How Do I Financially Prepare To Leave My Spouse? 

If you ever feel as if your life or the life of your children could be in harms way. There is no worrying about a game plan for him, just GO!

She is likely scared about what he will do to her if she doesn't make things as perfectly smooth for him as possible.

Just slip out the back Jack, make a new plan Stan, no need to be coy Roy, just set yourself free

Ive worked with a lot of bad men, and I’ve worked with a lot of bad women who’d have you believe the man is aggressive when in reality he’s holding her accountable for breaking trust and such. It’s so hard to know fact from fiction in these cases. Reality from embellishment.

Isn’t marriage a business transaction?

we always only hear one side of story. i have witnessed too many good men thrown under the bus by their wives. men, who work 100 hours a week, only to come home and hear unfair accusations. and then, their wifes kick them out of their house and calls her self a victim.

They made an assumption as soon as they read "and due to anger issues". Nowhere did the writer say that the issues were with the man - The write could have easily been addressing their own anger issues here. i am astounded that this issue was overlooked due to statistical probability. Folks would be amazed at how many females have anger issues and are arrested over family disputes.

thank you mr Ramsey and Doc

“Due to anger issues” but doesn’t say who has the anger issues. Why do they automatically assume it’s him, and not her, or both of them?

Will Dave be doing the same thing if it was the husband leaving the wife?

See how Dave and John responded so differently in today's email because the writer is female compared to yesterday's email when the writer was male. Right away they assumed the husband is abusive, right away the wife must be the victim.

Nowadays with rent going so high following the moratoriums.. its better to keep the house. Rent increased 50 to 100% where I live. My house payment for a 1700 sq ft home is half or less for a 800 sq ft apt that is not ad nicely built and no yard, no freedom. I dont wanna be part of the 'you will own nothing and be happy' crowd

So basically ...he is the bad guy.... Lets hear his version

You do not have to pay for an apartment for him, he needs to start paying you money it’s called child support

Know this is going to be good by title.

Listening to this I just have one thing to say. People learn to be self reliant, oh sure ask for a little bit of help but when you ask for help do it with them or when you pay them for doing it for you. Give them a big tip.

Great advice to me

If she can't figure out what to do without calling a generic show for opinion, I feel sorry for those kids. Geezus.

Good lesson to learn ALWYAS be prepared because you never know what could happen tomorrow. Be ready to handle any challenge.

The fact this is over anger Not abuse, anger is a big red flag. Why is he angry? Is she a decent wife or is she ungrateful and verbally and emotionally abusive. The societal default is the man is always the bad person. She could easily be the horrible person.

So what do you say to a man with an abusive wife he’s leaving and is going to be responsible for her spousal support and child support since he doesn’t have the privilege of primary custody..???

Ohhh boy!! Gotta be on top of this one!! Let them know the truth!!

I'm currently going through this. I've thought of buying my ex out of the his share but at the same time I'm thinking I just need to cut my losses and start afresh. Find a smaller home for me and the kids with smaller more affordable mortgage

Been watching dave a long time. There are so many stories of the man abusing the female and I feel as if Dave networking solutions doesn’t ever post the calls/videos of the female ever doing wrong against the male. As we all know this happens just as much with same level or even more brokenness.

It’s worse than a business contract if you are not safe.

At this point Dave you may have to address the angry mob that magically appears every time you express any sort of empathy towards a woman speaking from her perspective..your fans seem to really hate that about you.

More cats than you can count!- my husband forces many of those on me- the smell , the mess it’s an everyday constant ordeal , arguing , going to my sisters house but having to return - urine smells , damage to our home and he keeps getting more . I’ve had it . Only reason I’m staying ? I don’t have my own financial independence. My girlfriends making $8-10k a month look at me like I’m crazy - but I don’t have $8 a month to get out . No kids I would PAY him whatever I contribute now, if I had it, just to leave to let him have at it with all his cats.

This was totally me

I would like to hear his side also.

I am sure she is a real sweetheart 😆

maybe she is the angry one

You don't plan the finances of your abuser. That is their problem.

didnt hear in the letter that he was the person with anger.... just saying....

That's it?

Sounds like you need to clarify if the caller had been a man instead of a woman. Would you say the same? Find a couple of men friends who can guide you, etc..

My children's mother. Nothing more, nothing less.

My case is the apartment I bought are my job, my income I am not allowed to live in them so I am renting for me and my child. He left us but want money from me what do I do? I do not have money to give him, if the flats sold I have no income or job that’s what he is heading to take my money

I love how they just believe her and demonize the man just based off her words. If he’s truly abusive then yes she must leave. But there’s always two sides to a story

Always leave and collect cash in a safe deposit box

I've known woman to initiate violence then pretend to be the victim of the same.

When a man makes more money he tries to make he’s women life better. When a woman 👩 starts making more money she thinks she don’t need a man.

the way men in this comment section get defensive every time there's an abuse story is honestly beyond me

Jen pz ruined the 'circle back' phrase

Wow

Dave Ramsey, explaining prefixes to America.

You are a woman.. you win... (in a divorce)

Had to make sure my girl Ain’t call about me again

And on today’s episode of the Ramsey Blue Pill & Gynocentric Network On How We Further Denigrate Men and Believe All Women - “It’s always the man’s fault and we never hold women accountable.”

The husband should have been aware that women love oportunistically from the start and men, to their detrement love idealistically. Men should view a marriage like a business transaction from the start to protect themselfes from womens nature.

What does Megan do and how does she behave to make her husband so angry?

Comment section RP AF lol

Marriage has always been a business transaction.

Next episode of Forensic Files.

How do i call in 🤔 lol

Wait…did they just ASSUME that the husband is the one with anger issues. It could be that she feels compelled to find him a place because SHE is the abuser. She realizes that she is toxic, so she’s ending it. This was a big misstep gentlemen, to assume the man is the abuser, especially when she didn’t say that.

If you put your money in Whole Life Insurance (yeah, I know Daves opinion on Whole Life, but there are extenuating circumstances where it is useful), it is protected from probate and the state to be divvied up. I have seen many people protect themselves from money grubbing spouses by placing it in whole life policies. YOU MUST WORK WITH SOMEONE WHO KNOWS HOW TO DO THIS PROPERLY OR IT WILL NOT WORK. Mass Mutual, Northwestern Mutual, and a few others have good policies for this. Your alimony payment goes down if you are contracted to pay whole life instead.

"Due to anger issues" on whose part? They just assumed she meant the guy cos men are stereotyped as being angry and violent.

What might she have done to tip his anger off..absent all the info...or is it he drove u into his best friends arms... LoL we are getting one side of this story...

Most people do not care about the welfare of the spouse that has been taking care of them their entire lives. They leave when they "can" not when they "should". The angry spouse, typically is so, because the other spouse is being unproductive. That unproductivity is a great stress on the working spouse. The non-working spouse feels unappreciated and/or gets bored (despite refusing to get employment outside the home), bored people may pass time by shopping more, and then begins doing other things thus, not behaving like a spouse... which would cause anyone anger. The spouse that was lazy, unproductive, and running around now needs to find a job so they can leave, which was what the root of the problem in the beginning. Of what I see in the World, this is typically what happens.

WhT if you just don’t love him anymore

Marriage=legal contract, nothing more.

She wants to leave him because now she makes same amount of money as him… she doesn’t need him anymore and wants to do her own thing.

Dave is the kinda boomer that gives me hope. If only everyone in his generation were like him

80% of divorces are filed by women. 14 years and now she wants out after a new career. Typical blame the man here! odds are she isn’t in danger and just wants out. Stay smart kings get a prenup and learn from your parents, love changes with the seasons of life it’s a financial death trap to believe forever is real.

The wife leaves. Liar. She chose her job over her husband.

He makes $50K/year, he can handle his own adulting.

If she was at risk she’d have bolted first and dealt with finances afterwards. She has enough money You guys are being blindsided by the fact she just wants the house.

Why would you leave your spouse. God wants you to be together. People in marriages are happy. People in marriages are financially stable.

Look up Andrew Wommack's A Better Way To Pray 😇

Divorce is never the right choice, God hates divorce, in the Bible it tells us about separation.

Americas next crisis is homeless older women. Hopefully women can get right in faith.

Yo maybe she’s the problem

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No she was saying that SHE has anger issues and for the safety of her husband she has to leave.

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Monkey simps

Look at all these little boys in the comments caping for this abuser. Wow 🚩🚩🚩

These guys seem like they simp for woman just for the views lol