It's not even that imo. Like she seems like she didn't know he followed her on ig so if she doesn't even know that someone she knows in real life is following her imagine who else follows her that she doesn't even know about which just puts this guy even more in the right.
@@spaghettisauce1104 I wasn’t calling her exactly what she was calling the father, I was basically just pointing out that what she said can be turned right back against her. And yeah you’re right, for all we know there could be genuine creeps following her account without her knowing because she didn’t even know that guy was, which makes the guy even more in the right than he already was.
By making the point that it's creepy that he is following her, she annihilates her own argument that there is no problem uploading photos of _another persons child without consent._ What an idiot lmaooo
As she is 16 years old, and assuming she has 16 year old friends, she is literally distributing images of children for 'consenting adults' in the eyes of the law in the UK. Real P word activity, gotta say.
She is absolutely one of the teenagers who get in an argument on twitter and then start calling the person they're arguing with a pedo because they're talking to someone underage when they start losing the argument
I really can’t hold much against her, because she’s only 16, but for the people who keep doing this shit as adults, it’s fucking scary. Instead of assessing a situation honestly, they learn how to opportunistically bend any situation in their favor, no matter the consequences to others. And I fear society is only enabling this narcissistic behavior
@@eliotguerin192the reason people act the way they do is your mentality of “I can’t cold much against her” at what point can we start holding people accountable? Apparently we can’t gently guide them as children, because they’re children and don’t know better. Young teens? Nope, not then, either, because they’re young teens. A 16 year old? But you can’t hold that against them, they’re 16! As an adult? Well, they’re probably stressed! Okay, how about elderly? No but they’re elderly I can’t hold that against them ): no one is SAYING to hold ANYTHING against her except acknowledging that she’s in the wrong and needs to learn from it.
In the UK its illegal to take pictures or have pictures of other peoples kids, she could go to young offenders if the dad rightfully wanted to report her. Disgusting
Thats not true, there is no law against public photography of minors or adults. like i agree with the dad 100% the girls being an awkward dickhead but yeah no law against it im afraid google it if you dont believe me.
@Seb_Cz notice how you had to include public in there? This is in the family's house, so the little loophole every yt/tiktok degen uses in these situations doesn't work.
The dad was so polite to her. He was reasonably annoyed, kept very calm in the face of false allegations, and even still paid once she deleted the photo. Mad props to the dad, what a guy.
@Sirenz no, the sad thing is having this mindset. "oh yes, everything online is fake." can you give us a *spesific* source so we all know this is fake?
the flat and callous way she said "well, I'll tell everyone that you follow me on instagram. A 16 year old girl. How is that going to work out for you?" gave me straight up sociopath vibes. That is not normal behaviour
For gen z it's normal. Almost all of my classmates were like this and it was horrible. Having empathy these days just hurts really bad. These people don't care.
@@captainngoose I’m gen Z and this is definitely not normal behaviour among gen Z. Idk why most of your classmates are like this, but it’s not a generation thing, maybe you just live in a bad area or something. This type of behaviour is only common in kids who aren’t raised properly.
The fact she said “I’ll tell every one you follow me on instagram, a 16 year old girl how’s that going to work out for ya” with a stone cold demeanor says a lot, she’s a menace. Although he never said “I follow you to see if you do crap like this” but instead started stuttering (probably due to shock) still doesn’t mean he’s a P-doe
@@Sinsteelyeah, exactly. In the context of this situation, she’s the adult, posting pictures of someone else’s kids online, (not that I’m suggesting she’s what she called him, just that she’s as dumb as a moss-covered rock, and doesn’t see the irony).
@@SinsteelI hate this fucking argument. “Oh well the age of consent is different in this area so it’s perfectly okay” No. Because it is LEGAL; *DOES NOT MEAN IT IS MORALLY OKAY.*
I think it's more likely that she's secretly recording this and is trying to make it look casual and not tip off the father by not having the camera obviously recording anything, including her, but I see the point you were trying to make. Either way, she's 1000% in the wrong and I hope that the photo of the kid was taken down before any creeps could get to it. Edit: typo fixed.
Judging by their accent i would assume they were in the U.K., so I don't know the laws. As Mizzy showed us the laws are weak over there. If she had done this in the states then she would have broken 2 laws: Uploading a photo of a minor without consent Wiretapping ( recording without making it known to the other party).
@@TheCommanderTaco Not trying to argue but wiretapping is different. This is recording a conversation which would fall under single party consent, which is legal in 38 states.
Especially since her crap should be on private. My stuff has been on private since I created them. It's disturbing that they don't do this so they can have attention
i saw a video recently that said “the clip of your child eating a banana didn’t get 1k likes because it’s cute” and it’s really stuck with me - and i think this girl needs to see it. creeps who are into children aren’t always lurking on the big scary dark web, they’re also in plain view on facebook and instagram saving photos that the average person wouldn’t bat an eye at. even if the child isn’t actively in danger from a photo being posted, a parent not wanting that photo online 100% needs to be respected.
@@DuettheLionlinks usually get deleted in my experience but I found this "Did you know that online predators get off at the sound of babie’s eating". Seems like it's a stock standard test to see if they've been rehabilitated... gross
I've also seen articles saying that pedos will use what looks like a perfectly innocent photo, then edit them into something they can sell. It's really disturbing.
Props to the dad for keeping his cool the entire time. I'd probably have an massive yelling explosion like one of those overreacting Karens you'd see on those videos.
@@omgtatercat He was walking on extremly thin ice and both of them knew it. The fact she doesnt acknowledge any type of danger or problem with posting anyone else photos online(especially someone else daughter ) but sees it's reasonable to accuse people of the most f**** crime because she feels like it sounds good in her defence. Says it all... You know she would be lying through out entire process. A literal Psychopath.
The second she threatened me with a false accusation when I'm trying to protect my child it would've been over she could get tf out of my house and there'd be no "let's just go our separate ways". I'd make damn sure the whole country knows just how much they should avoid her like the plague till she shows she's learned her lesson. Doing something like what she did is a quick way to become unhirable, no employer wants someone that will get themselves fired and then run to social media to lie abt them and the reason they were let go. I recognize that she's an immature teenager and I def didn't wanna always take accountability when I was that age either, but I never did anything so egregious and there still needs to be consequences there's no excuse for her. Literally psychopathic behavior.
@@bluainey ur right, I don't know Britain's recording consent rules. But even if it's not allowed, it would be the last I'd point out when judging her character/actions based off this vid
Some people think you only follow them on any social media because of romantic and or sexual interest. Which is such a weird thing to think of in the first place.
This used to be normal. I personally grew up in the early days of the "new internet" and my mother was FB friends with my babysitter, guitar teacher, etc. The reason it is not seen as normal anymore is because the internet is no longer about connecting social circles, etc. It's now about "big number better".
I’m 25 and I still remember how teachers had to send a consent forms (every year) to our parents, to take pictures of us, just to put up around the school. (In Canada). We were baffled as kids and obviously wanted to get out photos taken of us having a good time at school. Makes a whole lot of sense now.
@@ms.tatortots5419 Wait really? I wish I grew up with this, we had a ton of photos taken of us throughout our lives where I grew up. And I'm a 21 year old.
We do it here in the US too, except I think my district went with an opt-out instead of opt-in and it’s part of the enrollment process to make sure every parent does it.
I’m the same age and we had to get parental consent forms for just about anything, including sex Ed of course. It’s crazy how far the west has fallen from traditional normal values that keep people and kids safe.
the dad stuttering and struggling to get words out when that insane 16 year old started to accuse him of being a pedo was REAL shock and frustration. I often stutter or just have a hard time saying what I want to say when I'm just gobsmacked by stupidity lol
She has two layers of victim class status: a woman, and a black person. She thinks she can do no wrong and any level of criticism is automatically bigotry so she can do whatever she wants and hurt whomever she pleases.
All for social media attention form people who probably don't care about them also you can bet this girl is really greedy and selfish and will throw you under a truck fot something
Well, here’s hoping she’s young enough that the backlash she’s getting from this is enough to curb this behavior in the future. If she’s lucky enough, this man either called her parents or they found this video (since it’s making its rounds all over the internet), and they tore her a new asshole for threatening to falsely accuse someone of being a pedophile.
7:20, the fact that she wants him to give her the benefit of the doubt while accusing him of being a pedophile for simply giving her a life lesson is truly wild af.
Shes chronically online and needs to film anyone who says 'no' to her so that her followers online can be on her side. Someone who constantly needs validation from strangers
Posting a picture of someone else's kid without permission, then calling them a pedophile for having a problem with it is a different plane of thinking i didnt even think was possible
I find it outstanding that people like this babysitter exist. Mad respect to that Dad looking out for his daughter and he had every right to be annoyed.
Outstanding may not be the proper word, but I agree. It's absolutely insane people like her exist, and that father was 100% in the right. From this perspective, he's a good dad
Dad is 100% right pedos do be lurking everywhere. One of my friend's dad is a cop and he would tell us about how a lot of pedo's would get their pictures through Facebook from the mum groups and save them. It's completely horrendous to what lengths they will go to, to get pics of your kids. Stay safe and don't be casually sharing pics on the internet of your underaged kids.
There's that particularly infamous case of a guy getting caught taking images of real children from people's Facebook to make "diaperfur" images. The worst part is he has LGBTQMAP armour so not only gets away with it, he gets invited to read to kids.
@@drunkenhobo5039hat is “LGBTQMAP armor” Yknow, with more than five seconds of thought, I remembered the issue with the LG+ community trying to keep out terfs and maps and those ‘clovergender’ and ‘kindergender’ fuckers, so I’m assuming that’s what ur referring to, or at least it being in the same vein. Idk how that pertains to reading to kids tho
There are entire instragram accounts dedicated to finding and reposting photos of child models or just similar photos, and they usually come from other Instagram accounts, like child pageants or modeling accounts. (Another reason to not put your kid into the abusive entertainment media industry. Sickos.) I don’t think it’s a wild statement to say it’s not an Instagram exclusive issue.
@@drunkenhobo5039 Don't even start adding MAPs to LGBT. LGBT doesn't include and never will include MAPs. You have to realize that pedos WANT you to spread that, this way they get LGBT kids coming to them when they say "I accept you for who you are, you can trust me". When you associate LGBT and pedos, you are actively helping them by making you hate LGBT. Kids see that you are actively against LGBT, they look away towards those that are. Only two main places they have to go are to parents or pedos. As a kid who knew he was "different" and "liked boys and girls" by grade 4 (9 years old), I was able to find spaces online. If it wasn't for a gay guy actually warning me about these lurking pedos, I would never have known and gone right in. Pedos are also the ones in your groups telling you that Drag Queens are predators. Only pedos gain anything from making you hate. Congrats. Pedos use victimhood to lure in young victims. This is happening right now, and pedos are thanking you.
Her: "I didn't post her name or address or anything, what's the big deal?" Also her: *records and posts video (which the father likely didn't know was being recorded at all) in which he says his daughter's name, meaning everyone who saw her now also knows her name*
I love how she makes the assertion "no one will be looking at the photo in a creepy manner" and then calls the dad a pedophile for looking at the photo. MAKE UP YOUR MIND. If you can imagine the dad could have creepy intentions, how are you gonna stand there and say he's insane for imagining people could have creepy intentions...
Her mental gymnastics were impressively deluded. I think the worst part abt it was the fact she *knew* what she was doing, just listen to how she threatened to tell everyone he's weird and a pedo then went "how's that going to work out for you" after the dad tried to hold her accountable. I'd never hire her to work for my business or do *anything* for me, she's exactly the type to get herself fired then run to social media to lie abt her employer and the reason she was let go.
@@kevinwaller657 lol no worries, just put an asterisk "*" on either end of what you want bolded. It can act a lil weird with punctuation you can play around with it to see how exactly it works
The disgusting part is her accusing him of something that real victims most of the time don't have the courage to speak up about. Really hate people like her who use rape,pedo and being a victim as an escape card
For real. Not so long ago here in South Africa a kid killed himself because one of his schoolmates made false rape accusations against him as a joke. I still don't understand where the humor is in knowingly making a flase accusation but this shit is real and has real consequences.
I'm not surprised by this story, not unusual for someone her age. She's an immature teenager that thinks she knows everything and is too stubborn and insecure to take criticism or admit when she's in the wrong. There were definitely times I did the same at her age, tho never anything this egregious and I wasn't on social media till an adult. She ran to post her version of the story to get validation that helps her convince herself she was in the right and doesn't have anything to feel bad for, it's all just an effort to feel better abt themselves and skirt consequences/taking accountability. Lot of adults that are chronically online and have low self esteem do the same thing. Hopefully she learns her lesson and won't do something like this again. Like others have said false accusations destroy lives.
@@skanaraki2161 there will deadass be a point in time where the word "pedophile" or "rape" means nothing due to false claims. i hope whoever said that accusation gets the worst life treatment for what theyve done
If she thinks it really weird that a person who is employing her is following her, wait till she finds a fulltime job. Especialy a public/other well paying job. They check EVERYTHING. Your social media, your criminal record, your documents, your past jobs, and why you quit them, and more. Him just checking her social media is quite litteraly the least he NEEDS to do when leaving her responsible with his child.
@@theunholybanana4745 your social media can be traced back to you via phone number, email, or whatever else you use for your social media. Im not proffesional at it, but i do know its possible.
Exactly. I would trust no one with my child, if I had one (don't want kids and will probably never have one). Like you said, following social media of your babysitter is the bare minimum
I got written up once cuz my company caught me and a coworker posting on FB during work hours. My coworker tagged me in something and told me to look at it, and I responded. The very next day I got called in to HR with my boss and they showed me video footage of me and this coworker looking at our phones. No one from work was following us, so I was surprised by how closely they were monitoring us. It was creepy, but I learned quickly that your work place is always gonna keep tabs on you no matter where it is
The fact that she calls him a pedo just proves the fact that she's in the wrong, and that's usually a last resort for guilty people when they can't come up with a proper comeback - they resort to name-calling. They *instantly* lose their case the minute they do that.
With friends if I'm losing an argument I go, "Well... you are a pedo!" and then explain why they were right. This lying is crazy and the fact I have an inside joke of it proves that a little more. stay safe
I was a babysitter as a teenager and helped in childcare as an adult. Holy hell, taking pictures of people's kids is 100% out of line, let alone posting them online without the parents' permission. You're there to make sure the kids are safe and cared for, not violate the privacy of the families trusting you.
@The Unholy Banana I'm a full time baby sitter and parents love when I do special activities with the kids and share pictures in private of it. But then, I always delete them after
If only she actually thought it was a violation of privacy in the first place. She was more offended that her employer followed her Insta. She's obviously posting shady shit of herself on there too.
@Solid Love bro actually commit Sue of side... if you can't understand how she's in the wrong there's no hope left for you. Honestly Keep Yourself Safe
i recently got into an argument with a teacher for posting an audio of the moment a child in her class came out to her about how his mother was being beaten and abused. i said it was beyond fucked up to be sharing that with the internet without his, or even the mothers, informed consent, and i had HUNDREDS OF PEOPLE ARGUING AGAINST ME. the fleet of people online who defend exploiting children for content is insane.
@@xenadavira Are you able to report her? She wasn't using it as educational, nor was anyone acting, so she was fully spreading abuse audio and exploiting kids and clearly has been for years to think it's normal.
Unfortunately/fortunately, depending on the location. They have one party consent laws for recording conversations. Which isn't entirely bad. Say if you have a creep for a boss. But that might be legally ok to record and share that.
What's also concerning is she's surprised that her boss is following her so shes shown she has no clue about who else is following her and seeing the things she posts.
All those complains and calling him a pedo just to agree with him at end just angers me to no end., She really recorded this whole thing to embarrass an innocent and reasonable man for no reason. I'm glad she's the one getting embarrassed by dumb incident also not to mention im pretty sure you can't record a private convo like this either lmao
The fact she thinks she can take liberties with another person’s child, regardless of his or the child’s wishes, is insane to me. Not even to mention the mind-numbing attempt at gaslighting she tries in switching the narrative around to make HERSELF the victim and the parent the weirdo. Like hun, you’re my babysitter, it’s really not that weird for me to follow or look at your social media to make sure you aren’t out there every weekend partying bc you’re actually entrusted with my *child*.
literally. When I first started babysitting for a co-worker. I didn’t have Instagram until we talked about following each other exclusively to share what the kid’s day had been like. Only the parents followed me. And they made SURE OF THAT. Keeping tabs on the person you’re trusting your child with is just common sense
She can’t admit she’s wrong like a narcissist, it’s the worst when you tell someone they shouldn’t have done something and they say “well you did this”
@@wyattjohnson7674Same my guy ayooooooo (Unsolicited advice incoming, feel free to ignore) But also honestly, I’m sorry dude. Shit sucks, to say the least. Just remember to frequently check yourself for narcissistic traits and routinely self-reflect, maybe speak with trusted friends if you find yourself concerned you may be exhibiting any habits he may have passed on, and I think it goes without saying that therapy usually helps too.
@@florpleborp2275 unironically _great_ advice tho. in my early teens it struck me that my learned behaviour/thought process reflected my own dad's lack of empathy and was fundamentally destructive - thamkfully with the right Rx & self-imposed cognitive behavioral therapy, i un-learned it over a couple years and functioned much better. escaped him in 2020 & so glad to not be him. unchecked narcissists beat everyone down to their level.
@@florpleborp2275 okay but dont constantly evaluate your behaviors, you’ll make yourself paranoid and start beating yourself up for it. just listen to people, if they say you have traits like that then get help. thats that.
Not sure about the UK, but in germany it is definetly illegal to put a picture out in public without consent. There are exceptions regarding public places etc, but these dont apply here. And Im pretty sure that recording and posting a conversation with someone without their permission is equally illegal. So if similar laws apply in the UK, she is lucky that he didnt press charges.
As a father, it makes me so happy to see everyone defending him and just absolutely shitting on this chick. The fact that she uploaded this herself is wild.
She probably showed it to her friends and they told her she was in the right and to post it 😂 she should have been so embarrassed after that video ended idk how she could have
@@dieselrichardson9055 there's no way her friends could've possibly said that. Anyways by her arguments she looks absolutely dumb for example: she said that posting the child's photo on a social media isnt that much but then accused the dad of being "weird" for following her on said social media even pointing out that he might be a pedo since that walking female thing without a brain isn't that old
Honestly schools should teach proper digital citizenship courses where they teach you how to not violate other people's privacy, and how to protect your own.
Some schools do, it's just that most people can't be bothered to listen to advice that's been constantly shoved in front of us to the point where it sounds like whitenoise
Yeahhhh, the longer we have the internet the more I agree with this. Like all I remember were classes on typing and making a website. Nothing on safety. They sure did show us std pictures though. Because sex bad
My mom used to post pictures of me on Facebook back in 2008-2009. I remember getting in a huge argument with her, because I didn't want to be exposed online (and never did, till this day). Good thing I was adamant and made her remove every single picture, it felt terrible to be used as a trophy, especially when my mom kept posting cringe and treating me like a child, when I was over 15 at the time. I'm against people posting pictures of children, and consider it, in many cases, borderline abusive behavior.
Completely agree! Children should not be posted online. Like you, I've always prioritized my privacy and keep my personal life/photos offline, yet people call me strange for not having instagram/tiktok/etc.
Same, unfortunately I lost that argument with my mother which is so frustrating especially because I myself try to be very careful about what personal information I share online 😑😅
Thank you, Charlie, for calling her out. She needs to be publicly shamed for this, I hope she sees this and the thousands of people that are horrified by her disgusting behavior.
Its just sad that if she had not recorded this form of blackmail and actually called the cops on him because, I guess he wounded her pride, that man might actually go to jail and lose custody of his child😢. Thank God these psychopaths have a huge ego!
Because of people like her, you can't trust anybody. 1. She betrayed their trust. 2. Posting their baby's photos without their consent. 3. She didn't honor the deal of deleting the photos and getting paid after. So she basically lied to the parent.
fact is that she's gone to all of her friends and they're huddled up in a group talking about how he's a pedo and she's done nothing wrong, she definitely is oblivious to what's going on even now
i knew a girl who did this exact shit because an ex of hers outed her for lying online about family illness to leech money off of her friends. compulsive liars have this tendency to find themselves lost in the pointless argument they’ve started and just begin panic-accusing to save face. it’s an unreal development
A girl in my high school tried to accuse a teacher of assault. Her dad had to come in and explain _she’d done that before when he had grounded her to people at his job_ She was just mad she failed the final. The fucking delusion of some people is beyond understanding.
I'm losing braincells just imagining having an argument with these people. "It's hard to argue with a smart person but impossible to argue with an idiot", or something.
@@chelscara that's straight-up worth disowning someone for like "it's been fun, kiddo, but it's time to be committed to a mental institution for life. pack your bags. maybe ill stop by to visit on your birthdays"
I followed this story here in the UK. Details are still a bit vague, but the police got involved after her friends 'had her back' apparently and published the parents details to external sites, including the fathers mobile and his place of work. I don't know what happened after that.
Thank god she ruined any chance of anyone taking her seriously by posting this insane video. She seems like the type that would actually go around telling people she wasn’t fired, she just “quit” because he was acting creepy towards her.
@@luisf2793 Remember even if she’s inarguably in the wrong, she’s still just 16. People have a tendency to take things a bit too far on the internet, so I’m kinda glad people don’t have her name or a way to contact her
@@basedbrit4206 She deserves harsh reprimands, but the internet will go so far as to actively try and ruin someone’s life, messaging their friends and family members, doxxing them, making false claims, swatting etc.
What's crazy is that considering this girl has probably been raised on media such as TV and the internet, she should realize that the reason people always blur faces of children on TV and such is because it's literally a law to not post the faces of children without parental/guardian consent. You can be sued by the parents if they wish to do so
@slightlytoxic0693 Not sure about in the UK (pretty sure that's where this video took place judging by the accents), but yes minors can be sued, but need representation from an adult. So realistically it'd be the parents of the 16 year old being sued, but if she refused to remove the picture despite the guardian of the child directly asking for it to be taken down, he could pursue a civil lawsuit
@Logan Floor {UTTP} I know it's pointless to make this statement because this account is a bot, but I just found it hilarious how you're saying this, as a public subscriber. 💀
6:34 The dad asks about a DBS, which is pretty much a UK Criminal Record check anyone can get made for themselves when being employed for a position like Babysitting. She didn't have one, so that makes it even more logical for the dad to check her social media.
its so bizarre how teenagers and young adults think its okay to film everyone and post their pictures without asking to social media, its not even uncommon to them and that scares me so much
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Well, if you don't teach social media etiquette 🤷♂️ It's a pretty new thing, maybe something comes in the future
@ social media has been around for about 20 years though. Maybe not as readily available as they are now, with smartphones. But i well remember being taught about the forums you had to be careful with way back when.
@@bigbeng6041 i agree, plus today's teens were born in a world where social media already existed, so they should know better than previous generations
@@bigbeng6041 well, when kids are brought up on RU-vid and their role models are influencers, this is what you get. I feel like most parents aren't teaching their kids about the dangers of the internet, or how to behave like a human being. Teens today have grew up with disgusting comments, anyone posting whatever they want, disrespectful influencers, so many messed up channels and more. I mean, the teen is old enough to know how to respect people.
reminds me of the 'rating what my neighbors do during lockdown' trend. they record strangers walking around their neighborhoods, zoomed into their faces, then post them online. it's crazy how people don't see this as a problem
@@NeotheaterrYep. It’s just really sad. Went through some shit like that today. A family member jumped the gun and made a stupid assumption and just lost their shit on me and started talking shit about me to other people over something that they assumed happened, and after I explained to them that the thing didn’t actually happen and they were getting upset and being an asshole for no reason, they couldn’t even acknowledge that they did anything wrong in that situation. They acknowledged that they got the situation wrong, but wanted to act like they were justified in losing their shit like a lunatic anyway.
How this should have went: Dad: "hey can you remove the photo of my daughter on your Instagram?" Babysitter: "Yeah, sorry I wasn't thinking about the consequences". She gets paid and is on her way and probably keeps her job.
unfortunately we live in times where anyone with a cell phone and a social media has the ability to stir up drama for no reason other than to try and get attention online
I can't remember her channel name but I love and respect this one mother who, instead of posting funny moments of her child for all to see, notes what her kid said/did in the week and re-enacts them on her own, for her content
My oldest sister had a baby recently, she has a private account that only family can see of photos and videos of her. People online are creepy and I think it's amazing more parents want to keep their young children's photos off the internet. As badly as I want to share how cute my niece is, photos aren't shared outside close friends and family, because why does the rest of the world need to see photos of a child. It's messed up to share images of another person's child without permission online, and arguing with them because you did so and they didn't want you to is extremely childish.
11 years and I've never once posted a photo of my son online. Got in a fight with his greatgrandmother who was posting them and I had to file complaints with facebook to get them down. All because I didn't want creeps taking his photo.
The fact that the babysitter here is the one who seems the creepiest, for outright refusing to let anyone in the situation have privacy, and willingly making the most horrific of accusations for such a minor, terrible point only the brain melted scum of the modern day would even consider for a moment, is really just evidence of how far humanity has fallen.
you're saying humanity has fallen because we think the babysitter is the creepy one? because that's what you said. if you really mean that, that's pretty weird
@@OrenjiNikku Fair, kinda meant that last part 'willingly making the most horrific of accusations for such a minor, terrible point only the brain melted scum of the modern day would even consider for a moment, is really just evidence of how far humanity has fallen.' as it's own isolated point, but I get how you read that meaning the last 10 words meant the entire thing, and not just the that one point. My point is, the fact that people like that baby sitter could think the words they said were valid, really just proves the abortion rate is too low.
it's easy to think the worst of people these days because we see it more often, but scumbags like this have always existed. notice how very few people are defending her
@@amanonstilts4555 its not the abortion rate thats the problem but i get what ur trying to say that its neglectful or poor parenting that caused this child to have such delusions and outright self-absorbed mentality like if things dont go their way, they will make their obstacles look bad and blame them instead of taking responsibility
This reminds me of a time a company took a picture of my teachers child that was on social media without asking and put it on a billboard for their advertisement
Do not ever post your children or children of others on social media. It's full of weirdos, and the fact she knows this and even tries to call the father one is really scummy. It's a disgusting hill to die on. Teenager or not, she clearly understands all the details but feels it's a slight to her to imply she's done wrong. She desperately wants to be right even at the expense of this father and his child.
Tbh i'm not entirely sure if COPPA laws serve to protect children or keep them out of the public eye to make predation more easier.... | don't think i agree with ''nobody should post pictures of their children online'' as i believe having them in the public sphere may be safer (i.e safety in numbers) than completely isolating them from the internet or whatnot. To me it just doesn't seem like a safe stance to cave into fear and isolate children because it seems like that would make it easier for predators to victimise children. Children who are part of a large society = harder to victimise because there is a social awareness regarding the child that should protect them. (assuming the group has social cohesion) Anyway that's just my opinion.
I feel like no one is taught how to process shame anymore, instead of just owning up and saying "sorry my bad" and complying with a reasonable request, they would rather die on the hill they can do no wrong and protect their fragile ego
“Nowadays it’s considered creepy if you’re not sharing photos of yourself online” Very true I was into this one girl and she asked for my instagram and I told her I didn’t have social media and she compared me to the unibomber
@@bug874 I just told her it was weird she thought that was a red flag and that she should see it as a green flag
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@@JamesDeanLP 👍 True... I don't have social media either (besides RU-vid and discord for gaming) How is this a red flag? I think she thinking, that it's a red flag, makes her a red flag for me 😂
As a new(ish) mom who doesn’t share her baby’s photos online, this is really scary 😢 thanks for bringing everyone back to reality about social media posting
The father is a saint for the restraint he showed. She really deserved to be forcibly ejected from the household in the most cartoonish style possible.
It’s always the people who fight for literally no reason other then to win the argument. She gains nothing from keeping this photo up yet she made this big fuss. I will never understand why people don’t just back down from arguments where they have nothing to loose from admitting wrong.
Extreme delusion. Even criminals and rapists are like that. They believe they did nothing wrong. It's the world and society that wronged them, therefore they are entitled to do anything they ever want.
There's so many creeps online. Heck there was even a Dr Phil episode where a lady was stealing pictures of someone's twins and trying to pass them off as her own
Her response was petty and immature and the entire scenario was a result of her inability to swallow her ego, apologize and admit she was in the wrong. Now she's let herself look like a fool, she's lost her job and whatever goodwill she had with this family. Well done. 👏
Not even 10 years ago this would be an embarrassing argument only between her, the family, and her parents. Now she has the power to destroy herself in real time.
She is also now posting the dad along with child online without his consent. She must really think it is ok to leak a privacy of others online considering she is doing it to the dad now in the hopes the internet dwellers clown on him and back her up
@@nexiist I don't know her account. I'm referring to this video where she records her conversation with the dad and tries to make herself the victim by calling him a pedo
The dad sounds like a great person especially compared to the girl who called him a pedo when he was just genuinely wanting to know who was going to be alone with there kid.
The scary part is that this behaviour isnt a one off. A big chunk of younger people nowadays normalize this behaviour and its an all out war when one little thing doesnt go their way.
her argument of "your address isn't on there" is terrible because basically every device saves the exact location the photo was taken and saves it in the image file so it would be pretty easy to find that guys house if you find the picture.
@@Qwelled Even without the data there has been plenty of examples of people finding pretty precise locations based on random crap in the background. There's even a popular online game based on doing just that (GeoGuessr).
@@KonekoPurrrfection I know for a fact it's removed on uploads to Facebook, because I've checked, so it seems likely they've done it on IG too. Facebook might be saving the metadata and whatnot but it isn't left in the image where someone can come along to your profile and get it
That is called EXIF data. You can easily scrub it, Apple devices even do it for you by default. If the photo was taken with an Apple device, chances are the photo does not have it.
As someone who started using the internet during the early ages social media. It’s honestly bat shit crazy to me that people are totally ok with posting hourly updates on there life with their face clearly online.
I did sooo much babysitting for randos back in my younger years and looking back I CAN’T believe they didn’t make me get a police check or anything. Like anyone could be a babysitter without basically any questions. Wild West. I don’t love the employers digging through your socials to keep tabs on you but I feel like this is a situation where it actually makes a lot of sense!
The father referenced that when he said she was of age and not having a "DBC" which is the UK version of a criminal background check. Her being a minor she isn't eligible by law to be checked being a juvenile.
@@edwardelenes5589 oh I guess that makes sense… although when I was 17 and got a job at a summer camp I had to get a police check as a minor. I’m in Canada though so maybe it’s different.
