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For over five years, Bernardo has been an integral part of creating memories and filming our adventures together. Sadly, he needed to leave for a while, and in this video, I'll be sharing more details about that and what's next for us.
Throughout it all, I've come to realize that love is love, no matter your sexual orientation, with love and support, nothing can stand in the way. It's going to be very difficult to continue creating these videos without him. I thank you for this wonderful community on here and for your love and support.
Love you all and see you in the next video,
Adam
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Who are we?
We are Adam (North American) and Bernardo (Brazilian) and we are husbands whose paths crossed back in 2016, when we both still lived in Brazil. Since the very beginning, we shared a common passion for travel and nature, which has only grown over the years and led us to this unexpected journey on RU-vid, which has allowed us to connect with an amazing community that we’re beyond grateful for. “Go out and make memories” is our motto of living and a constant reminder for us that true happiness doesn’t come from the material wealth we accumulate, but from the memories we create and share with our loved ones throughout our existence. We invite you to join us in our crazy journey in life and hopefully we can inspire you to go out and make some memories on your own. Welcome aboard!

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@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
I just wanted to thank you all for being here and feel free to give me some video ideas/suggestions. I just can't believe how many memories we've made here during these 5 years here on RU-vid. We are grateful for you and can't wait to continue creating more memories. Love you :)
@andraeneal9134
@andraeneal9134 Год назад
Stay strong 💪 Adam! Thank you for sharing apart of ur life with us! We will always support ❤️ you !
@juliusdixon898
@juliusdixon898 Год назад
Stay strong Adam. You and B are going to make it to the other Side of this. Same to B stay strong and y’all will make it
@Droolingmutt
@Droolingmutt Год назад
We love you Adam. 💙 I hope Bernardo stays safe and I hope you take care of yourself. Maybe a suggestion for a video if you're comfortable: a self care day. Have an entire day to yourself where you do things that bring you joy and peace of mind. Whether it's sight seeing, visiting coffee shops, buy plants, or even just staying at home to cook and meditate. 💙💙 Stay strong, and know your Step Family is here for you.
@fairyflatfoot7097
@fairyflatfoot7097 Год назад
Sending you both love and positivity ❤
@user-vv2ct5yl8h
@user-vv2ct5yl8h Год назад
​@@DroolingmuttThey broke up I didn't lose
@abidsalim6183
@abidsalim6183 Год назад
Advice for all : if you find a sincere, kind and caring man.. don't let him go, they are fewwwww in this world.
@NKO_lindo
@NKO_lindo Год назад
but don't force them to but with you either, kind men don't deserve to be forced into something they're not willing to participate in
@abidsalim6183
@abidsalim6183 Год назад
@@NKO_lindo not forcing just by being good to him, not treating him like a property like he is kind.. he is in my pocket.... he will not leave me.... and if yo understand that you will be able to save a relationship
@NKO_lindo
@NKO_lindo Год назад
@@abidsalim6183 i understand but that's like the bare minimum
@eltio21
@eltio21 Год назад
Chain him to the bed u mean
@giannishen
@giannishen Год назад
There is a saying: True love is invincible, as long as two people love each other, no difficulty can be overcome! I feel Bernardo is a great guy and I like him too! Take care of yourself first and wait for Bernardo to come back! Regardless, the fans will continue to support you! 🥰👌
@heinrichvisser8518
@heinrichvisser8518 Год назад
Let him take a break from social media, go on a second honeymoon and come back stronger. Time to reconnect in your relationship. Love you guys from South Africa. Stay strong. You love each other unconditionally.
@amdew717
@amdew717 Год назад
Second honeymoon. 🤣🤣🤣 How about 32nd?
@benny1958
@benny1958 Год назад
You're so right. As long as they get back together. Stronger and appreciative.
@giancarlopia1404
@giancarlopia1404 Год назад
Thank you for being so authentic snd open with us; sending love and strength to you both; wishing you each happiness in this chapter of your lives
@nickmiller5744
@nickmiller5744 Год назад
So Bernardo wants to take a break from a social media? Fine.. As long as you guys will not break up I love both of you So please stay together ❤ Bernardo if you are reading this please come back I love your voice in a videos
@indyrach8816
@indyrach8816 Год назад
What happened
@indyrach8816
@indyrach8816 Год назад
Apa yang terjadi sebenarnya ???
@deonterwagne9949
@deonterwagne9949 Год назад
@@indyrach8816 keknya mau putus
@mjcigar
@mjcigar Год назад
Here's a thought don't add to the pressure that is causing the bullshit for them both...
@iqtanmendro9549
@iqtanmendro9549 Год назад
@@deonterwagne9949 bukan putus, tapi Benardo memutuskan berhenti bermain sosial media. Itu doang kok 😘
@Beachbum190
@Beachbum190 Год назад
Sending prayers and love! Thank you for all that you share with us!
@reemalhameli4563
@reemalhameli4563 Год назад
Adam I want to thank you for being real & showing your vulnerabilities which is actually a sign of strength & not a weakness at all. I found your channel at a time when I was at the brink of a burn out. I was feeling really stressed and couldn't find an outlet. I don't remember how, but I came by one of your videos one night when I couldn't sleep. I started watching one video after another & before I knew it I have been binge watching your videos for 3 days straight. Your videos helped clear my head & really brought me peace...I finally felt like I stopped falling into this darkness I was heading towards & was able to breathe again. Watching you & Bernardo simply living your life & going through what you were going through really helped me put some perspective into my life. It wasn't necessarily a specific video or specific event..just watching your beautifully produced videos and listening to your soothing voices put me in a trance..I was finally able to relax, clear my head & regroup. Thank you..truly thank you to you and Bernardo. I wish you are able to find the peace you have given me 😊 I love you both and will wait for you as long as it takes. Take good care of yourselves and always be happy and healthy 💖
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
Reem, what a beautiful comment you left us, thank you ❤. We are so glad to hear that our videos helped you through your darkness. It's always nice to hear how our videos have helped people through a tough time in their lives because filming and editing have allowed us to put our emotions into these videos whether we are going through a dark moment or going through some moments of joy. We love you as well, even through we do not know you we feel like we are a part of you because we have helped each other. Your comment has helped me see that these videos do mean something to people. For that, thank you. I hope to see you in the next video. Until then, be kind to yourself :)
@Preppie-thirty
@Preppie-thirty Год назад
Oh no, he's such a natural on Camera, we'll all miss his genuine laugh, whatever is going on, you guys will get past it, he needs you to be stong for him, give him the time he needs , sending love and support❤
@finiteionews
@finiteionews Год назад
If you love someone let them go, set them free on their journey; you never know, they may one day return! 🕊️
@finiteionews
@finiteionews Год назад
…LOVE conquers ALL today, tomorrow and beyond! 💜 | Anthony Aaron
@peteford2434
@peteford2434 Год назад
Time apart is a good thing in all relationships. You can't miss somebody if they never go away! It makes us appreciate the time together even more.
@Sunlife568hhggf
@Sunlife568hhggf 2 месяца назад
Such publications are made for money, people are deceived, the young generation is caught in this fire. In order to become a family, men and women must be and love each other. Let's react to these publications and protect the family.
@oldsouthpaw
@oldsouthpaw Год назад
Glad to know you're still hanging in as a couple through this trying time of change! I would like to see a video of you touring the town in which you guys live, exploring the place, eating out, checking out the local attractions, show us why you chose that place to live!
@MalOuston
@MalOuston Год назад
Bernardo always came across as a beautiful human being, seeing his beautiful smile was like a ray of sunshine, thank you both for the journey, and best wishes for your future in whatever you do either individually or together.
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
Mal, he is 3x more beautiful human being in person than in the videos you see. I'm beyond grateful that our paths crossed in Brazil. Thank you for being here.
@davidlogan4329
@davidlogan4329 Год назад
@@Stepsof2Foreigners love him to bits dear Adam.
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
For sure I will David.
@homeboyDIY
@homeboyDIY Год назад
As sad as I am to know that Bernardo will not be in the videos for a while, I am happy that he's choosing himself for once and Adam Stay Strong. Everything's going to be alright. ❤ Love to the both of you💕 XOXO.
@mjanthoe7562
@mjanthoe7562 Год назад
Be strong Adam!!! And please… please always support whatever Bernardo doing for him self!!! I know you two can through this❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@aiueo_aiueo1310
@aiueo_aiueo1310 Год назад
You are lucky to have each other. Creating memories. Meanwhile out there many are being alone, getting old and lonely.
@sandraromeira5278
@sandraromeira5278 Год назад
Adam se você quer continuar com os vídeos estaremos aqui pra apoiá- lo sempre. Bernardo precisa de um tempo assim como você também precisou quando estava na recuperação. Tenho certeza que um dia ele estará pronto pra voltar novamente. Continue dando apoio ao Bernardo. Agora mais que nunca ele precisa do seu amor e compreensão. Bjos.
@danyelsouza7839
@danyelsouza7839 Год назад
Oiee, fiquei nuito tempo longe e fiquei perdido,o que acotneceu?
@cristina1979brazil
@cristina1979brazil Год назад
@@danyelsouza7839 O Bernardo precisou tirar um tempo do canal para se cuidar. Os últimos anos foram muito desafiadores para ele por ter perdido o pai para Covid, dar apoio ao Adam durante as crises mentais e ainda estar exposto nas redes sociais. Foi a melhor decisão, pois ele precisou ser forte para o Adam e agora precisa ter um tempo para ele descansar, sem pressão do canal.
@marcos-ll2yr
@marcos-ll2yr Год назад
@@cristina1979brazil é impressão que deu, que eles estão em crise, porque Adam interrompeu o video normal e estava chorando, estou muito confuso. Espero que eles consigam superar isso juntos
@liramarie4824
@liramarie4824 Год назад
​@@marcos-ll2yreu tomei um susto no início, achei que tinha acontecido algo grave com o Bernardo. Ainda bem que não.
@cristina1979brazil
@cristina1979brazil Год назад
@@marcos-ll2yr Também tive a mesma impressão que acabou impactando a relação deles. Talvez isso explique por que os dois não fizeram o anúncio juntos que o Bernardo iria se ausentar. Espero que eles possam superar esse momento, pois eles transparecem se amar muito.
@jamesjr2006
@jamesjr2006 Год назад
😮 OMG! 😰 I thought the worst, when I got the notification. 🙏 Stay strong, Adam! 🥲 You guys have been such a huge inspiration to me, and so many others, and I pray that Bernardo begins to find himself; his inner peace. ✌️ God bless u guys, and stay strong!!!
@indyrach8816
@indyrach8816 Год назад
please translete in to indonesian 🙏
@what_tha_what
@what_tha_what Год назад
Dear A&B, you have what so many of us wish we had! Don't stop with the physical fitness, it's the mate to be mentally fit. Your army is 500k strong and growing, you've got this! I will not give up supporting you both! ❤️
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
How sweet! Thank you. Yes, we are very grateful that we are able to share our love and to be able to express our love freely. Bug hugs to you.
@mangokiwiorange
@mangokiwiorange Год назад
I have been watching your videos for years, happily subscribed. The vibe in your videos has always been wholesome and heartwarming to me. Love the editing style, the songs you choose. It's clear you have put alot of work in, its been entertaining to watch! The both of you, this channel, have been inspiring to me that, that I too one day, will find a love like that two of you! I have suffered depression and anxiety throughout my life, but your videos have always brought a smile to my face - truly! You have unknowingly helped me return from several depressive spirals and for that, you have my sincerest thanks. You two have a light that shines through your camera lense, to our screens - and it's been a joy and a privilege to have been able to see you on your journey together. That said, as we all know, life can be difficult, social media unforgiving and people cruel (thankfully not the majority!) But these things take their toll on us all, chip away at us, and just like with any work and vacation, we need a break to clear minds, reset, refocus and retune ourselves - mentally, physically, emotionally, even spiritually sometimes. Anyone who has ever needed a break from something for any reason, can empathise and rightly be non-judgemental for this change. It is crucial for the mind and the body and for relationships to look after ourselves and each other. Despite this difficult time, I hope that you both can heal, recover and realign, and strengthen with new resolve together. Whether this channel continues or not, just know you have entertained and inspired so many of us and I for one, wish you both nothing but the best! ❤🏳️‍🌈
@jethrojackson2524
@jethrojackson2524 Год назад
Adam, life is not just an endless road trip/honeymoon. Yes, you created great memories on your adventures. I personally feel you guys should have set roots somewhere. Benardo stood by you through ALL your issues. Bless his beautiful soul.
@jamillikan
@jamillikan Год назад
Bernardo, you are loved by all of us. Please don't throw this love away. You're too precious.
@ElliotJCohen-ds6be
@ElliotJCohen-ds6be Год назад
Thank you for the update. Sending Both of You ongoing good wishes and supportive thoughts.
@josuevera1922
@josuevera1922 Год назад
I grew up from a teenager to a young adult watching you two on RU-vid. I would always tell myself “ I want a love like what they have “. I feel like I am part of your break and I am crying so much watching this. I love you both and wish you all the love in the world 😢❤
@anthonynkurt
@anthonynkurt Год назад
Happy for Bernardo. I would not want my relationship aired to the entire world either. Relying on social media for an income is not a smart investment in a relationship in my opinion.
@sarojdas8883
@sarojdas8883 Год назад
Hello
@user-fj6hu7vq3d
@user-fj6hu7vq3d Месяц назад
Life is too short just go out and have fun and be safe and be careful
@ken9720
@ken9720 Год назад
Honestly, taking time for your relationship is way more important than making a video every week, 2 weeks , etc. I'm glad you can be there for Bernardo as he takes the time he needs to realign his own thoughts. Family > than anything.
@jbart5260
@jbart5260 Год назад
JMO- seems you need to create a self without social media. Social Media seems to be the instrument that got you two in this place. SOcial Media is not real life. It is a manufactured realty. It also can be a distraction from looking at yourself, truthfully
@ken9720
@ken9720 Год назад
it seems that making videos could have become a new 'addiction' instead of a healthy hobby. Just a thought.
@omarijoseph3189
@omarijoseph3189 Год назад
yup good point.
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
Ken, I totally agree and that's why we have been posting videos once or twice a month. Bernardo has encouraged me to continue while he goes on some solo trips by himself. I'm here supporting him 100%.
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
Creating videos is definitely not a new 'addiction'. If that were the case, you'd be watching more videos from us. For me, it's the creative aspect and Bernardo has enjoyed filming and editing as well. It's not like he hated it, he found a way to connect to the creative part in him.
@oscartorres-su8zx
@oscartorres-su8zx Год назад
Amor y luz para que sus caminos sigan unidos, fortalézcanse tanto como lo han mostrado desde el primer video 🌈🙌🏾
@theshadowboxer
@theshadowboxer Год назад
I have never met you guys but today... after being subscribed for a while, Bernardo's recent announcement and then this come up. I applaud you both for being individuals but together. For realizing the differences but being able to connect and add to each other's lives. Thank you for being so open with sharing. It really helped me today.
@c2f0g1a
@c2f0g1a Год назад
Adam, another opportunity for self-discovery . . . for both of you. You've got this, my friend. 👍
@emsman69
@emsman69 Год назад
Being vulnerable is not weakness, it shows the strength you have to overcome life’s challenges. Allowing Bernardo to find himself is a gift of love. Be there for him as he has been for you. Everyone needs a break from things at some point or another. Just help him find his way back to you! Wishing you peace and love!
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
Thank you for your kind comment. I agree that it's not a weakness but whomever may watch it could see it as a weakness and I'm learning that it's okay. I know that putting myself out there that there are going to be people who disagree with what I'm saying. I have had a wonderful teacher of how to be there for someone so now I'm anxious and excited to be there for him. Thank you for the peace and love and I'm sending you that right back to you. *Big hugs.*
@davidmills9015
@davidmills9015 Год назад
​@@Stepsof2Foreigners I'm here to give you my support to you
@davidmills9015
@davidmills9015 Год назад
​@@Stepsof2Foreigners I love you
@darrylb9872
@darrylb9872 Год назад
I've been with you two since the beginning. Those statistics cannot begin to measure the meaning and joy that you both have brought into our lives. You have unwittingly healed many souls by sharing some of your life with us. I wish you both the best. Thank you for being you and sharing a bit with us. Love you,🌜to the moon and back🌛.
@lumarlucena2384
@lumarlucena2384 Год назад
So much love! I will always be supporting your love! It is just a phase in life and we will see you guys together again. Beijos!!
@garmo98
@garmo98 Год назад
My heart hurts for both of you, but I know this will only serve to make you stronger as a couple. I've never thought of either of you without the other, so I fully expect to see you together again here in the future. Here's a mental hug to each of you.
@kevincollins53
@kevincollins53 Год назад
Adam, Just know how much you are loved. You and Bernardo WILL get through this. We, your Steps Family, are here for you always.💙💙
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
Hello Kevin, thank you :). We will get through this. I'm excited for him to go on this journey.
@TravisPluss
@TravisPluss Год назад
Social media can cause a lot of mental health problems. Take a break from social media and let Bernardo decide on his own if/when he wants to pick it up again. It's very empowering when we have the opportunity to make decisions for ourselves without social pressure. For yourself: go take long outdoor walks/hikes, do yoga, and go to a quiet sauna to meditate on your feelings.
@juanlincolnoliveira8601
@juanlincolnoliveira8601 Год назад
Força meninos! Eu entendo a necessidade de ter tempo para si e pausa das redes sociais... Planejei uma pausa de 1 mês, acabou sendo três anos. E foi a melhor decisão que fiz. Atualmente uso o whatsapp e RU-vid. E está tudo bem :). A vida ganha um outro sentido. Sorte a todos, que como o menino Bernardo, eu e tantos outros, estão por esse mundão de Deus, na busca de si. Estamos junto.
@andrethomas2513
@andrethomas2513 Год назад
Hi Adam & Bernardo. I wasn't going to write anything but before I lose the opportunity of thanking you two for what you've done for me, I thought I might do it today. I started watching you guys in 2018, I admired your love for each other and the adventures you took. I felt like I went on every journey with you across the world. It was only months later that I was struck with the worst case of depression. I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep, I just didn't want to exist anymore. By the time January 2019 came around, my life changed forever, and I sank so deep in depression I saw no way out. At this point I wanted to take my life. I struggled for the entire 2019 trying to find support or the will to carry on. I couldn't find either. That's when watching your videos started to give me a glimmer of hope. To see your happiness thrive. In a foreign country where I had no family no friends, Stepsof2foreigners change my downward trajectory and I started to see the light at the end of the tunnel. You 2 may never understand the significance of your videos, and how it saved my life. Had it not been for your videos I wouldn't be here today. I came from a place so dark I never knew I could stand here today, and you (Adam & Bernardo) are the heroes behind my story. I love you both and I appreciate every content you put out for us to see. Keep going we are all here for you. Take your time, breathe, and as time rush along always remember the love you have for each other stays right by your side. I love you both. Keep strong!
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
Andre, what a touching comment and thank you so much for sharing that with us/me. I want to say that I'm so glad that you are here and I will have to say that you will have NO IDEA how much it meant to me reading your comment. My mind has been focused on the few negative comments I've received on here (some have been quite harsh, which I knew I would receive so I tried to mentally prepare myself for it.). This is the first comment that I have read from the video that has shared what our videos have done for them and how they have helped you when you needed them. I have to say that your comment came when I needed it. I hope that you are getting the help you need whether it be with a therapist or sharing with a friend your struggles. You are here for a purpose so if you ever feel like you aren't suppose to be here, just remember that you have a purpose. I think we both know how dark those places can be and I'm just so proud that you were able to get out of that darkness without a Bernardo so you are INCREDIBLY STRONG. I admire you for pulling yourself out. thank you Andre for being here with us and for your light. The world needs more people like you... keep shining bright.
@tiakookie8876
@tiakookie8876 Год назад
O que aconteceu
@stevenf7591
@stevenf7591 Год назад
André! That is a beautiful testimony to Adam and Bernardo, willing to share quite publicly the love they have for each other. They show us everything (more or less); as we say in English, “warts and all”. I am so happy that you are here. Love to you, sweet André and May you be protected by the Spirit of Love and Life. 🏳️‍🌈😘💕❤️🏳️‍🌈 Steven
@adrianojesus9465
@adrianojesus9465 Год назад
@@Stepsof2Foreigners Adam, just forget the bad reviews. You can take into account the ones that are constructive feedback about something to improve your video, but negative things about what/who you are and about your relationship with Bernardo just don't mind them. Be positive, okay.
@tresvon
@tresvon Год назад
Yeah, I would have to agree with Andre. My husband stumbled upon your videos a few years ago when dealing with cancer. It was nice traveling with you all and experiencing things out here and I could not at the time. He hasn’t gone on to bigger and better things leaving me here, physically solo. I have fallen into that same deep depression mentioned by Andre I’m. Every time my notification goes off and I see your true faces with a new video. It gives me power to move towards my goals again. And I would do anything to be able to go back and experience his physical presence. So I say to you thank you for all the power that you’ve given to me and I share it back to you! If your husband needs to take a break, share that with him. Embraces his needs just as he did for you. Love him and everything will be okay. You boys got this. XO ~ Drew
@stacyfausnaugh9217
@stacyfausnaugh9217 Год назад
You, Adam and Bernardo, are in my prayers. I know you guys will get through this, so please stay strong.
@rayboncbonnerjr3366
@rayboncbonnerjr3366 Год назад
Happy to hear that you two are still together. Let him find his way and give him space, it'll make for a stronger union. Love you guys! ❤️
@joeserrano2266
@joeserrano2266 Год назад
Stay positive my friend. The life you’ve built with B is beautiful. Don’t lose that essence just grow through it. 🥰🥰
@harreeveeshnuvarma7743
@harreeveeshnuvarma7743 Год назад
I wish I was there with you Adam and give you a shoulder and give you hugs ❤....Stay strong 💪🏼 ❤
@steveb6557
@steveb6557 Год назад
OMG i have been in tears over this. Adam my heartfelt love and thoughts go out to you both. Stay strong, you can do this. Love to you both from the UK ❤
@arturocisnerosespinoza5148
@arturocisnerosespinoza5148 Год назад
Adam y Bernardo gracias por compartir lo que están pasando y decirles que se les quiere y todo va estar mejor
@ricktomlinson5481
@ricktomlinson5481 Год назад
Love you Adam and Bernardo and please know that my prayers with positive energy will surround you both. Keep the faith and stay positive! All will be well! 😍❤🙏
@mikekelly1151
@mikekelly1151 Год назад
** I could not help but crying myself during this video. We all miss Bernardo so much but are going to be with you both for the long haul. You did really well with this video Adam. I know it must have been really hard for you to do. Don't worry about the frequency of creating new videos. Whenever you can, do so but the main focus needs to be you taking care of Bernardo and supporting him like he has always supported you. We have been so privileged to be a part of your lives. Love you both so much you will never know how much. Hang in there as we will with you. 😂 **
@kevintierney3542
@kevintierney3542 Год назад
Tears of relief for Bernardo Tears of sadness for Adam. We all need to take breaks to find ourselves again.They will be 100% again.
@stefcote1969
@stefcote1969 Год назад
I agree with you Mike. They are together to take care of each other. It is time for Bernardo to have Adam’s total attention.
@arthurlodar6805
@arthurlodar6805 Год назад
wait Bernardo and Adam Broke up?
@ksagg2008
@ksagg2008 Год назад
@@arthurlodar6805 No! Bernardo has taken a break from social media.
@Stepsof2Foreigners
@Stepsof2Foreigners Год назад
Thank you Mike for being here with us and for your kind comment. You know that I will be there taking care of him, I had a wonderful teacher :). We have talked about this in our therapy session and with each other, he has encouraged me to continue. Obviously, I won't be posting videos every week but I'll keep going, for now. Of course, we are going to see how this is going to pan out. I am just so happy that he is pausing and taking some time for HIM. He deserves it and it's quite hard for him to think of himself.
@joselet3319
@joselet3319 Год назад
Sorry to hear, Adam. Thanks for sharing this. It is not easy being vulnerable in front of the camera. Stay strong! ❤️
@stephanelebegin5608
@stephanelebegin5608 Год назад
Merci pour tout les garçons vous avez été une source d’inspiration ça fait mal au cœur mais vous rebondirez vous êtes positifs personnes
@ricardoducosin6970
@ricardoducosin6970 Год назад
You’re both in my thoughts. I really hope everything works itself out, and you continue the beautiful married life you guys were building!
@jamieduncan421
@jamieduncan421 Год назад
Thank you Adam for your honest words. Social media can be such a drain in people but it has also allowed us to share moments of your life and how you are such excellent models as human beings. Take all the time you need Bernardo. Adam, stay strong! Many many thank you for your work!
@brianwarriner8826
@brianwarriner8826 Год назад
Prayers for Bernardo, and Adam sending energy to you. This is hard for both of you. You have a community behind you. You aren’t alone. I’m here for y’all.
@michelproulx1902
@michelproulx1902 Год назад
Thanks for this very special video! Deep introspection! It's inspiring!
@amgalanbaatar2082
@amgalanbaatar2082 Год назад
Your amazing works helped me to accept myself as who I am. I watched you guys for 5 years❤️ You two changed many lives. Thank you very much my friends ❤️
@liner2
@liner2 Год назад
I have always been praying for a Bernardo in my life. You must have done something awesome in your past life that you are rewarded with a Bernardo in this life time. Stay in love you two 😊
@Koshrocreations
@Koshrocreations Год назад
100% how I've felt since I watched them for so many years. I've always wanted a Bernardo.
@fotdcpc9393
@fotdcpc9393 Год назад
Very happy to hear your story and thank you for sharing with us. All of us are growing up in our own life. Our life are always up and down. What we need to do is to feel every moment of it. That’s the real life. Hugs and kisses ❤
@cls2rlm
@cls2rlm Год назад
You are both so smart to invest in each other’s happiness. This is what makes for an enduring and meaningful relationship. Hugs to both of you.
@croozerIII
@croozerIII Год назад
Thank you for this very lovely, honest sharing. I’m glad that you are on this side of recovery for yourself, and I do pray for Bernardo’s own personal journey in learning to take care of himself.
@dayleolson1203
@dayleolson1203 Год назад
Life can be hard sometimes. The two of you are strong people who love each other. That love makes all of the hard times doable. Wishing both of you nothing but happiness!
@JC0750
@JC0750 Год назад
Thank you for giving us an update and I hope y’all are okay. I can’t wait for the next video. Besos 😊
@johngolden891
@johngolden891 Год назад
Thanks for your great videos over the years. You and Bernardo have a wonderful half decade together and that can never be taken away. What your life-path(s) take in the future I wish you both happiness, success and fullfilment. Johnny🌈
@oussamazaidi5742
@oussamazaidi5742 Год назад
I understand the struggle you're so brave Adam to express your feelings with us we love you and we support you ❤
@jcq4sure
@jcq4sure Год назад
Baby steps Adam. You will be fine! It’s great that Bernardo is recognizing and taking a break and for you to support that. This is the part the community you guys built over the years can show support and help maintain the channel. I for one would like to see what it takes to make videos and create content maybe tips and tricks you have learned over the years. Stay strong get some labradorite ❤❤❤
@Craftydkk
@Craftydkk Год назад
I remember sending you Comment/s,in the Past. Be Strong Adam, their is more Greatness Deep in your Sole. Bernardo won't forget the Deep Love.. I lost my Partner going on 7 years ago., we were together for 30 years, 5 days. Your Sadness is True but, the Love still stands. You two did more Travel's than most look at in a Magazine. Never forget the fond time of Memories have kept me in check... In time, I feel you;ll be back together.. And, folks who Take time to Watch your Video, really need to Zip it... I left NYC and moved back to Minnesota. God Bless you both. Kind Regards....
@christophercavanaugh6437
@christophercavanaugh6437 Год назад
Crying my eyes out you’re being so strong Adam hang in there and I will continue to be your guises number one fan. Love you both stay safe.❤
@claudegauthier4261
@claudegauthier4261 Год назад
Just watched your latest video Adam and I have to admit that I cried all through it. I could feel your pain. Even if Bernardo is still with you, he is not sharing this video with you. Now you are the one who has to take care of him like he did for you in your darkest moments. We've always seen him as the strong one but I had a feeling that this would eventually happen but your love for each other will pull you through it. It will be tough as it was for him but you have shared so much together that it will come back eventually. We love you and we will be there to support you. Seeing you cry at the beginning of the video wrenched my gut. I don't cry often but this did it. Must be the father in me. Love you Adam and stay strong for Bernardo but also for yourself.
@zelmatatiana8752
@zelmatatiana8752 Год назад
Aguenta firme Adam nós vamos dar força e apoiar aos dois no que nós podermos, vocês são uma inspiração, um casal lindo e inspirador e pessoas maravilhosas♥️♥️ e que Deus ajude o Bernardo a encontrar a luz e paz que ele precisa porque Deus é amor e olha e cuida de Todos nós
@tplmic5866
@tplmic5866 Год назад
Thank you. You brought tears to my eyes. I love you both. And I hope to keep seeing you and Bernardo together sometime in the future. Thanks for being to honest. You get a big hug from me.
@brianmartin6016
@brianmartin6016 Год назад
BIG HUGS!!! Lots of love to you both! Hang in there and I look forward to your videos.
@SingerMJh
@SingerMJh Год назад
We’re here with you through it all - ups and downs. We all need to step away for a bit sometimes. Prayers, love, and happiness!
@jamillikan
@jamillikan Год назад
I so hope Bernardo is well and returns even better. You are both wonderful.
@llernoss7816
@llernoss7816 Год назад
You made me cry today. Sending love from Prince Edward Island CANADA 🇨🇦😥
@quebec3973
@quebec3973 Год назад
Be Happy Gentleman 😊 You both are loved by your fans.❤
@ZukAniFan
@ZukAniFan Год назад
You guys got this!! Good luck Bernardo! As it’s said, “you do you”… your mental health is paramount! Everything else comes later. You guys have so much support! More than you realize! I know that Bernardo will get through this! Adam, you totally have his back, and we have yours!
@cameronfilipowicz7308
@cameronfilipowicz7308 Год назад
This is the first comment I have ever made on one of your videos but this video really inspired me to say something. I have been watching your videos since the beginning, since I was 15, closeted, and felt guilty for watching videos about a “gay” couple. I’m 20 now and was brave enough to come out to my loved ones and pursue a relationship with a man that I love. It’s insane to see how much growth you guy’s have had over the years and how much you guy’s have inspired my personal growth as well. I honestly don’t think I’d be where I’m at if it weren’t for your videos. Bernardo does add that sense of peace to your videos and it will be missed but at the same time things change and evolve and maybe this could be a time for you (Adam) to really show us who you are. This could be videos about your mental health journey or self growth/habit building videos. I’m sure whatever you do even if you choose to take a break will be best for you.
@harrietcarr307
@harrietcarr307 Год назад
What a wonderful comment, Cameron!🤗
@ricktomlinson5481
@ricktomlinson5481 Год назад
Cameron you are wise beyond your years and you have expressed well not only your thoughts but of others like me as well ! Best to you as you continue your journey in this life of love !
@cameronfilipowicz7308
@cameronfilipowicz7308 Год назад
@@ricktomlinson5481 Awwww thank you so much I really appreciate the kind words!
@ricktomlinson5481
@ricktomlinson5481 Год назад
🌷🍀🙂
@BabyDoll-qo7ol
@BabyDoll-qo7ol Год назад
​@@cameronfilipowicz7308Bless your soul,Cameron. You're a good human.
@tommyclarke3225
@tommyclarke3225 Год назад
Wow, I was on the verge of tears the whole time watching. I’m wishing you the best in your relationship and your recovery.
@anthonypiscopia1799
@anthonypiscopia1799 Год назад
Bernardo and Adam, Healing prayers and love to you both! You are strong loving men who will survive this healing process. Hold onto the fact that you are not facing the death of your soulmate in one horrible hour after 17 years together. Focus on healing yourselves and you can then seek to rebuild, rekindle and reunite. Hugs & love. Tony
@kristin2537
@kristin2537 Год назад
Dios me quedé sin palabras 🥹 al ver a Adam llorar así. Cuando ví está publicación en Instagram me asusté mucho. Espero que Bernardo logré encontrarse con el mismo, es bueno en algún momento alejarse de todo. La salud mental es lo primero. No saben lo importantes que son ustedes para mí. Y como me ayudan en esos momentos en los que siento que no puedo más, siempre los seguiré apoyando. Les mando un fuerte abrazo y muchas bendiciones a los dos. Mucha fortaleza chicos 🫶 Los quiero!
@terrylgeorge
@terrylgeorge Год назад
You can, and are, doing it. Look at you go! And I'd like to lovingly correct something you said at the start of the video when you said he's the backbone of the channel. You're BOTH equally important and contribute in your own unique ways, and I don't want you to ever feel like your contributions are somehow 'less' without Bernardo being there. So you keep shining your own unique and beautiful perspective like you just did in that video until Bernardo completes his own journey away from socials. Adored your first solo instalment - and can't wait to see where this new adventure takes you both. Big hugs from your friend, Terry
@ferdylondon
@ferdylondon Год назад
You guys need to know that social media has its benefits. We are an army of support across the world for you both. When you are in need we are here. This what your channel has created in addition to great entertainment. You both created a very big social media family. Lean on us.
@JasnowidzGrzegorzSieczka
@JasnowidzGrzegorzSieczka Год назад
Thank you with all my heart for sharing your common world, love and passion. I wish you perseverance, love and light in your hearts every day, despite all the turmoil of life. I love you with all my heart. Give yourself time, I'm standing and waiting for you.
@gregory650
@gregory650 Год назад
I'm incredibly grateful to you - Adam and Bernardo for sharing the evolution of your love, your lives, and your vulnerabilities as you navigate your experiences. I remain inspired by your courage and strength to nurture and commit ~ this channel was (is) the Relationship Master Class I never knew I would deeply and sincerely appreciate - there are so many valuable lessons being shared (and realized) through your collective journey. So, congratulations to both of you on this chapter about loving yourself unconditionally, and unapologetically. I sincerely wish you both the very best ~ always.
@dougrobnyc
@dougrobnyc Год назад
Sending you a trunk load of love and energy to the two of you.
@annehastinghasting6776
@annehastinghasting6776 4 дня назад
I have just discovered you and want you to know the reality of the channel makes me smile..Your statement of "Love is Love..." Is true for all of us. No matter the sexual orientation.
@JGB62
@JGB62 Год назад
hugs, you are so strong, and you both will make it through this. Hugs and loves always
@mrrahbieh
@mrrahbieh Год назад
I remember in one of your videos (can't remember the title), Bernardo was talking about how he hasn't made many connections since he moved to the US. That gave me the impression that you too may be spending too much time together and that he is sort of losing his "me time". Communication is the key. You can work things out. Just talk to each other and be honest about how you really feel.
@Orvyx_ztar
@Orvyx_ztar Год назад
Is very good to have a break, enjoy your time off and hope to see you both together again when you both feel like ready to comeback.
@ap94131
@ap94131 Год назад
You are strong -- and allowing your self to be that emotion makes it all real.OK, you'er got e crying now. Much love.
@justwant2Bfree
@justwant2Bfree Год назад
Your relationship has helped to give me hope and to keep pushing forward in my 15 year relationship with my husband. There have been ups and downs, celebrations and mourning periods, the best of times and the times we thought we were going to break up forever. And yet we still remain after all these seasons. The one thing we keep coming back to and know to be true is our love for each other and I wish the same for you boys. ♥️ Adam, I hope to get to know so much more about you in the videos to come...while your love is beautiful and inspiring, it was your story (Adam's that is), your personality and your struggles that I always resonated with, despite being adopted from Brazil! 🙂
@tiotisdale
@tiotisdale Год назад
Another great birthday gift. Watching you two. Stay strong, Adam. I know you love Bernardo unconditionally. He loves you too.💙🤞🏾
@bradbradley2607
@bradbradley2607 Год назад
Thank you Adam and Bernardo for everything! The best is yet to come, trust me! I'm here for you!! Cheers, BRAD
@michaellarson9408
@michaellarson9408 Год назад
Please continue to vlog for all of us that have taken this journey and for all of those who are about to but don't know it yet. I absolutely love you and what you do. Keep at it, don't give up!!
@OpinionDuke305
@OpinionDuke305 Год назад
Best of luck. It's very hard to share your life. Especially because there are so many mean people out there. But you guys inspire a lot of people. Thank you for all you've done. Hopefully Bernardo will get the itch to come back after a well-deserved break.
@CorCor89
@CorCor89 Год назад
I've been watching you guys since the beginning and following you all on Instagram before that. I remember when Bernando's dad passed and I wrote a condolence message on Instagram because I was freshly dealing with the loss of my mom at the time and I can't remember if it was him or Adam, but one of you replied and told me to remember that she is watching over me always. And I thought that was the kindest words coming from someone who didn't know a thing about me other than supporting them online. Especially considering so many people who were closer to me at the time were so heartless about the situation I was going through; kind words from two strangers really changed my life at the time. Every now and then even years later, I find myself going back and reading it for nostalgic purposes. You two were a big part of my healing process at the time and never even knew it. Much love to you both! ❤️
@auntielisa
@auntielisa Год назад
Little brother, this was such a beautiful tribute to your Bernardo. When you said "He was already carrying a lot of weight in his backpack, but he took some weight out of my backpack" -- it encapsulated everything sacrificial and beautiful about what your relationship *_has been._* But the video was not only a look back, but also a celebration of the present. I see your gratitude, your growth, your awareness, your strength, and (equally important) your willingness to be vulnerable. And now, we look forward to what your relationship *_will be._* You're stronger now and will take some weight out of Bernardo's backpack. You'll support HIS recovery, and you'll go on learning and adventuring together, on or off camera, stronger and hand in hand. I understand that filming is like whole-body journaling for you; it's the way you record and process your feelings, and as long as it has a healthy place in your married life, I'll be here to listen, watch, and witness. Be encouraged, sweetheart; you are brave, you are kind, you are loved; and every day and in every way, you're getting better and better.
@dumper2dust
@dumper2dust Год назад
i nead to read this everyday, thank you.
@jianchierentin2546
@jianchierentin2546 Год назад
What a great comment.
@adrianojesus9465
@adrianojesus9465 Год назад
Hello Lisa, I loved your writing and how you express what you thought of the video regarding Adam talking about his relationship with Bernardo. And how much positivity you are giving to them and to all of us. I hope more and more people would be like you. Also, Adam and Bernardo, you will always have my support. Go further in your relationship, love each other and most of all be HAPPY.
@carloshugogeib7961
@carloshugogeib7961 Год назад
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@MaxDolphin84
@MaxDolphin84 Год назад
Agreed. I couldn't said it better. They truly are amazing together... 😊❤💖
@Saidnoone
@Saidnoone Год назад
You know what, kudos to you, to both of you. Not stopping when it gets hard. And this WILL be a guide for lots of people going through life.
@nigella4me
@nigella4me Год назад
With all that is said and done, my heart breaks for you. The most painful thing in life is being alone after sharing your life daily with someone, just having that "someone" in the same house is a beautiful peace of mind. You feel so lost and empty beyond words in your empty space. It's a struggle just to get through each day and night, just to do everyday things that you once shared with someone. It is truly painful in the heart, soul, body and mind. I wish you strength to get through this difficult time in life. Sending love, hugs and contentment! ❤
@jcucuta7
@jcucuta7 Год назад
cannot even fathom how you must be feeling right now, truly. but having followed you guys over the years, i admire the ever-growing strength of your relationship. as a young gay man who's never found love, you guys have given me the purest form of hope i could ask for. this is the next chapter of your story together and just know that we are all here with you, no matter how alone you may feel. i love you guys so much and am wishing Bernardo all the joy and healing he can find within himself during this time.
@stevenf7591
@stevenf7591 Год назад
Lovely statement of support. Don’t give up on love. Love will find you. It found me when I was down in the deep darkness of despair and abuse. 😘💕❤️👬🏳️‍🌈👬
@unlnownuser3541
@unlnownuser3541 Год назад
@@stevenf7591 I am sorry but I feel like it’s so rare to find the right one and not everyone will have that chance.
@scottpella7021
@scottpella7021 Год назад
Yes, this is your next chapter in your walk of life. I pray that there will be many more chapters to follow and love!
@enriquedeleon9642
@enriquedeleon9642 Год назад
I just wanted to thank you both , I really enjoyed your videos. You guys took me around the world 🌎 ❤️ with your videos ...! Thanks for letting me be a part of your life..... love you always....!
@steevjaems
@steevjaems Год назад
The two of you have added so much of value and inspiration to the canon of gay videography in your five years of episodes (a longer run than many studio-supported shows!) Thank you for all your time and effort, and so much of yourselves, that you pour into these videos. I can't imagine how many people have benefitted from your work, young and old. Always be blessed and prosperous in all that you do, both of you, and hold onto the assurance that you are both so very loved and appreciated (and admired!) for the way that you have shared yourselves and your experiences with us. I am looking forward to following your journey, and gaining more insights as you share and grow, overcoming the challenges ahead. Much love to you both Adam and Bernardo, and warm hugs always. ❤steev
@edwardferdinandi
@edwardferdinandi Год назад
Follow your passions and make those videos. You two always make me smile to watch while your adventuring. Big hugs and support to you both. I look forward to watching more of what you can share
@leeandbobby
@leeandbobby Год назад
Holding you both close in our hearts. Much love and healing.❤❤❤❤
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