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He's Not Busy, He's Just Not Into You 

MJ Harris
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Are you ready to level up your life emotionally, romantically, and financially?
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Malcolm "MJ" Harris is a bestselling author, entrepreneur, and global influencer, helping millions of people to thrive emotionally, romantically, and financially. With appearances on Oprah, USA Today, and Black Enterprise, MJ reaches over 20 million people every month. As the CEO of the MJ Harris family of companies, one of America’s largest Black-owned financial services firms, he is committed to empowering lives through relatable content and actionable insights. Grab a copy of my bestselling book at www.MJHarrisSpeaks.com and join me for motivational storytime, relationship advice, and life-changing financial tips.
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Комментарии : 194   
@susanmercurio1060
@susanmercurio1060 9 месяцев назад
I decided years ago that I am not responsible for anyone else's emotions. That includes making someone fall for me. I am only responsible for my own.
@TRUSTING_HIM314
@TRUSTING_HIM314 9 месяцев назад
Some people would never like you because your spirit irritates their demons... Denzel Washington ❤
@mcormick41
@mcormick41 9 месяцев назад
So TRUE!!!!!💯💯
@TRUSTING_HIM314
@TRUSTING_HIM314 8 месяцев назад
Denzel wrote the quote n I'm just sharing because it encouraged me 😀
@JaniceTrades777
@JaniceTrades777 5 месяцев назад
yes!
@wonder12374
@wonder12374 9 месяцев назад
This applies to the narcissistic ass ppl we call friends and family. No one is to busy to call you back or respond to a text. Stop wasting your time and energy . Trust they didn't just forget you exist they just don't care. Behavior is a language.
@j1nnienchrist
@j1nnienchrist 7 месяцев назад
The truth hurts 😭
@missjackie7983
@missjackie7983 9 месяцев назад
When you tell someone repeatedly what the issue is and they keep right on doing what is bothering you is when I shut down. I know I'm not being heard, my feelings are not being validated or respected, there's no point in talking. I can show you better than I can tell you
@l.b.acquirel.l.c.464
@l.b.acquirel.l.c.464 7 месяцев назад
You are so on target I blocked and dismissed a dude this week for the exact same goofy behavior
@mzbize1
@mzbize1 6 месяцев назад
You said that exactly like I would, especially the end of the sentence 🥰 I can show you better than I can tell you!
@CrystallyLavender
@CrystallyLavender 5 месяцев назад
That’s exactly what my husband does. I’m so sick of it and I’m divorcing the asshole.
@dbrobbins
@dbrobbins 9 месяцев назад
11:16 I experienced that with my first child. I made the choice to care for my son by myself and not even try to run after his bio father for child support. I didnt want to waste energy into something that proved unproductive. I'm married now to a man who won't let anyone tell that him that my oldest isn't his son. My husband loves him unconditionally and in the process of adopting him. I couldn't imagine anything better.
@heathermetz6576
@heathermetz6576 9 месяцев назад
17:26 “Gurl, we grown. We grown. I feel if you 25+ No More WYD’s!” Thank you MJ.
@AuLily1
@AuLily1 9 месяцев назад
Thank you. I find you very encouraging and concise. I'm older, widowed, and did get back into dating but honestly, the men available to me are just so broken, lack decorum (I'm a slightly tarnished Southern Belle, manners are everything to me) and or just so mess-say in their lives they'd drag me down in depths I don't wish to go, honey! I'm thinking just staying single, unattainable to most, calling my own shots and living my best life is the path for me. I had the sweetest love and it devastated me when he died. I'll live on with him in my heart until we meet again. Need a man? Nah, I'm good, I had the best. RIP Papi.
@yvesklienblu8772
@yvesklienblu8772 9 месяцев назад
As a Libra. I am so glad to have the trait of i dont gaf who like me😂❤. Seriously. And that actually make ppl like me More!. Bcus i dont gF if you like me or nah. I enjoy my own company. If you dont like you,how do you expect others to?
@mariagreen1354
@mariagreen1354 9 месяцев назад
As a Taurus. I have that same attitude, sis😂😂
@CrystallyLavender
@CrystallyLavender 5 месяцев назад
I’m a Libra but had no idea that Libras don’t care about that, because I do. But I’m that way because of my traumatic upbringing.
@appliedknowledgeispower2024
@appliedknowledgeispower2024 9 месяцев назад
About to listen ❤❤❤and yes from the title, ladies know that if he doesn’t make time for you early on, and you know he can, then yes he is not into you and probably just is after the cookie cake! Be wise and have discernment! Peace and love and blessings ❤❤❤tuning in from NYC
@Hestia134
@Hestia134 9 месяцев назад
Do a video on women like supa cent that feels the need to buy love from men due to insecurities. She’s gone through so many men that only want her for money.
@debrawilliams2781
@debrawilliams2781 9 месяцев назад
They Don't have to Like You AND YOU GOT TO BE ALRIGHT WITH THAT and Go Ahead bout Your Business,PERIOD!❤
@susanmercurio1060
@susanmercurio1060 9 месяцев назад
It might not be that they are emotionally unavailable themselves, but they may have grown up with emotionally unavailable parents and it feels normal. Also they may want to heal the situation and get involved so that they can change the direction.
@Heyu7her3
@Heyu7her3 9 месяцев назад
Emotionally available people actually ARE commonly attracted to emotionally unavailable people. It's called the *"anxious-avoidant trap".*
@ellaholder6881
@ellaholder6881 9 месяцев назад
I absolutely love your perspective. I can binge watch your posts. God smiled on me when I found you on you tube. I literally have been in a dark mental place these last couple of months but you're such a breath of fresh air. Thank you.
@privacy9175
@privacy9175 9 месяцев назад
If your depressed. Your not living a life the way you want.. So change that. The first step is always the hardest then it gets easier.. Get moving ❤
@Vanitybombshell96
@Vanitybombshell96 9 месяцев назад
a woman is a prize...a man is a champion/winner thats how i see it. he win the prize and only the best can win. Which makes him valuable too, bc losers dont win prizes 👏🏾
@aaronmiller4659
@aaronmiller4659 9 месяцев назад
the concept of marriage is this: winner gets rings 💍
@Vanitybombshell96
@Vanitybombshell96 7 месяцев назад
@@aaronmiller4659 no the winner gets a yes, did yu forget a man gets on his knee ??? not the woman.. its ok just accept it
@aaronmiller4659
@aaronmiller4659 7 месяцев назад
@@Vanitybombshell96 😂
@amandaplavan5121
@amandaplavan5121 9 месяцев назад
💡 I've been attracted to emotionally unavailable people bc I have emotional unavailability...... you have Changed my life! Time to self reflect and grow some more. THANK YOU MJ!!❤
@Heyu7her3
@Heyu7her3 9 месяцев назад
No, the attraction between emotionally available & unavailable people is very common & is called the "anxious-avoidant trap".
@glendarelli
@glendarelli 9 месяцев назад
"F**K Deficit" Love it!!!!
@Nene11-7
@Nene11-7 9 месяцев назад
The questions are very repetitive you would think with life lessons that some people will have already learned the answer to their question but I guess this is what MJ is here for to help people figure things. And he's great at what he does
@Jessica-tb3bw
@Jessica-tb3bw 9 месяцев назад
Love you MJ! nobody does it like you
@carolyncornelius1492
@carolyncornelius1492 9 месяцев назад
MJ Harris, Lord Have Mercy!! ... You Are Wild, Crazy, Hilarious, Beautiful, Outstanding, Exciting And Seriously Spectacular!! ... Love, Love, Love Hearing You Speak And Listening To Your 100% Extraordinary Advice!! ... Your Skin Is So Soft And Pretty!! .. Thank You For Sharing Your Beauty Secrets/Routines!! .. You Are Loved! .. God Bless You Always Beautiful Diva!! .. CC ❤❤❤
@captainbarbosa6567
@captainbarbosa6567 9 месяцев назад
You are such an entertainer with wisdom and humor I wish I could cast you in a movie 🤩
@GaynelleScott
@GaynelleScott 9 месяцев назад
I just love you MJ. You always keep it 100. So proud of you and congrats on your new book.
@casandrabattle8289
@casandrabattle8289 7 месяцев назад
Malcolm you are so honest with love and you are honest like my mom was with me God Bless my mom who has passed but never bit her tongue I love you MJ
@purposedpatience6597
@purposedpatience6597 9 месяцев назад
Not the big back part 😂😂😂😂
@reginatabb4068
@reginatabb4068 9 месяцев назад
What somebody thinks or don't think of me ain't none of my business❤ that's my feelings❤
@lorene.zackery7395
@lorene.zackery7395 8 месяцев назад
I like old friends this one we same sign I, m 4 years older he seem keeping a job we had talking living together like 4 time in our life time up today I want him I, m faithful to him for last 2yr, waiting for him waiting for him come home how I win COVID out there so i
@lorene.zackery7395
@lorene.zackery7395 8 месяцев назад
We keep coming back fore to each other he seem to know if a man over my place he pop call what you doing esp /. I can, t stop he keep moving .try get closer to him we leave and com back sooner or later I talk to other People's it don, t never go anywhere.
@Mimlou
@Mimlou 9 месяцев назад
Your Lives are my favorite!! Clicked on this so fast!!!❤❤❤
@brendacunningham5070
@brendacunningham5070 9 месяцев назад
Thank You MJ For Always Giving GOOD Information 💚💚💚💚
@zinadottonwealthandsuccess2569
@zinadottonwealthandsuccess2569 9 месяцев назад
I truly love listening to your life tips❤️❤️🥰❤️🎶🎶
@Truth4real1
@Truth4real1 3 месяца назад
I’m feeling better and learning with every video you have posted! New subscriber ❤❤❤
@DIANA-tu5qq
@DIANA-tu5qq 8 месяцев назад
I love me some MJ honey!!!!!!!! I appreciate these stories, they can be very healing, insightful and empowering
@Embodiedspirals
@Embodiedspirals 9 месяцев назад
Thank you MJ! You hit on so many points I needed to hear right now and I just purchased your book. You are truly a divine being and so wonderful to listen to❤
@deborahrogers5722
@deborahrogers5722 9 месяцев назад
Thanks M.J. Harris you right DO care about others but not a people pleaser. Honestly that didn't like the perfect man on the Planet Jesus christ. They found fault in him just goes to show you people will always find fault in a person PLUS BLESS TO BE SINGLE BY CHOICE .NOT WITH NO ONE MEMPHIS TN IS SOMETHING DIFFERENT. STAY TO MYSELF. TAKE CARE
@krystalrice7944
@krystalrice7944 9 месяцев назад
I'm sure not losing absolutely No sleep regardless of what people say or think. I'm still pressing fast forward past they @$$!
@sarahpotts5975
@sarahpotts5975 9 месяцев назад
Much love MJ ❤❤❤❤❤
@jp-nr8ys
@jp-nr8ys 9 месяцев назад
Love it, and ur hilariously truthful
@sheilabrewster3620
@sheilabrewster3620 8 месяцев назад
You are a Saint to tell me all these things I saw to on Tamerons show. You looked great and a nice job🌟
@Njeri79
@Njeri79 7 месяцев назад
MJ you are crazy as hell!!!😂😂🤣🤣love it….
@carolkirkland819
@carolkirkland819 7 месяцев назад
You are wise beyond your years. Love you♥️
@frenchie48
@frenchie48 9 месяцев назад
Run like hell because he’ll never be satisfied
@JacquelineJones-w9c
@JacquelineJones-w9c 9 месяцев назад
😂😂😂MJ!!! Jacqueline from Tehachapi California I LOVE YOU MJ STOP IT
@montrealallen9991
@montrealallen9991 9 месяцев назад
This is my first live of yours!!!
@fanniehayes9351
@fanniehayes9351 9 месяцев назад
My MJ Dearest Friend Forever! Happy Amazing Blessed New Year!! You're looking great as always ❤😊
@mariamalban1037
@mariamalban1037 7 месяцев назад
YOU MAKE MY DAY!!!❤😊. TRUE & FUNNY!!!😮😊
@melrod4877
@melrod4877 8 месяцев назад
MJ people just love you. They get so excited to talk to you.
@AC-eu4fe
@AC-eu4fe 9 месяцев назад
I love you MJ ❤ your advice has been insightful
@362euu6jz
@362euu6jz 9 месяцев назад
So right MJ thanks..Happy New Year
@thejones9908
@thejones9908 8 месяцев назад
This is game changing 🙌 thank you MJ !!👌👏 and the savageness of it all😂😂😂 I'm so here fof it!!❤
@hugshoney3409
@hugshoney3409 9 месяцев назад
I love your take on things. Thank you. 🎉
@sylviaboose793
@sylviaboose793 9 месяцев назад
You are Speaking the truth MJ
@ambernicole.
@ambernicole. 8 дней назад
I can’t get over the wind whippin in the background dang!!
@deidrawinfrey219
@deidrawinfrey219 9 месяцев назад
🤗🎉Happy Happy New Year MJ....🥂🍾Cheers to us all with many blessings .🎊🎈
@jp-nr8ys
@jp-nr8ys 9 месяцев назад
Desperate women have ruined men. Its really sad out here
@mcormick41
@mcormick41 9 месяцев назад
IM HOLLERING!!!!😂😂😂😂 “chicken head ass folks” I done fell all the way out!!! This dude is Hilarious!!🤣🤣😂😂 facts though 💯💯
@lisameyers3263
@lisameyers3263 9 месяцев назад
Love you MJ , hope your holidays was great Happy New year
@karenroberts4448
@karenroberts4448 9 месяцев назад
MJ is a beautiful man and has a beautiful personality. I love his realness!!! Wishing you the best in 2024. ❤❤❤
@MichellMaxwell-x3d
@MichellMaxwell-x3d 9 месяцев назад
I love your honesty!! 😂😂
@sapo808
@sapo808 9 месяцев назад
Salt & vinegar bath...😂😂😂 I would give you a billion likes if I could. 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 You are GOLD!!!👑
@JumpseatsandJetbridges
@JumpseatsandJetbridges 9 месяцев назад
Your opening just made me laugh! 👍🏽
@ashajeremiahqw8775
@ashajeremiahqw8775 9 месяцев назад
I’m not dealing with it all 2024 and forever
@qschronicles4985
@qschronicles4985 9 месяцев назад
Mr MJ Harris, you were hilarious ass all hell in this video!!!!!!
@YoulandaDBarber
@YoulandaDBarber 9 месяцев назад
I love hearing the wind in your video.
@DinFL
@DinFL 9 месяцев назад
Great content and advice MJ! I’m so thankful for you and your channel. ❤
@JacquelineJones-w9c
@JacquelineJones-w9c 9 месяцев назад
OMG!!! HELLO MJ I JUST LOVE U SOO MUCH😘💜!!!!
@deborahpratt2822
@deborahpratt2822 9 месяцев назад
❤ I love you too MJ you have been a big inspiration in my life, thank you.
@basshunter9018
@basshunter9018 9 месяцев назад
yup its tiring to deal with that emotional rollarcoaster..up down up down. walkin on eggshells, aint worth it
@ChesneyDyas
@ChesneyDyas 3 месяца назад
I love you MJ. You are so smart and so entertaining. Giiiirl you have changed my life ❤
@rubynewby3519
@rubynewby3519 7 месяцев назад
Yes, informative! Inspiring, very interesting! Good points!😊 learning a lot. Thanks 🙏 to you!!
@montecito12
@montecito12 8 месяцев назад
Thank you you are so smart! Thank you for giving me a better way to communicate.
@Butterflyheart7
@Butterflyheart7 3 дня назад
Thank you for this good advice and tips ❤
@carnelia8
@carnelia8 9 месяцев назад
People have never liked me. It's lifelong..the lies and slander. 😮
@sisterredfield2237
@sisterredfield2237 9 месяцев назад
Mj my best friend is a huge narcissist and I’ve been thinking or not if I should be his friend but I don’t know he’s the only friend I have
@dogydog247
@dogydog247 9 месяцев назад
Drop him trust me you will learn the hard way
@jessicat2304
@jessicat2304 9 месяцев назад
Sigh
@notherejusthere3324
@notherejusthere3324 9 месяцев назад
Narcissists don’t value friendships, they value having an audience. If you leave, they won’t care.
@chantalmarie8361
@chantalmarie8361 9 месяцев назад
She should identify sources of social support around her
@feryalmahnaei
@feryalmahnaei 8 месяцев назад
I love your personality so so much!
@eyeamphree3337
@eyeamphree3337 9 месяцев назад
Off topic. Your wink is iconic 😉
@TRUSTING_HIM314
@TRUSTING_HIM314 9 месяцев назад
They can never be pleased😂😂😂😂😂
@vera955
@vera955 Месяц назад
He walked?? Bah, Bah, Bah!! ❤❤
@sheilabrewster3620
@sheilabrewster3620 8 месяцев назад
The guy I’m dealing with is 3 different people in one, and I’m walking on eggs mentally. He’s going to a psychiatrist but the medicine is making him nasty to a lot of people.
@mirandawng
@mirandawng 6 месяцев назад
‘Operating at a fucks deficit’ lmaooo 😂
@crybabyfancy
@crybabyfancy 9 месяцев назад
yass hunyyy💕💕💕💕
@rubynewby3519
@rubynewby3519 7 месяцев назад
My twins sons, is so disrespectful and argumentative, they not working, I have to be supporting them. I am so very tired of their behavior. Need help to get them, out my apartment. Please help!They very ignorant!😢
@darritaking
@darritaking 9 месяцев назад
Thank u
@celestialmaat9462
@celestialmaat9462 9 месяцев назад
Love you mj!!!!
@donnalevier5210
@donnalevier5210 9 месяцев назад
HOW IS YOUR NEPHEW? HOPE YOU GUYS HAVE A VERY HAPPY AND BLESSED NEW YEAR. AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL MOTHER ALSO❤
@reginaking2246
@reginaking2246 9 месяцев назад
I ain't fitna beg nobody to like me. Like me or not, I'm still gonna live and I'm still gonna be me. Besides, I'm not losing a thing by you not liking me 🎉
@carnelia8
@carnelia8 9 месяцев назад
Stand up...😊
@jasminesaez4878
@jasminesaez4878 4 месяца назад
😂 great video ❤ Merry Christmas
@sherritanail2985
@sherritanail2985 6 месяцев назад
I understand what you are saying! I went and deleted him!
@TracieBattle
@TracieBattle 9 месяцев назад
❤❤ From Birmingham Alabama Tracie Battle
@YoulandaDBarber
@YoulandaDBarber 9 месяцев назад
What was your first tatoo experience like? Did it hurt? Did you already address this on a live? If so, I'll try to find it.
@lorene.zackery7395
@lorene.zackery7395 8 месяцев назад
I met this guy at a job I work for 20 years it's big story my mate pass away 2015 so off and on we been see talking on phone for last 2 years we have seen him he stop coming for money
@HOOMA-
@HOOMA- 8 месяцев назад
Loooool MJ Love you and all your energy and your gayness ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@susanmercurio1060
@susanmercurio1060 9 месяцев назад
For the lady who got pregnant and he vanished: If you don't oppose abortion and it's early enough, get an abortion. You never think that supporting abortion means *you,* until it is you.
@privacy9175
@privacy9175 9 месяцев назад
She should of been marriage then this wouldn't of happened. Having an Abortion is ridiculous...So the man runs and the kid dies... Unbelievable.
@roaroa5291
@roaroa5291 9 месяцев назад
@@privacy9175 No kid dies in an abortion. Only a fetus.
@iamme7664
@iamme7664 9 месяцев назад
@@privacy9175 not sure how far along she is but if it’s the first two months she’s just basically getting rid of the embryo. You make it sound as if she’s killing a newborn baby who is capable of feeling pain and emotions. Calm down. Your mom might have done worst in her youth. Who knows.
@shabreidavis7790
@shabreidavis7790 9 месяцев назад
​@@privacy9175you take care of the baby then!!! 🤨
@ccleavemebe4790
@ccleavemebe4790 9 месяцев назад
@@shabreidavis7790you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do . Your morality is yours not hers and you can think it’s ridiculous all you want . And marriage doesn’t save you from anything . There mothers complaining about inactive fathers that are in the home. I’m sure you’ll find a way to blame women for that too
@janicepringle715
@janicepringle715 8 месяцев назад
MJ you are cutting up! LOL!!
@ShanniSlayTV
@ShanniSlayTV 9 месяцев назад
lol why do people keep saying men are the prize who ever persues is not the prize the person they caught are the prize you go after prizes the prize doesn’t come after you but in the other hand yes we both are the prize
@italyparis6975
@italyparis6975 9 месяцев назад
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤ She must didn’t know about your LV bag 😂😂😂❤
@emlinc229
@emlinc229 9 месяцев назад
Bubble guts 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 thats right! Idgaf boy bye!!!! Block delete equals peace🕊
@yando1800
@yando1800 9 месяцев назад
Still waiting on Part 2 of the dl married man
@TRUSTING_HIM314
@TRUSTING_HIM314 9 месяцев назад
You set a timer n if they go over it click X
@LM-eq8cj
@LM-eq8cj 9 месяцев назад
U rite.....
@emlinc229
@emlinc229 9 месяцев назад
😂😂😂😂😂 My Queen MJ! Tell em girl❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
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