This is what life is about. Doesn't take a lot of money, just people taking the time to recognize you and love you on your special day. The cake and clown were mere cherries on top ❤
Me TOO! I’m always so sincerely Happy for such people when I see these videos with lots of loving Friends and Family, but it DOES hurt my Heart deep inside because I wish so much that I had that too! It must be such a wonderful feeling. I spent my last Birthday completely Alone.He seems like he DESERVES to be so loved. ❤️🌹
I Completely understand, I’ve always been the guy to make a big deal out of everyone’s Birthday. Sadly I noticed a pattern two decades ago, when it’s my birthday no one is there not even my mother. I have four brothers, none of them has ever given me a birthday gift, my mother barely gave me one. I have never missed a birthday nor any holiday for that matter. I refused to belived this was done intentionally. It wasn’t done intentionally, I wasn’t on their radar to begin with. That was a hard pill to swallow. Now I thank the Lord for another year, and head back to sleep. I sleep the day away, the next day I’m fine. I don’t part take in holidays any longer, none are kind to my mental as well as my depression. I watch RU-vid videos of being praised on their special day, I live vicariously through them. Sad, I know but hey at this point I get it.
@@TonioDC79 Tonio, I’m so very sorry that you are treated this way and UNDERVALUED because you sound like a lovely person who DESERVES so much better!! I know how much it hurts no matter how hard we try to tell ourselves it doesn’t matter. We who are in this situation just have to cope exactly as you do, by doing whatever allows us to get through those “special” days the best way we possibly can. I wish I knew your Birthday because then I’d think of you and be wishing you a measure of happiness on the day, Tonio. I also watch the videos and as I said I genuinely feel happy for those people and I try not to let it make me too sad for what I don’t have. Be good to yourself, Tonio, and I’ll think of you. ❤️🌹🎂 (the birthday cake is for whenever your special day is 🌹❤️)
There are people who love you this much. Maybe you just haven't met them yet. And I don't want to sound preachy, but I believe JESUS loves you this much and more. I don't want to sound like I'm shoving my beliefs down your throat, I just want you to know you're loved. They're just waiting for you in the future. I hope this makes you feel a little better. :)
@candygrace6696 thank you 🥰 I truly appreciate you taking the time to write this to me. It meant a lot reading it. I'm going to go to church this week. ❤️❤️❤️ I do love the lord.
Just recently I totally forgot I even had a birthday, no one’s really celebrated it before, my family didn’t and I never minded, as long as I got a happy birthday from the people who mattered I felt fine. But one day my friends showed up and took me to top golf, my sister who I hadn’t seen in years was there with my dad and my friends brought their friends. Everyone paid for themselves and my sister paid for me. I got cake for the first time in like 15 years and it made me extremely happy to know that the people I care about care about me in return. Stay cool y’all.
Humble man and and kindness you don’t have to go far to enjoy your birthday no expensive restaurants no expensive places just a place that you can get together and enjoy your birthday. Happy birthday.
What an epic birthday surprise! Your Mrs, family and friends totally nailed it by turning Costco into party central. 😄 Seriously, the CEO of Costco needs to see this and hook you up with a lifetime membership for bringing the party to their aisles! Here's to many more birthdays filled with laughter, love, and unexpected adventures. Cheers!
Like the cliche says … it’s the simple things in life… and that’s all you need… all your favourite people and your family who love and care about you!❤🎉🎉🎉 happy birthday buddy!
