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Here is a solution for men to stop dating young girls and to pour into their own sons 

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The pattern of dating young girls never stops because some men haven't dealt with the trauma experienced when they were young.
Once at their peak,they don't realize how crucial it is to pour into their own. #parenting #highschool #relationships

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19 апр 2024

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@rudolphharrigan1804
@rudolphharrigan1804 2 месяца назад
Very interesting topic and thanks for sharing 😊
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 2 месяца назад
It's my pleasure 😇
@mohlomphehi
@mohlomphehi 2 месяца назад
The opposite argument can be made for parents in general to focus on the girl child and teach her not to be hypergamous so that a father wouldn't have to spend money on his boy just so that he can have a fighting chance against older men with means. This is more prevalent in girls with daddy issues, perhaps we also need to tackle the issue of why women lack positive male role models in their lives and are being raised by single parents, etc. This is a complex, multi-faceted matter that needs a complete and total societal overahaul. This is a chicken-and-egg paradox.
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 2 месяца назад
Not all women are hypergamous, some are preyed on and manipulated by older men. We can't always seek to speak to girl children and not focus on boy children. Thats the reason we have so many of them doing what they do to women. We neglect boys and tell girls what they do as if that will prevent the raping and killing of women which by the way is not caused by hypergamy but men who have undealt issues and not know how to regulate their emotions.
@mohlomphehi
@mohlomphehi 2 месяца назад
@TalkswithLebo My sister, we have a single-parenting pandemic in this country that is largely fuelled by the gynocentric legal justice system that is at the center of the problems that we as society face today. The overwhelming majority of the "men" you refer to are actually broken feminine "men" who have been momma'erd to death and have no business being used as the barometer for what constitutes men's behavior in society. The quality of "men" you see today and are complaining about, are (broadly speaking) the direct product of single mothers, and this is the unadulterated truth. Equally important is that the vast majority (not all) of hypergamous women have father issues as a consequence of being raised predominantly by women. I say all this to highlight that your view is an oversimplification of what is truly a complex societal issue that needs a deep analysis and a holistic approach. It's all about perspective, and it is difficult to get to the root cause because we each engage from our perspectives and fail to realize that both opposing views are true at the same time and that we need to meet eachother smewhere in the middle.
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 2 месяца назад
Majority of men are are a product of single mothers but you can't shy away from addressing why it is that men can walk away and leave women to raise their kids. When are you holding men accountable for the number of children who grow up without them. You keep making refernce to broken femine who are like that because of circumstances beyond control. When are you as men having conversations about why it is so easy for you to neglect your children? If more and more men understood the value of their sperm and the role of being a father, we wouldnt have so many problems. We can't always want to teach girls lessons and ignore boy children it's wrong and it's not progressive. The fact of the matter is that men leave and are not held accountable. Young girls end up seeking validation from men due to an absent father. Hold yourselves accountable
@mohlomphehi
@mohlomphehi 2 месяца назад
The core of the issue is not that boys lack guidance but that their upbringing often misses essential masculine balance. This is overshadowed by a pervasive misconception that men willfully neglect their paternal responsibilities just because... However, our gynocentric legal system, which typically favors mothers as primary custodians, significantly contributes to this misperception. Many men emotionally detach from their children as a mental health coping strategy, facing an uphill battle in a system biased against them. Those who struggle against this system may turn to violence or other destructive behaviors, often with tragic outcomes. Additionally, the legal ability for women to use child access as leverage in disputes, without accountability, perpetuates these problems. Until family courts equitably recognize both parents' roles, men are going to have to condition themselves to be what most women would call "heartless" at a moment's notice and be mentally prepared leave their children once things don't work out with their partner.
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