He Has Threesomes With His Brother (He Thinks It’s Normal)

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He Has Threesomes With His Brother (He Thinks It’s Normal)
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@whitneyw.7919 Год назад

"Pervert father raised pervert son" There i fixed the title

@catspajamas2961 Год назад

takes me 10 paragraphs to say what you said in 5 words.

@FrogeniusW.G. Год назад

@@catspajamas2961 Bc.it's not that simple..

@mpro9446 Год назад

😂touché

@kellharris2491 Год назад

@@FrogeniusW.G. It is. The man was almost 40 chasing her as a teenager.

@mlokole254 Год назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣....I know, its not funny!

@MorningSings 3 месяца назад

Husband doesn’t find incest shocking. Alright. Red flag 🚩

@capitalist4life 3 месяца назад

Not technically incest. He probably didn’t want his brother there but had to compromise

@thomas317us2 2 месяца назад

Devis three way. I wonder if they did the Eiffel Tower

@rebeccahicks2392 2 месяца назад

@@capitalist4life He didn't "have to compromise" because he didn't have to do it in the first place.

@retrograde126 2 месяца назад

I love to fk my brother, because it feels good to feel him inside me.

@ashtonstout7375 2 месяца назад

@@capitalist4life He said he would have sex with his brother again, but not with his sister-in-law, because he does not find her attractive. That is most definitely incest and he did want his brother there.

@toosense Год назад

The son was testing the water with his father and his young wife to see how’d they react.

@SUZANNECARPENTER-ou3je 4 месяца назад

I agree

@itscarmine 4 месяца назад

BINGO. He wants to run the same play with the new wife

@jonahkolell 3 месяца назад

Thank you

@itscarmine 3 месяца назад

You know also, the son saying he would’ve kept it going had he actually been attracted to his brother’s wife was another hint he was trying to drop to the new wife. And she’s into it, she’s calling bc it’s been on her mind nonstop since the first conversation

@msbeecee1 3 месяца назад

Omg THIS thread

@gillianquinn7160 4 месяца назад

“Stop calling your Mam” did I hear this right?? When you reach adulthood, this is when your Mum can transition into your best friend. There is nothing more beautiful than a Mother daughter relationship.

@missyb6741 3 месяца назад

100%

@MorningSings 3 месяца назад

No you didn’t hear him right.

@annjepsen1621 3 месяца назад

Yeah, I don't think he meant it quite like that, but I don't like how he said it. The Facebook poll is absolutely childish. There's nothing wrong with being close to your mother, especially when you need help. I'm 40 and my mom (57) is my bestie. 😊

@kathleenmechan6021 3 месяца назад

I know it is alright to call HIM but not your MUM. What a stupid thing to say!

@rachaelbell1280 3 месяца назад

yeah I think he's just missing the female perspective of how the relationship can shift into adulthood. he just wouldn't have any idea what a mother-daughter relationship through all the years is like

@reginakrystyn Год назад

This 26 year old stepmom needs to call the previous wife (wives) and ask why she (they) left!!!

@ineedhoez Год назад

Hell yeah

@theluckienurse Год назад

Yep!!

@heroldjaras9909 Год назад

oh yeah. i mean.....this whole situation....her age,...... the stepsons age......his brother....the father........the situation.... i mean...WHAT!?

@c.edales740 Год назад

She doesn’t need to call anyone… she needs to leave. Something tell me the son w I’ll be attracted to her.

@victoriabanks7701 Год назад

That sounds like wise advice to me!

@b.1162 Год назад

Not a single word uttered in this call was normal.

@libbylee9-997 Год назад

I can't read any of the replies on this

@bernieboo7637 4 месяца назад

Pretty much all downhill after "Hi, how are you?"

@mrod87 4 месяца назад

@@bernieboo7637😂😂😂😂 the comments combined with the Dr. s commentary I’m literally cracking up. “Sounds like a country song”

@Bryan-ig2zp 4 месяца назад

Completely normal for Christians. Only thing missing was "how do I live with a child molestator"

@itsme-notyou 4 месяца назад

Including a grown man saying "b t dubs"

@katelynbendinsky5080 4 месяца назад

The fact that the whole family was getting their nails done together struck me as strange, but I was like aww that's wholesome. Then it took a turn really fast.

@madhurimachatterjee7988 4 месяца назад

Me too. 😂😂😂 It went downhill real quick. 😂😂😂😂

@melissahood2960 3 месяца назад

I thought it was weird, the manicures.

@msbeecee1 3 месяца назад

LOL yeah like a hard left turn

@CarterR444 3 месяца назад

Obviously this whole story is weird but what's weird about getting manicures with the family?

@katelynbendinsky5080 3 месяца назад

Just personal bias I guess. Since I usually see going as a solo activity to relax and take a break from family chaos. I’ll take one of my kids sometimes, but I wouldn’t think to bring both and my husband in one trip lol

@Delboydunno Год назад

I think the fact that the son felt comfortable enough with the stepmom to tell her make me think she should question the nature of her relationship and boundaries with him.

@KatieBellino 11 месяцев назад

Or he's saying things for shock value because he's so disturbed that his father would marry such a young woman.

@boxelder9147 11 месяцев назад

I was thinking that too. Hes spying her

@Matt-cr4vv 11 месяцев назад

It seems like her stepson is scoping things out because he is physically interested in her. And based on dads reaction and the existence that is having three somes with his brother and the wife which is so wild. I genuinely wouldn’t be surprised if dad endorsed this occurring between them and the son because clearly the family has no issues with some really out there sexual relationships. And I dont want to judge something I truly don’t know all the facts of but as extreme as this is, and something I would not truly believe if I wasn’t listening, but the family having unusual standards as it applies to these things isn’t entirely a surprise if you consider that she married a man who is twice her age and she is the same age as his actual children. And she seems to lack a lot of maturity by comparison to handle this stuff in the sense that she can’t communicate this with her husband had to call her mom. I can’t decide if it’s some sort of mental abuse where she doesn’t feel free to leave or if crassly this was a money motivated marriage. Who knows

@brianabeans4549 10 месяцев назад

@@Matt-cr4vvyup, son is definitely watching p000rn & waiting for an opportunity.

@nadeenzamora 10 месяцев назад

@@Matt-cr4vvmy thoughts exactly. It was a tester balloon. The son DEFINITELY wanted to see how she would respond to that.

@danigirl103 Год назад

This almost 40 yr old man pursued a 20/21 year old girl and she’s shocked that people in this family have boundary issues? She’s ‘stepmom’ to grown folks the same age as her so idk how she’s just now starting to see red flags…

@DarkSpyro707 Год назад

most 40 year old men dont think 40 year old women as physically attractive compared to women half their age.

@reginakrystyn Год назад

@@DarkSpyro707 Nah. Most 40 year old men know that 40 year old women have firm & established boundaries. Immature 40 year old men can’t handle that.

@ineedhoez Год назад

Pahahaahahhaa!!!!

@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 Год назад

@@DarkSpyro707 But smart 40-something men don't get involved with women in their early to mid twenties.

@ralegade7710 Год назад

Dani… Regardless of a man’s age… Men are always going to universally find women in their early 20’s the most attractive. They’re the most beautiful and fertile. That’s the most important part of male mate selection. It’s not weird at all.

@didine256 Год назад

🤣 her husband was 40yo and lurking after 20yo on Facebook. This is how they meet and the rest is history. Right from the start it was messed up lol

@johndone8045 Год назад

26 and 43 not that big of a gap And theyve been married for 5 years, seems working out well

@didine256 Год назад

@@johndone8045 dude, he was chasing girls the same age his kids are, that's creepy AF

@willak79bud90 Год назад

@@didine256 nah

@changetocome100 Год назад

Well that's when they got married, I'm thinking she was a teenager when they started dating.

@willak79bud90 Год назад

@@changetocome100 she wasn't a teenager.

@498chris 4 месяца назад

Let’s be clear-calling your mom or another adult who you have a good relationship with for advice isn’t a bad thing. Idk why he’s making it out to be such a terrible thing.

@Rise-and-Shine333 4 месяца назад

Yea exactly that was weird. He didn’t come off very well saying that

@corrieworou4813 3 месяца назад

True, but I think his point is she needs to be an adult too! Once she makes her phone calls, she needs to make her stand

@nellieshoals 3 месяца назад

Bc they should be calling HIM, not their moms. 🙄😑

@JaxLittles 2 месяца назад

Absolutely disagree. Look at this as if it was the other way around in gender. If a young guy called his mom or dad, people would call him a mommy's boy or that he needs to grow up if he's going to be in an adult relationship and should have his own values and make his own decisions. Also the mom gave her trash advice. He sees that too

@BrandonZickefoose2014 2 месяца назад

Agreed, this guy is weird.

@kat7047 5 месяцев назад

I’m 42 and live a happy healthy life with great relationships and I still call my mother to talk through things. There is absolutely nothing wrong with her calling her mama.

@twerja1993 4 месяца назад

I think he means there is a difference between asking your Mom for advice for a problem that comes up and needing to hear her mom’s opinion for every little thing because she can’t function without it.

@sierraalice8072 4 месяца назад

@@twerja1993i took it as being weird to talk to your mom about threesomes

@forpeace1580 4 месяца назад

I agree. What a wonderful relationship to be able to be open and share with your mother and get her thoughts. Who better than your mother or father, if you have that kind of relationship. So, it's ok to call a stranger on his live show and ask his opinion over your mother?

@anglophils645 4 месяца назад

I'm a 67 year old woman, and my mother died when I was 46. I was devastated at her loss, be cause she was my best friend and confidente. I was also her best friend and confidente. We were not mommy and baby girl, we were two adult women who were very close. I think it's great when children and parents can grow into close adult friendships, of equals. This young woman sounds like she has the same type of relationship with her mother.

@thabsmkhize2481 4 месяца назад

@@anglophils645 thank you for sharing this. Made me feel validated ❤ I’m sorry that you lost your mom, and grateful for the reminder to cherish mine.

@carnivoreRon Год назад

He probably told her because he wants her to participate, too. YUCK!! Run away from this family!!

@firefly9838 Год назад

You just made that up. We don't know how he feels. Your wild speculation is gross.

@kunya16 Год назад

If he's willing to bang his brother he might just be willing to add dad in too.

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

Especially with married couple it can destroy their relationship and cause one of them to get jealous and go crazy like those crime shows almost always someone gets jealous.

@silverlining6259 Год назад

💯

@lozer93gurl 11 месяцев назад

@@firefly9838Actually, I thought the same thing, why else would he tell her that while the 3 of them were out getting manicures? And I think that’s why the dad’s reaction (or lack there of) freak her out. This just might be one of “those” families.

@xinwilson Год назад

I lost it at "yea I did a Facebook poll" oh my... Bet she kept people entertained for days 😂

@bigbb416-5 Год назад

🤣🤣🤣

@Ad-Lo Год назад

⚰️

@amberdeterman5815 Год назад

That would have been amazing to see 😂

@AC-qo8oq 11 месяцев назад

I love those fb people 😂😂

@rebeccaspratling2865 4 месяца назад

😂

@venusretrograde6177 10 месяцев назад

Saying that she’s acting like a child for calling her mom is a bit much in my opinion… most women with a healthy mother-daughter relationship would call their mom in a time where they needed advice or support. *edit: I understand that she is wrong for other things that she did in the relationship but I don’t believe that this is one of them and I don’t agree with John on this particular matter. I still agree with him on most of his points.

@dawnwilliams969 3 месяца назад

Agree!

@nellieshoals 3 месяца назад

Yeah, no, that was weird... his reaction.

@kaybrown9608 3 месяца назад

She can talk to her mother if she wants..how does that make her childish?

@canonaler 3 месяца назад

I think it's a bit childish in terms of having enmeshed boundaries with the mother. I am very close with my parents but I don't want them in my personal business with everything I do or encounter. Would you want your husband to go tell all his family, say, if you had a dry vagina and needed help with it ? Some things need to stay personal and not be told to extended family.

@venusretrograde6177 3 месяца назад

@@canonaler I personally don’t think that’s a fair comparison. I definitely think it would be inappropriate to talk about your partners genitalia with your parents however, I don’t think it’s inappropriate to discuss something that they did; especially something that you are having a moral issue in accepting. I’d say it would be appropriate for a woman to seek counsel on something like this from her mother. Some people don’t have friends they can talk to about this kind of stuff.

@racheljames7 11 месяцев назад

We've became so concerned with "not judging others" that we think we have to be seen to not disaprove of absolutely disgusting behaviour.

@ivonned32 4 месяца назад

So true!!!

@Veracityseeker7 4 месяца назад

Thank you

@maryansel932 4 месяца назад

Absolutely true!

@nodramamomma2777 4 месяца назад

Yep.

@rebeccaspratling2865 4 месяца назад

Bingo! Degeneracy is becoming the new normal and I cannot stand it.

@mpro9446 Год назад

What’s wrong with calling the mum for support??? Lol I’m 34 and I still do this .. she’s my best friend !

@unlockyourcock Год назад

There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. I‘m very thankful that I have such a good relationship with my mom. Who is this guy to say that‘s a bad thing? He‘s probably just jealous because he isn‘t close with his own mom.

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

@@unlockyourcock lol

@bryansmith7238 Год назад

If you run to mum for all your problems you have issues.

@jackieyoung3359 Год назад

I think he was thinking because this woman and her husband have such a big age gap that she relies on “adults” to make decisions for her or project their thoughts, feelings, etc. on her. Instead of trusting her gut and handling it on her own, she ran to her mother almost like a child would.

@wildolive3630 11 месяцев назад

This is definitely a phone a friend/mom situation.

@mark.daniel Год назад

I never thought Dr. Delony would have a Game of Thrones themed episode.

@Ready-ForTheEnd Год назад

LOL

@shaunacoleman3306 Год назад

😂

@CraigWhargoul Год назад

Yeah, but the theme song is played with wash tubs and banjos

@mrod87 4 месяца назад

There’s a couple other ones he needs to put them together in a summary video and give it that title. 😂

@MS-cg1mj 4 месяца назад

😂😅

@brendaleverick3655 4 месяца назад

What she may or may not realize yet is that the reason why the sons have no morals is because the father doesn't. That's why he wasn't shocked and didn't verbally correct them. She married a man without morals, apparently. I see it as a big red flag; I think she does too.

@collegeclips333 2 месяца назад

Right? Such a missed opportunity..why didn't he address this?

@ashen8046 19 дней назад

Totally agreed. There is a much deeper level that was not at all addressed.

@engagedanddivorcedpodcast 9 месяцев назад

No, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with calling her mom about this. I’d be telling my parents too because we’re close and I need their insight and advice

@thestorybehindthat5236 9 месяцев назад

I agree. That's pretty startling. Wouldn't even know what to do with that.

@ddaley87 4 месяца назад

The problem is now your mom knows all your business. When you are supposed to be the leaders of the family. Talk to your husband first. And work it out with them.

@matticus6339 4 месяца назад

@@ddaley87 Exactly.

@matticus6339 4 месяца назад

You are part of the problem. To many people are getting there parents involved in there marriage. Its not there business. To be on good speaking terms with your parents is great, to talk often is great. But to give them info into your personal marriage is wrong.

@MorningSings 3 месяца назад

Take another listen.

@toscadonna Год назад

I’d be divorcing right on out of this family. No telling what her husband has been up to all of those years. And he married a much younger woman who’d be innocent and inexperienced to put up with this kind of incest craziness. If she has children with him, she’s gonna have to watch the creepy uncles who have no boundaries.

@jaybstyles_official520 4 месяца назад

That's bs women are married to younger guys no one has a problem with it Inexperienced that's bs this is not a job application Tell women to date men their age it's that simple I taught y'all said the past doesn't matter

@siteworld123 4 месяца назад

💯!!!

@sandracraft517 4 месяца назад

It's actually creepy half-brothers.

@evelynmarx6212 4 месяца назад

🤢🤢🤮🤮

@jfb3361 3 месяца назад

She got married when she was 20/21... she's likely been reliant on her husband for these 5 years... I think she's doing the calculation that leaving will be hard and she doesn't have good prospects alone. But yes, I think she's in a pickle. Her husband is likely not a good fella, and his family clearly isn't.

@justmejenny7986 Год назад

Dysfunctional family is an understatement.

@anglophils645 4 месяца назад

I'm a 67 year old woman, and I think this young woman's mother's comments indicate that Mom has the same suspicions that I do. The step-son is a creep. The story about the threesome with his brother and sister in law is made up nonsense. He's saying that, because he's attracted to his step-mother, and he's telling that story in front of her and his father, fishing to see whether they will invite him for a threesome. That's why Mom is telling her to avoid him as much as possible.

@Katprint 3 месяца назад

💯

@karen-zb7pu 3 месяца назад

Agreed. He is floating an idea and watching the response intently.

@vanessas2363 Месяц назад

I agree. It's made up to test the water..... Horrid

@lidamarcelazapata-ortiz9095 Месяц назад

Dad is in it. I bet if she investigates. Dad has done it before with son/s

@vanessas2363 Месяц назад

@@lidamarcelazapata-ortiz9095 good point, yes, i bet its that. How incestuous and gross.

@Journey188 3 месяца назад

She called her mom because she knows she is wiser than her husband! She doesn’t trust her husband

@SeaChellesShore Год назад

Seriously curious about her husband now, since he produced two sons with this type of ethics combined with the fact, at 39, he married someone who wasn’t even at the legal age to drink (20 yo - so likely dated her at 19 years.).

@sharonhalk8679 Год назад

Bingo! Dad isn’t shocked because he raised sons that are okay with that behavior. They grew up with no boundaries and I wouldn’t be surprised if he told them because he was fishing the idea for dad & stepmom to try it.

@imenehaddad2860 Год назад

They're testing the water to see if she'd join in 😂

@johnsmith-kt7ef Год назад

i would be curious to know what may have happened when these two sons were kids...

@ErinThePsychicWitch Год назад

@@imenehaddad2860 1000% that’s what I thought too

@MaxSujyReact Год назад

You are overthinking. Grown adults do not have to agree with your sense of morality, religious belief, etc. Live and let live. Stop trying to impose your worldview to others.

@lav7161 Год назад

She lost me at the Facebook poll 😂😂😂

@ea7109 Год назад

😂😂😂😂

@kw2075 Год назад

Right. Immature af.

@noahdouglas702 4 месяца назад

He reacted worse to her calling her mom then two brothers fu(king

@collegeclips333 2 месяца назад

accurate

@SupportTheArts-yo8ox 2 месяца назад

wonder what that implies?...

@leannemerry7480 Месяц назад

This though 😭😭😭🤣🤣

@carriefawcett9990 18 дней назад

THAN

@Happyplace1979 5 дней назад

Yeah that was a very strange response. OF COURSE she called her mom!!

@jbdibello1604 4 месяца назад

He's way off! Older women teach the younger women...it's the Biblical model. She didn't call her "mommy", she called her closest, dearest, trusted confidante.

@lkctom2546 4 месяца назад

Exactly. This was literally the only ok part of this situation except for the fact her mum didn't tell her to run away from this incest family

@kristinrichmond8185 Год назад

Stop calling your mom? Are you serious? There’s a difference between being emotionally dependent on your mom in adulthood and asking advice. Sheesh.

@dovestone_ Год назад

Exactly

@susannapoli2308 Год назад

Yes, I have been married 11 years and I am in a wonderful, bonded marriage. I still call my mom for advice. There are limits- I would not ever call her to circumvent my husband and go behind his back, and not ever to vent about my husband because anything between us is only between us. But outside of that there’s nothing wrong with seeking wise council, no matter how old you are.

@susanjean3114 11 месяцев назад

I agree

@user-pv2fs6iv2q 9 месяцев назад

Yeah I think he might not realize that most women tell their mothers everything, to be honest...

@kellygirl912 4 месяца назад

Every woman would call their mom.

@barosalearninglab Год назад

That screwed up family has no boundaries. "Nothing surprised me anymore," said a man who married a 20-year-old in his 40s.

@oldsouthpaw Месяц назад

I think stepson was throwing it out there, like hey dad if you ya'll wanna give it a go with me, let's go! I"m down with it!

@joeliza4047 4 месяца назад

One comment that hit me between the eyes. Did the son tell the story while they are all out getting a group manicure because him and dad like the idea of sharing his dad's wife and they concocted the plan together? This would explain why dad had no reaction. He was in on it. Get out now.

@TEM14411 3 месяца назад

Bingo

@ciggytwiggy Месяц назад

100%

@nonelikememe Месяц назад

Bingo

@jonaswunderkind4580 Месяц назад

100%

@sjm9876 26 дней назад

Hit the nail on the head. They sound like a bunch of sickos

@JohnniferLeigh Год назад

I swear this whole planet is going straight to hell. 🔥🔥🔥. The day you feel comfortable telling your father that you have committed incest, and your father doesn't proceed to beat the holy heck out of you.... We've strayed too far. 🤦🏽‍♀️

@zaad5273 Год назад

Absolutely. It's a slippery slope of immorality. I knew it was only a matter of time too. Justifying sleeping with family members... one of the MOST repulsive things I've ever heard. God help us

@JohnniferLeigh Год назад

@@zaad5273 RIGHT! and the only reason he stopped is not because he felt that it was wrong, but because he didn't think the wife was "attractive" enough.... 🤦🏽‍♀️ And your brother was???? This has nothing to do with attraction and everything to do with deviancy.

@zaad5273 Год назад

@@JohnniferLeigh Agreed 💯

@NC-jl4tn Год назад

You’re so right. Straight to hell. This is disgusting

@tonyanderson8497 Год назад

Democrats said it’s ok 😭

@lks6248 Год назад

When his father married a young person of age to be his daughter the kids in the family learned NOTHING from him about sexual boundaries!

@jwlsngold5026 Год назад

Good point!! 👍

@janiceparkerson4727 Год назад

Exactly 💯.

@imenehaddad2860 Год назад

This man married a person half his age and the "kids" are committing incest and telling the "step mom" who's their age 😂😂😭

@unnamedchannel1237 Год назад

@@imenehaddad2860 they def want her to join them

@imenehaddad2860 Год назад

@@unnamedchannel1237 she needs to run for her life run girl run

@rajeswarikannan430 4 месяца назад

Like father like son... dad married a 21 year old when he had a 21 year son. I would say to the 26 yr old run. Entire family including the caller is crazy.

@JackMason-oq8lf 2 месяца назад

You people must be living under rocks. You sound like neanderthals. You quote Jesus and then pass judgement on people. It's not christ-ian to judge. Don't you people know anything about Jesus? Don't you read the teachings of Jesus in the old testament? It's unfortunate that this idiot Zoomer boy opened his mouth about his affair, which puts his brother on shakey ground too. Lots of people have three-ways. Maybe they just don't talk about it because they know they will be judged by prudes with dull sex lives.

@Anon00008 Год назад

I’m 39, happily married and a sales director and I still call my mum about topics

@RianneMision Год назад

I clicked on this video because of the title, but I stayed because of the comment section. 😂😂😂

@jet4415 Год назад

Women: Quit marrying a father figure.

@apebass2215 Год назад

Why? If they intend on having children with their husband he needs to be a father figure.

@KeraJaay Год назад

@@apebass2215 that’s not what they mean. She married a much older man whom could be around her fathers age.

@apebass2215 Год назад

@@KeraJaay so?

@sobeliever1638 10 месяцев назад

100% did not marry a father figure

@kdphotos4691 4 месяца назад

@@apebass2215 - A father figure to their children not the wife. Men target very young women because they are naïve. The OP is saying don't marry these old men.

@aliciadawn8026 3 месяца назад

My first thought was that the son wants the stepmom and is planting a seed with dad.

@patriciaconnolly1475 2 месяца назад

I'll take your comment one step further. I think this was already discussed between the son and father to see how she would react.

@jessicasimmons166 Месяц назад

@@patriciaconnolly1475I didn’t even think about that. You might be right.

@EowynSoup 2 месяца назад

There's nothing wrong with calling your mum for advice. I'll be calling my mum for advice for as long as we're both alive. I trust her, I can talk to her about anything, she understands me the best out of everyone so she knows what's the best for me. Cherish your mum.

@sarahhuse9709 Год назад

I don't think he dug deep enough on this one. What the crap happened in that home to turn out two sons that would sleep with eachother...and one of their wives? And how in the world is he not shocked and horrified? Yeah, he has seen some stuff, but this is of a different nature and it's very close to home. If, even after time to think and absorb the situation, he just kind of shrugs, there is something deeply, deeply wrong with him. And although some age gap romances are fine I am a little concerned about this one.

@johnmartin4641 Год назад

I don’t think that’s what happened. From what I understand, the sons didn’t sleep together, they just shared the wife.

@a.humphries8678 Год назад

And then to feel comfortable telling people about it...

@Nature-ep5cu Год назад

@@johnmartin4641 3 some they had is what she said

@johnmartin4641 Год назад

@@Nature-ep5cu I’m aware. That doesn’t necessarily mean they all screwed each other. What likely happened is the two brothers shared the wife and didn’t do anything with each other.

@Mrs.TJTaylor Год назад

Just a little concerned?

@SwimSweetie100 Год назад

You lost me when you kept harping on this woman calling her mother. Some women do not have close friendships. She is lucky enough to have a mother she can confide in, why are you shaming her for that?

@justabunneh6490 Год назад

For a lot of people, their mother is their most trustworthy ally.

@jacquelineglitter4328 4 месяца назад

Me and my mother didn't have spouses so we always give each other advice.

@Tempo50 3 месяца назад

You obviously have an unhealthy relationship with your mother. Telling her mom about family dirty laundry is wrong.

@SwimSweetie100 3 месяца назад

@@Tempo50 who me? I don’t talk to my mom about anything, we aren’t close. But I think it is nice some people can confide in a parent

@mannarm23 2 месяца назад

Bc sometimes it’s an indicator of nvr having individuating from ur parents like when kids look to parents for a reaction for their fall to see how they should handle something

@marissashelley2362 2 месяца назад

I'm 74 & thought I'd heard everything. Yet, I'm in SHOCK!!! 🤯 🤯 🤯

@squidward6187 11 месяцев назад

As a person diagnosed with "severe" PTSD - no. I would be extremely concerned, I would not dismiss that. As a rule, we're hypervigilant to lies, not numb to them as normies are.

@PaolaRL Месяц назад

Exactly!

@janwells2199 Год назад

How about, "I'm not comfortable hearing details about your private life. Leave me out of it." And your husband must support you in this.

@jjones3566 Год назад

Jan Wells, I agree!

@VeeAlee Год назад

I love your solution.

@leslie3566 Год назад

agreed

@FrogeniusW.G. Год назад

Same here.

@mariawaugh2017 4 месяца назад

Simple enough

@changetocome100 Год назад

I think John is more shocked about a 20yr old marrying someone 20yrs her senior. Throw the whole family away!

@Michelleyouare 4 месяца назад

To be fair this is probably the biggest issue. At least from her standpoint. It's already apparent he pulled the wool over her eyes. Someone older would have known what questions to ask and to dip a toe in the water of this craziness and it wouldn't be such a shock

@ruth6028 2 месяца назад

Marrying someone younger is not the issue when it is men that are older. Look at Rod Stewart fathered a child way into his 60‘s. Obviously he had a wife who was a lot younger. But now if the woman is 20 years older then her husband, society would say he needs a mother. Age is not the issue here. The issue is that the husband is ok with his sons having incess relationship.

@bonjovi2792 2 месяца назад

@ruth6028 Men's fertility degrades as they age. The quality of sperm drops exponentially after 30 leading to more fertility issues/deformities in children

@hookashley 2 месяца назад

It's disgusting to call this woman a child for using her mother as a sounding board. We should all be so lucky to have that kind of our relationship with our parents that we can honestly talk to them about what we're going through.

@lizarrohillario7057 Месяц назад

Relax that was 30 seconds of a 20 minute conversation

@leannemerry7480 Месяц назад

Honestly that seems like some sort of trigger for him or his culture is different because I’ve never seen that sort of reaction about anyone confiding in their mother like this, even at her age.

@ashleydurham7397 27 дней назад

I completely agree. He was completely wrong for that.

@nightstarstar1 4 месяца назад

This whole family is unhinged and inappropriate stuff is normal for them. He married someone young enough to be his child and his children are having three somewhere with each other. He can’t have a reaction when his crap is stinking.

@intensepassion3382 Год назад

The internet is not only revealing how amoral people are but is escalating it with "don't judge" trend. We have to "use judgement" for what it's meant to determine what is wrong vs what is right. A situation like this is a momentary lust filled opportunity, that destroys.

@kunya16 Год назад

The "don't judge" trend is so annoying. Everyone judges, everyone needs to. Don't be a judgemental prick, but absolutely do judge situations and people. Use discernment.

@silverlining6259 Год назад

Giving into your desires will destroy your soul and I agree,do t judge means “I don’t have any morals”

@kdphotos4691 4 месяца назад

@@kunya16 - Yes, this "don't judge" nonsense is getting women k-lled. I see women defending strangulation by telling others not to "kink shame" when you tell them that strangulation is violence.

@declaracionespolemicas 4 месяца назад

@@kdphotos4691 If they're agreeing to the strangulation, what are you going to do about it? 😂

@kdphotos4691 4 месяца назад

@@declaracionespolemicas - Educate women on the m*rder rate and risk of stroke and d**th from male pattern violence.

@ep3lol Год назад

Dr. John has such a knack for taking licentious sounding topics and turnimg them into deep, meaningful discussions.

@pattyajones Год назад

Dr. John is a judgmental ASSHOLE. Pretty sure he's a "Christian" too. Oh wait, what does the Bible say in Matthew 7 : "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?

@meglukes 11 месяцев назад

Yeah no way I’d be staying that professional. I’d be like “WTF YOU MEAN YOUR STEPSON IS ENGAGING INCEST AND YOUR HUSBAND DOESN’T CARE EWWWWW!!!”

@billyjohnson9166 6 месяцев назад

Exactly he makes a big deal about everything

@arithebarbarian6756 Месяц назад

She loved showing people on facebook. She loved telling people on a youtube show. She loves all the drama

@oldsouthpaw Месяц назад

My question is like is your family and friends on your FB page, if so you just told them all, my stepsons are Bi Guys, with an incest twist

@colettebenson9658 3 месяца назад

“There’s a plot twist…I thought this was the movie” 😂😂😂 The stepson having sexual relations with his brother and SIL is weird af. Dad having a wife who is only a few years older than his sons is just as weird. She was barely out of hs and he had teenage kids (and presumably an ex-wife). There’s no way Dad is cutting off his sons. This whole family is a social experiment and probably needs to seek professional help.

@jesshatchette Год назад

I’m curious why a mother isn’t a good person to call but older friends are? I used to call my grandmother all the time when she was alive for advice, because she happened to be the wisest woman I knew on the subjects I was asking about. I feel like asking the best person would make more sense rather than immediately dismissing advice simply because it’s your mother. What am I missing?

@ale347baker Год назад

I think he was getting at that she's handling this in an immature way. I agree with you that I consider asking your parents for advice is good. However, he seems to pick up quick on the caller's core issues generally. I think that's why its an issue for him.

@soccerislife6108 Год назад

Because usually you don’t want to get your mom or dad involved in your relationship issues. You might end up forgiving your partner for what they dis but your family or parents will hold it against them. Its a VERY wise thing to keep the separate. Ive seen these things happen many times with different couples.

@kellharris2491 Год назад

I think it was the way she seemed to run to her Mother for help. It seemed like a teenager running to her Mom. Not an adult daughter asking her mother for wisdom and life lesson. Their is a difference. And you could see it in the way she said it. It was like Mom tell me what to do. She is emotionally a little staunted because she has been with a much older man making the big choices in her life since she was a teenager.

@marteumar8429 Год назад

Really would you wanna call your to tell her your borderline pdo husband whose sons are your age partake in incestuous threesomes? That’s the convos you wanna have with your mom? 😂

@jesshatchette Год назад

@@marteumar8429 Yes. Yes, I would absolutely have this conversation with my mom. I'd have this same conversation with a friend, a therapist, or any other trusted person. If you can't trust your mom to have your best interest in mind and give you support, then doesn't that say something about your relationship with your mom? I think so. I have very transparent and close relationships with my kids. We talk about all kinds of subjects that some people would consider off the table. I'm grateful that they feel safe to talk about those topics with me. I will always support their best interests, mental and physical health.

@aoropeza85 Год назад

am i the only one that's thinking this stepson brought it up to see how young stepmommy reacted cause he's into her?

@xxxxxxxxx1652 Год назад

😭😭😭😭😭😭

@hansonallie 11 месяцев назад

💯 🎯- fishin’ fo sho!

@KatieBellino 11 месяцев назад

Either into her or just ticked off about his dad's ridiculous relationship (and the fact that he hasn't been much of a father). I do think this had a lot to do with getting a reaction out of them.

@sl33ptilldawn 4 месяца назад

I thought the same. He was definitely testing to see if she'd be down.

@cocopuff6810 2 месяца назад

Yesss

@iceescape 3 месяца назад

Sounds like the entire messed up family is gaslighting her. She knows what's right in her heart and should probably run for the hills.

@Jasminina16 3 месяца назад

The biggest thing I don’t like about this guy is he made her feel like a child for talking to her mom. I’m 27 years old and I will definitely call my mom. When you get older, your parents can become your best friend and offer wise advice. So, no don’t call make fun of her for calling her “mommy”.

@44LillPuffin 11 дней назад

It is a bit weird that she was calling her mom because her son inlaw told her that he was having sex with his brother and sister and law. Like that's kinda not a conversation most people will have with their mom

@vcamie8755 2 дня назад

42.... My mom and I call each other for everything. It's too bad not all children have mothers like ours or they would understand.

@amendaalmonte2236 Год назад

I think it’s disturbing that at 38 years old this guy decided to marry a 20 year old. So I’m not sure why she’s shocked 😅

@chrisslayer9014 Год назад

YEAH DUDE 40 for really?! and a 26 talk about a huge age gap

@Matt-cr4vv 11 месяцев назад

Because she clearly lacks a ton of emotional maturity. This scenario is shocking even with how the father is because nobody reasonably expects such a wild relationship to be a thing and for a parent to not care at all about it even to a point of expressing at a minimum that it’s super weird. But it seems like nobody in this family has their stuff together and it’s kinda amazing.

@abark 8 месяцев назад

She's 17 years, 11 months, 29 days and 23 hours old you sick pervert!

@saralowe5306 4 месяца назад

I don't have any issues with that.

@exnecross3141 4 месяца назад

Wtf is wrong with someone in their 30s or even 40s dating with someone in their 20s? Why are people trying to make this weird?

@nicolevaughn643 Год назад

I didn't like how he made her feel bad or immature for calling her Mom seeking advice.

@belindavandyke8363 Год назад

Me too! My daughter and I are super close, we work together, socialize together, talk all the time. She has every right to ask her moms advice. John got that one wrong!!

@nicolevaughn643 Год назад

@@belindavandyke8363 Yes...I'm 31 and I'm never going to stop calling my Mom for advice!

@LisaLisaCJ Год назад

It’s because it is her husbands business she is disclosing to her mom. Not her issues but someone else’s and her husbands family personal issues. Not her moms business

@nicolevaughn643 Год назад

@@LisaLisaCJ but if he is disclosing that information so non chalantly and didn't ask for secrecy, then she has every right because he is an adult. Either way, it's out there for everyone to know now.

@brooklove90 Год назад

@@belindavandyke8363I don't know all the details of your life but from an observational perspective, that's actually an unhealthy amount of closeness and togetherness.

@awesomeninja9433 Год назад

I completely agree with John about the mom. Clearly this girl's mom is not very smart because she didn't even have enough sense to protect her daughter by telling her to leave that disgusting, pedophilic relationship she is in, where she has to deal with perverted step-kids the same age as her.

@laneyluneva 11 месяцев назад

Like father, like son in disturbing sexual behavior! No wonder he didn't react, she's blaming "PTSD" but we all know..

@boxelder9147 11 месяцев назад

Weird behavior/circumstance/whatever but hardly pedophilic. Lol

@abark 8 месяцев назад

LOL. She's a grown woman. WTH are you talking about.

@kat7047 5 месяцев назад

She’s an adult so you need to look up pedophilic.

@awesomeninja9433 3 месяца назад

And how old was she when they started dating? They've been married for 5.5 years. Meaning she was married when she was about 20 years old. This freak was in his high 30s potentially dating a teenager. That's pedophilic.

@JeromeStuartNicholsTube 2 месяца назад

Sex educator here: the primary issue is the step son EVER thinking that was something he should share with his family. This is a relatively common thing, but it is a deviance that will never been acceptable to the public. Why did he think it was OK??? The boundaries in this family are very bad.

@Pjj3125 Месяц назад

Incest is relatively common? And it’s fine, but telling people is the problem? I wouldn’t want you educating anyone about sex.

@cg741graf5 Год назад

Scary the amount of people in the comments that think incest is acceptable and no big deal…Jesus take the wheel. 😞

@kristenivory628 Год назад

Not incest if 2 males are just having sex with female

@emmaangelicahoo 9 месяцев назад

I think the confusion is that many of us think the brothers were just sharing the wife, not being sexual with each other. Incest is if the brothers were physically sexual with each other. Sexually attracted to each other and act on it. This seems to be a threesome where the focus was on the woman involved. In the spectrum of unhealthy and not appropriate, one is WAY greater than the other, but certainly both instances most people wouldn’t say is healthy or showcases good judgement. And one is certainly waaaayyy more messed up.

@LSSYLondon 4 месяца назад

The Borgias, Game of Thrones, House of Dragon...

@winniefindstheway 3 месяца назад

That still counts as incestuous... even if they don't do anything to eachother... @@emmaangelicahoo

@lalaa555 3 месяца назад

@@winniefindstheway no, it doesn't. They didn't interact with each other, just watched. It's like saying you are gay if you watch p*rn because you watch a man with a woman. It's about the woman.

@elonr1018 Год назад

He called their story a country song 🎶 😂😂😂😂 so true.

@peaceful525 Год назад

Sounds more like a rap song to me.

@thulisilemlotshwa7917 2 месяца назад

No matter how old you are, calling your mum for advice isn't shocking, even 40 year old woman call their 60 year old moms, Doc nothing shocks me with your answers,you always Luke warm with your answers.😢

@stunningbeaute1037 4 месяца назад

So, her calling her mom is childish but calling a show broadcasted on the internet is fine???

@LauraLParr Год назад

The first step of managing this situation is a shot of tequila 😭😭😂

@belizegal29 Год назад

😹😹😹😹😹😹

@andrewheffel3565 Год назад

Maybe the husband needs a slap in the face.

@agirlinjeans77 Год назад

hahaha the best

@donnakreye8339 Год назад

Oh yah….probably like 3.

@mlokole254 Год назад

I'm thinking a bottle?

@kekejefferson9219 Год назад

I hollered when she said, she had a FB poll!!! 😂😂🤣

@Laura-rg5hc Год назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@KatieBellino 11 месяцев назад

I can't believe she did that. She aired a lot of dirty laundry on FB. Also met her much older husband that way...she's an immature social media addict.

@nychris2258 3 месяца назад

People under 30 are useless

@amberdeterman5815 Год назад

I don't have a mom i could talk to but i hope my daughters feel comfortable coming to me for advice. Im unclear why she shouldn't talk to her mom

@rebeccabamford5505 5 месяцев назад

Is the son telling his “step mom”this because he’d like to try it with her?

@firstname7470 3 месяца назад

That's what I got out of this whole episode. He was testing her boundaries with her reaction. If she had said "cool." He would have taken that as open season.

@jameswalker5645 Год назад

Her husband doesn't want to deal with this, she seems to be handling incest and adultery just fine..

@mizzzlicia1832 Год назад

It's not adultery if they are all into it. It's incest if he's tapping the brother but if not it's just a threesome with dubious partners. That's probably the mental train going on for the dad

@Nothanks935 Год назад

And the doc shamed her🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

@deniseeugene1852 3 месяца назад

The dad knows that sex was going On between the brothers ..

@GolfDuff Год назад

She did a Facebook poll on it.... She IS acting like a child😂

@xxxxxxxxx1652 Год назад

she is 26, got married when she was 21, what do you expect? lol

@KatieBellino 11 месяцев назад

@@xxxxxxxxx1652 Exactly and met the much older husband on social media. She's not exactly the epitome of good judgement.

@hollyhodgson7253 14 дней назад

Mr Melony never disappoints with his blunt honesty 🙌

@cherylberk4593 4 месяца назад

Run, Bridget, Run! This is generational and SICK!

@edwardberrocal7266 Год назад

She called the wrong show. JERRY, JERRY, JERRY, JERRY.

@nildabridgeman8104 Год назад

Or Richard Bey 🎊🎉

@livingonhighvibe 3 месяца назад

Maury or Wilkos. RIP Jerry.

@luannkelly5071 Год назад

She needs to set some boundaries with everyone. This family is a total package. It will get worse. She needs to separate and get counseling.

@curious6379 Месяц назад

I hope that any of my adult children will approach me with any problems they deal with. Until I die, I'll be their sounding board, their anchor, and support.

@alihall676 7 месяцев назад

I’m thinking of the following quote: “the way he does some things is the way he does everything!”

@dddnegre Год назад

Of course they told her with the hope she will want to partake!!! 😂😂😂

@SarahR2D2 Год назад

I didn't even make it that far 🤣🤣🤣

@arc3337 Год назад

🤐🤐🤐🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@mariahconklin4150 Год назад

Theirs actually horror movie where everyone body comes together and they have sex but they attatch it's so weird. It's called The Society I believe and it kind of reminds me of this...I feel like they are trying to get others to join. If anything you should really watch that movie it's so bizarre.I can't explain it but it reminds me of some creepy gang bang. Nasty.

@ASouthernBoyCanSurvive Год назад

absolutely 100% right. He was hoping she would join in

@nailatiylluf 11 месяцев назад

My first thought is I doubt a guy who’s ok with borderline incest (we don’t know if he actually had sex with his brother) isn’t into the stepmom category as well. He moved in and she’s the same age like come on.

@Guitarlvr01 Год назад

There was no reason to share this with them. I’m having a hard time understanding why he thought they needed to know.

@alittlepieceofearth Год назад

Right?

@LisaLisaCJ Год назад

He wants to include the stepmom 😂

@Guitarlvr01 Год назад

@@vickih5405 no, he didn’t have remorse and mentioned it very casually!

@TATCHIE28 Год назад

Maybe he wants to have a ‘FithSome’🤷🏽‍♀️

@jazinegrrrl Год назад

@@LisaLisaCJ Yep. He's on a fishing expedition by doing a temperature check to gauge how the stepmom will react. It's so obvious he's going to make a pass at her. I pray he doesn't because her pathetic husband won't do anything to protect her from his sexually deviant son.

@michelemiletich7540 14 дней назад

the fact that he felt comfortable enough to tell his dad and step mom , shows his demented life personality ,and his brother and wife too.

@patriot-hj5vx Месяц назад

John, i'm a 32 year old woman and i call my mother for advice. This is normal. She's not my "mommy" - she's a woman who has seen the world and lived enough to guide me better than i can guide myself at times. And judging by the comments others are roasting you as well.

@SQUELCH-zj7il Год назад

I suspect that the father may have abused the boys when they were younger. He already has a proclivity for young people and he has showed little bother to the sons activity. Something definitely ain't right here

@Jblkal82 4 месяца назад

I was thinking the same thing. Any normal father would flip out if his son told him that he was having sex with his brother and his wife.

@7somekindofsomething Год назад

Damn I didn’t like how condescending Dr John was here. Just poking fun at the lady struggling with something.

@WalburgisLuppus 2 месяца назад

I really hope anyone who comes across this video will really listen carefully to this dialoge and the advice John gives, rather than thinking he is missing the point or being critical of the caller. He offers so much insight it requires watching this video more than once to unpack it all. Appreciate this man and his approach so so much!

@cassandrab474 3 месяца назад

hot take but i don't think it's weird to call your mom. i'm a woman and i'm 28 and married and i call my mom about things in my life just bc we are close. i don't need her to solve all my problems or anything, we even live in different states but i do ask her for advice on things and use her as a confidant because i trust her. i don't think that's childish but maybe that's just me lol

@anthonylozano8035 Год назад

“Without God, everything is permitted” -Dostoyevsky This is where our culture is headed

@MrBrewman95 Год назад

The Bible, the word of God, has a lot of fucked up things in it. Don’t think that is the problem.

@rosx3245 Год назад

God has nothing to do with ethics. This is something that parents must model for their children

@anthonylozano8035 Год назад

@@rosx3245 You do realize our ethics were derived from Judeo-Christian teachings don't you? It's not Greco-Roman. Its purely Judeo-Christian

@alstroemeria227again4 Год назад

@@rosx3245 Where did your parents get their ethics from?

@bad_anima Год назад

lol if you need a higher power to tell you that having a threesome with your brother and his wife is not okay, I am seriously concerned about you

@aswithinsowithout Год назад

This “family” is a train wreck.

@johnengelbrechtnyjets Месяц назад

😂😂😂

@denisemcclain6416 Месяц назад

I called my mom for advice till the day she died. Matter of fact, she lived next door to my husband and I and we both had an amazing relationship with her. Our elders can have some great insight.

@nyc4233 2 месяца назад

What will happen is that her husband will resent her for trying to split him with her son! The son will also hate her! She will end up alone! There is no way the Husband will just give up on his own child! I think he's misleading her here!

@TheCinnamondemon Год назад

I dont really get how asking your mother for advice is childish or how she's treating her husband as her dad..

@lilkimmy34567 Год назад

Lol. That part got to me as well. As a grown woman who talks to her mother every other day, I would definitely have run to the phone to talk to her about this

@nina4941 Год назад

Let this be a lesson to all you young people. Never date a creeper, I mean person, off FB. Or from anywhere on social media. Not safe!!

@simongervais9302 Месяц назад

3:55 isn't her confiding and seeking advice from her mom totally normal and pretty healthy? it's a common thing for women

@deanaburnham9571 Месяц назад

Yep. 26 yr olds need to grow up and one way is seeking mom's wisdom! Dr Daloney was brilliant in his advice and his spontaneous reaction was an example to the young woman of how a wholesome person with godly values would react and then reason. The young woman needs both her mom and friends in their 20s who will share wisdom and truth. Daloney is aware that as long as the young wife leans to heavily on Mom, she will keep acting and feeling like a child. I get it. But the young woman needs to grow up and still seek advice from Mom and other godly wise women. It's late. Forgive me if I started rambling. 😊

@xXBRgamesXx Месяц назад

That’s some stuff you don’t share with your parents, and parents with their children.

@deanaburnham9571 Месяц назад

@@xXBRgamesXxIn backward families you might not. But in families who are at least growing in the right direction, then, yes, you most certainly can share this information and receive some of the most thoughtful insights you'll get anywhere if the parent is wise, mature and has some education or good old fashioned "smarts." The young wife who called Daloney was right to talk to her mom, and at the same time needs to develop some wholesome friendships as well. If she fails to find some wise and well informed female friends she will miss out on important personal development and remain feeling like a child.

@irhonda31 4 месяца назад

A friend of mine told me of a saying, “The way you do one thing is the way you do everything.” It’s so true!

@carolallison9685 Год назад

Her husband married a woman half his age, and raised 2 brothers who had an incestuous encounter, and her husband didnt make a big deal out of it. Um what is wrong with this man? Why is she not getting divorced? Why is she not trying to figure out if illegal, abusive things happened? Studies have shown siblings have a natural repulsion towards one another. Most siblings who engage in incest were abused by a family member. Considering this man seems to have no problems with it, shows me who the abuser was.

@ncrob391 Год назад

Did she say the brothers had sex with each other too? Or did they each have sex with the wife? Only the former would be incest. Nonetheless, still perverse.

@Imissnormal Год назад

Hope she doesn't plan on having kids with him.

@athens31415 Год назад

💯

@mv7374 Год назад

I don't think it was wrong or immature for her to call her mom for advice. He made it seem as if she was running to her mom at every turn. There was a clear bias on his side when she revealed there was an age difference in the marriage.

@ershiafrancois3571 Год назад

Agreed. We should be able to seek out our parent's advice and wisdom at any age. My mom is 57 and still would float things by my grandma who is 89.

@Matt-cr4vv 11 месяцев назад

Because she hasn’t dekostrated any backbone of values she will take a stand for nor was she able to communicate with her husband and let him brush her away like a child and has immediately gone to mom over and over. Consoling your parents isn’t wrong but it’s a concern if they’re your first reaction over pushing your husband who is supposed to be your partner to have an actual discussion on this.

@eljoshsfgaming6335 4 месяца назад

Go to like 9:30 he kinda hints about why it’s a problem that she runs to her mom. The problem isn’t that she talks to her mom, it’s that she asks her mom on what to do because she can’t make decisions for herself. It’s why she married someone who could be her father’s age. She knew what the son said to them was wrong, and when the dad wouldn’t say anything, she didn’t go and tell him that’s wrong. She ran to her mom for advice, even when she knows it’s wrong. I’ll put it like this, if you need to tell your boss you can’t make it into work tomorrow, would you first go tell your mom that you can’t go into work tomorrow? No, you tell your boss because they’re the ones relevant to the situation. Instead of just running to her mom about what happened, she should’ve told her husband to address the situation, and if he continues to refuse then she needs to address it herself like a grown woman. Not go to mommy for advice when the answer is staring her right in the face.

@rebeccahicks2392 2 месяца назад

@@eljoshsfgaming6335 Asking advice isn't the same as not being able to make decisions.

@eljoshsfgaming6335 2 месяца назад

@@rebeccahicks2392 it is when you can’t make a decision on something that is very obvious. It’s like she’s searching for validation on her feelings instead of doing what she knows is right. It’s incredibly immature if someone needs reassurance on every decision they make in life

@BLANKU2 Год назад

Don't WASTE your life on a man twice your age with his adult children and their perversions. Leave before you have children like stat. No one in their right mind thinks thats normal on any level.L.E.A.V.E... asap.

@westhamaremassive8099 2 месяца назад

Idk what’s wrong with calling you’re mum for advice you’re mum and dad are the best person to ask advice from in my opinion

@libbylee9-997 Год назад

I'm the friend everyone comes to for advise. They never listen to me and do stupid degrading garbage that messes with their lives. I get my advice from my mom and dad and my parents have never steered me wrong. Friends are gonna do whatever they want. Older people tend to be more wise Doc.