Hi Janine. I would like to do that but my expertise is limited with autism. I can certainly do some research bathe one factor that is most often cited is that generally with autism the child has difficulty with expressive language (talking and holding conversations) but with FASD they seem to have good expressive language.
I think one point can be that baby boys are known to be weaker as babies than baby girls as well although i agree with the point that theyre rambunctious......I adopted 2 children with FASD and my son is much more severe than my daughter.......