I had a Tortie for 14 years who was so good at detecting my mood that if i got angry or raised my voice, she would run across the room right to my legs and meow at me. She was aware I was upset and was trying to calm me down.
After just a few days here, my male kitten brings me a toy and asks me to throw it, then he retrieves it. He taught me the game of fetch. I spray my 2 kittens as they're jumping up on the bird's cage, so they know the reason for the spraying. It hasn't worked yet - 3 years now.
When my kitty is starting to head to where she shouldn't be, as in really close to where she shouldn't be, I tell her sternly "No ma'am, no ma'am, Muggsi Blanche" and when she turns away, I say in a positive tone "Good girl! Good girl, Muggsi Blanche!" This usually works. If it doesn't, I get out a distracting toy and tell her in a persuasive tone "Come on out!" and then tell her "Good girl!" in that same positive tone.
When I catch my girl doing wrong she immediately does a ĺittle meow and turns over on her back acting innocent and cute 😂😂😂 It's the only time she is vocal since we got her half brother. He's the talker now which is strange since they are both Siamese 🤔
Plz find a home for the cat with someone who will love it. You shouldn’t own a cat, they’re very smart, they can sense when you don’t like or understand them.
My cat literally runs away after doing something "bad" you can't tell me she doesn't get it. Also, I just think some of this stuff is outdated. There is a cool documentary on Netflix about cat behavior, and one of the things they mention is how far behind the research is compared to that of dogs. Cats understand a lot more verbal language than you think and are capable of being trained. For instance I have always taught my cats to associate me snapping with the command to stop what they are doing. They do it everytime. Hence, I do not own cats who get on counters or do any "bad" behaviors really. They don't even need anything super negative, just the command and the understanding to modify the behavior- usually enhanced by a treat or something as simple as a snuggle to show my gratitude that they are behaving.
A feral neighborhood cat is using the cubby I set up in the courtyard. ( he knows the rescue Tom "Tabby" who chose "me" and to be indoor /outdoor and has been residing here for 2 yrs on off. anyways the one in the cubby he doesn't look well I don't know what to do. he's there now it's raining at least he's sheltered and fed ( somewhat) I put a bowl out there once ( or twice) daily) Q: should I go out there again with the carrier and see if he/she will come inside? I have a spacious kennel I could set up to keep him comfortable in here ( so as not to get any illness onto me and Tabby until I can get a rescue org to help me get him to a vet?
It's really kind of you to look out for the feral neighborhood cat, especially during bad weather and noticing his poor health. Considering he's using the cubby and seems somewhat comfortable with the arrangement you've provided, attempting to bring him indoors with a carrier could be beneficial. Preparing a spacious kennel with all the essentials-bedding, food, water, and a litter box-would ensure he's comfortable and separated from Tabby, minimizing health risks. Gently encouraging him into the carrier, possibly using food as an incentive, and then reaching out to a rescue organization for vet care assistance sounds like a solid plan. Your efforts to provide a safe haven for him are truly admirable. 🐾💖
I've recently assumed responsibility to 2 cats. Kinda thinking more and more that my belief that I'm not too suitable to have cats is correct. I do like cats. Though absolutely prefer dogs any day. I don't think much of cats. Tend to find cats dumb for the most part. But I also recognise I don't understand cats well. A hope of mine is that pets stabilise my mood. Cats on the other hand appear to stress me out more. Not good as I do have anger management problems. However, decidedly I'm not going to hurt any pet, b them cat, dog or whatever, just need an outlet to vent my fury.....
Pets are helpless and vulnerable and are def not there for you to vent your fury! Please rehome your cats and try a dog if you’re sure you won’t abuse them. Better still don’t get any pets and take anger management therapy then reconsider later on
