Sorry that is not God. There are only 3 ways that a spouse can get divorced. Cheating, Death, and unbelieving spouse leaves the believing spouse. Marriages ending because of money is not acceptable in The LORDs eyes.
I was always told if the male isn’t ok where he is financially keep walking bc once he get to his satisfaction he will leave you for another woman.That male had a plan when he first got w/her. I pray she heal and her new man is a blessing to her.
Proud of her! I stayed almost 30 years….finally divorced in 2020! My only regret I didn’t leave sooner! Where is he today? Broke and living with a cousin! He was never gonna change!!
Your story mam is my story. Some men just don’t have any intention to do their part. Once they see what you can bring to the table they feel like they can slack off. I lost my home, and my marriage fooling around with my ex-husband. He would not help with the kids. I had to move in with my mom. I would have done anything to help him get ahead. I worked all kind of overtime to get in our first home. He moved to I D.C. that’s when I cut the cord. Stay encouraged. Love you
My heart grieves hearing her story. And many, many stories exist like this, myself included. May we all learn what love is, who love is, what it is and what it is not 1 Corinthians 13 😢🙏🏾
Great, cheating is a no go area, it simply tells that there's a lot of things wrong with a person's mind when they decide to go down that path.(Yes we can forgive ) A good thing about a failed marriage is that it teaches us alot about ourselves. Sometimes we get to discover that we were not self aware and didn't know who fits in to our lives: the moment we do that, we can tell who is for us or not. Sis you will heal and be perfect.
Hold up… apologizing on behalf of black men for what? That man messed up not me and not all of black men. When black women messed up that’s not a failure on all black women. He, she, or they that do wrong need to do better, not me.
He was just a selfish person, and he doesn't represent my husband of 33 years who took care of me until the day he died a few years ago. I am living off his income as we speak ❤
One reality is that over time people evolve and you learn whats healthy for your life. Its the podcast and other inspirational things that mentor us and help us grow. As Maya said it best. When we know better , do better. Moral and standards are so essential. She's amazing for finding strength. I applaud her.
You are a blessing and beautiful. God's continued blessings on you and your household. Be encouraged that your story is a stepping stone to your next journey. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🤗
❤❤The episode I so happy that she is out of that relationship. May God Bless her and hope that her true husband finds her at her very best level of her life.
Sometimes going in with two you can allow too much you can give out too much and never happens but if someone has your back, they have your back by and return make sure you return the favor at the same extent of the person who had your back makes sense
God, Bless you. Ditto here: so many years (and 2 marriages) responsible for the legs to support the table, the food that goes on top of the table, and cleaning the table! God saw it all. Thank God that He opened my eyes before I spiritually drowned. I pray that God comforts you and you remain spiritually-discerned so that the enemy doesn't steer you toward fornication (as I did), and points you toward your God-appointed future spouse, IJN. And for CLARIFICATION of my previous statement: the God of Abraham, Isaac & Jacob can not lie (go against His Word) and (I've since learned by studying the Word) doesn't recognize divorce, except in death or adultery. This young lady's divorce God recognized because her husband committed adultery, but God didn't recognize my divorce because my spouse was still alive and adultery wasn't committed (as far as I know-lol). Even though I was divorced in the eyes of man, God couldn't honor my divorce. Therefore, I was supposed to remain celibate even after my divorce. I hope this edifies the readers of this message. Thank you and God Bless.
Great content! as the world crisis progresses the smartest thing people do lately is building a strong investment that isn’t controlled by the government. Like digital currencies.
Honestly, I’m surprised that this mrs Kimberly Jane Carl,is mentioned here, came across a testimony about her from one of the beneficiaries on wallstreet, El Salvador made Bitcoin their national currency.
Access to good information is what investors need to progress financially in life. Here’s a good one and I’m gratefully I’m not surprised by the amount investment is the higher you invest the higher you earn and I recommend that good woman too
I recently watched a podcast that says if your 120lbs you pay 0% of the bills, 140lbs- 170lbs 30-40%, over 200lbs you pay all the bills the man actually lives with you. Is the is true ?
@@sherryjacob7986 General rule. Depends on timing. If you met early in college doesn't apply. But if he is older he is looking for the finest he can get. Common sense
It important that as a male he is influenced and has seen positive relationships. Then when a man marries a woman she can be valued and respected for what she is bringing to the relationship. Each individual is different and when you love someone you are willing to make the necessary changes as God directs your path. Blessings and prosperity to this sister because through it all God has a plan for her to succeed!
I see nothing wrong with that. I live in the real world not this fake Internet world where Black men make six figures and pay all the bills. That's only for 10-15 percent of people.
Thank u 🙏 I luv yr advice. I’m glad u agree that BM need 2 do better although it’s 2 sides 2 went story. Every situation is different with all ppl but most BM blame BW 4 everythg. As a woman I tell my female friends that we have 2 respect men & be more supportive in their endeavors. A lot of BM are bums today & try 2 live off woman then say we are tripping whn we hold them accountable. Not 2 mention everyone has a bum n the family living off their Mother. It doesn’t matter how much a man makes but it matters how they love ❤️ & treat me is what I look 4. Keep being great 😊 bc yr a breath of fresh air 2 listen 2.
How long had she known this guy before she married him? He cheated two weeks in. She could not have known him very well. Where did she meet him? She said there was a conflict because of his culture. She never said her ex was a black man. Where was he from? Was it a 90-Day Fiance thing? It would help if you had asked more pointed questions. You can only give the right encouragement if you know all the facts. Also, I did not hear her say he was a black man.
Most Black women in marriages are paying all the bills that's why they have a husband as long as you do everything. Men with money will get a bad chick not a regular chick.
You gotta be kidding. Not one married black woman I know are paying all the bills. Me being included! I have an educated, hardworking, FINE black man! 🤷🏽♀️
You know what she said is true in most cases thats why I haven’t been in a relationships with black American men in 20 plus years I am much happier & stress free because of it no one is going to use me
You can’t accurately access her situation and give her advice with out hearing the man’s side… Imagine the judge always going with the prosecutor version, and ignoring the the defendant. This means any advice you give her won’t help her because it doesn’t accurately address the problem
These conversations ain't it. I'm honestly at a loss since I know his educational episodes don't get views but male bashing does. It's the same with Ramsey so I'm truly at a loss for my financial info
There are a LOT of financial channels on YT. I follow many of them. Ramsey and this one are more for "entertainment" type value, but they also can be financially beneficial as well.
She picked the best she could get and then its not want she wanted So she divorced him Now she can get a arich man that will treat her how she deserves to be treated Problem solved
Table Thing came because women wanted a high value and they was just saying i can motivate and give him support or he gets me etc And they had no idea what a wife is???? So it jas nothitondonwith building tables
@@sherryjacob7986you know how blk American men think most anyway the woman has to drop dead beautiful before they think they should do anything for her & thats where they miss out on a good woman with they backwards mindset
First of all ma’am you picked him! You should’ve know what type of man he was from the jump. You blaming everything on him and I don’t hear any accountability on your end. You coming off very masculine. You looking for some validation ,please stop it .
People don’t always reveal themselves until after the vows are said. Her energy isn’t masculine, you just can’t handle a strong woman. You clearly need a doormat.
