Yo, if youre exiting high school and youre getting this wisdom, you are way ahead. This is just straight up best practices in modern dating. Not toxic, not bullshit, just straight facts. I apply most of these already, but having to figure it out myself via struggle wasted so much time
She must never stop chasing your validation and establish the fact that you will never accept any ANY DISRESPECT. If she does something disrespectful walk away and if she comes back it's ok
my ex said when we met first be who you are and i said to her too we both said ok ok after 3/4 weeks she said be a little cold 🥶 i said ok after 2 months she said you think you are something else cos i was cold then said ok i will be normal after 2 months she said you are too nice and i need someone who had experience dating i walked away she blocked and unblocked me and it was 5 months ago and now sometimes she shows my story wtf!! i did a big mistake cos she was my first girlfriend but man growing up 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Stop with this unnecessary consulting. I am a 23-year-old university student who is heavily interested in a 20-year-old university student. I will introduce myself very formally and shake her hand. Then, I intend to approach her in the canteen so that I can spontaneously eat with her during lunchtime. I do not care about your low quality rules
MY NUMBER 1 RULE: She Absolutely MUST R E S P E C T you!!! If a girl refuses to follow your lead, or doesn’t go along with your ideas or plans then she can never be attracted to you, want you sexually or even Love you. RESPECT comes before all those things first, in order for her to CHASE your validation. Learned this one the hard way!!
If your getting with girls that have club promoters trying to get them to come out and she's got many men in her dms at all times then man you are tripping. Get you a good looking plane Jane with no social media, goes to work, gym, visits family and then back home bro trust me better results by far
Even if you find out that she is a "good girl" or "high quality woman", don't expect her not to change, and don't assume that you will always be happy with her. She may eventually cheat on you, or you may eventually grow tired of her. The game is NEVER over. Accept that every relationship can change for the better or worse at any time. That is reality.
Facts she’ll put you through no test or minimal. Always stop talking to girls that out up all these test or make stuff inconvenient for you in the courting stages because someone out there isn’t going to do that and it’ll be worse in a relationship 🤷🏾♂️ As Damian Lillard said “I ain’t come here to waste time”
The weekends thing is golden. If youre getting to know a girl or in a relationship with one and if she goes from giving you weekend availability to weekday availability then you really don’t mean shit to her. Its brutal but thats how it is boys.
Great video man. Keep these coming! A lot of wisdom in the experience of feeling genuine desire. Men only fully understand this when they feel it first hand. Become the man you would be proud your daughter found fellas!
Man I went out on a pumpkin patch date last night. Girl brought up the “what are we” thing for the third time since we started talkin back in May. She even told me she loved me…..I told her I don’t want to be in a relationship rn since I’m pretty busy most of the time. And I still have my goals im tryna pursue. Plus I’m thinkin about moving states next year. I don’t wanna start something if I’m gonna have to eventually end it
if she's hooked on you like a drug, then words won't affect her. if she's just using you to keep her company, get resources, or provide her entertainment, then she'll revert to manipulation to keep it going. if she loves you more than any human on the planet, she'll make it clear as day and express everything to you for years even if you don't acknowledge any of it. for whatever case it may be, i find it best to state my reasoning for abandoning her and then give her the space for the idea that it's over to register into all the fibers of her being. (cutting off contact). but it's best to do this when she's not in an extreme state of emotional distress as any logic will be completely dispelled. if she is then you can come back and state your reasoning once more when she is in a calmer state. whatever you do, don't feed into any of the things she'll say to keep you from leaving, and stay as emotionless and calm as possible to engrain your certainty in seeking separation in her entire being more deeply
Tell her you had a great time with her but you no longer want to pursue the connection and wish her the best for the future. Thats really it and you can answer some questions but just make it clear that you aren’t willing to reconsider.
It’s funny that Austin said that about hood girls because, I’ve dated so many supposedly good girls that turned out to be manipulative 304s. Not to say they all are but guy be very cautious regardless.
I gotta say, and I know you give the advice to level up all the time Austin... But the average guy should never want to stay average. We live in one of, if not the most prosperous country. We should all be killing it. Not all at the same pace, but keep growing. Can't wait to meet you one day AD and collab on a workout.
Very good advice. You guys need to remember women love attention and validation. Men can give it away too freely this is what gets you in the friendzone too easily.
I gave up on girls. I improved my looks as I was maturing and now I frequently get compliments by attractive girls. But all that means is they like you for superficial reasons, they don't give a shit about you on a deeper level. I was literally invisible 5 years ago. Love will never be real for me again
Ive never been flaked on.. when I call I find out what she is already doing, tell her im up to something 10x more fun than what she is doing aka what I want us to do together.. tell her to come join you before you leave that location and she will be there in under an hour. If not, she misses out coz you will be having fun with another girl or one you pickup.. dont shoot yourself in the foot by cutting off other girls..when you limit your options, all your focus is on one girl and she will start acting up
If only a small percentage of men are considered high value then by definition not every man should be following these rules. The guy that’s 5’4, fat, no social skills can’t go by the same rules as the guy that’s 6’1, ripped, and knows his way around women.
Yeah but you gotta remember females say one thing and do another. Woman care about skin, teeth, and hair way more than height and muscle. So men should follow these high value rules. Always start with improving yourself and then start everything else.
Im in a situation where I met this gorgeous girl that I connected with, she’s very traditional, little social media presence and with good family connections and values, her body count is below 5 and she expects that the guy takes the traditional role of paying for the dates and providing, she retribuires by giving me massages after a long day and cooking/ cleaning Y’all think that’s a red flag or is it the ideal situation ?
I came up to the conclusion that the owner of that plattform would have to pay me for listening all that misconceptions bullshit…that has been said on that podcast..
I don't know if u realise this but the reason so many influencers and celebs look so damn good is because they have Hair, eyebrow, beard transplants, they have the best skin treatment that they can refill monthly, they have the best trainers to get into near perfect shape. So what u need is money, lots of money, when we grow up we start to lose hair, grow fat, and skin looks worse, they can afford to prevent all of this. Even the guy who owns this channel, either he's been genetically blessed as a 1% man or he's more likely had all of these treatments before and has a worldclass trainer
C’mon bro. Be serious… not saying that wouldnt be cool and all. But anime As the first thing? Really? Hell even if she did, best believe she’d have hella guy friends to go with that. Anime girls always do. Hope you find her though.
@@moneymakinmitch8130you don't wish bro. You think about just the sex, but it's so hard actually to keep them all satisfied. All women want attention and time. We end up ghosting them and do what they do to us. But this fucks up the dating market.
One more thing dont get comfortable and start losing your way lads, you built up yourseld and ask why she gonna leave when you get comfortable and going back to doing whatever it is you were doing.
Advice like this served me well in my teenage years. If you're young (18>) absorb the advice given in these types of videos and you'll have a pool of high-quality women to choose from. Hopefully from that pool you can find a long-term partner. It worked for me!
Gentlemen, there’s no point in wasting your time with women that don’t show enough interest on you. Women who have a high attraction level for you will make things easier and more fun.
Guys, dating starts with obeying what the bible says. First, fornication is sin (sex before marriage) and God says if you continue to do it knowing its wrong and keep asking for forgiveness, you will not inherit heaven. You will burn in the lake of fire for eternity my friends. Here's what i would do...if you dont have inner peace about the girl, you should NOT begin dating her in the first place. 2nd if you two are interested in a relationship, you should consult your preacher and ask him how to go about dating her. 3rd you shouldn't be dating her if you 2 aren't leading to marriage. So dating for fun or to get sex isnt biblical. Its unpopular but refuse to follow the ways of the world
And this is the difference between Islam and Christianity. In our religion, even if you sin knowing it’s wrong and ask for forgiveness, Allah will accept but if you fall into the act again even if you tried to avoid and ask for forgiveness, you will be forgiven. Islam is more tolerant.
It’s about status and the bag!… look at all the baddies that chooses Lil Wayne.. and please don’t tell me it’s because his looks ..like C’mon y’all ..Fellas get your weight up and gain status!! End of story lol lbs
To all: You don't need 'that clown' to attract women. Just be well-groomed, stay active, have a sense of humor, and consider yourselves handsome. Perhaps work on your dress code and be respectful
The issue I’m having the girls who choose me aren’t particularly attractive. I’ve raised all my levels up but it seems the very attractive girls aren’t choosing anyone like that
Been following you for a few months and your advice helped. Im getting a lot more matches and dates. I do struggle to elevate the sexual tension on dates, and sometimes get friendzoned pretty quickly, or get told that the connection isnt there. Any tips on what I can do? Im really good at making conversation, but I just cant seem to take that extra step on dates
