Her Mother Didn’t Believe What Her Stepdad Did 

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Hello! that's me :) thank you for the support I love you guys! excuse how I talk my English still needs fixing but I'm getting there ^^

The only reason the mum started crying after finding out that her daughter was leaving to live with her aunt was because she knew that she would be losing that extra money from child/disability benefit.

You're on the road to recovery. Your mother doesn't deserve the title of being called "a mother." She is a wicked and evil person who only cared about herself. I'm so proud of you. Stay strong sweetie🙏❤

I dont understand how child services did not remove her immediately the first time these teachers knew about her situation. Second of all, WHY didn't the grandmother take her in and protect her. I'm a grandmother and I will tell you one thing my grandson and daughters come before EVERYONE! You're beautiful young lady! God willing you can live and heal from this horrendous trama. You're doing really well! You're a survivor a warrior! Sending you lots of love good vibes. Thank you for the courage of sharing your story. You're going to live a good life!!

I hate watching these stories but it let’s me know I’m not alone. Hearing how they dealt with their trauma, in a way, is my form of therapy.

I’m so sorry your “mother” preferred loving a pedophile instead of believing her own flesh and blood!!!! So sad!!!

It's sickening that alex mother refused to believe her how can a parent not believe there child she truly failed as a mother

Sometimes it takes a while to find the right therapist for you but when you do you’re gonna know it. I share a very similar story as urs. I was raped at 7 yrs old by an uncle, with a mother who willfully turned a blind eye. About 4 yrs ago, this man had the fckng audacity to send me a FB friend request. Oh, I accepted it alright. I may not have gotten justice thru the court system before my abuser died. BUT, I made damn sure the entire world knew what he did to me. I plastered it all over his FB page at 11pm knowing his old ass was likely to be sleeping and the fact it was going to get flagged and taken down once morning came. But fact that I had about nine hours of public justice on a sunny Sunday (when everyone was likely to be home for the weekend) and on social media, FELT AMAZING! You are SO brave! STAY STRONG beautiful soul. You got this! ❤🙏😘

Baby ,, don't ever be ashamed none of what happened to you is your fault ,,sad to say but you're mother should of helped you ,, instead of the dirty men ,,you are worth so much in God's eye,s so put faith in him and be strong and know that others care about you,,you are not alone ,,there are many survivors,,my friends call me mama Henni ,, like a mother hen ,,I too am a survivor,,I wish I could meet you and give you a big hug,,it takes a lot to just share your story ,,all of the evil and wicked ones in the world God will punish them one day ,,, God bless you beautiful person ,, take care ,, sending love and hugs

YOU'RE NOT ALONE. WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING!! GOD IS WITH YOU❤❤❤❤

Thank Goodness you wrote the note and your counselor at school protected you. Your mom and dad failed you but It’s not right and not your fault. Brave woman keep sharing your truth. ❤

You can tell from her vocabulary that she truly was isolated and bullied by other children,I hope you heal from your traumas

I hate when people cover up known abuse , it gives the abusers a pass to continue to do it. Disgusting behavior.

This story feels so authentic and raw. Like it is still fresh on your heart and has not been told in entirety. I commend you for sharing. I’m so sorry for this experience and I wish you all of the love, support and happiness for your life! 💕 Stay strong

I just wanted to send my love to you! Sharing your story is of course painful, but so healing... Healing for you and for other survivors who are listening to you right now... I am a survivor myself... I was about 8 years old when I had my first experience of rape.. Im 54 years old now and alot of my childhood traumas have seemed to surface again.. I think by experiencing kind of the same as you had, with family members and even my mother acting like it was no big deal and never talking about it or even letting me express myself, and just holding it in,,, abuse just seemed like the norm and so i lived with it throughout my while life.. Im just now healing a lifetime of trauma.. I send my love and respect to you! Thank you for being so beautiful and sttong and open to share your story.. 💜💞🙏, Much love to you!

Unfortunately, this is very prevalent in the Hispanic community. I, myself, was a victim TWICE by a family member and a friend, starting when I was 3. And yeah, my mom didn’t believe me either.

Love you girl, take it easy, I’ll pray for your healing

Sweet lady I'm so sorry all of that happened to you. Please know that there are wonderful mothers out there that would be only too happy to adopt a motherly role in your life. My own mother was abusive however I've had the privilege of having true mommas throughout my life and that can be true for you also. You're beautiful, you're not ever alone and you're worthy of true love and care in your life. God bless you 💞

Jesus, Alex! I am so, so sorry that your ENTIRE family failed you. Your mom is a disgrace. But I am SO happy that you had supportive teachers and counselors who helped you develop a plan and create a positive future. Thank God that you are safe now. I just hope that you continue to heal and find the therapy that you need.

So sorry you've been so let down by the so called adults in your family. I hope telling your story works to empty you of your past and turn you to using your experience as mere stepping stones to a brighter future. Good luck Alex, I admire your courage.

You are so brave to tell your story. You will help so many others!

I’m so sorry that happened to you!!!❤

This is so sad. This happened to me to but hearing it from someone else hurts me more.... Alex im so sorry. You are better than your mom and dad sweetie!❤. We have your back on this channel ❤

Some ppl don’t deserve to be mothers.. I’m so sorry mama benditto GOD BLESS YOU beloved! You’re so strong & extremely brave for sharing your story.. as a survivor of S.A. as well I’m proud of you. I’m sending you hugs love & the light of the Lord to redeem you & cleanse your spirit.. None of this was your fault your loved ones failed you but you will be a better person because you will know what not to do & who not to become! These unfortunate incidents don’t define you! The Lord is bigger than all of this & his plan for you is greater!!! I’m praying for your strength & happiness & healing ❤️‍🩹

Sad so many ppl been thru this

I find it hard to trust my baby with anyone even with family members. Me being your mom i would have kill for you boy or girl . I have a criminal mind when it comes to kids being safe. Sending my ❤

You weren't doing anything with your life? You're traumatized! What the heck is wrong with some people?! A whole family of vipers. I am glad you are doing much better now, sweet girl. You have a family now.❤❤❤❤

Damn my heart truly goes out to you, you deserved none of that abuse. I hope that you’re doing ok now days!!

You mum wasn’t a mother I’m sorry you went through this I pray healing for you ❤

So glad you gave yourself a chance. You are worthy of a good life ! Plz don’t let anyone tell you you have to forgive at any time. It may be a lifelong process. But you never have to forgive as long as you’re taking care of your own heart, working toward healing, and living well. I’m 42 and you are inspiring me right now to be better. Congrats on finishing job corps. You can call any therapist and they will help you find a therapist that works for you. There are sliding scale fees/ sometimes even free pro-bono sessions. You are strong. I would not have made it. Keep going and never give up on your dream of living a good life bc you absolutely deserve it. ❤❤❤

How is it we treat the victim like a criminal? Get the accused out of the home. When are we going to start acting on common sense? Holy hell.

You poor child I feel for you , all the bad experiences you went through in your life 😢 hopefully will help others ,take care now sweety and try to focus in recuperate by doing thing that will help you ...I'm sending you a big hug ❤

You are so powerful to get your painful experience out there x

You are so sweet. You sure didn’t deserve what you went through. I’m glad you have an understanding boyfriend. God brought you through all that bad stuff and he’ll keep helping you.

Unfortunately this happened way to often and usually it's a family member. I'm praying for your inner peace and strength to get through the pain of molestation and rape. God knows your trials, so please find comfort in him...🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤

What a strong young lady!! So brave you are.. I’m sorry you had to endure this. Some people are just animals!! I’m so sorry.. 😢

I’m so sorry this happened to you. Your mother failed you, and I’m so sorry. You deserve better and I pray you get happiness and peace and love you deserve

Alex I'm so sorry that you were molested what happened to you wasn't your fault I hope that you are doing okay you deserve nothing but happiness in your life

You are a strong inspiration for other children who are or going through this and for others who have gone through this. Child molesters don't care if the kids are male or female I am very sorry your mother was so weak she chose not to protect you. You are courageous as you move forward. Remember what's occurred in your childhood you had no control of. So many generations have looked the other way and remained silent, I am proud of you and commend the adults which cared

Healing starts by recognizing it was their fault not yours. You are not responsible for others mistakes. Their use of your innocence tells how coward they are. However, try forgive mom and treat her well. She’s just a lost soul that you happened to be her daughter. Keep taking care of yourself and focus on your North Star ⭐️👍🏼

Stay Strong and you are Loved!

I’m sorry you went through such things. Please know that you’re not alone in this world. Your life is your own. No matter what culture and community thinks, you don’t owe any loyalty to abusive people. When you are young, your choices are limited. But as an adult, you can write people off like bad checks. I’m praying for you to find happiness and success.

Wow! Thank you so much for sharing your story. You're a beautiful person and amazing soul! You are loved and safe now. Be blessed always! ❤❤❤

I’m so so sorry precious, I believe you. I’m with you. Sending prayers ❤

I applaud her strength and courage. As a CSA SURVIVOR its clear that there are some terrible moms and siblings that fail to protect- fail to listen- fail to take proper action. The bullies are just as disgusting as the predators and as a society it a failure as well. Alex deserves to be heard and honored for being so brave- this society of failures isnt safe for children

So sad my step-dad never disrespected me he was such a protecer even raised me with my other siblings as hus own. I'm so sorry for that happened to 😢you

Damn. So sorry Hunny. Stay strong beauty ❤

Brave girl! You were young and defenseless, living amongst pedophiles/monsters. Unfortunately your mother possibly had some childhood trauma, just seems like generational dysfunction. She had no idea how to parent. It's not your fault. You spoke up about what happened to you. You're such a strong, determined, beautiful woman. Keep going to therapy! It is the most important part of your recovery. I'm cheering for you!

You are a beautiful brave young woman for telling your story. You are right your mother does not deserve children and she does not deserve you. She and the people who hurt you have a sickness. You did what is right and moved on and cut them out of your life. Ask the Lord for guidance. He will show you the way and heal all your pain. He loves you more than you will ever know. Follow the right path. There are people who sincerely love you. You have a job and hopefully you can also go back to school. I’m so happy for you and will be praying for you to have continual healing and the peace and joy in your heart that only the Lord Jesus can truly fulfill. Praying for you sweet child of God. 🙏🏼❤️

GOD bless you! For being so incredibly strong and resilient!

Oh wow this young lady is still in a child like state. Praying for her.

This young lady never had a chance in life early on. EVERY adult let her down EVERYTIME. When there were opportunities to take the high road and do right by her, they repeatedly took the low road. Thank God she has one now, free from those monsters who pretended to be parents.Her father was absent and she was left to be raised by a demon of a mother. Her "mother" did not care 1 bit and allowed her boyfriend/husband to repeatedly rape her. When his uncle came to the U.S. and did it too, I am certain the stepdad said, "Hey, go for it." What are the odds, that the uncle would disrespect his nephews "daughter" in HIS house with "mom" there too and just randomly molest her ?? Stepdad told him to do it and I believe mom egged it on. Just like the neighbor went up stairs and started touching her while mom ( The Catholic...LOL ) was outside drinking and drugging w/ her friends and other daughter- mom sent that young man up there to harm her daughter. When she warned mom of her suicidal thoughts, mom said, 'Go ahead". I don't know how it happened, but this "mother" never loved, cared about, respected etc.. her own daughter. It probably started out in utero- her extreme disregard for her. But she's free from her now. And I hope she soars high. I believe she can because she's determined to eek out some measure of happiness in this short life. Because she believes she can, she will. She's smart and knows how to advocate and get services for herself. YOU GOT THIS and those aunts, uncles, mothers, fathers, step-dads, school bullies, sister that did nothing to make you feel like a worthwhile human EVER, Shame on them!!

Am so sorry my daughter, these people are monsters

Such an inspiring testimony. The part when you mentioned you were planning suicide and how your mom didnt care, hit hard. Because i was in a similar dilemma wanting to take my life as well. And like the evil woman she was, my mom showed she didnt care. That was just as bad as the time she told me to leave her house in the middle of the night. I remember crossing a bridge that night and hearing 2 men talking underneath the bridge. I was a kid! What if those guys heard me and did something to me? Your story is igniting something. The system is broken, and it forces us to be creative and make our own system. The system failed you dear. May you find healing through Jesus and be rid of those who abused you mentally, emotionally, and physically.

Thank you for sharing your story! I'm so so sorry for what happened to you and the fact you couldn't get help at that time just firiates me!! You're loved baby, just know that ♥️

How do we solve this problem of women choosing their lovers/boyfriends over their own children?

I hate bullies... A person who bullies have low self-esteem, weak & belittle others to makes themselves feel good and powerful

I watch a lot of these stories it feels like a form of therapy knowing Im not alone and that you are on road to recovery gives me hope. You stick out to me you have an amazing energy you give off and you are gorgeous you have good style I hope you feel loved inside and out you are a good human keep going

Oh my girl 😢. My heart goes out to you. Just know that you are loved and enough and worthy of a beautiful life. I know how lonely the heart gets when you dont feel like you have love and support. Well just know you are beautifully, fearfully and wonderfully made ❤️. When you find forgiveness remember its for you to heal. It doesn't mean you have to partake with the people you forgave. I went to Job Corps a long long time ago when I was in a chaotic time. It helped me. But you take care of yourself mija you can do this. Guard your heart and mind. God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤.

They way she talks now still reminds me of a child, just sad

Wow what a Strong Soul this Women has Grown to Be❤❤ and still working progress🙌🏾. 👁really love her🥺👁 Wish her the ultimate best in life‼️‼️and s/o her bf n’ his Fam🙏🏾PEACE N’ LOVE TO YOU!!!!!!!! AND YOUR JOURNEY!!!!

I hope u find healing. We all admire your courage

💞💗💞Keep healing, young lady! You're pretty and talented. Your talent can help you heal! 💗💞💗

Thank you for sharing your life story. I hope you continue to work on yourself for peace and better future. ❤️💐

I’m so frustrated about the help that she could have been eligible for but wasn’t given to her! If she had ssi benefits she could have had some sort of life counselor to help her apply for aids to help her directly, not just money. But she IS if a better situation now which is so great! I’m happy she can be safe now. Definitely keep looking for a therapist that will work for and with you, they’re hard to find sometimes someone who really wants to help you and it’s tiring having to make multiple appointments to have them not work out but you will find someone! ❤

You are very brave you are amazing and you are in my prayers. I have been where you are. I understand. I too am still healing.🙏🙏🙏🌹

God Bless you young lady. I am so proud of you and I pray for your happiness always❤

I am so grateful that you are safe and so inspired by you. Keep dreaming big and believing in yourself. I hope that you find all kinds of love and happiness.

I really hope that she can find a great therapist, who fits her needs and helps her to work through her trauma, to continue her path of healing. She deserves all the help she needs and I hope she finds it.

It breaks my heart how recurrent, and scarily common this is. You're gorgeous, Alex. And everyone else surviving 🙏🏾🙏🏾 Go forward and keep going, you got this. You are seen and loved and matter. Take care and enjoy each breath you can decide for yourself ❤

I’m so sick that this happened to you I’ve heard these stories before and could never understand how people don’t believe these babies or protect them 😢

For those that are confused My stepfather molested me then uncle that’s his brother the mother and stepdad took his brother back to Mexico and dismiss what happen the stepfather brought back his brother after a year later to let the brother live with us again he kept touching me then they send him back to Mexico never seen him again. For the step dad they took him to jail for 8 years because I spoke out. Stepdad molested me 5yr to old 8yr same does with the brother. Abuse starvation if I lost something of his or if the stepdad lost something I wasn’t able to eat until I find the item like video game dvd or remote. Age 15- 14 Got molested by a next door neighbor aka my sister boyfriend brother he was 24. Age 18 got sexual assault by another uncle I had to live with my grandmother afterwards they took my nephews away cause the aunt told the truth on what was happening. Apparently they blame me for it including my sister. Once again I don’t know if I was allowed to say their names Whole bloodline covers stuff up like this

That early life story is so sad. Dear God please help us ALL in Jesus Name.

Thank you Alex for sharing your powerful story with the rest of us. I know that it took a lot of courage to do so and we are all greatful for your truth and strength. I am a csa/cdv surivor myself who never got justice and my attackernever apologized for anything he did. However, the one comfort that I have in regards to my attacker is that when he finally died in March of 2021, his death was extremely medically rough and he died alone. Keep fighting for yourself Alex for you are worth fighting for and you are worth the love and support and care that will help you continue to survive what happened to you as a girl. Many Peace & Blessings to you and your continued fight into peaceful freedom.

I hope u can help others with this same ordeal🙏

It's heartbreaking to hear your story. Hope you recover and start a good family.

I wish i could meet you you're a survivor God will bring you out blood doesn't always make you family the people that loves you and care about you are more of family 💯

I pray for you dear🙏🙏🙏

Sending healing prayers! You are beautiful, resilient and a survivor.

your whole presence is such a joyful, adorable & magical light bb doll. ✨️ one of my elementary grade friends was talking about how she didn't get tucked in by her parents the same anymore. it all changed when she was totally confused & blatantly evil because she was telling everyone what i brought up in the topic of the way our parents tucked us in. it was an extremely small rule, Northern Iowa, through the fields of corn & cows so everyone had a different, disgusted/child brain reaction to just pick on me, shamelessly because I had asked my friend if she had her dad come stick his tongue in her teeth & rub against the bed.. but it was just 2nd grade. I had just turned 8 years old that Christmas eve. everyone had gotten back to school from the Christmas break 3 days prior.. I'm so so grateful you had a good net of adults that listened & took steps to give you genuine places to go express yourself. how my ending sounds compared to your path is exactly what no one would want to have a child live through. especially when I was well aware that even teachers were told about it by classmates, more than a few times. I was sat down with the counselor, my teacher, the bishop of our home church. I just remember understanding that the adults speaking around me were going leaps & bounds to mold the whole thing into a passive manipulation for my young mind to register that its better for me to keep quiet about the whole thing.. but it all seems to have pushed me in growing to such a hyper vigilant little person that even as they pulled out the best tactics in the way they were speaking to me, i saw straight through the b.s & spaced out for majority of the conversation happening around me. I don't think I will ever forget that feeling in turning from the chair to exit the door & seeing my morher in the sidelines of the entire meeting. she said nothing, she swiftly left after giving me a look i have yet to see her face make again.. something like she doesn't know how to believe me si she is assuming I am lying.. type look.. but it all changed when she smacked the door of that room shut 2 feet from where i was standing.. I just wanted to make her hug me.. so I just felt like something magnetically pushed my gits to my toes.. I was petrified. thinking i had no one to take my side in the meeting to begin with.. but for her to be so cold.. which came natural to her.. uhh. keep healing ✨️ we are all god's children in healing for the better places our souls will be when we are out of time here in pur meat vehicles 😂much love darling

I so admire this young lady. She has been put through hell but she persevered. God bless her and give her the peace and healing that she needs. You stood strong and out of alcohol and drugs and you are on a good path. Healing will take time. Stay strong and God bless you and cover you.❤💪♥️

Please keep being the strong brave intelligent beautiful person you are

❤Beautiful young lady. Unfortunate and unfair upbringing.

Thanks u for this great advice

I'm so sorry you had to do through that baby girl . Your a beautiful and amazing

I will say my heart dropped in seconds I heard your story. I jus think your so extraordinary nd your strength/light shine so much ✨️ My prayer is you receiv so much support in love and abundance that it over shadow your pass (it's so behind you) ❤ 💋

My heart is heavy listening to your story, I can't imagine going through that at ANY age. Sweetheart you're so AMAZING, BEAUTIFUL and STRONG! please continue to move forward on your journey, you are NOT alone. God bless 🙏 ❤

I'm praying for you You're such a beautiful person and I hope the best for you

❤Continue to be great sweetheart ❤ and defy all odds that's stacked up against you! Your precious smile and beautiful countenance will carry you a long way!!! I'm so glad that your boyfriend and his family cares for you ❤

Stop say your dad that was a monster also your mother for not protecting you

Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry for what you have gone through. You are a strong person and you are a blessing and you are a survivor. Your going to make it in this world ❤️

Why would the mom only allow her to go home with him. Hmmm.

Your are on a recovery road. God is with you . Your strong 🤍

She is the sweetest girl, so beautiful, went through so much, betrayed by everyone. Hope she gets justice and mental freedom that she deserves

Omg I'm glad you're in a safe place now and you're mom should be ashame putting a man over her child sad excuse for a mother

May God continue to bless you and keep you safe always 🙏

My heart just brakes for her 💔 🥺 God will keep blessing you honey just keep moving forward

I couldn’t imagine letting anyone harm my daughter, she has one time to ever tell me anything.

You are so strong, Alex! Thank you for sharing your story. It's great hearing about your courage in overcoming the severe trauma you endured. I have felt many of the same symptoms as you have. I definitely felt less alone hearings your story. Thank you.