His Wife Tried To End Him!

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Today on Unfiltered Stories, we share the courageous story of Michael Neely, who endured many years of physical, emotional, and mental challenges within his marriage. Facing extreme situations, including life-threatening injuries, Michael's journey is one of profound strength and survival. Despite these harrowing experiences, he has worked towards recovery and rebuilding his life.
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Website: www.nmcctampa.org
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Book: Black Eyes And Sweet Talk: A Biblical Perspective On Domestic Violence: Neely, Michael: 9781729140246
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@angelaholmes8888 3 месяца назад

Michael is brave to speak up about his trauma because male survivors have a hard time talking in fear of being not believed

@user-lg6tx5sx5l 3 месяца назад

Or fear of just being judged and feeling unmanly

@Elyricist746 2 месяца назад

Or laughed at😢it's not right for men's feelings not to be validated..men get abused too...and not all of them hit women back...and women know this...and take advantage..ITS NOT FAIR😢😢

@aprilshorty4094 2 месяца назад

They don't want to look like they're less than a man but to me it shows how much of a man they're are. Once a woman hits a man once and he doesn't hit her back she now begins to make it a habit.

@amberfoges5785 3 месяца назад

'Till death do us part, does not mean until my spouse kills me' is such a powerful quote❤️

@diamondjack-cooper5322 2 месяца назад

AMEN!

@JaNaeSmith-vk7uk 2 месяца назад

Right

@michellejohns5373 2 месяца назад

Right

@judysmart-deveaux6211 2 месяца назад

My ex menacingly told me, our vows said, 'till death do us part' He was a pastor and an abuser- physical, emotional, mental, financial. He even stopped working or bringing a dollar but stole from my purse. Thank God i got the courage to leave and am alive.

@crystalsherman8896 2 месяца назад

Powerful and true statement

@Sew-Ronica 2 месяца назад

15 years of abuse is crazy. That's not marriage, that's a prison sentence.

@christianbenn316 2 месяца назад

& should never bd tolerated

@user-bp1cy5xw8h 2 месяца назад

Sometimes, by parting ways from the wrong person, God opens a door for the right person to enter into😮 your life.

@michellejohns5373 2 месяца назад

AMEN❤

@msrain1235 2 месяца назад

Very true

@kissengerc9468 2 месяца назад

Not necessarily but I get what you are saying

@carlissable 2 месяца назад

No where in the Bible does GOD say put up with abuse. My God. Glad that you lived to tell your story. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@cgtcne 2 месяца назад

People forget to apply common sense to situations

@digimonalvatrax2738 2 месяца назад

Meanwhile society- *Go and make peace*

@belovedaam2343 2 месяца назад

Do you understand the mental and spiritual trauma that abuse does to the brain? Constantly in fight or flight mode, do you know what that's like? Applying common sense isn't that simple.@@cgtcne

@user-bp1cy5xw8h 2 месяца назад

I lived with an abusive husband for 7 years. He tried to kill me multiple times. He used to choke me, bang my head against the floor, strip off my clothes by force, push me down on the floor to lay on my stomach and was sitting on me as another way to suffocate me. He would call his family and mine to make himself appear innocent and complain by shifting the story around. He was not only violently physically abusive but emotional and mentally too. I was able to get him to vacate my house by filing a restraining order. Now after 3 years he is begging to comeback but I refuse to take him back.

@soothingyoursoul3 2 месяца назад

And pleasssseeeeee dont!!!!

@michellepalmer924 2 месяца назад

These behaviors are not only mental but spiritual…God kept you

@carlissable 2 месяца назад

I wouldn't even converse with him. DON'T DO IT. The doctor's and therapist say when you go back it will get worse than what they gave before because you had the audacity to leave me,. Never go back to what GOD securely moved you out of..PLEASE DON'T.🙏🙏🙏

@Godslove33- 2 месяца назад

Thought my ex came up with the sitting on you 😩 So traumatizing!!!!! Glad you left 🩷

@lsfromrncforjc2254 2 месяца назад

So sorry you suffered through that. Keep it moving away from him. 🙏

@ricardoambroise427 2 месяца назад

No one deserves to be abused-woman or man! So happy you made it out ! ❤

@christianbenn316 2 месяца назад

You can,t trust no one of any gender these days for they are hidden red flags.

@Trendolyn78 3 месяца назад

Thanks Pastor Neely for being an activist and advocate. You are a a brave hero❤

@caterinadelgalles8783 3 месяца назад

Good job! I was involved with a female 'friend' abusing her husband. I blocked her out of my life, and she slandered my name, but I played the long game and posted all my proof on social media. Shockingly, most stood by her, both men and women, due to cognitive dissonence and being cowards. This guy is no coward ❤

@user-ih8oj3uo4k 2 месяца назад

There are many rings in marriage. Engagement ring 💍, wedding ring 💍, bathtub ring 💍 & suffering, etc......😅

@ickyjess1888 3 месяца назад

His daughter hitting him is so hurtfullll

@amaqueen9012 2 месяца назад

FACTS THIS IS SAD

@yaadinon-fiction6181 2 месяца назад

God does not want us to be abused in no shape form or fashion. You are very courageous and posess an unbelievable strength.

@LynnRedwine800 3 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your story. I have never experienced any form of abuse in my marriage. However. my mother endured years of abuse from my Dad. I always wanted her to leave him, but she never did. They have both passed away but the memory of his horrifying abuse still frightens me.

@jdmmg4904 2 месяца назад

😢❤

@shanalee8469 3 месяца назад

Unfortunately most of us stick around because we believe that the person we love are good people but when they show us they are not we don’t believe them not only that but we convinced ourselves that we are the problem

@MSSHARIII 3 месяца назад

💯 We gotta love ourselves more.

@Parrotgirl-Tattoo 2 месяца назад

They, the abusers put on such a good show for the rest of the world, we tell ourselves that it might just be our fault. And nobody would believe us if we told them the truth.

@MariePriss 3 месяца назад

Dear Mr. Michael, you are so brave for coming forward and telling your story. Many men suffer from domestic violence, and never come forward out of shame that doesn’t belong to them. I’m so sorry that you went through that, and I’m very happy that you’ve managed to overcome it. ❤

@Solos_journey23 3 месяца назад

My grandmom was a Jehovah Witness, she was loving, kind I never saw her smoke or heard her say a curse word. She had a heart of gold, Til this day I’m blessed to have had such a wonderful influenced woman I cld call my grandmom. When you are god fearing and try to do the right thing no matter your religion the devil lurks

@MeekMeek1486 3 месяца назад

My thoughts about my grandma too. The most wonderful woman I ever known.

@Solos_journey23 3 месяца назад

@@MeekMeek1486 🥰🙌🏾

@Flawdagal 3 месяца назад

His ex wife obviously had some serious mental issues going on or just an evil witch. Not every jehovah witness is a horrendous person.. this lady is though.

@pearleepiggue5192 2 месяца назад

His wife was just a wicked woman. She treated him that way because of her wickedness. It had nothing to do with being a Jehovah’s Witness.

@valeriebarr4767 2 месяца назад

So many churches fail to teach about immorality being grounds for divorce! Thank you for testifying of your horrific experience! Thank God for carrying you through!

@EssenceofCoils 2 месяца назад

I walked this same path. God freed me from that bad theology and truly set me free. Leaving was the best thing I ever did for me and my son ❤. Bless your Sir. Your story is going to help so many people!!

@AntiscampoliceTV 2 месяца назад

Separation for safety is acceptable but not remarriage while spouse is alive because marriage is a covenant.

@kiawilliams5541 2 месяца назад

@@AntiscampoliceTVAmen

@Mrscarricom 3 месяца назад

God doesn't like divorce, but he loves peace. It's better to be divorced than murdered

@cgtcne 2 месяца назад

Preach

@pearleepiggue5192 2 месяца назад

AMEN !

@haadiyaaamon3390 2 месяца назад

Stop telling lies about God Read books titled lies about god. Some people say things just to hear themselves say something .

@haadiyaaamon3390 2 месяца назад

god does not like god loves... comes from an abused brain mind

@Mrscarricom 2 месяца назад

@@haadiyaaamon3390 who created divorce?

@carlissable 2 месяца назад

I'm from New Orleans she buried your suits in the yard so you wouldn't leave her. She must have did some spell that somebody scammed her into buying. That's why she buried your suits Sir. Glad you are a survivor.

@MrsCollins213 2 месяца назад

I agree since so many from NO do voodoo. I wouldn’t be surprised if she did put a spell on him. It’s not gonna do anything, but backfire on her.

@christianbenn316 2 месяца назад

& scamming has potential red flags

@naimahyara 2 месяца назад

She probably knew that from her grandmama. Folks from New Orleans aren’t the only people who practice voodoo.

@MamaNuveau 2 месяца назад

Being Unequally Yoked RARELY works out. 💯

@joshuahenley8246 2 месяца назад

Man. I’m glad this dude stood up for his own convictions and not what the dang church was suggesting. And now he helps people. Way to go!

@EveDallas 3 месяца назад

This should be spoken about more

@sljames1979 3 месяца назад

The devil is in the churches looking and lurking. He/She, are looking for GOOD people to treat BAD to help regulate them and their emotions.

@MyLifeNoLye 3 месяца назад

Pastor Neely thank you for sharing your story. You truly have found your purpose beyond your past.

@Geordan419 2 месяца назад

a BUTCHER knife across the wrist?!?!?! oh hell naw.

@Tyme_flies 3 месяца назад

The story about the lady leaving her husband is just mesmerizing. Brought tears to my eyes. Im free! Im free ! Sometimes thats all thats needed is assurance and guidance! ❤❤❤❤❤ we all can be that for someone. You dont have to be a pastor. ❤😊

@tyeshajumper4337 3 месяца назад

I was in a very abusive relationship for 15 years and I always feared what would happen if I left. I finally made up my mind to leave and never look back. I had left 2 times previously and got dragged back. That final time I did it strategically and had a home ready for me in what i thought was hidden. I lost almost all my possessions and barely escaped with my life and freedom but I never looked back. That was in 2016 and I was stalked until 2020 from what I know. I still do not know if my ex knows where i currently live but I try not to think about it and live in peace. I have 2 huge dogs and refuse to be a victim ever again. I have met a very lovely man who is so much like me its scary but I am determined to not let my past determine my future. Mind you this man has tried to get my attention for 2 years and tried to prove he is different and solid. I trust in God and believe he will never again let me get myself into anything he can't get me out of.

@timekaschannel 2 месяца назад

Omg! So many people are unaware that men are being abused by wicked and evil women, too, and sometimes it starts with their mothers! And after watching the rest of the video then finding out she buried his suits in the backyard confirmed my suspicions that he was being abused by a witch with a demonic spirit! I’m so glad he was strong enough to get away from her and brave enough to share his story! 🙏🏽

@terridobson8561 2 месяца назад

I was physically abused by my late, ex- husband for 9 years. It was definitely a nightmare, and if I told the whole story, I would end up with a best seller. I finally decided "no more" and put him out. I divorced him a couple of years later. The best decision ever!!!

@lt3074 Месяц назад

Im a woman & I thank you for sharing your story. Many men don't share their stories of abuse by their wives or girlfriends because society doesn't think this happens to men.

@paralegalkc 3 месяца назад

This touched me. I literally started to cry at so many different parts of this story. Thank you

@alexanderclifton128 2 месяца назад

This is something out of a Lifetime movie. 😱

@cgtcne 2 месяца назад

Ikr!

@rolandemorgan5992 3 месяца назад

Excellent. Some people stay way too long. Please continue to help people.

@shannonlivingston8109 Месяц назад

I so so so applaud you sir. You are definitely a rare gem that shines in the midst of that deadly erroneous teaching that the church promotes where so many especially women have mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically died. So very grateful that you chose freedom over bondage and control and was joined to a woman who really loves you. May The Most High richly bless you, your family and your ministry to so many experiencing the horror of domestic violence.

@PerpePerpe-gj3pg 2 месяца назад

May good hearted people find good hearted people😢.

@CJ-xg6ii 3 месяца назад

Thank you for speaking out, sharing your story, and encouraging others who are experiencing a similar situation.🙏🏾

@TaxProGirl 3 месяца назад

I ❤ the title of your book & how you're helping people become free from abuse.

@tonyaboggs5367 2 месяца назад

Thank goodness God was on your side. Thank goodness you got out of that very abusive relationship slash relationship. You are a strong man strong strong strong strong man thank you so much for sharing. And I realize this happens more than people think with men.xxxxxx❤

@CurlyVeggie 3 месяца назад

This is the problem with telling boys and men that they have to be strong, have to “be a man”. These men are left to think that they have to take it like a man and no one will believe them that a woman is beating or abusing them.

@Tiamichelle24 3 месяца назад

I hope that lady you helped is thriving now and I pray the same for you pastor🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@msbamabasketball4436 3 месяца назад

Blessings to him and telling his story. Predators and abusers can also be females. That's why I keep telling people that sometimes these church folks be giving bad advice to people to stay in abusive relationships and marriages.

@sinatraliles1041 Месяц назад

Thank God you made it out alive. Physical abuse is deadlier than people realize.

@vanniyoung1 2 месяца назад

Poor men who are abused and not taken seriously. I've seen men physically beaten and would never lay a hand on the woman. I use to tell my brother to call me because the laws do nothing about it. im saved now so I know to call cops and let the Lord lead me.

@Quinn_Wise1 2 месяца назад

I absolutely love and appreciate this channel sooooo much; listening to so many different testimonies helps me reflect and understand stand a lot of my traumas ….. we all are here today and made it through ❤️❤️

@tashawatson3592 3 месяца назад

Amen... what a powerful testimony 👏 🙌

@jennifercoopman 3 месяца назад

So glad Pastor is safe now! Thanks so much for posting this, I appreciate it!

@coressh5967 2 месяца назад

Praise the Lord Pastor❤ I was once a victim and am so happy to be free 🥳🥳🥳🥳

@444clockit 3 месяца назад

This is crazy, props to you for being a standup guy ! Idk too many guys that’s gon let a woman continue to do the things she was doing without beating the breaks off her. & the daughter.. oh no

@karimawatford269 3 месяца назад

You are truly an inspiration, I’m so sorry you had to go thru that but I’m sure you know by now why God put you on this particular path! Ur Amazing, I know you’ve saved many lives, more than you probably give urself credit for bc you have the understanding in every way possible! Ppl don’t think men go thru abuse like women but that’s not true at all! Ur happy ending put such a huge smile on my face after the tears of hearing ur struggle n its powerful! Please keep doing what ur doing and may God continue to Bless you with all the happiness, peace n strength your huge heart desires! Thank you for sharing 🙏🏽🫶🏽💯🙌🏽👑💪🏽

@jazminemarrero6759 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing your story. It was very brave of you ❤. I wish that all of the men who are being abused step forward and get the help they need.

@a.w.3689 3 месяца назад

Wow! What she did to you was witchcraft, buried your suits, Swarm of flies! 😲 omg....

@eveheart2876 Месяц назад

I’m so glad he is speaking up ! Most men feel reluctant to speak up . I’m proud of him

@TheStar798 2 месяца назад

I wish your father - all fathers/mothers - added (to your sister) "don't ever hit a man". It is so powerful to hear your testimony. The world needs to recognise that strong men can be abused too 😢

@dianadarris5079 3 месяца назад

Wow!!! You deserve better! Thanks for the courage to share your story.

@tinaweatherall5514 3 месяца назад

I can relate I thought my divorce was a failure thank you for sharing

@Mandie.Duh89 3 месяца назад

Thank you pastor this helps so much ❤❤❤❤ thank you lord.

@belovedaam2343 2 месяца назад

So glad you still have your faith in The most high. I can relate to a lot of what you said, the church really let me down, but YHWH is faithful.

@doreenpowel1971 2 месяца назад

Powerful story i understand every word that comes out of your mouth i have been there mine lasts for 7 years before I get the courage to get out an abusive relationship is one of the hardest thing to get out of may God continue to bless you and cover peace and love my brother ❤❤

@sherrisolomon2843 2 месяца назад

Wth? She had a lot of nerve. You should asked that broad "If I'm wicked how come you are sticking around?

@fallback8314 2 месяца назад

uhhhhhhh, right.

@kikka4783 2 месяца назад

You're so amazing. Men are abused too and it's so important to recognize and shine a light on abuse it all its forms. Thank you for your light

@sheenabailey 2 месяца назад

I love this. I aways say men need to know when they are being abused and talk about surviving relationships abuse because it happens to them and it’s not funny.

@2intriguing1 3 месяца назад

19:58 my God, that was powerful...to be a Christian and a DV advocate. I'm in tears.

@scorpionpam 2 месяца назад

As a person who saw my dad bear my mom, and have been in abusive relationships, thank you SO MUCH for sharing your story! I am so glad you made it out and are helping others get out!!!

@ShortnSpicyNikks 2 месяца назад

Thanks be to God for his grace and mercies

@mamag9673 Месяц назад

Praying for you and your family thank you so much for sharing your story, because it’s especially hard for men to admit to abuse in their relationships and some don’t make it out. People please listen and try to safely get out and trust God!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@tuula9857 2 месяца назад

From Finland, my mother did beat up my father so many times. I'm nowadays 70 years old, and I still remember my mother's rage. Not to blame my mother, there were reasons behind it all, but womens attacks againts the men is real.

@moa5351 2 месяца назад

Hmm. What possible reason could there ever be for one spouse to beat up another? The only one I can think of is if one were to find the other abusing the kids. I can't think of any other scenario.

@leebeyou992 2 месяца назад

Praise be to the MOST HIGH! Yes LORD! For DELIVERANCE!!! Thank you for the message!!!

@missnya4368 3 месяца назад

So glad I watch these testimonies learn so much from everyone story❤️ So glad he lived to tell his story

@reginamccullough6709 3 месяца назад

Thank you, for sharing your story and bringing peace to others❤

@raginbaby 2 месяца назад

I’m so sorry to hear what you went through. Thank you for speaking up - God bless you 🙏🏿❤️

@user-cv4gw6lq2j 2 месяца назад

Thank you for your testimony. When I was going through a bad marriage the church would say just pray and I realize I was not supposed to marry him anyway….but God heard my cry and got me out of it. THANK YOU JESUS!!!❤

@sarasullivan2027 2 месяца назад

We need to hear stories like these! Also he’s a great story teller.

@timothybaker8641 2 месяца назад

I glad you shared your story as a man, we need to educate are sons

@veronicaveronica4946 3 месяца назад

Such a beautiful encouraging story ❤

@alfairefountaine4150 Месяц назад

Peace and Blessings to you King 🙌🏾

@ginabeena6757 Месяц назад

Thank you for sharing your story, I'll never understand why people don't comprehend that God loves us more than we love our children. Would you want your child to suffer and be abused? Of course not. Why would God want less for you?

@moneytowards Месяц назад

Thanks for sharing your testimony dear Brother, so sad to hear what you been thru and it’s really just as common for men to be abused by females as well as other males. ❤😢

@darlenec6655 2 месяца назад

Thank you so much for all your information. I am a survivor of abuse. My ex-husband never ever hit. But she intimidated me what's playing at church securities. After all the stuff I want to do when he started with the verbal abuse I call the police and got a restraining order against him. 20 years Was cheating on me on a regular basis. Would not give me any cash money.

@kmoon33 3 месяца назад

Thank you so much for this powerful message. God makes no mistakes. Now you have the tools and understanding to help hundreds and thousands of people in these terrible situations. God bless you Pastor.

@kinley.-. 3 месяца назад

This video deserves more likes! This man is a warrior of God and has helped so many others 🥹💞

@newmillenniumchurchoftampa1264 2 месяца назад

Thank you 🙏🏾

@fallback8314 2 месяца назад

a warrior. 👍

@LisaMarie999 2 месяца назад

Thankyou for sharing your experience 🙏🏽🙏🏽

@ms.dannyd9219 3 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing this powerful story.

@faith780 Месяц назад

Thank you for sharing your story. The first domestic violence story I overheard my Aunt & Mom talking. It was a wife abusing her husband, she had abused and humiliated him terribly. He eventually took his own life, may God rest his soul, he could no longer bear the abuse physically, verbally, emotionally and felt his only escape was death.

@mawescott 2 месяца назад

Thanks for sharing your story .

@danielleavery3767 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing

@rondamiller3126 Месяц назад

Thank you so much for sharing your experience, and all that you are doing now. It was so beautiful when you were helping the woman leave her husband near the end of the video that I had chills! I’m single and an older lady. Older than you. I’m so glad more and more people are learning about domestic violence. And learning that it’s not ok. For men and women. ❤️

@mdrenewed 2 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing.

@angelawilliamson2068 2 месяца назад

I am glad you are speaking about this topic! There are a lot women who abuse their husband.

@firstbloodwarrior3868 2 месяца назад

Sir, I know your message will continue to resound amongst those who need to be freed. God Bless you 🙏🏾❤🎉

@stellabellafontay9366 3 месяца назад

Another story from an abuse survivor that is steeped in religion. Violent ex-wife. A daughter pregnant in her teens and also violent. Violent upbringing. Sheesh. Praying for this man's continued healing. 🙏🏽 😢

@littlebrowngirl4 3 месяца назад

The story about the lady moving her stuff out the house, that had me in tears, god bless her and GOD BLESS YOU MICHAEL❤

@ShayMac311 2 месяца назад

I’m so happy for you and the life you have now. I appreciate your sharing your story!🙏🏾

@Yellowpickachu 2 месяца назад

Thank you for speaking out❤ I pray that life blesses you even more

@ruthy3553 2 месяца назад

God bless you sir.

@patriciaworch9628 2 месяца назад

Thank you for your testimony brother!! You’re helping so many people! God bless you and your family!❤✝️🙏🏻

@mtnewt1 2 месяца назад

I'm so glad you're a willing vessel to put a stop to this bad theology. No way a loving father would want his children to stay in abuse. Thank you for sharing and all that you do for these survivors ❤

@vernessatucker8647 2 месяца назад

Thanks for sharing your story and being a blessing to the Body of Christ. You made your mess into a message to help others. Thank God you are helping people get free from violent relationships. God really does want us free.