed some attention. She told me its ok to feel needy. She told me ''I see and understand your emotional needs'' and assures me its ok to feel like that. Just a few day's later she ghosts me out of nowwhere for months, with the excuse of being to busy with things.

Aba right on the money with the crying thing. When someone is crying around me when I first meet them it puts me off. I understand there are times to cry, don't get me wrong, but that is a weird level of vulnerability for someone you dont know/just met

"I hate it when attractive people try to have personality." Is a wild statement. Regardless of whether they have it or not, it shouldn't be discouraged to be more than a pretty face

Bruh... Jubilee never fails to disappoint yet entertain us all at the same time 😂😂😂

I’m an Army veteran with PTSD and my wife of 12 years has never seen me cry until one day I was so stressed and depressed I started to tear up a bit. After shes like i fell in love with you a bit more for tearing up. Go figure

As a women ima be honest with y’all, it wasn’t that he cried, it was the setting, the way it looked so awkward, and it just felt attention seeking 😭 I’m okay with my man crying to me but that was in a group setting with people he doesn’t even know so it was a little uncomfortable. I’d feel the same way if it was a girl.

As a woman, I would maybe choose the Asian man as well. Because in a video as short as this, he communicated the most appropriately in the setting of a first meeting. He talked about his job, where he is in life, what he values in relation to a romantic relationship, etc. Those are what I picture two people should be asking each other during a first meeting or a blind date. He doesn't go too deep, but he brings up the essentials and doesn't steer way off topic. But then again, the women didn't really pick the most suitable questions either

It's a cruel world, but the world doesn't owe us understanding

I know a story of a 22 year old girl who lost her virginity to a guy who didn’t use protection and the next day he told her that she should get PEP because he has HIV. Can only imagine the sorrow of that girl.

As an autistic 😅 I’m learning a lot of social stuff I missed in high school with these videos.

From my experience, when someone "overshares" information off-rip, it's usually a cry for help, comfort, and/or an ear to listen... *The best advise for anyone going through something difficult, is to set it aside, until the relationship (romantic or platonic) grows closer; thus, allowing a space of trust and vulnerability to open up between the parties involved.

The truth is men, dont show your emotions around women you dont trust.

How often do you cry? I bottle everything inside and die of heart failure in my 40’s like a real man.

Some people dont understand the difference between being sensitive and being emotionally intelligent

Jack is being sarcastic. He's self-aware. He knows hes average looking.

Bro boutta go home and cry even more 😭

And here I thought I wouldn't find something to watch while I eat lunch. Thanks bros.

3:51 This is what you get when you have an entire generation raised on “Cancel Culture”; everyone’s afraid of saying anything that may offend or “trigger” anyone else

Trauma dumping on people you’ve just met will always have people looking at you crazy. Regardless of gender

I'm in my 40's and one thing men my age learn is young people have no clue what they actually want, especially young women. They lack the self reflection and life experience to be honest with themselves to see the kind of person they need as a partner. Everything is about what is fashionable among their peers and so they hunt those traits, get it, and find they are not happy. If you are mature enough, you can look past what someone claims they need and really see what they do need and if you fit that need.

To be honest West was #1 for me in the beginning of the video but got ranked last not because he cried but because when they asked his body count (a rude question I might add) he said he “lost track” of how many. Even the guy who said 28 knew how many. And then the last ranked guy even suggested to both middle and the other dudes they need to get tested. Losing track is probably the worst response you can give to that question.

I struggled watching the Jubliee dating stuff, but you guys made it tolerable. Super entertaining in your own right!

Tbh even when you are deep in the relationship. Never show your vulnerability. She will cheat on you. Just act like you can handle it and open up to your friends.

Honestly, I would give my life savings for a mug with "I hate it when attractive people are trying to have a personality" 😅

”Some women lookin' at you lesser if there's tears on your cheek But if there's tears tattooed, that same girl is a freak So they attracted to the pain unless they hear the pain speak” - Russ

He thought that was gonna get him in too

aba right about the thing with crying...man or women will watch you like you have some issues that you haven't dealt with. also crying in front of strangers is weird because its puts a emotional burden on the strangers. like if my friend cry in front of me sure i can understand and comfort him but if some random dude starts crying to me about something serious like death imma be like I'm not the guy bruh i don't know you why u coming to me with that shit i got my own things to deal with

Knowing a person's body count is important to a lot of people and I don't blame them at all... especially if a person is looking for a long term relationship. People act like its juvenile or stupid but would a guy happily date or marry a woman that has slept with a 100 dudes? Majority would walk away. I think it matters less for women but even they would be put off by a guy who has slept with a 100 women.

I honestly think I’d cry if I saw him cry, I’ve lost people. It’s hard.

This is why its important to see where the mindset of someone you are going to get intimate with it can help one avoid self destruction.

I'm just going to say for the dude who cried twice, I find it kinda commendable that he got out to go do something if he really was that close to his best friend... I mean he didn't really need to bring up his grandma too, but as someone who refuses to cry infront of other people... after losing my brother this year, I have to step out of situation sometimes to pull myself together bc grieving someone close to you is hard asl and a lot of these comments show that.... Sometimes it hits you at the most inconvenient times out of nowhere. With that said, I also need therapy😂... I just dont have insurance that covers it atm

The reaction to the guy crying by the cast and the comments under this video is very telling. Men simply aren't allowed to feel their emotions, West cried for a very valid reason, a reason that would make most people cry involuntarily because it really just cuts that deep. But the reaction from Aba, the cast and comments is "he shouldn't be crying, he should hold that in." I don't think he intentionally wanted to weep, most men do not but it is a response that his body wanted to have for that specific emotion and that's okay, nothing commendable, just a normal reaction.

If you still think young women mean what they say they want when dating, learn today.

I literally only cry when I'm watching a show and something sad happens if something bad happens to me I'm usually stone faced af

Bahahahah….. “oh my daysssss”…. The horoscope BS response is the best lol

There’s a big difference between vulnerability with someone you know and vulnerability to someone you just met. Dude overshared like crazy and if one of the girls did the same thing she would not be as high of a position either but now this is going to be used as the prime example of why dudes shouldn’t be vulnerable with their partners.

Preach killed me with that mock dap up LMFAO 😂

I love the advice I get from this channel like the body count stuff Aba was talking about

when he started crying i knew it was wraps for him cruel world we live in🤣

My parents don’t cry in front of me ever. I don’t know if my dad cries at all. I would be so uncomfortable if someone I didn’t know just broke down in front of me. I wouldn’t know how to react. I’m sorry you lost your best friend West. Hopefully you have others you can fall back on during hard times.

NOT BEING IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS OR BEING EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE IS A SERIOUS RED FLAG

If you ask your potential significant other for an STD test, and they refuse or give a hard time, keep it pushing. Simple.

as someone who went through the lose of someone who i was close to, i can someone relate to him shedding a tear or two when something reminds you of them.

West needs a therapy or a sweet and kind girl willing to be there for him. None of those girls are what he needs. I hope he finds the one.

I needed your facial expressions and reactions on a Tshirt, because you guys reeaaally get your responses to these things sooooo RIGHT!!, and literally how I feel about these things😂... I need these reactions on social media please.

Honestly, it depends on the person. If a girl (or any person), rejects you for crying, that is a sign of a narcissist. It means that they want their problems first and foremost, and they don't want your problems upstaging theirs. Instead of feeling sorry that they reject you, you should look at is as a bullet dodged. While I understand that there's a certain point where crying/complaining all the time becomes annoying, having a genuine moment coming from real grief should not be looked down upon. I've sat with and comforted many crying men, from my father, husband, brothers, relatives, friends, and colleagues. I have never once thought less of them for crying (also to be honest, seeing guys cry always makes me cry too). In fact, in most cases, it has made me feel closer to them.

The only woman you can cry in front is your mother and some men dont even have that.

i completely agree with aba and preach here on this dude crying with strangers lmao. also i don't blame them for putting that dude last, he gave weird vibes, not even just with the crying.

Hot take: Body count is relevant information in a serious relationship

I think it’s very reasonable to ask for an STD test before being intimate. It’s really not about me not trusting your word, it’s just me acknowledging that stuff can happen. If someone can be so against getting tested that makes *me* nervous. Like why are you so against it?

Completely unacceptable. I am a woman, and I love when men express their emotions around me, because it means they've gained my trust, and feel comfortable expressing themselves. That is hard to achieve since there are women like them in the video (men as well) who shame them for it. It's definitely hard to get a man's emotions out - it takes a lot of convincing. I don't mind if a man cries on my shoulder - it's very unhealthy to keep your tears bottled up inside... I'll continue to be this way. When he's out in the real world, he has to be stoic, unemotional, fearless, etc., to not be shamed by society. When he comes home to OUR world, he can cry... it's not the worse thing in the world. He can express his emotions. It's OK to fear, we can talk it out, and step by step, I can help you overcome it. Everyone fears something once in a while, even if it's stupid. Hell, I'm afraid of stink bugs! Call me old-fashioned, but this is how I think relationships should work. Forget upgrading phones, computers, TV's, video games... we need to upgrade society, because at the end of the day, we're the ones that crash.

I remember the last time I really cried because it's nkt something that happens often, it was also a significant event that wont be forgotten. I don't think it's that unusual to remember vaguely long ago it was that you cried.

Very good advice 8:49 thank you Abba God bless you for giving that info

Save your tears for your boys, your family and your dog. As a man, no one else is going to love you unconditionally

Women: I just want a man that's in touch with his emotions and isn't afraid to cry Maury: The Lie Detector Determined That Was a Lie 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Personally, everything about body count is valid. It's the very last thing on my mind but I feel like there should be a limit on the amount you indulge in desires, before it becomes unhealthy. A high body count could raise a flag about if they may have a problem with self-restraint, or they lack discipline maybe even have a unhealthy relationship. Not an ultimatum for me, or a weird ass requirement thing.

I’ve seen both episodes now. Aba & Preach will have a field day with the next one too.

This just showed the quality of these women. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having feelings and showing emotion.

This is why guys were out here listening to Fresh and Fit when they said you can't share any emotions with your girl. Obviously theres a more nuanced solution that can be found, but when you see stuff like this it's easy to see how people could come to that conclusion.

Oh my god this is the funniest video you guys have posted in a LONG time

Although having a low body count doesn't save you from getting an STD, the more likelihood of you having an STD and contracting one with the higher body count is more probable it's like you know keep playing the game you might want to prize except this prize is a stupid prize

The body count question, in my opinion, is important because it speaks to discipline. In many cases, it also could be indicative of behavior in relationships. Someone who has a body count of 2 might have been in long relationships, and that could mean you could expect them to take you seriously. It's also a preference for some people (women included) to not have someone who has a high number. I know that my ex had a much lower count than me, and that made her self-conscious because she felt inexperienced. When it comes to someone you are actually planning to be with, I think it's a good discussion to have.

How could you hate the Asian dude? The dude was successful, driven, respectful, and seemed way more mature than the others.

He cried at BLUE BEETLE? Lmao 😂

This episode should make everyone feel better about themselves. Dont have to be the most handsome or prettiest but at least we dont have dry ass, boring personalities. 🤣

Moral is....if she stopped likin you cuz you cried infront of her She for the streets She gonna end up on lonelyfans sellin pics of her feefs

Aba got annoyed by the guy who refused to answer body count, but then got bothered by the guy who actually got called out for having an annoyed reaction. They both had an off-putting reaction, for their own reasons, but Aba then judged the person who was forced to answer a question, on the spot, for why.

Fact of matter is no matter how much the progress society has seen, the traditional outlook on men is still very relevant and as a man you should try your best not to cry in public in front of women on a dating show imo. Not only is it something that catches people off guard, it seems a bit off socially. If he knew those girls and that happened in more private, personal settings I believe most of those girls would've been more receptive.

Lmaoooo my male friend has this problem. He thinks he has to be vulnerable all the time, and girls think he’s too intense and comes on too strong. It really is true 😓 I’m sorry

Tbh, I don't want anyone crying in front of me until there's been a good amount of time that we've built trust and went through some things together.

A woman cries and her makeup runs. A man cries and his good looks are washed off his face by his tears. His metaphorical make up runs, leaving him to look unattractive without the cover of a stoic front. Even though I made this comment half jokingly, there is truth to it too 🤔

12:53 Did bro just say half the state of kansas. NIGGA WHATTT 😭😭😭

That guy Nick is 100% one of those clowns who would ask the teacher if there is homework that night. What a clown.

The problem isnt crying. The problem is when and why he cried. Even girls low key judge other girls for crying at the wrong place at the wrong time, for barely any reason.