Good leaders want to help other people develop their innate qualities and become good leaders too. I think that goes hand in hand with the “I’m happy to let someone else lead if I respect them and they’re not a nincompoop” comment. That’s very threatening to insecure people. Don’t even get me started on the societal misunderstanding of what it means to be a good leader and how that varies depending on context and the situation. Thanks, Jess 🦋
'Dis-mantle'....good one. Why bother with any of it? Two grown adults either come together in love and respect, or they don't. He's free to go dominate someone else now. The lessons have been learned...gratitude has been given. ✌️ ❤ Thanks
I identify as a sigma. I also think he is a sigma. He kept trying to get me to act like an alpha. I gave him plenty of opportunity to act like a divine masculine. I tried to show him the way. He couldn't see it. And I think he did kind of put me in a box. He couldn't comprehend my many aspects because they're not loud they're subtle and authentic.
Spot on. Met this Gemini and he was very immature, narcissistic and chaotic. Says one thing but actions didn't match, communication was like pulling teeth... Not worth wasting my time. I was in A bad spot when I met him, but turned my life around. So I stopped communicating with him.
Must be the Geminis. My experience was exactly the same. I'm a Leo and put up with a lot until l won't step down further on the ladder rungs. Realizati on finally hit home. He could not nor did he want to, change. I walked.
“I’m content to let someone else take the lead if I admire them and respect them and don’t find them to be a nincompoop.” Truer words have never been spoken 😂😂😂❤️
Everything accurate down to the sigma female which I actually let out a gasp since I have been watching the videos and recognized am a sigma but so is he. He is with a Karmic energy. This person is his business partner but I think she is totally in love with him but he was not as invested. He was looking to work with me. I unfriended him today and 2 hours later your video. Am interested in a private reading. This was waaay too eerily accurate and the timing. It's like I needed it and it came to me, I wasn't looking for a reading today. Wo😮😮😮w!!
Great reading as always. I will just add in terms of Alpha/Sigma dynamics, both are leaders and possess the same qualities EXCEPT that Alphas HAVE to dominate over others, while Sigmas avoid pecking order. Sigmas are basically Alphas that don't need to control others. That's why they prefer to be loners. If you decide to follow their lead, it would more less be based upon you emulating aspects of their life vs them flat out telling you, "THIS IS HOW YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO DO IT." Hope this helps but anyway, thank you again.
The guy I’ve been dating *literally* demanded that I submit to him 🤦🏻♀️ “Any many who must say I am the king is no true king” -Tywin Lannister, Game of Thrones
You are explaining all of this to precisely WHO is meant to hear it! With eerie precision! This is a tough path, which I sometimes begrudgingly am learning to accept. I also resonate with the Sigma personality type. But man, it’s been a real interesting journey. ❤
idk how these are LITERALLY my life, these blow my whole mind. The 3 people in the background are his alts, he has DID. I've been feeling like there was another woman in the picture but was questioning myself so thank you for this message! I hear spirit loud and clear ❤
Definitely happening. Actually explains a lot. Never thought about sigma energies etc. I'm most definitely a sigma. Stepping away from him, for now. I need time for me to grow and truly unlock some massive new perceptions. On my own.
Exactly, everything you mentioned is so true and authentic. I'm grateful that 🙏 I got out of that situation 😊, truly unhealthy and toxic. I'm free from the darkness and negativeness, I thank God God for guidance and protection. I'm grateful for discernment is helping me to be aware 🙏 and I am happy again 😊 😲. Thank God for the clarity that I needed, my truth shall prevail. Amen and amen again 🙏 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😙😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇🙏🙏🙏🦶🦶🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🦶🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🦶🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏.
You have been such a positive and helpful human in my journey back to health and happiness. Thank you so much for all your readings..i couldnt afford therapy and you gave it to me for free and im forever grateful ❤❤❤
Quite accurate! As I recall mustering up the simple yet blunt courage required just to ask him what it was he wanted in life presently he didnt have. His answer was "I want a slave" lmaoo i gotta give it to him when it comes to being up front and naked.
I meant to add, I just started listening to your channel about an hour or so ago. You have a lot of insight with many, many different subjects and you don't mind reaching in depth and in detail regarding them. To truly hold your audience in place is to illustrate the visions in which you see in your mind and in turn mirror appropriates(wide range reaching) back to them. I believe you have a wonderful gift. Might I mention in which brings opportunities to branch out in a number of different positions in life. Jesus had this gift. He used it to help people which were on all different levels as we are still today. Blessed be and thank you.
The Blunt Family. The Blunt Family. He is 70 and his mom is 98. I can't believe she is still alive. I've known them since he and I were in elementary school. Very cold, cultish, wealthy family dynamic. She did a number to him. He must have been a very sweet/sensitive infant. I think you are spot on.
I have two people in my life, husband and ex ( TF) which I love and respect. Both of them misunderstood me until now. Since my mum passed last year, I took my power back. I was a strong leader before I met my ex and my husband and I backed myself to the corner to build a family life. Sacrifice everything for 17 plus years and got 3 beautiful children who are my everything. But I always felt I was under valued and under estimated. I'm currently in the process of standing on my feet again and show my kids that choosing ourselves is the best thing we can do to help us and the people around us. And I am teaching swimming for 5 year olds and i love that but most of the people find that very difficult. The goofing around makes them understand me more, but parents always think I play around. But end of the day, these children learn and enjoy the water at the same time. I always believed in alpha, beta and segma females. I can feel their energy when people walk closer to me. That concept is true. And with my TF journey, I'm walking away this lifetime. I wish him well but I Can't take him where I'm going..., I will see him again...
Very true I do heavily resonate as a sigma female did deep research infinite a while back and so true we mirror that in each other why I was drawn to your channel is always so on point ❤❤❤
Wow 🤩 Jess! Thank you! Spot on….. I’m a Librian Sigma and he is a Virgo Sigma and she is a Sag Alpha. He met both of us on the same evening 2 years ago and he didn’t understand me on a deeper level and he choose her. He blocked me a year ago and now I have an Instagram page with my true self shining brightly with vision for now and in the future. So now everyone can clearly see my vision. Having you say all this out loud, is so genuinely beautiful! 🌼💛☀️
Sounds more “sore loser” than “sigma”, but keep pimping your instagram and I’m sure you’ll get that man gurrrrrrrrrl 🤣🤣🤣 just don’t get TOO obvious with it, that’s not very sigma!
I’m an introverted sigma; comfortable in my skin and find solace in my own company. I don’t rely on external validation as I know my worth. He cheated on me with a drug addict excon 9 mos ago so I seek divorced from him…. he’s with her right now & I’m healing and trying to enjoy my singlehood
You are so describing my current relationship! For the sake of semantics: I am Sigma. He tried to mould me into a beta. He said a real woman is submissive to man, meaning I am not a real woman. The insults were non stop! I told him to go and find someone like what he wants. He didn't. I've told him to get out of my life. He won't. I'm in a state of desperation. I just want him to go.
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You’re something else. Shine queen. I hope my alpha gets it. I just want him to be a stronger alpha and just adjust his approach. That’s all not saying he’s wrong. He’s right in many situations. It’s just his approach to problems all day that needs a gentler touch. And I’m not perfect either and I don’t have all the answers and that’s why I feel we are the perfect Ying and yang and balance each other out. He is my everything ‼️
It's funny how other people says hey im respecting you ,but they don't know that you know what they did behind there..gossiping, laughing, defaming in the dark...maybe that is respecting for them because they have bad attitude..and I don't think so it's a quality of being a leader.
I haven't completely disconnected because I love him, and he is my husband. But I know intuitively that he's only going to get it when I leave he's a libra sun and moon, and I'm a libra rising. We've been separated over a year, and this reading is so on point. Thank you so much. I needed this message ❤️
I've always known I was a sigma but also an INFJ so I know how to stay in the shadows to avoid wasting energy. She is in her masculine energy and a sigma as well. Never met a sigma female before but I knew she was one when I realized the relationship.
I looked into Sigma profile a few months ago! And the more I learned about it, I realized that I am very much a Sigma and I felt with only a few words in, that you were going to being up Sigma personality, you were going to say it about the Feminine and the Masculine😊!!
This completely resonated. Thank you Jess for sharing such helpful insight. Cancer 8th house Sun/Libra Moon (Gemini Venus in 7th house). INFJ Sigma female. You clarified and confirmed so much for me. Sending you much love and gratitude. 🙏🏻💕🌞🕊
JESS!! the divine timing of this message is crazy. this is definitely my little brother and mom. i am unlearning codependent behaviors and i think it's opening his eyes a bit. he's going to be cat sitting for me so he just left my apartment!! my head was spinning a bit when he left but your message was right on time. needed this. 💖
Sigma female. My past person of 7 years is Aries male . This is our story . I moved on quietly to another state leaving him to learn from his disrespectful ways and third party situation
This reading was really interesting. I spent many years trying to level with him incl showing him the talents he can leverage. Highly intuitive, powerful person turned dark, manipulative and conceited. It's a shame. Just not mine anymore 😂
Thanks so much, I recently came across the Sigma concept and it is so on point for a lot of the pain from my past, but I do believe he is a Sigma male with a Twist and toxic view of a Alpha male which he is not, is like a reversed King of Swords
I'm a Sigma. This particular individual is an Omega. He'd like to think he's an Alpha 🙄 but he's an Omega who acts like a beta while projecting the image of an alpha.
I've looked sigma up and I am one. It's more of a philosophy for a way of life as much as a personallity type. I'm a sigma man in devine feminine priestess energy.
Dominance is a friend of a narcissist...what do you expect about this controlling people to understand skill, Mastery,and cooperation...im hearing this : they want to be their own "MASTER" but they're "LACKING SKILLS and COOPERATION especially MASTERY"...first step to be a great leader is to walk alone ,put yourself in a industry were you could see different kinds of people who works hard ,put your self in that shoes find a solution to work with them smoothly, understand how the whole work works all of them big or small all are important things is to be LEARNED... respect can be earned if you learn how to Respect others too.
This totally applies to me with the gender roles flipped. I'm cancer rising and Sun male. I feel like I am very much a Sigma. Ex was scorpio rising, virgo sun that had alpha energy that was just narcissistic.
In my case, you're reading two different masculines: the one I currently live with who is married to someone who bullies others in order to try to appear as an alpha... ...and the one I believed to be my Twin Flame who chose a False Partner over me because he didn't see me as someone Worthy of his respect. This whole situation is boring and exhausting. I'm ready to physically distance myself from both energies and find people who are capable of getting on My Level. No offense to these two who I love dearly like family... It's just not my scene.
Before I came across you Jess, I had a lot of stuff about Sigma females show up in my feed. Sigmas are moreoften than not INFJS and earth angels. I think the only one you come by naturally is INFJ. When I was connected to him I probably was a beta. Because that's the box he put me in all those lifetimes ago. Coming into sigma takes walking away from him healing bla bla bla. His wife is an alpha which makes karmic females hate us because she liked me as a beta just fine too so they can energy harvest put you in a third party. But once you find you have no tolerance for the BS, maybe perhaps at different times they are BOTH supposed to level up but whether they do or not isn't our fuckin problem. But another problem for Sigmas? We intimidate Everybody. Without even meaning to, or we seem "mysterious ". So guess what. Damned if you do damned if you don't. Because if you're already interested in another masculine (which I am) they look at you energetically as being ot of their league And mysterious. 🤦 his karmic debt number is 16, the hardest to overcome and everything you're describing. Mine is 19 which sounds just as bad if not worse! But doesn't sound like me at all! So hopefully the universe God etc Recognizes that I've gone into my NorthNode, because I don't think I can be accused of abusing power, since I've only just begun to take it back from him, and I dont have "POWER" to abuse I'm not in the same social standing as him. He's the millionaire, I'm on the dole so...I guess that lends to him thinking I was someone he could walk all over. Her too. Both entitled...but he didn't initially come off like that?? But if he's a manipulator...and omg yup 3 friend masculine group too.
I have Libra north node… and am a Sigma female 😅-- and he is not alpha male ❤ I left this energy long ago! Totally immature….and selfish! I am watching this in action. He had potential. I learned through this to NEVER look for potential. Toxicity galore, needs to be top dog cannot humble themselves
The only girl who tried to spin any tail os a coworker but it's just a power dynamic game. Nothing relationship wise But she doesn't realize she's a laughing stock at work. No one likes her. They just tolerate her. And counting the days down for when she's gone. But they gossip and spin tales together. He has no idea how hard he played himself trying to paint me in some shit light. I have a closer bond with everyone there than he does. He played himself hard trying to burn me hahahaha
