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Her Nightmare Was Caught On Tape | Susan Still

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Hi guys, today’s case is a little different. Susan Still was a mother and wife living a life in hell with her husband Ulner. She believes it’s important to raise awareness about not only what she went through, but what lots of women and men face daily. Susan Still is a survivor. Let me know your thoughts below guys.
Thanks for watching ❤️
Besitos xx
Zara V
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If you think you are being abused, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline 24-hours per day at 1800799SAFE (7233)
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National Sexual Assault, Domestic Family Violence Counselling Service: 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732)
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@omhleduma2651 Год назад

Having spent some of my childhood witnessing abuse, it hurt me so much to find a full photo album of my mom's old pictures and a super emotional letter from her, when I was seven or eight, so that I wouldn't forget her in case my dad went to far one day. It breaks my heart to know that she went through that. By the grace of God, my mommy is still here because it really could've been much worse ❤️

@sherrilawell8268 Год назад

🥺🤯 just glad she's ok and you can learn from her abuse so her pain isn't in vein😊💜

@brandikolasa6305 Год назад

As a survivor who has a still born due to domestic violence i always find such comfort and strength when I see and learn about other survivors.💙

@teresah4972 Год назад

I’m so sorry you had to go through that! Congratulations on taking charge and being a survivor! ❤️

@ZaraV Год назад

Oh that breaks my heart to hear. I'm so sorry that's something you had to experience, I can't even imagine it. You are an amazing person and so so strong. I'm sure others find comfort and strength when they learn about you too 🙏❤️

@laurhawk Год назад

My heart goes out to you honey ❤

@michelekarl1411 Год назад

You are a strong individual to open up…god bless your journey in life💖

@becbell74 Год назад

❤🌈

@TurkeyFarmerGirl Год назад

I grew up like that. Shame on the daughter. Me as a 4 year old tried to help my momma. At 13 I could throw some punches and grab every knife in the house. The shit stopped when I got old enough to pop a round off. I put a 22 round into my ex gut. It ended that night, he was life flighted. He came back around 2 years later surprised I had married and had a baby. I teach my son by example how to treat his wife. He has never seen his dad and I ever raise a hand to each other, never hears us call names.

@ZaraV Год назад

Wow I can't believe you went through that! I'm so sorry but also proud of you for being so strong 🙏❤️

@michelekarl1411 Год назад

Wow…the struggles you went through…god bless you and your journey in life…💕

@jenniferstewart9012 Год назад

God bless you.

@myCaligirlFly Год назад

I tried to pull my moms boyfriend off of her at 17. I blacked out as soon as i grabbed him and my whole body went limp. My mom says he then held me down by my neck. Next thing i know i was on the phone with police. My mom still didn’t leave for a few years after that, but i had to leave. Not every child is capable of stopping it. I certainly wasn’t. While i understand where you are coming from and I’m sorry for what you have been through, but definitely not all of us are capable of that. And it was never our job to do that in the first place. Calling police is an option but like in my case, it did nothing. He was ex navy and they barely believed that he had held my by my neck and didn’t believe i blacked out. No calls to cps, no jail. That asshole still gets visitation with my little sister. Luckily she is starting to realize how terrifying he is and refuses to see him sometimes. But she had to live through traumatic fights with his new wife. All because my police call did nothing.

@Yanina-ls1gy 7 месяцев назад

Shame on the daughter?how dare you,the daughter and all the children were absolute victims.That adult woman was childless and finantially independent and she still did nt report the abuser to the police.She allowed the children to grow up in such violent environment and did nt protect them...and yet weirdos have the audacity to hold children more acountable than an adult woman?

@OllyhayOffittmay Год назад

I was looking for something to watch while getting ready for work, perfect! ☺️ My mom finally left my dad when he was beating her, he looked at my brother and said, “This is how you treat a woman when she doesn’t listen to you.”

@ZaraV Год назад

Hope work is going well for you so far!! I'm so sorry to hear that. It must have been so scary and hard for your mum, and so traumatic for you and your brother! I hope you are all okay ❤️

@bri5155 Год назад

That’s HORRIFYING! I’m so sorry it took that for your mom to leave, but the control abusers can have on their victim often takes something really extreme to give theme they strength to leave. Your mom sounds like a really strong woman and a loving mom. I pray that y’all found happiness once you got away from the abuse. God Bless you all.

@channyreg6621 Год назад

Lynn is a freaking superhero. When so many people choose the bystander effect, she chose to do something that would keep herself safe while helping someone in need. She didn't have to go put herself in danger to help. As someone who went through a domestic violence situation it's people like that that make it possible to go on. Guys, if you're in a DV situation, DOCUMENT DOCUMENT DOCUMENT! Take pictures write things down let your family and loved ones know what's going on. It's so important especially when dealing with a manipulative abuser. So glad this story ended with Susan being safe and rebuilding her life because so many times it doesn't go that way. Great video thank you!! I found you recently and have pretty much watched all your videos already 😘💙

@ZaraV Год назад

Thanks for all your advice - I hope it helps at least one person out there! And thank you so much for the support, I hope you enjoy the vids ❤️❤️

@hannalorenorris524 8 месяцев назад

Thank you for not playing the video . I love true crime but as an abuse survivor PTSD is an unfortunate take away . These abusers need to get help.

@daisyhemond8755 Год назад

This breaks my heart….just so sad. I’m a survivor of DV. I can’t imagine having my children being apart of it or one of them taking his side. I understand they did what they had to to survive, but the daughter sticking up for him at the trial would of crushed me as a momma. Sending her and her children so much love💛

@guardingthemoon Год назад

I've never heard of this case before, and I'm super thankful that you didn't insert video clips and only showed a few screen shots. Thank you.

@ZaraV Год назад

I know how distressing it can be to watch videos like that, so I didn't want to put anyone through it. Thanks for watching ❤️

@thatmombielife Год назад

I’m also a survivor. I left once he beat me in front of the kids. It was so scary for them. I made the decision and left with nothing but my babies and a few toys. I’m so happy she left!!! Hallelujah! I pray those boys don’t grow up to repeat that generational curse. I don’t have faith in the daughter. So sad.

@yvonnezziwa Год назад

This hit home… I remember growing up my father would abuse my mom and in turn she would take out her anger on me due the frustration she had from my father and I remember seeing my father dragging my mom across the floor and I remember feeling ‘happy’ which I feel guilty for till this day…honestly wish for no child to grow up in such an environment

@shitneyb5562 Год назад

Clearly you don't intend malice if you're expressing remorse. Your family wasn't a solid unit, instead you were taught anger and retaliation. You were powerless and got a form of justice, what you said makes sense. You were a child; you learned what you were taught. If there's remorse to be had, it should be by your parents, not you. You were a victim and you were failed, not the other way around. Sending love ❤

@Yanina-ls1gy 7 месяцев назад

The sole responsability lays in the adults...specially the grown women who expose children to violence,when a child s mind is too inicent and fragile to even proces it. Adult women who have no excuse to not report it to the police.

@payton0616 Год назад

I found you on my explore page. I have binge watched all your videos more than once. I am simply obsessed!!

@ZaraV Год назад

Wow I'm flattered! Thank you so much, it really means a lot to me. ❤️

@Marcyy65 Год назад

Literally

@bratgirlrules8094 Год назад

Abuse IS NEVER OKAY, NO MATTER WHO IS THE Abuser. My first time here and I'm hooked! Thanks for your honest opinion.

@nicky2011 Год назад

When you told this story it really broke my heart. I feel so bad for her and what she had to endure as well as her children. And the the most hurtful was him getting their own children to go against her. Which they cannot be blamed they were more than likely scared of him and they were also young. I'm glad she had her boss backing her up and essentially getting her and her children out of there. No woman deserves that kind of treatment. But unfortunately it still happens😞 and I have no words for that evil man because they won't be nice. Thank you for this video. Also I have a case suggestion. It's about two serial killers from Chicago Illinois. They were called the south side slayers. Two woman cousins. Caroline Peoples and Angela Wright. They were the first woman "serial killers" from Chicago. And it's scary because im from the same city. Have a wonderful and blessed week🤗💕

@becbell74 Год назад

Thanks for sharing this story. Crazy to think how long ago this happened and yet some women are still putting up with this sort of abuse. 😢 we need to talk, scream, yell it from the roof tops “this is NOT okay” ❤

@brittanyvalade6459 Год назад

Oh that hit me so hard you saying that you only remember the good and sit there trying to fix yourself to get back to that. It’s very true :/ you never think of the bad you have so much loyalty to this person you fell in love with because they were so amazing that you become willing to go through the bad praying it will get back to the good :( unfortunately it never does though. I just got out of an abusive relationship and I actually started to get back into it recently and hearing that just reminded me not to and it will never change. We have kids though so it’s hard :/

@ZaraV Год назад

I'm so sorry that you are in that situation. But I do hope you find the strength to know you are worth more than that, and deserve someone that will not abuse you and that will treat you better. Sending you all my positive vibes 🙏❤️

@natashaphoenix5434 Год назад

I’m happy she got out of that and is thriving in a better life.

@bigasspockets Год назад

I think it’s important to remember, you’re never not “abused enough” to deserve help. Any abuse is deserving of help, you are always deserving of peace and safety no matter how “not bad” you may think things are

@chelsea-t Год назад

I can't even imagine what Susan's boys went thru while their dad is beating their mom, so cruel and sad!! And forced participation is awful, horrid! I hope Susan and her children have peace now!

@TurkeyFarmerGirl Год назад

It’s super scary. At 4 I tried to protect my mom. Till the day she died, I felt it was my responsibility to keep her safe.

@venessahunt1364 Год назад

I remember her doing an episode of Oprah years ago about this....such a horrific situation for this poor woman and mother,my heart broke for her,i still hope she is doing well as the last time i saw her she was. Very courageous woman!!

@ZaraV Год назад

I know! It's such a sad story

@venessahunt1364 Год назад

@@ZaraV That it is!! Glad she came out of it,as a better woman and mother and person!! She truly made the most out of this tragic situation!!

@stephanielewis1006 7 месяцев назад

So many of us have gone through this in our lives, so thank you for doing such a good job retelling this. ❤

@laurhawk Год назад

I don’t know if it’s just me, but as a survivor of DV I sounded like a broken record saying “I don’t know how I got that bruise/mark, I just bruise so easily”.

@shitneyb5562 Год назад

Fucken wall jumped out of nowhere! You could really come up with anything, cuz who's gonna believe the truth?

@nicolebrown1927 Год назад

Hi Zara, one of your devoted subscribers here🤗. I remember watching that Oprah episode in total disbelief. I just wanted to tell you that Susan was mixed, half white, half black. Oh yeah, and can you please please please do the Trevor Summers case. It's about domestic violence also and no one dies but his abuse victim , which was his ex wife whose now in a healthy marriage now, I look up to her so much and I think you will too after you see what a fabulous spitfire she is! Honey, she didn't hold anything back! He defended himself in this case and when he was questioning her, she was so fierce when he was asking the questions! He probably thought she would be intimidated but uhh huh, she was anything but!

@shitneyb5562 Год назад

Omg that one looks so interesting

@lillyallen5802 Год назад

Literally my mother used the same excused on her boyfriend, he’s insanely abusive, abused his kids, abused me and some other horrible things. And my mother knew about those things but still decided that it would just be better with him. Still to this day is with him. But my mother used the excuse of trying to get stuff out of the closet and stuff fell on her face and gave her a black eye. THESE MEN ARE HORRIBLE.

@nayahrodriguez6225 Год назад

This was so heartbreaking. I was born and grew up in DV and the day we were finally free I cried seeing my mom and brother. I’m so glad she survived and we can meet Mrs Elnor if he is released, just wanna talk.

@Sleepparalysisdemon2 Год назад

Hey lady, you are definitely doing a bang up job on your research, delivery. ! I always look forward to your uploads. I appreciated how you gave insight to what the abused person experiences.

@AntGir123 Год назад

Getting ready for work and I was scrolling for something new to watch! Thank you for coming through!! Watching from South Florida ❤️

@ZaraV Год назад

I gotchu 😜 hope work is going well ❤️

@hannahduren2601 Год назад

I just recently found your page and I watch you every day!! And I happened to catch you early this time!! ❤❤ your doing such an amazing job with these videos!

@ZaraV Год назад

Woo thanks! I post at the same time every week 🙂

@debs6730 Год назад

i never comment i think this will be my first one on a video. I’m so glad i’ve found your channel, i’ve been binge watching since! thank you for all your hard work in all your videos! ❤ love from nsw! 🥰

@tesnimedraou9940 Год назад

I just discovered your channel and I’m obsessed 💕

@jessicam4072 Год назад

Hi Zara! So glad I found your channel! You are amazing ❤

@ZaraV Год назад

No you are! ❤️

@Kyvaluv80_mouse 11 месяцев назад

I've been through all the abuse, and I still won't call myself a victim I will always be a survivor!!!❤

@sierra7672 Год назад

I appreciate your content and here’s why: you put the effort into memorizing the information so that you can tell the story rather than reading your research word for word. I have a LOVE for Bella Fiori for this reasoning. You are really going to get places because you are being personable in your video by doing this and maintaining eye contact and looking around as if you’re telling a story that you actually know. Keep it up ❤️

@murielmaccalman3021 Год назад

Binge watching at 3 o'clock in the Morning from Scotland. So glad I found your channel. Your Fab X

@banditpoon714 Год назад

Always blessing us with a great video, thanks Zara! ❤

@ZaraV Год назад

Thanks so much Brandi ❤️❤️❤️

@geraldinethomas7674 Год назад

I’ve just come across your page by exploring the true crime RU-vid world. I’ve currently just watched one. Lol. Going to start binge watching all the way from London. 🎉❤😂 your great. Keep doing you!

@Tracylyn42 Год назад

Yes I’m new here. Just found you last night and I am enjoying your story telling. Abuse is so hard to get away from once you have been groomed into it.

@kennedymariaxo Год назад

hi zara! I hope you are doing well! I’ve been waiting for you to post another true crime & makeup video!!! 💕 thank you ☺️ can’t wait for the next one

@ZaraV Год назад

Thank you so much! I wish I could post more often haha. Hope you enjoyed it! 🙏❤️

@sakaiahreign3365 Год назад

I can’t believe Angel didn’t stand up for her mom. Jeez. I wonder how Susan and Angel’s relationship is now.

@hannahhoopss Год назад

I found this page just recently and I'm so glad I did!!! I've watched at least half the videos already lol

@veronicapetit3555 Год назад

Found your channel last week and have been binging since.

@kayashley81 Год назад

Hey hey notification squad!!!! Go to bed

@ZaraV Год назад

Haha overnight squad 😂🙌

@clo2004xo Год назад

My favourite true crime youtuber😫so underrated!! Much love from ireland🫶🏽

@ajbonjovi Год назад

Good morning Zara! I haven’t heard of this case before

@DVelez-wz3fe Год назад

The daughter, omg!! I just can’t.

@heathergabbysalomon3614 Год назад

Good morning Zara Hope you have a great day. Everybody needs to like and share Let's get Zara to 20th subs she deserves it an more Love the way she does these cases

@ZaraV Год назад

Aww thanks so much!! Go algorithm go!! 😂

@laurhawk Год назад

My very first relationship was when I was 17, a month into it he turned on me. We were together for 6 months total. He would always want to know where I was, in the beginning when I questioned why, he said he “needed to know I was safe” and if he knew my whereabouts, in the event something happened to me, he’d know where to come find me. As a now 27 year old woman, I know that was BS. He was just checking up on me and controlling me. I’m currently married to a wonderful man, but 10 years after that abusive relationship ended. I’m still telling my husband where I’m going and updating him on my movements. It’s a bad habit for me. As this happened when I was 17 and was my first relationship, it messed up what I thought was acceptable in a relationship. The physical marks from him healed, but the emotional & psychological ones are still there.

@heyitsjay04 Год назад

yayyyy new vid! watching from atlanta georgia usa:)

@ZaraV Год назад

Yay! Hello from Aus!

@renamabitsi8930 Год назад

Glad you uploaded

@ZaraV Год назад

🤗

@Bunnyetsuko Год назад

This was so heartbreaking and the fact that her own daughter betrayed her own mother and defended her abusive father at trial. My Goodness... So sad. But I'm glad she survived and was able to get out!!. ❤️

@taylorherport5549 Год назад

Literally one of my favorite RU-vidrs ❤

@ZaraV Год назад

Aw thank you! ❤️❤️❤️

@taylorherport5549 Год назад

Case suggestion Aliahna Lemmon Fort Wayne, Indiana. Very heartbreaking story but very little coverage. My daughter goes to the little girls school where there is a memorial garden in her name. My mom also went on the search for this little girl when she went missing and i live right by where this took place a little ways down in the nicer part of my area but go to the gas station where some of her remains were located. Very tragic story.

@adrianaibarra1054 Год назад

I just finished Binge watching your videos 😁 Gracias, y besitos 😘

@Gothy_Guru 5 месяцев назад

We need more people like Lynn

@SkyStrife92 Год назад

I'm a new subscriber! Love your content

@amysotelo3286 Год назад

Why??? I don't understand how people can be so cruel and act as if these people they own so to speak. I was in an abusive relationship and luckily I got out when I did realizing that it was just an toxic situation that I was in. A lot of people feel like that! I know that I did. I thought because he was emotionally and mentally ill to me that he loved me and only wanted the best!!! I know how she feels but man oh man I don't understand why and how people could feel and do these things!!!! Domestic violence is nothing to play around with!!! Ughhh heartbreaking!!!💔💔💔💔

@bjjjb3056 Год назад

Susan, wow how strong ❤️‍🩹 those poor babies 🥺 I can't imagine their trauma

@oliviaallen3410 Год назад

Always love your videos girl! Could you cover the case of Kevin Bacon from MI? He was a friend of a friend & I remember the day he was reported missing, it was all over Facebook & the other socials. Only to find out a few days later he was gone due to a psycho he met on grinder.

@ZaraV Год назад

Thank you!! I sure will have a look into it. I'll note it down and check it out once I'm back filming new vids again and not in zombie mama mode 😂

@oliviaallen3410 Год назад

@@ZaraV TY SM! Take all the time you need girl, you deserve it! ❤️

@michelekarl1411 Год назад

Great video!!! Thank you!!!

@babybluecheeks Год назад

I'm so thankful that she got out that they all got away from him.

@mizz2ts86 Год назад

Jesus😭🥲💔❤️‍🩹….this absolutely broke my heart. Thank God she survived‼️🙌🏽🙌🏽

@dawnjames82 Год назад

I'm a new love your channel thank you 🙏

@Childlsscatlady4TrumpVance Год назад

Love your look on this one !

@jessicashanel7577 Год назад

Hi Dear! I love your channel. Would you please cover the Cinnamon Brown case?

@jennfields1990 Год назад

This comment section is soooo upsetting. The amount of ppl on here who have been through this is disgusting! Something needs to change!! This many women and men should not be going through this! It's almost as upsetting as finding out how many ppl have been SAed in childhood or/and adulthood. I almost feel like it's more common than it not happening sometimes. The fact that there is this many violent and predatory ppl out there breaks my heart. It's a learned behavior alot of the time but breaking the cycle is sooooo important. Just know that you all are so strong for not continuing the cycle and living through this as kind, loving and supportive people.

@LaurenJewel Год назад

yayyyy i’ve never been this early 🥰

@ZaraV Год назад

Yay!!! 🙇‍♀️

@haleymckenzie6312 Год назад

When I was 16 I started dating a boy and I never realized how abusive he was and how bad it could’ve gotten till I listened to this video. I knew he was bad I just didn’t realize he was that bad. He called me a slut amongst many other names, I wasnt allowed to wear makeup unless I was with him, I couldn’t have friends, I couldn’t work in group projects with people at school, the list goes on, the worst point was when he put me in a chokehold and held me off the ground till I started to black out. I also had to do the whole texting when I left home, when I got to school, when I got to first period, when I left first period, etc. I stayed with him because I thought he would hurt me or worse. Towards the end of our relationship he started slashing the tires on my car, one every week for three weeks, I don’t really remember why I broke up with him but I finally did and he threatened to commit suicide and sent pictures of him self harming, he showed up a couple times but eventually he just stopped. Hell still call me from time to time from a new number I haven’t blocked and I actually talked to him once and he said he didn’t remember doing half the things I just listed but if i think that’s what happened he’s sorry. It’s crazy that at 16 years old I was dealing with that. I hope our younger generation of women hear stories like this and hear the warning signs and leave at the first red flag. Abuse is not love.

@loganne5634 11 месяцев назад

Should’ve sentenced the daughter for lying in a court of law.

@mariewhoo7616 Год назад

I remember this!!! It was so scary to see this man and how evil he truly was!!!

@disekomotsepe Год назад

I remember watching this on Oprah years ago... The mother and 2 boys doing the interview. I cried

@starwyn7 Год назад

Ok before I watch the video, I have to know why you pronounce your R,s. I know it’s silly but I have been so curious since I started watching. I know you live in Australia but did you grow up in the US? I love your channel by the way and have subscribed. Much love from a fellow Aussie 😘

@theoverthinkerspodcast Год назад

It scares me ... because i could have ended up in that situation..I'm so greatful that i had the support and help of my parents and friends ..if your facing abuse if any sort i urge you to get help .

@amywatkins7503 Год назад

Please do the story on Mitchell Blair. It's Mind-blowing what this devil in human flesh of a mother did to her kids. Thank you Zara you rock

@babybluecheeks Год назад

I love those false lashes 😍

@Antisocial_Butterfly75 Год назад

This story broke my heart

@maxinecary6411 2 месяца назад

I watched her interview. I Praised God for her Freedom.

@Yanina-ls1gy 7 месяцев назад

Children literally become inocent hostages of two wacked up adults. Children did nt ask to be born. Those children were brought into that violent home and forced to live in such hell,by an adult bread winner and fully capable woman. She kept them in that hell and refused to call the police. Is disgusting that some weirdos dare holding the children acountable,the term"women are giving less acountability than children"is real. Children cant even process violence and the trauma it caused them is irreversible in many cases. The adult woman was fully capable but refused to call the cops or leave,with the terrible consecuences it takes on children.

@iknitbecuzmurderisfrownedupon Год назад

I was with a guy like this. My two sons are his stepsons. My oldest son- calls me a fucking whore. So I was in abusive marriage 22 years, now out since 2006. And my biological sons are still alienated from me from their stepfather's brainwashing. It's domestic violence by proxy. I was almost dead, literally, by the time I got out. I left with only one person believing I had been in abusive relationship. His first wife made it five years. Thank g-d for gef or I'd have thought the problems we're my fault.oh, and local pigs were totally brainwashed by my ex as well. The literally laughed at me when I reported being raped by my then husband, and refused to arrest him. And in face threatened to arrest me every time I called for help. I actually spent one Thanksgiving day in a jail holding cell because they didn't believe I was abused. Of course they couldn't arrest me because I had done nothing wrong - I'd only called them for help . But they held me all day, laughing at me when I told them I was afraid of my "husband".

@lauraanderson8785 10 месяцев назад

I'm so sorry that you went through that... It amazes me how horribly so many people treat victims of domestic abuse. How they side with the abuser. It's just cruel. But I'm glad that you're away from him now and I hope your sons wake up to the truth one day.

@daniellemaree2211 Год назад

That’s a fantastic outcome!!! I love that he got so much prison time!!! Really enjoyed this story!!! ❤

@highfivehaney6502 Год назад

Yeah I don't blame the kids. That's a tough situation for a child, you don't want the anger turned on to you so you agree with the abuser.

@ZaraV Год назад

I agree. I don't blame them at all. Although I feel I would be different, someone very close to me went through something similar and he said he was just frozen and scared to do anything and felt helpless but to watch. It's soooo heartbreaking and no child deserves that trauma.💔

@athenachristinemusic Год назад

“I would rather die like for real” lmao

@jessicamarie9180 Год назад

My ex was a real piece of trash, he would send me to the shops for his smokes and time me. If I didnt call within the 16 mins to tell him I arrived he would loose it. I once didnt tell him I had left the shops to walk back and he beat me so bad I ended up in hospital. I was hospitalized so much but always went back. I felt I was the problem. He would break my insulin when he was mad and wait until I was almost comatose before throwing the phone at me. 😴 He assulted me in the hospital bathroom one time.. It was so scary, I only got out because he found someone else and even then I felt I wasn't good enough. Its insane the mind set they can put you in.. Anyway thats my over share. I will listen to the rest now. ❤

@babybluecheeks Год назад

What lashes are you wearing? It's not in the description?.

@hannahduren2601 Год назад

If you have a chance, look up the Kendrick Johnson case here in Valdosta ga. That’ll be a good video

@ZaraV Год назад

I'll note it down! I am currently taking a break from new cases as I just had a baby, but will look into it once I'm back! ❤️

@Crafty_Susie Год назад

I feel the kids were afraid, and the daughter may have been so brain washed so she didn't want to step on his toes. And yes I'm sure he would have convinced those children that the mother was the problem when she's the one working and taking care of the home, they don't see it like that, they see it as here we go she comes home and dad gets angry.

@wakondahazel5627 Год назад

I recall seeing these videos. It's horrible. I wonder how the sons are now as adults. Their mentality has got to be disturbing

@genebrown6678 Год назад

Where can we see the video?

@Boing2699 6 месяцев назад

I don’t believe physical abuse is the most common. I believe emotional abuse is the most common but many people never realize it’s emotional abuse. They either think it’s normal if they deal with it over and over again or for a long time, or they look back and think it was just a really toxic relationship or that they just had a crazy ex. So many people still pretty much think it wasn’t abuse unless they hit you. Everyone has friends who have stories of a crazy boyfriend or girlfriend, and many people have stories themselves. Guys who go through your phone and block people they don’t want you to talk to, get angry when you don’t answer them fast enough, even when you’re busy, and the “fast enough” is never a very long amount of time. People who make you change up your appearance, or don’t want you to do any hobby they can’t also participate in. People who shit talk your friends and family, or say a perfectly wonderful person gives them “bad vibes.” People who incite arguements between you and other people while they themselves act all buddy buddy with the other person. A really possessive boyfriend. A girlfriend who accuses you of wanting to hit her during a fight about her abusive behavior, even though you were across the room. So many things people will brush off, or refer to as “crazy” or “toxic.” Like, yeah, it IS crazy and toxic. Because it’s straight up abusive. Everyone is an asshole sometimes, but if they’re doing enough for you to call them toxic or crazy (actually crazy, not a fuckboi referring to girls he hurt as “crazy” and stuff like that) then they’re usually abusive!!! Keep an eye out for your friends in weird relationships and make sure you yourself don’t settle for emotional abuse- we all deserve better.

@thesageromero Год назад

As someone who grew up in a House of domestic violence, I cannot imagine taking my dad's side ever. You know, like, yeah, I was scared, but I would always call the police and, you know, make sure that they came to keep my mom safe, because she would. Take the beating. Like if my dad wanted to give me a whooping or my brother a whooping, she wouldn't allow that and she would have him beat her for us, basically. I guess, like she would take the whooping for us. I just remember one time my brother and I left toothpaste in the sink. And so she said that she left it in the sink, she forgot to rinse it out, and it was this whole thing. When I was 7/8 I begged her to get a divorce. Best decision ever!!!! I did a video on it but it wasn't even half of the things. And the sad part is, when you grow up in a house full of abuse, it leaves you to either become an abuser or to get in a relationship with an abuser. Which I ended up doing and was in that terrible abusive situation 6yrs. But I felt like just because he wasn't beating me like my dad beat my mom, that it wasn't an abusive relationship. But that was not further from the truth.

@ZaraV Год назад

Wow im so sorry you went through all of that, it's really hard and i can relate to some parts. Your mom loved you guys alot ♥️

@ZaraV Год назад

Very common to end up in a similar relationship too, it's like the cycle continues. Glad you got out of it!

@andrewv65 Год назад

Wooo 13k! 🎉

@tatiannabaker3943 Год назад

I know the sons were extremely young and we can’t blame him for anything but I couldn’t record my mom being abused or even just sit back an watch, my dad was very verbally an physically abusive to my mom and I was by her side every time

@ZaraV Год назад

I'm so sorry to hear about you and your parents. I agree with you, I wouldn't be able to handle it, but I do understand why the sons went along, they were petrified. I know somebody who watched their father beat his partners in front of him and he felt the same way. It's just so tragic.. 💔

@tatiannabaker3943 Год назад

@@ZaraV I typed that before I heard one of them was 8😢 either way I don’t blame them, they’re babies they aren’t supposed to stand up for their parents in situations like that cause they aren’t supposed to be put in that position in the first place. Def understand acting out of fear!

@anon0268 Год назад

25:52 - 26:02 💀💀💀💀 “What’s he motion sick from? His hands?? “💀💀💀

@ashandemi Год назад

Yesss! 🙌🏻

@ZaraV Год назад

🙌🙌

@rhiannonoshea9203 Год назад

checking in from buffalo, ny👀

@blueraycrystal11 Год назад

Wow. This lady is amazing. The daughter is brain washed. You are by far the most compassionate you tube true crime creator.

@jenniferwilkinson9340 7 месяцев назад

I hope the daughter doesn't allow that domestic violence in her relationships.

@terridemaio7334 Год назад

Oh this is so Disturbing

@johnwood441 Год назад

Your videos are a win win for us. My wife likes your makeup and I love your storys

@youforget1000thingsaday Год назад

I remember this. Susan Still is a true survivor. She knew her time was gonna come to an end if she didn't walk away. Brave woman. edit: she's biracial, with a white mother and a black father.

@barbarascott7327 Год назад

Love your videos soooo much. Hi from Northern Ireland - would you be interested in covering a crime from here? Colin Howell and Hazel Stewart - terrible, awful, waste of life, but absolutely mad!!!! I'd love to hear your take on it....

@ZaraV Год назад

Hi from Australia 🙂 thank you so much! I will note it down, I am on a break from new vids at the moment as I just had a new baby. But I'll def look into it once I am back in action!! Thanks again 💕🙏

@Nizhonibearcreek Год назад

Been here ended up on a ventilator for 3 months been 6 yrs out and now know what flags to look for to keep me safe . I got out because my son came home to him beating me and took out his side arm pistol whipped him knocked out his 2 front teeth and while he was on the ground laid on top of him till the cops came .

@lauriesmith1321 Год назад

I felt every word of this. I have had this. I had to facetime though as proof. Also he would know exact miles on car. If i used petrol. He would want me to explain step by step where I had been.

@lauriesmith1321 Год назад

I never told people. I hid my bruises. I was already cut off from family. I just felt ashamed. I would have to be quiet when he hit me so my kids didn't hear. I felt I was protecting them. But the person I am now, I will never let anyone hurt me again.

@ZaraV Год назад

I'm so sorry you went through this. None deserves this. I'm glad you got out and you are a great mama ♥️