My husband and I are going through infertility and we are also reluctant to participate in ‘fertility’ support because so like you say, it sends into a downward spiral with trauma dumping or it is run by people that are full of advice because they still came out with a baby at the end of it. I wish there were more fun activity groups for childless people where the focus is firmly on making the most out of the life we’ve been given. Well done and thank you for having the courage to speak out about it.
Thankyou so much for commenting, I’m so sorry you’re going through this journey as well. That’s exactly it isn’t it, even though those sort of groups are helpful for some, doesn’t mean they’re for everyone, we know that we aren’t going to have children now but some how those groups are they to give advice and essentially hope for a baby and that’s just not the case in our journey so I wouldn’t find them helpful, and they would be quite damaging for me. I wish there were groups like that too!! Thankyou so much for your kind words it was a difficult one to film but an important one, good luck on your journey whatever the outcome maybe for you ❤️
