My name is Lebo, a spiritual advisor and life coach based in Pretoria, South Africa🇿🇦
I've created this space to talk about life issues, spiritual matters, relationships and experiences that may cause us to move away from our authenticity as people.
I use the gift of discernment to go deeper into situations and provide solutions based on my knowledge and answers I receive from God and my guardian angels 😇
I believe that most of us change our world view based on circumstances that affect us, wether good or bad. Sometimes not having answers causes us to move away from our peaceful state, harbor anger and bitterness. At our best, we are love❤️
I believe we were all brought here for a reason and purpose, we just have to be patient and allow God to do his will in our lives.
To get in touch with me, send an email to TalkswithLebo@gmail.com or send a whatsapp to : 0815044208
Why do always want what I have or what I want? It seems people start like my interests, so I take it as a compliment but give a stern warning that I do not tolerate other strange people who interfere with my relationships, and if he allows it, then he's not my type in the first place because I want a strong man who has the discipline to see through the Jezebels
Brief note, encouraging students especially females to "just study in varsity" hardly works. Between stepping into your identity, competition within friend groups, social media, daddy issues, climate change, environmental issues yoooh, ausi Lebo, it's alot! Alot of people encourage students to find a partner while still in varsity, but when you look around campus especially with married lecturers dating students, it almost makes you give in on love and just go with the masses for older men
I am a single mom of 2 kids for 2 men… i still feel weight of my last break up with my last baby’s father that its hard for me to coparent with him after attempts for us to get to an understanding failed… I would appreciate if there are suggestions on how to lead my situation… love the show
Aus Lebo.. the part about polygamy, I disagree from personal experience: A woman allowing for polygamy does not mean it curbs cheating. Cheating is about a lot more than getting to 100% by combining 2 women. He will continue to cheat to fill the hole, even temporarily, that exists. Cheating is about cheating.
Nigerians date fun girls and single moms. Regular girls don't mess with them. And when a Nigerian man hits on a SA woman, he spends his money and time trying to justify himself. And trashing South Africans. Most jollofinas get turned out and become self hating because most of them are single moms or working girls
I'm happy my father never put us through that by having children outside his marriage and even after his divorce with mom. That is not a pleasant situation for children either. This step step issue is nonsense
Hi Lebo, please keep up the good spirit. But I can't help noticing that you are kid yourself, perhaps if you study SA history, you would quickly realize that these satanic activities were very seldom pre- 1994. But OfCourse you were not born yet,
Excuse me please, should I disturb you, Ms. Lebo! I thank you so much for your explanation! I thank you for reading my message! I greet you kindly from Germany! Michele.
Louder please! It's not what one thinks it is! Besides, at work we find a lot out about ourselves and our skills, or a platform to discover that you are actually a great leader. Some environments even teach you some things you will need in that same marriage e.g. conflict resolution. If you're interested in learning about you..
Offramp a bit: South African native languages are FIRE! You sound amazing ladies. Back to regular programming: we are at pandemic levels of GBV and other forms of abuse. We need healthy combining of the families where if the men hear of GBV, the brothers or uncles intervene in the same way. Abuse of women will be ended by good men.
What kind of hair costs 500k. With that kind of money he's basically sharing his income with her, what is she giving him in return for her to get that kind over money.
Give them some grace please Lebo 🙏🏾 I am also just learning to call people etc. I realise it'a a flaw and I am the "go to" person for a lot of my people. Please just tell us, we're probably unaware and it's not personal.
There's grace when you told them they never share but still they don't change , but if it's only me who always shares it's pointless because it shows they don't trust me.
Well my husband told me that he makes money to ensure I'm okay even though I have my own job, so I feel that most Nigerian men rate human beings above material things. The wife is more valued than money not the money more than women and my husband is more important than every dime I have too. Because at the end of the day, he his family my family are the most important asset I have not the money. I can always make money, but I can't bring my husband back if I put money over him and vise versa
Having children out of wedlock will always be problematic and has no solution. God knew this and that’s why he created marriage and nuclear family and doesn’t condone sex before marriage . It is the best way to avoid all these problems. No baby mamas , baby daddy drama . no soul ties. marriage is likely to last because there is no comparison to anything previous partners etc . Children grow up more stable and balanced human beings.
If you don't mind me asking this question... The source of this so called spirituality information that you're currently sharing come from where or who...? And what in the case of a woman refusing a man access to the child for years? And how many men out there living well and large while they rejected their children... Give people proper information, which can be verified....
You are questioning the source of my spirituality because I'm not dressed in a pastors robe and nor a prophet's uniform, otherwise you wouldn't ask what you are asking. So I'm not not going to explain the unexplainable to you! 2. Those who have been denied access may or may not be affected if they inform their ancestors what is happening with regards to their kids. Most of you see material things and assume men are doing well, but not worry about the emotional and spiritual aspect of their lives. How many successful men are roaming clubs, Unmarried, changing women for reasons that can't be explained? The depression and all other ailments they go through, are caused by those things. Even if they were not doing well or have rejected their kids, they wouldn't tell you, but will come to people like myself to try and find out what is happening. You were triggered by something in this post and perhaps you are one of the people who have rejected their kids or denied access. Either way, you still need to look inward and sort yourself out and not approach you life using a general approach which has nothing to do with you.
So it means the starting point to solve this problem and stop this cycle should be dealing with hypergamy . It is the root cause causing an imbalance in dating scene . Everything else seems to be reactionary from all the affected parties. But I have to admit it is easier said than done, especially in this era of competition on social media being so rife.
