Honest Life Update: Secret Marriage, Wedding Is Cancelled, My New Range Rover, Babies & More 

Thank you for the update! And congratulations on everything! I agree with keeping your business private. I recommend not doing a house tour. Your home is sacred, and it’s where you rest.

I’m proud of you both. From being together thus far and your guy making “ REAL MAN” moves with the house and proposal. Happy that you stuck to your integrity as a woman to not shack up (nothing wrong with it) but the discipline is phenomenal. Happy for you both. Communicate always, understand each other’s needs for space sometimes and always remember friendship and prayer is the foundation to a everlasting future.

Awww me and my husband got married in my backyard. I also didn’t want us living in the house not married and we said we would do the wedding later. I loved it because it was so intimate. Congratulations Kat.

I knew I followed you for so long for a reason. You’ve always been yourself and seem to have such a beautiful spirit. I loved this life update and I love all your videos so whenever you upload, I’m watching girl! Congrats on all your accomplishments whether they were big or small. I had a few deaths in my family so when you started talking about having both of your parents and how grateful you are to still have them both, made me tear up a little too.

It’s so crazy how much you accomplished at 25 almost 26! As I sit in my bed at my mom’s wanting to move so bad, but it honestly motivates me. I’m so happy for you and I pray God continues to bless you, your marriage and the recovery of your dad! Keep pushing girl ❤️

Appreciate your transparency! IG can get me too sometimes. It’s dope you know your limits and took a step back to do the internal work. Congratulations on your marriage and business launch! & I love that you are getting closer to your parents.

So I just found your channel again! It’s been years!!!!! I’m so proud of all you’ve accomplished so far, more to come.

It’s great to see long lasting relationships. I’m so happy for you!!! We’re the same age so it’s beautiful to watch! When I was 21, my dad fainted in my arms… my life flashed before my eyes because I told myself if anything happens, I’m going with him.

I love the transparency💕 you’re such a role model to me. We are both libra’s & I see so much of me in you. Keep on succeeding✨💕

You just posted your pregnancy a few days ago and this is just so beautiful. You saying what you thought would happen!

Sooooo extremely happy to see more vids! We’ve missed you girly! 💕

Congratulations on everything, but girl you had me crying alone with you. I lost my dad in March and that was the hardest thing I ever had to deal with. Continue taking care of him and growing y’all relationship. Thanks for sharing!

Go kat ! Rooting for you 💕love the internal work it’s needed for everybody ! Congrats on it all !

This is so special! I’ve been watching your channel for so long & this is definitely a breath of fresh air. I’m so happy that you’re happy & flourishing beautifully 💕💕

Wow Kat I am so happy you are appreciative of your parents. Appreciating their role, appreciating life, in general, is definitely something we all need to do on a consistent basis. I do this often. Comparison is definitely the thief of joy, but we gonna kick that thang out because you're blessed sis! Still sending you so much love and peace 🤍 Oof and when you said I CHOOSE happiness that is such an amazing statement because I do this daily!

It's so nice to see you grow, congratulations on all the beautiful things that are taking place in your life! Praying that your dad has a seamless, speedy healing process also. XOXO

congratulations on everything Kathryn ! you’ve inspired me since i was in high school. thank you for being so relatable and simply yourself. you stand out from the rest . so refreshing!!

Awww Congratulations!! I’m happy for you guys I’ve been here from jump!! I’m excited for you guys new journey!! Love it!! Do it your way no other way!!

I’ve been watching you since I was in high school and your growth is so inspirational. ❤️ congratulations on getting married and the new car ✨🥳

This was so inspiring to me and a reminder to go at my own pace. I’m graduating in May and have been stressing because I don’t know what to do next, but I think this was a reminder and confirmation to be proud of what’s shortly coming. ❤️

I been watching you for a while! I just love watching you! You have such a cool, calm, and chill personality!! It's refreshing because ppl are weird lol. Congratulations on everything! I wish you continued success!! & I'm glad your dad is on his road to recovery! God Bless!!

I’m so proud of you! I’ve been watching you since high school & it’s so beautiful to see how much you’ve grown ❤️ may God bless your union!

Thank you for being so vulnerable! I started tearing up even before you did 😭 I've been a subbie since your high school days and I feel like we're growing up together lol! I love seeing you growth and I am super proud💕

Kat!!! I’ve been watching you from the very beginning since you started and I’m so proud of your growth! You’ve always been so real and transparent but private at the same time and I admire that so much! Love you Kat! ❤️ keep pushing!!!

Hey girl, Congratulations on everything, I’ve been watching you for years, and i see sooo much of myself in you. I guess it’s the Libra in us lol. This video inspired me sooo much and I can relate to almost everything you said. You are blessed, loved, and I can’t wait to hear the baby announcement. I wish more success and happiness for you and your family!

Girl I am balling 😭 congratulations on everything!! It’s a blessing to have your parents. I lost both of mine and now that I’m married I have my in-laws. They are on the other side of the world but I’m blessed to have them.

This video was everything. Definitely needed to hear some of this and congratulations on the marriage!

Congratulations Kat!!! ❤️ I would love to hear about your inner work process as I too have been dealing with the same negative mindset within the last few months. It’s gotten better as I now fast from social media for 2-3 days every month. But I would still love to hear your perspective and what you did during your hiatus to overcome it.

Congratulations on everything!! We really do overlook how blessed we are sometimes . Thank you for sharing 💕

So amazing that you made this video being so open and showing that everyone compares themselves sometimes. You look really pretty in this video!

Kat my daddy died when I was 19 and he was my favorite person… my mama just beat cancer So I fully understand the appreciation you are showing for your parents.. I’m proud to see what you’ve achieved and I’ve been here since the nail horror story. Love u girl keep pushing 🤎 praying for your dad and your beautiful family

Whole video made me smile. Watching your growth over all these years. I’m so so happy for you, for y’all 🙏🏾🎉. Baby soon, we are here for it. May God continue blessing you, your marriage, and your home ! 💕💕 YOU DESERVE IT ALL !!!!!

Missed you!❤️ Those lashes are everything!

I love the maturity. The classiness and growth is so inspiring. I felt like I could really relate to you for the first time even though I’ve been a subscriber for years. Love this for you!

So happy for you Kathryn 🤍 it’s refreshing to see you happy and walking into your purpose.

Thanks so much for sharing this! You are so right about how having both parents is such an underrated blessing! I pray for more blessings and more life to you and yours! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

This was definitely emotional to watch. Especially when you talked about your Dad. So happy for y’all 🥰🥰

Glad to hear your are doing great, And also wishing your father a speedy recovery! That jealousy feeling is so relatable to me, and I get angry with myself everytime I have those thoughts bc I never want to be that person. Gotta work on that myself. I guess I just feel like I'm tired of struggling. I graduated last year also. Didn't get to have a graduation for something I worked and sacrificed so hard for and then still after had such a hard time finding a good job and even now doing something I didn't see for myself. But I just gotta keep working at my own pace. It will all come together just gotta enjoy the journey.

I appreciate the open and honest conversation. Glad you’re in a good space!

Aww, this was a great video! You had me tearing up with you! I love how honest you were, but yet how you keep things private as well- this is the key to life! 😁 As someone who is older than you, I can appreciate the maturity that you have at your age! Keep doing you and we will keep supporting! ❤️

Thank you for sharing this! I lost my dad in the beginning of 2020 and it was a really tough year emotionally, but I was also blessed in so many ways. I got legally married at the end of 2020 and I’m less than two weeks away from the wedding of my dreams! People kept asking me if I was upset that I had to push my wedding, and while it was frustrating, I kept thinking in the back of my head that there are worse things that could happen. I’m here celebrating with you and supporting you when you’re going through tough times!! On a side note, if you ever wrote a book, I would read it! You have so much clarity in the way you think and speak, it’s clear you’re wise beyond your years.

Loved the update!!! Congratulations with everything! I love this positive energy on RU-vid! 🤍

Beautiful video , beautiful soul , I’ve always loved how authentic and genuine of a RU-vidr you are . Wishing your dad a speedy recovery love 💖

YAYYY I’m so happy and proud of you. For all you’ve overcome and how gracious you always handle things. So many blessings coming, more than you could have imagined!!! 💚

So genuine, I’m loving the way things are going how you want them to that’s so sweet. I’m so sorry you’re going through that with your dad, I will be praying for his strength and recovery. I get emotional when I think about how blessed I am as well and having decent parents and genuine support in this world is rare.

I’ve been following you for such a long time! And I just love that everything is falling into place for you Kat! 🤎I remember subscribing to you years ago and now seeing everything flourishing! Congratulations on the new business, new house, new car and marriage love!

While I love the transparency, I also think the time we’re living in gives ppl this sense of entitlement to other ppl’s lives and that’s crazy to me. I’m happy for all your accomplishments and moving in silence is where it’s at in my opinion. ❤️

I just want to say that I have been watching your videos for about five years and to see how much you have grown and evolve is inspiring and beautiful, I don’t usually comment but I’m extremely happy for you!! Congratulations on everything Kat 💕

This video was so transparent and on time. I could relate to a LOT of what you’re saying because I’m currently going through something similar as far as internal work. You are doing things YOUR way. I absolutely love that. Keep shining, keep being young beautiful and setting the bar for girls like us. ☀️💕

I've been watching since right before you & Darius moved into the last apartment. You both have accomplished sooo much in a short amount of time on top of being in a pandemic. Congratulations Kat, you doing the damn thang girlie!!❤

Continue being in the present girl!!! That’s what you’re doing, no secrecy; just doing you and loving it between yourself and your husband ❤️

This was one of the most genuine and heartwarming life updates done on RU-vid. I've been watching you for a while and admire your growth. Congrats on your marriage!

Thank you for your transparency, Kat. I’ve been watching you since I was in high school & I am now 25. I am so proud of all of your success and the blessings God has bestowed on you. Praying for you as you continue on your journey for the years to come.

I’ve been following you for soooo long 4 years at least, I feel like we’re friends. It’s crazy how similar and different our lives are. I’m 25 with a psych degree and I have a 4 month old with my bf of 5 years. I completely understand what you mean when you say you choose happy because I’ve learned to do the same. I’m so happy to see how far you’ve come and I wish you nothing but the best 💞

Thank you for your candor and transparency in this video. Congratulations on all of your achievements this year thus far 🍾! Wishing your dad continued recovery. I’m happy to hear that you guys are able to spend more time together, although circumstances weren’t the best. Funny enough, my husband and i did the same thing when we got married. Pissed a lot of people off but it wasn’t about them!

The jealousy thing is definitely something I struggle with off and on! Enjoyed this video! 🥰 Congratulations !!! I am soo happy for you

Great update!! Congratulations on everything !! Much love and success ❤️ I would love to see a video on ways that you were able to choose happiness, idk if that’s to personal but I feel like I struggle with the same thing thinking and getting jealous of others when I am already blessed and have all I need.

Thank you for your transparency! Keep on doing that inner work and there is nothing wrong with wanting to keep some stuff to yourself. I wish you all the best in this new chapter in your life

Congratulations on everything hun! You deserve it. I love watching your videos, you’re genuine! I had the same problem with social media that I took a break for two years off to focus on my life and not compare myself to people who don’t have my best interest. Best of luck and enjoy your new home! 🥰

Kat you are such a genuine soul. Thank you for being transparent and praying for you. You got this! I'm also working on a forming a relationship with dad, after him being out of my life for 2 decades. Like you, it took an accident for us to reconnect but it has been such a blessing.

True testaments. Your life looks so lit it was relatable to hear that you pulled back from social media seeing other people’s pages . I’ve definitely been there . CONGRATS TO YOU AND XERIUS!!!!! That’s awesome

So much growth and maturity ❤️ your perspective now is definitely inspiring ! Keep putting in the work my girl 💪🏽

Hey K! Glad everything is awesome in your life. Also thank you for the transparency, and realizing some internal healing needed to be done. Congratulations on your marriage. I pray your dad continue to be on the road to recovery, and you guys relationship flourish. XOXO

congrats on your marriage and your new house!! me and my husband moved into our house earlier this year. its such a blessing !! im happy you have a good relationship with your parents , i wish i could say the same

Love when you’re transparent and I love the growth ✨ keep going Kat I’m very much proud of you and all that you’ve accomplished❤️

Congratulations on all of the success! I’ve been following you for a while and I’m proud of all of your accomplishments! I love your transparency and I respect your privacy❤️

I love this! You are always so transparent without over sharing. I’m so excited for what’s to come in your journey. So much greatness has/and is happening for you. I love the relationship you have with your family! For your degree, I would say definitely look into taking advantage of Telehealth jobs for case management.

Thank you for sharing this with us!! Congratulations to you on your marriage 💕 I am so happy for you both!! Also, so glad your dad is okay & your rekindling your relationship! I have been subscribed to you since your dorm haul & truly love seeing your growth! I completely understand needing to take a break from the socials. I found myself doing the same & having to realign with my goals & personal identity! Excited for what is next for you 🙏🏾

I'm so happy that ya'll went ahead and got married; that's EVERYTHING!!!! A whole MRS!!!!!!!

Loved this update Kat. So glad your dad is on the road to recovery and that the time y’all have been spending together has strengthened the relationship. When you were talking about the social media break, it is definitely necessary sometimes. If I feel myself getting down about what others have or what I seem to be lacking, I try to remind myself that I’m too blessed to be stressed and too grateful to be hateful. Also, if privacy provides you with peace, continue to move in silence. Your supporters will enjoy what you decide to share when you are ready to share it. I’m so proud of your growth!

It’s crazy how two people can be strangers but go through the same type of emotions at the same time.💕 keep going Kat your are doing a great job. I’m at a place in life where privacy is huge to me right now.

Congratulations on everything 🤍 definitely feel you on the privacy. Sometimes it’s just better that way!

Really enjoyed this!! Glad to see your happy! 💗

I love how open you are. Definitely a video that helped boost my overall mood today. Love seeing you happy 😍

Congratulations on everything and I love your content! I was tearing up when you spoke about your father! It’s a blessing to have a mother and a father frfr!

I love your videos, I was holding my tears back here at work. Congratulations on graduation, marriage, and your new home. I truly enjoyed you speaking about being grateful for your blessings. You look beautiful as always.

I loss my mama 2 years ago and me and my dads relationship has blossomed. when you were speaking about your experience it literally brought tears to my eyes. you are so blessed, so beautiful and so disciplined. congradulations on everything you have accomplished and for what's to come. definitely looking forward to the baby reveal.

Congratulations on all of your accomplishments! I love how you realized you needed to take a step back and do some internal work, nothing wrong with that at all and I’ve had to do the same thing. We have all dealt with feelings of envy over someone else’s accomplishments and we shouldn’t because what is for each of us will be. I’ve been a silent watcher for years and you have grown a lot over the years. Keep it up girl 😀

Congratulations on everything Kat. Glad to hear your dad is recovering well. Many blessings to you and i can’t wait for the relaunch! You got this girl! 💗💗

I can definitely relate to being envious of people on social media or in general. It was hard seeing others do all the things, and I felt like I haven’t accomplished anything. I went to a DARK place. But healing and loving where I am currently and following my own journey. Thank you for sharing! 🖤

Always appreciate when you post these more chit chat like videos. I totally understand the privacy thing. I feel like a lot of people (influencers and non) are moving into that space. It’s always good to hear your life updates (with what you’re willing to share). I’m the oldest of 3 girls and I’ve always considered you the big sister I never got because of how inspiring your life journey has been up to this point. Formal congratulations on you an Xerrius’ marriage!! Prayers for long lasting recovery for your dad. Having both parents here is definitely an underrated blessing

Great video hun 💕 I’m glad that you are opening up with us and you doing better

awww Kat!! I love you and i’m so happy for all the good things that have been have been happening for you🤍🤍🤍 you had me tearing up!

Ok so I’m at work CRYING!!! Tears of joy that is!!! Your transparency is so beautiful!!! I’m so happy for your accomplishments and your blessings to come!!!!❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾

So transparent and I can feel the peace that you’re prioritizing. I pray that God will continue to keep you focused on those things you mentioned, that truly matter and that he continues to bless you. Thanks for a down to earth video girl

I love your speaking voice! It’s calm, congrats on the new blessings. Self awareness is KEY 🔑

So happy for you sis. It takes a lot to be open and vulnerable with strangers. I’m glad to hear you’re healing and flourishing 🤍

Love your videos, I’ve been a supporter for a few years. I don’t really comment but I really appreciate videos like this. It’s nice to know that people are going through similar things in life.

I feel like a proud aunt. I have been watching your videos since before you met your husband. Im am so proud of everything you have accomplished. Keep moving in silence and pop out with surprises when you see fit. You do not have to share everything, just know you are doing whats right for you at the pace right for you.

Awww your relationship with your parents are so real and genuine ♥️♥️ you are so brave for your transparency

I’m loving all of this. I’m happy to see you enjoying your life, marriage, and family.

Congrats Kat 🤍 I’ve been following you for years. I’m so so happy for you! And I’m so happy your family is doing okay 🙏🏾✨

Love these sit down videos. Congrats on everything, you deserve it! 💗

Love your videos! They always come thru and are super organic and real.

Possible topics : q and a ( what helped you to maintain to get through school ) , update drugstore look and chit chat , fav artists and fav media vid ( movies , shoes ) Amazon favorites video , behind scenes of your business day to day , 25 things you’ve learned at 25 etc

My husband and I did the same thing. Weddings are fun parties but you definitely don't need one/a big one for a marriage to begin. Congratulations!! Prayers for your dad's healing, that really does sound like a blessing in disguise to bring you two even closer.

Congratulations!! I’m so happy for you both. Glad you are doing well. Yes cherish all the moments you have with your parents, mine are gone but the memories keep me going.

Congrats on the wedding🎉🎉🎉 Happy to hear your dad is well and you guys are becoming closer❤️

Thank you so much for your transparency in this video. This whole season has allowed us all to see some deep lows and some beautiful highs. Congratulations on everything coming your way! 😘

Congratulations on getting married. Very happy for all your accomplishments. I totally get you choosing to keep certain things private. Sometimes choosing simplicity makes the moment even better. Can’t wait to see the house.