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Exactly. And she says she really likes him more than the other guys but why is she talking about him like that?

@@antonioallen9504 damn straight

Yeah but if the genders were reversed guess what steve would say? ‘The guy can’t get any better he should be patient the womens right blah blah’

It's tell not show but but ur right with the two major points

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She's lying !!

@@converseboyy1303 actions speak louder than words

@@Jay-jb2vr I agree, but I dont get why your saying this

Just leave and move on

@@youknow95 actually this woman was just crazy and a real man can actually see that easily and if i were in place of that man, i would have prolly did the same

True.... Men are not emotional like women. So once we say we don't want a girl.... We truly mean it. If a man thinks that a girl is precious for him... He will never let her go and will do whatever he can to keep her happy but if he thinks that the girl is not worth his time and effort then nothing can make him love that girl.

Yeah so sad actually

And vice-versa...

Yup

Just like someone's weight too

Indeed. That was intended to put him in a negative light but it showed her up as distasteful instead.

shes trying to lower his value in her eyes so she can justify leaving him or not being attracted to him, and steve is helping her

So, this behavior would be OK if he was a younger man? His age isn't the problem. He's an @$$Hole, plain and simple that's playing her! She needs to leave and stop wasting her time. The feelings shared between them aren't mutual.

The aggressive way she talks would drive any man nuts in little to no time!

She got other gifts and flowers from other men she entertaining...she tryna play both sides....he should just focus on his child....remember he's older, so he knows what she up to

And I don’t blame him at all

Why should he be? She looks like a train wreck.

And what should I do if would like to have a cup of coffee with you while listening to some deephouse and 🌞bathing on my favorite beach?

I can't say about whether it was right choice for the man but surely she did has some leftover feelings for him yet, she has her own life and multiple men as options. It would be hard for that man to replace her with equal valued woman who is desirable and have feelings for him too.

A man has to have sex

@@samboriboun2213 nahh your right hand is enough

Steve was trying to be considerate , by being polite, if he was not a nice polite person he would have blasted her off the roof and she would be ashamed of going viral on internet, steve considers other person feeling.

@@codingiscreativity HUH???? I know you don’t believe the crap you wrote 🤣😂

No need. He knows shes entertaining other men and is treating her accordingly.

She’s a singer. Men sometimes give gifts regardless

This girl is young and keeping her options open... my thoughts were she got caught out by a man who has been here before. So she directs the blame to him and does not listen to the message she was just sent "Sweetheart, choose me or the other men" But like most women... nothing is ever their fault...

@Tary Sunshine. Boys also give gifts. To their grandmother's, mothers, sisters, girlfriends, daughters....... ... If I was in the USA, I would give you a gift. 👗

@@tarysunshine3878 When men send gifts to women, it's mainly towards family members or people who are no way a romance option. Also, 99% of the time when men send gifts to women who are a possible romance option, like the the lady in the video, they are hoping for something in return. I have little doubt that there weren't phone numbers and other contact information included in these gifts. The boyfriend is old enough that he likely isn't a fool and is aware of that possibility as well. If she honored her relationship she would not showcase these "gifts" in her home. You can refuse them. It's called........listen closely.......Standing up for your relationship. Secondly, she talks about what she gets from other guys and what she wants to receive from her boyfriend, but what is she giving towards the relationship?

Was just about to comment this looool. I just see someone that really needs help. It's a shame

What do you mean by this? Not trying to be rude, just curious :)

Elise Martina red flag is something u wanna keep away from. And that’s what her man does. Thats what I mean.

Lmfao, she needs to find a new old man lol.

@Benjamin Mathew only way to go

EXACTLY

She does have alot of ego....😂 And i feel like she been hiding something and not exactly honest with herself

😂 yep

thats inside story

That’s what she want so she can continue to be the victim

Yep.

@Miles Doyle 😴

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Nah steve is being a women man with wrong judgement.

She wants to build with someone already built 😂😂

That's probably why he hasn't responded back to her, it's Valentine's day and I didn't get nothing, y'all only been dating for six months geez, she seems like she do wine a lot, no man wants to deal with that

I felt the same way.... too talkative.

True, Mr Harvey handled it well too., I was expecting him to say, 'lady keep quiet & listen'. She was too much.

Did you just say not judging then right a whole 2 paragraphs of judgement😂😂😂 okay Becky

She is from New York. This is normal

Exactly, she thinks he's a gift to him. With an attitude like that I would've left too without saying a word. Shows she had.no respect for him.

thabo mpala she's ridiculous

He probably traded her in for someone more respectful.. who wouldn’t??

She did?

Sounds like he has money but she does not respect him. I am sure the guy is aware of this.

Exactly! Damn she says is 27 but looks like 37! She won't always remain a blossoming for flower. I don't know why people flaunt thier age as something of an, achievement or trophy. Damn girl it's a natural process for some you are the fermenting fruit! She is the RED FLAG. No wonder the guy us ignoring her.

U can just tell that she annoys the hell out of any guy she's with,,,if she talks like that🤣🤣🤣

SHE IS THE RED FLAG 😂 😂

your**

She seems like a lot to handle. I'm 42 and I like some peace.

thank you im so glad to hear that come out of a females mouth

U DON'T know that stop assuming

She entertaining other men.....if she was truly invested in him, she wouldn't want no other guys....if a woman is really about one dude, she's not gonna accept gifts from other men, the fact that she did tells everything.....this dude is older and he knows what she up to, he has experience...he focusing on his daughter which he should be

"I'm like a blossoming flower and he's like a fermenting fruit ....." Let me guess, this guy has some money, she wants to build a life with him because of that, immediately after she will jump to the other guys that she truly wants, she is angry because she must be loyal to him to accomplishes her plan.

Dam that was a good response

Ares Lictor Why? He’s enjoying her, just not taking her seriously.

If she's getting a constant flow of flowers and stuff, she's hiding something. This guy smelled a cheater and ran lol.

Agreed....for sure, what I DO NOT understand as a 63 year old guy, is this incredible sense of entitlement and the desire for control so many of these women today seem to possess .....what is this? Are they mad?? Seems like so many go into this extravagant realm of panic... due to incredibly high levels of self loathing, triggered by certain events.....wow....this is nasty, and it is rampant in society. I should have been a clinical psychologist rather than a shop teacher....

he wants integrity and she as none, case closed.

I bet he was thinking, “woman shut the hell up.” I agree with others here that if she left her man, she’d be doing him a favor.

I think so

She's too out there with herself. The 42 year old man wants a woman that's settled and doesn't need every man's attention. Other guys give her V-day junk because she flirts with them. Then she waves it in the man's face to try to make him jealous. Men don't Ike that.

I know right love it the audience is always saying yeahhh or noooo otherwise they clap after Steve gives his advice. 😂

Yep I've learned both of these from Steve

Cut the loss

Save him, leave him alone

Maybe he was looking after his daughter on V day if he’s separated from the mother. And men should be prioritising their daughter over their girlfriends

@@memyself4376 keep believing that and you will end up single.

Thank you!!! Too annoying! 😏

Yes heaven forbid a woman should speak...the nerve of her #teamsarcasm

You 27!!? But you look 37!!

Arthur Gumbochuma 🤣

Sounds like she has it all figured out, so why she need to ask Steve???

Exactly! My GF saw this video & she said as a girl, she will too stay away from this apparently 'blossoming foower'!

@Marylee Macpherson we don't know his side of the story, U will be surprised. For all I know drawing conclusions based on one side of the story is not wise.

@Marylee Macpherson there's also a lot of 'Red' flags from the way she presents herself & wat she's saying. Receives Valentine's gifts from multiple men. Tell me sincerely Marylee, would u be ok with Ur bf receiving gifts on Valentine's day from multiple women?

@@kamvaallan2653 they're not in a relationship they're just seeing one another

@@tianamiller6820 that would infact explain a lot & provide some level of clarity.

kamva Allan Yes yes yes

thank you christina

This girl needs to lose about 100lbs and the “ thinking she’s all that attitude “ my guess is he has enough drama via his ex and don’t need another princess he got his daughter, this girl says she loves his daughter “she seen her a couple of times “ and only been together for 8 months . She probably just wanted to go on tv and big up herself

@SARA wether this woman is fat or not is a subjective issue i would say by most mens and womens standards in the western world she is overweight maybe not quite obese but certainly borderline , she certainly never had the salad options unless it came with dressing . You also ignored the rest of my post which i think had valid points too.

@@terenceholt49 Starting off with that absurd weight measurement didn't exactly help your point. From the looks of it, you either knew it was a crazy estimate when you said it, or you came at this situation with a biased negative viewpoint. Neither of those sound good for you. Using his daughter as an excuse is also terrible. Not only should that baby not be involved, but she also doesn't apply. The meeting her mother scenario could be excused with that, but the Valentine's Day scenario cannot. Period. He has no excuse for his actions. He knew what type of girl she was when he started dating her, and he chose Valentine's Day of all days to stop his romantic habits. As for her reason for coming to the show, she clarified that she needed validation and assurance that she was doing the right thing.

Tosin Akin from your name I am not sure English is your first language either way you don’t seem to understand the various nuances of language such as sarcasm or irony . As for your opinion that I came from a biased viewpoint, we all come from a biased viewpoint that’s why they are opinions. Facts are she is overweight by any standards and the fact she knew he was older than dirt when she first got him buying her food fact she brought up daughter not me and also brought up she was eating chocolate and probably the flowers she received from others . They were the facts my opinion is she didn’t need to mention any of this but she did go on to try to belittle the guy and big up herself . She realised she was the side chick as others put it and just tried to embarrass him where in reality she just made herself look a skank. End of day the fact is fat girls are like scooters a fun ride but you don’t wanna be seen out with one . Hopefully this clears up facts and opinions for you or at least finds your sense of humour.

His daughter shouldn't be 2nd to anyone.

@@brittaniharold1880 That lady needs to realize she'll NEVER be number 1 next to his daughter! Daddy's little girl will always come first!

@@ajaxjohnson7999 exactly.

Fr, you can tell she had this argument with herself so many times, otherwise why would she bring this topic up on TV? The whole "I DID NOTHIN' WRONG" attitude is absolutely disgusting. I wanna be a father one day and I'm sorry but my kids will always come first, ain't nobody got time for you when you over here braggin about a ton of dudes sending you flowers just because they broke or ugly. Bye girl

Nope a WMD!!

most western women are that way

Yea

Facts!!!!

You seem like someone she'd not be interested in.

I see it differently. Yes, she might act like a girl when she talked back like that. But if you try to understand more, she's trying to be brave to talk and get to her defensive mode because she needs it. Let's face it, it's kinda embarrassing telling people on television that your man didn't want you. Some girl could be on defensive mode, some might have their voice shaking up a bit and some might probably cry. It's nice she accepted the advise / get the confirmation she needed to cut off the guy from steve.

🤣 Didn't notice that. It was an appropriate reaction.

yeah, he can always tell everyone he hit that and does not have to pay her way as a consequence

😂😂😂

Not really...that is a 'sour grapes' response!!

Take a bow, Zac, that comment was hilarious! 👍🏽

Now that is the best comment I am hoping for that myself for myself!

Flowergirl Power you have a point.

Thank you

Or he was looking after his kid because his kids mother was out with her valentine

This is what it seems my bf is doing.is it okay for ur bf shud be asking when last u saw ur ex and what u guys talked abouy

No. You are thinking as a woman, who generally ends up cheating, we are not like you. Probably that guy just gives ger for granted, thats it...

I'll agree with this first part but this is not a men vs women thing that people always turn it in to. People who believe their kids come before their marriage actually end up divorced. Having a bible based marriage where the marriage is first is where children benefit the most. Putting your children first all the time raised narcissists like the way you're describing this lady.

Valentine’s Day is not for your kids plus is one day of the year. He was just not interested or spent it with someone else

@@Livhappy25 It's not for your parents either. He doesn't have to meet her mom on valentine's day especially if that means sacrificing time from his own daughter. She's also obnoxious and is playing games. She is just mad he doesn't wanna part of her stupid games. He needs to dump her

His priority is his daughter, not some 35 year old broad pretending to be 27 who peaked in high school

@@brittaniharold1880 lol aging like milk

Wow. Nagging cuz he don't do his job!!

true

You can totally see that this woman likes conflict. She is very easy to upset. Not good.

Amen

Right lol I'm 26 thinking this is a 38 year old lol 🤣

She is obnoxious, you call someone a fermented fruit because of age?

She 'blossomed' over ten years ago, her petals are falling off

at least she is 35yrs old

I was thinking the same. I thought that in this day n age people generally tend to look younger than they are (unlike 20-something year olds in the 70s/80s when they looked like they were in their 50s)

I agree, the man lost interest bc of her masculine energy.

AlienRider 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lol. So true

Steve only gives suggestion according to women for views

Lol...u nailed it😁😁

Degrading someones age is a no no.

Lol very true

chisuwo chabu 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣so damn tru girl...she’s over fueled this girl is weird

That's some real $h**. You have my respect. Not alot of people, let alone REAL WOMEN, see that.

Idkkkk. I feel like its not right to judge her from this clip. Let her have a strong personality. Who knows it could be her culture or something that make her outspoken and bold.

MGTOW

Lol what are u on about

Brandon Williams is that what they tell you?

MGTOW truth

@Royal Abstraction red pilled i see😎

shes not attracted to them because they have already pedestalized her. she attracted to the man who doesnt treat her special.

@@etf42 bingo.....

Women who can see through the fluff are so far n few between. 💙💍. You will be well in life if u keep looking at things the way u do

Jesus's son i'm a daughter of JESUS YES

That is what i am saying.how did they get her address to have flowers send. She sounds sketchy

I mean , she obviously playing her own games . How are you still getting gifts from other men after dating this guy for 8 months .... I don't care if it's valentine's day . She disrespectful.

Right, she keeps on cutting people and brags about herself. No guy is going to stay with such a woman

SEXIST AND WRONG. I wanna see what you look like!

nofy bn just wondering why sexist you could argue in your opinion she doesn’t look 40 but I can’t see the sexist part, in my opinion she looks about 40 kilo overweight but that ain’t sexist it be same if she was he.

@@nofybn7794 insure fat pig!

@@nofybn7794 lol swine spotted

She's gorgeous. Wtf is wrong with you?

You do have a valid point! 😱

You think being an a relationship with older man isn’t good anyway??

He most likely listen to coach Corey Wayne 🤣😂😂

Stuff men

Yes sir

His daughter is his good excuse. Daughter or not, if he were truly interested, she wouldn't be questioning it.

@Allen Reynolds Feminism is a virus.

@Allen Reynolds No it is not. I am a single mother. And have dated men with children. Yes, things can come up with your kids. But everytime there's something significant? And he doesn't try to make it up to her. Valentine's Day and meeting parents are really big deals. They are signs of commitment. He just doesn't want to commit to/be serious with HER. He could have had flowers and candy delivered to her in his absence. Instead of being honest, he's stringing her along.

duh brett f.she's attractive however she's seems way too much of a hassle for him.

duh Aries love, that's what I just said.

"SEEMS"? That's putting it lightly.

She can't keep quiet long enough to listen to advice.

Mad she got flowers from a bunch of men but that's OK right mad she didn't get her pot of gold ha ha

Hahaha, KINDNESS at its best!

You just cant get a girl. Kmt

Everyone isn't like her.

@@Peakprospr420 Thank god!!

I use to be happily single. Then I met him, and I fell in love with red flags lmfaooooooo

@@mbalmerx You should have stayed happily single then. Both emotional and economic HARMONY!!

It's only 8 months tho, everybody needs their time. It doesn't mean it's a red flag!

@@tinychamberz No, it is a red flag. They had time. I guess your a guy who strings women along for 5-6 years.

@@nofybn7794 she was stringing other dudes too but somehow doesn't like when it's done to her. She wanted him to meet her mother.. Valentine's isn't for your kids but it isn't for your parents either. She is an obnoxious loudmouth who already insulted him by calling him a fermented fruit. The amount of respect she has is zero.

@@Rtz89 exactly! As a 32 year old single mom I also get him, he's looking for a future step mom for his daughter but this girl is showing her true colors right there. She has zero respect and she is full of herself. Double 🚩

Joshua Pierre 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 facts

VERY DIFFERENT. VERY DIFFERENT, BUDDY.

He doesn't want her! He is using "HIS CHILD" as an excuse. Plenty of men have children but also find time to have a relationship with someone other than the mother of their child IF THEY REALLY WANT TO.

Typical, she wants the relationship only on her terms.

Exactly! And she is the red flag. If the gender would had been reversed god damn! All hell will break lose!

Most of the modern girls do this..... And their boyfriends have no idea....

No real man will take her seriously It looks likes she using others guys to receive more gifts.

I hate when girls who have the entitlement about holidays, why can't you surprise your man on valentine's day or Christmas day. Isn't there gender equality?

@@Ace8845678 Yes a girl can surprise her man,make plans for the holiday or special event etc, but in this case their relationship is only 8 months old. When the relationship is this young we weigh everything, and how we are treated in the first 6 months to a year in a relationship is very important to us.

@@shewearsmanyhats377 so do men, we weigh the relationship as well. We value how we are treated in the beginning of the relationship as well. Your explanation doesn't really make sense

@@Ace8845678 Whatever makes you happy sir. Have a good evening.

@@shewearsmanyhats377 please keep that entitlement you have towards every man you meet, you ll find your perfect mate

More like cannon ball dodging.

😂😂 damn true

No feminine traits.

She has a deep voice

🤣

Yep

G Kenobi Right! Smh

I know right! Steve just chose to ignore that point. Frustrating

In case you haven't noticed Steve ALWAYS sides with the woman. There is a term for that, and the woman always flock to him for validation as they know this guy will side with them.

Well, she's a woman, so it's ok, it's not ok if it was a man, if it was a man we should humiliate him to the ground on TV.

Hes trying to get her to focus on the guy's action. Cause the guy doesnt care about those flowers either lol

Exactly my feeling.

Lmao

As a native new Yorker she'd be fun for the night, she's very masculine. Can take her to the football game as a friend lol 🤣 but she has zero chances of relationship the way she acts lol.

@@jaredjames1989 hahahaah

xD

Dog 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

He kept calm and automatically , she’s deleted

Flower is ready to wilt

Axe Still she’s a weird woman

Accept gifts? Flower delivery shows up at the door. You have the option to refuse the flowers, throw them out, or put them in a vase. But neither of the first two options affects the person who sent them. What’s she supposed to do? She makes a good point that it’s not her fault if other guys send flowers. She has no control over their behaviour. Why is the comment section determined to think the worst of her without knowing anything about her?

She said she's a singer/songwriter. I know men and women who are performers, like her, that have admirers who send gifts. She isn't necessarily dating the men sending her flowers. They could just be fans

Typical females love playing victim too

@@cslcojoco Where they get the address from?

No, its a black flag...

Hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

@Jeremy Honeycutt haha, right on :)

The WALL is undefeated

She funny😂

no, she is trying to convince herself to leave him

Yup. Sometimes we can all make up our mind but don't take a step only until someone validated our decision. Like a nudge of sorts to the direction we want to take.

she says she can sing...there is a difference