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@@harrymajor998 I'm a muslim and live in malaysia,and the majority r muslim in my school(I'm 14) and they all date each other since they were 12 or 13 years old 🤦
@@foziahmatzain5703 IKR like tf (I'm Malaysia too) a friend of mine dated a tiktok famous and now they have broken up and she's in a mess I'VE TOLD HER MANY TIMES NOT TO DATE bruh.
Why is no one talking about the lady who told her that she taught his son not to do that to girls, not to push them into something they don't want. Like this is what everyone should be teaching boys.
@@nooffencebut8175 Yeah, this kind of pressure is more common in men, but there are a huge amount of ways you can manipulate a person or make them feel unconfortable. Parents should teach not only to avoid those kind of behaviors, but to be capable of defend themselves against that kind of people
my mom always say to me: "if a guy tells you to sleep with him to prove that you love him, you should always respond with 'if you love me, you would respect my choices'"
In a realistic sense, nobody should pressure you into that situation and you shouldn't fall victim to it especially if you aren't ready for the experience or consequences or even feel strongly aboutthat other person. It should be something that happens naturally in a sense, when you're both ready although some situations aren't like that. Another thing is educate yourself on proper birth control (Not The Pull Out Method), or try because I know some parents are strict or religious and that's frowned upon.
@@bhoomigupta2083 It isn't safe both because the girl can still get pregnant or get diseases. Never ever have unprotected sex unless you want to get pregnant. For youngsters. Don't have sex unless you are sure that you can afford to raise a child if you accidentally get pregnant. There have been cases where the female still get pregnant even with protected sex.
@@bhoomigupta2083 Pulling out doesn't work, no matter how much you trust someone, you can't trust that they'll pull out in time or that there isn't anything already there. If there is no contraception the girl can easily end up getting pregnant and one or two of the partners are left to deal with STIs and/or STDs.
Yup and birth control isn't even the only thing to be worried about, there's still STD/STI's from which birth control doesn't protect. And condoms only reduce risk but doesn't stop them. In the states, there was more information about safe sex than ever before and the STD rate still increased in the past couple of years. Getting tested, not participating in risky sexual behaviors or promiscuity which the CDC classifies as too risky, and having sex only with people you genuinely trust are things that people still aren't taking seriously. Research now shows that the majority of people who rushed into sex, especially teens and young adults, regret it, even men (whom society thinks can't help themselves).
The whole world have seen a side of china already and it's more than enough... No hate to China people BCZ it's not their fault but solid hate for the ruling parties over there... Hope ! People there stay happy and live their life to the fullest✨💯✨.
@@anantsharma8897 no the whole world chooses to believe western media about China lmao, and the fact that western media only shows the worst side of china
@@minnkosviv i am in no mood to have a political discussion over something which is disgusting even to imagine because whole world is suffering from COrona virus I also dont like chinese gov bcz india and china are face to face on the borders and i stand with my country...again saying " No hate for thr chinese people,i like them but not the ruling parties" because they are continuously causing problems on the borders.. . you can ALSO hate indian gov if u want to,stand with your country...i personally wont feel bad...
I actually went to China before and people were really kind and friendly. There are loads of good locations there. Every country has good and bad sides. People just generalize so much.
I think realisticly speaking, a girl wouldn't feel comfortable telling a man about sex, but telling a woman is easier. Maybe that's why she sat near women.
Yeah, but change it up a little like. Make it a teen boy wanting advice from other older guys about how he wants to have sex with his gf and wants to know how to go about it. Wonder if the guys would give him advice or warn him he's too young. (I mean a girl can pressure her bf to have sex too, but majority of male teens wouldn't be disturbed enough to talk to strangers about that)
Someone once said, "you'll never know a person's real character until you told him "no." If a person really loves you, he won't force you. True love is first expressed in respect.
OH.. 😭😭 Chinese people are so caring and comforting even with the strangers. Now I can say China is far better than my own country. Huge respect for China and the people. 😭😭❤❤
I would have told her that if she was curious to try it too, there would be no harm. But if for her the first time is to be special or it has to be with her love of her life then she had to consider that she might be disappointed.
@@vincenzo-maidiac-5457 Are you normal? You're literally ignoring the fact that her 'supposed boyfriend' was trying to force her into it and she clearly was scared and crying as she didnt want to do it due to her knowing she was'nt ready and too young . You're saying that you would tell her to try it? Wtf is wrong with you men? And you're also saying that there would be no harm? Didn't you watch the video? Also she could get pregnant, he could be playing her or maybe give her an STD. Honesly, you're no different to the boyfriend.
@@sandrayazin3292 Ahahahah what? We assume that my answer is only to the initial question, which is whether or not to do it with the guy she's with. Then it is logical that the speech changes according to the details. When it comes to getting pregnant, it's impossible for an 18-year-old girl to be unaware of the risks, but you just need to take precautions and be aware of what you're doing. On the fact of forcing, I do not express myself because we should first understand what is meant by "forcing". Telling a girl "I'm walking away from you because I have my hormonal needs" is not to force. The girl has every right to leave him if she doesn't want to, just as the boy has every right to want something more. Forcing means doing it by force, not expressing one's opinion about it. No one does it the first time with the person in her life. I had 3 virgin girls with whom they had their first time with me, and just think, they were the ones who left me after a few years. Break out of taboos.
I love how the different ages all supported her in thier own way. The mum type wanted to comfort her and feed her. The young girls were fierce and savage as f 🤣. The grandma type was soft and caring. Love it. Could you do this again with Kai Xin but let’s see if men will comfort her and with what style.
I’m glad this is being brought up. A year ago my friends boyfriend was pressuring her into sexual activity that she was not okay and he started becoming very demanding and forceful. Thankful she realized what was going on and left the relationship. And I’m happy to see this is being brought to attention.
This is how me and my now best friend met actually Her scumbag bf was trying to force her to have love with him, and I helped her say no. They ended up break-up, but I am happy they did. I sometimes thing of all the bad things that could have happened to her if I payed no attention to her.
U did a great work as a friend...u saved her whole life from a scum bag....wish I had friends like u.....I wish u n ur best friend will always be happy....n fight difficult things together...
This is weird story how I found my friend. 😂 I accidentally meet a stranger(girl, but same age like me) at the beach 8 years ago. Our eyes lock together and we try to speak with each other lol. And after that we went home, we never meet again. After a fews years, I meet her at the cafe. We saw each other but we don't greeting each other. After a few month, I saw her at the cafe again. So I started be friend with her. She is shy to be friend with me. After that, we become best friend until now... 😂
2:20 these 2 girls in sailor school uniform have seen some pretty dark stuff lol I wasn't even thinking about these things until they said it. Girls, you are very well prepared for the rough reality of life.
just say "NO" No is a word that needs no explanation. When a woman says no, he should wake up and stop. whether it's friends, girlfriends, sex workers, or even your own wife
Well you can also have a conversation with your partner. Don't just say 'no'. Try to explain why you say no. If your partner can understand better why you don't want, they can change their mind. Having good communication in a couple is very important if you want it to last
@@krishnamehta4504 What do you mean? When someone ask you to do something and you ask ''why?'', don't you like knowing the reasoning? Its the same with relationship. If you love your partner, you will take a few minutes to TRY explaining your reasoning. If you cannot be honest with each other about how you feel, then how can you be happy together? Will you break up with every guy who ask you to have sex? One day you will need to be more mature if you want a more serious relationship
I once had friend who pressured me doing it with him. We weren’t even boy and girlfriend. I told him that I don’t want to a lot of times, pushed his hands away and cried in front of him because I just didn’t know what to do. We were really close at that time. Afterwards we had lots of arguments and I thought everything was my fault. I took me a while to realize what really happened and that it was not okay but it’s not my fault. Please if you ever get into a similar situation distance yourself from that person even though it can be hard
Well I had a similar experience. He asked me to do it with him . But the next moment he got a slap and a punch. Thank god I know taekwondo . He begged me to keep it as a secret. There are so many problems going on with his family. So I kept it as a secret. He is one of my dad's freinds son. So we often meet during dinner and all. But I still feel insecure sitting in front of him 😑
This is a lesson that everyone should learn, on this society we need to educate ourselves on what we are doing, must decide first before doing things that will cause harm to each everyone of us, an content like this can make us learn things(but not at times), and can help us whether everything takes place.
Yo, those two girls in the black uniform would be AMAZING friends to have, like, she says what if her bf asks again, and immediately... DON'T TALK TO HIM, BLACKLIST HIM, TAKE YOUR DAD TO TALK TO HIM, CRAZY MAN, ILL COME CONFRONT HIM!! like yooo girl, I wish I was that brave 😂😭
Totalmente, pero cambiando de tema, ya que eres el único comentario en español que encontré, en el vídeo le dijeron que 18 años es muy joven para tener sexo, yo quedé tipo, wtf?
@@GonHardcoreRamCoreGyR es porque en la cultura asiática son muy conservadores y aunque intenten no imponer esto a sus hijos, muchos padres crecieron con la idea de que tener relaciones antes de casarse es impensable Yo por ejemplo, soy asiática y muchas veces mis padres inconscientemente me intentan meter la idea. Frases como "cuando seas mayor lo entenderás. Ahora tu prioridad es estudiar, después ir a la universidad, independizarte, encontrar un buen trabajo, tener pareja, casarte, etc" No lo hacen con mala intención o al menos en mi caso no me imponen que tengo que seguir ese estilo de vida, pero es algo que se les enseñó desde pequeños
i love these videos, but it also makes me a little sad to think about how different the culture and society seems to be from what we have here in the US. we're so individualistic that it can honestly feel very lonely. there have been a few times in my life where i've broken down over something in public, and no one has ever cared. in fact, people are more likely to give you weird/dirty looks or talk about you to their friends than try to help.
The sense of community is priceless in Asian culture. That’s why I love it so so much, I live in HK and I experience it all the time. Very healthy environment to raise children as children and within a sexualised toxic culture like in modern wester culture, it is sad that all these morals and values were the common daily thing just a few decades ago
If he doesn't respect your choices, not he doesn't agree because a person is a allow to disagree and voice their opinions but if he doesn't Respect your choices. LET HIM GO.
Es un buen video! Y claro que representa la situación que muchos de nosotros los jóvenes vivimos o vemos en nuestros amigos cercanos, hay que entender que forzar a alguien a hacer algo que no desea no es bueno ni tampoco es símbolo de amor. Valorense mucho como para darse cuenta que nadie merece ponerlos a realizar esa "prueba de amor". Paz. ♡
I've dated guys who were pushy, and guys who weren't. In the moment, when you're involved with them, there's definitely a difference. You feel it, the way they treat you. When you look back, it's so much more of a difference than you can imagine. The guy I'm with now reminds me of an ex, but only in the way that he's so different. My ex was pushy, and didn't really respect my limits- but I was a teenager, in love, and didn't know how to stand up for myself. Now I'm an adult, with a lot more experience, and I can recognize that I shouldn't have stayed with him. The guy I'm with now absolutely respects how I feel, and never pushes me to do more than I feel comfortable. It's so nice to know that he'll never make me feel uncomfortable in that way, and it really takes a weight off my shoulders. I thought that my ex was the best I'd ever get, that I had to deal with him, had to accept his behavior. That I'd never find someone else who would treat me any different, because I thought my ex was a "Good Guy". I was so wrong. There's someone out there who will respect your limits, actually listen to what you want and need, and will never pressure you. It is something worth waiting for. As someone who has felt both dynamics, there's no question to which you should accept.
If u already firmly said no and they try to guilt you by saying, "if u really love me, you'd do it." Leave them. If they actually care & respect you they wouldnt have said that in the first place.
الحمدلله ع نعمه الإسلام التي تمنع الأختلاط إلا ف الضروره لتمنع شهوات الرجل الذاتيه وتمنع ان يفكر الرجل بالأنثى او حتى يلمسها إلا بعد الزواج الحمدلله رب العالمين الذي منعنا من تلك الكبائر التى ف بعض الأحيان تجعل البنت تفكر ف الأنتحار الحمدلله ع نعمه الإسلام اللهم لك الحمد
Sou do Brasil, e não considero normal as pessoas fazerem sexo a partir de 17 anos para baixo, mas é comum, acho isso uma "modinha" sei que essas pessoas não fazem isso porque realmente querem mas sim pela influência da sociedade só que as pessoas não vem, várias pessoas são submetidas a fazer algo pela a opinião da maioria, essas coisas entram como mensagens subliminares na mente das pessoas e é muito importante ser mente forte e saber o que VOCÊ realmente quer!
É verdade minha primeira vez eu tinha 14 anos não foi por influencia ou coisas assim, eu que tava com fogo na bacurinha e tava doidinha pra dar kkkk é necessário vc saber quando vc quer e na hora que vc quer, se sentir pronta e preparada é o essencial independente de qualquer coisa
E eu aqui achando que era a única brasileira que assistia esses videos kkkk Mas super concordo com o que você falou Muitos por exemplo vão por influência, minha amiga fez bem jovem por conta de outras "amigas" a influenciando No fim ela me disse que foi horrível
@@Belgas2001 Conversas, mídias, assuntos pensamentos, não é bem necessário que alguém fale diretamente para você fazer isso, falo de tudo em nossa vida, reflita.
Verdade, a minha primeira vez eu tinha 15 anos mas foi por vontade msm apesar que muitas "amigas" falavam q eu era atrasada e varias outras coisas mas eu msm só perdi quando sentir vontade e tive confiança na pessoa q no caso era e é meu namorado ate hj, apesar de me sentir arrependida as vezes
Omg....these people are so nice and understanding and kind,I aspire to be a good person like them too. Its so sweet how they offer to talk to her boyfriend if he forces her again to knock some sense into him
It’s because of the media and the fantasy pornography that teenagers be watching, All abusing, forcing, choking, slapping , screaming, and they make it seem like females actually enjoy those disturbing acts. They think she’s saying no only to tease him but she actually wants it , just like in pornography. Really sad reality.
Patrick Mulopo give up when she says no, maybe she changes her mind later but no is always a no, when she says no she doesnt want it in that moment and you should give up, if she changes her mind later thats on you to decide if you want to still fo for it.
Exacly, if he won't wait till she feels ready, then kick him out. Like that one Woman said, she'll find a better one in the future. Also that Woman even inviting her to her place so she eats something.. man!
toda vez que assisto um vídeo eu saio com um aprendizado diferente, isso faz eu me tornar uma pessoa melhor, eu adoro esse canal, me faz refletir muito, já chorei várias vezes assistindo os vídeos, espero que esse canal cresça mais e mais e ajude a fazer outras pessoas perceberem ou até mesmo evoluírem por meio desses vídeos. keep it up, your videos help me a lot to become a better person, i am grateful to everything. ❤️✨
I'm here 1 minute after this released and I'm the 30th commenter that never happens. Oh and thank you for the awareness treeman this happens to a lot of girls guys too in same sex and different sex relationships this happens to people so much in the world it's honestly sad
